WEBVTT - ATTRACTION PART 2 - Is it a "grower" or a "shower"?! 0:00:16.920 --> 0:00:20.239 If this is storing me bus, you're dead. Hi, guys, 0:00:20.280 --> 0:00:23.919 and well here back to another episode of Life Uncut. 0:00:24.160 --> 0:00:26.720 My name is Laura, my name is Brittany, and I 0:00:26.800 --> 0:00:28.400 know what you're about to do to me. I can 0:00:28.480 --> 0:00:30.800 see the look in your eye. You're about to throw 0:00:30.800 --> 0:00:33.280 me under the bus in some capacity. I'm just trying 0:00:33.320 --> 0:00:34.879 to work out which way. I think it's got to 0:00:34.880 --> 0:00:36.800 do with the Daily Mail headline. You guys know that 0:00:36.840 --> 0:00:39.480 we love the Daily Mail here and usually, okay, usually 0:00:39.520 --> 0:00:42.600 it's me. Usually I am the butt of the articles, 0:00:42.640 --> 0:00:45.360 the literal butt, so many puns intended, like they always 0:00:45.360 --> 0:00:47.199 seem to want to talk about my butt. Maybe it's 0:00:47.240 --> 0:00:49.159 because I say things like pinky and the stinky on 0:00:49.159 --> 0:00:52.400 this podcast one hundred percent wide. They don't just make 0:00:52.440 --> 0:00:54.920 it up. No, that's exactly the problem. The problem is 0:00:55.120 --> 0:00:57.240 that they do make it up. They take things entirely 0:00:57.280 --> 0:00:59.959 out of context and create brand new articles about it 0:01:00.080 --> 0:01:02.720 which have nothing to do with what we originally spoke about. However, 0:01:02.760 --> 0:01:05.240 this one has everything to do with what Britney spoke about. 0:01:05.440 --> 0:01:08.320 This is the headline from today's news. Talk about too 0:01:08.440 --> 0:01:13.080 much information TMI. Brittany Hockley thought tennis pro boyfriend Jordan 0:01:13.120 --> 0:01:16.200 Thompson would just be a summer shag, as he complains 0:01:16.240 --> 0:01:20.440 about her stinky butt in a very candid chat. Fucky, 0:01:21.120 --> 0:01:24.759 fuck you, deadly mate, how stinky is your butt? I mean, 0:01:24.800 --> 0:01:26.560 I have been in this house when it's been a 0:01:26.560 --> 0:01:29.800 bit stinky. We're not gonna talk about it, but I'm 0:01:29.800 --> 0:01:32.160 gonna talk about what just happened in my bathroom. Laura Burn, 0:01:33.800 --> 0:01:35.720 you know that you're really close friends with someone when 0:01:35.760 --> 0:01:37.520 it's okay to just go to their house and do 0:01:37.560 --> 0:01:41.840 a poop. You destroyed my toilet, like you just destroyed 0:01:41.880 --> 0:01:45.360 it and I had to close the doors I could 0:01:45.480 --> 0:01:50.200 sanction off. Okay, the headline is so cooked, so cooked. 0:01:50.240 --> 0:01:52.240 First of all, okay, the first half, let's break this down, 0:01:52.440 --> 0:01:55.640 the fairlouse. Let's do a nuance dissection of Britney's stinky 0:01:55.680 --> 0:01:57.080 butt article. The first half. 0:01:57.120 --> 0:02:00.280 Brittany thought Jordan Thompson was gonna be a summer shagure 0:02:00.480 --> 0:02:02.360 so much truth to that. I did not think that 0:02:02.400 --> 0:02:05.560 it'd be a relationship seven year difference athlete that lives overseas. 0:02:05.640 --> 0:02:08.160 I was like, cool, he's young, he's cute, he's hot, 0:02:08.280 --> 0:02:09.160 he's here for this summer. 0:02:09.280 --> 0:02:11.840 Let's see how that goes Hot boy summer, hot girl summer, 0:02:11.960 --> 0:02:15.440 hot vaxed waxed girl summer. There is nothing wrong with 0:02:15.560 --> 0:02:16.560 that part of the article. 0:02:16.560 --> 0:02:18.840 There's nothing wrong with me wanting to have some summer loving, 0:02:18.840 --> 0:02:21.000 because every girl deserves a good summer fling. 0:02:21.320 --> 0:02:23.640 The part that I have a very big problem with 0:02:24.520 --> 0:02:28.560 is them saying in the headline that can you quote 0:02:28.560 --> 0:02:30.240 me again? What was it? Jordan has a problem with 0:02:30.280 --> 0:02:35.040 Britney's stinky butt. H to literal headline is as he 0:02:35.160 --> 0:02:39.080 complains about her stinky butt in very candid chat. 0:02:39.360 --> 0:02:43.200 Okay, Jordan has never complained about my stinky butt. Daily 0:02:43.240 --> 0:02:46.160 Mail take this line. I do not have a stinky butt. 0:02:46.240 --> 0:02:48.600 I shower multiple times a day. Where this is all 0:02:48.639 --> 0:02:52.120 coming from is Jordan joined the podcast for a bonus episode. 0:02:52.120 --> 0:02:54.840 It was myself and Jordan. We answered all of your questions. 0:02:54.880 --> 0:02:56.760 It was last week. If you haven't listened, to go 0:02:56.800 --> 0:02:58.680 back and have a listen. It's a really great chat. 0:02:58.960 --> 0:03:01.720 It's a nice little insight into their relationship. And obviously, 0:03:01.760 --> 0:03:03.679 like you guys, hear so much from me and Matt, 0:03:03.800 --> 0:03:06.400 you know all about deep, dark and dirty secrets. There 0:03:06.400 --> 0:03:10.520 aren't really many dirty secrets dark, but this was like 0:03:10.560 --> 0:03:12.520 a nice little It was just a nice little chat 0:03:12.560 --> 0:03:14.600 with Britt and with Jordan to get to know and 0:03:14.720 --> 0:03:17.040 understand a bit more about their relationship and also the 0:03:17.080 --> 0:03:19.920 dynamics as to how it works, how they met. Part 0:03:19.919 --> 0:03:21.840 of that was what are your nicknames for each other? Now? 0:03:21.880 --> 0:03:24.480 I actually do not know why. Jordan explained it on 0:03:24.480 --> 0:03:26.040 the podcast. I don't even remember it. 0:03:26.080 --> 0:03:28.360 But we just started to call each other stinky for 0:03:28.440 --> 0:03:30.440 no reason, not because we smell, just because we thought 0:03:30.440 --> 0:03:31.079 it was cute. 0:03:31.280 --> 0:03:32.920 This is how we say it to each other because 0:03:32.919 --> 0:03:35.600 we call it all day. He'll text me all day, Hey, stinky, 0:03:35.640 --> 0:03:37.960 how are you? That's it, and I'll say, hey, stink dog, 0:03:38.040 --> 0:03:38.640 Hey stinky. 0:03:38.720 --> 0:03:41.040 We just it's just what we do. And then it 0:03:41.160 --> 0:03:45.000 started and then and then it eventuated to stinky butt. 0:03:45.040 --> 0:03:46.440 Because he calls me everything. 0:03:46.480 --> 0:03:50.880 He calls me cutie butt, sexy butt, weirdy butt, nerdy butt. 0:03:51.000 --> 0:03:52.960 Everything he says, he just puts a butt on the end. 0:03:52.960 --> 0:03:55.760 It's just what he does. So stinky turned into stinky butt. 0:03:56.000 --> 0:03:57.560 I do not have a stinky butt. He did not 0:03:57.640 --> 0:03:59.000 name me this because I had a stinky butt. But 0:03:59.040 --> 0:04:01.840 the Daily Mail, Holy, it is the most twisted, fucked 0:04:01.920 --> 0:04:04.760 up penline. I have seen from them so bloody well done. 0:04:04.920 --> 0:04:07.560 What I like about these your pet names is like 0:04:07.920 --> 0:04:09.880 it could be that you're a stinky butt, as in 0:04:09.920 --> 0:04:12.960 like stinky bottom, or it could be like stinky butt, 0:04:13.520 --> 0:04:16.680 nerdy butt, like there's something else coming question, like if 0:04:16.760 --> 0:04:20.960 maybe you're not stinky, but is it it's two teas, 0:04:21.040 --> 0:04:24.000 it's be double tea okay. But also on this everybody 0:04:24.080 --> 0:04:26.600 has weird pet names, Like I'd love to know from 0:04:26.680 --> 0:04:28.960 you guys, from the listeners, what are them of the 0:04:28.960 --> 0:04:32.080 weirdest if your friends or your family knew the stuff 0:04:32.080 --> 0:04:35.120 that you call each other behind closed doors, what would 0:04:35.160 --> 0:04:38.640 it be? I call Matt honeybee. It was vomit in 0:04:38.640 --> 0:04:40.640 my mouth. I would rather be called stinky butt than 0:04:40.680 --> 0:04:45.280 honey bee. Honey bee. God, they're losers. Okay. Anyway, onto 0:04:45.320 --> 0:04:47.479 some very exciting news. But we're coming in hot and 0:04:47.520 --> 0:04:50.600 on a high today. The reason why we are probably 0:04:50.839 --> 0:04:53.279 sounding a little bit manic is because we have just 0:04:53.400 --> 0:04:55.559 come back from doing Kyle and Jackie O this morning. 0:04:55.600 --> 0:04:58.479 We got to sit in on their radio show to 0:04:58.560 --> 0:05:03.400 announce some really exciting news. Guys, we have our very 0:05:03.480 --> 0:05:08.840 own radio show on KSFM on a Saturday it is insane. Well, 0:05:08.839 --> 0:05:10.719 we don't have it yet, like it's starting next year 0:05:11.120 --> 0:05:14.840 dotted line. They have contracted us. They cannot revoke it now, 0:05:14.920 --> 0:05:16.599 so it's too late for them to go back on it. 0:05:16.600 --> 0:05:18.680 They probably listened to our recording this morning. There are 0:05:18.720 --> 0:05:21.240 a few f bombs that I accidentally dropped. Lucky. There's 0:05:21.279 --> 0:05:26.560 a live beeper. Britt swore live on breakfast radio, not once, 0:05:26.920 --> 0:05:29.919 but twice, and I managed to say anal sex on 0:05:30.040 --> 0:05:32.360 live breakfast radio in the first four minutes. And I'm 0:05:32.360 --> 0:05:34.800 pretty sure after that all went down, the people who 0:05:34.880 --> 0:05:37.400 signed us for this radio show were like, what have 0:05:37.560 --> 0:05:39.800 we done? The big boss messages they're like, hey, that 0:05:39.880 --> 0:05:44.960 was really cute. We'll work on some things. O. No, 0:05:45.080 --> 0:05:47.720 but guys, it's so exciting. So this is actually this 0:05:47.760 --> 0:05:49.640 is a national radio show, so we're going to be 0:05:49.640 --> 0:05:51.599 doing I mean, for those of you who've been listening 0:05:51.680 --> 0:05:54.480 for a little while, we did do a trial almost 0:05:54.480 --> 0:05:56.719 a year ago. Now, it was really late at night. 0:05:56.760 --> 0:05:58.760 They put us on like the midnight shift because they 0:05:58.760 --> 0:06:01.000 were like, these girls cannot be trying just to be 0:06:01.080 --> 0:06:03.599 sure we didn't drop any bombs live on a breakfast show. 0:06:03.680 --> 0:06:06.440 But it turns out that yeah, so it all came 0:06:06.480 --> 0:06:09.360 into fruition. We are starting in January and it will 0:06:09.400 --> 0:06:12.720 be every Saturday morning, a national radio show, so even 0:06:12.720 --> 0:06:15.200 if you were in some far remote corners of Australia, 0:06:15.240 --> 0:06:17.800 you'll still be able to hopefully jump in your car 0:06:18.000 --> 0:06:20.120 or pull out the old radio. I don't know, how 0:06:20.160 --> 0:06:22.960 do people listen to the radio these days? Extreme you idiots. 0:06:23.040 --> 0:06:25.680 You can listen to it on the internet wherever you are. 0:06:25.800 --> 0:06:27.920 If you have internet, we can come to you live 0:06:27.960 --> 0:06:31.240 on a Saturday, except in Western Australia, but everywhere else. 0:06:31.240 --> 0:06:33.720 Oh yeah, sorry, sorry to our Perth guys. They didn't 0:06:33.720 --> 0:06:34.360 want us in Perth. 0:06:34.480 --> 0:06:36.760 But we also it is very signing producer Keisha is 0:06:36.760 --> 0:06:38.720 coming on board. She'll be producing the show as well. 0:06:38.800 --> 0:06:41.080 So it's like our whole little life Uncut team is 0:06:41.120 --> 0:06:43.640 just picking up and going to do radio. But fear not, 0:06:43.880 --> 0:06:46.799 we are still doing the podcast. We're still having the Tuesdays, 0:06:46.839 --> 0:06:49.600 we're still having the Thursdays, we're still doing the bonus episodes. 0:06:49.960 --> 0:06:52.120 Nothing is changing in that sense. But all that's going 0:06:52.160 --> 0:06:54.400 to happen is we're adding in another aspect to this 0:06:54.520 --> 0:06:55.200 radio show and. 0:06:55.120 --> 0:06:57.240 We're just so fucking excited. But anyway, that is coming 0:06:57.320 --> 0:06:58.440 in January, and thank you. 0:06:58.440 --> 0:07:00.920 There's so much love and support coming from you guys, LARNI, 0:07:01.000 --> 0:07:01.960 so thank you so much. 0:07:02.080 --> 0:07:03.680 I guess we should probably tell you about what this 0:07:03.800 --> 0:07:06.200 episode is about. A few weeks ago, you might remember 0:07:06.240 --> 0:07:08.560 that we did part one of Attraction, and when we 0:07:08.600 --> 0:07:11.920 got into dissecting the conversation around attraction, why are we 0:07:11.960 --> 0:07:15.000 attracted to certain people over others? How do we build 0:07:15.000 --> 0:07:18.000 and form connections of attraction? We realized that this was 0:07:18.040 --> 0:07:21.400 actually such a huge area of conversation. There were so 0:07:21.480 --> 0:07:24.320 many parts to attraction and how it works that we 0:07:24.560 --> 0:07:26.280 decided we would have to break it up over two 0:07:26.280 --> 0:07:29.640 separate episodes. So the first episode we touched on things like, 0:07:29.920 --> 0:07:31.920 you know, can you sleep with someone who you are 0:07:32.240 --> 0:07:35.360 sexually attracted to but have no emotional or romantic connections. 0:07:35.360 --> 0:07:37.760 But on this episode, we're going to get into what 0:07:37.920 --> 0:07:40.240 are the different types of attraction and then we're going 0:07:40.280 --> 0:07:42.280 to talk a little bit about gender and how gender 0:07:42.400 --> 0:07:44.960 can impact different types of attraction. So different types of 0:07:45.000 --> 0:07:50.120 sexualities that can impact attraction, things like sapio sexuality, demi sexuality, 0:07:50.400 --> 0:07:53.520 pan sexuality, some of the different types to maybe not 0:07:53.600 --> 0:07:56.559 as commonly spoken about now. One thing that I freaking 0:07:56.680 --> 0:07:58.880 love about this episode is we actually have a listener 0:07:58.880 --> 0:08:00.840 who's come onto this episod So. Their name is Billy. 0:08:00.880 --> 0:08:04.440 Billy is non binary and they also identify as being asexual, 0:08:04.440 --> 0:08:07.680 and it was so incredibly interesting to have somebody from 0:08:07.680 --> 0:08:11.320 our own community to discuss what asexuality is and how 0:08:11.320 --> 0:08:13.840 it impacts their life and also their relationships. 0:08:14.040 --> 0:08:16.560 Yeah, Billy is a Day one listener as well, which 0:08:16.600 --> 0:08:19.600 we absolutely love. But I learned so much just in 0:08:19.640 --> 0:08:21.360 that chat alone, and I'm really excited for you guys 0:08:21.400 --> 0:08:23.720 to hear that later on in the episode. But before 0:08:23.760 --> 0:08:28.280 we get into that, Laura Taylor Swift, she's taken ten 0:08:28.400 --> 0:08:32.559 years to get over her three month relationship with Jake Jillenhall. 0:08:32.840 --> 0:08:35.280 Have you been looking at this kafuffle now? Before I 0:08:35.360 --> 0:08:37.800 like disclaimer, I love Taylor Swift. I wanted to be 0:08:37.800 --> 0:08:38.280 my Bessie. 0:08:38.320 --> 0:08:39.720 I don't have a bad way to say about it, 0:08:39.720 --> 0:08:41.959 but I think this whole thing is insane. 0:08:42.400 --> 0:08:47.040 I am a full closet swifty. I'm swifty, not even closet. 0:08:47.040 --> 0:08:49.000 I'll come out and say it. I'm here, I'm a diehard. 0:08:49.040 --> 0:08:50.880 I've seen her three times in concert. I'm proper with 0:08:50.960 --> 0:08:54.000 you all right, Brittany, just trying to one up here. 0:08:54.120 --> 0:08:56.680 My sister and I we love it so much so 0:08:56.800 --> 0:08:59.120 I think if you guys haven't seen, there's been a 0:08:59.120 --> 0:09:01.920 lot of conversation and in spiraling around the internet and 0:09:01.960 --> 0:09:05.840 the media in regards to Taylor Swift re releasing her album, 0:09:05.880 --> 0:09:08.560 her album from what was a decade ago, named Red. 0:09:08.720 --> 0:09:10.640 It was released on the twenty second of October in 0:09:10.679 --> 0:09:13.560 twenty twelve. And this is the album that was so 0:09:13.800 --> 0:09:16.680 fundamental in I think so many of our twenties, Like 0:09:16.679 --> 0:09:19.120 in my twenties, this was like the album, the cornerstone 0:09:19.120 --> 0:09:21.640 breakup album of my twenties. It was the album that 0:09:21.720 --> 0:09:23.960 had the song like We're never getting back together in it, 0:09:24.000 --> 0:09:26.120 and I think, like for most of us, I'm sure 0:09:26.240 --> 0:09:28.320 there's a good majority of people listening to this who 0:09:28.720 --> 0:09:31.760 danced around their bedroom after a bad breakup to that song. 0:09:31.840 --> 0:09:33.880 I know I certainly did. But then there's also the 0:09:33.920 --> 0:09:35.839 song that's kind of been thrown into the limelight and 0:09:35.880 --> 0:09:38.520 the conversation around Jake Gillenhall is in regards to the 0:09:38.559 --> 0:09:41.839 song all too well, basically the rundown on why Taylor 0:09:41.840 --> 0:09:44.920 Swift is re recording her albums is because a former 0:09:45.000 --> 0:09:47.080 label of hers, so the Big Machine, which was the 0:09:47.320 --> 0:09:50.280 label that had signed her, refused to give her rights 0:09:50.280 --> 0:09:52.680 to her Masters, which she had signed away and without 0:09:52.679 --> 0:09:56.160 her permission, they had on sold her songs, which means 0:09:56.200 --> 0:09:58.880 that she doesn't have agency over the music that she created. 0:09:59.120 --> 0:10:01.920 And to be able to try and regain some of 0:10:01.960 --> 0:10:04.920 that control and regain some of that ownership, she decided 0:10:04.960 --> 0:10:09.480 to completely re release her albums, release them with extra songs, 0:10:09.559 --> 0:10:12.280 unheard content, and one of the big releases was last week. 0:10:12.360 --> 0:10:14.920 The original album only had nine songs on it. The 0:10:15.000 --> 0:10:18.200 new album track has sixteen songs, and it also has 0:10:18.280 --> 0:10:21.200 a ten minute version of the song all Too Well. 0:10:21.280 --> 0:10:24.000 Now All Too Well is the song that everyone thinks 0:10:24.080 --> 0:10:27.160 is about Jake Gillenhall. The controversy here. 0:10:27.120 --> 0:10:30.720 Comes from the fact that this ten minute release, this 0:10:30.760 --> 0:10:32.720 new release that she's done now all Too Well comes 0:10:32.760 --> 0:10:32.959 with it. 0:10:33.200 --> 0:10:35.640 It's a short film. She's put together a short film. 0:10:35.720 --> 0:10:38.200 It's very good. I watch it again this morning, Kape. 0:10:38.240 --> 0:10:39.920 I loved it, like I was really into it. 0:10:40.040 --> 0:10:42.839 The problem comes with she's added in some extra since 0:10:42.880 --> 0:10:46.160 she's added in some extra dialogue into this ten minute song, 0:10:46.200 --> 0:10:48.320 and she's added in. I guess it's a story and 0:10:48.360 --> 0:10:51.680 it's obviously without her saying it, it's obviously her portraying 0:10:51.720 --> 0:10:54.559 the situation as she saw it. Now Jake Gillenhall, I 0:10:54.559 --> 0:10:59.120 don't know if anyone's checked in on Jake, but he's been. 0:11:00.640 --> 0:11:03.319 He's been absolutely. I went onto his Instagram. I don't 0:11:03.320 --> 0:11:04.800 know if you've got to look at his comment section. 0:11:05.040 --> 0:11:07.040 He hasn't posted anything. So you know how people go 0:11:07.120 --> 0:11:10.000 back to, like the last photo that you've posted. It's insanity. 0:11:10.120 --> 0:11:12.080 There are so many people saying, like, you've got one 0:11:12.080 --> 0:11:14.199 week left to return her scarf. Can't believe he's told 0:11:14.200 --> 0:11:17.360 her scarf one week until you're gonna be taken down. 0:11:17.480 --> 0:11:20.080 Like he's been absolutely trolled in the media. What I 0:11:20.080 --> 0:11:23.480 find interesting. So I'm just gonna add a different dynamic 0:11:23.520 --> 0:11:25.880 here and a different view. So I have some people 0:11:25.920 --> 0:11:27.760 in my life that are very, very big Swifties and 0:11:27.760 --> 0:11:28.520 they've gone deep. 0:11:28.600 --> 0:11:30.439 Now there are these, you know, like the deep web, 0:11:30.679 --> 0:11:33.040 but it's usually like the dark swift view where it's 0:11:33.120 --> 0:11:35.800 like to sell firearms illegally. There is a deep web 0:11:35.880 --> 0:11:38.679 that is dedicated to Swifties. There is like these deep 0:11:38.840 --> 0:11:42.319 deep forums that are purely Taylor Swift fans. There is 0:11:42.400 --> 0:11:44.760 a lot of talk about these people and they everything 0:11:44.760 --> 0:11:47.160 that they say ends up coming true. It's like, you know, 0:11:47.200 --> 0:11:49.319 there's sleuths in the Bachelor Forum. It's like that bit 0:11:49.360 --> 0:11:50.160 on steroids. 0:11:50.200 --> 0:11:52.760 And there's a lot of people that are saying this 0:11:52.920 --> 0:11:55.400 whole thing with Jake from the very beginning, that his 0:11:55.559 --> 0:11:56.400 team isn't on it. 0:11:56.400 --> 0:11:58.680 It's a PR stunt. They know all about it. There 0:11:58.800 --> 0:12:01.840 is no way she would have least these lyrics and 0:12:01.920 --> 0:12:04.839 a whole short film dedicated to him without him knowing 0:12:04.880 --> 0:12:07.480 about it. Now they're coming out of the woodwork saying 0:12:07.800 --> 0:12:12.000 apparently this song was written and recorded three months before 0:12:12.040 --> 0:12:14.280 they actually even met, ten years ago. Then all of 0:12:14.320 --> 0:12:17.280 a sudden, all they've only even photographed three times together 0:12:17.320 --> 0:12:18.880 in the three months they were dating. One of the 0:12:18.920 --> 0:12:20.959 times Taylor Swift threw a scarf at one of the 0:12:21.000 --> 0:12:22.920 paps and that's where it all went down. And Taylor 0:12:22.920 --> 0:12:24.560 Swifts has come out before in the past saying, you know, 0:12:24.640 --> 0:12:27.600 like I let the media know the story that I 0:12:27.640 --> 0:12:29.679 want them to know. So there's all this talk that 0:12:29.920 --> 0:12:34.640 maybe such Jake's in on this. When did you become 0:12:34.679 --> 0:12:38.280 a conspiracy theorist? I'm a Taylor Swift conspiracy Did you 0:12:38.880 --> 0:12:41.520 spiral down the conspira like? I like that you came 0:12:41.559 --> 0:12:44.559 with no quotes, you came with no articles that had 0:12:44.800 --> 0:12:46.880 ever said this. You're just like I heard it once 0:12:47.200 --> 0:12:49.320 from a very very reliable source. 0:12:49.440 --> 0:12:52.199 Because also we all know, well, I just don't see 0:12:52.240 --> 0:12:54.280 how else she would do it and she would get 0:12:54.280 --> 0:12:56.600 away with because she knows what's going to happen to him. 0:12:56.640 --> 0:12:58.640 If she does it, he would have to be okay 0:12:58.640 --> 0:12:58.800 with it. 0:12:58.840 --> 0:13:01.440 And I believe that who knows, No one is ever 0:13:01.480 --> 0:13:04.440 going to know what really went down between Taylor and. 0:13:04.440 --> 0:13:07.440 Jake, but the whole world is absolutely living for it. 0:13:07.520 --> 0:13:09.720 But I don't know how Jake is going to come 0:13:09.720 --> 0:13:10.520 out the other side of this. 0:13:10.920 --> 0:13:13.120 Her army is strong. Well, that's why I don't like. 0:13:13.200 --> 0:13:16.560 I mean, look here for the conspiracy theories. I don't 0:13:16.640 --> 0:13:18.720 think that that is true. I think that there's always 0:13:18.800 --> 0:13:20.960 going to be another side to the story where people 0:13:20.960 --> 0:13:23.079 are trying to put two and two together. But one 0:13:23.200 --> 0:13:25.440 Taylor switch has never come out and specifically said that 0:13:25.520 --> 0:13:28.440 this song is about Jake Jillenhall. However, a lot of 0:13:28.480 --> 0:13:31.280 the actions and at the time alluded to this relationship. 0:13:31.280 --> 0:13:32.880 That she had, and it was kind of well known 0:13:32.880 --> 0:13:35.120 in media that back in twenty eleven she had a 0:13:35.160 --> 0:13:38.640 three month relationship with Jake Jillenhall. So I think the 0:13:38.720 --> 0:13:40.440 big thing for me is I read this quote and 0:13:40.440 --> 0:13:42.079 I really felt for her. So when she was asked 0:13:42.120 --> 0:13:45.560 whether the experience of re releasing read because like some 0:13:45.600 --> 0:13:47.520 people are like, well, move on, get over it, She's 0:13:47.559 --> 0:13:50.520 not re releasing this music because she's still hung up 0:13:50.559 --> 0:13:53.319 on Jake Jillenhall. Like the girl has moved on. She's 0:13:53.360 --> 0:13:55.880 in a very good place now. She's re releasing the 0:13:55.960 --> 0:13:58.920 music to have ownership over her creations. That's the whole 0:13:58.920 --> 0:14:02.640 purpose behind the It just so happens that everyone's like, 0:14:02.720 --> 0:14:05.400 oh god, I remember and the Pitchforks come back out. 0:14:05.559 --> 0:14:08.560 But she's written, I was honestly in a really sad 0:14:08.600 --> 0:14:10.840 place because I had actually gone through the stuff that 0:14:10.880 --> 0:14:13.760 I had sung about. But this time, I've got sunglasses on, 0:14:13.880 --> 0:14:16.760 a mehido in hand. It's chill time. It's really nice 0:14:16.800 --> 0:14:18.720 to be able to put this album out and not 0:14:18.800 --> 0:14:21.440 be sad and not be taking breaks in between interviews 0:14:21.440 --> 0:14:23.600 to cry. So for me, I think what she was 0:14:23.640 --> 0:14:26.080 writing about was a reflection of what she was going through. 0:14:26.280 --> 0:14:29.480 Whether or not that was specifically Jake Gillenholl will never know, 0:14:30.080 --> 0:14:32.360 and it is important to not absolutely no one has 0:14:32.400 --> 0:14:34.280 ever come out and confirmed that the song is even 0:14:34.280 --> 0:14:36.320 about Jake. It's just like what the world has taken. 0:14:36.400 --> 0:14:39.120 But I went on Jake's Instagram this morning for a 0:14:39.160 --> 0:14:42.040 quick little sleuth to see what was happening. His average 0:14:42.080 --> 0:14:45.120 comments in his last photos from last month a two thousand, 0:14:45.200 --> 0:14:49.520 two thousand, five hundred his last post since Taylor Swift 0:14:49.520 --> 0:14:52.480 has released this ten minute video forty three thousand, forty 0:14:52.560 --> 0:14:55.040 three thousand so far, and that seemed like what not 0:14:55.080 --> 0:14:56.840 even forty eight hours? 0:14:56.880 --> 0:14:59.400 So the world is going bonkers? Do you know what? 0:14:59.440 --> 0:15:01.320 I think? This is so interesting? So the world is 0:15:01.400 --> 0:15:04.640 quite divided as well. The conversations I've seen online is 0:15:04.640 --> 0:15:06.760 like fifty percent of people are like, I am here 0:15:06.800 --> 0:15:09.240 for this, I'm here for the takedown of Jake Jillenhall. 0:15:09.560 --> 0:15:11.560 The other fifty percent are like, hey, guys, this is 0:15:11.600 --> 0:15:15.000 actually really online bullying now, Like you're bullying someone for 0:15:15.080 --> 0:15:17.320 something that they may or may not have done based 0:15:17.320 --> 0:15:20.280 on your speculation from ten years ago, a relationship that 0:15:20.400 --> 0:15:23.360 was It's also one sided. It's one person's perspective of 0:15:23.360 --> 0:15:25.880 what that relationship was, and it's a relationship that was 0:15:26.000 --> 0:15:29.000 over a decade ago, So does the punishment fit the crime. 0:15:29.560 --> 0:15:31.480 But the big thing about this, and what I think 0:15:31.560 --> 0:15:35.280 is so interesting, is like I actually think Jake Jillenhall 0:15:35.600 --> 0:15:38.880 has become the scapegoat for how we all felt. I 0:15:38.920 --> 0:15:41.520 remember listening to that song back in my twenties and 0:15:41.600 --> 0:15:44.680 like it really moved me because I had been through 0:15:44.680 --> 0:15:46.760 my own bad shit. I had been through my own 0:15:46.840 --> 0:15:50.440 heartbreak and so when you have someone who you can go, oh, 0:15:50.520 --> 0:15:53.120 you did that to her, she felt the way I felt. 0:15:53.320 --> 0:15:56.040 So Jake Gillenhall ends up becoming the target for our 0:15:56.080 --> 0:15:59.440 collective pain, like our collective suffering that we all experience 0:15:59.560 --> 0:16:03.240 now twenties, which was a weird and confusing time. It's 0:16:03.280 --> 0:16:06.240 like that person now has a face again, and it's 0:16:06.320 --> 0:16:08.320 unfortunately for Jake, it's Jake Gillenhall. 0:16:08.480 --> 0:16:10.880 I actually, again, on a serious note, it's easy for 0:16:11.000 --> 0:16:12.280 us to have a laugh about the whole thing, but 0:16:12.320 --> 0:16:13.320 that's absolutely true. 0:16:13.400 --> 0:16:16.120 I actually really feel I loved Taylor, but I really 0:16:16.120 --> 0:16:17.280 feel for Jake right. 0:16:17.160 --> 0:16:21.040 Now because regardless of if this song was him or not, 0:16:21.720 --> 0:16:24.640 the fact that we know like Our facts in this 0:16:24.720 --> 0:16:27.800 situation are that ten years ago two people in the 0:16:27.800 --> 0:16:30.520 public eye dated for three months and it didn't work out. 0:16:30.720 --> 0:16:32.800 Why is the world still up in arms that ten 0:16:32.880 --> 0:16:35.960 years ago a relationship didn't work out because that is dating. Now, 0:16:35.960 --> 0:16:38.280 we don't know specifics what went down in that. And again, Laurie, 0:16:38.280 --> 0:16:40.960 you said it's very one sided. We haven't heard from Jake. 0:16:41.320 --> 0:16:44.040 I highly doubt we will. Maybe we'll get one statement eventually, 0:16:44.040 --> 0:16:46.360 like a one line statement, but I think he's probably 0:16:46.400 --> 0:16:47.600 just gonna ride this out. 0:16:47.760 --> 0:16:49.920 But that's pretty insane that we are now. 0:16:49.720 --> 0:16:53.400 Attacking and online bullying somebody because ten years ago they 0:16:53.400 --> 0:16:55.240 had a three month relationship that didn't work out. 0:16:55.480 --> 0:16:57.000 Yeah, And I just wanted to share with you one 0:16:57.040 --> 0:16:59.680 other thing. This was the Instagram caption that Taylor's Swift 0:16:59.680 --> 0:17:02.880 put up when she re released All Too Well. She said, 0:17:03.040 --> 0:17:05.760 just a friendly reminder that I would never have thought 0:17:05.760 --> 0:17:07.960 it was possible to go back and to remake my 0:17:08.040 --> 0:17:11.280 previous work uncovering lost art and forgotten gems along the 0:17:11.320 --> 0:17:14.439 way if you hadn't emboldened me. Red is about to 0:17:14.440 --> 0:17:17.680 be mine again, but it has always been ours. Tonight 0:17:17.760 --> 0:17:20.600 we begin again read My version is out now, I mean, 0:17:20.640 --> 0:17:22.520 she's so good with words, I just got goosebumps. But 0:17:23.160 --> 0:17:25.800 that's the true essence of this. The reason why people 0:17:25.840 --> 0:17:28.200 are so angry is because of that whole It comes 0:17:28.240 --> 0:17:31.440 back to that whole feeling of like we all identify 0:17:31.640 --> 0:17:35.320 with that heartbreak. We all have been there with all experience. 0:17:35.359 --> 0:17:37.920 Maybe we haven't all had an aged gap relationship where 0:17:37.960 --> 0:17:40.600 that's kind of been the determining factor of the breakdown, 0:17:40.800 --> 0:17:42.240 but I'm sure a lot of us have. I'm sure 0:17:42.240 --> 0:17:43.760 a lot of us have dated guys who have been 0:17:43.800 --> 0:17:46.800 older then it hasn't worked out. We felt insignificant, we 0:17:46.880 --> 0:17:49.760 felt stupid, we felt unloved, And then you listen to 0:17:49.800 --> 0:17:51.679 these albums and you listen to these songs and you're like, 0:17:52.040 --> 0:17:55.760 somebody else, a celebrity, somebody who I idolize, has felt 0:17:55.800 --> 0:17:57.320 the same way that I do. And there's a little 0:17:57.359 --> 0:17:58.600 bit of solace and savior in. 0:17:58.560 --> 0:18:01.080 That somebody that looks like they have everything you could 0:18:01.160 --> 0:18:04.160 possibly want in the whole world still has those feelings. 0:18:04.160 --> 0:18:06.640 And that's why the world loves Taylor Swift because she's relatable. 0:18:06.840 --> 0:18:11.119 She literally sings, speaks acts from the heart, and the 0:18:11.160 --> 0:18:12.920