WEBVTT - MINI: Britt & Laura's TOP Flirting Tips For Singles

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<v Speaker 1>This one is for anybody out there who is single.

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<v Speaker 1>This is going to be a little hot tip for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Something that I wish i'd known back in the time

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<v Speaker 1>when I was out there flirting and trying to date.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, not all heroes were capes. I'm just here to

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<v Speaker 2>save the day everyone.

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<v Speaker 1>I would say that I am a particularly bad flirt,

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<v Speaker 1>Like the idea of flirting makes me feel uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't often agree with you, but I will hear here.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you? What about me makes you think that I

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<v Speaker 1>can't flirt everything? Oh, to be fair, we were just

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<v Speaker 1>talking about this. It is shocking to me, genuinely shocking

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<v Speaker 1>that I managed to win the Bachelor, because like, when

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<v Speaker 1>it comes to wooing a guy or flirting, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think that I have a sexual bone in my body,

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<v Speaker 1>Like literally, it's non existent.

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<v Speaker 2>That's more the manipulation that you used to get.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's what my husband still says after eight years together.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm joking. I don't know. I don't want it to

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<v Speaker 2>come across the wrong way like I'm bullying you.

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<v Speaker 1>You are, but that's okay.

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<v Speaker 2>No, you don't scream flirty, you just don't. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know what it is Okay, but while you get by

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<v Speaker 2>on being super good looking.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not even true. But you can keep on and

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<v Speaker 1>complimenting me, It's fine. Look, the reason I want to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about this is because I think there is a

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<v Speaker 1>very fine line between being a good flirt and being

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<v Speaker 1>a creep. Like that line is thin, and you don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what side you sit on until you hear that

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<v Speaker 1>someone's talking about you behind your back.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, And a lot of it comes down to eye contact.

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<v Speaker 1>Now we all know the eye contact is very important,

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<v Speaker 1>but how much is too much? How do you know

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<v Speaker 1>what is the right amount of eye contact to hold

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<v Speaker 1>with someone who you think could be, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a hot and potential partner. So there's a relationship expert

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<v Speaker 1>who's come out. Her name is Luanne Ward, and she

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<v Speaker 1>has said that there is an eye contact rule. It

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<v Speaker 1>is called the at twenty eye contact rule. The amount

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<v Speaker 1>of eye contact like as in like maintaining physical eye

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<v Speaker 1>contact with someone that you should hold is only twenty percent.

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<v Speaker 1>What you should be doing is going around the golden triangle.

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<v Speaker 1>So you should be like moving your eye contact from

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<v Speaker 1>the eyes to the mouth, to the nose, to the

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<v Speaker 1>eyes to the general to the mouth to how low

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<v Speaker 1>down is that triangleg and that's when you know you've

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<v Speaker 1>reached creep stata. No, but like it's the moving of

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<v Speaker 1>the eyes around that creates a sense of confusion, not

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<v Speaker 1>confusion I was gonna say, of like suspense producer Grace

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<v Speaker 1>is looking at me like I've lost the blow in

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<v Speaker 1>the room. No, but it's meant to like help you

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<v Speaker 1>create a sense of like lust rather than coming across

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<v Speaker 1>as too intense or two for long.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, okay, hear me out. I am basically a relationship

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<v Speaker 2>expert without the actual qualification. What I will say is

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think you should be looking all over the

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<v Speaker 2>face because when you look at the forehead it makes

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<v Speaker 2>people feel awkward, like they've got something on their face.

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<v Speaker 1>That is, like I said, eyes nose mouth, eyes nose mouth.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you literally said all over the face. But I

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<v Speaker 2>think when you look above the eyes, it's weird. It

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<v Speaker 2>makes them uncomfortable, like they've gotten something on their face.

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<v Speaker 1>What if I look at above your eyes, I do now.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like I got saying on my head. Yeah

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<v Speaker 2>what I What I think the best thing to do

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<v Speaker 2>is is just a really subtle glance down to live

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<v Speaker 2>like that, that was hot. Admit it. I just did

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<v Speaker 2>to you, did you? Everyone in the car You're they

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<v Speaker 2>felt that.

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<v Speaker 1>They felt it. They felt the tone shift in your voice.

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<v Speaker 1>You always make things weird.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like the subtle smiles and then the look away.

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<v Speaker 2>So like when you see someone produce a gray stuff,

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<v Speaker 2>raising your eyebrows at me and like blow your kisses

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<v Speaker 2>across the room. But that was sort of hot too.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's the like, for example, you might not

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<v Speaker 2>be in conversation with someone, but this is like my

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<v Speaker 2>main tip for flirting. Look across the room at them

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<v Speaker 2>where it's out of your way, like you might even

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<v Speaker 2>have to look over your shoulder at them, catch their

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<v Speaker 2>eye for a minute, little smirk, look away, ten minutes later,

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<v Speaker 2>little look back. That's it. That's enough, two second eye contact.

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<v Speaker 2>That is enough for them to be like hold the line.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's the question, right. That's always to me is

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<v Speaker 1>how long does the eye contact need to be held

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<v Speaker 1>from across the room, because that's when it can err

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<v Speaker 1>into Okay, that's too long. That person's just staring at me.

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<v Speaker 1>You not a minute.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just not like a minute. Steering competition across the room,

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<v Speaker 2>like who can blink first?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what. I also think though, fifty percent, yeah, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>it might be technique of like how you're looking at

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<v Speaker 1>someone's eyes whatever. The other fifty percent is whether or

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<v Speaker 1>not you're attracted to the person, because if they're hot

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<v Speaker 1>and they're staring at you from across the room, it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't matter. If they're standing there staring you for ten minutes,

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<v Speaker 1>you'd be like, so, I got it, not creepy. But

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<v Speaker 1>if there was someone who you're not attracted to at all,

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<v Speaker 1>then that's when I think it ers into creepy territory,

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<v Speaker 1>which is totally unfair, but it does show that we're

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<v Speaker 1>very superficial beings.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, I wouldn't add anything to that. I think that

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<v Speaker 2>was a perfect wrap off of how to flirt.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you well done, Bruce Luan everybody. If you want

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<v Speaker 1>any more great tips like that, you can go to

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<v Speaker 1>Britney's Instagram page Britty Underscore Hockey.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, Goldie Triangle. I'm pretty sure that means something else

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<v Speaker 2>in another country.

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<v Speaker 1>It does, It really does.