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Speaker 1: on CADA. Quick question all the dating things to be
Speaker 1: fearful of. Why aren't we more scared of theft every day?
Speaker 1: It's ick, red flag heartbreak? What about theft? You're not
Speaker 1: thinking about it enough? You let people into your home,
Speaker 1: You're going into their home. Did you just think about
Speaker 1: this or is this like triggered by something? Oh was
Speaker 1: triggered by something, not a personal experience. A TikTok I
Speaker 1: was just saying, working through something, I'm getting to it, Okay,
Speaker 1: let me cook. Anyway, I did see this girl on TikTok.
Speaker 1: I didn't really follow the story closely because I'm trying
Speaker 1: to mind my business for the sake of my cortosol levels.
Speaker 1: But what I did gather, because it's like a six
Speaker 1: part story and it had extra bits and pieces, is
Speaker 1: that a girl went on a date with a guy
Speaker 1: that she matched with on a dating app. But the
Speaker 1: reason why it came to be is that they match
Speaker 1: with each other. They didn't talk, maybe had a few
Speaker 1: pleasantries exchanged, but they walked past each other on the
Speaker 1: street and he clocked her and said Oh my god, Hey, like,
Speaker 1: we've matched on an app. We should hang out. So
Speaker 1: they agreed to hang out. It's like a meet cute.
Speaker 1: Obviously a lot of the details I've missed, but from
Speaker 1: what I can gather, they matched. They went on a date.
Speaker 1: He came over to her house, and the morning after
Speaker 1: she realized that he had stolen her shoes. Not just
Speaker 1: any shoes, Mason Margella tabbies, those shoes that kind of
Speaker 1: look like horse knuckle feet or I am you know,
Speaker 1: fluctuational Japanese tabbies, however you want to call them. Now,
Speaker 1: she goes on this rampage to try and get these
Speaker 1: shoes back. She's telling the full story. She's dropped his face,
Speaker 1: dropped a video of what he looks like, details that
Speaker 1: he gave her in exchange to her. And as she's
Speaker 1: recalling the red flags and trying to backtrack how it
Speaker 1: possibly happened and at what time, she realized that, of
Speaker 1: course he took the shoes in the night. But when
Speaker 1: she tried to text him to say hey, like did
Speaker 1: you steal my things? She didn't have his number anymore.
Speaker 1: She was like, how is it possible that I don't
Speaker 1: have your number? Like, when did you get my phone?
Speaker 1: She remembers him insisting that he wanted to share a
Speaker 1: playlist with her, but he wanted to make it on
Speaker 1: her phone or share it from her phone straight away.
Speaker 1: So while he was there pretending to save a playlist,
Speaker 1: he deleted his number off her phone. Turns out the
Speaker 1: whole time he had stolen the shoes for his girlfriend.
Speaker 1: What dream guy, Oh, that's amazing. The layers basically, this
Speaker 1: goes viral. It's blowing up. He gets in touch with
Speaker 1: her naturally because obvious reasons, and so she's gone to
Speaker 1: meet him, and a friend of hers is filming the interaction.
Speaker 1: Why is he smiling and looking so smug? So smug?
Speaker 1: He's like he he he. What was she mad? I mean,
Speaker 1: I think the cloud kind of wore off the anger
Speaker 1: for her, Like she was going viral. People kind of
Speaker 1: knew her by face. They were rooting for her, they
Speaker 1: were like abusing him. It was amazing. It was a
Speaker 1: cultural moment, if anything, but it led me to the
Speaker 1: point I don't think enough of us are scared about
Speaker 1: dating theft. We're not assuming that when we go to
Speaker 1: someone's house, when they come back to ours, that something
Speaker 1: could go missing, and I think we should be. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I haven't even thought of that, right, And people snoop. Yeah,
Speaker 1: go to a bathroom, snoop, See what's going on there.
Speaker 1: You might look at a bedside table, see what's popping off?
Speaker 1: This one's looked and taken something. Would you look in
Speaker 1: a person's like bedside table if it was open, if
Speaker 1: it was a jar, you know I would pick in.
Speaker 1: Yet I'm more like I'm looking at a bedside table top.
Speaker 1: I do that a lot. Oh, I mean that's like
Speaker 1: you're inviting. What you put on there is quite intentional.
Speaker 1: Someone say, oh you think, yeah, I've got my little
Speaker 1: lineese lip bomb. What are you intentionally trying to add?
Speaker 1: The lewish moisture, cool, calm and collected nice, some other
Speaker 1: things inside the door. They're not for a sleeper. Okay.
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