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Speaker 4: I phrased it wrong. Will not admit this.

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Speaker 4: I'll chose this topic today, ladies, and gentlemen, because this

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Speaker 4: There are a lot of criminals that will not admit

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Speaker 1: And Ronnie's gonna tell you guys, one of them, you

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Speaker 3: You know, as you just said that question, something just

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Speaker 3: So now I see that there's a lot of men

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, tell us about it. Like, what what

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Speaker 1: Guy. Yeah, so what was I talking about?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just like men being soft around their partners, you know,

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Speaker 4: Well, what do you think, because like being being a

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Speaker 4: and you're you're suggesting that maybe it's a bit different.

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Speaker 2: I do think that there's there is there is, Like

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Speaker 2: be soft Emotional support, feeling heard, trust, knowing that they

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Speaker 5: Now, there is a difference.

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Speaker 2: There's a difference between being soft and being mushy bushy,

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Speaker 5: There's a difference, you know, taking.

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Speaker 6: The ass out on the counter when I say, why

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Speaker 2: Stop that, because that's not what I mean when I

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Speaker 2: You're soft spoken. And I think men we also like

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Speaker 2: what do you think about mushie wushies, Joey.

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Speaker 1: I personally don't know nothing about this this sort of.

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Speaker 4: But you know what, we are talking about things that

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Speaker 1: It is definitely have been some criminals and mushy wushies

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Speaker 4: Remember for criminals, a lot of criminals, a lot of

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Speaker 1: We want we want to color up with that.

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Speaker 5: We want to be the small spoon.

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Speaker 1: We want to be the mushy woof with small spoon,

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Speaker 1: the small spoon. Now heard it on Hey where's that from?

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Speaker 5: Slow down?

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Speaker 1: Huh? Bro?

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Speaker 4: No, like I think this is I think it's actually

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Speaker 5: But what do you call it?

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Speaker 2: I think over the years, like you do get the

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Speaker 1: You can't show any chink in your armor.

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Speaker 5: And it's not on purpose.

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Speaker 4: You just built this type of persona to be able

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Speaker 2: Brother, I'm getting motivated, but getting motivated bench person after this,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: That's that's good?

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Speaker 4: What about those what about you got fellas like agitate

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's a character, lad. Yeah, I think

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Speaker 4: What would you say, like two boys who are bit

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Speaker 1: Who liked?

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Speaker 4: I would say, because some girls like that. Some girls

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Speaker 2: I judge a man's I judge a man's dominance and

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Speaker 2: guess what they're You're best made at the gym. They're like,

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Speaker 2: oh you just see no, no brother, Oh good brother.

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Speaker 2: They're the softest two other men, men of their peers.

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Speaker 2: They don't want any trouble. They they don't want any

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Speaker 5: It's it's yeah, it's it's.

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Speaker 2: Soft land, it's weak, lad. I'll be honest with you.

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Speaker 2: That's how I see things. I'll see things like you see.

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Speaker 2: A gentleman is someone that he's able to cater cater

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Speaker 1: Man.

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Speaker 4: To add to this topic, man, what do you what

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Speaker 4: do you guys think about boys in jail? Because I

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Speaker 4: will not admit this, but a lot of them feel

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Speaker 4: that's that's another thing that boys don't want to admit. Well,

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Speaker 4: how how did you feel?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 4: Let's say, I know ya Jay is happily married now,

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Speaker 4: but how about a few years back whenever you would

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Speaker 4: go inside, how was the feeling like with your partner?

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Speaker 2: Bro? So, I feel like when I when I didn't

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Speaker 2: And it's all right, it's all right to be like

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Speaker 2: that when you're young. But you'll find that your missus,

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Speaker 2: once you have a partner that you can solely trust,

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Speaker 2: So now you're not just this person that's wanting to

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Speaker 5: You're now this.

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Speaker 5: Who cares about that chick? You know, just tap and

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Speaker 2: But then when you get older, you get a daughter

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Speaker 3: It's so sad, how like just the way people think is, yes,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I feel like the rap culture I

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Speaker 5: They sell that.

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Speaker 2: They sell that single mail making money, uh, you know,

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Speaker 1: Is that going to set them playhouse.

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Speaker 5: Ladies and gentlemen.

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Speaker 4: We're gonna pay this little We're going to play back

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Speaker 1: We're gonna kick it up for you guys. But here's

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Speaker 4: I did mention that because I never knew that ladies

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Speaker 4: I missed that away.

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Speaker 1: They do.

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Speaker 4: I missed that away. That's like sept Them playhouse. I

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Speaker 5: I don't like to, I'd like to.

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Speaker 2: I have been since the last podcast where I did

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Speaker 2: We have zero arrogance to learn anything, like we were

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Speaker 2: have learned that the traditional cover the way they've done

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Speaker 5: They call him tongue. Ever.

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Speaker 2: That's how that's how the male would ever to the girl.

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Speaker 5: So, and that's what the dolt are started out as.

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Speaker 2: But like most things that come into the Western world,

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Speaker 1: I was just about to.

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Speaker 4: Say, verified the way that he just brought it. And

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Speaker 4: my cousin is so beautiful.

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Speaker 2: My cousin, my cousin's are pretty so my cousin shout

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Speaker 1: I'm assuming they would have messaged you after the video.

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Speaker 2: They are let's just say they weren't esthetic about my attindion.

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Speaker 2: But I love learning from my older cousins. I love

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Speaker 2: so the runs a big Gover group as well. And yeah,

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Speaker 2: like it's there's a lot of variables, you know what

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Speaker 2: I mean. Like you can say GOV is bad, but

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Speaker 2: go to seftin playoffs, which is the same thing, you

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Speaker 2: never liked Gover because of a certain incident that happened

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Speaker 5: It's just ever since then.

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Speaker 2: I couldn't, I couldn't change my mind about it, and

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Speaker 2: I still think that I love Gover the tradition.

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Speaker 4: But it's well, if it is that way that you

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the traditional one. That's that's what it's supposed

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Speaker 4: The guy would come to guy with house pretty much

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Speaker 4: to propose to the daughter. He's ever into the daughter, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: and the daughter would mix.

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Speaker 2: He would yes, she would mix the thing. She would

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Speaker 2: that's trying ever to They would sing songs. But the

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Speaker 2: this is so much better than hiding in the car

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Speaker 2: park and doing something out in the dark. They're coming

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Speaker 2: into this family's lound room and like you're doing it

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Speaker 5: Do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: And then after that, after the cover session is done,

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Speaker 2: goes if it's a yes, and that's it. They they

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Speaker 5: If it's a no, then he's just pick your guitar.

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Speaker 3: So then you'd have to have a good voice. Then, yeah,

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Speaker 3: entre has got to be some good singers. Then I

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Speaker 4: From what I heard, it's like it was supposed to

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Speaker 2: Well, that's that's that's just that's the way I heard.

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Speaker 2: Think Fiji have their own way of cover. I'm sure

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Speaker 2: that some of them they do ceremonies, right, they do

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Speaker 2: ceremonies and think they could be a ceremonial cover kind

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Speaker 2: if you guys want to add on, please feel free

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Speaker 4: Yes, but sorry to take you guys off topic. Let's

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Speaker 4: bring it back to say the things that a man

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Speaker 4: stress the importance of this next segment, which is the

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Speaker 4: fear of being ordinary, and that is what a lot

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Speaker 4: of us, our criminals and probably the rappers curra rappers

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Speaker 1: A lot of them are just scared to add out

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Speaker 4: But we say it like, I'll be honest, right now,

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Speaker 4: I'll see a lot of good rappers right now, good

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that word that you that descriptive word

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Speaker 1: What is you meaning? You?

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Speaker 3: You want to be a part of the general population,

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Speaker 1: In the community.

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Speaker 3: But a lot of criminals in that aspect will kind

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Speaker 3: of look at that as like, fuck, that's ship. You know,

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Speaker 3: I don't want to be a shitcunt, But like.

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Speaker 1: And why is that? Could it be the pie's around them? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Do you think that is one of the most probably

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Speaker 4: the biggest thing that motivates them to stay in the

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just yeah, a sense of that belonging in, just

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Speaker 1: Now grow up and then you start realizing, I can't believe.

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Speaker 4: Exactly I'll tell you what. That could be another big

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Speaker 4: thing that changed me. What I've realized coming out of

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Speaker 4: impress the boys. The day I realized that everyone's everyone's ship,

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Speaker 4: and I don't have to impress these cunts. It's the

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Speaker 4: day I feel I started changing, and I feel like

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Speaker 1: What are you scared of? Who are you trying to impress?

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Speaker 1: Is it worth trying to impress these boys? You know

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Speaker 1: what I mean?

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Speaker 4: Have you have you really sat down and looked back

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Speaker 4: and looked at the people around you. Have you seen

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Speaker 4: how many achievements they got? Are they good fighters? Maybe

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Speaker 4: they sold a lot of drugs, maybe they make money.

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Speaker 4: Is it worth impressing these guys? I watched a video

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Speaker 4: on six nine the other day. It's actually crazy. I've

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Speaker 4: actually become six nine, six nine the wrapper.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So this guy, I don't know if you guys know,

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Speaker 4: but he went inside and his on his old team.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah remember that. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I don't know if it's his whole team.

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Speaker 2: Maybe it's the people that he used to thought was

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you saw the background, like from

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Speaker 1: the stuff that they.

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Speaker 2: Were eternal beef, Yeah, it didn't really seem like there

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Speaker 2: were his boys.

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Speaker 1: Like, don does that justify snitching? Then? You know what? What?

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Speaker 3: I what I did learn like from my criminal pass

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Speaker 3: is that everything comes with being a criminal, doesn't It

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Speaker 3: doesn't matter if you're you know what, a criminal on.

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Speaker 1: This side or this side. Yeah, be prepared to get

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Speaker 1: snitched on.

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Speaker 4: Bro.

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Speaker 2: I'm about to unravel. But before I unravel, I'm getting

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Speaker 2: a bit putched. The other is getting drys. So, ladies

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Speaker 2: and gentlemen, but I've been.

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Speaker 5: Yours.

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Speaker 1: I've been dunking mine.

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Speaker 2: Pready opened yours, Ladies and gentlemen. I've got We've got

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Speaker 2: oxy stred in the building, citrus paradise. We've got zero sugar,

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Speaker 2: zero caffeine. I'm being a bit sensible here. I don't

444
00:19:58,400 --> 00:20:02,080
Speaker 2: want to have too much caffeine. Oh zero caffeine. Yeah

445
00:20:02,119 --> 00:20:02,480
Speaker 2: yeah No.

446
00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:04,400
Speaker 3: On the way, I was smashing it because I didn't

447
00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:05,440
Speaker 3: feel any tingles.

448
00:20:05,560 --> 00:20:07,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's tingles in the mingles.

449
00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:09,600
Speaker 5: Guys.

450
00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:14,320
Speaker 2: Wow, Peach Mango brought to you by Oxy Shed. And

451
00:20:15,760 --> 00:20:17,639
Speaker 2: we've had so many of you reach out to us

452
00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:20,480
Speaker 2: and tell us that you guys have started drinking oxy Shed.

453
00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:23,960
Speaker 2: But I haven't been seeing stories of you guys sharing us. Yeah,

454
00:20:24,080 --> 00:20:27,120
Speaker 2: you guys haven't been showing us the evidence. Yeah, So

455
00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:28,919
Speaker 2: I'm going to go out on a limb hear and

456
00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:31,240
Speaker 2: I think I think we're due four giveaway.

457
00:20:31,760 --> 00:20:32,560
Speaker 5: I think we're due.

458
00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:35,280
Speaker 1: Four a giveaway? Is that what it is for? Want

459
00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:36,600
Speaker 1: to give away for the.

460
00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:40,679
Speaker 2: First for the first five or ten humble start with

461
00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:43,600
Speaker 2: to start with five, and maybe maybe we will go

462
00:20:43,680 --> 00:20:44,000
Speaker 2: to ten.

463
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Speaker 6: Let's go six, Let's go six six. The first six people,

464
00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:51,960
Speaker 6: the first six people to share a video with your

465
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Speaker 6: oxy shed in front of sevent eleven with a slurpy tag,

466
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Speaker 6: bros and cons.

467
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Speaker 1: We will pay id you directly one hundred a U D.

468
00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:03,000
Speaker 4: Now we can't do six the first six for six,

469
00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:06,240
Speaker 4: then the giveaway will finish so quick.

470
00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:06,920
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

471
00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:08,720
Speaker 5: Well, what do you reckon?

472
00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:09,320
Speaker 1: I reckon?

473
00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:14,840
Speaker 4: We'll pick random six, random six. Maybe a day or

474
00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:18,679
Speaker 4: two six, and we do random six. Only said the

475
00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:21,879
Speaker 4: first six because I like things going like that. I

476
00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:25,040
Speaker 4: like I like, I like rewarding. I like rewarding the hustlers.

477
00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:26,200
Speaker 5: I don't.

478
00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:28,320
Speaker 4: I don't like rewarding the people that just sleep and

479
00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:31,280
Speaker 4: they wake up and get a oxy shed one hundred dollars. Yeah,

480
00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:33,280
Speaker 4: that's that's that's why I want everyone to share it.

481
00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:36,359
Speaker 4: You know what, it's lucky everyone everyone can win fair enough,

482
00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:38,600
Speaker 4: fair enough. All right, you guys, I always luck man.

483
00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:41,320
Speaker 4: Sometimes you can maneuver everything. You just gotta you know,

484
00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:43,960
Speaker 4: it's gotta work with what you've got. We're teaching you

485
00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:45,080
Speaker 4: guys how to be hustlers.

486
00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:48,359
Speaker 2: Guys seven eleven have the sugar free watermelon and I

487
00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:51,680
Speaker 2: think sugar free strawberry two sugar free flavors. You guys

488
00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:54,239
Speaker 2: already know we advocate for everything sugar free. That's why

489
00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:55,240
Speaker 2: Ronnie is so handsome.

490
00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:55,720
Speaker 1: Look at him.

491
00:21:55,800 --> 00:22:00,000
Speaker 2: No, no, and so and that's the secret is oxy shed.

492
00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:04,000
Speaker 2: So get your slurpy. It's really hot forty two degrees today. Uh,

493
00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:05,679
Speaker 2: and I think it's gonna get a lot hotter. So

494
00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:08,840
Speaker 2: tag us in a story with your oxy shed and

495
00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:12,439
Speaker 2: with your slurpy. Put it in together, and yeah, we'll

496
00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:14,480
Speaker 2: send you a little New Year's gift about that.

497
00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:17,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's it. Anyways, Back to the young, Back to

498
00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:19,639
Speaker 1: the young. So I was talking about six y nine.

499
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Speaker 4: The reason why I thought I'll shed a lot on

500
00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:27,560
Speaker 4: this because a lot of criminals are scared, and a

501
00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:30,400
Speaker 4: lot of criminals just want to impress their mates. Now, look,

502
00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:33,959
Speaker 4: I'm not for I'm against snitching. Let's just start off

503
00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:36,960
Speaker 4: with that. I'm against snitching, but I'm not. I don't

504
00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:40,600
Speaker 4: hate snitches. I don't hate this guy for becoming a snitch.

505
00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:43,080
Speaker 4: I went like, I personally won't do it, but I

506
00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:45,399
Speaker 4: don't hate this guy. I'm I'm more happy at the

507
00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:49,040
Speaker 4: fact that he's his strong, his true self. He's so

508
00:22:49,280 --> 00:22:51,879
Speaker 4: showing his true self. He's not trying to impress people.

509
00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:55,720
Speaker 4: For me, that looks so satisfying when someone is not

510
00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:58,280
Speaker 4: trying to impress the world and not trying to impress

511
00:22:58,320 --> 00:22:58,800
Speaker 4: the boys.

512
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Speaker 1: Uh, you know what I mean?

513
00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:03,399
Speaker 4: And I feel like I will even go on to

514
00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:06,760
Speaker 4: say he's worth giving or follow, he's worth looking into

515
00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:08,359
Speaker 4: because he's been his honest self.

516
00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:11,679
Speaker 1: He's he's realized his mistakes. His mistakes was.

517
00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:16,320
Speaker 4: Hanging around with the wrong people who eventually fucked him over. Yeah,

518
00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:20,479
Speaker 4: and they will probably just expecting him to follow their

519
00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:26,720
Speaker 4: code and impress all the boys.

520
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Speaker 1: You know.

521
00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:27,840
Speaker 2: Do you know what what I what I think about this.

522
00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:31,760
Speaker 2: I think it's to be honest. I spoke about this

523
00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:35,520
Speaker 2: on one of my blogs and I said that like

524
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:40,480
Speaker 2: gangsters that stick to the moral moral code and they

525
00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:44,040
Speaker 2: follow the rules, they're not gangsters because gangsters are outlaws.

526
00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:45,000
Speaker 5: They break the rules.

527
00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 2: And from my experience and also from watching a lot

528
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:52,760
Speaker 2: of historical movies that are relevant to this conversation.

529
00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:57,040
Speaker 5: American gangster, what happened at the end after all.

530
00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:59,480
Speaker 2: The millions of money he made or like the biggest

531
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:03,560
Speaker 2: after having the status team told he told a lot

532
00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:06,520
Speaker 2: of the high Russian Russian mafia people that's how they

533
00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:09,479
Speaker 2: get out. They tell they tell that, And so I

534
00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:12,040
Speaker 2: covered this, I cover this subject. I cover this topic

535
00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:15,119
Speaker 2: on one of my vlogs where my powerful message to

536
00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 2: this is if you have a standard to follow rules

537
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,680
Speaker 2: and you you want to follow, you have good moral ethics,

538
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:25,520
Speaker 2: you don't belong in the streets.

539
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:26,720
Speaker 5: You don't belong there.

540
00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:30,199
Speaker 2: The streets is a devil's playground, and the devil wins

541
00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:33,439
Speaker 2: ten out of ten times. There is no following the

542
00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:36,919
Speaker 2: rules there. There's nothing you can't expect. You can't expect

543
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:39,359
Speaker 2: to get the same respect treatment from other gangsters.

544
00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:42,240
Speaker 5: Are you serious? These guys are outlaws. They don't care,

545
00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:43,440
Speaker 5: they don't care.

546
00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:47,840
Speaker 2: Like it's like like it's I've changed my whole perception

547
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:50,680
Speaker 2: around this, and I just I laugh when people say, oh,

548
00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:54,240
Speaker 2: like they tried told me, oh yeah, this is the rules,

549
00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:56,880
Speaker 2: Like because I lived that life, I know a lot

550
00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:59,360
Speaker 2: of the rules and what comes with that life and

551
00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:01,840
Speaker 2: like there's and that, and like, I'll be honest with you,

552
00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:04,200
Speaker 2: a lot of the big time players they don't even

553
00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:06,920
Speaker 2: follow these rules. So I was young and naive coming

554
00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:08,879
Speaker 2: into the game thinking that I'm going to do everything

555
00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:11,679
Speaker 2: right and I'm not going to do this. I'm not

556
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:14,160
Speaker 2: going to do all this ugly, heinous acts. But then

557
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 2: I started realizing these these boys are breaking their own rules.

558
00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:21,080
Speaker 2: They're shooting at women, they're shooting at children. They don't care.

559
00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:25,920
Speaker 2: They don't care if you have more than two brain cells.

560
00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 2: Don't worry about who snitch and who didn't snitch. You

561
00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:31,640
Speaker 2: don't belong in the streets. Leave the streets for these

562
00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:34,320
Speaker 2: other numbs, goals, for these other bananas. Let them go

563
00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:37,240
Speaker 2: and do all that stuff. You, my brother, you need

564
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:39,359
Speaker 2: to come into the light, do something good for your

565
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:41,000
Speaker 2: family and this will be worthwhile.

566
00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:44,080
Speaker 1: And man, we're here to help you.

567
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:44,840
Speaker 5: We're here to help you.

568
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:47,560
Speaker 4: Got all the criminals that are struggling. Man, they have

569
00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:50,360
Speaker 4: to impress everyone. You don't have to impress brotherhood.

570
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:51,040
Speaker 1: Is that you want.

571
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:53,880
Speaker 4: I want you guys to stay tuned with Boson. We're

572
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:55,879
Speaker 4: eventually we're going to come out and meet everyone. You know,

573
00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:58,679
Speaker 4: how do you think about that running? What has changed

574
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:02,720
Speaker 4: you and why has like really pushed you away from

575
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 4: you know, past peers and like past.

576
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 3: Obviously like just a lot of accountability with myself and

577
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:14,199
Speaker 3: just like just being wherey you just grow out of stuff.

578
00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:16,280
Speaker 4: I know, I know we get a lot of respect

579
00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:18,960
Speaker 4: right now. But did you ever think that go and

580
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:21,239
Speaker 4: moving away from everything? Did you ever think people were

581
00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:23,120
Speaker 4: going to be like fuck this cunt.

582
00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:23,920
Speaker 1: That's the thing.

583
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:26,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, like I thought about it, but then these people

584
00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:29,840
Speaker 3: never did anything for me, so yeah, why would I

585
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:31,520
Speaker 3: care for someone that doesn't care about me?

586
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:31,880
Speaker 4: Yeah?

587
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:34,640
Speaker 2: He actually always had that energy when we first started.

588
00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:38,600
Speaker 2: I remember I came into it knowing that because coming

589
00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:41,000
Speaker 2: from where we came from, a lot of boys were

590
00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:44,360
Speaker 2: depending on us, not only depending on us for like physically,

591
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,160
Speaker 2: but also like our status status who we were.

592
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 5: You know, we.

593
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:51,439
Speaker 2: Upholded a status for the area and a lot of

594
00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:54,679
Speaker 2: people depended on us to showcase what the area is about.

595
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:57,480
Speaker 2: And I was I was still stuck in that mindset

596
00:26:57,520 --> 00:27:01,199
Speaker 2: first coming into bros and cons. But then you always

597
00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 2: would tell me like that, who gives a fuck line?

598
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:07,359
Speaker 2: What are these guys, do what have they done for us?

599
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:10,520
Speaker 2: Like we've done, We've done time for the area, We've

600
00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 2: we've made music for the area. What else do we

601
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:14,919
Speaker 2: need to do to prove to anyone. Let's let's do

602
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:17,480
Speaker 2: something good for our families. And brother stuck with me.

603
00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 2: That's stuck with me. And this is what I love

604
00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:23,200
Speaker 2: about bros and cons because you know we're all different ages,

605
00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:27,240
Speaker 2: different opinions, we come from different angles. But the brotherhood coalition,

606
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 2: it really shows and improves like who we are as

607
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,359
Speaker 2: brothers that we iron sharpens, Iron.

608
00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:37,240
Speaker 4: Agy and bro look, you know what to be honest,

609
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:39,399
Speaker 4: I'll be honest. When I was going to change, I

610
00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 4: was literally waiting waiting for someone to test me. Like

611
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 4: I went out of the game thinking there's someone to

612
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,240
Speaker 4: come and say Malik said, Gronk for leaving, you know

613
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 4: what I mean, And like I was shocked at the

614
00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:54,880
Speaker 4: tables turned. Like when I left the game, a lot

615
00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:57,040
Speaker 4: of boys were showing me more respect. A lot of

616
00:27:57,080 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 4: boys were like, man, I love.

617
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:00,600
Speaker 5: What I just needed someone to play to see the.

618
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:03,399
Speaker 4: Exactly and like this could be like good news for

619
00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:05,240
Speaker 4: a lot of criminals. Maybe it's not going to be

620
00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 4: what you think it is maybe it's not going to

621
00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:09,440
Speaker 4: be like the boys are going to say, fuck this cunt,

622
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:11,440
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. I was actually shocked because

623
00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 4: I even went as far as to invite yp onto

624
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 4: our podcast. For anyone that doesn't know that's our ops

625
00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:22,639
Speaker 4: are former ops. That sounds like cringe anyways, for anyone

626
00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:24,960
Speaker 4: that doesn't know that's that's who we were beefing one

627
00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:28,159
Speaker 4: for and we were twenty one district. I want as

628
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:31,280
Speaker 4: far as to invite this guy onto our podcast. And

629
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:33,440
Speaker 4: you know what, I thought I was going to get

630
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:35,639
Speaker 4: some backlash. So I was waiting for back lives. I

631
00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:37,960
Speaker 4: was waiting for people to test me, and you know what,

632
00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:40,240
Speaker 4: I was getting a lot more support. And it just

633
00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 4: changed my mind and mentality about everything. Yeah, And I

634
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 4: want to encourage people out there. There are a lot

635
00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 4: of people that want to help you if you want

636
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 4: to change, If you're willing to change, not many people

637
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 4: want to are going to go after you because a

638
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 4: lot of people want to see you change, even even

639
00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:58,600
Speaker 4: your worst criminals.

640
00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 2: A lot of a lot of you younger boys, listen,

641
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:04,000
Speaker 2: let me tell you something. A lot of you younger

642
00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:07,000
Speaker 2: boys in the Mound Drewit region in the Penrith region.

643
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 2: You guys are just living out their statistics because you

644
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 2: don't know any better. You're half in and your half out.

645
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:13,239
Speaker 5: I know this.

646
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:15,640
Speaker 2: I know this because I've been there before. You guys

647
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:17,600
Speaker 2: are just following what the older boys are doing. You're

648
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 2: following what you know. But if you have any urge

649
00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:24,240
Speaker 2: in your heart to find something better for yourself, for

650
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:26,920
Speaker 2: your parents, or for your family, reach out to us.

651
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:30,360
Speaker 2: You'll find comfort, will shelter you, and we'll just spread,

652
00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:32,720
Speaker 2: will spread the love and life that you need to

653
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 2: become a better man for your family. We don't care

654
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:38,040
Speaker 2: what race you are, we don't care what area you're from.

655
00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:41,640
Speaker 2: Bros and cons is worldwide for everyone. We want every

656
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:45,280
Speaker 2: man to exceed his ordinary levels. We want all of

657
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 2: yous to exceed. And I think that's what do you reckon, Runny?

658
00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:50,320
Speaker 2: What a beautiful message.

659
00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:53,720
Speaker 3: I am after all that that was always our purpose.

660
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 3: Man helped these younger youth to be that big brother

661
00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 3: you know that these guys never had. Yeah, that's probably what.

662
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:01,800
Speaker 1: They're going through.

663
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:06,520
Speaker 3: Maybe they come from you know, diverted families and maybe

664
00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 3: like no.

665
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:08,720
Speaker 1: Dads, no moms.

666
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:10,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah.

667
00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 3: Do you hear a lot about like the chaotic stuff

668
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:19,280
Speaker 3: happening in around penriphase. Yeah, the poverty levels they're different. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

669
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:23,240
Speaker 3: let's break some bomb shows. Why is the streets Why

670
00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:26,680
Speaker 3: do the streets reward these reward men who were silent,

671
00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 3: men who were like, you know, try to rebeal.

672
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:33,000
Speaker 1: Why why are the streets rewarding boys who do this stuff?

673
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:36,560
Speaker 4: A lot of the big players are smart, lad A

674
00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:40,560
Speaker 4: lot of the big smart and they're not like the

675
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:43,880
Speaker 4: biggest players in the games. They're not as they're smart

676
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:47,720
Speaker 4: not they're smart enough not to do anything stupid. Yeah,

677
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:50,040
Speaker 4: but they reward stupid people on the streets.

678
00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:52,120
Speaker 5: Yeah.

679
00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 2: Like it's status cells, right, the status cells. But it

680
00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:00,560
Speaker 2: can only sell to someone with a weak heart, someone

681
00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 2: that doesn't have a strong spirit. These type of people

682
00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 2: are always looking for something to cling onto. They need

683
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:09,480
Speaker 2: a source of strength, they need a source of power

684
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:13,440
Speaker 2: to hold onto. Especially as men, we need to feel strong.

685
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 2: And if you have a weak mind and you have

686
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 2: a weak spirit, if you're spending all your weekends bending

687
00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 2: getting rid of all of your dopamine, and you're not,

688
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:24,360
Speaker 2: you're not chasing pain, you're not in the gym, you're

689
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 2: not you're not sharpening yourself. You're not You're not denying

690
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 2: your flesh throughout every single week. You can't strengthen your mind,

691
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:34,360
Speaker 2: you can't strengthen the spirit, and therefore you start you

692
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 2: start idologizing. I don't know that is that how you

693
00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:37,520
Speaker 2: say it?

694
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 1: This is right.

695
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:44,400
Speaker 2: You start idolizing, You start idolizing these men who you think,

696
00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:47,640
Speaker 2: you think that they are all powerful. But I've been

697
00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 2: there and I've seen behind the scenes of a lot

698
00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:53,200
Speaker 2: of a lot of key players, and like, this is

699
00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 2: not it's they're not people you want to look up to.

700
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:57,520
Speaker 2: I don't even want you guys to look up to me.

701
00:31:58,000 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 2: I don't even want you guys to look up to us.

702
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:02,680
Speaker 2: I want you guys to become someone to look up

703
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 2: to you. I want you to look in the mirror

704
00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:06,560
Speaker 2: in the morning and say, damn, you really got it

705
00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:08,000
Speaker 2: together this time, you really done it.

706
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:11,640
Speaker 1: That's what I want to be from going through. Amen.

707
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:14,480
Speaker 4: Amen, man, I love that we brought a lot of

708
00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 4: that stuff up. Now, let's let's move on to another

709
00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:20,560
Speaker 4: topic that is so important for us as men and

710
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 4: not men want to not much men want to talk

711
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:23,000
Speaker 4: about this.

712
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:25,200
Speaker 1: We're going to start with marriage.

713
00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:29,960
Speaker 4: Marriage being one of the most important things that that

714
00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 4: has helped us navigate our lives outside of crime. I

715
00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:36,560
Speaker 4: want to start off with Ronnie because for those of

716
00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:39,760
Speaker 4: you guys who don't know the brother is getting married

717
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:44,360
Speaker 4: this yeah, so you heard it here first and Brasien incident.

718
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:46,480
Speaker 1: How would the question? How would I answer the question

719
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 1: if I'm not married?

720
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:48,080
Speaker 5: How do you feel about this?

721
00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 1: Farewell? How do you feel about never looking back? And why?

722
00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:58,760
Speaker 1: Why do you know what? And tell us if you

723
00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:00,120
Speaker 1: if you're never looking back?

724
00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:03,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, so that's that's what I had to sit down

725
00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:06,960
Speaker 3: one night and just I really had to deeply think

726
00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:08,480
Speaker 3: to myself, you.

727
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:10,240
Speaker 1: Know, am I actually ready for this?

728
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:13,720
Speaker 3: And I think I prayed about it and I feel

729
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:16,640
Speaker 3: like I'm I feel like I'm actually more ready than

730
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:21,480
Speaker 3: ever ever before in my life to double down, knuckle down,

731
00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:22,440
Speaker 3: and do what's right.

732
00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 1: Double down.

733
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:28,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, fast words of Milli Mason.

734
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 5: Double down. I've used that word so many times with myself. Anyways,

735
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 5: go carry on.

736
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 3: And I don't know to add to that because of

737
00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:39,920
Speaker 3: my own personal relationship, you know, with Jesus Christ and

738
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 3: that I feel like everything is just moving towards living

739
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:47,440
Speaker 3: a righteous life, which just also includes getting married, which

740
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 3: is what God intended between husband and wife that covenant

741
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:53,720
Speaker 3: to be fulfilled. So that's what I'm doing. So I'm

742
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 3: just following God. I'm following feel like it's.

743
00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:59,560
Speaker 4: Something very important for someone coming off the street to

744
00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:00,920
Speaker 4: getting marriage, to.

745
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 3: Get into marriage marriage only if they're ready for it,

746
00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 3: and only if they prayed on it. There could be

747
00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 3: a lot of circumstances in different situations, but yeah, you

748
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:15,399
Speaker 3: just have to look at it from a nutshell look

749
00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:19,080
Speaker 3: at everything. Obviously, marriage is a long term thing. It's

750
00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:22,600
Speaker 3: an eternal thing. Well, that's what God says in the Bibles.

751
00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:26,920
Speaker 3: You know, I remember reading a scripture that a divorce

752
00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:30,040
Speaker 3: is only allowed, Well, Jesus said to himself, a divorce

753
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 3: is only allowed when your sexual immorality, when your partner

754
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:39,400
Speaker 3: decides to go cheap basically an easy words. Basically it

755
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:42,600
Speaker 3: goes adult for someone else, and that's when it's.

756
00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:45,520
Speaker 1: It's all right. So yeah, it is pretty eternal though,

757
00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:46,880
Speaker 1: it's so it's.

758
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:49,200
Speaker 2: And you know what, you know, what's interesting that he

759
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:53,160
Speaker 2: says that if you remarry just out of your own

760
00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:57,840
Speaker 2: doing your new wife, you are committing adultery with her

761
00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:00,480
Speaker 2: to the rest the rest of you, the rest of it.

762
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:05,120
Speaker 2: If you remarry without sexual immorality being the main factor

763
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 2: of why you divorce. You are now committing adultery, yeah, exactly.

764
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:12,600
Speaker 2: And then the wife that you left, if she remarries,

765
00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:16,279
Speaker 2: she is now committing adultery. It's tough, Low, it's brutal, lud,

766
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:17,760
Speaker 2: It's very brutal.

767
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:17,960
Speaker 3: Bro.

768
00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:23,440
Speaker 2: It's yeah, it's all in thing, bro. But you know what,

769
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 2: this is actually important conversation because marriage was supposed to

770
00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:35,480
Speaker 2: be something very very special, a covenant between God and

771
00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:39,440
Speaker 2: two humans coming together as one flesh. And I think

772
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:43,840
Speaker 2: the Western world has really twisted that and perverted that

773
00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:47,560
Speaker 2: to where anyone is getting married, anyone is getting divorced.

774
00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:50,399
Speaker 2: It's so common for me to find out that someone's like, oh, yeah,

775
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 2: that's my stepmother, that's my stepdad, that's my stepbrother, and says,

776
00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 2: do you notice how many people are divorced? And I

777
00:35:57,719 --> 00:36:00,759
Speaker 2: think I think the Devil's main tact is to break

778
00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 2: the nuclear family, and that's that's what it is, hey, and.

779
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:06,880
Speaker 3: Break the imagery of God as well. That is God's image,

780
00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:10,480
Speaker 3: his husband and wife. There's no one else because always

781
00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:13,400
Speaker 3: Adam and Eve in the gardens. So yeah, or the

782
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:17,480
Speaker 3: devil has just been backtracking everything and just manipulating everything.

783
00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:20,920
Speaker 4: I'm glad you breaking that up because I've seen it

784
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 4: in real time. I've seen the devil literally working within families.

785
00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:28,799
Speaker 4: I don't think the devil's coming out to like to us,

786
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:31,239
Speaker 4: like you know, from from the front, the guys going

787
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:32,319
Speaker 4: through our families and a lot.

788
00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:35,400
Speaker 1: Of sneaks, livers, a lot of homes have been broken,

789
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:37,040
Speaker 1: and it's not.

790
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 3: What we're talking about is to not discourage people from

791
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:43,000
Speaker 3: getting married. You know, there's there's also a lot of

792
00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:46,680
Speaker 3: positives from being married, even when it is eternal. Yea,

793
00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 3: you know, there's a lot of positives that do come

794
00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 3: out of it. But yeah, you have to reassure yourself

795
00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:54,480
Speaker 3: that you're you're ready, you know, you're ready for for

796
00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 3: that long term thing. And I think I think I'm

797
00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 3: another thing men don't admit, especially ones that are married.

798
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:10,279
Speaker 3: There's this, there's this I don't know, there's there's this

799
00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 3: false dilemma that women have that when you get married,

800
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:16,600
Speaker 3: you leave all the boys behind and you don't have

801
00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:17,520
Speaker 3: any mates anymore.

802
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:20,520
Speaker 2: You're all about your missus and your kids. On hindsight,

803
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:25,160
Speaker 2: that sounds correct, it sounds accurate. But over the last

804
00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:28,080
Speaker 2: few years, I've been able to get a really good

805
00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:32,319
Speaker 2: sense of my brotherhood, like you guys. And then I

806
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:36,279
Speaker 2: also have a close, close brotherhood of mates that I

807
00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:39,480
Speaker 2: can count on one hand that I really fellowship with

808
00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 2: and I speak with outside of my outside of my

809
00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:46,719
Speaker 2: marriage important things and a lot of the times, a

810
00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:49,480
Speaker 2: lot of the times when we want to me being married,

811
00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:51,239
Speaker 2: A lot of the times when I go to hang

812
00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:55,279
Speaker 2: out with my mates, because sometimes girls would say, Bro,

813
00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 2: you guys aren't even talking about anything.

814
00:37:57,000 --> 00:38:00,239
Speaker 1: You guys are just talking shit. But sometimes we are

815
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:00,799
Speaker 1: talking shit.

816
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:04,120
Speaker 2: But I feel like even talking shit to a brother

817
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:07,759
Speaker 2: is it's just a way of decompressing, do you know

818
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:10,560
Speaker 2: what I mean. It's a way of decompressing. You're not

819
00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:14,760
Speaker 2: necessarily complaining about your life. You're soldiering everything on your shoulders,

820
00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:17,719
Speaker 2: you're taking on the weight, but you just venting out

821
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:18,880
Speaker 2: and talking shit, having.

822
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:21,440
Speaker 4: A couple of laughs with your brother. This is the

823
00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:25,400
Speaker 4: way a man decompresses. That's the way he resets himself.

824
00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:27,799
Speaker 3: I think that's why it's so important that the how

825
00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:32,520
Speaker 3: the Bible, how the Bible actually showcases discipleship, you know,

826
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:34,640
Speaker 3: between the brotherhood callition.

827
00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:38,240
Speaker 1: You know, yeah, I think it's so important as well.

828
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:39,839
Speaker 3: You know, when you get when you do get married,

829
00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:42,480
Speaker 3: I do second to what Day said, you know about

830
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:45,120
Speaker 3: like having certain it's so important and close friends to

831
00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 3: talk to, because there's just certain topics that a woman

832
00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 3: or your own wife will never understand, you know, and

833
00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:53,440
Speaker 3: us these are other men you.

834
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:55,280
Speaker 1: Know, that are.

835
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:59,120
Speaker 3: Holding that same type of testosterone or masculinity for example,

836
00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:02,040
Speaker 3: and they're going out and the world, they're fighting all

837
00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:05,080
Speaker 3: these demons and it's a nice thing. You know, it

838
00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:08,000
Speaker 3: might just be talking ship, but it's actually like we're

839
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:11,600
Speaker 3: congregating and like talking about you know, kind of like

840
00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:13,000
Speaker 3: letting the steam off, you know.

841
00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:17,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you think it's important? Bro? Yeah? No,

842
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:19,799
Speaker 1: I agree with you guys. I agree with you guys

843
00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:20,280
Speaker 1: one hundred.

844
00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:25,239
Speaker 4: I'm glad you guys talked about that the covenant with

845
00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:28,960
Speaker 4: God now just because we're advising some so there are

846
00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:32,280
Speaker 4: a lot of men out there who are still single. Yeah,

847
00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 4: and we've lived a single life before. What what are

848
00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:37,799
Speaker 4: some things that you could you know, what are some

849
00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:40,040
Speaker 4: gems that you could drop for men who were still single?

850
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:43,080
Speaker 4: Marriage is obviously Ronnie just said you don't have to

851
00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:46,120
Speaker 4: be married, you know. Yeah, what advice could we given't?

852
00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:49,520
Speaker 4: Definitely don't rush into it. Yeah, don't rush into it.

853
00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:52,799
Speaker 2: And I'm sure, I'm sure it's hard to rush in

854
00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:54,640
Speaker 2: it into marriage before.

855
00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:57,759
Speaker 1: The Yeah, the way theirs are just I don't know.

856
00:39:59,080 --> 00:40:04,040
Speaker 4: I don't want to say something to her. Are we

857
00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:07,840
Speaker 4: ready to get canceled again? Where did you get canceled on?

858
00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:08,320
Speaker 1: Ep?

859
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:12,239
Speaker 2: It just it doesn't make it easy that every girl

860
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:15,480
Speaker 2: has Megan the Stallion on their playlist and Cardi B

861
00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 2: and things like that. It doesn't make it easier for

862
00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:20,960
Speaker 2: our single brothers out there. But in saying that, I

863
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:23,880
Speaker 2: feel like there is there is certain things that you

864
00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:25,920
Speaker 2: can sharpen in your life as a man when you're

865
00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 2: single that you can't do once you're married. Once you're married,

866
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:31,319
Speaker 2: that's it. The envelopes close. But when you're single, there

867
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:34,640
Speaker 2: are certain aspects that you can do, we can really sharpen,

868
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:39,240
Speaker 2: like like, for instance, not saying go play around with girls,

869
00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:41,080
Speaker 2: but like different girls.

870
00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:41,759
Speaker 1: You'll be able to.

871
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:44,680
Speaker 2: You'll be able to, I don't know, you you be

872
00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:47,760
Speaker 2: able to conversate with different type of girls and figure

873
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:50,839
Speaker 2: out how you communicate as a man, figure out how

874
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:53,759
Speaker 2: you respond to certain things and how, and then you

875
00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:55,839
Speaker 2: can really reflect on it as well. Like, oh yeah,

876
00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:58,000
Speaker 2: maybe that was a bad reaction. Maybe I shouldn't have

877
00:40:58,000 --> 00:40:59,480
Speaker 2: DoD that. You can't do this when you're married. When

878
00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:01,799
Speaker 2: you're married, that's it. You get a slip a phone

879
00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:04,520
Speaker 2: out your head if you if you get something wrong.

880
00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 1: You know.

881
00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:08,840
Speaker 2: So there's certain things if you're single, bro, master these techniques.

882
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:11,400
Speaker 2: Don't be mastering those techniques.

883
00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:17,279
Speaker 4: They have the master those techniques, because what are you

884
00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:20,800
Speaker 4: gonna do with the techniques after you get married?

885
00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 1: Oh but I did like what you said.

886
00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:24,799
Speaker 4: There there are a lot of stuff that you can

887
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:26,279
Speaker 4: do when you're single that you can't do.

888
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:28,480
Speaker 5: You can't do a relationship. I'll give you example.

889
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:31,759
Speaker 4: When I when I first met my missus, I was

890
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 4: so smooth that she hated it. She goes, why are

891
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:37,160
Speaker 4: you so smooth for? She goes, You're You're not even

892
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:39,440
Speaker 4: rough one bit. She's like, where'd you learn how to

893
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:41,400
Speaker 4: do this? I'm like, I don't know, I don't know.

894
00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:45,839
Speaker 4: This is just just me, bro, this is just how

895
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 4: I do.

896
00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:46,440
Speaker 2: Bro.

897
00:41:46,520 --> 00:41:48,920
Speaker 4: This is but it is a good time to grind

898
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 4: out their brothers. Like, there's a lot for example that

899
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:53,000
Speaker 4: I could give you. Is that right now?

900
00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:53,640
Speaker 1: My partner?

901
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:56,319
Speaker 4: Because I love boxing, I love fighting cunts. And I

902
00:41:56,400 --> 00:42:00,600
Speaker 4: really wanted to do boxing, but my my wife will

903
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 4: ship herself every time I get into a fight. Yeah,

904
00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:04,799
Speaker 4: and so I'm always I always going in the back

905
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:06,360
Speaker 4: of my head. Fuck, if I wasn't with it, I

906
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:08,640
Speaker 4: could be fighting everyone, you know what I mean. I

907
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:11,680
Speaker 4: love boxing, so maybe it tastes it tastes a lot

908
00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:13,160
Speaker 4: of that. And there's a lot of girls out there

909
00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:15,719
Speaker 4: that wouldn't want you to go fight for money. I

910
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:17,719
Speaker 4: know some girls love it, but there are a lot

911
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:19,800
Speaker 4: of girls that don't want you to go fight fighting

912
00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 4: people for money.

913
00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:20,960
Speaker 1: Yeah.

914
00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:24,080
Speaker 4: So maybe tapping to your you some of yours that

915
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:26,560
Speaker 4: you can't do in a marriage, that that's the best

916
00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 4: time of everything.

917
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:28,160
Speaker 1: Yeah.

918
00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:31,840
Speaker 3: I think one of the important, most main things, especially

919
00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:34,759
Speaker 3: if you're a young fellow in Sydney or anywhere in Australia,

920
00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:37,600
Speaker 3: is that you while you're growing up, you don't want

921
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:39,799
Speaker 3: to waste time or you don't want to even if

922
00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:42,040
Speaker 3: you are single and you're waiting to find a new

923
00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:45,200
Speaker 3: girl to work on yourself. You know, you work ethic

924
00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:47,520
Speaker 3: and work to save money and do a lot of

925
00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 3: things that you can't do when you're married. Because when

926
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:52,160
Speaker 3: you're married, brother, your schedules.

927
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:52,759
Speaker 1: You know what.

928
00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 2: You gotta be care You gotta be careful because sometimes

929
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:58,239
Speaker 2: the girls they lie, they lie, like they will tell

930
00:42:58,280 --> 00:42:59,960
Speaker 2: you I don't want you to join the military.

931
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:02,479
Speaker 1: What a stupid thing that is. But then they'll watch

932
00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:05,040
Speaker 1: like they'll watch a military movie and then they'll start

933
00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:07,600
Speaker 1: sobbing and start crying like, oh, how Braveyes, I love this.

934
00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:14,480
Speaker 1: That's it.

935
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 5: I'm talking in the military line like no, not you,

936
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 5: not you.

937
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:20,279
Speaker 2: But you know what I mean, Like, yeah, they lie,

938
00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:23,879
Speaker 2: they lie, they lie, they lie, they lie, like it's

939
00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:29,320
Speaker 2: every time, like we talk about a situation, because yeah, that's.

940
00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:29,760
Speaker 5: A bit funny.

941
00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:32,080
Speaker 4: Every sometimes when I'm I'm bored and I'm with my

942
00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:33,879
Speaker 4: missus at the doctors or somewhere, I'll be like, oh,

943
00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:36,520
Speaker 4: what would you do now if twenty zombies just ran

944
00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 4: through that door?

945
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:41,160
Speaker 2: This is the conversations I have. And then and then

946
00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:43,319
Speaker 2: she'll and then she'll be like, well what would you do.

947
00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:45,200
Speaker 2: I'll be like, I'll grab your hand and I run

948
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:47,319
Speaker 2: straight for that door. And she will go what about

949
00:43:47,320 --> 00:43:48,960
Speaker 2: the kids, And I'll be like, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah,

950
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:51,399
Speaker 2: we grab the kids. We'll grab the kids as well.

951
00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:54,000
Speaker 1: That's mad.

952
00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:56,880
Speaker 3: I'm usually always talking about where were what restaurant we're

953
00:43:56,880 --> 00:43:57,520
Speaker 3: eating at next?

954
00:43:58,719 --> 00:44:02,560
Speaker 2: Nah, I have dumb conversations with my missus, But I

955
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:05,280
Speaker 2: think there's there's a beauty in like having a missus

956
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:07,360
Speaker 2: that you can be done with, you can talk about.

957
00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:09,280
Speaker 5: So someone says something interesting.

958
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:11,799
Speaker 2: If you don't know if this girl is someone you

959
00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:14,719
Speaker 2: want to be married to, can you picture yourself being

960
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:17,360
Speaker 2: stranded on an island with her for the rest.

961
00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:19,080
Speaker 1: Of your life? Yeah, that's probably the most.

962
00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:21,719
Speaker 5: That's probably the most accurate pinpoint I can say.

963
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:24,160
Speaker 2: If you're single, brother, if you're single and there's a

964
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:27,640
Speaker 2: girl you're seeing, can you deal with this girl being

965
00:44:27,680 --> 00:44:29,800
Speaker 2: the only person that you're living with on an island

966
00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:30,759
Speaker 2: for the rest of your life?

967
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:34,120
Speaker 1: If the answer is yes, that's the girl.

968
00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:39,880
Speaker 5: If the answer is like, ah.

969
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:41,880
Speaker 3: You probably, yeah, you probably even just like, just treator

970
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:44,120
Speaker 3: as a friend, don't don't be disrespectful and just be

971
00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:46,360
Speaker 3: like yeah, only friendly is that?

972
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:46,880
Speaker 1: Yeah?

973
00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:48,720
Speaker 5: Not friends with help?

974
00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:52,360
Speaker 4: So they call it these days friends, friends with benefits,

975
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:56,800
Speaker 4: friends of benefits. Anyways, before we jump into the benefits,

976
00:44:56,840 --> 00:45:01,000
Speaker 4: just jump into segment of violads. We've got faith admissions,

977
00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:04,680
Speaker 4: a lot of things that men won't admit, and this year, lads,

978
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:08,800
Speaker 4: we're coming in ten times harder with faith and it's

979
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:12,759
Speaker 4: actually become so important for us. And man, I'll kid

980
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:15,160
Speaker 4: you not. I've actually had a few guests that was

981
00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:18,200
Speaker 4: supposed to come on who were a bit uncomfortable in

982
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:22,799
Speaker 4: talking about faith. And this is like something very big

983
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:24,200
Speaker 4: for a lot of men out there. So we want

984
00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:27,080
Speaker 4: to encourage you guys to join in on this conversation

985
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:29,239
Speaker 4: where we talk about faith. And I'm going to ask

986
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:32,360
Speaker 4: the boys this simple question to start off with, what

987
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:38,000
Speaker 4: was one thing you finally admitted to God. I think

988
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:40,799
Speaker 4: one of my biggest struggles I admitted to God was

989
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 4: my struggle with lust.

990
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:44,040
Speaker 1: And it's.

991
00:45:45,680 --> 00:45:48,360
Speaker 2: Bro like, you know what's crazy. You know what's crazy.

992
00:45:50,200 --> 00:45:53,400
Speaker 2: It says in the ten Commandments not to commit adultery.

993
00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:58,840
Speaker 2: Jesus came after and he did save us, but he

994
00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:02,839
Speaker 2: also he set the bus so high to the point

995
00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:05,480
Speaker 2: where he said, you can't even think about any of

996
00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:08,440
Speaker 2: the other daughters of God in that way, and like that,

997
00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:12,200
Speaker 2: just me, I've always had this, I've always had that

998
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:15,359
Speaker 2: problem with lust when even like growing up, I think

999
00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:18,440
Speaker 2: that that's it's a strong demon. It's a strong demon

1000
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:20,960
Speaker 2: to overhold you. And I think every man I think

1001
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:26,120
Speaker 2: with and struggles. Look, whether whether it's pornography or just

1002
00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:29,759
Speaker 2: just the way you see other women, whether you're you know,

1003
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:33,000
Speaker 2: women that walk past you, women at the gym, women anywhere.

1004
00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 2: If your your when your brain makes those scenarios, that

1005
00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:40,160
Speaker 2: is that is a demon. That's a devil. And there

1006
00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:43,040
Speaker 2: is a name for this spiritual demon. I can't remember

1007
00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:45,680
Speaker 2: what it was. Someone brought it up in the grip chat,

1008
00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:49,040
Speaker 2: but this is actually it's a it's a demonic force.

1009
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:52,160
Speaker 2: It's a demonic force, and they have strongholds on men.

1010
00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:54,320
Speaker 1: So that I'm.

1011
00:46:54,120 --> 00:46:56,359
Speaker 3: Glad that we're bringing this to a lot of men

1012
00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:57,400
Speaker 3: don't want to talk about it.

1013
00:46:57,400 --> 00:46:59,400
Speaker 1: They don't want to talk about they don't want to

1014
00:46:59,400 --> 00:46:59,920
Speaker 1: talk about this.

1015
00:46:59,840 --> 00:47:03,840
Speaker 2: But there is there is definitely a big issue with lust,

1016
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:06,680
Speaker 2: especially coming up now. It's shoved in the faces of

1017
00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:10,439
Speaker 2: teenagers all over TikTok and Instagram. It's just it's all there.

1018
00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:13,080
Speaker 2: It's there in the open and to the point where

1019
00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:17,600
Speaker 2: it sucks to say it. But like, I don't know

1020
00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:20,600
Speaker 2: the exact statistics, but I think they're really trying to

1021
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:26,480
Speaker 2: normalize like seeing charges like sexual assaulting things like that,

1022
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:30,280
Speaker 2: you know, and Pedophilia is slowly making its way into

1023
00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:35,319
Speaker 2: our Western world as we know it. Everything rape, everything,

1024
00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:39,319
Speaker 2: and yeah, I think I think every man in the

1025
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:43,520
Speaker 2: back of his head has that lust demon not to

1026
00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:48,120
Speaker 2: rape another girl, not to rape. Not like if you

1027
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:51,919
Speaker 2: have a mate that he's he thinks of raping every

1028
00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:54,120
Speaker 2: girl he sees, you need it, You.

1029
00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:56,840
Speaker 4: Gotta sting your mouth straight away.

1030
00:47:57,280 --> 00:47:59,960
Speaker 2: I think you gotta. I think he needs a bit

1031
00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:04,480
Speaker 2: of a whack in the mouth. But see, it's different

1032
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:08,279
Speaker 2: saying that and then saying that there is all every

1033
00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:10,520
Speaker 2: man has this thing with. See when you say raping,

1034
00:48:10,520 --> 00:48:13,480
Speaker 2: and that's different. But when you say sleeping with a

1035
00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:15,960
Speaker 2: lot of girls that that See, that is something that

1036
00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:19,040
Speaker 2: a lot of men struggle with. They straight away they

1037
00:48:19,120 --> 00:48:21,920
Speaker 2: sexualize any woman they look at, uh in the manner

1038
00:48:21,920 --> 00:48:24,200
Speaker 2: where they would want to, you know, have you know,

1039
00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:27,160
Speaker 2: sexual intercourse with them or sexual anything with them.

1040
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:29,240
Speaker 5: And this is a real struggle.

1041
00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:32,160
Speaker 2: It's a real struggle, especially when on TikTok and Instagram

1042
00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:36,160
Speaker 2: and YouTube, every single real is just you know, I

1043
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:38,760
Speaker 2: feel like girls are getting more naked and naked and naked,

1044
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:43,000
Speaker 2: and not only that, even cartoons. I don't know if

1045
00:48:43,040 --> 00:48:46,000
Speaker 2: you guys have noticed but cartoons that the bodies are

1046
00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:47,719
Speaker 2: starting to get a bit more revealing and.

1047
00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:53,440
Speaker 1: Over brother, there's hips.

1048
00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:55,239
Speaker 5: I'm telling you.

1049
00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:57,240
Speaker 1: I remember when I was young and I was watching

1050
00:48:57,480 --> 00:48:58,839
Speaker 1: The Incredibles, and I was.

1051
00:49:02,800 --> 00:49:04,480
Speaker 5: I was watching the Incredibles, and.

1052
00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:07,920
Speaker 1: I was just like, I was like, how you if they've.

1053
00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:14,560
Speaker 5: Up to our girls? You know what I mean?

1054
00:49:14,600 --> 00:49:17,560
Speaker 2: But but like like games, they're trying to normalize it

1055
00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:20,760
Speaker 2: on games. You see on Fortnite some of the characters,

1056
00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:23,480
Speaker 2: the skins on games. I stopped my son from playing it.

1057
00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:25,880
Speaker 2: I stopped my son from playing it because the skins

1058
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:29,560
Speaker 2: starting from about Fortnite Fortnite, some of the skinszy, some

1059
00:49:29,600 --> 00:49:31,480
Speaker 2: of the skins of the of the girls on the

1060
00:49:31,520 --> 00:49:34,839
Speaker 2: Fortnite characters. Were just like, bro, how long is this

1061
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:37,839
Speaker 2: game not rated? Like it probably yeah, but a lot

1062
00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 2: of kids are playing it now, so like I stopped

1063
00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:42,920
Speaker 2: my son playing from it. And like it's just I

1064
00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:46,920
Speaker 2: think lust is like it's really vocal right now, especially.

1065
00:49:46,680 --> 00:49:47,640
Speaker 1: That is lust.

1066
00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:50,040
Speaker 4: I feel like it's going to be the number one

1067
00:49:50,120 --> 00:49:53,360
Speaker 4: thing that stops the next generation, that would kill the

1068
00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:56,359
Speaker 4: next generation lust? Why is that so bad to have?

1069
00:49:56,520 --> 00:49:59,960
Speaker 4: Last twenty four seven? For other girls? It's actually very important.

1070
00:50:00,760 --> 00:50:02,240
Speaker 4: What do you what do you reckon running?

1071
00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:07,919
Speaker 3: What is it breaks your man discipline, your manhood, your discipline,

1072
00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:10,959
Speaker 3: You're just your your delayed gratification.

1073
00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:14,640
Speaker 1: We spoke about Samson as well, remember that Samson, he

1074
00:50:15,680 --> 00:50:19,799
Speaker 1: lost power. Not only Samsung. We have Adam so many

1075
00:50:20,040 --> 00:50:22,839
Speaker 1: just from the very beginning, from Adam and Eve.

1076
00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:26,480
Speaker 3: You know, it's just been a generational curse from all

1077
00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:30,799
Speaker 3: these prophets. And you know, Adam had last, but he

1078
00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:34,600
Speaker 3: was deceived while which he also comes into play when

1079
00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:38,920
Speaker 3: you have us. And I found I find that having

1080
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:40,880
Speaker 3: last just kills my commitment.

1081
00:50:41,360 --> 00:50:44,839
Speaker 4: And it also it became like a staple thing in

1082
00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:47,840
Speaker 4: a blockbuster movie. You guys remember a blockbuster, Yeah, we go,

1083
00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:49,160
Speaker 4: We also go Blockbuster.

1084
00:50:49,480 --> 00:50:50,279
Speaker 1: That was the thing.

1085
00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:55,799
Speaker 2: Blockbuster movies like Troy, Gladiator, all these massive movies. Right,

1086
00:50:56,239 --> 00:50:58,719
Speaker 2: it became so normalized to have at least one sex

1087
00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:00,439
Speaker 2: scene in its true.

1088
00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:01,800
Speaker 1: This is so true.

1089
00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:04,799
Speaker 2: Every movie had to I had to have at least

1090
00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:07,400
Speaker 2: one sex scene. Like they couldn't just have a man

1091
00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:09,680
Speaker 2: and a girl walk into a tent and then via

1092
00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:11,560
Speaker 2: the camera off to the next scene. They had to

1093
00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:13,640
Speaker 2: show it happening. And I never got this when I

1094
00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:16,080
Speaker 2: was young. I was like, bro, people want to watch porn.

1095
00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:17,920
Speaker 2: They would just go watch porn. Why would you want

1096
00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:20,279
Speaker 2: to plane in the movie. I wasn't complaining when I

1097
00:51:20,320 --> 00:51:23,000
Speaker 2: was young first, when I was in juve, you know,

1098
00:51:23,040 --> 00:51:25,400
Speaker 2: I was looking forward to sex scenes in the movies.

1099
00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:28,800
Speaker 5: And when I was young in the juvenile stop lying

1100
00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:29,719
Speaker 5: all of you, I know.

1101
00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:38,200
Speaker 4: Movies. Listen the boys. The boys used to bang on

1102
00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:41,680
Speaker 4: the window. That's what I loved about jail. Everyone shared

1103
00:51:41,920 --> 00:51:44,719
Speaker 4: the hardship. Every when there was something good on, everyone

1104
00:51:44,719 --> 00:51:47,040
Speaker 4: will bang on the doors. Like everyone everyone channel seven,

1105
00:51:47,080 --> 00:51:49,800
Speaker 4: Channel seven, We'll all channel seven.

1106
00:51:50,400 --> 00:51:52,640
Speaker 1: Actually I don't love that. I used to, but now

1107
00:51:52,640 --> 00:51:53,000
Speaker 1: I don't.

1108
00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:57,839
Speaker 2: But yeah, like the music, the music that we're hearing

1109
00:51:57,920 --> 00:52:03,400
Speaker 2: these days, they're pushing like exactly. Now we've spoken about

1110
00:52:03,400 --> 00:52:06,120
Speaker 2: the issue. Lust is a big issue. Let's talk about

1111
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:09,919
Speaker 2: solutions for all the brothers listening out here. How can

1112
00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:15,719
Speaker 2: we overcome this demonic force that has a very stronghold

1113
00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:17,959
Speaker 2: on the hearts of every single man.

1114
00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:21,799
Speaker 1: I think the first step is acknowledgment.

1115
00:52:22,280 --> 00:52:24,640
Speaker 3: You have to realize that it's going to be lurking

1116
00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:27,680
Speaker 3: around more often than you think, especially in the world

1117
00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:32,719
Speaker 3: we live in now. So acknowledgment and just placing steps

1118
00:52:33,200 --> 00:52:35,680
Speaker 3: in front of you that could help you, you know,

1119
00:52:36,320 --> 00:52:39,920
Speaker 3: that could help you, like before it even gets to

1120
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:43,120
Speaker 3: any stage like that. So that's another important factor as well.

1121
00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:46,359
Speaker 3: And just working on yourself. You know, when you're working

1122
00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:49,920
Speaker 3: on yourself, it's like you don't have you don't have

1123
00:52:50,040 --> 00:52:52,960
Speaker 3: time or energy into us in a way, you know

1124
00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:53,399
Speaker 3: what I mean.

1125
00:52:53,920 --> 00:52:57,360
Speaker 1: You have to tire yourself out by doing other things. Yeah.

1126
00:52:58,040 --> 00:53:00,400
Speaker 1: So and you said gratification.

1127
00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:06,799
Speaker 3: For yeah, so like like less ruins that because like

1128
00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:10,080
Speaker 3: delayed gratification is the opposite, like you've you've always got

1129
00:53:10,080 --> 00:53:11,960
Speaker 3: to work hard for something. You got to earn it,

1130
00:53:12,880 --> 00:53:16,080
Speaker 3: whether as last it's not so much as earning like say,

1131
00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:17,759
Speaker 3: for instance, pawn like it.

1132
00:53:18,239 --> 00:53:19,880
Speaker 5: You can get off to it, so get off it,

1133
00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:20,360
Speaker 5: but then.

1134
00:53:20,400 --> 00:53:22,040
Speaker 1: Like erect your manhood.

1135
00:53:22,080 --> 00:53:24,000
Speaker 4: I'm not sure if it was fifty cent or marked

1136
00:53:24,000 --> 00:53:26,000
Speaker 4: Tyson that said they used to stretch it out for

1137
00:53:26,040 --> 00:53:28,520
Speaker 4: like a year or something and every time they would

1138
00:53:28,640 --> 00:53:33,440
Speaker 4: have sex, feel twenty fifty times. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

1139
00:53:33,600 --> 00:53:34,799
Speaker 4: just add to what you were saying.

1140
00:53:34,840 --> 00:53:37,880
Speaker 3: But yeah, carry on, but yeah, yeah, it's just the

1141
00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:41,440
Speaker 3: fact that you can let off pretty quick.

1142
00:53:42,000 --> 00:53:45,360
Speaker 1: It's just it's not it's not in our manly nature

1143
00:53:45,400 --> 00:53:45,719
Speaker 1: as well.

1144
00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:48,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's a lot of things that you can do

1145
00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:52,640
Speaker 3: to avoid being in those spuations because I know that

1146
00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:56,279
Speaker 3: just the society we grew up, you know, arguably, like

1147
00:53:56,719 --> 00:53:58,399
Speaker 3: all the boys talk about it, and you know, it's

1148
00:53:58,600 --> 00:53:59,600
Speaker 3: it's a fun, cool thing.

1149
00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:00,880
Speaker 1: You know, one does it.

1150
00:54:00,920 --> 00:54:03,239
Speaker 3: But as you grow up, you know, you start realizing

1151
00:54:03,280 --> 00:54:07,520
Speaker 3: that this devil is so real and he's very active

1152
00:54:07,560 --> 00:54:10,640
Speaker 3: in this country and everywhere else. You know, he's just

1153
00:54:10,719 --> 00:54:14,360
Speaker 3: manipulating people's minds. But I'll be honest, though, the only

1154
00:54:14,440 --> 00:54:15,480
Speaker 3: because I've tried.

1155
00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:18,320
Speaker 4: Everything under the sign, and I've tried like not drinking,

1156
00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:22,719
Speaker 4: not watching on pays, I've tried like to to you know,

1157
00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:25,839
Speaker 4: I've tried to deal with it myself, with my own

1158
00:54:25,880 --> 00:54:27,400
Speaker 4: hands and my own mindset.

1159
00:54:27,760 --> 00:54:30,480
Speaker 1: But the only thing that finally got.

1160
00:54:30,239 --> 00:54:33,520
Speaker 2: Me to like to just stop, Like overall, I can't

1161
00:54:33,560 --> 00:54:35,920
Speaker 2: even remember the last time I watched porn. I'll be honest,

1162
00:54:36,040 --> 00:54:39,200
Speaker 2: I'm being completely transparent. I'm very open about this subject.

1163
00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:43,200
Speaker 2: That's why That's why I brought it up is the Bible.

1164
00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:45,600
Speaker 2: I started reading into the world of God and I

1165
00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:49,520
Speaker 2: really started diving into it. And these past two years

1166
00:54:49,560 --> 00:54:52,720
Speaker 2: I've grown ever so strong in my relationship with Jesus Christ.

1167
00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 2: And I think, I think because I've grown, I've gone

1168
00:54:57,560 --> 00:55:02,480
Speaker 2: to adore the life of my savior Jesus. It just

1169
00:55:03,000 --> 00:55:06,040
Speaker 2: like subconsciously, I don't. I just don't. It doesn't just

1170
00:55:06,200 --> 00:55:08,920
Speaker 2: it just doesn't come around me anymore, Like it doesn't.

1171
00:55:09,239 --> 00:55:12,000
Speaker 2: It misses me, you know, I feel like it misses me.

1172
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:15,160
Speaker 2: Whereas before it was so it used to throb in

1173
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:18,320
Speaker 2: my brain like I was like a walking I was

1174
00:55:18,360 --> 00:55:21,240
Speaker 2: a walking pole of like dirt lad like yeah, any

1175
00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:24,400
Speaker 2: girl girls walk past and straight away. And I'm speaking

1176
00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:26,399
Speaker 2: for like so many men that are scared to say this.

1177
00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:29,200
Speaker 2: I really like I was. I was down bad and

1178
00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:31,120
Speaker 2: I knew it was bad.

1179
00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:31,920
Speaker 5: That's the thing.

1180
00:55:31,960 --> 00:55:33,560
Speaker 1: I knew it was bad. I didn't want to be

1181
00:55:33,680 --> 00:55:33,920
Speaker 1: like that.

1182
00:55:34,440 --> 00:55:36,839
Speaker 2: And then when when I started really getting into like

1183
00:55:37,239 --> 00:55:40,080
Speaker 2: the Bible and like every like all that stuff that

1184
00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:42,759
Speaker 2: we already talked about on Bros and cons and being

1185
00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:44,480
Speaker 2: sober as well was a big factor.

1186
00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:46,560
Speaker 1: It's gonna be hard.

1187
00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:49,040
Speaker 4: It'll be hard for you to like to keep your

1188
00:55:49,080 --> 00:55:52,080
Speaker 4: thoughts clean when you're getting drunk on the piss and

1189
00:55:52,120 --> 00:55:54,799
Speaker 4: like you're getting drugs in your system, when you have

1190
00:55:55,160 --> 00:55:57,759
Speaker 4: a sober heart hears God loud and clear. This is

1191
00:55:57,760 --> 00:56:00,800
Speaker 4: why I'm a big advocate for staying away from alcohol

1192
00:56:00,880 --> 00:56:04,800
Speaker 4: and drugs, and like, if you can handle your alcohol

1193
00:56:05,160 --> 00:56:07,800
Speaker 4: and you're not a menace, You're not a zoom menace

1194
00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:13,239
Speaker 4: like Malick, Like, yeah, drink, drink some alcohol, like have

1195
00:56:13,560 --> 00:56:17,160
Speaker 4: your wines at your your weddings and stuff. But obviously

1196
00:56:17,239 --> 00:56:19,560
Speaker 4: with with some of us, like it's better that we

1197
00:56:19,719 --> 00:56:21,440
Speaker 4: just we stay away from it overall.

1198
00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:21,600
Speaker 1: Way.

1199
00:56:22,280 --> 00:56:25,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's perfect, but perfect what you said, because

1200
00:56:26,120 --> 00:56:28,720
Speaker 3: I think when I started reading The Bubble With everything

1201
00:56:28,800 --> 00:56:29,319
Speaker 3: changed for me.

1202
00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:30,520
Speaker 1: I started looking.

1203
00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:31,480
Speaker 5: It's very powerful.

1204
00:56:31,520 --> 00:56:34,080
Speaker 3: Ag, Well, it's so different because, yeah, you feel like

1205
00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:36,640
Speaker 3: when you're reading it, you feel like Jesus is with

1206
00:56:36,719 --> 00:56:37,719
Speaker 3: you along the way.

1207
00:56:37,880 --> 00:56:39,360
Speaker 1: Do you feel like he's watching it?

1208
00:56:39,560 --> 00:56:42,080
Speaker 3: You feel like it's what everyone says, Oh God's watching you,

1209
00:56:42,160 --> 00:56:44,560
Speaker 3: but you never really knew what it meant.

1210
00:56:44,600 --> 00:56:45,760
Speaker 1: Until you read the scriptures.

1211
00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:48,520
Speaker 3: You feel like like He's literally like doing this on

1212
00:56:48,560 --> 00:56:51,640
Speaker 3: your shoulder. Yeah, every single step away. So I kind

1213
00:56:51,640 --> 00:56:54,120
Speaker 3: of get what Jay says. That's so true. You just

1214
00:56:54,160 --> 00:56:55,280
Speaker 3: explained it perfectly.

1215
00:56:55,360 --> 00:56:55,560
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1216
00:56:55,600 --> 00:56:58,080
Speaker 2: I think the most reason why when I started diving

1217
00:56:58,120 --> 00:57:01,480
Speaker 2: into my relationship fully with with you know, with my faith,

1218
00:57:02,040 --> 00:57:04,799
Speaker 2: it started feeling like he was watching me everywhere. So

1219
00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:06,759
Speaker 2: if you feel like he's watching you, you're not gonna

1220
00:57:06,800 --> 00:57:08,799
Speaker 2: go play with yourself, do you know.

1221
00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:09,200
Speaker 5: What I mean?

1222
00:57:10,800 --> 00:57:14,399
Speaker 2: Like you're really trying to live out everything that He's

1223
00:57:14,880 --> 00:57:15,719
Speaker 2: wanting you to do.

1224
00:57:15,840 --> 00:57:18,240
Speaker 3: And see that's that's just one of the best examples

1225
00:57:18,280 --> 00:57:21,720
Speaker 3: of how of what Jesus grace can do for anyone

1226
00:57:21,760 --> 00:57:24,600
Speaker 3: out there. You know, the power of his grace and

1227
00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:29,040
Speaker 3: his loving can just make individuals just switch them mentality

1228
00:57:29,320 --> 00:57:32,760
Speaker 3: like that and become a disciple, you know, just think

1229
00:57:33,320 --> 00:57:36,280
Speaker 3: and talk and teach like him. Yeah, it's mad, but

1230
00:57:36,600 --> 00:57:39,360
Speaker 3: I think Bible is probably it has to be number

1231
00:57:39,400 --> 00:57:41,960
Speaker 3: one on the top if you want to run away

1232
00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:43,240
Speaker 3: from the last Bible, bro.

1233
00:57:43,440 --> 00:57:47,720
Speaker 4: If it's not Bible, I would I would say that. Like, Well,

1234
00:57:47,760 --> 00:57:52,440
Speaker 4: for me personally, what I found in like, you know,

1235
00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:55,480
Speaker 4: killing my last because I found that my relationship at

1236
00:57:55,520 --> 00:57:58,440
Speaker 4: home was better with my wife every single time, you know,

1237
00:57:58,440 --> 00:58:00,840
Speaker 4: as soon as I killed last, you know, I had

1238
00:58:00,920 --> 00:58:04,240
Speaker 4: fun conversations with my wife, I had luck, you know,

1239
00:58:04,560 --> 00:58:06,560
Speaker 4: I was happy a lot, and not just my wife,

1240
00:58:06,600 --> 00:58:09,320
Speaker 4: but just the people around me. I found find more

1241
00:58:09,360 --> 00:58:12,960
Speaker 4: conversations even with say women that we haven't met.

1242
00:58:12,960 --> 00:58:14,840
Speaker 1: I felt I find it to be clean. The more

1243
00:58:14,880 --> 00:58:16,600
Speaker 1: genuine I find it, I find general.

1244
00:58:16,960 --> 00:58:20,240
Speaker 4: And all of this stuff eventually comes down to bad

1245
00:58:20,280 --> 00:58:22,480
Speaker 4: seeds and good seeds and your head. Luck we spoke before,

1246
00:58:22,960 --> 00:58:25,160
Speaker 4: and the more good seeds that you have in your head,

1247
00:58:25,240 --> 00:58:27,640
Speaker 4: you just come out. You come out better, You come out,

1248
00:58:27,640 --> 00:58:29,880
Speaker 4: but you start glowing like the way everyone wants to.

1249
00:58:30,920 --> 00:58:33,480
Speaker 4: And that's some advice I could give for those who

1250
00:58:33,560 --> 00:58:35,280
Speaker 4: haven't read the Bible, which you're going to read your

1251
00:58:35,280 --> 00:58:36,280
Speaker 4: Bible sing because you're.

1252
00:58:36,120 --> 00:58:38,320
Speaker 1: Watching both and cons. You're watching and cons.

1253
00:58:38,360 --> 00:58:40,880
Speaker 4: But that is some of the blessings and the fruits

1254
00:58:40,880 --> 00:58:44,720
Speaker 4: that come out of being real. And that was That

1255
00:58:44,880 --> 00:58:47,120
Speaker 4: was our last segment. Ladies and gentlemen. If you got

1256
00:58:47,200 --> 00:58:50,040
Speaker 4: upset today, and that's exactly what we wanted set today.

1257
00:58:50,080 --> 00:58:54,160
Speaker 2: We are talking to you. Yeah, stop watching that website.

1258
00:58:54,640 --> 00:58:57,760
Speaker 2: Stay away from that website. Brother, Thank you lads and

1259
00:58:57,800 --> 00:59:00,840
Speaker 2: the desk. We wanted to cover this, this whole podcast.

1260
00:59:00,880 --> 00:59:03,760
Speaker 2: We wanted to cover this topy and I've got some

1261
00:59:04,000 --> 00:59:05,400
Speaker 2: excited news for you guys.

1262
00:59:05,720 --> 00:59:08,000
Speaker 1: What was that excited news? Only I don't know what

1263
00:59:08,160 --> 00:59:10,320
Speaker 1: was it. I must have forgot at the whole segment.

1264
00:59:10,680 --> 00:59:15,480
Speaker 2: Oh guys, thank you to our brand new home. You

1265
00:59:15,480 --> 00:59:17,360
Speaker 2: guys can't see him, but he's in the back. It

1266
00:59:17,440 --> 00:59:19,600
Speaker 2: doesn't work than the man with the plan.

1267
00:59:19,800 --> 00:59:20,480
Speaker 1: That's what we need.

1268
00:59:22,360 --> 00:59:25,760
Speaker 2: He's he's our new maiden. He's he's just it's just

1269
00:59:25,800 --> 00:59:29,440
Speaker 2: been tremendous. Our relationship and friendship has yet to blossom

1270
00:59:29,720 --> 00:59:33,120
Speaker 2: into its fullest potential. Yeah, but this year he's looking

1271
00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:36,040
Speaker 2: to bring brozen Cons onto the next level. There's a

1272
00:59:36,080 --> 00:59:39,240
Speaker 2: lot of exciting things we're going to do outdoors. I

1273
00:59:39,240 --> 00:59:41,360
Speaker 2: don't want to get too much into it. We just

1274
00:59:41,400 --> 00:59:43,040
Speaker 2: want to We just want to get the ball rolling.

1275
00:59:43,080 --> 00:59:44,080
Speaker 2: We just want to do the count.

1276
00:59:44,200 --> 00:59:47,280
Speaker 4: And we also got so many topics to cover. And

1277
00:59:47,400 --> 00:59:50,040
Speaker 4: I'll notice, if you haven't noticed, we covered one topy

1278
00:59:50,440 --> 00:59:52,720
Speaker 4: in this episode. And the reason why we covered one

1279
00:59:52,760 --> 00:59:55,400
Speaker 4: because we're about to come out with at least close

1280
00:59:55,440 --> 00:59:57,520
Speaker 4: to to every single week. But we're definitely going to

1281
00:59:57,600 --> 00:59:59,600
Speaker 4: have one for you guys every week. Yeah, where we

1282
00:59:59,680 --> 01:00:03,800
Speaker 4: cover some of the biggest, the baddest topics in Sydney

1283
01:00:03,920 --> 01:00:06,800
Speaker 4: and we're about to go global, wanting us to stay

1284
01:00:06,800 --> 01:00:07,800
Speaker 4: with us along the way.

1285
01:00:08,080 --> 01:00:11,080
Speaker 2: Guys, Happy New Years from Bros and Cons. We love

1286
01:00:11,120 --> 01:00:13,560
Speaker 2: you or comment down below any topics you guys want

1287
01:00:13,560 --> 01:00:15,600
Speaker 2: to hear from us, any questions.

1288
01:00:15,440 --> 01:00:18,640
Speaker 1: And any guests, any guests as well, any guests.

1289
01:00:19,080 --> 01:00:21,280
Speaker 2: With all the things that we're going to be doing

1290
01:00:21,280 --> 01:00:22,640
Speaker 2: this year, we are going to be doing a lot

1291
01:00:22,640 --> 01:00:25,360
Speaker 2: of adventures, going out on foot. We're going to be

1292
01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:28,720
Speaker 2: doing missions at schools, live podcast things like that. I

1293
01:00:28,720 --> 01:00:30,640
Speaker 2: won't get too much into it, but a lot of

1294
01:00:30,640 --> 01:00:32,560
Speaker 2: the things we're going to be doing this year, it

1295
01:00:32,600 --> 01:00:35,240
Speaker 2: will require a bit of funds. Now, we're going to

1296
01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:37,560
Speaker 2: try and muster up whatever we can together as brothers.

1297
01:00:37,960 --> 01:00:40,720
Speaker 2: When we started this podcast, everything was coming directly out

1298
01:00:40,720 --> 01:00:43,400
Speaker 2: of our pocket, out of our paychecks, and so we

1299
01:00:43,480 --> 01:00:45,720
Speaker 2: are going to provide a link for anyone that wants

1300
01:00:45,800 --> 01:00:49,160
Speaker 2: to anyone that just wants to believe in our mission

1301
01:00:49,440 --> 01:00:51,080
Speaker 2: and you guys want to help us save a lot

1302
01:00:51,120 --> 01:00:53,400
Speaker 2: of the youth out there and use our story to

1303
01:00:53,560 --> 01:00:57,080
Speaker 2: bring light to the darkness in this country. But other

1304
01:00:57,120 --> 01:00:59,960
Speaker 2: than that, boys, yeah, right, welcome to the New Year's

1305
01:01:01,280 --> 01:01:03,840
Speaker 2: This next year guest is actually very exciting.

1306
01:01:04,440 --> 01:01:06,840
Speaker 4: And also we've got the website here for Tank Nation

1307
01:01:07,160 --> 01:01:10,200
Speaker 4: or just like quickly drag my finger around wherever it's

1308
01:01:10,240 --> 01:01:10,600
Speaker 4: gonna go.

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Speaker 1: For Tank Nation.

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Speaker 4: If you guys want to get your tank top, say

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Speaker 4: something Ronnie, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Tank We've got day with the white teas. I don't

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01:01:18,240 --> 01:01:19,560
Speaker 1: know if you guys can get this one. This one's

1314
01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:23,280
Speaker 1: only for the premium, but if you if you go

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01:01:23,360 --> 01:01:25,040
Speaker 1: on and you message me, I might be able to

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01:01:25,080 --> 01:01:25,600
Speaker 1: hook you up.

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Speaker 3: So sad message and who knows, we might do it

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Speaker 3: like a little sneaky giveaway Tank Nation.

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01:01:30,520 --> 01:01:31,360
Speaker 1: We might. We might.

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Speaker 5: We were giving away a bit too much.

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Speaker 2: Anyways, We love you guys, God bless We'll catch you

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Speaker 2: on the next one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah,