1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:02,280 Speaker 1: Jonesy and Amanda's. 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:05,840 Speaker 2: Well, look, I can vouch for Bernado's and the extraordinary 3 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 2: work they do, so imagine, Hey, they felt in the 4 00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:10,719 Speaker 2: midst of a hard year where fundraising is hard enough. 5 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:13,240 Speaker 2: When they open up the newspaper and they see that 6 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:16,239 Speaker 2: the decision they've made to no longer have Mother of 7 00:00:16,239 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 2: the Year award, to maybe replace it in the future 8 00:00:18,239 --> 00:00:22,439 Speaker 2: with something that references all the caregivers. Suddenly newspaper, the 9 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:25,080 Speaker 2: Daily Telegraph, decided to slam them for it and say 10 00:00:25,120 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 2: they were canceling mothers. It was a very distressing day, 11 00:00:28,720 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 2: I'm sure, and Deirdre Bernardo Ceo has has been in 12 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 2: touch with us saying she'd like to have a chat 13 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 2: about how that felt. 14 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:36,280 Speaker 3: Hi, Deirdre, how. 15 00:00:36,280 --> 00:00:39,159 Speaker 1: Dadree, Good morning, Good morning. 16 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 2: How'd you feel yesterday? What a pooh thing? 17 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:45,839 Speaker 1: It was a very big day. But I do want 18 00:00:45,880 --> 00:00:49,240 Speaker 1: to start by saying thank you to everyone who did 19 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 1: contact us. We had lots of calls, lots of emails, 20 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 1: and you know, lots of talking and it's important for 21 00:00:57,360 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 1: us to hear what people think. But I do want 22 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 1: to emphasize that really we've been here for children for 23 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:08,759 Speaker 1: over one hundred years and we see so many children, 24 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 1: and we want our values to align to those children 25 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:15,440 Speaker 1: and families that we work with. So our decision about 26 00:01:15,520 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 1: Mother of the Year mothers in no way belong to 27 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 1: Bernado's and of course Mother's Day, which is when the 28 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 1: event and their awards were announced. Over the years, Mother's 29 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 1: Day continues. I mean, no one's canceling Mother's Day. 30 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:32,480 Speaker 3: And you're not canceling mothers. You're not canceling Mother Theresa 31 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:36,559 Speaker 3: or Mother of Pearl as the paper will or Frank 32 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 3: Frank Zappa and the mothers. You're not stopping them. 33 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 1: No, no, no no. And of course you know we're 34 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 1: not devaluing mothers because we see so many mothers and 35 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 1: families and the women that I see who are mothers 36 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 1: who come to our children's senses often tell me that 37 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 1: you know, they're surviving from day to day. They're very 38 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:03,559 Speaker 1: often more often than not, escaping from violent homes. They're 39 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 1: struggling to look after their children. Many of them don't 40 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:11,520 Speaker 1: have enough money to feed their children adequately. They you know, 41 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:15,200 Speaker 1: they're frightened sometimes of going to the children's school because 42 00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:18,359 Speaker 1: they might be very able to read and right themselves. 43 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 1: So they're the mothers that we see day in, day out, 44 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:26,519 Speaker 1: fifteen thousand of them every single year, and we want 45 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:30,080 Speaker 1: to direct all our resources. We must direct our resources 46 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:35,800 Speaker 1: directly to the children and families, particularly in the current environment. 47 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:39,839 Speaker 1: It's been such a difficult twelve months for all charities. 48 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 2: And have you found that in changing your Mother of 49 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 2: the Year award, you're referencing the changing shape of families? 50 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:50,720 Speaker 1: Of course, of course, families, as we all know, come 51 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 1: in all shapes and sizes, and you know, some people 52 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:58,960 Speaker 1: some families have mothers and fathers, Some have mothers and mothers, 53 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 1: some have fathers and fathers, some have mothers and grandmas, 54 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:05,519 Speaker 1: some have aunties and uncles, and lots of children live 55 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 1: in foster care. So you know, we see all of 56 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 1: those families and all of those people who are doing 57 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:16,720 Speaker 1: their level best to look after children. And that's where 58 00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 1: we're putting our support. 59 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 3: And when you look at it, everyone's a mother. What 60 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:23,120 Speaker 3: does that mean? Everyone's a mother? What do you mean 61 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 3: we're all mothers? No, we're not. Yeah, we are, we're 62 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:26,640 Speaker 3: all mothers. 63 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 2: Well do you mean caregivers? 64 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:31,960 Speaker 3: Yeah? Of course. What do you think. I don't know, 65 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 3: Amanda's not on boardy you get, but I. 66 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 2: Think I think you know you're right. Our family makeup 67 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 2: is different and it is about who's giving the care 68 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 2: and you need to reference. 69 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 3: Like I said, we're all mothers. 70 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 2: I'll let it go. 71 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 3: Look, I just want to get it gone because I'm 72 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:54,840 Speaker 3: sick of Cashy winging Father of the Year. He always 73 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 3: wins that award. 74 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 2: He's angling for father of the year. But if we 75 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 2: if people want us to Brnado's, what can they do? Didri? 76 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 1: Look, we would absolutely love your donation. We would love 77 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 1: people who feel they could provide a home for a 78 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 1: child who can't be with their own parents. We're always 79 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:19,119 Speaker 1: needing foster cares, and of course sibling groups are often 80 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:22,719 Speaker 1: the hardest groups of children to place when they need 81 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 1: to come into care, and we want to keep those 82 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:29,920 Speaker 1: children together, So we accept cares of all backgrounds, all ages, 83 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 1: you know, all genders, all religions, and we'd love to 84 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 1: hear from you, and we'd also love your donations to 85 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:40,920 Speaker 1: keep children safe from abuse and neglect in their own home. 86 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 1: We've had a huge increase in our demand because of 87 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 1: the pandemic over the last twelve months. Wasn't so much 88 00:04:48,520 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 1: during the pandemic while everyone was blocked at home, in 89 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 1: those early days. But you know, as children have gone 90 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 1: back to school, we're seeing more and more demand for 91 00:04:57,960 --> 00:04:58,720 Speaker 1: our assistance. 92 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 3: Excellent, well said, thank you, thank you. 93 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:06,680 Speaker 1: Thank you very very much And as I say thank 94 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:10,719 Speaker 1: you to everyone who's contacted us, we're very very happy 95 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:14,480 Speaker 1: to receive your calls. We've been here for children for 96 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:18,880 Speaker 1: over one hundred years and that's not changing. For Bonando's Australia. 97 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:21,599 Speaker 3: Good and out We're All Mothers campaign, that's my idea. 98 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 3: Well do that on your own, tim, This is great, 99 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 3: this is what it's about. Let's run with that. Thank 100 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:27,159 Speaker 3: you Didri 101 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:29,719 Speaker 1: Jonesy and Amanda's