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Speaker 1: Jumb mission with Jonesy and Amanda.

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Speaker 2: You know, dinging your mum's car or stealing ten bucks

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Speaker 2: out of dad's What are examples of harmless secrets we're

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Speaker 2: guilty of hiding from our families, but there are much

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Speaker 2: much bigger secrets that can tear families apart. Nony Hazelhurst

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Speaker 2: is back with the series Every Family Has a Secret,

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Speaker 2: and she's here to reveal all. Nony, Hello, Hello.

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Speaker 3: You're not going to drop like a bombshell secret about

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Speaker 3: yourself though, are you.

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Speaker 1: Nany Well, no, because then it wouldn't be a secreted.

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Speaker 2: So what's some examples of some of the stuff that

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Speaker 2: families have had in the cupboard all these years?

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm not going to give anything about a way

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Speaker 1: about the new series, but certainly in the last couple

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Speaker 1: that we've had some amazing stories. One woman was at

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Speaker 1: six years old, was sort of taken by an acrobatic

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Speaker 1: troop in Laos and she didn't know her name, she

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Speaker 1: didn't know her birthday, she didn't know anything about where

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Speaker 1: she came from or her family. She'd been brought up

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Speaker 1: in an institution and came to Australia when she was

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Speaker 1: a young woman. And we found a brother that she

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Speaker 1: didn't know she had. We found her real name, we

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Speaker 1: found her birth date, and it actually changed her life.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you see people actually when they're so haunted

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Speaker 1: that they're brave enough to step forward to go on

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Speaker 1: television to find out what it is that's been bothering

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Speaker 1: them all their lives, to have that sense of release

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Speaker 1: when they get to the end. It's not always something

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Speaker 1: they wanted to find out. You know, we've had a

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Speaker 1: few mafia grandfathers and things like that, and war criminals

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Speaker 1: and so on. But also this is the wonderfully uplifting

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Speaker 1: stories too. And to me, it's real reality television because

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Speaker 1: it's real people reacting to a real situation in real time.

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Speaker 1: It's not manipulative or exploitative at all.

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Speaker 3: I remember when I was a kid, there was a

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Speaker 3: story about an airline pilot in our area and he

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Speaker 3: had another family some ten k's away. It wasn't like

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Speaker 3: overseas or anything. It was like pretty much in the

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Speaker 3: same area, but this whole different family because when he

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Speaker 3: go away flying, he just go back to the other family,

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Speaker 3: and he managed to work that out. It wasn't until

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Speaker 3: he retired and subsequently died that they found out about

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Speaker 3: each other.

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Speaker 1: Wow, wow, Yes, I mean these sorts of things that

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Speaker 1: actually they do haunt people for their whole lives, and

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Speaker 1: you know, to find out something like that would be devastating,

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Speaker 1: absolutely devastating. We haven't had one of those yet, thank god.

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Speaker 2: It wouldn't be easy for people to come forward. As

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Speaker 2: you say, you don't always hear what you want to hear,

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Speaker 2: do you.

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Speaker 1: No, you don't, And often other family members don't want

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Speaker 1: you to do it, you know, so it does take

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Speaker 1: a lot of courage to put yourself out there and

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Speaker 1: take that risk of what we might find out.

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Speaker 3: And does anyone regret telling the secret? A lot of

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Speaker 3: people say the truth will set you free, but is

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Speaker 3: that always the case.

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Speaker 1: Look to a person. They've all said that they're pleased

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Speaker 1: that they went on the journey because even if it's

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Speaker 1: not what you want to hear, it does give you

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Speaker 1: a sense of relief. As you say, you know, from

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Speaker 1: that burden of what was it all about? You know,

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Speaker 1: why didn't my mother want me to know anything until

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Speaker 1: after she died? You know that you just wish you'd

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Speaker 1: had that relationship with the person that they didn't feel

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Speaker 1: shame or guilt or whatever it might be that to

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Speaker 1: stop the story being told.

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Speaker 3: Well, it sounds fascinating. Is there any Play School secrets

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Speaker 3: you want to divulge now? Is it true that you

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Speaker 3: were eating Perkins paste? Is that true? You got addicted

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Speaker 3: to it?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: Really, Oh, there's going to be.

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Speaker 2: A story about Big Ten that go through to the keepers.

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Speaker 1: We're all on NDAs, so.

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Speaker 3: NDAs on play School. Always great to talk to you.

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Speaker 3: Every family has a secret. He's back tomorrow at seven

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Speaker 3: thirty on SBS Noady Hazelhurst.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, my please, I love you to talk to you.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Ny Jonesy and Amanda's