1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: Jerzy and Amanda gem Nation a. 2 00:00:03,680 --> 00:00:06,840 Speaker 2: Big fan of the former Wallaby turned Federal MP David Pocock. 3 00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:08,720 Speaker 1: He said some. 4 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:12,840 Speaker 2: Interesting things recently in relation to two assaults on women 5 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 2: who are out on running tracks in Canberra and the 6 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 2: police message that told women to stay vigilant I saw 7 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:20,840 Speaker 2: on David's socials on the weekend he uploaded this. 8 00:00:20,840 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 3: This is one for all the blokes out there. I'm interested. 9 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:27,720 Speaker 3: When you're running, what are you thinking about? Are listening 10 00:00:27,720 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 3: out trying to work out what birds calling? Or are 11 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 3: you a fellow Queenslander filthy about state of origin? I 12 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:37,600 Speaker 3: don't know. Are you thinking about the Roman Empire? Maybe 13 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 3: one of the things I think you're probably not thinking 14 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:44,920 Speaker 3: about is getting sexually assaulted? And I think it's such 15 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 3: bullshit that we live in a country where so many 16 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 3: women are worried about that are thinking about that when 17 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 3: they're out for a run. 18 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:54,720 Speaker 1: We've got to do better. 19 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 3: I don't know how we solve this, but I know 20 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 3: as men, one thing we can do is actually talk 21 00:00:58,760 --> 00:01:00,200 Speaker 3: to our mates about it. 22 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:01,960 Speaker 1: True. David joins us right now. 23 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 4: Hi, David, Morning Jones and Amanda, what was it. 24 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:07,760 Speaker 2: About this police message that particularly got under your skin? 25 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:12,119 Speaker 4: My wife and I've talked about the just the difference 26 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:16,039 Speaker 4: in our experience, you know, over the years, where I'm 27 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 4: very happy to duck out at night for a run, 28 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:24,280 Speaker 4: not something most women feel comfortable doing. And then we've, 29 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:26,480 Speaker 4: as you said, we've had two women in two months 30 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:29,480 Speaker 4: here in Canberra assaulted whilst up running. And I've got 31 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:31,839 Speaker 4: a few women in my office who love, love running. 32 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 4: And yeah, we were talking about in the office and 33 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:37,800 Speaker 4: how do you actually try and get more men into 34 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 4: this conversation. It's often talked about as a women's issue, 35 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:43,640 Speaker 4: but it can't be left to women to solve This 36 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:45,440 Speaker 4: requires all of us. And you know, I think when 37 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 4: something requires cultural change, that us to start with conversations 38 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 4: and drawing more people into it. 39 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 1: And even chatting about it. I see it pretty every morning. 40 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:54,920 Speaker 5: She has run when I'm leaving for work at four 41 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 5: in the morning, and I always feel, are you all right? 42 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:00,200 Speaker 1: I always worry about her safe. 43 00:02:02,080 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, I think that's that's the reality. And 44 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 4: I think a lot of blokes just don't. We just 45 00:02:08,520 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 4: we just haven't had to think like that. We're not 46 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 4: thinking about or how to hold my keys when I'm 47 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:15,760 Speaker 4: walking to my car at night. And you know, I 48 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 4: think if we want to change that, that is going 49 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:20,919 Speaker 4: to take both cultural change and then some practical measures. 50 00:02:21,840 --> 00:02:24,280 Speaker 4: You say, here in camera, people love running around the lake. 51 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 4: It's really poorly lit. That's something that a lot of 52 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 4: women have been saying for a while. Now, put some 53 00:02:29,320 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 4: decent lighting up so we can we can actually not 54 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 4: run in the dark. So I think, yeah, we can 55 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 4: both work on the cultural change side of things as 56 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:39,000 Speaker 4: well as practical measures. And then you know, law enforcement 57 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 4: saying after something like this while women just stay vigilant. 58 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:45,360 Speaker 4: You can see why they're saying it, but it does 59 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 4: come off as not the right message to be sending. 60 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:53,400 Speaker 2: You said, men talk to your mate. We all think 61 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:56,359 Speaker 2: that men who have friends think that their mates would 62 00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 2: never be like this. And yet I saw a terrible statistic. 63 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 2: This is from the AUSTRALIANSHU to family studies. They estimate 64 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 2: that more than one in three Australian men have used 65 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:06,239 Speaker 2: intimate partner violence in their lifetime. And these are the 66 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:08,359 Speaker 2: ones who are admitting to it. That's horrifying. 67 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 4: It is. It's a very sobering statistic, and you know, 68 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 4: I think that is the reality of this situation when 69 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 4: it comes to sexual violence, family and domestic violence. Is 70 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 4: that we as a society, we've liked to paint these 71 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 4: people as monsters. But these are our mates, you know, 72 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 4: these are people that we know who yeah, just just 73 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 4: have a really warped sense of what it is to 74 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 4: be a man. And you know, I think one of 75 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 4: the things our society and we talk a lot about 76 00:03:45,800 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 4: toxic masculinity. I think one of the things we need 77 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 4: to be talking more about is what is positive masculinity? 78 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 4: Where are the positive male role models? What does it 79 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 4: actually mean to be a man and to use your 80 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 4: strength to actually protect people, not to use it to 81 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 4: abuse your partner. So yeah, I think we clearly have 82 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 4: a long way to go as a as a society, 83 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 4: but I think we all have a have a role 84 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 4: to play well. 85 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 5: And we're talking about it and that's a big part 86 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:18,360 Speaker 5: of it as well. And it's it's pause for thought 87 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 5: and when you post stuff like that, you actually think 88 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:21,160 Speaker 5: about it. 89 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:21,720 Speaker 1: Are right? 90 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:23,599 Speaker 5: And someone listening to this might think, you know what, 91 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 5: if I see a girl walking down the raiding yoga pants, 92 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:27,240 Speaker 5: I'm not gonna yell at it or I'm just I'm 93 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:27,919 Speaker 5: not going to do anything. 94 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:29,479 Speaker 1: I'm just going to live my life. 95 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:32,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, and talk to your mate. 96 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:35,479 Speaker 1: Well, David, it's great to talk to you. What's going 97 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:36,360 Speaker 1: on in Parliament today? 98 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 5: Anything anything going over the table that where you can 99 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 5: break for us Jones. 100 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 4: The parliament's not sitting to end of July. The new 101 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 4: labor government have given themselves a very sweet long holiday 102 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:51,160 Speaker 4: before we get back into It's a little bit it's 103 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 4: a little bit frustrating given the challenges we're facing as 104 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:56,839 Speaker 4: a country. But you know, that's that's the reality until July. 105 00:04:57,000 --> 00:04:58,360 Speaker 1: That's like Scomo times. 106 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:04,119 Speaker 5: You's having a break where here we're working. 107 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 1: David's working. You're working, you're working on your reak, you're 108 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 1: out there running. 109 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:13,760 Speaker 4: Well, well, yeah, the work doesn't stop, but you Parliament 110 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 4: won't sit for a while. 111 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:16,800 Speaker 2: But David, thank you. I'd like to get you back 112 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:18,599 Speaker 2: on to talk about all the stuff you say about 113 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 2: our gas reserves and where we are with that. 114 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:24,720 Speaker 1: That's about that, some hot air about that. 115 00:05:25,160 --> 00:05:27,880 Speaker 4: Thanks you, thank you, cheers, thank you for co