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Speaker 1: My hard podcasts, hear more kiss podcasts, playlists, and listen

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Speaker 1: live on the Free I Hard A.

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Speaker 2: Hey, I've asked a favor here.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, if you're a midwife, could he please call the

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Speaker 3: show thirteen one oh six five. I've got Danny who's

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Speaker 3: called up. I think he's heard that we're giving away

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Speaker 3: a bit. Danny, are you actually a midwife?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're a nurse? Yeah? Bo nice? Yeah? Where do

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Speaker 2: you work?

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Speaker 3: Maybe I start working out?

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Speaker 2: Oh nice, beautiful?

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Speaker 3: Oh Danny, will you stay on the line because I

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Speaker 3: know that every caller on the air at the moment

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Speaker 3: gets a temper mattress and one of the producers goes

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Speaker 3: in the drawer to in a ten for thirty thousand

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Speaker 3: dollars temper mattress.

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Speaker 2: And I think the producers were.

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Speaker 3: A little bit worried that maybe maybe you were just

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Speaker 3: calling out because of that.

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Speaker 2: So we're gonna keep it a light.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna keep doing get Dead in the Light now.

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Speaker 3: The reason I've asked midwives and anyone who's used to

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Speaker 3: I keep saying, a sonographers, snographer, so someone who uses

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Speaker 3: the ultrasound machine to do a baby scant effectively, to

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Speaker 3: anyone who's done that I was someone I need to

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Speaker 3: call thirteen one and six five because we could have

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Speaker 3: aye at any minute now. Woulds very exciting, And yeah,

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Speaker 3: it is very exciting.

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Speaker 2: We've kept it as a surprise. I should mention by gender.

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Speaker 3: Yes, no, the baby, that's happening, but the gender is

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Speaker 3: a surprise.

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Speaker 2: I should probably mention.

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Speaker 3: At this stage if I leave, if I'm not on

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Speaker 3: the air, I think Sophie Monk is.

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Speaker 2: Going to be filling in for me for a couple

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Speaker 2: of weeks. Yeah, that's to go on ahead. We haven't

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Speaker 2: actually announced that, but yeah, okay, that's worth mentioning. Just

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Speaker 2: in Casso vanished guys. Ye, Sophie on Ice.

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Speaker 1: She's just in another room over there and she is

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Speaker 1: ready to go, So.

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Speaker 3: That's worth mentioning. So if I do vanish, that's what's

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Speaker 3: going on. I'm not being phased out. If I don't

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Speaker 3: come back, I have been phased out.

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Speaker 2: Yes, i'd say.

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Speaker 1: I'd say if Soci's still here in two months, and

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Speaker 1: you know, it'd be one of those on the billboards

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Speaker 1: when you drive past will be like a magic eye,

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Speaker 1: where as you drive past will just kind of like

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Speaker 1: disappears and then start asking.

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Speaker 2: Questions yep, yep, I've gone.

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Speaker 3: I've gone now, like all great radio hosts are, they

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Speaker 3: just vanished into the darkness now. I The reason I'm

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Speaker 3: asking about the birth though, is because Semini keeping it

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Speaker 3: a surprise, as I was saying, and so we have

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Speaker 3: no idea what it is. We wiped away the guessing game, obviously,

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Speaker 3: but that's part of keeping it a surprise. We went

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Speaker 3: in to go and have an ultrasound the other day

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Speaker 3: and the woman who was using the ultrasound machine used

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Speaker 3: a pronoun Oh no. So she came in and she's like, oh,

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Speaker 3: clever girl, she's moved over there. Oh no, Sem was

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Speaker 3: lying on a second, Hang on a second.

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Speaker 2: Surely she didn't mean that.

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Speaker 3: And then I had to chat with my little brother

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Speaker 3: who's a doctor, and he was like, some people just

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Speaker 3: use you know, he or she or a little boy

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Speaker 3: little girl, and they just stay with the pronoun and

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Speaker 3: so they don't stuff it up.

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Speaker 2: Ah. Yeah, it's just they're kind of naturally just just

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Speaker 2: how they do it. Yeah yeah, and that's just how

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Speaker 2: they've been raised or whatever it is. They'll just do

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Speaker 2: it subconsciously.

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Speaker 1: Did you say anything, did you go like, oh, we

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Speaker 1: didn't know the gender until.

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Speaker 2: No, no, anyway, I just want to know.

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Speaker 3: Because Sam is now convinced it's a girl, She's like, no, no,

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Speaker 3: she she bungled it.

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Speaker 2: I think it's just one of those mistakes that she's made.

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Speaker 1: Are you looking for a penis when you're doing this scan?

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Speaker 1: By the way, because I couldn't help we.

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Speaker 2: We Sem and I have had this chat as well.

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Speaker 3: There's a reason they ask you, do you want to

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Speaker 3: know the gender? Because if there was just a penis there,

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Speaker 3: then everyone would be able to tell.

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Speaker 2: But it's not that penis watch is very funny.

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Speaker 1: You're going through this scan, You're like, I've seen it.

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Speaker 3: Actually, if you actually look up what the genitalia look

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Speaker 3: like both ways on an ultrasound, it looks very different

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Speaker 3: to what it looks like not on an ultrasound. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: the actual donutes look very different. Anyway, I'm not going

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Speaker 3: to go into.

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Speaker 2: That, but you can't tell. So Sam's always in there trying.

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Speaker 3: To be a dead eye dick, and she's like, well,

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Speaker 3: definitely literally saw a penis, and she didn't.

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Speaker 2: She definitely didn't. So but we do think because this woman.

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Speaker 3: Screwed up the pronouns, that maybe there's a chance he's

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Speaker 3: giving it up. Sarah, you're a midwife. Yes, good afternoon,

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Speaker 3: welcome to the show. Does this happen? Do you sometimes

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Speaker 3: let a pronoun slip accidentally? Or do you think she's

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Speaker 3: given up the gender?

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Speaker 4: To be honest, it does, but then I try to

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Speaker 4: back it up with the next time I say the

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Speaker 4: other sex.

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Speaker 2: Oh, so do you think she slipped?

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Speaker 4: I think she may have swiped Congratulations a girl.

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Speaker 2: We're having another girl? All right, thanks Sarah? Did she

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Speaker 2: flip back? Flip back? Okay?

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Speaker 1: Do you think there's a chance that she was doing

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Speaker 1: the opposite? So she just went into it going I'm

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Speaker 1: going to do the opposite to what they're having. Like,

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Speaker 1: do you think I think.

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Speaker 3: They're a bit too busy for that? Like it's a

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Speaker 3: midwife at a public hospital.

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Speaker 1: Like she's got a few people to say, we had

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Speaker 1: a baby gender predict who predicted boy for you?

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Speaker 2: Though? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: And I respect their opinion as much as somebody who's

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Speaker 3: actually looking at an ultra sound of the child.

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Speaker 2: Caitlyn, I do I respect them? Caitlyn, you're a midwife.

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Speaker 2: Has she just made a mistake? Does this happen all

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Speaker 2: the time? Or am I having a little girl?

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Speaker 4: Look, it's fifty if you see right, So maybe you

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Speaker 4: are having a girl. But look, it does happen all

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Speaker 4: the time. I know myself. I tell my women if

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Speaker 4: I say boys, just because I've got a boy, and

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Speaker 4: so something will come out, either he or she. But yeah,

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Speaker 4: so sometimes it's just through that've seen you know before, you.

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Speaker 3: Saw before, Okay, in the head from the last visit, Okay,

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Speaker 3: I like it all right, great, this is giving me

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Speaker 3: a little bit of confidence.

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Speaker 2: Stressed, there's still not stressing. There's still enough confession to

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Speaker 2: be in a house with three girls. Danny. That's where

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Speaker 2: you are. That's where you are, and what you can

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Speaker 2: do is bitch and moan about it. I'd love another

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Speaker 2: penis in the.

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Speaker 1: House fellas sometimes Danny.

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Speaker 3: I'm thirteen one and six, right, Danny, Yeah, you going?

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Speaker 3: So do you think she made a mistake?

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Speaker 2: Denny, Look, it's hard to tell. I'm gonna be honest

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Speaker 2: with you. I've done it.

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Speaker 1: I've done it before where I've walked.

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Speaker 3: In after the main person done this program and uh yeah,

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Speaker 3: I've said that it has a little guy doing has

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Speaker 3: a little men.

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Speaker 1: And they both looked.

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Speaker 4: At me in awe, in shocks, saying like, what.

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Speaker 2: Did you just say.

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Speaker 3: But look, at the same time, I've seen situations where uh,

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Speaker 3: the the midwife, they will they will come in and

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Speaker 3: use a pronou like.

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Speaker 2: She or het.

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Speaker 4: But just because they referred to her as that.

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Speaker 1: Look at the end of the day, Annie, they didn't

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Speaker 1: say it was gender neutral.

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Speaker 2: You get me, Danny, your nurse.

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Speaker 1: I am, I'm a midwife, my mother.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Jenny, that's great, great for you.

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Speaker 3: Hey, hey, midwife three has no gender all right, unlike

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Speaker 3: the baby that just got done for you.

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Speaker 4: All right, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: If you've been on the show earlier, I would have

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Speaker 1: loved you in the birthing s way, Denny, great calm energy.

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Speaker 1: Oh bray bray you or me at the birth of

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Speaker 1: your baby.

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Speaker 3: Trust me, I will make your life very sorry.

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Speaker 2: Is this Rick? No? No, this isn't Rick, I promise you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, he's saying a lot like a guy who used

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Speaker 1: to prank is called Rick. No.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no, I wouldn't. I wouldn't prank here.

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Speaker 2: My name is not Rick, man bro. My name is.

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Speaker 2: My name is Danny.

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Speaker 4: And yeah, I am I am a midwife.

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Speaker 1: I know, I understand it's quite you know, I'm a guy,

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Speaker 1: a midwife nurse.

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Speaker 2: But I just love the beauty, the beauty of life,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Oh, mate, Danny, you you're

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Speaker 2: a beautiful man. Denny. And guess what, mate, you're in

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Speaker 2: the Drawida the thirty thousand dollars beer Danny, good on

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Speaker 2: your mate, right.

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Speaker 1: Thirty grand?

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Speaker 4: That'll be all right, that