1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,960 Speaker 1: My name is Tatasha Bamblet. I'm a proud First Nations 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:07,280 Speaker 1: woman and I'm here to acknowledge country t Glenn Young 3 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:11,400 Speaker 1: Ganya Niana, Kaka yah Ya bin Ahaka nian Ar gay 4 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:17,160 Speaker 1: In Mbina yakarum jar dominyamiga Umagahawakaman damon imlan Wumba bang 5 00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:22,439 Speaker 1: Gadabomba in and now in wakah ghana on yakraum jar Watnadaa. Hello, 6 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:25,920 Speaker 1: beautiful friends, we gather on the lands of the Aboriginal people. 7 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:29,080 Speaker 1: We thank acknowledge and respect the Aberiginal people's land that 8 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:31,880 Speaker 1: we're gathering on today. Take pleasure in all the land 9 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 1: and respect all that you see. She's on the Money 10 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:41,960 Speaker 1: podcast acknowledges culture, country, community and connections, bringing you the tools, 11 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:44,560 Speaker 1: knowledge and resources for you to thrive. 12 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 2: She's on the Money. 13 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:47,840 Speaker 3: She's on the Money. 14 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:10,760 Speaker 4: Hello and welcome to She's on the Money, the podcast 15 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 4: that makes personal finance fun, especially on Fridays. My friends, 16 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 4: it is our favorite day of the week because we 17 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:19,120 Speaker 4: get our team together and we get to celebrate you 18 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:22,960 Speaker 4: the incredible. She's on the Money community ms Grit. She's 19 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:24,760 Speaker 4: here and she's going to be sharing her favorite money 20 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:28,480 Speaker 4: wins and maybe a little breaking news. Miss beck sayed 21 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:30,200 Speaker 4: will be sharing her broke tips, and we're going to 22 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 4: be helping to answer a money dilemma which asked v 23 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:34,679 Speaker 4: is it a good idea to take out a loan 24 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:37,080 Speaker 4: to then invest into the share market? And something that 25 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 4: you slid into our dms about working out how much 26 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 4: to spend on buying gifts for adults with a tiny 27 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 4: little spicy side question on whether gift cards are just 28 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 4: impersonal gestures, which as a fan of gift cards, I 29 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 4: feel like I have some thoughts and feelings. But before 30 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 4: we get to our question of the week and I 31 00:01:56,160 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 4: get to grill you both on your personal opinions, do 32 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 4: we want to hype our selves up with a little 33 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 4: five star review? Yes? Please wait now, Beck, I always 34 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 4: pick ones that are about you because I literally love 35 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 4: like how excited you get, So I'm not putting that aside. 36 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:14,399 Speaker 4: But this one, this week's for Jess. Yes, so fair, 37 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 4: So it's totally just for Jess. Go Jess five stars. 38 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:22,919 Speaker 4: I will be so so happy. If the news you 39 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:25,800 Speaker 4: are planning on sharing is that Jess has purchased her 40 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 4: first home, please tell us what the good news is. 41 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:32,400 Speaker 4: Ps I love you girls. So that's a very nice 42 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 4: segue into miss Jessica Ricci. That's a very nice review, thank. 43 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 5: You, thank you. 44 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 3: But what's your news, guys, I'm filming it exciting, so cool. 45 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 4: So so she's the official owner of a patch of 46 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 4: dirt with no property on it right now and a 47 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 4: photo in front of it. 48 00:02:54,919 --> 00:02:55,959 Speaker 3: Did you touch the dirt? 49 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 4: So cute? I did. I wrote my name in it. 50 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:02,600 Speaker 4: It was a very spiritual. Yeah, tell me a little 51 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:04,679 Speaker 4: bit more. I think this is the first time beck 52 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 4: is hearing about this, and I have been in the 53 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:09,440 Speaker 4: background being like, have you spoken to them about landmarkers? 54 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 4: What about your conveyancer? So this has been really fun 55 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:14,600 Speaker 4: because you're also working with the team at Zella Money, 56 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:17,079 Speaker 4: which we are all just so excited for you. I 57 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 4: think this journey has been so long. Is it what 58 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:22,640 Speaker 4: you wanted as the peakiest girl in the entire world? 59 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 3: How did you decide? 60 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:25,839 Speaker 4: You know this is the one? 61 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 2: You know what? It really was just almost fateful. So 62 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 2: there's you know, there's such a small pocket that I 63 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 2: was looking at buying in and you mean like less 64 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 2: than a kilometer square, guy, very small, and so it's 65 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 2: you know, so you have to take what you can get. 66 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 2: And the block is a little bit smaller than I wanted, 67 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 2: but it's still fits a house that's a really great design. 68 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 2: It's the orientation that I wanted. I'm just so over 69 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 2: the moon. 70 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 4: I'm so exciting. I'm so excited. And it's just like 71 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 4: validation as well, because there's been so many times you're like, 72 00:03:57,440 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 4: they really like this house, but they're asking X amount 73 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 4: and that's not in the budget, and I keep being like, babe, 74 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 4: it's coming for you, I promise, and like watching you 75 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 4: be so upset about you know, quote missing out, yeah, 76 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 4: and then knowing you're not going to miss out now, 77 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 4: Like we're starting from scratch, so it's like not compromising 78 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:16,200 Speaker 4: on you know. Oh yeah, no, I loved it, but 79 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 4: the kitchen was like definitely the wrong colors. I'd have 80 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 4: to update the bathrooms all like, oh, like why have 81 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:25,160 Speaker 4: they got carpet in the toilet? Like that's weird. But 82 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 4: I'm happy to settle. Now. You're doing it literally from scratch, 83 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:30,360 Speaker 4: so there's going to be everything in your house that 84 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 4: you want. I'm just I can't wait. So it's going 85 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:35,800 Speaker 4: to be I want to share the whole thing with 86 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 4: you guys, already killed my mom. Everyone behind me, she's queen. 87 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 2: I just yeah, I'm really so thankful for all the 88 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 2: support from you guys, from the listeners. Like I just 89 00:04:46,320 --> 00:04:49,160 Speaker 2: I put up a little reel to like announce it, 90 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:52,160 Speaker 2: and I said, I just feel like without the support 91 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 2: of everyone, I would have given up a long time ago. 92 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 4: And so I'm so he did try, he did try. 93 00:04:57,120 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 4: I had a moment. You know, we've all been there. 94 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:03,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm I'm so thrilled for the journey and so yeah, 95 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 2: I'm just like overflowing with gratitude, stress, exciting. 96 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, now to be building stress stress, It'll be good. 97 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 4: And I know the route you're going down. I'm very 98 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 4: very excited. So soph G ninety two, you are correct 99 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 4: and you're going to be very happy because the news 100 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 4: is that Jess says, technically you bought a house for 101 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:24,320 Speaker 4: bought land and he's in the process of building her 102 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 4: first home. Stay tuned, we'll share it all. All right, 103 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 4: let's get into the Question of the week. So, as 104 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 4: you guys know, it's time for our new favorite part 105 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:33,920 Speaker 4: of our Friday Drinks episode where we get to ask 106 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:36,560 Speaker 4: one question that you guys are dying to know. It 107 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 4: could be literally anything money life or anything rogue, like 108 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:42,720 Speaker 4: this one from Rochelle, who has asked she's on the 109 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 4: Money team. I want to know if you had to 110 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:48,040 Speaker 4: survive on just one supermarket aisle for the rest of 111 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:51,479 Speaker 4: your life, which I'll you camping out in so easy? 112 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:52,160 Speaker 6: Is it? 113 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:54,720 Speaker 2: There's an obvious answer, is it? Which I want you, 114 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:56,160 Speaker 2: guys answer now, because I'm sure. 115 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 4: I mean, there's an obvious answer. 116 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 5: There's a correct answer here, correct correct, you're thinking the 117 00:06:02,839 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 5: correct answers like the water aisle or nothing. 118 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:11,040 Speaker 4: Will assume you have access to water, okay. 119 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 3: Assume you have access to water. 120 00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 4: That's true. 121 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 3: Okay, assume you have access to water. 122 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:17,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, because you're going to cook our stuff anyway exactly, 123 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:21,080 Speaker 4: and maybe you know toothpaste, shampooy, etcetera. 124 00:06:22,440 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 5: So I personally like the bakery paste bakery, Yeah, bakery 125 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 5: forever forever. 126 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 4: Yes, you said, good one. Why? I mean, it's not 127 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 4: my choice, but it's a good choice. You're in the 128 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:37,680 Speaker 4: pasta ile, aren't you. No, No, I'm not hold on 129 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:41,400 Speaker 4: eating confectionary guys. I once I say it, you're gonna 130 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:43,920 Speaker 4: be like, oh, okay, okay, food. 131 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:50,120 Speaker 2: Yes, I am, and like this because yeah, okay, savory, 132 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 2: there's vegetables, there's. 133 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 3: Anything that's really just us. 134 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:57,760 Speaker 4: And I was going to say, oh, look, I'm not 135 00:06:57,800 --> 00:06:59,480 Speaker 4: going to love this answer because I don't know if 136 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:01,440 Speaker 4: I could do with past it. But like the fresh 137 00:07:01,520 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 4: veggie section because like, you know, fruits and veggies, like 138 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:07,280 Speaker 4: I'll be healthy, and like you could make mashed potatoes, 139 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:11,760 Speaker 4: so that's good, make noki but sorry, can I rescind 140 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:14,240 Speaker 4: that idea? And I would like to move in with Jess. 141 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 4: You could have a frozen pizza and then you could 142 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 4: make some veggies, like I. 143 00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 5: Think that we have to assume that there is no 144 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 5: utensil you can't use, like, but we're actually living in 145 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 5: the living in the aisle, I might get a bit chilly, 146 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:27,800 Speaker 5: but I'll be well. 147 00:07:27,720 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 4: No, we're not leaving any I know she said live, 148 00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:32,960 Speaker 4: but that was a lot. That was a lot. Let's 149 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 4: put that question in our show notes on Spotify so 150 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:39,240 Speaker 4: that the community can answer that as well, because in 151 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:43,119 Speaker 4: those questions, tell us your answer, Like if you pick compectionery. 152 00:07:42,560 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 3: Why it's tempting, but you get it, it's empting. 153 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 4: I would, but someone somewhere is going to be like, 154 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:50,520 Speaker 4: I'm never sick of eating chips. That's true, all right. 155 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 4: I feel like that's enough. On which supermarket ile we're 156 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:54,520 Speaker 4: going to live in. If you've got a question that 157 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 4: you are dying for us to answer literally clearly, no 158 00:07:57,960 --> 00:08:00,280 Speaker 4: matter how rogue, leave it in the comments and we 159 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 4: will hopefully get to it. Jess, it is your time 160 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:05,880 Speaker 4: to shine again. Community, money wins and confessions. What have 161 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 4: you got this week? Oh right, there are some goodies 162 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 4: this week. 163 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:10,119 Speaker 2: First, I've got one from Cassie, who says she always 164 00:08:10,200 --> 00:08:13,160 Speaker 2: browses the clearance section at the supermarket. She said today 165 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:16,080 Speaker 2: she got a dog lick Matt for sixty cents that 166 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 2: will be of great use the coming summer for her 167 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 2: beautiful pup obviously pet tax pup photo very. You know, 168 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 2: I love a little look at the supermarket clearance. It's 169 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 2: always at random, stuck, totally totally, very fun. Maybe that's 170 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 2: where I would live in the clearance. 171 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 3: That's too. 172 00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:35,200 Speaker 2: Next, I've got a money lost from Kab who said 173 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:38,720 Speaker 2: she had a big ADHD tax moment. She totally mismanaged 174 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:40,560 Speaker 2: her time last week and had to scramble to get 175 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:43,400 Speaker 2: critical chores done before leaving for her holiday. She said 176 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:45,440 Speaker 2: it left her with an embarrassing result that she had 177 00:08:45,480 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 2: to ring the airline from the train platform and change 178 00:08:48,120 --> 00:08:51,079 Speaker 2: the flight to an hour later, which totally blew the 179 00:08:51,120 --> 00:08:53,200 Speaker 2: budget out for her trip. She said she did end 180 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 2: up having lounde access that was a result, so she 181 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 2: at least, you know, stopped up on a couple of 182 00:08:57,320 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 2: meals while she was there. So although it was a 183 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:02,360 Speaker 2: money loss, she didn't let it lure her into continuing 184 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:05,319 Speaker 2: to overspend just because things hadn't gone to plan. That's fair, 185 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:06,959 Speaker 2: And I just want to remind people like that's like, 186 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:09,199 Speaker 2: that is such a common thing for eighty hds, right, Like, 187 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:13,160 Speaker 2: the loss of little things sometimes can happen, and it's 188 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:14,760 Speaker 2: important that you don't beat yourself up. 189 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 4: You just go, Okay, well, how can I. 190 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 5: Deal with it totally? 191 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 4: How do I move forward? Do you let her your holiday? 192 00:09:20,320 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 3: Totally? 193 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:23,839 Speaker 4: I would have let it ruin my holiday, but I 194 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:26,680 Speaker 4: can't be trusted those do as Katie's did, not as 195 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:29,160 Speaker 4: we would do. Yeah, don't listen to Victoria. What would 196 00:09:29,200 --> 00:09:30,559 Speaker 4: she know next? 197 00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 2: I've got money in from Misha. She said she had 198 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:35,240 Speaker 2: to get her passport renewed four hundred and twelve dollars. 199 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:37,920 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, she's one hundred and twelve. Now I 200 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:38,840 Speaker 4: know you are crazy. 201 00:09:39,320 --> 00:09:41,640 Speaker 2: And then if you want it, you know, shipped to 202 00:09:41,679 --> 00:09:44,520 Speaker 2: you quickly with tracking, she said, it's an extra hundred 203 00:09:44,559 --> 00:09:48,559 Speaker 2: and five dollars. Okay, so that would be five hundred 204 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 2: and seventeen dollars, she said. Instead, she asked some questions 205 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:53,439 Speaker 2: at the passport office and she was told that she 206 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 2: could just keep an eye on the tracking number and 207 00:09:56,320 --> 00:09:58,760 Speaker 2: if it was not being delivered quickly enough, she should 208 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 2: then call up and and add the fast track on. 209 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:04,040 Speaker 2: So if it looks like it's on track, you're all good. 210 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:06,760 Speaker 2: If not, oh my god, I leave for my holiday 211 00:10:06,880 --> 00:10:09,400 Speaker 2: in you know, four days, bring them up. Can I 212 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 2: fast track pay the fee? 213 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's really clever. 214 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:15,520 Speaker 2: That's a really good tip, she said. To be determined 215 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 2: whether or not if the money loss or money saved. 216 00:10:17,480 --> 00:10:19,319 Speaker 2: But it's really handy to know to people. 217 00:10:19,440 --> 00:10:23,439 Speaker 4: This is just me thinking about finances again. Do people 218 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:26,840 Speaker 4: ask for things like their passport for Christmas? It never 219 00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:32,040 Speaker 4: occurred to me, But so expensive and something that you 220 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 4: actually need. Is that something that you would be like, 221 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:36,839 Speaker 4: oh hey mom, and they're like, oh, we want to 222 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:39,839 Speaker 4: get you something good. It's like, well, I don't want 223 00:10:39,920 --> 00:10:42,439 Speaker 4: stuff anymore. I want to travel and I need a 224 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 4: new passport. Yeah, you get me in my passport? Or 225 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:47,160 Speaker 4: is that just not love a practical gift? I'm all 226 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:50,079 Speaker 4: for it, absolutely. I never buy just practical gift. It's 227 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:52,439 Speaker 4: my favorite, just lush. 228 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:54,480 Speaker 2: You probably not high on the practicality, but I add, 229 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:56,560 Speaker 2: I just know that. 230 00:10:56,600 --> 00:10:58,360 Speaker 4: You'd never do it yourself, like you talk about it 231 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 4: all the time. And then I'm like, right time to shine. 232 00:11:01,320 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 4: You know what is going to make Jessica jump on 233 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:07,160 Speaker 4: a chair? Yeah you do, Tom Cruise moment for a 234 00:11:07,280 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 4: ninja slushy. I would and have and would again. 235 00:11:10,480 --> 00:11:11,800 Speaker 2: And then last of these weeks, I've got a money 236 00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:14,120 Speaker 2: from Ashley who said after ten years her boobs have 237 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:16,559 Speaker 2: shrunk and she's no longer limited to plain bras or 238 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:20,280 Speaker 2: expensive ones from specialist shop money, because I think we 239 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:22,360 Speaker 2: can all really feel that one a little bit now, Oh. 240 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:24,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, do you want? Someone asked me the other day, 241 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 4: would you rather a nude of you to circulate the internet. 242 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:30,199 Speaker 3: Or please or your Yeah? 243 00:11:30,640 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 4: You'd be like, yeah I did that, or your chat 244 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:38,720 Speaker 4: GPT search history leaks. That's hilarious. And then I was like, wait, 245 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:41,160 Speaker 4: is it a nude of me? Before I breastfed. If so, 246 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:46,000 Speaker 4: you show absolutely everybody that picture everybody. But if you 247 00:11:46,080 --> 00:11:51,480 Speaker 4: take my CHATCHPT search history, I think we will be doneous. 248 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:53,200 Speaker 3: I hope that's the next question of the week. 249 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:55,880 Speaker 4: I just don't look at my chat GPT search history. 250 00:11:55,920 --> 00:11:58,920 Speaker 4: It's not even spicy, it's just embarrassing. Yeah, how do 251 00:11:59,040 --> 00:11:59,680 Speaker 4: you pronounce? 252 00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:02,839 Speaker 3: How does pull table no balls white? 253 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:03,320 Speaker 4: Yeah? 254 00:12:03,520 --> 00:12:07,679 Speaker 5: Exactly, And I still don't know, right, Beck, it is 255 00:12:07,800 --> 00:12:08,400 Speaker 5: your turn. 256 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:10,720 Speaker 4: Tell me what broke tips you bring into the table 257 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:11,880 Speaker 4: this week. Okay, So this. 258 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 5: First one I got off one of like the threads 259 00:12:14,160 --> 00:12:16,959 Speaker 5: in our Facebook group from a community member who is 260 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:20,200 Speaker 5: going back to UNI congratulations, and they're looking for ideas 261 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:22,360 Speaker 5: for like student discounts and things like that. This one 262 00:12:22,440 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 5: was suggested a few times. It's called UNI Days and 263 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 5: once you've signed up and verified your student status, you 264 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:31,120 Speaker 5: can shop through them to received student discounts. They have 265 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:34,640 Speaker 5: a whole range of partners, like the iconic Sephora. You 266 00:12:34,720 --> 00:12:36,600 Speaker 5: can just chop through the platform and get like discounts 267 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:39,520 Speaker 5: to random brands and things like that, which I think 268 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:39,840 Speaker 5: is great. 269 00:12:39,880 --> 00:12:41,439 Speaker 4: I used to use that back in the day, so 270 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:44,400 Speaker 4: that platform has been around. Yeah, Agous, it might be 271 00:12:44,480 --> 00:12:46,439 Speaker 4: completely different now. But you had to upload like a 272 00:12:46,520 --> 00:12:50,000 Speaker 4: scanned version of your student ID. And everyone at my 273 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 4: union was talking about how you would just wipe out 274 00:12:53,360 --> 00:12:57,199 Speaker 4: the expiry day, and so I might have tried that 275 00:12:57,400 --> 00:12:59,120 Speaker 4: and then had it for a little bit longer than 276 00:12:59,160 --> 00:13:01,160 Speaker 4: maybe I was entitled to. Still got it? 277 00:13:02,920 --> 00:13:04,400 Speaker 3: I thought, no, not to this day. 278 00:13:04,679 --> 00:13:07,200 Speaker 4: Actually, it's like my discount on my phone plan. Because 279 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:08,960 Speaker 4: I was a student, they took it away and then 280 00:13:08,960 --> 00:13:11,280 Speaker 4: I was like, oh, hey, where did that go. They're like, oh, well, 281 00:13:11,480 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 4: you have had it for five years or something. We 282 00:13:13,320 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 4: assume you're not a student anymore. You can reapply for it. 283 00:13:15,400 --> 00:13:19,079 Speaker 4: And I was like, I can't. You took it. You 284 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 4: took it. It was half percent, but it was still 285 00:13:21,840 --> 00:13:24,920 Speaker 4: five percent. Yeah, what else you got back? 286 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:27,319 Speaker 5: Well, just a really quick reminder that we have heaps 287 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:29,640 Speaker 5: of great threads like this, like with advice and things 288 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:31,319 Speaker 5: like that in our Facebook group. So if you're not 289 00:13:31,360 --> 00:13:32,679 Speaker 5: in it, the link is in the show notes for 290 00:13:32,679 --> 00:13:35,280 Speaker 5: you to join. This next one comes from Tire. She 291 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:37,599 Speaker 5: says that she uses dec who Deals to find the 292 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:41,880 Speaker 5: best prices for games, but Nintendo Switches, PlayStation, Xbox, Steam, 293 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:46,199 Speaker 5: Deku is d e Ku just for to have not 294 00:13:46,520 --> 00:13:48,960 Speaker 5: used it before. No, I'm not a game of girlye though, 295 00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:52,439 Speaker 5: but for the game of Girlies, oh for sure. So 296 00:13:52,480 --> 00:13:54,640 Speaker 5: you can set a watch list and get emailed when 297 00:13:54,679 --> 00:13:56,439 Speaker 5: there is a price drop. You can look at the 298 00:13:56,520 --> 00:13:59,200 Speaker 5: price history and get a weekly email of games on special, 299 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:01,840 Speaker 5: which I think is great. Love love it for us 300 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:05,280 Speaker 5: And what's yours? Okay, So my broke tip for this week, 301 00:14:05,559 --> 00:14:06,959 Speaker 5: And this is one that I know you guys have 302 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:10,640 Speaker 5: mentioned before and I never fully grasped it before. But 303 00:14:11,120 --> 00:14:13,319 Speaker 5: you know one Pass obviously obsessed. 304 00:14:13,400 --> 00:14:14,960 Speaker 4: Yes, so I think I only just. 305 00:14:15,559 --> 00:14:17,960 Speaker 5: I'm almost like regretting the amount of time I spent 306 00:14:18,040 --> 00:14:20,520 Speaker 5: and not really understanding the concept of one past. 307 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:23,080 Speaker 3: But basically, just for context, you guys might have seen. 308 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 5: That we've been working with one Pass recently, like talking 309 00:14:25,000 --> 00:14:28,880 Speaker 5: about the great value a membership provides, for example five 310 00:14:29,000 --> 00:14:30,920 Speaker 5: times fly by his points when you shop in store, 311 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:34,720 Speaker 5: or clicking collected Kmart, Target, Bunnings and. 312 00:14:34,720 --> 00:14:37,560 Speaker 4: A few other places as well, truly preaching to the converted, 313 00:14:37,640 --> 00:14:39,080 Speaker 4: like Jess and I have been trying to get you 314 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:39,760 Speaker 4: to understand. 315 00:14:40,200 --> 00:14:41,960 Speaker 3: I can't believe it. That's crazy. 316 00:14:42,240 --> 00:14:44,680 Speaker 5: For the listener's context, because I know that you guys 317 00:14:44,720 --> 00:14:47,120 Speaker 5: know already. But it's also free shipping from all of 318 00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:50,040 Speaker 5: those stores. And like obviously, as I mentioned other stores, 319 00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:52,880 Speaker 5: I've only listed three here, Kmart, Target, Bunnings, but there 320 00:14:52,960 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 5: are other stores on there. 321 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:57,480 Speaker 4: Like office Works. And also I don't know about you, 322 00:14:57,600 --> 00:14:59,360 Speaker 4: but if you have to pay for shipping, I'm always 323 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:01,600 Speaker 4: adding a dish things to my cart to quote make 324 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:04,400 Speaker 4: it worth it. I don't do that, so I'm just 325 00:15:04,560 --> 00:15:06,200 Speaker 4: ending that's so true. 326 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 3: But there's actually more. 327 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:10,440 Speaker 4: Oh wait, you've written down more notes, right, Actually tell 328 00:15:10,520 --> 00:15:11,640 Speaker 4: us I do because and I know. 329 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:13,320 Speaker 5: That you guys know this, or maybe you don't know this, 330 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:19,240 Speaker 5: but if a product is fairly unused or looks in 331 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:20,800 Speaker 5: great condition, I'm going to. 332 00:15:20,800 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 3: Say unused just for the purpose. 333 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:24,000 Speaker 5: Don't get in trouble. It has to be unused, has 334 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:26,720 Speaker 5: to be perfect condition. You have three hundred and sixty 335 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:28,560 Speaker 5: five days to return it. That's a whole year, do 336 00:15:28,600 --> 00:15:28,880 Speaker 5: you know what. 337 00:15:28,960 --> 00:15:31,520 Speaker 4: I didn't know that. That's crazy because I'm not looking 338 00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:33,720 Speaker 4: into those terms and conditions. I just want my points 339 00:15:33,720 --> 00:15:35,760 Speaker 4: and I also want my baby singlets sent to me 340 00:15:35,840 --> 00:15:36,840 Speaker 4: without shipping costs. 341 00:15:37,040 --> 00:15:39,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, so fair, Well, you can do all of those things. 342 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:41,400 Speaker 5: And also you can get to the end of the 343 00:15:41,480 --> 00:15:43,560 Speaker 5: year and be like, oh, I never even use this, 344 00:15:43,760 --> 00:15:46,040 Speaker 5: I'm going to take it back now tags are still on. 345 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 3: That's wild. It might even be discontinue. That's the thing 346 00:15:49,320 --> 00:15:49,800 Speaker 3: I'm thinking. 347 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:52,080 Speaker 5: What if it's a discontinued item and they're like, well, 348 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:54,560 Speaker 5: I guess you got to You're allowed to. 349 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:55,240 Speaker 4: You're allowed to do this. 350 00:15:55,480 --> 00:15:57,280 Speaker 2: We talk about this every year, but VD you and 351 00:15:57,360 --> 00:15:59,920 Speaker 2: I renew our memberships every year at the same time. 352 00:16:00,160 --> 00:16:02,200 Speaker 4: Only when it's on sale, because yes. 353 00:16:02,360 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 2: And it's on sale right now. Everybody just is a 354 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:05,640 Speaker 2: little fi may we can link it in the show 355 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:07,680 Speaker 2: notes or something. For you guys, it's half priced. Your 356 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 2: annual membership is twenty dollars instead of forty. That's like 357 00:16:10,560 --> 00:16:12,720 Speaker 2: a dollar thirty a month or something. 358 00:16:12,840 --> 00:16:13,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's ridiculous. 359 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:14,560 Speaker 3: Crazy. 360 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:16,600 Speaker 2: If you order two things online over the course of 361 00:16:16,640 --> 00:16:19,120 Speaker 2: the ARP, you've paid for itself in you've saved, which I. 362 00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:21,800 Speaker 4: Think is crazy. I love the fact that if your 363 00:16:21,880 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 4: points curly, you're like turbo charging your points. Yeah, but 364 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 4: if you're not a point scurly, you're getting free shipping. 365 00:16:27,200 --> 00:16:28,479 Speaker 4: So everybody wins. 366 00:16:28,280 --> 00:16:29,360 Speaker 3: No matter what. You're a winner. 367 00:16:29,480 --> 00:16:31,040 Speaker 2: Check out the link of the show notes. We'll pop 368 00:16:31,120 --> 00:16:33,680 Speaker 2: that down there. Great value questionable is to whether or 369 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:34,560 Speaker 2: not you can return things. 370 00:16:34,760 --> 00:16:35,960 Speaker 4: But do it that information? 371 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:37,760 Speaker 3: Sure you are exactly one plass. 372 00:16:37,800 --> 00:16:40,760 Speaker 4: Can't stop us exactly. Oh my god, they sound great. 373 00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:41,840 Speaker 5: I'm going to do it. I'm gonna do it right 374 00:16:41,880 --> 00:16:42,160 Speaker 5: after this. 375 00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 4: You actually sure it's great? About like I literally renew 376 00:16:44,440 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 4: it every year. I'm a part of their cult. I 377 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:48,480 Speaker 4: don't know if they are running a cult, but if 378 00:16:48,480 --> 00:16:51,600 Speaker 4: they were, i'd been well consider me culted were drinking 379 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:52,280 Speaker 4: people laid. 380 00:16:52,400 --> 00:16:53,480 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I want to drink some. 381 00:16:53,720 --> 00:16:55,720 Speaker 4: All right, let's go to a really quick break because 382 00:16:55,800 --> 00:16:57,800 Speaker 4: on the flip side, I am chomping at the bit 383 00:16:57,880 --> 00:17:00,240 Speaker 4: to get into two of these questions. So the first 384 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:02,440 Speaker 4: one is a money dilemma from someone in our community 385 00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:04,400 Speaker 4: who rung in and said, v is it a good 386 00:17:04,440 --> 00:17:06,480 Speaker 4: idea to get a loan so that I can invest 387 00:17:06,600 --> 00:17:09,840 Speaker 4: into the share market? And then you guys slid into 388 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:12,320 Speaker 4: our dms. This week, we're going to be talking about 389 00:17:12,560 --> 00:17:14,919 Speaker 4: how to work out how much we spend on adult gifts, 390 00:17:15,080 --> 00:17:17,640 Speaker 4: and then we're also going to ask the spicier question 391 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 4: of is a gift card a really impersonal gift to give, 392 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:29,240 Speaker 4: so guys don't go anywhere. Welcome back, everybody. Let's take 393 00:17:29,240 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 4: a listen to this week's money dilemma. Hi. There, have 394 00:17:33,840 --> 00:17:36,119 Speaker 4: you got a money dilemma you just can't solve That. 395 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:38,879 Speaker 4: She's on the Money team is here to help. Every 396 00:17:38,960 --> 00:17:41,720 Speaker 4: week we tackle your dilemmas, both big and small, to 397 00:17:41,800 --> 00:17:45,000 Speaker 4: answer your most burning money, career and life questions. To 398 00:17:45,119 --> 00:17:47,639 Speaker 4: get involved, simply head to our website and leave us 399 00:17:47,640 --> 00:17:50,000 Speaker 4: a short voice recording and you might just find yourself 400 00:17:50,080 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 4: on the show. Now, let's take a listen to this 401 00:17:52,640 --> 00:17:53,640 Speaker 4: week's money dilemma. 402 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:59,480 Speaker 6: Hi, She's on the Money. So my husband and I 403 00:17:59,760 --> 00:18:03,000 Speaker 6: went and spoke to a financial advisor for the first 404 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 6: time ever, and we discussed our interest to invest in shares, 405 00:18:08,080 --> 00:18:13,240 Speaker 6: and the financial advisor recommended getting alone to invest in 406 00:18:13,359 --> 00:18:18,400 Speaker 6: shares because it's taxed at a more reduced rate. I've 407 00:18:18,600 --> 00:18:22,080 Speaker 6: never heard of this concept before, and I don't really 408 00:18:22,160 --> 00:18:26,159 Speaker 6: understand how it works. I don't feel super comfortable with 409 00:18:26,240 --> 00:18:29,320 Speaker 6: the idea of getting into debt to invest in the 410 00:18:29,359 --> 00:18:32,200 Speaker 6: share market, even though investing in the share market is 411 00:18:32,280 --> 00:18:35,320 Speaker 6: something that my husband and I are really passionate about 412 00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:38,760 Speaker 6: and really interested in getting into. Could you please explain 413 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:42,760 Speaker 6: why the financial advisor might have advisors? How does this 414 00:18:42,920 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 6: process work? Where I could read some additional resources. I 415 00:18:47,359 --> 00:18:50,159 Speaker 6: am not really sure how to get more information and 416 00:18:50,359 --> 00:18:52,040 Speaker 6: educate myself on this topic. 417 00:18:52,560 --> 00:18:52,920 Speaker 1: Thank you. 418 00:18:53,440 --> 00:18:55,320 Speaker 5: I got to tell you, guys, I literally have thought this. 419 00:18:56,080 --> 00:18:57,120 Speaker 5: I think about this every day. 420 00:18:57,480 --> 00:19:00,640 Speaker 4: Why because if you think about this every day, think about. 421 00:19:00,400 --> 00:19:02,400 Speaker 5: It at least once a day, I think, really, yeah, 422 00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:04,520 Speaker 5: I think so because I keep meaning to ask you 423 00:19:04,560 --> 00:19:07,200 Speaker 5: and I keep getting But say, for example, you put 424 00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:09,760 Speaker 5: fifty thousand dollars in. I mean, we don't know how 425 00:19:09,840 --> 00:19:12,000 Speaker 5: much it's going to return, but let's say on average 426 00:19:12,040 --> 00:19:14,639 Speaker 5: your returns like nine ten percent, and then the interest 427 00:19:14,760 --> 00:19:17,080 Speaker 5: on the loan nine to ten. 428 00:19:17,920 --> 00:19:18,680 Speaker 3: She's not sorry. 429 00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:21,440 Speaker 4: I was like, where are you getting your starts from? 430 00:19:21,560 --> 00:19:21,800 Speaker 1: Beck? 431 00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:23,640 Speaker 3: Is it nineteen you guys? 432 00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:24,040 Speaker 2: No? 433 00:19:24,359 --> 00:19:25,879 Speaker 3: And then the interest and say the interest on the 434 00:19:25,960 --> 00:19:27,280 Speaker 3: loan is like four percent. 435 00:19:27,920 --> 00:19:29,959 Speaker 5: I'm like, well, I could just put it in there 436 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:34,399 Speaker 5: for a year, take out the whole amount, pay off 437 00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 5: the loan, and then I've just got like free money. 438 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:39,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's kind of how it works. That's crazy, Like, 439 00:19:39,680 --> 00:19:42,200 Speaker 4: you're not wrong. That's a very simplified version of it. 440 00:19:42,960 --> 00:19:45,919 Speaker 4: When you lend money so that you're able to invest 441 00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:49,280 Speaker 4: in the share market. It's either called creating a GID 442 00:19:49,640 --> 00:19:54,040 Speaker 4: portfolio or creating a leveraged portfolio. Or the loan type 443 00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 4: that you would engage in is called a margin loan 444 00:19:57,640 --> 00:20:01,480 Speaker 4: because you would borrow money for thisific purpose of investing 445 00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:04,800 Speaker 4: into the share market. Now, those are actual standalone products, 446 00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:06,800 Speaker 4: like you can go and talk to an investment advisor 447 00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:09,639 Speaker 4: and then get somebody to write you alone called a 448 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:12,000 Speaker 4: margin loan, so that you can invest in the share market. 449 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:15,320 Speaker 4: I don't have enough background on this community member so 450 00:20:15,480 --> 00:20:18,840 Speaker 4: that I understand her personal circumstances. But when I was 451 00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:22,640 Speaker 4: a financial advisor, I specialized in investing, so like people 452 00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:24,119 Speaker 4: would come to me and I could do like, you know, 453 00:20:24,240 --> 00:20:26,680 Speaker 4: the insurances and the savings plans and stuff. But what 454 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:31,600 Speaker 4: I really did was construct investment portfolios, usually for higher 455 00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:34,919 Speaker 4: net wealth people, which was really fun and really pervy 456 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:37,440 Speaker 4: and has given me a lot of information. But it 457 00:20:37,600 --> 00:20:40,560 Speaker 4: also makes me a little bit worried because I don't 458 00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:42,600 Speaker 4: want our community to go, oh, that sounds like a 459 00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:45,760 Speaker 4: great idea, just like you did, Beck, Because what happens 460 00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:49,159 Speaker 4: if you have a standalone margin loan is like the 461 00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:51,680 Speaker 4: market place goes up and down, like the share market 462 00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:53,639 Speaker 4: is a roller coaster, and that's okay because over the 463 00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:56,320 Speaker 4: long term, when we zoom out, we know that over 464 00:20:56,440 --> 00:20:59,560 Speaker 4: thirty years, nobody who's ever invested in the Australian share 465 00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:03,960 Speaker 4: market has missed out. But what can happen is, because 466 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:07,960 Speaker 4: that's a leveraged portfolio and there's debt involved, you could 467 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:10,800 Speaker 4: get what's called a margin call, and a margin call 468 00:21:10,960 --> 00:21:12,680 Speaker 4: is they might send you an email or give you 469 00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:15,040 Speaker 4: a buzz and go, hey, Beck, the value of your 470 00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:18,119 Speaker 4: portfolio has dropped because the market has dropped. So we 471 00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:20,760 Speaker 4: even need to to make sure that this loan is 472 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:24,680 Speaker 4: still financially stable for us. We need to either sell 473 00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:27,879 Speaker 4: down some of your shares so that your leverage to 474 00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:31,720 Speaker 4: the right levels, or you could tip in some extra money. 475 00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:34,879 Speaker 4: And that is a fickle position to be in, because 476 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:36,720 Speaker 4: we do not ever want you to be in a 477 00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:42,000 Speaker 4: position where you're selling shares when they are worthless, and 478 00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:44,760 Speaker 4: that to me is a massive red flag of going Oh, 479 00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:48,639 Speaker 4: leverage portfolio sounds sick, but there's that risk of getting 480 00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:52,000 Speaker 4: a margin call if your like margin in your portfolio 481 00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:55,000 Speaker 4: drops below eighty percent. Don't quote me on the eighty 482 00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:58,560 Speaker 4: percent because different products have different like margin call times, 483 00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:01,400 Speaker 4: so some might be if they're a lot more aggressive, 484 00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:04,160 Speaker 4: might be fifty percent summer ninety. You have to talk 485 00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:07,160 Speaker 4: to your financial advisor about that. The reason I think, 486 00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:09,000 Speaker 4: maybe just because I can hear in her voice like 487 00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:12,720 Speaker 4: she's relatively young, that a financial advisor might have recommended 488 00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:15,240 Speaker 4: that to her is because she could also maybe take 489 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:17,320 Speaker 4: some equity out of a home loan she has. And 490 00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:19,480 Speaker 4: that's where I said, I don't have enough information about 491 00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:23,159 Speaker 4: this particular community member to know why this advisor is 492 00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:26,440 Speaker 4: putting this strategy on the table, because a standalone loan 493 00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:30,560 Speaker 4: I would be very apprehensive of, like a margin loan 494 00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:34,160 Speaker 4: for somebody who is you know, let's just pretend Jess, 495 00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:36,879 Speaker 4: actually no, because you just bought a house, you might 496 00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:39,359 Speaker 4: have some equity there. No, let's pretend beck Beg. You 497 00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:41,960 Speaker 4: don't have a house, you don't have any massive assets 498 00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:45,040 Speaker 4: to like borrow against so that you get a really 499 00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:47,480 Speaker 4: low interest rate. And a margin loan is usually a 500 00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:50,560 Speaker 4: higher interest rate because it's not secured against anything really 501 00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:53,160 Speaker 4: in comparison to property, which yeah, you might be able 502 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:55,359 Speaker 4: to get a four or five percent interest rate, but 503 00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:57,920 Speaker 4: like the same doesn't happen in the margin lending world. 504 00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:00,560 Speaker 4: So I feel like I'm yabbering on a bit. Essentially, 505 00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:03,119 Speaker 4: one's a little bit more risky than the other. But 506 00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:06,840 Speaker 4: a lot of financial advisors might recommend if you want 507 00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:09,040 Speaker 4: to invest in the share market, and maybe you've got 508 00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:12,119 Speaker 4: let's say fifty thousand dollars in your offset account, they 509 00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:15,119 Speaker 4: might go, well, why don't we get fifty thousand dollars 510 00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:18,040 Speaker 4: out of your mortgage? Leave your fifty thousand dollars in 511 00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:20,560 Speaker 4: your offset account, but will take out a further fifty 512 00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:24,000 Speaker 4: thousand dollars in loans on your mortgage, So just like 513 00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:27,159 Speaker 4: take some equity, invest that and if things happen in 514 00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:29,760 Speaker 4: the market moves, we can use some of that offset 515 00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:32,200 Speaker 4: money to top it up, like we're not going to 516 00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:36,280 Speaker 4: be hamstrung. And that's where it might work really well. 517 00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:38,760 Speaker 4: And a lot of young people have started doing that 518 00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:41,479 Speaker 4: in saying that that is risky. Yes, it is more 519 00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:44,840 Speaker 4: tax effective, but at what tax level are you at 520 00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:47,680 Speaker 4: for it to be super effective? If that makes sense, 521 00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:49,879 Speaker 4: So it has to work with your strategy. Is it 522 00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:50,760 Speaker 4: a terrible idea? 523 00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:51,200 Speaker 1: No? 524 00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:55,119 Speaker 4: We actually recently or I actually recently recorded a money 525 00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:58,240 Speaker 4: diary with a diarist who has a leveraged portfolio where 526 00:23:58,240 --> 00:24:00,800 Speaker 4: they've taken equity out of their property invested it in 527 00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:03,520 Speaker 4: the share market, and they're doing it relatively, I would 528 00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:06,400 Speaker 4: say aggressively because they took seventy thousand dollars out chucked 529 00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:08,640 Speaker 4: that in the share market and they're planning on doing 530 00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:11,399 Speaker 4: that again. So I'm going to put the link to 531 00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:13,480 Speaker 4: that episode in the show notes because it is a 532 00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:16,520 Speaker 4: really good insight. But I would look into that, and 533 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:18,720 Speaker 4: I would also just be doing a lot of research 534 00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:21,479 Speaker 4: into the type of gearing product you're using or if 535 00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:23,800 Speaker 4: it's from your mortgage. And honestly, I know there's a 536 00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:25,680 Speaker 4: lot of research that you want to do. But sit 537 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:29,040 Speaker 4: down your advisor and say, why this particular strategy for 538 00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:31,800 Speaker 4: us if we've never done this before, Like why are 539 00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:33,680 Speaker 4: you recommending this? Did you go to them and ask 540 00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:35,640 Speaker 4: about margin lending or did you say can you borrow 541 00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:37,639 Speaker 4: money to like do this? Is it in line with 542 00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:39,720 Speaker 4: your risk profile? Like I'd be pushing that back on 543 00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:42,600 Speaker 4: your financial advisor to give you as many tools and 544 00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:45,520 Speaker 4: resources as possible because they should be providing. 545 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:47,119 Speaker 2: Those, and you're going to do more research on that 546 00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:49,560 Speaker 2: when you borrow against your mortgage to invest. 547 00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:52,320 Speaker 4: It's called debt recycling, right, it can be called debt 548 00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:55,200 Speaker 4: recycling just because you're using debt to be a little 549 00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:58,680 Speaker 4: bit more tax effective. And that, again is another very 550 00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:02,800 Speaker 4: valid strategy. Has to be structured properly. And the pickle 551 00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:04,879 Speaker 4: that I see a lot of people getting into is 552 00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:07,120 Speaker 4: they want to set these things up, but then they're 553 00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:09,880 Speaker 4: not cleaning their house at tax time and actually making 554 00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:11,640 Speaker 4: the most of these things. They're just like, oh, that's 555 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:13,439 Speaker 4: a good thing, let's set it up, and then they 556 00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:15,720 Speaker 4: forget about it, and they don't actually have their finger 557 00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:17,399 Speaker 4: on the pulse, and we're not making the most of it. 558 00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:21,159 Speaker 4: So these things sound sexy until you realize there's a 559 00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:23,440 Speaker 4: little bit of work in the background that consistently needs 560 00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:26,280 Speaker 4: to happen to make that work. Got you, That's where 561 00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:30,280 Speaker 4: I mean, Yeah, would you like the juicy dilemma? 562 00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:30,680 Speaker 5: Yes? 563 00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:33,320 Speaker 4: All right? This week we got a DM and it 564 00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:37,119 Speaker 4: sounded literally exactly like this, you're ready, hije's on the money. 565 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:40,560 Speaker 4: I find gifting really tricky these days. Most of my 566 00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:43,159 Speaker 4: friends and family just buy what they want when they 567 00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:45,000 Speaker 4: want it, so it's really hard to come up with 568 00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:48,280 Speaker 4: something meaningful. Recently, It was my sister's birthday, and when 569 00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:51,240 Speaker 4: I asked what she'd like, she suggested something over three 570 00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:54,159 Speaker 4: hundred dollars, which was way out of my budget. I 571 00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:56,880 Speaker 4: felt guilty then that I couldn't afford it, especially since 572 00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:59,520 Speaker 4: we just moved house and I'm saving up for maternity leave. 573 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:02,879 Speaker 4: On top of that, So many people ask for gift cards, 574 00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:06,080 Speaker 4: which just feels kind of impersonal and be pointless if 575 00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:09,160 Speaker 4: we're just swapping them around With Christmas coming up, I'd 576 00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:11,399 Speaker 4: love to know how others deal with this. Do you 577 00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:13,840 Speaker 4: guys set a budget? Do you push back on expensive 578 00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:16,119 Speaker 4: gift requests? So do you just go with the flow? 579 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:19,440 Speaker 2: Interesting three dollars for a gift is you know, just 580 00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:21,160 Speaker 2: to expect someone to pay that is card? 581 00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:24,160 Speaker 4: That's wild. That's wild to me. I couldn't imagine being 582 00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:26,840 Speaker 4: like just saying, oh, v bat Day's coming up. Was 583 00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:29,679 Speaker 4: there anything you wanted? And me go, yeah, Ninja Creamy. 584 00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:34,560 Speaker 5: Well, yeah, brand new Dyson actually yeah, yeah, what It's insane. 585 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:38,679 Speaker 2: I just I think that there's not necessarily a set price. 586 00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:40,960 Speaker 2: I think that it's whatever feels good to you. 587 00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:42,600 Speaker 4: I understand the gift card thing. 588 00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:46,119 Speaker 2: Having now heard the dilemma, I'm so pro gift card, Like, 589 00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:48,080 Speaker 2: nothing makes me happier than a little make a gift 590 00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:50,760 Speaker 2: card or something like that. But because I think you 591 00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:53,120 Speaker 2: can then purchase what you want. It's a fun experience, 592 00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:53,560 Speaker 2: et cetera. 593 00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,000 Speaker 4: But I do every money that you have to spend 594 00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:59,240 Speaker 4: at that location, don't transfer it to me, because that's 595 00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:02,320 Speaker 4: now my money and I have to be responsible with it. Yes, 596 00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,320 Speaker 4: I've got to pay a bill with it or something. Yeah, Yes, 597 00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:05,720 Speaker 4: I do think I understand. 598 00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:07,240 Speaker 2: Like if it was Christmas time, for example, and I 599 00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:08,840 Speaker 2: got you a gift card for fifty dollars, you've got 600 00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:10,520 Speaker 2: me a gift card for fifty dollars, you go, well. 601 00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:13,600 Speaker 4: Should we should have just kept it enough? Yes, So 602 00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:14,399 Speaker 4: I kind of. 603 00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:16,880 Speaker 2: See that perspective on it. But I think, like more broadly, 604 00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:19,159 Speaker 2: I don't find gift cards to be in personal I 605 00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:21,720 Speaker 2: think especially if you pick a store or an experience 606 00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:23,640 Speaker 2: of going, you know the person loves. I think that's 607 00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:26,760 Speaker 2: great in terms of determining how much to spend on somebody, 608 00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:28,119 Speaker 2: I mean, how long is a piece of string. It 609 00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:32,159 Speaker 2: really comes down to what's in budget for you, because you. 610 00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:35,959 Speaker 4: Need to spend a lot on Jess. Yeah, by the way, 611 00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:38,320 Speaker 4: budget for start planning now. 612 00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:40,840 Speaker 2: No, no, but I just you know, you can look 613 00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:42,560 Speaker 2: at group gifts I think are a really great way 614 00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:45,040 Speaker 2: to keep costs down. But also like some of my 615 00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:46,840 Speaker 2: favorite gifts that I've ever gotten have been things that 616 00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,000 Speaker 2: have been made for me and didn't necessarily cost a 617 00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:49,760 Speaker 2: lot of money at all. 618 00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:50,959 Speaker 4: Yes, I do not have the time. 619 00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:54,200 Speaker 2: You will be getting a gift card, goodbye and away. 620 00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:57,159 Speaker 2: I think that there's not necessarily a right answer. I 621 00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:59,600 Speaker 2: think it's more about the expectation that's been put on you, 622 00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:02,520 Speaker 2: because I think a gift is given with love and 623 00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:04,440 Speaker 2: no expectation should be put on that at all. Like, 624 00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:06,000 Speaker 2: you don't have to get me a gift. 625 00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:06,440 Speaker 3: For my birthday. 626 00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:09,520 Speaker 2: You got me digit that's the most exciting the other 627 00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:11,520 Speaker 2: But if you've got me a handwritten card, I would 628 00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:13,280 Speaker 2: have been equally as excited, and. 629 00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:15,800 Speaker 4: That I wouldn't have known. Yeah, I wouldn't have so 630 00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:18,760 Speaker 4: don't get me wrong, I appreciate that a lot. But 631 00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:22,080 Speaker 4: gifting is my love language. I think I've shared before 632 00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:24,879 Speaker 4: that I have a creepy list on my phone of 633 00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:28,359 Speaker 4: all these things that people have mentioned totally they want 634 00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:32,840 Speaker 4: or they're interested in, And like those comments are fleeting 635 00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:35,719 Speaker 4: so like, I wish I could divulge what's on Jess's 636 00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:38,200 Speaker 4: list right now, but I know those are things that 637 00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:40,960 Speaker 4: in passing she's been like that is so cool. I 638 00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:44,320 Speaker 4: would love that whatever. She's probably forgotten about half of those. 639 00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:47,080 Speaker 4: So when I come to Christmas time and I might go, Jess, 640 00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,200 Speaker 4: is there anything you want in particular, She's just gonna no, 641 00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:52,160 Speaker 4: I can't think of anything. So that list is saving 642 00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:56,240 Speaker 4: me because I know that that gift list like probably 643 00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:59,600 Speaker 4: rangers from I think about thirty dollars to a couple 644 00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:02,800 Speaker 4: of huns, just things that she wants. And I also 645 00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:05,680 Speaker 4: just I don't mind what it is. I'm just gonna 646 00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:08,040 Speaker 4: put it on the list. Like if Jess says, oh 647 00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:10,960 Speaker 4: I want this, you know, thousand dollars brand new diceent 648 00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:12,640 Speaker 4: Air rap, I'm gonna put it on my list because 649 00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:16,760 Speaker 4: it's gonna help inspire me for when I am gift giving. 650 00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:19,800 Speaker 4: So it gives me a theme of like, oh, Jess 651 00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:22,480 Speaker 4: has said over time that she wants these things, and 652 00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:24,840 Speaker 4: she wasn't asking for them. She was just in jest 653 00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:27,120 Speaker 4: going like, oh my god, I would love x YZ. 654 00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:29,480 Speaker 4: But keeping track of that is going to give me 655 00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:31,520 Speaker 4: a good insight as to like where I should start 656 00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:33,480 Speaker 4: looking if I'm looking for a gift at a different 657 00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:36,600 Speaker 4: price point. So Jess last air rap, she's mentioned that 658 00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:39,200 Speaker 4: she really wants the new one fantastic, but I don't 659 00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:42,200 Speaker 4: have that in budget. Maybe haircare is a good place 660 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:44,240 Speaker 4: for me to start. Maybe I could go down the 661 00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:46,600 Speaker 4: route of like buying her a really nice hairbrush or something, 662 00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:50,080 Speaker 4: because clearly that's a line to her values. But it 663 00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:53,200 Speaker 4: still feels thoughtful, And I mean it's going to change 664 00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:56,920 Speaker 4: based on your personality. Some people are just not gift givers, 665 00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:59,880 Speaker 4: like I et my husband, and that's not a bad thing. 666 00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:03,600 Speaker 4: His love language is acts of service, so like come 667 00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:06,320 Speaker 4: my birthday, he will try to give me nice gifts, 668 00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:09,840 Speaker 4: and he absolutely does, but he's more about like I've 669 00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:13,040 Speaker 4: booked this nice dinner, or I've woken up early and 670 00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:14,719 Speaker 4: cleaned to the house and I've made pancakes and you're 671 00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:16,160 Speaker 4: going to have them in bed, and like all of 672 00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:18,720 Speaker 4: that stuff is his way of showing it. So it 673 00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:20,840 Speaker 4: doesn't I don't know. I think you have to understand 674 00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:23,640 Speaker 4: the person and their personality, yes, and what they like. 675 00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:26,840 Speaker 4: But yeah, the list I feel is very helpful because 676 00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:29,120 Speaker 4: it's not just about like, oh, I wrote a list 677 00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:31,720 Speaker 4: and now I've got a list of expensive stuff that's 678 00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:34,680 Speaker 4: not in much of for Jess. But sorry, Like if 679 00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:36,400 Speaker 4: we look at Jess's list, I can show you later 680 00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:39,280 Speaker 4: back there's like four hair care things on there totally, 681 00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:41,520 Speaker 4: So like that gives me a really good insight as 682 00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:44,520 Speaker 4: to maybe what she's interested in at the moment. Yeah, 683 00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:46,480 Speaker 4: so that even if I'm getting her something that she 684 00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:49,240 Speaker 4: hasn't asked for because I'm looking at a budget, it's 685 00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:52,800 Speaker 4: really on brand for what she's currently engaging in totally. 686 00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:55,320 Speaker 5: And if all else fails, I like to check people's 687 00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:57,360 Speaker 5: Pinterest if they have one, I like to check you 688 00:30:57,440 --> 00:30:59,840 Speaker 5: really follow on Instagram, like Baby's clever. 689 00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:02,120 Speaker 3: Maybe they follow like Fentin and Fentin. 690 00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:05,760 Speaker 5: I cannot afford anything from there, but but the vibe, 691 00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:08,040 Speaker 5: the vibes, like maybe even like a cutlery set, like 692 00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:10,200 Speaker 5: sometimes they have really nice place mats y like twenty bucks. 693 00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:13,120 Speaker 4: So just follow see who you are way smarter than me. 694 00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:14,280 Speaker 4: I just am a stalker. 695 00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:16,920 Speaker 5: You got a stalk and then you end up but 696 00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:18,440 Speaker 5: it does take hours because you do end up in 697 00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:21,080 Speaker 5: like real rabbit holes, you know, Like, so see who 698 00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:24,120 Speaker 5: they follow, and also what they engage content they engage in. 699 00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:26,840 Speaker 5: Because sometimes I follow people that I would not like anymore, 700 00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:28,479 Speaker 5: you know what I mean, like like styles I wouldn't 701 00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:30,320 Speaker 5: like anymore. So I guess like do that if you 702 00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:34,040 Speaker 5: have the time. Some people aren't super like creativity doesn't 703 00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:36,520 Speaker 5: like excite them, and that's completely fine. But what you 704 00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:38,800 Speaker 5: can do is, like say someone's really stressed, you can 705 00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:40,720 Speaker 5: just make them like a hamper that with like written 706 00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:41,720 Speaker 5: handwritten things. 707 00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:44,840 Speaker 3: Like here is some salts. Do this first step one, 708 00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:47,840 Speaker 3: have a bath, step two, make tea. But you're so. 709 00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:51,600 Speaker 4: Thoughtful, like you have acts of service and gift giving 710 00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:53,480 Speaker 4: as a love language or mashed together. 711 00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:56,840 Speaker 5: It's a real it's a real combination and end up 712 00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:57,640 Speaker 5: spending so much money. 713 00:31:57,840 --> 00:31:59,680 Speaker 4: But so you can just do something like that. 714 00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:03,680 Speaker 5: Where's like handwritten hampers that are just like yeah, yes, 715 00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:07,000 Speaker 5: have a self careno, do this first, like a mind 716 00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:09,200 Speaker 5: map of sorts, you know, and like I would love 717 00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:12,520 Speaker 5: talking through the process. And then it's like so cheap salts, 718 00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:15,360 Speaker 5: tea bags, that's all you need to spend. The rest 719 00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:18,560 Speaker 5: is handwritten, you know, I think, like something that's like 720 00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:21,840 Speaker 5: curated for them. Yeah, and it can be a gift 721 00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:25,200 Speaker 5: card especially if it's something that is like niche. You 722 00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:29,440 Speaker 5: say you've you've seen they follow Florian Florian homewares on 723 00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:30,120 Speaker 5: wrath down Stree. 724 00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:30,320 Speaker 4: I don't. 725 00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:30,840 Speaker 3: If you guys know. 726 00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:34,440 Speaker 5: Really great homewares, you get a gift card for something 727 00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:37,240 Speaker 5: like that and they're like, oh, this is personal. 728 00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:37,640 Speaker 2: You know. 729 00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:40,680 Speaker 5: It's not as impersonal as like a Visa gift card 730 00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:43,080 Speaker 5: or something, even though those are really cool. It's something 731 00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:44,000 Speaker 5: very very. 732 00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:45,360 Speaker 4: Much gift card. 733 00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:48,959 Speaker 5: I love it. I love I love a gift card. 734 00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:51,240 Speaker 4: If you're worried about the persons what I give every 735 00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:53,920 Speaker 4: Christmas to all our team members, because I'm like, I do, sorry, 736 00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:58,040 Speaker 4: what do we like better at Christmas than a gift cash? 737 00:32:58,240 --> 00:32:58,960 Speaker 4: Absolutely so? 738 00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:00,920 Speaker 5: And also are you going to spend it on something 739 00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:02,160 Speaker 5: that you want to spend it on? If it was 740 00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:03,600 Speaker 5: just cash, you're like you would do something. 741 00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:06,160 Speaker 4: Don't get me wrong. I know Jess loves a mecha 742 00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:09,440 Speaker 4: gift card, but like coming into Christmas, I'm like, here 743 00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:12,200 Speaker 4: is a Visa gift card. I feel like I love 744 00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:15,520 Speaker 4: it from an employer as well. It's very different than 745 00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:18,160 Speaker 4: me gifting friends. So like the way I give Jess 746 00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:21,000 Speaker 4: on her birthday and stuff is because we're friends, I 747 00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:23,320 Speaker 4: really am her employer. But at Christmas, I'm like, well, 748 00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:26,120 Speaker 4: everyone gets a quality, we all get exactly the same thing. 749 00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:28,000 Speaker 4: I don't want to like do one thing for one 750 00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:30,160 Speaker 4: person and then have them thinking wow, I feel so 751 00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:32,120 Speaker 4: thought of, and then the next person being like, wow, 752 00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:33,760 Speaker 4: she doesn't know me at all. Like I just do 753 00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:36,040 Speaker 4: not want to set myself up for that. But also 754 00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:39,520 Speaker 4: I don't know this joke. Actually I do know my 755 00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:43,560 Speaker 4: most of my team's personal financial situations because of who 756 00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:46,080 Speaker 4: I am and what I do, but I also don't know, 757 00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:49,200 Speaker 4: and I don't want to guess. And sorry, visa gift 758 00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:51,440 Speaker 4: card might be taking some pressure off you buying some 759 00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:55,440 Speaker 4: Christmas gifts or chopping up the Christmas table or whatever, 760 00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:57,520 Speaker 4: or do what you want with it and spend it 761 00:33:57,600 --> 00:34:00,600 Speaker 4: on yourself. Absolutely, but just that idea that there's not 762 00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:02,960 Speaker 4: a lot of strings attached to that gift. There's no 763 00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:05,600 Speaker 4: like I have to spend it at Mecca. Yeah, but 764 00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:07,520 Speaker 4: instead of really, I spent a mecha gift card this 765 00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:11,640 Speaker 4: week and oh it felt so bad. Oh so Charlotte 766 00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:14,800 Speaker 4: Tilbury holiday palette that's just come out. I can't remember 767 00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:16,759 Speaker 4: what it's called, but it has the eye shadow It 768 00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:19,400 Speaker 4: has the bronzes and it has the blush all in 769 00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:23,239 Speaker 4: one little pink like rose goldie palette. And I was 770 00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:25,520 Speaker 4: looking at the one from last year and I really 771 00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:27,200 Speaker 4: wanted it, but I wasn't going to buy myself like 772 00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:30,239 Speaker 4: a holiday palette. But I had a gift card that 773 00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:33,160 Speaker 4: I've been hoarding in my wallet for so long, and 774 00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:35,560 Speaker 4: I was like, actually, I'm going to get the palette 775 00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:37,160 Speaker 4: and now I have it. It feels fancy. 776 00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:39,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, And you were sparing money, and that's the benefit 777 00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:41,120 Speaker 2: or power of a gift card. I know. 778 00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:43,320 Speaker 5: I also on one of the gift card trains, what 779 00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:44,840 Speaker 5: you know, but pread. 780 00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:46,600 Speaker 4: Gift card, well, then be not pro gift card, all right. 781 00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:48,800 Speaker 4: So we did ask the community a couple of questions 782 00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:51,480 Speaker 4: before I so, well, what's your two cents? First, we 783 00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:55,240 Speaker 4: asked how do you manage gift giving for adults? Forty 784 00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:57,520 Speaker 4: six percent of you said, I just budget and I 785 00:34:57,640 --> 00:35:00,800 Speaker 4: limited per person, which I think is fair. Thirty percent 786 00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:03,560 Speaker 4: of people then said, we just do secret Santa style, 787 00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:06,279 Speaker 4: which I think is I kind of love that the 788 00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:08,200 Speaker 4: pressure has been taken off my friend group does that 789 00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:11,919 Speaker 4: is twenty two percent of people said, well, actually, coming 790 00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:14,440 Speaker 4: into Christmas, we only ever buy for the kids, and 791 00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:17,720 Speaker 4: then two percent of people it must be nice said 792 00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:20,719 Speaker 4: we just get whatever they ask for, no matter the budget. Oh, 793 00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:25,320 Speaker 4: I couldn't, Dams, I have a Charistmas wish list for you. 794 00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:26,080 Speaker 2: Yes. 795 00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:30,239 Speaker 4: So the next question we asked was, Jess, how do 796 00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:33,600 Speaker 4: we feel about gift cards? Thirty one percent of you 797 00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:37,400 Speaker 4: said it's fine if it's thoughtful, twenty eight percent of 798 00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:40,840 Speaker 4: you said love them so easy, twenty two percent of 799 00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:44,440 Speaker 4: you said no, they feel impersonal, and eighteen percent of 800 00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:46,720 Speaker 4: you said it's a pointless swap fest. 801 00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:48,680 Speaker 2: I do understand that, Like I said, if it's like 802 00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:50,680 Speaker 2: everyone's doing it once, you're all giving the same amount 803 00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:51,000 Speaker 2: of money. 804 00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:54,799 Speaker 4: But yeah, when we asked the community, I said, look, guys, 805 00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:58,120 Speaker 4: what's your two cents? And I feel like the community 806 00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:00,520 Speaker 4: has our backs. It's so funny sometimes I read through 807 00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:02,920 Speaker 4: these and it's just validating because they're all like in 808 00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:06,319 Speaker 4: the same headspace. First person said, I actually think it's 809 00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:08,279 Speaker 4: so wild for someone to ask for a gift that 810 00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:10,880 Speaker 4: costs more than hundred dollars. I completely agree, and I 811 00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:14,279 Speaker 4: was like, you're right, queen. Yeah. Next person said, this year, 812 00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:16,640 Speaker 4: I'm upfront and I'm just saying no, gifts like, not 813 00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:18,839 Speaker 4: for them, not for me. I'd rather have a meal 814 00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:22,319 Speaker 4: with them and actually spend quality time. Next person said, 815 00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:24,800 Speaker 4: our family now skips the presence. Instead we just do 816 00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:28,680 Speaker 4: a night away together. That's really fun. Someone said homemade 817 00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:31,359 Speaker 4: gifts are literally the best. I'd take a homemade treat 818 00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:35,360 Speaker 4: of any gift card, et cetera. What's your thing, homemade handmaid, No, 819 00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:38,680 Speaker 4: homemade handmaid or second hand is on my husband's side 820 00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:42,400 Speaker 4: of the family's like Christmas Secret Santa rules. 821 00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:43,399 Speaker 3: That's very good. 822 00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:47,239 Speaker 4: It's so fun too. I remember a couple of years 823 00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:50,759 Speaker 4: ago I found on Facebook marketplace somebody I think it 824 00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:53,040 Speaker 4: was like fifty bucks or something. They were selling a 825 00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:56,520 Speaker 4: kid's kitchen and it was fun. Like if you've been 826 00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:59,320 Speaker 4: listening for a while, you're reading this, you know this story. 827 00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:03,120 Speaker 4: But apology, but Facebook marketplace kids kitchen for my niece 828 00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:06,160 Speaker 4: and nephew. But it was like, the fancy one that 829 00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:09,279 Speaker 4: was from Pottery Barn would have been so expensive. But 830 00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:11,239 Speaker 4: when I got there, he's like, oh, and you can 831 00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:14,040 Speaker 4: have everything in it, so like the little pots, the 832 00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:18,600 Speaker 4: little pans, the veltgro freezing vegetables, like the little shopping basket. Everything. 833 00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:21,840 Speaker 4: And I was like are you sure anyway? Fifty bucks 834 00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:24,120 Speaker 4: best fiftyfty bucks I've ever spent. And I think they've 835 00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:26,480 Speaker 4: only just gotten rid of it because they're now a 836 00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:28,520 Speaker 4: lot older. Because it turns out this podcast is old, 837 00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:32,120 Speaker 4: but it lived in their playhouse for ages and they 838 00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:34,919 Speaker 4: they were obsessed, and that just barked so much joy 839 00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:37,520 Speaker 4: and the idea that I was giving new life to it. Yeah, 840 00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:40,160 Speaker 4: that's a great little way. I feel like, yes, definitely. 841 00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:40,400 Speaker 1: So. 842 00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:42,759 Speaker 4: Next person said I love gift cards when saving for 843 00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:45,800 Speaker 4: a big purchase. I'm like Jess, I really want a 844 00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:49,000 Speaker 4: kitchen aid, and I love knowing that everybody helped to 845 00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:52,120 Speaker 4: get me a gift I really wanted. Another person said 846 00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:54,960 Speaker 4: I always buy books. You can get something cheap but 847 00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:58,680 Speaker 4: also really meaningful and personal. Cheese on the Money is 848 00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:01,400 Speaker 4: a really good, really personal book for most people. So 849 00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:03,719 Speaker 4: if you're looking for a Christmas gift or property with 850 00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:06,520 Speaker 4: investing with money, yuh, any of them? I actually wrote 851 00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:10,120 Speaker 4: five books. I wrote five. That's crazy. I won't do 852 00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:13,440 Speaker 4: that again. Joke's on you. You'll probably try at some point. Anyway, 853 00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:16,239 Speaker 4: I have two more for you. Next person said, I 854 00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:19,080 Speaker 4: actually love giving restaurant gift cards, as they can be 855 00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:21,600 Speaker 4: really fun and personal, but they're very easy. And then 856 00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:24,600 Speaker 4: last person said, we actually all put in money for 857 00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:28,080 Speaker 4: food for Christmas instead, and then everybody wins and we 858 00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:31,400 Speaker 4: are all well fed, or different ways that people do 859 00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:35,600 Speaker 4: it to start the conversation with your family, Like it 860 00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:38,279 Speaker 4: doesn't just happen, Like it's not something that you go, 861 00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:40,480 Speaker 4: oh my god, all of a sudden, we're doing Homeman 862 00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:42,759 Speaker 4: hammam or secondhand, like you have to kind of be 863 00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:45,040 Speaker 4: like in group chat, drop a few hints like hey, 864 00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:47,000 Speaker 4: I was listening to a pod and this seemed like 865 00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:49,440 Speaker 4: a really good way for us all to just like 866 00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:52,239 Speaker 4: make Christmas a lot less stressful. So I would lead 867 00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:54,480 Speaker 4: with that as opposed to like, oh, I want to 868 00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:56,759 Speaker 4: make Christmas cheaper because some people don't take it the 869 00:38:56,800 --> 00:38:59,040 Speaker 4: same way that you or I would like, Oh, it's 870 00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:01,000 Speaker 4: a lot less stressful for only buying one gift and 871 00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:03,200 Speaker 4: then someone gets a present that's worth a bit more. 872 00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:05,640 Speaker 4: There's more value, more time and energy put into it, 873 00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:09,760 Speaker 4: and what a cool concept. So I think that's probably 874 00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:11,000 Speaker 4: where we should leave it this week. 875 00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:12,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, let's gorgeous. 876 00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:14,600 Speaker 4: Well, we'll see you bright and early on Monday morning 877 00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:16,560 Speaker 4: for a money dary. 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