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Speaker 1: The Will and Woody Podcast.

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Speaker 2: I think I'm a pretty nice guy. I just think

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Speaker 2: I'm a likable person. So it's strange to me that

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Speaker 2: your almost three year old daughter hates me. And I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I'm not talking out of school here, like this is

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Speaker 2: a genuine issue and she has proven it multiple times.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but she hates me. I mean, if you've missed

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Speaker 1: any of it, have listened to.

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Speaker 3: This wards, we have long suspected that my two year

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Speaker 3: old daughter hates you.

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Speaker 1: Why have you suspected this?

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Speaker 3: Force was vaguely confirmed on the show yesterday.

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Speaker 1: Hello Max, Well, I.

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Speaker 4: Got home last night. I asked her point blank, what

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Speaker 4: are your friend?

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Speaker 5: Do you like?

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Speaker 6: Whitty?

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Speaker 4: It's been tough?

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean, I'm just going on with my life.

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Speaker 1: I'm not I don't need this.

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Speaker 4: I don't need to love.

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Speaker 1: Of everybody come into contact with.

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Speaker 4: What are you talking about?

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Speaker 1: I don't play that noise again. It's actually harmful. So

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Speaker 1: I do need this.

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Speaker 2: So yesterday on the show, I kind of commenteered the

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Speaker 2: radio show and just said, can we call your daughter again?

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Speaker 2: Just so I can you know, tell her how amazing

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Speaker 2: I am? And it went terribly put me on speaker immediately.

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Speaker 2: Can you hear me, Max, she's running. Did you say

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Speaker 2: she's running?

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Speaker 4: Run after her, run after her.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so she's now running away from my presence over

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Speaker 2: the phone.

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Speaker 1: So I've now taken it upon my seat.

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Speaker 3: It did get a bit pushed last time. I feel

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Speaker 3: she was distressed by the end of that.

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Speaker 1: Well, I get that. But if she just said the

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Speaker 1: niggy do get it.

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Speaker 7: No.

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Speaker 2: But what I'm trying to say is if she just

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Speaker 2: says I like you, then I'll back it off a

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Speaker 2: little bit. If she continues to put up this wall

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Speaker 2: of hate, then I'm going to push harder and harder.

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Speaker 2: And part of pushing harder is the fact that I

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Speaker 2: keep coming to your house in the morning now, which

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Speaker 2: I'm sure was incredibly annoying for you and your family.

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Speaker 3: But you've come in two mornings this week, and both

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Speaker 3: times I've been having a shower.

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Speaker 4: Yourself in Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was playing with your dog for a while

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Speaker 1: this morning. But more employment that I knew that.

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Speaker 3: You were in the house today is because as I

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Speaker 3: was getting changed, No, I got out of.

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Speaker 4: The shower, so you know, and I was in the house.

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Speaker 3: You're in the house, the strangers in the house, and

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Speaker 3: the only and the first thing I heard was my

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Speaker 3: dog's name is Stevie. The only thing I heard was Stevie,

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Speaker 3: where's Mummy or Daddy or Max?

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Speaker 1: Good chab, it's a good chat. Stevie had no idea anyway.

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Speaker 2: I had hot cross buns though, because I was like

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Speaker 2: all kids like hot cross buns. I just want to

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Speaker 2: get some face to FaceTime with Mags and deliver the

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Speaker 2: hot cross buns. Now, my question to you is she

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Speaker 2: wasn't there no at that time? Have you delivered the merchandise?

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Speaker 2: Yes to her and explains to her in no uncertain

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Speaker 2: terms that would he paid for that with his own money?

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't think money is a concept that you know,

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Speaker 3: she can quite grock at this age, which is not

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Speaker 3: quite across which she.

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Speaker 1: Should get across that it's important.

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Speaker 2: Well, did she make it clear that what he spent

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Speaker 2: time going to get these and he's given them.

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Speaker 1: To you as a gift. Yeah, idea has come out

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Speaker 1: of his way.

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Speaker 3: To Again, you're laboring it like you just need to

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Speaker 3: chill out a little bit, you know, like that nothing

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Speaker 3: there's nothing less attractive than desperation and you you you

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Speaker 3: exuded at the current moment.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'll wear her down.

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Speaker 4: I don't it's two years old.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, did you get the hot Cost buns or not?

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Speaker 4: I did? I gave you. You're right, she loves the

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Speaker 4: hot Cross buns.

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Speaker 3: But well no, I think she was quite gracious in

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Speaker 3: how she responded, Actually, these hot cost buns, they're from Woody.

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Speaker 1: It just says to.

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Speaker 4: Go for you bag. I said, thanks to Would you

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Speaker 4: like me to say thanks to Orgy? Do you like?

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Speaker 8: Wow?

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Speaker 3: What is going?

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Speaker 4: Do you like?

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Speaker 9: She fully understood the fact that I gave because she

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Speaker 9: thanked me. Can you thank me and then still say

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Speaker 9: I'm not friends with you? Okay, this I just flighted.

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Speaker 4: Perfectly as much as I couldn't be proud of it.

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Speaker 3: She's almost like she knew it was a bit, and

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Speaker 3: she was gracious as well. She was polite, didn't forget

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Speaker 3: her manners. Said thank you, make sure you say thank you.

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Speaker 4: But I still like that guy. I've felt a lot

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Speaker 4: of proud pride for my child over the last two

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Speaker 4: and a half three years. I'm sure you never swelled

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Speaker 4: with more pride than I did.

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm sure you're loving it.

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Speaker 3: I almost think that she knows it's a bit now

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Speaker 3: feel I couldn't be proud of her. It feels too real.

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Speaker 2: She's two and a half. She can't know it's a bit.

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Speaker 2: What you said doesn't grow money. She doesn't grow bits. Mate, Anyway,

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Speaker 2: I just need to know from other people. Thirteen one

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Speaker 2: oh sixty five is our number. Yeah, does your kid

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Speaker 2: hate someone for like no reason?

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Speaker 3: Is it?

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Speaker 2: Like, is this actually a thing that young children just assigned,

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Speaker 2: that they hate someone?

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Speaker 4: I think so, because right.

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Speaker 1: Now I feel very alone.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I feel very skill. You're the only the only

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Speaker 4: adult that's hated by a toddler, So they're out there.

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Speaker 2: Thirteen one oh sixty five does your kid just did

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Speaker 2: they just decide to hate someone for no real reason?

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Speaker 2: And then I guess the secondary question is did they

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Speaker 2: ever get through it? Thirteen one oh six five is

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Speaker 2: our number? Does your kid just hate someone for no reason?

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Speaker 2: Because because right now it does feel like I'm the

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Speaker 2: only adult out there who just has the the not

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Speaker 2: the hate of a child, but the lack of love

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Speaker 2: from a chin that is that because I just thought

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Speaker 2: kids liked everyone.

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Speaker 1: Remy loves everyone. It doesn't matter who you are. She's like,

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Speaker 1: I trust you.

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Speaker 4: You're in Yeah, so that's nice.

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Speaker 2: Let's go to Let's go to Shannon here, despite me

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Speaker 2: trying to drip like awful things about you to her

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Speaker 2: because I kind of want mind.

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Speaker 4: Believe you've been feeding her poison.

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Speaker 9: To throw around things like Will is a cheap ass,

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Speaker 9: like I've just mentioned that, but.

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Speaker 1: It's not really zinking in yet, Shannon.

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Speaker 2: Boys, Hello, mate, You've got a niece who has a

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Speaker 2: dislike of someone I do.

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Speaker 10: I do. She's about six years old and at no

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Speaker 10: stage of her life she ever liked me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's okay. So how young did it start? Shannon?

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Speaker 11: From the get go?

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Speaker 10: I think it's the bead. I've got a bed and

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Speaker 10: I don't know if it's start, but she's say hello

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Speaker 10: to me, functions and give me nothing.

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Speaker 1: And have you tried to push through that? Shannon? Because

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Speaker 1: I'm with your mate, I'm right there next to you.

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Speaker 1: Will's daughter does not like me.

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Speaker 2: So what have you done to try and win back

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Speaker 2: the love of the of your livery?

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Speaker 10: I love that.

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Speaker 3: So that's that's what I'm trying to plain here, Shannon,

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Speaker 3: is that you need to ease up.

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Speaker 1: But what if I just ignore her, Nothing's going to happen?

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Speaker 8: Right?

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Speaker 4: Disagree? Disagree? Actually actually like like I agree, Shannon had

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Speaker 4: six years. Are you on speaking terms with your niece now, Shannon?

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Speaker 3: No, So she's six years old and she's like, never said,

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Speaker 3: what's what's the most she's said to you?

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Speaker 11: Ah?

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Speaker 1: Hello, that's it, that's all you get it?

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Speaker 4: How do you see hell?

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Speaker 10: Can you see it often enough? Like her brother's fine?

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Speaker 4: Right? Right? Have you asked her parents?

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Speaker 11: Yeah?

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Speaker 10: They there's become a running joke in the family.

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Speaker 3: Now, Yeah, it does get like that. It's definitely a

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Speaker 3: running joke in my household and with my family. Call

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Speaker 3: Shannon's not funny at all. To me, that's going to lose.

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Speaker 3: I think he's hitting on something, though, do you know,

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Speaker 3: I do think it's a good message to heed.

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Speaker 4: Do you push the more she's going to run away?

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Speaker 1: But what does that actually look like?

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Speaker 2: Practically like what I come over with the hot cross

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Speaker 2: buns and go No, it means not coming over.

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Speaker 3: Don't come over, Maddie the way coming, Maddie, Maddie, Maddie.

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Speaker 4: This is your daughter. Your daughter irrationally hates someone.

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Speaker 8: Yes, she hates my brother in law, and.

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Speaker 1: So is there has there ever been a reason that

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Speaker 1: you can pin that to.

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Speaker 8: An looked he scared her once, but from then on,

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Speaker 8: every time she sees him she just screams, has a

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Speaker 8: meltdown and doesn't want to buy of him, just the

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Speaker 8: whole work, oh my lord.

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Speaker 1: So and has he done anything to try and like

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Speaker 1: mend the bridge.

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Speaker 8: Every time we go over, he will like try and

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Speaker 8: give her like a caddle or I take her off

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Speaker 8: my sister, but then he.

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Speaker 4: Just loses it. How old is she did? She say,

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Speaker 4: Maddie ten months?

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, so that's still that's when it's that's when

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Speaker 3: it started with you as well. And now we learned

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Speaker 3: this the first time Max said I came into the studio.

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Speaker 3: She calls the studio the glassroom, and she said, wood,

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Speaker 3: he laughed at you in the glassroom.

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Speaker 4: So ultimately she's protecting me.

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Speaker 2: So she just remembered one moment from our radio show

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Speaker 2: where obviously you were the butt of the drug and

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Speaker 2: since that day.

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Speaker 1: She has hated she's black. Marn't you forgiveness, mate? I

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Speaker 1: think you.

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Speaker 4: Are you just thinking about that in reverse?

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Speaker 3: Maybe you need to be doing great things for me

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Speaker 3: in front of her, or yeah, I think that's actually it.

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Speaker 3: Now I hate that it flipped that, so I need

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Speaker 3: to is where we're at all of a sudden.

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Speaker 1: If I save your life.

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Speaker 4: I just start with a nice bottle of wine. Jamie's

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Speaker 4: called on by buying me a drink.

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Speaker 2: Jamie, are you another one who was hated by a

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Speaker 2: child for no reason?

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Speaker 10: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: So my cousin, she had two daughters, and they both

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Speaker 5: every time I would walk in the room, they just.

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Speaker 10: Would squill and yell and scream.

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Speaker 12: And I put it down to the fact that I

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Speaker 12: had read.

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Speaker 1: That's interesting, Jamie.

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Speaker 5: The worst the worst parte was their father had dreadlocks.

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Speaker 10: So maybe it wasn't the dread.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it's the dreadlocks, Jamie. Have you managed

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Speaker 1: to have you managed to push through?

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Speaker 4: Have you? Have you done?

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Speaker 10: They're older now, and they're older now, and.

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Speaker 5: They like me.

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Speaker 1: Now, how did you do it? Jamie? Teach me?

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Speaker 12: How did I do it?

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Speaker 10: I just stayed away.

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Speaker 4: It's gone.

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Speaker 3: So you've got two options here, would either stay away

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Speaker 1: I think I prefer to stay away.

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Speaker 12: I'm going to have a drink.

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Speaker 3: No, no, okay. Can you tell the difference between beer

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Speaker 4: Sound of the cannon.

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Speaker 3: It is ten thousand dollars if you get ten of

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Speaker 3: these cans in a row. And I'll say that a lot.

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Speaker 3: I'll say that as much as I need to. The

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Speaker 1: They hate it, The company hates it.

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Speaker 4: Company hates it.

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Speaker 3: We haven't got that sort of cash, but at Will

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Speaker 3: but we've not got that much. So ten cans. If

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Speaker 4: That's how that works. But we'll you're going to kick

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Speaker 4: off the first can with Gina. Yes, today, I.

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Speaker 2: Don't mention Jenna. It actually mean it quite seriously. Might

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Speaker 2: ten dollars a week over ten years or whatever.

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Speaker 3: It is like a mortgage, reverse mortgage, like a reverse mortgage.

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Speaker 1: You're okay with that, Jina.

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Speaker 5: I'm okay with that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, amazing. Here's your first can.

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Speaker 8: Go that's pass dreak.

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Speaker 4: Nice Ja, Jena.

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Speaker 3: Now you've plucked that from absolutely nowhere, and I fear

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Speaker 4: Gina. I think you know, I think you thought you'd

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Speaker 3: Actually I kind of talked over it, Yeah over Gina listen.

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Speaker 13: Okayer Nah, sorry Jena.

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Speaker 1: Sorry the soft drink as well, Gina, damn.

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Speaker 10: Thanks you guys as well.

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Speaker 1: No worries. Just to let you guys know.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if you guys know the mats, but yeah,

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Speaker 2: you'll get ten dollars a week.

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Speaker 1: So it'll take nineteen years to get the ten k,

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Speaker 1: but you will get it.

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Speaker 6: Brody, Hello, Hello, how's it going, gentlemen?

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Speaker 1: I'm outstanding? Brody to Friday?

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Speaker 11: How good?

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Speaker 1: Let's get into can one? Shall we? Brody? Here it is?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Brady, it is. We like the conviction, don't we words.

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Speaker 4: We like the quick ones.

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Speaker 1: You can always tell.

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Speaker 4: We like the quick ones.

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Speaker 1: We don't like the thinkers. We like the feelers. And

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Speaker 4: Do you're a feeler?

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Speaker 11: Brodie?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, strike me as a tender lover.

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Speaker 11: Oh another beer?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Bag bang bag bang brides.

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Speaker 1: Why is the producer written in there? Pete Murray from

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Speaker 4: Is that a feeler reference? Why do we write that? Because?

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Speaker 3: Sorry he's looking Sorry sorry button Push of Tom has

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Speaker 3: searched for the song Feeler by Pete Murray, but he

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Speaker 1: That makes sense.

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Speaker 3: He did the old he did the Facebook status, Google search,

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Speaker 3: which parents often do.

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Speaker 1: That's what's happening.

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Speaker 2: I wasn't supposed to read that at all, right, sorry, Brodie,

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Speaker 2: soorry about that.

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Speaker 4: That is such a great crossing.

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Speaker 3: I love that you just said, pig Murray Jeff three.

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Speaker 7: Oh.

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Speaker 11: Tough drink?

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Speaker 4: Wow, whoa, whoa, whoa?

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Speaker 3: I think so, I think we have to go to worry.

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Speaker 3: Haven't got the cash? Delay delay, we put him this

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Speaker 4: We send him out of the producers, and they read

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Speaker 4: in the riot Act.

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Speaker 1: How are you feeling, big fella h nervous?

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Speaker 6: Because to be nice, but I have a little strategy.

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Speaker 6: I'm not sure if it's gonna work. We'll just see

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Speaker 6: how we go to.

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Speaker 3: Tell us what you Then we can hear how he's doing.

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Speaker 6: Soft drink.

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Speaker 6: Pretty much, all I'm listening for is a light more

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Speaker 4: It's more of a clunk than a than a kind

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Speaker 4: of crack exactly.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you thought you heard it, then.

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Speaker 6: It sounded more cracky than clunky.

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Speaker 4: Are you going to stay with beer? Are you going

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Speaker 4: to stay with soft drink?

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Speaker 6: I don't get to hear it twice?

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Speaker 3: No, but you can change. I'll let you change your answer.

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Speaker 3: Now you're going to stay with soft drink?

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Speaker 11: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Sorry, man, it was a beer. We're trying to help you.

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Speaker 1: We're never trying to mess with you. Sorry, Brady. I

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Speaker 1: think I think why did you.

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Speaker 3: Make him explain himself knowing that he last I feel

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Speaker 3: like that was a bit.

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Speaker 1: I was just curious.

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Speaker 4: I was just interested of a deal.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, bro, I didn't mean to make it look like

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Speaker 2: I think we've we've cooked you a bit by hooking

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Speaker 2: you over the song. I think every single time we've

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Speaker 2: made someone wait over, everyone overthinks. Yeah, look, bro, you're

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Speaker 2: a great player. Keep listening in your car. You might

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Speaker 2: get another opportunity. Will some stage well who knows?

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Speaker 1: Who know? We do live events?

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Speaker 4: Do we?

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Speaker 12: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: We do?

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Speaker 11: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Again?

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Speaker 6: You hear it?

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Speaker 1: You mean yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 3: You're just saying in general, I've actually been events planning

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Speaker 3: your weddings.

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Speaker 1: Oh we do that too too, for a fee. Let's

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Speaker 1: go to Sydney.

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Speaker 2: Here, Hey, Sydney, Hey, how are you outstandings Friday?

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Speaker 1: Let's just crack in the can.

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Speaker 4: Soft drink hot crack Woods. That's the best crack you've done.

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Speaker 3: It felt Good's arguably the only good crack you've ever done.

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Speaker 3: One one soft drink, Sydney, bang off on?

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Speaker 4: Here we go hand too, shall we?

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Speaker 13: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Dear now it sounded like a beer you know, your

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Speaker 4: worst crack? That was the guy with dumbing but of beer,

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Speaker 4: worse crack.

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Speaker 2: I dragged my finger over the least I reckon Sydney

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Speaker 2: deser that was that was really bad.

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Speaker 1: It will invite her back next Friday. I love that Sid. No,

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Speaker 1: she's gone.

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Speaker 4: Well, maybe Sydney, you come out next Friday. Can we

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Speaker 4: get to be Sydney. Can you come in next Friday?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Oh, we're not here next Friday.

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Speaker 3: Sydney will be here the following Friday. Right now, we've

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Speaker 3: got ten, maybe fifteen minutes, if you're lucky, to impose

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Speaker 1: We take our lives.

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Speaker 3: That's a very fancy way words of saying that we

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Speaker 3: don't get many of our ideas on the show.

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Speaker 1: Nope.

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Speaker 3: Contractually, we've carved out the last fifteen minutes of a

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Speaker 3: to fit puppets for the man.

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Speaker 2: That's it, and just to bring to life some great

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Speaker 2: ideas that unfortunately they don't believe good enough.

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Speaker 1: Let me kick things off well.

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Speaker 2: Walking home from a comedy gig earlier in the week,

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Speaker 2: Gy Montgomery, if you haven't seen him, he's great. Anyway,

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Speaker 2: I'm walking along, I've almost got home, and I hear

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Speaker 2: a gentleman yelling at.

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Speaker 1: Santa Claus, Santa Claus, Santa Claus.

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Speaker 2: And he's kept repeating that, and I'm going, I think

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Speaker 2: this person either a needs my help, because you know,

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Speaker 2: they think they've seen Santa Claus been clearly he's back

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Speaker 2: at the pole at the moment, he's back at the

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Speaker 2: north pole this heart.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he's just the face.

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Speaker 2: Alternatively, if he has got Santa Claus over, yeah, I

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Speaker 2: obviously want to meet him. Right anyway, So I go

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Speaker 2: into the person's house if it was just that there, yeah,

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Speaker 2: just to see what was going on.

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Speaker 1: You go into their house or not fully like I

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Speaker 1: just went into the front yard.

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Speaker 4: You go into the front yard.

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Speaker 1: Mate, I've just run through the scenario, and.

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Speaker 4: Neither one of them warranted to trespass.

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Speaker 1: In my mind, you have to pursue that. To pursue that.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, this dog was called Santa Claus, and I was like,

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Speaker 2: that is that is quite possibly the worst dog name

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Speaker 2: I've ever heard of.

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Speaker 4: I like that.

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Speaker 2: I don't think you can call your dog Santa Claus.

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Speaker 2: I think it's just I think it's taken for the

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Speaker 2: one person who is.

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Speaker 3: I love Santa Claus. Santa Course, Santa Claus is confusing anyway,

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Speaker 3: my question, I think it's a hot, hot idea.

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Speaker 2: It's just the worst worst dog name, Like, that's one.

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Speaker 4: Worst dog name is good?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I do like it.

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Speaker 4: We hates it. He's put the head in there. I

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Speaker 4: noticed that.

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Speaker 1: I've seen that. I've seen that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the fifths are in the eyes.

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Speaker 1: Now got into the physical eyes. Oh wow, I got

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Speaker 1: a dog, guy, You just got a dog mate, You

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Speaker 1: got a guy.

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to think of an example that would fit

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Speaker 3: that and will help me out.

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Speaker 4: Who's that old British Prime Minister Boris Johnson. There's a

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Speaker 4: lot of them, mate, how many Dave.

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Speaker 1: Cameron, Dave Cameron, Winston Churchill, he.

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Speaker 3: Had two dogs.

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Speaker 1: One was called Winston.

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Speaker 4: Churchill was who you were after.

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Speaker 11: That's good.

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Speaker 3: You're the defender of the Western world as the old

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Speaker 3: British Prime minister.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't think of it.

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Speaker 5: That's why I was the reason.

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Speaker 4: We're here today. Mate. Oh, you're hating yourself but not

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Speaker 4: knowing Churchill? Fair enough.

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Speaker 1: A good example though, Glenn one and Glen is pretty funny,

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Speaker 1: pretty good, pretty funny.

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Speaker 4: Okay Woods, Yes, I know you're gonna like this.

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Speaker 3: But by the way, I should mention that we have

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Speaker 3: got Lady Gaga tickets to give away here.

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Speaker 1: Which which helps the ideas.

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Speaker 3: I want to know, Ah, what's the most expensive run

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Speaker 3: to the toilet you've ever had?

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Speaker 1: What do you mean expensive?

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Speaker 4: Well, that's however that has been interpreted in.

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Speaker 1: Your life, not necessarily financial.

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Speaker 3: Yes, it was financially expensive for you to go to

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Speaker 3: the toilet at that time.

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Speaker 4: It costs you.

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Speaker 1: You do have to pay for toilets in Europe?

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Speaker 4: Is that what you're no?

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Speaker 1: I make that rule? No anyway, okay.

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Speaker 4: Which I which I do want to tell you that story.

462
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Speaker 4: But I'm liking the dog names, man, really, yeah, you

463
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Speaker 4: want the worst dog.

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Speaker 1: Are liking it?

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Speaker 4: But I'm also the reason I am liking it, you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's so Because, let's be honest, I think

467
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Speaker 2: he's tried to.

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Speaker 4: Cover it up with the Winston Churchill.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, here's a good example reverse psychology.

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Speaker 4: And now that look is just confirmed that he does

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Speaker 4: hate it. All right, it's good stuff.

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Speaker 3: Lady Gaga tickets that an't want to six five the

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Speaker 3: worst dog name.

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Speaker 4: You've ever heard? That's all. That's all. That's where we're at.

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Speaker 4: That's where we're That is a very good barometer if we.

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Speaker 3: We're at double past to go and see Lady Gaga

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Speaker 3: here in Australia in December, all thanks to Live Nation, Livenation,

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Speaker 3: April thirteen sixty five on Freedom Fridays, the moment where

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Speaker 3: we get to pitch our ideas without the producers influencing

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Speaker 3: them at all. We have chosen what is the worst

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Speaker 3: dog's name that.

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Speaker 4: You've ever heard?

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Speaker 7: Le we take our life.

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Speaker 2: And the beautiful thing we've done is we've attached Lady

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Speaker 2: Gaga tickets to this.

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Speaker 3: I don't think short of genius woulds it was always

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Speaker 3: going to get the phone line A little monster. I've

489
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Speaker 3: waited long enough. Yes, Lady Gaga presents the Mayhem Ball

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Speaker 3: Info livenation dot com dot au.

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Speaker 2: But gee, whiz, before we get into bad dog names,

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Speaker 2: will the idea that you threw out expens trips to

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Speaker 2: the toilets? We've got, Louise, you wanted to engage with

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Speaker 2: that topic.

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Speaker 1: What happened, Louise?

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Speaker 12: Yeah, I was at a local club recently for a

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Speaker 12: badge straw and needed to go to toilets and chose

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Speaker 12: the moment just before they drew the bad draw, and

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Speaker 12: I got drawn out for the major jackpot at twenty

501
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Speaker 12: thousand dollars into the toilet and it wasn't a short

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Speaker 12: toilet strip out on twenty thousands.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, no.

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Speaker 4: No, Louis, did you hear it? Were you in the

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Speaker 4: cubicle and you heard your orange fifty two?

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Speaker 12: No? No, I didn't hear it.

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Speaker 4: So when did you know that?

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Speaker 14: When I came back and they said, okay, Louise has

509
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Speaker 14: got five.

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Speaker 12: Seconds and I couldn't get over there and then re

511
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Speaker 12: draw and then they redrew.

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Speaker 2: Twenty and then everyone you're there and also knows that

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Speaker 2: you know, obviously there's been doing a number ten.

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Speaker 10: I had been Wow.

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Speaker 4: Wow, Louise, that's amazing.

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Speaker 3: I didn't actually get to say why I was saying that,

517
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Speaker 3: but you nearly so. Louise called a guy called Carlos

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Speaker 3: Signs to who he is.

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Speaker 4: He's an F one driver.

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Speaker 3: He he had a pretty similar situation to you, a

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Speaker 3: code brown. Yeah, he was at the local met raffle

522
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Speaker 3: on a on.

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Speaker 4: A Friday night.

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Speaker 3: No, No, he had a code brown nuclear situation during

525
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Speaker 3: the national anthem, playing at the F one before the event,

526
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Speaker 3: and they charged him thirty six thousand.

527
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Speaker 1: Dollars because he put his pants.

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Speaker 3: No, because he ran the toy look, because he wasn't standing.

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Speaker 2: Oh, you just got to put in the pants there,

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Speaker 2: don't because I'm pretty sure those are fun suits. It's

531
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Speaker 2: like the suits in June. You just absorb it back

532
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Speaker 2: in anyway, it's going to justin here. No, I've spoken

533
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Speaker 2: to a few drugs.

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Speaker 4: I don't think they're doing that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, uh, prestre all the time, justin allegedly.

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Speaker 1: Justin you're calling about worst dog names.

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Speaker 3: Obviously, the call from Louise, by the way, makes you

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Speaker 3: think that we should have gone down that topic.

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Speaker 4: Anyway, let's see.

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Speaker 3: What they definitely what the producers wanted. See what let's

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Speaker 3: do The worst dog names are there? Justin, justin, what

542
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Speaker 3: do you call your dog?

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Speaker 14: My dog's name is Caro kak Off. Yeah, from Dragon

544
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Speaker 14: ball Z go to his real name. So whenever my

545
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Speaker 14: dog runs away because he doesn't listen, I'm the only

546
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Speaker 14: weirdo at the park, screaming cakerot at the top of

547
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Speaker 14: my lung. So he comes back.

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Speaker 2: Certainly, get a capital of looks like for Jeta, Get

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Speaker 2: a capule of looks.

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Speaker 4: Justin.

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Speaker 2: Emily here, Emily, this was your friend's dog's name, going

552
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Speaker 2: for worst one.

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Speaker 4: What was it?

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 8: They called it shittake, which is really really cute, but

556
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Speaker 8: unfortunately for sure when they're in a rush, they just

557
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Speaker 8: called the dog shit. So come here, shoe, come here.

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Speaker 10: Shit.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, it was so bad, it's pretty good.

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Speaker 1: I don't mind that dog. Zame is just ship.

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Speaker 4: It's just ship. Poor dog.

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Speaker 1: We never know what do you mean?

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Speaker 3: End of the day.

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Speaker 1: They don't know, Yeah, exactly, they don't know.

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Speaker 4: Just a sound.

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Speaker 1: Tell your dog whatever you want. Let's go to Georgia. Here, Georgia,

567
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Speaker 1: worst dog, worst dog Georgia. You've ever heard yeah.

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Speaker 5: So I was recently at the dog park and we

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Speaker 5: were talking about what we might need our dog if

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Speaker 5: we got another dog, and a lady said, just to

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Speaker 5: play with people, she'd take her dog to the beach

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Speaker 5: and call it Shark so she could pull out shark Shark,

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Speaker 5: and everyone.

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Speaker 3: Was it's very good, Georgia, that ready, But I just

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Speaker 3: don't think it beats at twenty thousand dollars.

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Speaker 4: Pooh, Louise, you're gonna go, And Lady Gaga.

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Speaker 2: Just make sure you don't do a foot when she's

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Speaker 2: about to do her on call.

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Speaker 4: Louise, Yeah, don't head off to the poker face. Love

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Speaker 4: you Louise. Who are you taking?

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Speaker 3: Mate?

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Speaker 12: Thank you?

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Speaker 3: No worries it all, don't worry about it, hope you

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Speaker 3: I done a great right out.

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Speaker 4: Another money it's case wards.

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Speaker 3: We've got a very very special guest in Chloe Pink

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Speaker 3: who joins us in the studio right now. Chloe is

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Speaker 3: married to North Melbourne Football Club in the AFL's Toby Pink,

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Speaker 3: and Chloe joins in the studio right now to talk

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Speaker 3: about something that she went through recently that we think

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Speaker 3: categorically sucks and so she's in need to try and

592
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Speaker 3: make things better for everybody else going forward.

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Speaker 4: Chloe, Welcome to Willam Wodie.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for having me.

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Speaker 7: Guys, I appreciate the platform to talk about it.

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Speaker 2: Do you want to talk us through? So you had

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Speaker 2: a secret wedding to your now husband Toby. Yeah, and

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Speaker 2: that was back in March. Yeah, first leak, congrats.

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Speaker 4: Thank you, look beautiful by the way, thank you. Where

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Speaker 4: was it? Where was it exactly?

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Speaker 7: We went to the wedding registry, so just the office

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Speaker 7: right next to the treasury guarded.

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Speaker 4: We're on the steps out of the front there. Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, So we just went there and then we had

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Speaker 7: a long table dinner at Bosley Bar and Restaurant, which

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Speaker 7: is beautiful by the way, if you need a recommendation.

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Speaker 7: We had a long table dinner there. You joined the

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Speaker 7: marketing team getting paid to say that she just got.

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Speaker 4: Her wedding for free, now I know while you're in here.

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Speaker 7: And yeah, we kept it on the down low and

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Speaker 7: didn't tell anyone else. We've been together for over seven years.

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Speaker 2: And then fast forward a few months. So fast forward

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Speaker 2: to a couple of days ago. There's a news article

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Speaker 2: written about the fact that you and Toby got married.

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Speaker 7: Yes, yeah, so Jackie from Harold Son. She reached out

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Speaker 7: to me and said, are you okay we do an

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Speaker 7: article on your wedding. It was really beautiful and I said,

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Speaker 7: of course, like that sounds lovely. The article went live,

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Speaker 7: and from the back end of that article is when

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Speaker 7: I guess ended up in this situation. There was a

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Speaker 7: lot of viral comments coming hard and fast, all about

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Speaker 7: my appearance, all about my weight. There were comments calling

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Speaker 7: me a fridge, comments saying that Toby was a AFL

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Speaker 7: player by day, pick hunter by night. Yeah, there was

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Speaker 7: the comments that genuinely shocked me, not even just calling

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Speaker 7: me fat, like, there was really vile comments. And they

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Speaker 7: were not just one or two I think, Yeah, it was.

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Speaker 7: It was it's been a hard, hard week, not just

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Speaker 7: one or two either. There were so many, and Harald

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Speaker 7: Sun did what they could, like they were deleting the

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Speaker 7: comments and eventually they had to turn off the comments.

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Speaker 7: But it was it was I'd never experienced anything like it,

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Speaker 7: and I guess I it was a bit naive, and

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Speaker 7: I know that I'm going to get a hate comment.

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Speaker 7: I know that someone's going to call me fat, but

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Speaker 7: I didn't expect it to this extent.

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Speaker 4: Did you know that. Did you know that?

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Speaker 3: Sorry just to because you said I knew that I

639
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Speaker 3: was going to get a comment on someone's good So

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Speaker 3: Jackie calls you in the Herald Sun.

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Speaker 4: Probably a lot of people's dream.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they want to put your photo in the paper

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Speaker 3: of you marrying your beautiful man.

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Speaker 1: Of probably one of the best days of your life.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that was going to happen.

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Speaker 3: And then at the same time you're saying, in the

647
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Speaker 3: back of your mind was also a thought where you

648
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Speaker 3: were like, I know someone's going to call me fat

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Speaker 3: publicly in these photos.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, I know.

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Speaker 4: How did you know that?

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Speaker 7: Because I've been to another event where my photo's been posted.

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Speaker 7: I've also received one or two comments about the way

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Speaker 7: that I look, But I didn't expect it to be

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Speaker 7: to the extent that it was. I expected one or

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Speaker 7: two comments, and I can take that, which I shouldn't

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Speaker 7: have to. I know that someone out there is going

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Speaker 7: to say I look fat, but I did not expect

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Speaker 7: the vile comments and to the extent and the nature

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Speaker 7: of what was to come.

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Speaker 4: And how did you think you looked on your wedding day.

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Speaker 7: I had a hard conversation actually with a close family

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Speaker 7: member and I said, my wedding day was the first

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Speaker 7: day where I've actually felt truly beautiful and makes my

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Speaker 7: mom my. Mom's been crying a week.

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Speaker 1: She said.

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Speaker 7: She's like, you looked beautiful. She said, you felt beautiful,

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Speaker 7: and I truly did. Thank you. Even when I uploaded

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Speaker 7: the photos, I didn't question if I looked fat, I

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Speaker 7: didn't question if I looked ugly. I didn't question my appearance.

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Speaker 7: I felt so beautiful.

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Speaker 1: So when these comments start coming through, how did you

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Speaker 1: see them?

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Speaker 7: So I read the comments and I just spent I

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Speaker 7: think three days straight crying at home. Initially Toby, Toby's like,

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Speaker 7: no way, there's no way. And Toby just sat there

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Speaker 7: in silence for like a good day, and he's like,

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Speaker 7: I am so sorry. And it felt like he was

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Speaker 7: apologizing to me because I was saying, oh, it's just

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Speaker 7: like I was crying and it really hurt. But in

681
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:56,960
Speaker 7: the back of my mind, I kept saying, it's just

682
00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:59,000
Speaker 7: part of his job. It's just part of his job.

683
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:00,920
Speaker 7: It's fine, it's just part of his job. But the

684
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 7: more I reflect on that, it's not it's not. And

685
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Speaker 7: if I say that, I'm excusing your behavior.

686
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Speaker 3: So we want to get to how we can do

687
00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:11,120
Speaker 3: better about this all dose, We've got a song, and

688
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 3: we've got more with Chloe Pink right up next here

689
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:17,200
Speaker 3: on will and what he By the way, I should

690
00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:19,040
Speaker 3: mention if any of this has brought up any emotions

691
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Speaker 3: of body image, then reach out to the Butterfly Foundation

692
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Speaker 3: on WIT one hundred double three four six seven three.

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Speaker 3: You're doing so like it's incredible that you're in here

694
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Speaker 3: talking about this, Like I think if I read anything

695
00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:32,040
Speaker 3: about myself like that, I'd be dead and buried, like

696
00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 3: I'd be in a hole for six months like that.

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00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:35,120
Speaker 4: That is really really tough.

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Speaker 7: Thank you.

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Speaker 3: So you're in this situation where really the issue here

700
00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:44,680
Speaker 3: is an expectation that we have of how women should be.

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00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 3: What do you think the expectation is and how would

702
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Speaker 3: you like it to change.

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Speaker 7: I think there's women in general, especially professional athletes partners.

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Speaker 7: I think there's an expectation that you have to be

705
00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:02,600
Speaker 7: a so in size. But if I say that I

706
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:04,320
Speaker 7: could be a SI six and I would still get

707
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 7: hate comments. So some people, unfortunately, and unfortunately I know

708
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Speaker 7: it's not all men, but it tends to be a man.

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Speaker 7: Of course, they think they have and think they can

710
00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:16,840
Speaker 7: have an opinion on women and their bodies. And I

711
00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:20,320
Speaker 7: think that's that's really deep rooted within themselves. I don't

712
00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 7: think someone asked me what would I say to them?

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Speaker 2: It's stopping the thought almost, isn't it. Yeah, let's go

714
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Speaker 2: to stage one here, because I don't want people to

715
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Speaker 2: get to stage one, which is that they have that

716
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 2: thought to think that you could look at someone's happiest day,

717
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Speaker 2: which is their winning day, and focus on that part,

718
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:42,920
Speaker 2: which is your appearance. That's the bit that you want

719
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Speaker 2: to change. But I don't know how you begin to

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Speaker 2: change that, Like is it the way we talk to kids?

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Speaker 7: Chloe, Toby and I have been having some really hard conversations,

722
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Speaker 7: especially over the last two days and last night, especially

723
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Speaker 7: in Adelaide at the moment, but we had a FaceTime

724
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Speaker 7: and I said, how do we do better and how

725
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Speaker 7: do we stop this? And Toby's first point was we

726
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:04,760
Speaker 7: need to teach our children better. We need to stop

727
00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 7: talking about people's bodies, talk about what their bodies can do,

728
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:11,600
Speaker 7: not what they look like. Another one is our grandparents,

729
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Speaker 7: I often find and especially with all those comments, unfortunately

730
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Speaker 7: it was older men, which.

731
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Speaker 1: It's the truth. It sucks.

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Speaker 7: It's an uncomfortable conversation, but it was and I think

733
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Speaker 7: having the conversation with them that they make sad little

734
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Speaker 7: marks and they may not think of anything about it.

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Speaker 4: But we just it really carries the weight of the world.

736
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Speaker 7: Correct, correct, and we just say, oh, that's who it is,

737
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Speaker 7: that's just that generation.

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Speaker 11: Yeah.

739
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Speaker 7: But I think that's another opportunity for doing better is

740
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Speaker 7: calling that out very uncomfortable. I can't imagine calling out

741
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Speaker 7: my grandparents very uncomfortable, but.

742
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Speaker 4: We have to. Woods and I have both got little girls.

743
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Speaker 3: My little girl came home from daycare the other day,

744
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Speaker 3: she's two and a half. Clearly it hadn't been meant

745
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Speaker 3: in a particular way, but she's started talking about her

746
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Speaker 3: big belly, and she was like pointing her belly and Ben,

747
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:03,399
Speaker 3: I've got a big belly.

748
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Speaker 4: I've got it.

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Speaker 3: And it was all fun and games and I really

750
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Speaker 3: didn't think too much of it. But afterwards and just

751
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 3: hearing you say this, now, I had the moment where

752
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:14,640
Speaker 3: I was like speaking, like, actually, how she is. She's

753
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Speaker 3: a lot bigger than the other kids. And I think

754
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Speaker 3: might have even just been her noticing I have a

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Speaker 3: big belly. So I was in this situation where I

756
00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:24,520
Speaker 3: was like, at what point do I say to her, Yeah, well,

757
00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:28,040
Speaker 3: you know, I can clearly say that you're joking about that, sweetheart.

758
00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:30,440
Speaker 3: But at the same time, like, it's just a belly.

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Speaker 3: We don't need an adjective there, Like, you know, you

760
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 3: got a big belly.

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Speaker 4: Look at me. I've got a big belly now as well.

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Speaker 4: You know. So I instantly made it fun for her.

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Speaker 3: But funny how quickly you put a I mean like

764
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Speaker 3: I could tell you every I could give you an

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Speaker 3: adjective right now, for every single part of my body yeap,

766
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Speaker 3: from my toenails to my head. I have thought about

767
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Speaker 3: subconsciously a word that would describe that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And that is natural.

769
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Speaker 4: So heavily ingrained in us.

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Speaker 7: You're not naturally gonna say, oh, your belly is really

771
00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:02,120
Speaker 7: good it you, it's going to make it grow. You're

772
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:04,440
Speaker 7: not naturally going to say that to children. And that

773
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Speaker 7: was the other conversation with Toby. I said, Okay, that's great.

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Speaker 7: We don't have children right now. What can we do now?

775
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Speaker 7: TikTok actually has been great. I uploaded my TikTok I

776
00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:16,320
Speaker 7: have a filter on, and it's all like nasty words

777
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:20,080
Speaker 7: like fat okay, like spare words, and I go into

778
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Speaker 7: my TikTok and I have like hundreds of comments there

779
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Speaker 7: to review because they have.

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Speaker 4: Those words saved.

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00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:26,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, I.

782
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Speaker 1: Picked it out.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, which has been great because if I want to

784
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Speaker 7: go review them, I mentally prepare myself. Well, if I

785
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Speaker 7: don't want to read them, I don't even have.

786
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Speaker 4: To have a little It's so cool. I didn't know

787
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Speaker 4: there was.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it's been great.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we're very old either. Was I actually to read

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Speaker 1: that's az? Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Yes, ninety nine percent of my response has been from women,

792
00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 7: but only one percent has been from men. Yeah, one percent,

793
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Speaker 7: ninety nine percent women. I was having the conversation with

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Speaker 7: my husband as well, and it's up to us men

795
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Speaker 7: to call it out. It's not going to stop if

796
00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:06,880
Speaker 7: they are not calling it out. And he openly admitted,

797
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:09,760
Speaker 7: he said, I need to do better. Yes, I support

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00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:14,080
Speaker 7: you at home, great, but publicly I struggle. I struggle with.

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Speaker 3: A football club, that's right, he being and amongst that, yeah,

800
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:22,279
Speaker 3: all the times played football his whole life, Toby. Yeah,

801
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:26,399
Speaker 3: in amongst top level football, that is breeding ground.

802
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:29,799
Speaker 4: For this sort of stuff. Really and he traditionally.

803
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:32,359
Speaker 7: Yeah, he wanted me to call that out as well.

804
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:34,920
Speaker 7: He said, and I know he loves me for my

805
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 7: parents as well, like it's it's not just about who

806
00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:41,080
Speaker 7: I am, but he loves my appearance. And he said,

807
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:45,279
Speaker 7: we need to do better, and he said, we need

808
00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:48,640
Speaker 7: we need more men. Unfortunately, guys, sorry, I need.

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00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 4: You to call it out here as well. Thank you

810
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:51,560
Speaker 4: so much.

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Speaker 7: I appreciate that.

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Speaker 1: Great job, and congrats again, honey.

813
00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:03,840
Speaker 7: We went to we went away for one night, but

814
00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:12,000
Speaker 7: post season.

815
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Speaker 1: I need a honeymoon.

816
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:16,799
Speaker 4: Stop planning, Chloe, Pinky on Will and Wodie. Chloe, thank

817
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 4: you so much for coming in.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 7: Thanks guys