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Speaker 1: And Amanda gam.

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Speaker 2: Nation Save the date?

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Speaker 1: Do they pass the pub test? Well, your daughter's getting

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Speaker 1: married next year, so you said, this is a big

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Speaker 1: discussion wide as possible.

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Speaker 2: So there's nobody there.

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Speaker 1: And what does your daughter say when you talk like this? Interesting?

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Speaker 1: Because save the date? Did you say it goes out

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Speaker 1: like eight months before the wedding?

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Speaker 2: Apparently? Yeah, eight to twelve months before the wedding.

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Speaker 1: Wow. One of our executive producers was saying, how triggering

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Speaker 1: she finds that because she doesn't have a diary for

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Speaker 1: next year. It locks you in, whether you like it

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Speaker 1: or not. So no excuse can be made. Well, we

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Speaker 1: gave you the date, et cetera, et cetera. The pressure

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Speaker 1: it puts on you. You cannot not attend if you've

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Speaker 1: known this has been in the works for a year,

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Speaker 1: even if it's an event, you may be deciding whether

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Speaker 1: you'll go to and make that decision when the invitation

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Speaker 1: comes six to eight weeks before the wedding. But a

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Speaker 1: lot of people are saying it's great, you know, save

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Speaker 1: the date. If I've got to travel, I've got whatever.

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Speaker 1: I like to know what I'm doing in a year

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Speaker 1: in advance. It's like people the book concert gets two

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Speaker 1: years in advance. Yeah, that's my head.

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Speaker 2: Who's booking tickets to either like elderly performers or oasis.

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Speaker 1: Interesting, isn't it? So how do you feel about this

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Speaker 1: save the date? Is it past the pub test?

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Speaker 3: Oh? I really think that saving the dates are perfect

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Speaker 3: opportunity for people to organize their lives.

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Speaker 2: Saving the date. I'm not too sure about these. I

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Speaker 2: get these all the time, and all they do is

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Speaker 2: just fill up the inbox, fill up my notifications. No,

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Speaker 2: I don't need these things anymore. That do not pass

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Speaker 2: the pub test.

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Speaker 4: Absolutely passes the pub test. My diary is busy, so

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Speaker 4: I like to know well in advance what's going on.

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Speaker 2: But then on the.

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Speaker 4: Other side, I save the date doesn't necessarily lock you in,

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Speaker 4: so you can still say no, it's just letting you

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Speaker 4: know you know when it is well.

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Speaker 3: I don't think it passes the pub pests. It should

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Speaker 3: be sent closer to the date because if there's a

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Speaker 3: falling out in the family and I had the Save

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Speaker 3: the date sitting on my fridge.

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Speaker 2: Double edged sword locks in the guests, but it can

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Speaker 2: also lock in the bride groom.

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Speaker 3: Who may have a change of mine. They might have

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Speaker 3: to downside.

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Speaker 4: Circumstances could change finances.

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Speaker 2: It's a double exhoulder.

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Speaker 3: It's important date to sat girl.

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Speaker 1: And I remember Jones's Jonesy's son got married a little

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Speaker 1: while ago, and I don't remember Jonesy w engine about that?

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Speaker 2: Is that because he wasn't paying?

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Speaker 1: Oh paid for that as well?

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Speaker 3: Why?

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Speaker 1: No, I don't think you did.

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Speaker 2: It was money. There was money.

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Speaker 1: I paid, sure, I paid. No, I paid not for

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Speaker 1: the whole wedding, paid your drinks pill alone.

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Speaker 2: And what you did to the dance floor