Speaker 1: This one is for anybody out there who is single.
Speaker 1: This is going to be a little hot tip for you.
Speaker 1: Something that I wish i'd known back in the time
Speaker 1: when I was out there flirting and trying to date.
Speaker 2: Well, not all heroes were capes. I'm just here to
Speaker 2: save the day everyone.
Speaker 1: I would say that I am a particularly bad flirt,
Speaker 1: Like the idea of flirting makes me feel uncomfortable.
Speaker 2: I don't often agree with you, but I will hear here.
Speaker 1: Thank you? What about me makes you think that I
Speaker 1: can't flirt everything? Oh, to be fair, we were just
Speaker 1: talking about this. It is shocking to me, genuinely shocking
Speaker 1: that I managed to win the Bachelor, because like, when
Speaker 1: it comes to wooing a guy or flirting, I don't
Speaker 1: think that I have a sexual bone in my body,
Speaker 1: Like literally, it's non existent.
Speaker 2: That's more the manipulation that you used to get.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what my husband still says after eight years together.
Speaker 2: I'm joking. I don't know. I don't want it to
Speaker 2: come across the wrong way like I'm bullying you.
Speaker 1: You are, but that's okay.
Speaker 2: No, you don't scream flirty, you just don't. I don't
Speaker 2: know what it is Okay, but while you get by
Speaker 2: on being super good looking.
Speaker 1: That's not even true. But you can keep on and
Speaker 1: complimenting me, It's fine. Look, the reason I want to
Speaker 1: talk about this is because I think there is a
Speaker 1: very fine line between being a good flirt and being
Speaker 1: a creep. Like that line is thin, and you don't
Speaker 1: know what side you sit on until you hear that
Speaker 1: someone's talking about you behind your back.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Right, And a lot of it comes down to eye contact.
Speaker 1: Now we all know the eye contact is very important,
Speaker 1: but how much is too much? How do you know
Speaker 1: what is the right amount of eye contact to hold
Speaker 1: with someone who you think could be, like, you know,
Speaker 1: a hot and potential partner. So there's a relationship expert
Speaker 1: who's come out. Her name is Luanne Ward, and she
Speaker 1: has said that there is an eye contact rule. It
Speaker 1: is called the at twenty eye contact rule. The amount
Speaker 1: of eye contact like as in like maintaining physical eye
Speaker 1: contact with someone that you should hold is only twenty percent.
Speaker 1: What you should be doing is going around the golden triangle.
Speaker 1: So you should be like moving your eye contact from
Speaker 1: the eyes to the mouth, to the nose, to the
Speaker 1: eyes to the general to the mouth to how low
Speaker 1: down is that triangleg and that's when you know you've
Speaker 1: reached creep stata. No, but like it's the moving of
Speaker 1: the eyes around that creates a sense of confusion, not
Speaker 1: confusion I was gonna say, of like suspense producer Grace
Speaker 1: is looking at me like I've lost the blow in
Speaker 1: the room. No, but it's meant to like help you
Speaker 1: create a sense of like lust rather than coming across
Speaker 1: as too intense or two for long.
Speaker 2: Well, okay, hear me out. I am basically a relationship
Speaker 2: expert without the actual qualification. What I will say is
Speaker 2: I don't think you should be looking all over the
Speaker 2: face because when you look at the forehead it makes
Speaker 2: people feel awkward, like they've got something on their face.
Speaker 1: That is, like I said, eyes nose mouth, eyes nose mouth.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you literally said all over the face. But I
Speaker 2: think when you look above the eyes, it's weird. It
Speaker 2: makes them uncomfortable, like they've gotten something on their face.
Speaker 1: What if I look at above your eyes, I do now.
Speaker 2: I feel like I got saying on my head. Yeah
Speaker 2: what I What I think the best thing to do
Speaker 2: is is just a really subtle glance down to live
Speaker 2: like that, that was hot. Admit it. I just did
Speaker 2: to you, did you? Everyone in the car You're they
Speaker 2: felt that.
Speaker 1: They felt it. They felt the tone shift in your voice.
Speaker 1: You always make things weird.
Speaker 2: It's like the subtle smiles and then the look away.
Speaker 2: So like when you see someone produce a gray stuff,
Speaker 2: raising your eyebrows at me and like blow your kisses
Speaker 2: across the room. But that was sort of hot too.
Speaker 2: I think it's the like, for example, you might not
Speaker 2: be in conversation with someone, but this is like my
Speaker 2: main tip for flirting. Look across the room at them
Speaker 2: where it's out of your way, like you might even
Speaker 2: have to look over your shoulder at them, catch their
Speaker 2: eye for a minute, little smirk, look away, ten minutes later,
Speaker 2: little look back. That's it. That's enough, two second eye contact.
Speaker 2: That is enough for them to be like hold the line.
Speaker 1: But that's the question, right. That's always to me is
Speaker 1: how long does the eye contact need to be held
Speaker 1: from across the room, because that's when it can err
Speaker 1: into Okay, that's too long. That person's just staring at me.
Speaker 1: You not a minute.
Speaker 2: It's just not like a minute. Steering competition across the room,
Speaker 2: like who can blink first?
Speaker 1: You know what. I also think though, fifty percent, yeah, sure,
Speaker 1: it might be technique of like how you're looking at
Speaker 1: someone's eyes whatever. The other fifty percent is whether or
Speaker 1: not you're attracted to the person, because if they're hot
Speaker 1: and they're staring at you from across the room, it
Speaker 1: doesn't matter. If they're standing there staring you for ten minutes,
Speaker 1: you'd be like, so, I got it, not creepy. But
Speaker 1: if there was someone who you're not attracted to at all,
Speaker 1: then that's when I think it ers into creepy territory,
Speaker 1: which is totally unfair, but it does show that we're
Speaker 1: very superficial beings.
Speaker 2: Absolutely, I wouldn't add anything to that. I think that
Speaker 2: was a perfect wrap off of how to flirt.
Speaker 1: Thank you well done, Bruce Luan everybody. If you want
Speaker 1: any more great tips like that, you can go to
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Speaker 2: Sorry, Goldie Triangle. I'm pretty sure that means something else
Speaker 2: in another country.
Speaker 1: It does, It really does.