WEBVTT - Ask Britt and Laura anything 👌💢👈 HOLIDAY BONUS 0:00:19.560 --> 0:00:20.000 Hello. 0:00:20.079 --> 0:00:21.880 It is producer Keisha here with you. 0:00:22.120 --> 0:00:24.200 And as most of you are already aware, Laura and 0:00:24.239 --> 0:00:25.920 Britt are away on what we. 0:00:25.880 --> 0:00:27.680 Are calling a break. But I think that we need 0:00:27.680 --> 0:00:29.320 to put this word break in some. 0:00:29.200 --> 0:00:32.120 Little air buddies, because it doesn't really be much of 0:00:32.159 --> 0:00:35.080 a break. COVID had some other plans, but before they 0:00:35.120 --> 0:00:37.839 went on break, we sat down and we recorded a 0:00:37.880 --> 0:00:40.360 whole bunch of content for you guys, and one of 0:00:40.400 --> 0:00:42.480 them is what is going to play for you today? 0:00:42.600 --> 0:00:44.400 It isn't ask Britain Laura anything. 0:00:44.440 --> 0:00:45.080 Episode. 0:00:45.240 --> 0:00:45.400 Now. 0:00:45.400 --> 0:00:47.479 When I first put this up on our Instagram stories, 0:00:47.560 --> 0:00:49.800 some of the questions that came in were wonderful. 0:00:49.840 --> 0:00:50.560 Some of them were. 0:00:50.479 --> 0:00:52.440 Really great, and I was like, ohy, I'm actually really 0:00:52.440 --> 0:00:53.600 interested to know that as well. 0:00:54.000 --> 0:00:56.680 Some of them were pretty weird. 0:00:58.040 --> 0:01:01.560 And we thought, well, you know what, this podcast, we 0:01:01.720 --> 0:01:03.800 kind of do bear all on it, and so some 0:01:03.840 --> 0:01:05.640 of these questions are about to come up for you. 0:01:05.840 --> 0:01:08.720 I listened back to this episode today and I think, 0:01:08.880 --> 0:01:11.680 you know right now, I'm currently in the Sydney lockdown. 0:01:12.040 --> 0:01:15.000 I know that Victoria I'm backing in an extended lockdown, 0:01:15.080 --> 0:01:17.960 and some new restrictions for places like South Australia. It's 0:01:18.000 --> 0:01:19.520 just all a bit of a blender at the moment, 0:01:20.040 --> 0:01:22.440 but it really gave me a little bit of an escape, 0:01:22.560 --> 0:01:24.600 I guess I would call it, and it gave me 0:01:24.640 --> 0:01:25.240 a bit of a laugh. 0:01:25.280 --> 0:01:26.360 So I hope that today that. 0:01:26.280 --> 0:01:28.479 Can do the exact same thing for you, especially if 0:01:28.480 --> 0:01:30.840 you need it right now. Coming up this Thursday, we 0:01:30.880 --> 0:01:32.960 are taking a trip down memory lane, which means that 0:01:33.000 --> 0:01:36.040 we are revisiting one of our favorite episodes from the past. 0:01:36.560 --> 0:01:40.160 But then on Friday, I have something kind of spicy 0:01:40.200 --> 0:01:44.040 for you guys, something brand new, something that you haven't 0:01:44.080 --> 0:01:47.400 heard before. As most of you would be aware, the 0:01:47.440 --> 0:01:49.840 new season of The Bachelor starts this Wednesday. This is 0:01:49.880 --> 0:01:53.400 the season with pilot Jimmy and Laura and Matt caught 0:01:53.440 --> 0:01:56.200 up with Jimmy last week. Now, firstly, we know that 0:01:56.240 --> 0:01:58.480 not everyone who listens to this podcast loves The Bachelor, 0:01:58.520 --> 0:01:59.760 which is why we didn't want to put it into 0:01:59.760 --> 0:02:01.880 one of our normal episodes. We kind of didn't want to, 0:02:02.400 --> 0:02:05.360 you know, combine the two. So on Fridays, we are 0:02:05.400 --> 0:02:08.640 going to be dropping a brand new batch recap with 0:02:08.680 --> 0:02:12.080 your favorite Bachelor's success story Laura and Maddi j That 0:02:12.160 --> 0:02:15.920 will be dropping in your podcast libraries every Friday for 0:02:15.960 --> 0:02:17.880 the next I think it's like seven weeks. So the 0:02:17.919 --> 0:02:20.000 Bachelor goes for as long as the series goes for, 0:02:20.160 --> 0:02:22.240 is however long they are going to be doing these 0:02:22.280 --> 0:02:24.720 ba recaps. And I know that a whole lot of 0:02:24.720 --> 0:02:28.160 publications do Bachelor recaps, But something that I find really 0:02:28.160 --> 0:02:31.880 interesting when talking to Laura or matt about The Bachelor 0:02:32.520 --> 0:02:36.320 is that they have this whole extended understanding of what 0:02:36.400 --> 0:02:38.519 goes on obviously behind the scenes because they were both 0:02:38.520 --> 0:02:41.160 on the show, but also they understand the language around 0:02:41.200 --> 0:02:44.000 the Bachelor franchise, and that's something that I haven't quite 0:02:44.040 --> 0:02:46.000 been able to understand myself yet. 0:02:46.280 --> 0:02:47.440 So you're probably going to. 0:02:47.360 --> 0:02:49.600 Be getting a little bit of a different perspective. So today, 0:02:49.960 --> 0:02:52.680 brand new episode, ask Laura and britt anything. Thursday, we're 0:02:52.720 --> 0:02:55.359 taking a trip down memory Lane, and Friday, that episode 0:02:55.520 --> 0:02:57.480 the Bachelor recap with Laura and Matty J will be 0:02:57.560 --> 0:02:59.000 dropping in your podcast libraries. 0:02:59.160 --> 0:03:00.280 So let's get what twit. 0:03:04.000 --> 0:03:06.120 Hey, guys, and welcome back to you another episode of 0:03:06.160 --> 0:03:06.880 Life un Cut. 0:03:06.960 --> 0:03:08.240 I am producer. 0:03:07.880 --> 0:03:11.080 Keisha, and I'm Wara and I'm Brittany, and we're supposed 0:03:11.080 --> 0:03:14.000 to be on holidays, but psych here we are. They 0:03:14.000 --> 0:03:15.760 thought that they could take a couple of weeks off, 0:03:15.760 --> 0:03:18.040 and they thought that they could get away with actually 0:03:18.080 --> 0:03:20.160 taking some time off. And they said no, no, no, no, no, 0:03:20.560 --> 0:03:22.480 You're like, you still need to pay me, like I 0:03:22.520 --> 0:03:24.639 still need to earn a salary. That's what she said. 0:03:24.760 --> 0:03:26.560 She's like, girls gotta eat, girls gotta eat. 0:03:26.600 --> 0:03:27.760 So here we are. No, we did. 0:03:27.880 --> 0:03:29.280 Look, we did want to take a break, but we 0:03:29.320 --> 0:03:30.960 also we love what we do. 0:03:31.040 --> 0:03:32.079 We've got an issue. 0:03:32.120 --> 0:03:33.640 We don't know how to take time off, so we 0:03:33.639 --> 0:03:35.840 wanted to make sure we at least gave you something. 0:03:36.040 --> 0:03:36.520 We thought. 0:03:36.680 --> 0:03:39.240 We're pretty open on this podcast, but we've never really 0:03:39.280 --> 0:03:42.520 answered questions that you guys have wanted us to answer. 0:03:42.800 --> 0:03:44.360 Well, I mean, we answer the questions that you guys 0:03:44.400 --> 0:03:46.440 want us to answer every single week on ask on cart. 0:03:46.440 --> 0:03:47.720 However, what it. 0:03:47.600 --> 0:03:49.880 Means is that we're answering the questions that you guys 0:03:49.880 --> 0:03:55.040 have asked specifically about us and specifically non bachelor related. So, 0:03:55.160 --> 0:03:57.120 for example, Brittany, do you like anal sex? 0:03:58.160 --> 0:03:58.760 I can't tell you. 0:03:58.800 --> 0:04:02.240 Actually, so many people are aready not about my specific anal sex, but. 0:04:04.080 --> 0:04:05.800 Not about my specific aus. 0:04:05.920 --> 0:04:08.320 No, a lot of people had some but questions. Producer 0:04:08.360 --> 0:04:10.960 Keisha has put a bunch of questions together. She has 0:04:10.960 --> 0:04:13.120 compiled some of the best someone is most serious and 0:04:13.120 --> 0:04:14.560 some of the funniest, and. 0:04:14.640 --> 0:04:15.840 We haven't really read them. 0:04:16.000 --> 0:04:17.440 She sort of briefed us on a few, and we're like, 0:04:17.480 --> 0:04:19.200 you know what, just hit us, Hit us one on 0:04:19.240 --> 0:04:20.200 the show Hit Us Live. 0:04:20.360 --> 0:04:22.719 We'll just back to the butt questions for one hot second. 0:04:22.839 --> 0:04:25.239 Let's just skim past that. She like me to actually 0:04:25.279 --> 0:04:28.440 reference that particular message because for you guys listening, there 0:04:28.520 --> 0:04:30.919 is a reason that we're joking about anal play. The 0:04:30.960 --> 0:04:32.920 girls are really open about I would say ninety nine 0:04:32.920 --> 0:04:35.359 percent of things. So we put up an Instagram story saying, hey, 0:04:35.400 --> 0:04:37.599 you've got a question for Laura or Britt, send it through. 0:04:37.920 --> 0:04:42.600 And some of the questions were fucking cooked. Some of 0:04:42.640 --> 0:04:45.720 you guys, we thought we were cooked. Oh everything with 0:04:45.800 --> 0:04:47.960 you no holds baths. But this is one thing we're 0:04:47.960 --> 0:04:48.960 going to keep to ourselves. 0:04:49.400 --> 0:04:51.400 And the particular message, Oh my god. 0:04:51.240 --> 0:04:51.839 I loved it. 0:04:52.320 --> 0:04:57.120 I'm paraphrasing, but it basically said, Hey, I'm interested in 0:04:57.480 --> 0:05:00.479 whether Laura is into anal play or not. Because it's 0:05:00.520 --> 0:05:02.800 been brought up on the podcast a couple of times, 0:05:02.920 --> 0:05:04.920 and Britt seems to point her nose up at it. 0:05:05.160 --> 0:05:07.800 And we are not shaming people who are into anal play, 0:05:07.880 --> 0:05:10.800 because I mean quite frankly, I answer. 0:05:10.640 --> 0:05:12.800 And I like a finger in the bum sometimes, but 0:05:12.880 --> 0:05:16.200 no more. You guys asked for it, and here it is. 0:05:16.400 --> 0:05:18.680 That's the pinky and the stinky, long and short of it. 0:05:19.279 --> 0:05:20.960 The fact that you have a rhyme the pinking and 0:05:21.120 --> 0:05:23.560 stinky concerns me because you obviously love do love a 0:05:23.600 --> 0:05:24.239 pinky and stinky. 0:05:24.279 --> 0:05:26.960 That's so good for you. My comment here shame me. 0:05:27.160 --> 0:05:28.640 I'm not and this is what I want to comment. 0:05:28.720 --> 0:05:29.440 This is what we're taking. 0:05:29.480 --> 0:05:32.119 Holidays her nose up. I'm sorry. 0:05:32.160 --> 0:05:34.680 I have not turned my nose. It's too good for 0:05:34.720 --> 0:05:35.320 anal play. 0:05:35.680 --> 0:05:37.560 I would not ever I turned. 0:05:37.279 --> 0:05:40.200 My nose up at anyone or anything that you guys 0:05:40.240 --> 0:05:40.560 want to do. 0:05:40.640 --> 0:05:41.200 I'm fucking you. 0:05:41.240 --> 0:05:42.080 Go get a girl. 0:05:42.320 --> 0:05:44.799 The only reason that I don't talk about butt play 0:05:44.839 --> 0:05:48.280 on the podcast is because I share, like Keisha. 0:05:47.960 --> 0:05:49.560 Said, ninety nine point n I've sent in my life 0:05:49.600 --> 0:05:51.320 on this podcast. I think there's got to be. 0:05:51.279 --> 0:05:52.840 Like one tiny little sliver. 0:05:53.760 --> 0:05:54.520 Oh, I understand. 0:05:54.520 --> 0:06:00.400 It's because you're saying you have self respect. 0:05:58.080 --> 0:05:59.279 A daily mail just so. 0:05:59.400 --> 0:06:04.200 You know's was one in this sinky. Okay, make sure 0:06:04.240 --> 0:06:06.920 you get that right. Brittany has respect. Laura has a 0:06:06.960 --> 0:06:09.440 pinky and stinky. Also, there's gotta be a little room 0:06:09.520 --> 0:06:12.880 fit of risk. Can you squawk down? There's got to 0:06:12.880 --> 0:06:14.320 be a little bit of respect also. 0:06:14.120 --> 0:06:16.600 Sometimes for our partners and the situations we're in. And 0:06:16.680 --> 0:06:18.359 that's what it is for me. There's just some things 0:06:18.360 --> 0:06:20.200 that are like that that I'm not going to talk about. 0:06:20.240 --> 0:06:21.960 And if you think that's me chasing my nose up 0:06:21.960 --> 0:06:22.880 at you, well you just don't know me. 0:06:22.960 --> 0:06:23.520 Like where you been? 0:06:23.600 --> 0:06:27.200 Why you seem so offended? I am Brittany turned her 0:06:27.279 --> 0:06:28.200 nose up at the butt. 0:06:28.360 --> 0:06:30.440 I didn't know such thing, and I don't need to 0:06:30.440 --> 0:06:33.960 talk about it because she does about honestly. Okay, So 0:06:34.080 --> 0:06:36.039 with this episode, guys, some of you are gonna be like, 0:06:36.120 --> 0:06:38.719 these guys have been drinking the kool aid. But what 0:06:38.760 --> 0:06:40.560 we plan on doing is that we know that we 0:06:40.600 --> 0:06:43.039 are so open with you all. There's probably very few 0:06:43.120 --> 0:06:45.960 things that you don't already know about us. Honestly, even 0:06:45.960 --> 0:06:48.240 some of my closest friends will say to me, Hey, Laura, 0:06:48.400 --> 0:06:50.320 so I heard on the podcast that this is happening 0:06:50.360 --> 0:06:52.680 in your life and you didn't decide to share that 0:06:52.720 --> 0:06:55.240 with me directly, So you guys know more. 0:06:55.040 --> 0:06:56.120 Than the fair share of people. 0:06:56.120 --> 0:06:59.080 However, we've got some questions here that Keisha's put together 0:06:59.680 --> 0:07:01.400 just to give you a little bit more of an 0:07:01.440 --> 0:07:04.880 insight into our lives, into our friendship, into this podcast. 0:07:05.440 --> 0:07:07.600 I'm a bit scared, but I'm prepared, all right. 0:07:07.640 --> 0:07:10.080 So let's get you guys into some of the questions 0:07:10.080 --> 0:07:12.120 that have been sent through from our wonderful lifers. 0:07:12.800 --> 0:07:13.760 The first one, I. 0:07:13.840 --> 0:07:15.200 Put this one at the top because I think that 0:07:15.320 --> 0:07:16.960 you can kind of tell a little bit about someone's 0:07:16.960 --> 0:07:19.679 personality from this, and it was a pretty simple question. 0:07:20.120 --> 0:07:22.120 How do you both like your coffee without? 0:07:23.400 --> 0:07:25.920 Okay, I like a coffee and now I'm joking, Please 0:07:25.920 --> 0:07:27.840 don't write that daily mault. I've got a bloody four 0:07:27.880 --> 0:07:29.760 month old baby. I'm not having any play. I will 0:07:29.760 --> 0:07:32.400 answer this question because I know I'm the best podcast friend. 0:07:32.480 --> 0:07:34.240 Laura has a soy cappuccino. 0:07:34.280 --> 0:07:37.720 Don't you a large one? A large soy cappuccino shot? 0:07:38.120 --> 0:07:39.040 Why the soy milk? 0:07:39.120 --> 0:07:39.480 Do you know what? 0:07:39.520 --> 0:07:41.720 I used to think that soy milk tasted like cardboard, 0:07:41.840 --> 0:07:43.600 and I used to always have skim and then I 0:07:43.640 --> 0:07:45.440 dated a guy who drank soy milk and he got 0:07:45.440 --> 0:07:47.680 me onto it. It's like a gateway drug. She's like, 0:07:47.760 --> 0:07:49.160 I will do anything you do to stay with you. 0:07:49.280 --> 0:07:50.360 I'll have soy milk. 0:07:50.720 --> 0:07:53.760 It's pretty and we morphed myself into your being. 0:07:53.960 --> 0:07:56.200 I wish we were joking, but you all know my 0:07:56.280 --> 0:07:58.960 codependent issues that I have, and yeah, that's pretty much 0:07:59.000 --> 0:07:59.520 what happened. 0:07:59.800 --> 0:08:02.240 I'm an almond milk cappuccino girl. I'm not opposed to 0:08:02.280 --> 0:08:04.480 soy milk. I'm not opposed to oat milk. But I 0:08:04.520 --> 0:08:06.520 am one hundred percent of posed to full cream milk 0:08:06.560 --> 0:08:08.920 and skim milk purely because of the taste, nothing else 0:08:08.920 --> 0:08:10.760 about it. I just have never had it in my 0:08:10.920 --> 0:08:13.880 entire existence. So I'm definitely an almond milk girl now, 0:08:14.200 --> 0:08:16.840 until someone recently told me that you go through so 0:08:16.920 --> 0:08:20.040 many almonds to make like the tiniest little coffee. 0:08:20.120 --> 0:08:22.920 Well, they don't have titties, so they can't milk them. 0:08:23.200 --> 0:08:23.920 It's nut juice. 0:08:24.080 --> 0:08:26.040 Apparently it's actually not very good for the environments. And 0:08:26.080 --> 0:08:26.960 now I'm like, what do I drink? 0:08:27.040 --> 0:08:27.280 Now? 0:08:27.400 --> 0:08:29.720 One thing that is funny about this is that Britt 0:08:29.720 --> 0:08:32.319 and I have now had this podcast for like two years. 0:08:32.600 --> 0:08:35.760 We have been friends for just over two years, and 0:08:35.840 --> 0:08:37.680 for at least a year and a half, I was 0:08:37.679 --> 0:08:39.920 getting her coffee and I was getting her a soy cappuccino. 0:08:39.960 --> 0:08:41.320 And I called her one day and I was like, Oh, 0:08:41.360 --> 0:08:44.000 it's so convenient that we have the same coffee. And 0:08:44.040 --> 0:08:46.600 Britt was like, we had literally been friends for a year, 0:08:46.640 --> 0:08:49.160 and she was like, Oh, I hate to break it 0:08:49.200 --> 0:08:50.960 to you, but I actually really like almond milk. But 0:08:51.000 --> 0:08:52.680 you've just been getting me the wrong fucking thing for 0:08:52.720 --> 0:08:53.079 a year. 0:08:53.600 --> 0:08:55.040 Yeah, you didn't say anything. 0:08:55.240 --> 0:08:56.480 I don't like confrontation. 0:08:57.200 --> 0:08:59.920 Confrontation, but I just like, I just wanted to please you. 0:09:00.240 --> 0:09:03.200 Communication is very important in relationships, but do. 0:09:03.200 --> 0:09:04.880 You know what it's because if you were getting me 0:09:04.920 --> 0:09:07.280 full cream milk, which I detested, I would have said something. 0:09:07.320 --> 0:09:09.040 But I'm not opposed to it. I know it's easier 0:09:09.040 --> 0:09:11.560 for the barista, it's easier for you to remember. So 0:09:11.559 --> 0:09:12.720 I was like, I'm just gonna roll with it. 0:09:12.760 --> 0:09:14.280 And after a year, I was like, Okay, it's probably 0:09:14.400 --> 0:09:16.640 enough time. It's like the woman that got her hair 0:09:16.679 --> 0:09:18.680 cut the wrong way for twenty years. When I ask 0:09:18.679 --> 0:09:21.240 I'm cut recently, she just didn't want to break it 0:09:21.240 --> 0:09:21.400 to it. 0:09:21.400 --> 0:09:22.400 I didn't want to break it to you. 0:09:22.559 --> 0:09:24.599 I'm sitting here as well as we record this, just 0:09:24.640 --> 0:09:27.920 so you guys really know everything that's happening. It's seven 0:09:28.120 --> 0:09:30.280 thirty PM. I should have been home to feed Lola 0:09:30.280 --> 0:09:33.440 about forty minutes ago, and I started leaking, and so 0:09:33.600 --> 0:09:35.559 instead of getting me a toilet paper, Brick just came 0:09:35.559 --> 0:09:38.280 over and bought me a Libra pad, not sponsored Libra. 0:09:38.520 --> 0:09:38.920 Where you are? 0:09:39.040 --> 0:09:40.400 I know, I'm just sitting here with the Maxi pad 0:09:40.400 --> 0:09:41.920 down in front of me. So that's how close our 0:09:41.920 --> 0:09:43.840 friendship is. Now. I know she has almond milk and 0:09:43.880 --> 0:09:45.960 I'm sitting here lactating on myself. 0:09:46.000 --> 0:09:47.360 She asked for a tissue. I bring her a pad. 0:09:47.360 --> 0:09:50.319 This is just the kind of person I am. Can 0:09:50.320 --> 0:09:52.480 we get into something more serious? Now? Yes? We can, 0:09:52.960 --> 0:09:56.520 something very serious like a toxin. You both mentioned that 0:09:56.640 --> 0:09:59.760 you have had bowtops. How often do you get it? 0:10:00.120 --> 0:10:03.360 I have had botox? Well, actually, do you know what? 0:10:03.720 --> 0:10:06.360 The very first time I ever had botox was because 0:10:06.400 --> 0:10:09.400 I was dating a guy and I didn't feel attractive enough, 0:10:09.520 --> 0:10:11.520 and I went and I got botox because I thought 0:10:11.559 --> 0:10:13.600 if I was more attractive, he would like me more. 0:10:13.679 --> 0:10:15.880 How old we this was the toxic guy. This was 0:10:15.920 --> 0:10:18.720 the guy I dated before Matt, so I was twenty nine. 0:10:19.080 --> 0:10:21.280 I was in one of those relationships where I wanted 0:10:21.320 --> 0:10:24.080 to look better, and I thought that if I looked better, 0:10:24.080 --> 0:10:26.000 if I was more desirable, if I was funnier, if 0:10:26.000 --> 0:10:28.400 it was prettier, all of that shit that we kind 0:10:28.400 --> 0:10:30.880 of do to ourselves when we're in a really bad relationship. 0:10:30.880 --> 0:10:33.679 I thought if I looked better, he would be better 0:10:33.720 --> 0:10:36.240 to me. And it didn't work and he wasn't. That 0:10:36.320 --> 0:10:38.000 was the first time I had botox and I didn't 0:10:38.000 --> 0:10:41.319 have it again until after I finished The Bachelor once again, 0:10:41.480 --> 0:10:44.520 pretty crappy self esteem, which is when I started, And 0:10:44.520 --> 0:10:46.439 then I had it once since Marley, which was about 0:10:46.600 --> 0:10:48.360 a year and a half ago now, and I haven't 0:10:48.400 --> 0:10:50.080 had it since then. I think all of us have 0:10:50.080 --> 0:10:52.959 fallen into that trap of if I look better, he'll. 0:10:52.920 --> 0:10:54.079 Like me more and treat me better. 0:10:56.160 --> 0:10:56.319 Enough. 0:10:56.360 --> 0:10:59.760 Botox in the world, Baby, it's a terrible equation. I'm skinnier, 0:10:59.800 --> 0:11:00.440 I'm better. 0:11:00.600 --> 0:11:00.960 Yeah. 0:11:01.400 --> 0:11:04.120 I have had botox. I mean, I don't know how 0:11:04.160 --> 0:11:06.400 many times exactly. I've had it a few times. The 0:11:06.440 --> 0:11:09.360 first time I got it was similar Laura. I didn't 0:11:09.400 --> 0:11:11.640 have it until I was thirty one, and it was 0:11:11.679 --> 0:11:13.959 when I came on the other side of The Bachelor. 0:11:14.080 --> 0:11:16.600 Like, just to put this into perspective, I didn't know 0:11:16.640 --> 0:11:17.400 botox was. 0:11:17.320 --> 0:11:19.280 A thing like and I don't mean a thing. I 0:11:19.360 --> 0:11:22.000 knew that celebrities got in Hollywood, but I grew up 0:11:22.080 --> 0:11:25.160 very sheltered in Port mccruary. My friend's circle, no one 0:11:25.679 --> 0:11:28.040 got bowtox. It wasn't in the surroundings, so we didn't 0:11:28.080 --> 0:11:31.520 know about it. I was pretty much, oh, maybe like 0:11:31.559 --> 0:11:34.160 one of a very small handful of people, like two 0:11:34.240 --> 0:11:36.360 or three on The Bachelor. They hadn't had anything, no 0:11:36.440 --> 0:11:37.839 surgery or botox or anything. 0:11:37.880 --> 0:11:38.440 And I was. 0:11:38.440 --> 0:11:41.720 Abnormal and I felt really out of place, and I 0:11:41.760 --> 0:11:43.360 was like, oh my god, I'm probably really old and 0:11:43.440 --> 0:11:45.000 ugly compared to all these people. 0:11:45.480 --> 0:11:46.920 I came out of The Bachelor and I was like, 0:11:47.040 --> 0:11:49.080 to be honest, I really liked it. It didn't have 0:11:49.240 --> 0:11:50.240 the I guess. 0:11:50.320 --> 0:11:52.240 There was always when I didn't know about it, and 0:11:52.240 --> 0:11:54.680 I always had this stigma that it was something really 0:11:54.760 --> 0:11:56.880 bad to do and it was bad to speak about 0:11:56.960 --> 0:11:58.959 and it was taboo, but. 0:11:58.960 --> 0:12:00.920 I quite liked it. I was like, okay, cool. I 0:12:00.920 --> 0:12:02.960 had a wrinkle there and now I don't. I've just 0:12:03.000 --> 0:12:05.280 reversed my age year as much as I had it 0:12:05.320 --> 0:12:07.640 done the first time, which came from like low self 0:12:07.720 --> 0:12:10.520 esteem thing. When I have had it since and when 0:12:10.520 --> 0:12:12.360 I had it after I had Mali, it didn't come 0:12:12.360 --> 0:12:14.320 from low self esteem. Like. I did that for myself 0:12:14.360 --> 0:12:16.040 and I did it because I wanted to. So I 0:12:16.120 --> 0:12:19.320 don't think and like, there is nothing wrong if you 0:12:19.360 --> 0:12:21.880 are doing any tweaks or adjustments and you're doing that. 0:12:21.840 --> 0:12:22.720 Shit for yourself. 0:12:22.760 --> 0:12:25.120 It's only if you're doing it because you think it'll 0:12:25.160 --> 0:12:27.160 improve something about you, because you want to be better 0:12:27.200 --> 0:12:27.800 for someone else. 0:12:27.880 --> 0:12:29.040 That's where the issue lies. 0:12:29.480 --> 0:12:32.640 So when I've finished breastfeeding Lola and I'm no longer 0:12:32.720 --> 0:12:34.840 kind of in my postpartum phase, you'll. 0:12:34.720 --> 0:12:36.480 Be knocking on the door. I'll get a couple like 0:12:37.880 --> 0:12:39.079 my foreign Yeah, I think. 0:12:39.080 --> 0:12:40.440 So, I think just to wrap that up, as long 0:12:40.440 --> 0:12:42.600 as you're doing it for yourself, I think whatever floats 0:12:42.640 --> 0:12:44.319 you bow, you face your choice. 0:12:44.400 --> 0:12:44.840 I like that. 0:12:45.120 --> 0:12:48.120 Well, something another very personalized thing. If you had an 0:12:48.120 --> 0:12:51.840 intro music, what song would it be? So I picture 0:12:51.880 --> 0:12:53.839 this as if you were like a fighter going into 0:12:53.920 --> 0:12:57.040 the ring. Because you guys already have intro music for 0:12:57.080 --> 0:13:02.720 your podcast. I can't remember who sings this, but I'm 0:13:02.720 --> 0:13:04.400 gonna sing it anyway because I can't remember the name 0:13:04.400 --> 0:13:06.920 of either. But it's going to be that I'm a bitch, 0:13:07.040 --> 0:13:10.600 I'm a lover, I'm a chad, I'm a murder, I'm 0:13:10.640 --> 0:13:13.520 a sinner, I'm a sick. I don't know who it 0:13:13.600 --> 0:13:19.080 is doing, but I think because we are complex, multifaceted 0:13:19.160 --> 0:13:20.760 human beings, I'm going to be that song. 0:13:21.240 --> 0:13:25.080 I feel like I needed more time to the Meredith Brooks, Oh, yeah, 0:13:25.880 --> 0:13:26.360 that's it. 0:13:26.440 --> 0:13:27.920 I feel like I needed more time to think about 0:13:27.920 --> 0:13:29.920 this in or honesty, I would love to hear what 0:13:29.960 --> 0:13:31.240 you guys think my song would be. 0:13:31.400 --> 0:13:34.120 But maybe like it's doula to. 0:13:34.080 --> 0:13:37.359 Apologize one republic. 0:13:37.880 --> 0:13:41.000 It's tula, but not because I want to apologize to am, 0:13:41.000 --> 0:13:42.240 but I feel like a whole bunch of people need 0:13:42.240 --> 0:13:42.880 to apologize. 0:13:45.960 --> 0:13:48.880 You know who you are. Hashtag honey Badgers doesn't have 0:13:48.920 --> 0:13:52.360 any suppressed to remot over here much. Did you ever 0:13:52.440 --> 0:13:54.360 have a life or death moment? 0:13:54.679 --> 0:13:54.920 Yes? 0:13:55.320 --> 0:13:59.920 Yes, so when I was in my twenties. I used 0:13:59.920 --> 0:14:01.200 to worked down in Bury. 0:14:01.360 --> 0:14:04.160 I used to work at a wedding venue down there, 0:14:04.200 --> 0:14:06.680 and I would drive down there from Woollongong every weekend. 0:14:07.120 --> 0:14:09.920 Far is that for non East Coasters from Woollongong. 0:14:09.920 --> 0:14:12.040 It's about forty minutes, so I drive down there. I 0:14:12.080 --> 0:14:14.280 would work a late shift because I was working at 0:14:14.320 --> 0:14:16.679 a wedding venue and a restaurant. And this one night 0:14:16.679 --> 0:14:19.960 I was driving home and in Kayama there is this 0:14:20.400 --> 0:14:23.000 railway crossing that crosses over the road. When it has 0:14:23.000 --> 0:14:25.240 the flashing lights, you stop because obviously there's a train coming. 0:14:25.880 --> 0:14:29.720 Was maybe about midnight. I hadn't paid any attention, like 0:14:29.760 --> 0:14:31.840 I mean, there was no lights flashing, because the lights 0:14:31.840 --> 0:14:33.440 were off, but I wasn't really paying a lot of 0:14:33.440 --> 0:14:36.640 attention to the railway tracks because I was driving doing 0:14:36.640 --> 0:14:40.120 my thing. Lights weren't flashing. Unberknownst to me, the lights 0:14:40.120 --> 0:14:42.720 were broken and I went through the railway and as 0:14:42.720 --> 0:14:45.760 I was going through the tracks, the lights came in 0:14:45.800 --> 0:14:49.120 through my side window and the horn, the noise of 0:14:49.160 --> 0:14:50.400 the horn and the train was like. 0:14:50.600 --> 0:14:54.040 Ray, oh what gord Flora, And then I see it. 0:14:55.120 --> 0:14:57.280 I didn't see it. I didn't hear I didn't pay any. 0:14:57.280 --> 0:14:59.400 I was just driving and not paying attention to what 0:14:59.440 --> 0:15:02.800 was happening. In my periphering, there's usually. 0:15:02.640 --> 0:15:06.320 Flashing lights like a stop sign. Stop it around occasion 0:15:06.360 --> 0:15:08.960 that a train is coming booms come down. No, there's 0:15:09.000 --> 0:15:09.680 no boom there. 0:15:09.800 --> 0:15:12.520 There's just like a flashing light because it's it's a 0:15:12.560 --> 0:15:15.080 really rural area. This and this is also going back 0:15:15.160 --> 0:15:17.640 like fifteen years and I skidded off the side of 0:15:17.640 --> 0:15:19.480 the road and then had a big cry because I 0:15:19.520 --> 0:15:21.200 was like, oh my god, I think I was about 0:15:21.240 --> 0:15:22.840 to die by a train. 0:15:23.040 --> 0:15:23.280 Yeah. 0:15:23.320 --> 0:15:24.840 Wow, that one's taking my breath away. 0:15:25.080 --> 0:15:28.200 Wow, good luck. 0:15:28.400 --> 0:15:31.320 I'm like, my choking on a mentos just doesn't really compare. 0:15:32.760 --> 0:15:35.280 This was recently, like probably two years ago, when I 0:15:35.280 --> 0:15:37.560 was in Canada with Sherry and Jay were driving in 0:15:37.560 --> 0:15:40.080 the car and I had I'm pretty sure from memory 0:15:40.080 --> 0:15:43.080 it was a mentors, like very circular and it's the 0:15:43.120 --> 0:15:45.120 width of your esophagus, and I put in my mouth 0:15:45.160 --> 0:15:47.880