WEBVTT - Ask Uncut - Destination Weddings & Gifts, Pubic Hair and Double Texting 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.800 Life Uncut acknowledges the traditional custodians of country whose lands 0:00:03.840 --> 0:00:06.520 were never seated. We pay our respects to their elders 0:00:06.559 --> 0:00:07.600 past and present. 0:00:07.560 --> 0:00:11.320 Always was, always will be Aboriginal Land. This episode was 0:00:11.360 --> 0:00:12.760 recorded on Cameragle Land. 0:00:22.520 --> 0:00:24.800 Hi, guys, and welcome back to another episode of Life 0:00:24.800 --> 0:00:27.760 fun Cut. I'm Brittany and I'm Laura, and it is 0:00:27.880 --> 0:00:30.200 therapy Thursday. Ask guncut and you're writing you deep as 0:00:30.280 --> 0:00:32.680 dark as burning questions. We do our best answer them. 0:00:33.440 --> 0:00:35.559 Before that, Laura, you. 0:00:35.560 --> 0:00:39.320 Are being taken down on social media. I'm not being 0:00:39.360 --> 0:00:42.760 taken down. Yes bye. If you guys have followed. 0:00:42.640 --> 0:00:45.040 Me on social media, I mean, if you haven't, it's 0:00:45.080 --> 0:00:47.040 at lad in Cat, please go and follow me with 0:00:47.080 --> 0:00:47.800 a few extra bones. 0:00:47.800 --> 0:00:49.640 Brittany underscore Hockley, You've got way more than me. 0:00:50.120 --> 0:00:54.160 Do you think that's the man? You motherfuckers? 0:00:54.280 --> 0:00:55.800 Pha, you've grown astronomically. 0:00:56.120 --> 0:00:56.320 Yeah. 0:00:56.400 --> 0:00:57.760 But I don't post very often. 0:00:58.240 --> 0:00:59.720 Sometimes I just get in moods. 0:00:59.480 --> 0:01:01.200 Where I'm like, I don't want to be a slave 0:01:01.240 --> 0:01:02.160 to this algorithm. 0:01:02.360 --> 0:01:03.560 The last thing I posted was. 0:01:03.480 --> 0:01:04.360 My rag on video. 0:01:04.440 --> 0:01:07.440 I'll be honest, though, Keisha is like wrapping Tony Mayhead's 0:01:07.440 --> 0:01:10.280 toe and every so often she'll post her rings, or 0:01:10.280 --> 0:01:12.440 she'll post some piece of jewelry that she has. 0:01:12.720 --> 0:01:14.880 The engagement. This girl has brands. 0:01:14.920 --> 0:01:17.319 If you were out there, I've got the micro influencer 0:01:17.360 --> 0:01:19.680 of the year for you right here, Keisha Pettitt. 0:01:19.720 --> 0:01:21.360 He she is. I just I don't know if this 0:01:21.520 --> 0:01:25.560 is imposter syndrome, but I just don't I don't know 0:01:25.560 --> 0:01:27.800 why anyone would want that. Does that make sense? 0:01:27.800 --> 0:01:28.160 I don't know. 0:01:28.240 --> 0:01:30.080 I guess it's a little bit of a weird conundrum 0:01:30.120 --> 0:01:31.880 because I see you guys, and you guys are obviously 0:01:32.040 --> 0:01:34.280 very good at what you do, and I just kind 0:01:34.280 --> 0:01:36.959 of feel like the little do you know what I 0:01:36.959 --> 0:01:39.360 feel like? Do you remember that time that we got 0:01:39.360 --> 0:01:41.440 off the plane. We'd been on an awesome trip to 0:01:41.480 --> 0:01:43.640 the Great Barrier Reef. This was a life on Cut trip. 0:01:43.640 --> 0:01:45.760 It was a life on cut little holiday. And we 0:01:45.840 --> 0:01:47.760 got off the plane and we were walking back through 0:01:47.760 --> 0:01:49.680 the airport and there was a paparazzi there and he 0:01:49.760 --> 0:01:51.840 was there to photograph one of the bachelors. 0:01:52.120 --> 0:01:53.960 There was like a new season of The Bachelor. I 0:01:53.960 --> 0:01:56.680 do remember that. So we got off the plane and 0:01:56.720 --> 0:02:00.480 the paparazzi was there, not for us. Not for us, 0:02:00.480 --> 0:02:01.520 but they were like two for one. 0:02:01.680 --> 0:02:05.040 Yeah, it was a toofa. We were walking in a line. 0:02:05.200 --> 0:02:08.960 The three of us were in a horizontal line. It 0:02:09.000 --> 0:02:12.960 went Laura, myself, brit And in the article it says 0:02:13.400 --> 0:02:14.720 and their producer. 0:02:14.360 --> 0:02:16.160 Keisha was trailing behind. 0:02:17.080 --> 0:02:20.000 I was like, I am not trailing, I'm just shorter. 0:02:20.200 --> 0:02:22.920 I just look as I'm further away. 0:02:23.040 --> 0:02:26.560 That's also okay, Like you can still trail and do 0:02:26.680 --> 0:02:27.400 brand collapse. 0:02:27.639 --> 0:02:29.280 You can trail on hock rings. 0:02:30.200 --> 0:02:31.440 All right, maybe you'll start. 0:02:31.440 --> 0:02:33.640 I'll start with Tony May. I'll start paying you everyone. 0:02:33.760 --> 0:02:36.120 Tony May a new collection. 0:02:36.280 --> 0:02:38.240 So I'm starting a brand, just like an advertise on 0:02:38.240 --> 0:02:40.360 these podcasts because I feel like I'm missing out. 0:02:41.440 --> 0:02:43.919 How did we get here? We got we got here? 0:02:44.000 --> 0:02:45.080 I don't know why. 0:02:45.120 --> 0:02:49.040 But where we're heading towards is so Matt and I 0:02:49.080 --> 0:02:53.040 have had some we've had some fiery discussions recently, one 0:02:53.080 --> 0:02:56.640 might call them arguments, because we're currently renovating a house 0:02:56.760 --> 0:02:59.400 so down the coast, so a La Dulla, which is 0:02:59.400 --> 0:03:02.239 where we got married. It's where we spend all of 0:03:02.280 --> 0:03:03.880 our family holidays anyway. 0:03:03.680 --> 0:03:07.280 So also where you're going to get divorced, probably where 0:03:07.320 --> 0:03:08.560 our relationship will end. 0:03:08.720 --> 0:03:12.280 We're currently renovating this place, and I know a lot 0:03:12.280 --> 0:03:14.079 of people talk about how if you get an Ikea 0:03:14.080 --> 0:03:16.440 flat pack, how that really tests your relationship, Like if 0:03:16.440 --> 0:03:18.240 you can make it through Ikea and you can come 0:03:18.280 --> 0:03:20.760 out as a strong United couple, then you're meant to 0:03:20.800 --> 0:03:23.560 be together. But I've realized that actually that's just that's 0:03:23.560 --> 0:03:25.919 a kid's play, that's entry level shit. If you want 0:03:25.960 --> 0:03:28.320 to really put your relationship to the test, try and 0:03:28.360 --> 0:03:30.720 renovate something together it is wild. 0:03:30.960 --> 0:03:32.840 Or try long distance relationship. We only see each other 0:03:32.880 --> 0:03:36.600 every three months. But yes, also where you've read what 0:03:36.680 --> 0:03:37.640 are the themes of. 0:03:37.600 --> 0:03:40.360 The arguments the things of the arguments is more so 0:03:40.440 --> 0:03:43.560 that we just creatively have different we have different visions. 0:03:44.040 --> 0:03:46.520 It's been an interesting voyage on social media so far, 0:03:46.640 --> 0:03:49.800 because we don't want a house that is white or 0:03:50.280 --> 0:03:55.040 like your very typical white, beautiful beige think three birds, 0:03:55.280 --> 0:03:56.200 it is gorgeous. 0:03:56.240 --> 0:03:57.720 I have nothing against those homes. 0:03:57.920 --> 0:04:00.800 I would get off on that would if I could 0:04:00.840 --> 0:04:02.880 walk into a house and need to wear sunglasses because 0:04:02.880 --> 0:04:05.360 the natural light beams so hard off the white walls 0:04:05.360 --> 0:04:06.040 and I'm blind. 0:04:06.560 --> 0:04:08.160 Goals, you're like the beige. 0:04:07.880 --> 0:04:09.280 Regress I want to be like, oh my god, the 0:04:09.360 --> 0:04:10.680 light the white walls are so bright. 0:04:10.720 --> 0:04:13.000 That's what I want, your own reflector. 0:04:13.160 --> 0:04:14.680 It is like my flighting is so good, I don't 0:04:14.680 --> 0:04:16.760 need a ring lfe mate. 0:04:16.800 --> 0:04:18.880 That's exactly it. That's my mood board. 0:04:18.960 --> 0:04:21.719 It's just I have a white board that's got nothing 0:04:21.760 --> 0:04:23.159 on it, and I'm like, that's my mood people, Just. 0:04:23.240 --> 0:04:25.479 What's the issue is that it's everyone's mood board. So 0:04:25.480 --> 0:04:27.479 I think, like most people, we've been conditioned to think 0:04:27.480 --> 0:04:30.919 that like white on white and linen and an olive tree, 0:04:30.960 --> 0:04:33.200 like that is like the aesthetic that everyone has pinned. 0:04:33.200 --> 0:04:34.760 I have an olive tree in my house and I'm 0:04:34.760 --> 0:04:37.159 wearing basically all the same beige color. 0:04:38.240 --> 0:04:43.040 I feel very attacked. However, our aesthetic for this house 0:04:43.120 --> 0:04:46.080 is very colorful. It's like maximnimalist. Is that the right 0:04:46.120 --> 0:04:46.560 word for it? 0:04:46.680 --> 0:04:48.839 When you say ow is it actually our? 0:04:49.000 --> 0:04:49.719 Is it yours? 0:04:50.080 --> 0:04:52.880 Pinterest board is very colorful, it's very vibrant. It's lots 0:04:52.920 --> 0:04:55.040 of clashing prints. There's a lot going on. 0:04:55.560 --> 0:04:56.960 Now. I'm at about. 0:04:56.600 --> 0:04:59.040 Seventy percent of that matter is at one hundred and 0:04:59.120 --> 0:05:01.640 twenty percent. Matt wants every wall to be painted a 0:05:01.640 --> 0:05:04.360 different color. He wants a bright blue laundry. 0:05:04.560 --> 0:05:05.919 He wants like a Wiggles house. 0:05:06.160 --> 0:05:07.960 Yeah, maybe that's what it is. Maybe he wants to 0:05:08.360 --> 0:05:10.640 he wants to create kid content. He wants to be 0:05:10.720 --> 0:05:11.920 the new fucking Blippy. 0:05:12.080 --> 0:05:14.640 He does. He's creating his own on set. That's what 0:05:14.680 --> 0:05:15.920 this is. I think he is. 0:05:15.960 --> 0:05:18.480 I think we've just made an in real time Discovery. 0:05:18.880 --> 0:05:21.760 He has been on play School and he doesn't have 0:05:21.839 --> 0:05:23.599 a kid's book and a kid's podcast. 0:05:23.720 --> 0:05:26.200 He has also mentioned a couple of times that if 0:05:26.240 --> 0:05:27.960 he was going to make a career pivot, he would 0:05:27.960 --> 0:05:29.320 create a kid's YouTube channel. 0:05:30.080 --> 0:05:32.440 They how have you not seen that until now? He's 0:05:32.480 --> 0:05:33.479 be creating a set. 0:05:33.720 --> 0:05:37.200 Those kids make bank. My brother has one on They 0:05:37.200 --> 0:05:40.480 make over thirty million dollars a year just from YouTube 0:05:40.520 --> 0:05:42.480 and they like unpack new toys and stuff. 0:05:42.560 --> 0:05:44.480 No, he doesn't want to hawk our family and make 0:05:44.600 --> 0:05:45.840 child influences out of them. 0:05:45.839 --> 0:05:46.400 Well he should. 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:48.200 He wants to be like a Blippy. 0:05:48.400 --> 0:05:51.839 Parents will understand this, and parents will be like, fucking Blippy. 0:05:52.000 --> 0:05:54.760 Blippy is a guy in the US who doesn't have 0:05:54.839 --> 0:05:58.960 children himself. He has made no, he's made like eighty 0:05:58.960 --> 0:06:02.440 three million dollars from this blippy character. Anyway, we have 0:06:02.480 --> 0:06:05.479 gotten really off track. But the back on track version 0:06:05.480 --> 0:06:07.279 of this is that we are trying to renovate and 0:06:07.320 --> 0:06:09.680 we don't agree, and it has been a very interesting 0:06:09.800 --> 0:06:11.960 little pressure cooker on our relationship. 0:06:12.279 --> 0:06:15.120 I have an idea, why don't you give him like 0:06:15.400 --> 0:06:17.840 a part of the house, like a corner of the house. 0:06:18.279 --> 0:06:20.080 And you're like, do what you want you can. This 0:06:20.120 --> 0:06:21.720 can be your set, this can be whatever, make it 0:06:21.760 --> 0:06:23.760 whatever colors you want. Then lock that away. And when 0:06:23.760 --> 0:06:25.160 I say a corner of the house, I mean like 0:06:25.200 --> 0:06:27.320 a two by two, Like he's got a very small area. 0:06:27.600 --> 0:06:29.440 But you can't just do that in a house because 0:06:29.480 --> 0:06:31.200 you need it to flow, you need it to like 0:06:31.960 --> 0:06:32.839 work in together. 0:06:33.000 --> 0:06:34.600 Yeah, but if you're gonna go rogue in a room, 0:06:34.640 --> 0:06:36.760 it's a laundry, right because it's not like guess like, hey, 0:06:36.760 --> 0:06:38.719 you're just going to pop into the laundry. 0:06:38.880 --> 0:06:42.719 Is like I don't use it anyway, Well I'm just laughing. 0:06:43.040 --> 0:06:46.280 Yeah, no one, You know, when you say something, I think, 0:06:46.320 --> 0:06:47.920 as I was coming out of Kish's mouth, she knew 0:06:47.960 --> 0:06:49.520 she shouldn't say, but she'd commit it. 0:06:49.760 --> 0:06:52.240 Why does Matt not get ownership of the kitchen it's 0:06:52.320 --> 0:06:53.640 the only one who uses. 0:06:53.520 --> 0:06:55.440 That's that's true. 0:06:55.480 --> 0:06:58.440 It's true, guys, it's true. I don't cook Matt Cook's 0:06:58.480 --> 0:07:00.520 and he does a lot of the clean He's the 0:07:00.520 --> 0:07:01.680 one who's going to enjoy that. 0:07:01.680 --> 0:07:06.440 Space, so he might as well. Paine of Blue, Sorry, 0:07:06.480 --> 0:07:07.280 I'm taking the. 0:07:09.240 --> 0:07:09.360 Like. 0:07:09.440 --> 0:07:11.679 I am aware of some of the comments that people 0:07:11.720 --> 0:07:16.240 have made to you regarding your renovations online, and they're cruel. 0:07:16.480 --> 0:07:18.800 This was one comment that I received. It stuck with me, 0:07:18.840 --> 0:07:20.880 and it hurt me. It doesn't mean that you know 0:07:21.040 --> 0:07:23.920 shit about interior design. And as someone who builds home 0:07:23.960 --> 0:07:26.200 for a living, I would absolutely not trust my arty 0:07:26.280 --> 0:07:27.760 friend who sometimes makes jewelry. 0:07:27.960 --> 0:07:29.440 Love your enthusiasm. 0:07:28.920 --> 0:07:34.400 Though, who sometimes makes Stewey. It's so cute, it's so bold, 0:07:35.120 --> 0:07:36.400 it's so unnecessary. 0:07:37.200 --> 0:07:40.720 Don't mean shit. They don't, though, I mean, to be fair, 0:07:40.760 --> 0:07:42.400 they don't. Like no one else has to live in 0:07:42.440 --> 0:07:44.000 the house. I just don't. 0:07:43.800 --> 0:07:47.080 Understand why people get so like sometimes. I think we 0:07:47.160 --> 0:07:49.680 need the reminder that inside thoughts don't need to be 0:07:49.720 --> 0:07:52.160 outside tight. They just don't need to be sent to 0:07:52.200 --> 0:07:54.840 the person. It's strange to me that someone feels that 0:07:54.960 --> 0:07:58.120 passionately about a space that they're arguably never gonna walk 0:07:58.160 --> 0:08:01.080 into that. They could set a message like that, like 0:08:01.120 --> 0:08:02.400 it's actually a bit odd. 0:08:02.320 --> 0:08:05.280 No, but also I do respect it. I was like, okay, 0:08:05.480 --> 0:08:07.160 well a little bit because I was like, how there. 0:08:07.240 --> 0:08:07.760 I have the. 0:08:07.800 --> 0:08:10.240 Audacity that I think I can do interior design, but 0:08:10.360 --> 0:08:11.120 I've never done it. 0:08:11.240 --> 0:08:13.080 I'm of imposter. 0:08:13.440 --> 0:08:19.120 Yeah, okay, what's time for vibes and unsubscribes. 0:08:19.200 --> 0:08:20.480 Key, she can kick us off. What do you buy? 0:08:20.560 --> 0:08:20.720 Mean? 0:08:20.880 --> 0:08:23.760 So my vibe this week is so Britney coded that 0:08:23.840 --> 0:08:26.520 I can't believe I beat you to it with this one. 0:08:26.600 --> 0:08:27.080 I bet you. 0:08:27.160 --> 0:08:29.320 I've listened to it, watched it, done it. 0:08:29.360 --> 0:08:32.319 Then it's on Disney Plus. It is a it's a 0:08:32.360 --> 0:08:35.560 docu series. It's three episodes and it's titled Perfect Wife. 0:08:35.600 --> 0:08:38.240 The Mysterious Disappearance of Sherry Peppinie. 0:08:38.440 --> 0:08:39.880 It's so good. 0:08:40.240 --> 0:08:44.560 Yes, So this one explores the kidnapping. I'm not going 0:08:44.600 --> 0:08:47.480 to give away any spoilers, but the kidnapping of Sherry 0:08:47.520 --> 0:08:50.840 Pepinie and this is the little byeline. One day in 0:08:50.960 --> 0:08:54.800 late twenty sixteen, Sherry disappeared, kicking off a nationwide search. 0:08:54.920 --> 0:08:58.400 About three weeks later, on Thanksgiving, Sherry turned back up. 0:08:59.000 --> 0:09:02.079 She claimed that she'd been abducted, branded and tortured by 0:09:02.160 --> 0:09:05.319 two Hispanic women before being released on the side of 0:09:05.360 --> 0:09:08.280 the road. This dockuseries, like I said, three episodes. It's 0:09:08.360 --> 0:09:11.240 quite a similar nature to American Nightmare. We got to 0:09:11.280 --> 0:09:13.360 interview Denise Huskins from American Nightmare. 0:09:13.360 --> 0:09:14.160 Shortly after that. 0:09:14.240 --> 0:09:20.280 Dockuseries went on Netflix. Very different outcome, but very very 0:09:20.320 --> 0:09:24.160 interesting exploration into the psychology of the way that people 0:09:24.240 --> 0:09:26.320 think and the reasons that they do the things that 0:09:26.360 --> 0:09:26.760 they do. 0:09:27.160 --> 0:09:29.440 I also really like the fact that the whole way, 0:09:30.480 --> 0:09:33.120 you think you know what is happening and what's happened 0:09:33.160 --> 0:09:35.320 in the outcome, and then you switch and then you're like, oh, 0:09:35.360 --> 0:09:36.920 this definitely happened. Then you're like, oh my god, no 0:09:37.000 --> 0:09:39.080 it didn't. This happened, and it keeps you on your 0:09:39.080 --> 0:09:41.160 toes the whole way. Like sometimes when you watch those 0:09:41.200 --> 0:09:43.920 sort of things, you know from the very beginning. But 0:09:44.240 --> 0:09:47.160 this I felt like took a lot of twists and turns. Well. 0:09:47.200 --> 0:09:49.680 I was a little silly because I don't like to 0:09:49.679 --> 0:09:51.760 waste my time watching something new if I don't think 0:09:51.760 --> 0:09:53.000 I'm going to be into it. And I'm not a 0:09:53.000 --> 0:09:55.320 big true crime person. So I actually googled the story 0:09:55.320 --> 0:09:57.800 because it's a real story, and because it was in 0:09:57.840 --> 0:10:01.920 twenty sixteen, they have so much footage that was actually 0:10:01.960 --> 0:10:04.160 recorded as a part of the investigation, and they've been 0:10:04.200 --> 0:10:07.080 allowed to use every single part of that. It was 0:10:07.160 --> 0:10:10.040 really good to have that insight of this actually happened. 0:10:10.080 --> 0:10:12.720 They didn't have to reenact anything because they had footage 0:10:12.720 --> 0:10:13.360 of the whole thing. 0:10:13.440 --> 0:10:15.880 Right, Yeah, it's great, it's great, dog go Yeah. So 0:10:15.960 --> 0:10:17.319 I had actually googled. 0:10:16.960 --> 0:10:21.040 What happened beforehand, so I did go in knowing regardless. 0:10:21.240 --> 0:10:23.280 It was very, very interesting. 0:10:23.400 --> 0:10:26.040 So Disney plus it is called Perfect Wife, the Mysterious 0:10:26.080 --> 0:10:30.520 Disappearance of Sherry Peppini, and three episodes. I think collectively 0:10:30.520 --> 0:10:31.880 it would be about two and a half hours of 0:10:31.920 --> 0:10:32.959 content loss. 0:10:33.000 --> 0:10:35.440 Well, now that we're speaking about renovation content and that's 0:10:35.480 --> 0:10:39.040 what inspires my entire life, I am recommending something that's 0:10:39.120 --> 0:10:40.720 design based because I'm a designer. 0:10:40.720 --> 0:10:41.120 Everyone. 0:10:41.320 --> 0:10:43.920 This is something that I have found very very useful 0:10:43.960 --> 0:10:46.600 in the last couple of years, especially if you're somebody 0:10:46.640 --> 0:10:50.120 who works within digital design. So if you're creating, and 0:10:50.200 --> 0:10:51.960 I think everybody these days is kind of a bit 0:10:51.960 --> 0:10:53.920 of a digital designer in terms of like doing things 0:10:53.920 --> 0:10:56.840 on canber or there's this expectation that you're able to 0:10:57.640 --> 0:10:58.640 Why you laughing. 0:10:58.960 --> 0:11:00.000 Because I'm so bad. 0:11:00.400 --> 0:11:02.880 I just use the templates that you set up for. 0:11:02.960 --> 0:11:04.240 I'm bad at Canva two. 0:11:04.600 --> 0:11:06.240 I make the templates and then every so often I 0:11:06.320 --> 0:11:07.880 have to jump in and be like Kisha, you've changed 0:11:07.880 --> 0:11:08.839 it too much. 0:11:09.040 --> 0:11:11.360 All over the rules. It's a true crime. 0:11:11.360 --> 0:11:11.560 Again. 0:11:11.600 --> 0:11:16.319 It's like dun, dun, Why is everything black and red? 0:11:16.480 --> 0:11:18.760 This is something if you're a designer, you would already 0:11:18.760 --> 0:11:21.640 be familiar with this platform, but something that is specific 0:11:21.720 --> 0:11:25.000 on it that I find very useful. It's called Figma 0:11:25.120 --> 0:11:27.680 dot com, but it is their color wheel. It's very 0:11:27.720 --> 0:11:30.400 accurate and it's very good. So if you are creating 0:11:30.480 --> 0:11:33.800 a logo or you're creating a story set or something 0:11:33.840 --> 0:11:36.400 and you're hell bent on using one color, the purpose 0:11:36.440 --> 0:11:38.720 of this is to tell you the complementary colors that 0:11:38.800 --> 0:11:40.720 will match the color that you're using in a way. 0:11:40.760 --> 0:11:43.079 So for us, I've been using it with the house, 0:11:43.240 --> 0:11:46.520 so we know that we have a blue laundry, for example, 0:11:47.000 --> 0:11:49.080 I'll type in the specific color of blue that we 0:11:49.080 --> 0:11:50.480 want to be using, and it will give me the 0:11:50.520 --> 0:11:53.160 complementary colors to make sure that everything else with them 0:11:53.240 --> 0:11:54.320 that space is matching. 0:11:54.400 --> 0:11:56.120 Does it just come up and say don't do it? 0:11:56.480 --> 0:12:00.200 Someone say that's fucked. Go beige and you can. I'd 0:12:00.240 --> 0:12:00.840 of roll through. 0:12:00.880 --> 0:12:03.280 So for example, you know, you might pick a purple 0:12:03.320 --> 0:12:05.480 and then it might give you a complimentary green. If 0:12:05.520 --> 0:12:07.480 you're not happy with that complimentary green, you can go 0:12:07.559 --> 0:12:11.560 through and choose other the closest to complimentary colors. It's 0:12:11.920 --> 0:12:15.520 really really useful if you're someone who enjoys doing little 0:12:15.520 --> 0:12:17.600 bits of design yourself, but maybe need a little bit 0:12:17.600 --> 0:12:20.120 more support or helping hands. So that's Figma dot com. 0:12:20.360 --> 0:12:23.480 I'm specifically recommending the color wheel, which is an extension 0:12:23.480 --> 0:12:26.000 on this website, but there is if you're a designer. 0:12:26.120 --> 0:12:28.400 This is a very very useful website to use. Great 0:12:28.520 --> 0:12:28.880 do you reckon? 0:12:28.920 --> 0:12:30.839 I could put my hair color in orange and then 0:12:31.040 --> 0:12:32.240 see what I could wear with it, like. 0:12:32.160 --> 0:12:36.080 Well, patches, yeah, blues? Oh okay, I like blue? You 0:12:36.120 --> 0:12:38.840 look better in blue. Great, you'll suit my laundry perfectly. 0:12:38.840 --> 0:12:43.600 Over okay, Well I will go something completely superficial. Then. 0:12:43.679 --> 0:12:47.000 Because you guys did great more in depth intelligent recommendations 0:12:47.000 --> 0:12:47.719 this week. 0:12:47.679 --> 0:12:49.800 This is what I have been using. It's like I 0:12:49.920 --> 0:12:51.439 use soap. It's great. 0:12:51.840 --> 0:12:54.000 No, it's just a little product that I use in 0:12:54.120 --> 0:12:57.080 winter when I love a turtleneck. 0:12:56.600 --> 0:12:57.280 You blank it. 0:12:57.720 --> 0:13:01.920 Sorry, I'll stop, okay, bitch, when in winter I've been 0:13:01.960 --> 0:13:04.240 wearing it, or sometimes when you want to pick me up. 0:13:04.480 --> 0:13:07.040 So I now do not ever go into the sun. 0:13:07.360 --> 0:13:09.280 I never go into the sun. If I ever have 0:13:09.360 --> 0:13:11.560 a tan, it's fake. But in winter when you completely covered. 0:13:11.880 --> 0:13:14.440 It's from Tanologist is the brand, and it's a self 0:13:14.679 --> 0:13:19.080 tan drop that you mix into your face moisturizer and 0:13:19.120 --> 0:13:21.000 you just put it on your face and neck, so 0:13:21.480 --> 0:13:23.520 you guys wouldn't even know. You probably thought I had 0:13:23.559 --> 0:13:24.679 a tan in the last couple of weeks when I 0:13:24.720 --> 0:13:25.560 was wearing my turtleneck. 0:13:25.640 --> 0:13:26.080 I didn't. 0:13:26.240 --> 0:13:27.720 I had a very white body and I had a 0:13:27.760 --> 0:13:29.880 face tan because it's the only part you can see. 0:13:29.880 --> 0:13:32.960 So it's for those really lazy times where you don't 0:13:32.960 --> 0:13:34.920 want a tan, like put a whole fake tan on. 0:13:35.240 --> 0:13:37.720 You just mix it into your moisturizer at night the 0:13:37.800 --> 0:13:39.920 day before go to bed, and it's just a beautiful, 0:13:40.000 --> 0:13:41.720 gradual tan on your face. 0:13:41.840 --> 0:13:44.679 I've used face drops before from a different brand, and 0:13:44.800 --> 0:13:46.640 I found that they made me break out, so I 0:13:46.640 --> 0:13:48.760 stopped using them. I loved like the I love the 0:13:48.760 --> 0:13:51.000 instant effect. Any more than two days in a row 0:13:51.120 --> 0:13:54.600 looked very orange, but the one day glow was great. Well, 0:13:54.600 --> 0:13:55.640 the breakout was not great. 0:13:55.720 --> 0:13:58.080 Yeah, so well, it's called tanologists. You can get it 0:13:58.080 --> 0:14:00.640 from loads of different places online, Revolve a zoss, but 0:14:00.679 --> 0:14:03.240 you can also get it from price line. So that 0:14:03.400 --> 0:14:05.560 is my reco. Use it every couple of days. Definitely, 0:14:05.600 --> 0:14:07.560 don't do it. Laura didn't like, do it every single day. 0:14:07.600 --> 0:14:08.240 Don't back it up. 0:14:08.280 --> 0:14:11.160 My only advice is I put it on my face 0:14:11.160 --> 0:14:12.679 the first day and I was like, it probably doesn't 0:14:12.679 --> 0:14:14.560 work that much, and I forgot to wash my hands. 0:14:14.800 --> 0:14:16.480 Oh yeah, no, I was about to say, I've got 0:14:16.480 --> 0:14:17.920 a further reco based off of this. 0:14:18.040 --> 0:14:21.000 My hands I look like a mime that would like 0:14:21.240 --> 0:14:23.600 that was bright orange hands just like all around. I 0:14:23.600 --> 0:14:26.160 could have done like finger painting. So that's my reco 0:14:26.240 --> 0:14:27.680 for off the back of that, make sure you wash 0:14:27.720 --> 0:14:28.640 your hands. Mine. 0:14:28.840 --> 0:14:31.720 On top of that, I specifically use the Barley Body 0:14:31.720 --> 0:14:34.960 one and they have a brush and it's meant to 0:14:35.000 --> 0:14:37.000 be to brush your tan into your body, but I 0:14:37.040 --> 0:14:39.280 actually use it on my face to avoid it getting 0:14:39.320 --> 0:14:41.600 on my hands. And also because then you can get 0:14:41.600 --> 0:14:44.840 into the little like right up to your hairline, because 0:14:44.880 --> 0:14:47.280 if you don't get it right up to the line, 0:14:47.360 --> 0:14:51.240 you get this like halo ring of ten and then 0:14:51.240 --> 0:14:54.000 you've got this little white line before your hair reaches 0:14:54.040 --> 0:14:54.520 your face. 0:14:54.800 --> 0:14:55.160 Yeah. 0:14:55.200 --> 0:14:57.600 So yeah, I have a further recommendation. It is use 0:14:57.760 --> 0:15:01.000 a brush to put the tan, even if you're doing 0:15:01.000 --> 0:15:01.960 it with your moisturizer. 0:15:02.040 --> 0:15:04.400 All right, well, let's get into the questions. 0:15:05.280 --> 0:15:07.920 One of my closest friends is getting married in Canada. 0:15:08.200 --> 0:15:10.080 I am one of her bridesmaids and I am so 0:15:10.480 --> 0:15:13.000 stoked for it. Obviously, to go to the wedding, my 0:15:13.000 --> 0:15:15.200 partner and I have booked flights over there which are 0:15:15.240 --> 0:15:18.400 not cheap, and also booked a hotel which was chosen 0:15:18.440 --> 0:15:21.920 for by the wedding party, also not so cheap. I 0:15:22.040 --> 0:15:24.680 don't mind about these costs because it's my close friend 0:15:24.880 --> 0:15:27.080 and it's a holiday to Canada. It's like a two 0:15:27.120 --> 0:15:30.040 in one. My partner and I have debated whether we 0:15:30.040 --> 0:15:32.760 should get them a wedding gift or not. I don't 0:15:32.800 --> 0:15:36.280 mind getting one. I do like giving gifts, but my 0:15:36.360 --> 0:15:38.840 partner thinks we've already spent a lot of money going 0:15:38.880 --> 0:15:41.280 to the wedding. So I'm curious to know what you 0:15:41.280 --> 0:15:44.240 guys think. Do you have to get a wedding gift 0:15:44.240 --> 0:15:48.040 for someone if you've already invested around four thousand dollars 0:15:48.040 --> 0:15:50.240 to get to the destination wedding. 0:15:50.880 --> 0:15:55.280 I may be on my own with this answer, but 0:15:55.400 --> 0:15:57.280 I don't think you need to get a present if 0:15:57.280 --> 0:15:59.480 you're spending heaps of money to go to a destination wedding. 0:15:59.560 --> 0:16:00.000 No, I don't. 0:16:00.040 --> 0:16:00.880 I think you're on your own. 0:16:00.880 --> 0:16:05.280 Okay, I'm not good because I'm either having said. 0:16:05.120 --> 0:16:06.240 That, he's like, buy me a present. 0:16:06.320 --> 0:16:08.360 I am having a destination wedding and I would love 0:16:08.400 --> 0:16:10.000 you to give me a present. No, I mean as 0:16:10.040 --> 0:16:12.680