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I put 0:01:04.160 --> 0:01:04.720 a tan on. 0:01:05.080 --> 0:01:07.920 And then this morning I woke up and as I 0:01:07.959 --> 0:01:10.560 was Ben and I have our morning FaceTime chat, and 0:01:10.560 --> 0:01:12.120 as I was leaving, he was like, you look great, babe, 0:01:12.160 --> 0:01:13.360 have a great day. And I was like thank He 0:01:13.400 --> 0:01:15.679 was like, don't forget to moisturize those knees. 0:01:16.120 --> 0:01:18.360 And so you went back inside luke your knees up 0:01:18.360 --> 0:01:19.520 and then left. I'm glad I. 0:01:19.680 --> 0:01:22.399 Should ask here's my knee moisturize that I have on me. 0:01:22.680 --> 0:01:25.560 I'm so glad I brought it to work because I 0:01:25.680 --> 0:01:26.920 was so self conscious. 0:01:27.319 --> 0:01:29.000 What I take from this is that I make you 0:01:29.040 --> 0:01:30.399 a better person. You should thank me. 0:01:30.959 --> 0:01:34.680 No, you kick me while I'm down, because. 0:01:34.360 --> 0:01:36.800 He's fantastic knean improvements that you have though. 0:01:36.880 --> 0:01:49.040 Thank you, Hi guys, and welcome back to another episode 0:01:49.080 --> 0:01:49.400 of life. 0:01:49.400 --> 0:01:51.880 I'm cut, I'm Laura, I'm Brittany, and I have very 0:01:51.920 --> 0:01:52.800 moisturized knees. 0:01:52.960 --> 0:01:55.680 Well done, Thank you, well done. I didn't realize that 0:01:55.720 --> 0:01:57.640 it caused you so much upset I did. 0:01:57.960 --> 0:02:01.640 I'm glad you equally noticed how moist my knees are, 0:02:03.440 --> 0:02:05.559 like you noticed how dry they were the other day. 0:02:06.560 --> 0:02:09.400 Everyone, welcome back to another ask on can't where we answer? 0:02:09.680 --> 0:02:12.920 You're deep, you're dark, and you're burning questions. And I 0:02:12.960 --> 0:02:16.160 have a question for you guys, both of you. Have 0:02:16.320 --> 0:02:19.160 you ever in later in life discovered that you have 0:02:19.160 --> 0:02:20.240 an allergy to something? 0:02:20.639 --> 0:02:24.200 And if so, how Yes I have? 0:02:24.600 --> 0:02:27.079 But my story is going to be so zero point 0:02:27.160 --> 0:02:28.320 zero zero one percent. 0:02:29.000 --> 0:02:30.920 I realized that I had an allergy. 0:02:30.560 --> 0:02:35.760 To rats, as in like men, no, I wish. 0:02:35.520 --> 0:02:37.480 I'm allergic to them all I wish no, because you 0:02:37.520 --> 0:02:41.560 can develop allergies. You can develop like sensitivity, certain things 0:02:41.800 --> 0:02:46.440 like after prolonged exposure. And back in my past. 0:02:46.160 --> 0:02:48.880 Life, which was over a decade ago. 0:02:48.440 --> 0:02:51.960 I worked in a research lab and I ended up 0:02:52.360 --> 0:02:53.760 developing an allergy. 0:02:53.560 --> 0:02:54.280 To the rats. 0:02:54.280 --> 0:02:56.640 And it was really bad because you're already gowned up 0:02:56.680 --> 0:02:57.960 and stuff like you already covered. 0:02:57.960 --> 0:03:00.919 But I just think that that's like revenge the rats though, 0:03:01.000 --> 0:03:02.920 because you're there trying to stick things in them and 0:03:02.960 --> 0:03:04.840 doing experiments on them, and they're like, you know, how, 0:03:04.880 --> 0:03:06.880 we're going to really fuck her up sinus problems. 0:03:06.880 --> 0:03:11.519 Fair, but they did get cocaine every day. 0:03:11.000 --> 0:03:12.799 When Samuel Loose summerrat them. 0:03:12.919 --> 0:03:13.839 It was a trade off. 0:03:14.440 --> 0:03:18.120 I have developed two allergies later in life, I was 0:03:18.120 --> 0:03:20.000 one of those kids that went through. I didn't have 0:03:20.080 --> 0:03:22.240 anything wrong with me, Like I didn't need the braces, 0:03:22.240 --> 0:03:25.000 I didn't have sinus problems, I didn't have I just perfect. 0:03:25.360 --> 0:03:26.600 But I just scooted through. 0:03:26.680 --> 0:03:29.160 I'd say this because my sister got the short end 0:03:29.200 --> 0:03:30.960 of the stick, right, Like she got everything. She had 0:03:30.960 --> 0:03:33.800 flat feet, she needed athotic, she needed bracest, she needed hearing. 0:03:33.880 --> 0:03:34.760 Eight she lost her hearing. 0:03:34.800 --> 0:03:37.880 So like she got everything, and I didn't ever have 0:03:37.920 --> 0:03:39.240 an allergy or anything any great. 0:03:39.320 --> 0:03:41.280 His nickname at school was ski jump Nose because she 0:03:41.360 --> 0:03:43.760 has such a perfect ski jump nose, which I wish. 0:03:43.560 --> 0:03:45.120 Was a joke, but actually it's true. 0:03:45.240 --> 0:03:48.240 Yeah, but that wasn't a compliment. There were ski jump 0:03:48.240 --> 0:03:49.880 noses weren't in when I was seven. 0:03:49.720 --> 0:03:53.880 Laura Rhinoplastiah, that's what everyone goes for, do you know. 0:03:54.080 --> 0:03:56.680 And I'm going to sound like a winker, but I'm 0:03:57.920 --> 0:04:00.920 it's a flex I do like my I think it's 0:04:00.920 --> 0:04:03.240 a great little nose. And now I know that it 0:04:03.400 --> 0:04:06.360 is apparently a desirable nose. And I say that because 0:04:06.800 --> 0:04:09.080 when people call me ski jump nose, Laura, it was offensive. 0:04:09.120 --> 0:04:09.800 They were bullying me. 0:04:09.840 --> 0:04:11.839 They were like, oh, I could word to jump down 0:04:11.880 --> 0:04:15.240 your nose, and I'm like whatever, But people send me 0:04:15.240 --> 0:04:18.000 messages now I'm not kidding, saying that their screenshot my 0:04:18.160 --> 0:04:21.039 nose to take it to get as the reference to 0:04:21.040 --> 0:04:21.800 get a nose job. 0:04:21.880 --> 0:04:25.039 So I'm so flattered. I'm like, I'm like, people want 0:04:25.080 --> 0:04:28.280 my nose. That's incredible. And I always sound like a wenkup, 0:04:28.320 --> 0:04:29.240 but I just what it is. 0:04:29.279 --> 0:04:33.160 Anyway, go off, queen, I thank you, ski jump right 0:04:33.200 --> 0:04:33.479 off that. 0:04:34.160 --> 0:04:37.040 No, but I have super bad hay fever most of 0:04:37.040 --> 0:04:39.040 the year now, which I've never had in my life. 0:04:39.160 --> 0:04:40.000 This happened like the. 0:04:39.960 --> 0:04:42.880 Last two years. And I don't want to go into 0:04:42.920 --> 0:04:44.840 this allergy too much because I have a feeling it's 0:04:44.880 --> 0:04:48.039 your allergy. But this year I'm allergic to garlic. I 0:04:48.080 --> 0:04:49.800 cannot eat garlic. Guys. 0:04:50.240 --> 0:04:50.640 Guys. 0:04:51.360 --> 0:04:54.120 So I went to the pub the other night with 0:04:54.200 --> 0:04:56.920 the kids and Matt and my favorite food in the 0:04:57.080 --> 0:05:00.240 entire world is a pub chili prawn past Oh. 0:05:00.279 --> 0:05:01.040 I fucking love it. 0:05:01.400 --> 0:05:03.080 So the kids are running around, I ordered myself my 0:05:03.120 --> 0:05:05.800 chilipron pasta. I was walking around like watching the kids 0:05:05.800 --> 0:05:07.040 and eating it at the same time. 0:05:07.320 --> 0:05:07.960 Delicious. 0:05:08.720 --> 0:05:09.320 Halfway through. 0:05:09.360 --> 0:05:11.680 I was like, God, it's really got a bit of 0:05:11.720 --> 0:05:14.800 garlic to it, doesn't it. And I was like, hmm, 0:05:15.000 --> 0:05:17.599 it's very garlicy. Anyway, we're there were some other friends 0:05:17.600 --> 0:05:19.960 and I got about three quarters away through this pasta, 0:05:20.000 --> 0:05:21.839 and then I started talking to a girl who I 0:05:21.920 --> 0:05:25.440 know not that well, mind you, and she was like, Wow, 0:05:25.600 --> 0:05:28.200 that pasta must have a lot of garlic in it. 0:05:29.000 --> 0:05:32.200 I stunk so bad that it was coming out of 0:05:32.240 --> 0:05:33.000 my armpits. 0:05:33.480 --> 0:05:35.040 I was to try and to have sex with me 0:05:35.200 --> 0:05:38.159 that night, and he was like, Laura, you smell like garbage. 0:05:38.520 --> 0:05:43.280 The garlic perforated everything. And I'm talking everything all my 0:05:43.360 --> 0:05:44.839 whole body alergy. 0:05:45.080 --> 0:05:47.239 My poos for two days smelt like garlic. 0:05:47.440 --> 0:05:51.280 My farts smelt like garlic, My underarms smelt like garlic. 0:05:51.480 --> 0:05:52.800 My mouth smelt like garlic. 0:05:52.839 --> 0:05:55.320 I also don't know how to break this to you. 0:05:55.320 --> 0:06:00.240 You just smelt because because you don't consume a food, dude, 0:06:00.240 --> 0:06:02.479 And it comes out your pause thirty seconds later like, 0:06:02.520 --> 0:06:03.480 I'm sorry. 0:06:03.320 --> 0:06:06.039 This happens with me in asparagus and twenty percent of 0:06:06.080 --> 0:06:08.640 people have the same enzyme deficiency and it makes your 0:06:08.640 --> 0:06:09.840 peace smell like asparagus. 0:06:09.880 --> 0:06:11.279 So you have it for garlic. 0:06:11.480 --> 0:06:14.440 Yes, so it's very similar. It's an enzyme reaction, but 0:06:14.560 --> 0:06:16.839 it is an intolerance. So I I went deep on 0:06:16.880 --> 0:06:19.440 the research and I have a friend who works in allergence, 0:06:19.600 --> 0:06:22.760 and I was like, dude, something's not right, like intigestion problems, 0:06:22.800 --> 0:06:24.120 like it really went off. 0:06:24.440 --> 0:06:27.920 I also went off sis and it was fucked up. 0:06:28.000 --> 0:06:29.520 And then I had this revelation where I was like, 0:06:29.560 --> 0:06:31.560 because I wasn't drinking, I was like, back in the day, 0:06:31.560 --> 0:06:33.600 i'd go to the pub, I'd have my chili prom 0:06:33.680 --> 0:06:37.040 pasta several glasses of wine and be fucked up. And 0:06:37.080 --> 0:06:39.280 now I go out with my children, I have a 0:06:39.360 --> 0:06:41.440 prom past and it's the garlic cultures. 0:06:42.760 --> 0:06:45.240 This is a dream a year old? How did I 0:06:45.279 --> 0:06:52.120 get here? Like it's garlic, that's all Gali? Has anyone 0:06:52.160 --> 0:06:54.120 seen that kid? There is a hilarious reel. 0:06:54.480 --> 0:06:56.960 This little boy, he must be like two years old, 0:06:57.160 --> 0:06:58.880 and he keeps saying. 0:06:58.839 --> 0:07:02.080 Gali gomic and the mom. 0:07:02.400 --> 0:07:04.160 The mom's like, what do you want? And he wanted, 0:07:04.440 --> 0:07:06.960 you know, minced garlic out of a jar. You know what, 0:07:07.040 --> 0:07:09.880 We'll just put it in here, Garla. This is what 0:07:10.000 --> 0:07:14.800 you want to eat, Garlaic you want garlic garlac. 0:07:15.760 --> 0:07:18.280 Do you want turkey? 0:07:18.520 --> 0:07:19.320 You wan't garlic? 0:07:21.520 --> 0:07:22.560 Can I put it in a ball? 0:07:23.720 --> 0:07:30.800 Glic? I think our Instagram feeds it very different, algorith 0:07:31.640 --> 0:07:34.320 quite unique. No. If I eat garlic now, I have 0:07:34.400 --> 0:07:37.360 been a garlic fiend my entire life. Cannot get enough 0:07:37.400 --> 0:07:40.520 of it. Put it in everything, cereal garlic wee picks 0:07:40.560 --> 0:07:41.360 nekay exaggeration. 0:07:41.560 --> 0:07:42.480 But I eat it a lot. 0:07:42.800 --> 0:07:45.600 Now I can't eat it. If I eat it, it's 0:07:45.640 --> 0:07:49.640 like an IBS trigger. I am like I've swallowed a watermelon. 0:07:49.680 --> 0:07:52.040 Like my belly is huge, hard, and I. 0:07:51.800 --> 0:07:54.720 Thought, like, our boss, what your own pit smell like? 0:07:55.880 --> 0:07:58.400 They're not too bad, but it's the it's what's coming 0:07:58.480 --> 0:08:02.200 out of me seasoned. Yeah, oh my god. Like now 0:08:02.280 --> 0:08:04.000 Ben will not put in any food. He's like, you 0:08:04.040 --> 0:08:06.320 cannot be trusted. Yeah, So that's like the earthquake. 0:08:06.440 --> 0:08:07.960 Is it the type of thing like bo where you 0:08:07.960 --> 0:08:09.360 can't really smell your own. 0:08:09.280 --> 0:08:11.160 No, No, it's not like that. I wish it was. 0:08:11.240 --> 0:08:14.480 I could smell everything. It was so offensive, even to myself. 0:08:14.520 --> 0:08:16.320 I was trying to get away from myself. But it's 0:08:16.320 --> 0:08:18.080 a real shame because usually. 0:08:17.840 --> 0:08:19.720 Away for myself that's hard to do. 0:08:19.920 --> 0:08:22.560 Usually it's Matt who instigates like the adult time in 0:08:22.600 --> 0:08:25.120 our house, Like he's the one, he's always up for it, 0:08:25.520 --> 0:08:28.240 and unfortunately I was the one that was up for it, 0:08:28.240 --> 0:08:30.200 and he was like, I would rather go and sit 0:08:30.240 --> 0:08:31.840 in the bathroom and masturbate than have sex with you. 0:08:31.920 --> 0:08:34.880 Right now, He's like, you stink so bad. 0:08:35.160 --> 0:08:37.280 No, it's a low point where they're like, it's a 0:08:37.320 --> 0:08:37.880 no from me. 0:08:38.200 --> 0:08:41.440 That was two days straight, two nights ruled out. Yeah, anyway, 0:08:41.480 --> 0:08:42.880 that's I just want to give you guys that update. 0:08:42.920 --> 0:08:44.480 No more Garlly for Laura Garli. 0:08:44.920 --> 0:08:47.280 What are you gonna do with the chili pasta? We 0:08:47.360 --> 0:08:50.720 can do that. You're in a new era. It's really upsetting. 0:08:50.800 --> 0:08:52.600 It's like one of the small joys of my life 0:08:52.640 --> 0:08:53.880 that has been taken away from me. 0:08:54.080 --> 0:08:56.120 Maybe it's a specific species of garlic. 0:08:56.160 --> 0:08:58.840 Maybe you could try like garlic powder. You could try 0:08:58.840 --> 0:09:02.120 the minxed one. Don't give up yet. It's like people 0:09:02.120 --> 0:09:05.200 who just accept gluten allergies and lactose allergies. I'm like, 0:09:05.280 --> 0:09:08.880 that's the best things in life unless try other things first, 0:09:09.080 --> 0:09:11.559 unless you're a Celiac, and then I really highly highly 0:09:11.600 --> 0:09:15.040 recommend that you don't take Keisha's advice and you share yourself. 0:09:15.200 --> 0:09:18.760 Definitely avoid gluten because you could die from that. So yeah, 0:09:18.880 --> 0:09:20.680 if you are shitting yourself, you stop eating. 0:09:20.880 --> 0:09:23.120 Laura would happily shit. I would should. 0:09:24.120 --> 0:09:26.160 It's the stand it's how it affects everyone else. If 0:09:26.200 --> 0:09:27.640 it was only affecting me, I'd be okay. 0:09:27.640 --> 0:09:27.920 All right. 0:09:27.920 --> 0:09:29.960 Well, before we get into vised and unsubscribes, Keisha, you 0:09:30.000 --> 0:09:32.720 also had an update the other week. We were talking 0:09:32.720 --> 0:09:35.480 about something that you stole from Bunnings if you missed it. 0:09:35.440 --> 0:09:36.360 An alleged store. 0:09:37.320 --> 0:09:39.280 I stole it from a hardware store that will not. 0:09:39.240 --> 0:09:40.480 Be named Bunnings. 0:09:40.520 --> 0:09:43.400 And also mit atand basically, you know how you go 0:09:43.520 --> 0:09:45.680 into a store and you get a sample pot of paint, 0:09:46.080 --> 0:09:48.440 turns out you're supposed to pay for that sample pot 0:09:48.440 --> 0:09:48.760 of paint. 0:09:48.760 --> 0:09:51.000 And Keisha, that was like a real revelation to her 0:09:51.200 --> 0:09:53.600 and she has stolen many sample pots of paints over 0:09:53.600 --> 0:09:54.000 the years. 0:09:54.160 --> 0:09:55.360 Turns out I'm not the only one. 0:09:55.400 --> 0:09:58.680 Because firstly, we got I specifically to my own Instagram, 0:09:58.720 --> 0:10:01.520 got about one hundred messages from people being like, so 0:10:01.640 --> 0:10:03.800 today was the day that I learned that also I 0:10:03.840 --> 0:10:04.400 am a thief. 0:10:05.040 --> 0:10:06.719 I should also be doing communities. 0:10:06.800 --> 0:10:08.920 Ever there were so many. 0:10:08.720 --> 0:10:09.640 So so, so many. 0:10:09.720 --> 0:10:12.640 But the funniest thing was after I posted this, we 0:10:12.800 --> 0:10:16.240 asked everyone, like, what's something that you've accidentally been doing 0:10:16.320 --> 0:10:19.679 that's illegal? And the amount of people that have been 0:10:19.920 --> 0:10:23.160 stealing barbecue gas bottles is out of. 0:10:24.080 --> 0:10:27.600 Role, which is so funny because there was this one 0:10:27.640 --> 0:10:30.520 go in particular that so Laura's looking at a shock. 0:10:30.679 --> 0:10:32.920 But the gas bottles is something called swap and go. 0:10:33.200 --> 0:10:35.640 So when you've when you've got a gas bottle and 0:10:35.679 --> 0:10:39.640 it's empty, you go in and you swap it out, 0:10:39.800 --> 0:10:42.960 so you leave yours, get the new one, which you 0:10:43.080 --> 0:10:46.840 pay for, and then you leave. But people people thought 0:10:46.880 --> 0:10:48.960 you just swapped it and went. 0:10:49.440 --> 0:10:51.640 In the name. They need to change the name that's 0:10:51.679 --> 0:10:52.000 on them. 0:10:52.040 --> 0:10:56.439 Swap and go is very misleading. But someone also wrote 0:10:56.440 --> 0:10:58.520 to us and said that this is actually the opposite. 0:10:58.520 --> 0:11:01.240 This is someone being super generous. They tried to pay 0:11:01.280 --> 0:11:02.800 for the air that they put in their tire. 0:11:02.880 --> 0:11:05.120 They went to the petro station put air in their 0:11:05.120 --> 0:11:07.000 tire and then went inside to pay for it. 0:11:07.080 --> 0:11:10.760 Revelation, that's not that funny. You pay for air overseas, 0:11:10.800 --> 0:11:14.120 that's such a I just did this big Scottish road trip. 0:11:14.240 --> 0:11:16.199 You have to pay for air in your tie. 0:11:16.400 --> 0:11:17.320 Are they getting it. 0:11:17.200 --> 0:11:20.080 From an oxygen tank or are they just getting it 0:11:20.200 --> 0:11:23.640 from the air and they're charging people to funnel it 0:11:23.679 --> 0:11:24.600 into their tires. 0:11:24.679 --> 0:11:27.000 It's literally the same, and there's lots of other countries 0:11:27.000 --> 0:11:28.840 that do it. But it's the same setup as you 0:11:28.840 --> 0:11:29.440 would hear. 0:11:29.559 --> 0:11:30.600 When you go and pull up. 0:11:30.640 --> 0:11:32.520 I actually think there are some places in Australia that 0:11:32.559 --> 0:11:34.400 you pay for air too, but it's the same setup 0:11:34.440 --> 0:11:39.560 where you just put the cord thing into your tires. 0:11:38.240 --> 0:11:40.880 And then have you seen The law Axe? The Law 0:11:40.920 --> 0:11:43.840 Axe is a kid's movie. It's all a kid's book. Brilliant, 0:11:43.920 --> 0:11:47.000 brilliant movie. If anyone's free this weekend five an unsubscribed 0:11:47.160 --> 0:11:49.600 The law Axe is a scene in there where the 0:11:49.679 --> 0:11:52.280 guy who runs the town starts charging for air. 0:11:52.400 --> 0:11:55.040 He's bottling air. That's what this reminds me of. It's 0:11:55.080 --> 0:11:58.040 like a dystopian universe. But no, I've never once paid 0:11:58.080 --> 0:12:00.920 for air. Turns out, I've never paid for example, Potter paint. However, 0:12:00.960 --> 0:12:03.840 I have paid for my swap and go barbecue gas bottle. Guys, 0:12:03.920 --> 0:12:06.640 let's get in to our vibes and unsubscribes. Britney, what 0:12:06.720 --> 0:12:08.760 is your Vibe for the week or unsubscribed. 0:12:08.960 --> 0:12:11.800 It's the same thing that moisturized my knee this morning. 0:12:11.880 --> 0:12:13.199 People sit back. 0:12:13.559 --> 0:12:17.199 This is a little tiny tub from summer Fridays that 0:12:17.240 --> 0:12:20.679 I've recently discovered. What it is is actually a jet 0:12:20.800 --> 0:12:24.120 lag mask. So for anyone that's flying, I mean they 0:12:24.120 --> 0:12:25.880 say jet lag, but it's for a plane, right, Like 0:12:25.920 --> 0:12:28.200 you know how you get so dehydrated on a plane. 0:12:28.720 --> 0:12:30.240 I don't know if anyone else is like me, but 0:12:30.520 --> 0:12:34.240 I was for a long time that person that would 0:12:34.240 --> 0:12:37.080 take like the big scary white face mask on and 0:12:37.080 --> 0:12:38.920 I was sitting my seat next to all these people 0:12:39.320 --> 0:12:41.440 planted on my face and keep it on for an 0:12:41.440 --> 0:12:41.880 hour or two. 0:12:42.360 --> 0:12:44.320 So fine, I have nothing against that. When I see 0:12:44.320 --> 0:12:46.040 your checky has done that, I'm like, she was prepared. 0:12:46.400 --> 0:12:47.080 That's excellent. 0:12:47.240 --> 0:12:48.040 Yes I did it. 0:12:48.080 --> 0:12:50.040 There's nothing wrong with it. But now you can do 0:12:50.120 --> 0:12:54.240 it without having the big white scary face masking on. 0:12:54.320 --> 0:12:57.240 So this is literally just a cream that's really thick 0:12:57.280 --> 0:13:00.200 like a mask, but when you put it on, doesn't 0:13:00.240 --> 0:13:01.679 look like it is. It just looks like you've got 0:13:01.679 --> 0:13:04.920 a really moisturized face. And I used it for the 0:13:04.920 --> 0:13:07.760 first time my recent trip to Romania. And I absolutely 0:13:07.800 --> 0:13:10.920 loved it. It was very hydrating, very moisturizing. I just 0:13:10.920 --> 0:13:13.400 sporadically put it on, like topped it up through the 0:13:13.440 --> 0:13:15.560 plane because I was flying for like thirty hours. 0:13:15.640 --> 0:13:17.960 It's also excellent if you have carpet burn on your knees. 0:13:18.240 --> 0:13:21.400 Great for carpet burn on your knees. It's called Summer Fridays. 0:13:21.480 --> 0:13:24.679 It's in like this bluey little tube and it is 0:13:24.720 --> 0:13:27.160 the jet lag mask. So that is my recommendation this 0:13:27.200 --> 0:13:28.920 week for anyone that might be flying, but you don't 0:13:28.920 --> 0:13:30.520 have to do long haul flights. It's even if you've 0:13:30.520 --> 0:13:32.400 got like an hour or two. It's like that that 0:13:32.520 --> 0:13:34.720 aircorn in a plane sucks you dry. 0:13:35.480 --> 0:13:38.160 Keisha my vibe for this week. It's an episode of 0:13:38.160 --> 0:13:41.480 The Human Lab with Esther Perel. Now Esther Perel, she's 0:13:41.520 --> 0:13:43.560 been on lifel on Cut before. She is a world 0:13:43.559 --> 0:13:48.040 redowance psychotherapist. She's probably the guru of relationships and sex 0:13:48.120 --> 0:13:50.640 right she's the bee's knees. And I did find it 0:13:50.760 --> 0:13:54.040 quite hilarious and kind of ironic that Huboman did an 0:13:54.080 --> 0:13:58.760 episode with her on relationships, because allegedly he had six going. 0:13:58.559 --> 0:13:59.200 At the one time. 0:13:59.240 --> 0:14:01.160 I'm not sure if you's those articles back in like 0:14:01.200 --> 0:14:02.880 I think it was like June July, there was a 0:14:02.880 --> 0:14:04.160 whole thing about human. 0:14:04.240 --> 0:14:07.160 However, this episode I really enjoyed that. 0:14:07.240 --> 0:14:10.960 It was kind of a mix between studies about relationships 0:14:11.040 --> 0:14:14.760 and science and neuroplasticity or synaptic plasticity and how that 0:14:14.840 --> 0:14:17.920 kind of changes brain connections and why that impacts our 0:14:17.960 --> 0:14:19.480 relationships as we age. 0:14:19.680 --> 0:14:21.760 To be fair, Hubanman sounds like the perfect person to 0:14:21.760 --> 0:14:23.600 talk about relationships. He had so many of them on 0:14:23.640 --> 0:14:25.880 the goal at once. But that's why it's so ballsy. 0:14:26.080 --> 0:14:31.360 Fancy fancy having like cheating with six different people and allegedly, No, 0:14:31.440 --> 0:14:33.080 it's not allegedly. I mean they've all come out and 0:14:33.080 --> 0:14:34.720 said the same thing. They've got proof. I don't think 0:14:34.720 --> 0:14:37.240 it's allegedly. I think it's just he did it. I 0:14:37.240 --> 0:14:38.920 don't think we have to He can't see us now. 0:14:38.960 --> 0:14:40.880 He did it. He put his dick too many places. 0:14:41.280 --> 0:14:45.280 But fancy having the balls to do that and then 0:14:45.360 --> 0:14:48.080 go on get like a world leading relationship specialist on 0:14:48.160 --> 0:14:51.520 unless he's talking about infidelity, like why do people cheat? 0:14:51.720 --> 0:14:52.280 That would do. 0:14:52.360 --> 0:14:55.360 Speak about infidelity in this episode? Yeah, So it's over 0:14:55.440 --> 0:14:57.760 two hours, so it is a long one. It's not 0:14:57.800 --> 0:15:00.160 going to be for everyone because Hubanman, I mean, his 0:15:00.200 --> 0:15:02.560 way of delivering content is a little bit robotic. He 0:15:02.720 --> 0:15:05.080 like he's a lecturer. You know, he's an academic and dry. 0:15:05.240 --> 0:15:06.920 You've got to kind of be into that if you're 0:15:06.920 --> 0:15:10.640 into his content. But yeah, Esther, if this this is, 0:15:10.680 --> 0:15:12.440 I mean, I've listened to a lot of Esther Perel. 0:15:12.560 --> 0:15:14.400 I think we all have. We've all consumed a lot 0:15:14.440 --> 0:15:17.840 of her things, her books, her podcasts. This in particular, 0:15:17.920 --> 0:15:21.080 I just felt like she she shone. I feel as 0:15:21.120 --> 0:15:23.240 though she just shared so much knowledge and she had 0:15:23.280 --> 0:15:25.600 that perfect balance of well, this is what the studies 0:15:25.640 --> 0:15:28.120 teach us about relationships, and this is what people have 0:15:28.280 --> 0:15:31.400 experienced in therapy. She's been a therapist for gosh, it 0:15:31.480 --> 0:15:33.960 must be like over forty years now. So yeah, I 0:15:34.000 --> 0:15:36.040 really recommend it. It is on YouTube or anywhere you 0:15:36.080 --> 0:15:38.640 get your podcasts. It is called Humanman lab Esther Perel 0:15:38.720 --> 0:15:42.120 How to Find, Build and Maintain Healthy Romantic Relationship. 0:15:42.240 --> 0:15:44.000 I love everything Esther Pearrel. So I'm into that. 0:15:44.200 --> 0:15:46.920 Well let's link that, but let's also link the episode 0:15:46.960 --> 0:15:48.760 that we did with Esther Perel. We did a wonderful 0:15:48.800 --> 0:15:51.240 episode with her like that was such a for me. 0:15:51.320 --> 0:15:52.800 It was a bit of like a highlight being a 0:15:52.800 --> 0:15:55.680 relationships based pod. To sit down and talk to her 0:15:55.840 --> 0:15:57.560 was really cool. So we'll link that one as well. 0:15:57.640 --> 0:16:00.240 I have a Netflix recommendation and at this Court Into 0:16:00.320 --> 0:16:01.840 the Fire you might have seen it. It is a 0:16:01.880 --> 0:16:05.040 documentary that is currently trending, but I honestly want to 0:16:05.080 --> 0:16:07.760 say it is one of the best documentaries I have 0:16:08.000 --> 0:16:12.840 ever seen. It is truly fantastic, fantastic but also devastatingly sad. 0:16:13.040 --> 0:16:17.080 But the way in which the narrative of the documentary 0:16:17.160 --> 0:16:21.280 is constructed is so well thought out. The storytelling is brilliant, 0:16:21.560 --> 0:16:24.480 and the story itself is just like it's. 0:16:24.400 --> 0:16:26.280 Unbelievable that this could possibly happen. 0:16:26.400 --> 0:16:29.280 So to give you sort of like structurally, it's two episodes, 0:16:29.480 --> 0:16:31.680 very easy to watch in one evening, which I did, 0:16:32.000 --> 0:16:35.160 And the story is about a fourteen year old girl 0:16:35.160 --> 0:16:37.760 who goes missing and what happens. And I won't tell 0:16:37.760 --> 0:16:39.200 you the full you know, I don't want to give 0:16:39.200 --> 0:16:43.040 too much away, but basically, she was adopted out when 0:16:43.080 --> 0:16:45.720 she was a newborn baby nine months old, sorry so 0:16:45.880 --> 0:16:48.040 not newborn, but nine months old. Her mother was very 0:16:48.160 --> 0:16:50.880 very young biological mother was super young, and that's why 0:16:50.920 --> 0:16:54.920 she adopted her out. Now, her biological mother found out 0:16:55.080 --> 0:16:58.320 when her daughter should have been twenty four that she 0:16:58.400 --> 0:17:02.960 had been missing for a decade, and obviously her biological mother, Kathy, 0:17:03.640 --> 0:17:06.920 she really felt compelled to find out where the hell 0:17:06.960 --> 0:17:09.680 did her daughter go. And so this is a documentary 0:17:09.720 --> 0:17:12.400