WEBVTT - Sophie Guidolin’s Fourth ‘Husband’, Sarah’s Day’s Confusing Diet Backflip & Ruby Tuesday Matthews’ CCTV Vision 0:00:02.000 --> 0:00:05.960 Coming up on today's show, Sarah's Day ignites debate about 0:00:06.000 --> 0:00:09.280 what I eat in a day trend Ruby Tuesday, Matthew's 0:00:09.320 --> 0:00:12.440 house is targeted by a gang of thieves and Saffron 0:00:12.480 --> 0:00:16.400 Barker catches up with her ex. Hello and welcome to Outspoken. 0:00:16.520 --> 0:00:18.880 It's your dose of the hottest influencer and. 0:00:18.840 --> 0:00:20.400 Pop culture news twice a week. 0:00:20.480 --> 0:00:24.040 I'm Sophie Torba and over the weekend, Sophie Guidland has 0:00:24.079 --> 0:00:28.520 ignited rumors of a secret wedding to fitness coach Nicholas White. Now, 0:00:28.640 --> 0:00:32.280 the couple only hard launched their relationship a few weeks ago, 0:00:32.560 --> 0:00:35.040 and she has hinted in a YouTube video. 0:00:34.920 --> 0:00:36.560 That the pair are now married. 0:00:36.920 --> 0:00:39.320 So in this video, while she was showing off her 0:00:39.320 --> 0:00:43.640 body building trophies, she casually referred to Nicholas as her husband. 0:00:44.000 --> 0:00:49.159 Let's throw to the clip. Do you mind I can 0:00:49.159 --> 0:00:52.080 put your name on it? You could have Best Husband 0:00:52.080 --> 0:00:53.480 of the Year twenty twenty four. 0:00:53.960 --> 0:00:55.400 I could put your name on it and an add 0:00:55.400 --> 0:00:57.360 engrave it like a little bikini girl. 0:00:59.000 --> 0:01:02.400 The bread crumbing around this apparent marriage is next level 0:01:02.440 --> 0:01:05.760 because it appears like Sophie is wearing a wedding band 0:01:06.000 --> 0:01:09.720 in this vision and in other vision on an Instagram story, 0:01:09.840 --> 0:01:11.959 she is showing off her left hand with what appears 0:01:12.000 --> 0:01:14.200 to be a ring on it as well. She is 0:01:14.240 --> 0:01:17.959 making no secret about this marriage. Nicholas was also wearing 0:01:18.040 --> 0:01:20.960 a matching wedding band in another Instagram story, so it's 0:01:20.959 --> 0:01:23.720 almost like they are trying to get everyone's attention. It's 0:01:23.720 --> 0:01:26.959 funny how whenever there's an influencer relationship that's in the spotlight, 0:01:27.240 --> 0:01:30.400 you actually see the influencer's hand so much. Yes, just 0:01:30.480 --> 0:01:33.880 thinking about Tammy Henbury in every real and every Instagram story. 0:01:34.200 --> 0:01:36.440 You know, sometimes she's got the ring on, sometimes she's 0:01:36.440 --> 0:01:37.920 got the ring off. Do you think they do it 0:01:37.959 --> 0:01:41.319 for engagement? Oh, definitely, because it's their comment section gets 0:01:41.360 --> 0:01:43.880 filled up with people speculating about their lives, and it's 0:01:43.880 --> 0:01:46.400 a way that they stay relevant. As someone who is married, 0:01:46.560 --> 0:01:49.160 I'm always taking my rings on and off, like particularly 0:01:49.200 --> 0:01:52.040 if I'm cooking or doing the dishes. However, you would 0:01:52.040 --> 0:01:54.160 think that if your relationship was in the spotlight, you 0:01:54.160 --> 0:01:57.080 would make a conceited effort to keep those rings on 0:01:57.120 --> 0:01:57.800 when you're filming. 0:01:57.880 --> 0:01:59.600 I just love how ballsy it is that she's just 0:01:59.640 --> 0:02:00.520 such roped. 0:02:00.640 --> 0:02:03.680 Oh, husband of the Year Award as well, because surely 0:02:03.760 --> 0:02:05.960 she knows everyone is going to be talking about this, 0:02:06.080 --> 0:02:09.120 and her followers have gone crazy over this tidbit of 0:02:09.160 --> 0:02:13.880 information because Sophie and Nicholas have only been together since Descend, 0:02:13.880 --> 0:02:16.200 but that's the first time we saw them appear publicly 0:02:16.400 --> 0:02:18.200 on a holiday in New South Wayes. I mean, there 0:02:18.200 --> 0:02:21.000 are still question marks about what their relationship was actually like. 0:02:21.120 --> 0:02:23.560 Some people said that maybe they're just friends, but it 0:02:23.639 --> 0:02:27.040 has been kept very low profile. That was until Nicholas 0:02:27.040 --> 0:02:29.960 actually appeared in Sophie's YouTube video and that was when 0:02:30.000 --> 0:02:34.040 she spoke about her breast explant surgery. However, he was 0:02:34.080 --> 0:02:36.720 seen like his hand was seen passing her over flowers. 0:02:36.720 --> 0:02:38.799 It wasn't like it was a big hard launch of 0:02:38.840 --> 0:02:41.680 his face. However, of course all her followers have gone 0:02:41.720 --> 0:02:43.760 and found out who he is on Instagram well, because 0:02:43.800 --> 0:02:47.400 anytime these influences they try and soft launch with the 0:02:47.480 --> 0:02:50.160 you know, the boyfriend's hand just appearing in the video. 0:02:50.480 --> 0:02:53.400 They always have these really distinctive tattoos and it's so 0:02:53.639 --> 0:02:55.840 easy for the followers to go and find out. 0:02:55.680 --> 0:02:56.400 Who the guy is. 0:02:56.600 --> 0:02:59.360 Now, if this is true, it is rather interesting timing 0:02:59.400 --> 0:03:02.880 because it comes thirteen months after Sophie ended her marriage 0:03:02.880 --> 0:03:06.520 to Gold Coast dentist doctor Andrew Now. The couple separated 0:03:06.560 --> 0:03:09.040 after just four months of marriage on a very difficult 0:03:09.120 --> 0:03:12.040 and sad term. So this was after their daughter Pixie 0:03:12.200 --> 0:03:16.040 was sadly delivered stillborn, and Sophie and Andrew had a 0:03:16.080 --> 0:03:19.120 really well winned relationship, just like Sophie appears to have 0:03:19.160 --> 0:03:22.240 with Nicholas, because they dated for less than a year 0:03:22.320 --> 0:03:25.800 before getting married in Byron Bay in November twenty twenty two, 0:03:26.160 --> 0:03:29.160 and shortly after they announced they were expecting a baby. 0:03:29.320 --> 0:03:32.040 The difference is though she was friends with doctor Andrew 0:03:32.080 --> 0:03:34.240 for over ten years, so we're not sure if it's 0:03:34.280 --> 0:03:36.760 a similar situation where she has known Nicholas for a 0:03:36.800 --> 0:03:39.960 long time. These relationships have been very different though, although 0:03:39.960 --> 0:03:43.160 they've both been very quick. Sophie was very public about 0:03:43.160 --> 0:03:46.200 her relationship with Andrew. We saw this epic proposal that 0:03:46.320 --> 0:03:49.840 was filmed by a videographer. She also monetized the wedding photos, 0:03:49.920 --> 0:03:52.400 so it was a big controversy at the time because 0:03:52.400 --> 0:03:54.320 she put them behind a paywall in order to get 0:03:54.360 --> 0:03:58.400 subscribers on Instagram. But with Nicholas, it seems like she's 0:03:58.400 --> 0:04:00.440 sort of dancing around the idea of one to be 0:04:00.520 --> 0:04:04.160 ultra private but then enjoying breadcrumbing everyone in order to 0:04:04.240 --> 0:04:07.240 get engagement on her YouTube channel. But maybe that's why 0:04:07.400 --> 0:04:09.880 she has just subtly dropped it because of all the 0:04:09.920 --> 0:04:12.600 backlash she copped last time for monetizing it. I mean, 0:04:12.840 --> 0:04:14.800 if you look at them, but if you look at 0:04:14.800 --> 0:04:17.120 her strategy, it's been to be a bit more real 0:04:17.200 --> 0:04:20.000 and honest on her YouTube channel. She's chosen this real 0:04:20.120 --> 0:04:23.640 doco style way now of presenting some of her But 0:04:23.680 --> 0:04:25.480 I don't think it is real and honest amy because 0:04:25.480 --> 0:04:28.280 it's more like standing back from it. Like I think 0:04:28.279 --> 0:04:30.960 it's more so she's probably got married, didn't want to 0:04:31.000 --> 0:04:33.479 share it with anybody, and now she's thought, fuck, I 0:04:33.560 --> 0:04:35.480 kind of need to mention it to my followers. I'm 0:04:35.520 --> 0:04:37.280 just going to suddenly drop it, and I don't want 0:04:37.279 --> 0:04:40.080 to make this huge deal. I think she is making 0:04:40.120 --> 0:04:42.440 a big effort for it to seem different to the 0:04:42.520 --> 0:04:45.320 other relationship, and I think she has learned a lesson 0:04:45.360 --> 0:04:49.159 about monetizing her relationship and she wants to be open 0:04:49.200 --> 0:04:53.240 with her audience and share Nicholas in her YouTube videos. However, 0:04:53.640 --> 0:04:55.120 she's got to do that in a way that it 0:04:55.120 --> 0:04:57.800 doesn't look like she's just trying to monetize a new 0:04:57.920 --> 0:05:00.760 life event. And I think we've seen, as we touched 0:05:00.800 --> 0:05:03.840 on before, women get very heavily judged online if they 0:05:03.880 --> 0:05:06.120 get into relationships quickly when they get engaged. I mean, 0:05:06.160 --> 0:05:09.440 Tammy Hembro is a complete case study for that. So 0:05:09.520 --> 0:05:11.719 I think that she's like, Oh, I'm just gonna casually 0:05:11.800 --> 0:05:14.039 drop it and then I can just move on. The 0:05:14.120 --> 0:05:16.720 thing I don't understand is why do you have to 0:05:16.800 --> 0:05:18.880 rush into getting married though, Like, if there's so much 0:05:18.920 --> 0:05:21.880 speculation about it, why do you to see how things go? 0:05:22.000 --> 0:05:25.200 I mean, again, it hasn't been confirmed that they are 0:05:25.240 --> 0:05:28.400 actually married, but the rumor mill really went into overdrive 0:05:28.760 --> 0:05:31.960 when Amber from Influencer Updates shared on Friday night that 0:05:32.040 --> 0:05:35.159 an acquaintance of Nicholas reached out to her saying that 0:05:35.200 --> 0:05:38.839 the couple got married overseas. And if this news is legit, 0:05:38.920 --> 0:05:41.880 this is Sophie's fourth marriage. So she actually grew up 0:05:41.880 --> 0:05:43.880 as a Jehovah's witness and she got. 0:05:43.680 --> 0:05:44.760 Married really young. 0:05:44.920 --> 0:05:48.599 And she also married Nathan Wallace in twenty fifteen and 0:05:48.680 --> 0:05:50.680 of course Andrew in twenty twenty two. 0:05:51.320 --> 0:05:53.360 So I just don't understand what the rush is. 0:05:53.480 --> 0:05:55.719 Maybe it's just at a point where that's just the 0:05:55.800 --> 0:05:58.920 natural progression feach of her relationships. I mean, maybe once 0:05:58.920 --> 0:06:01.360 you've been married three or four times, it's kind of like, well, 0:06:01.400 --> 0:06:03.320 this is just what we do when I feel serious, 0:06:03.400 --> 0:06:05.919 I'm in love. I wonder if it has anything to 0:06:06.000 --> 0:06:09.760 do with the personality type that become influencers, because you 0:06:09.800 --> 0:06:13.000 look at Tammy Hembro and she's had so many engagements, 0:06:13.040 --> 0:06:14.680 and there's lots of other influencers who've. 0:06:14.440 --> 0:06:17.480 Been married multiple times. Maybe it's something to. 0:06:17.520 --> 0:06:21.640 Do with Wizard of Content arc really, because we have 0:06:21.720 --> 0:06:26.159 spoken a lot about how influencers personal milestones like engagements, weddings, 0:06:26.160 --> 0:06:30.120 having babies is just a great boost for their engagement. 0:06:30.520 --> 0:06:33.440 So maybe it's just like they look at their lives 0:06:33.520 --> 0:06:35.960 like with story arcs, and think, Okay, so I've just 0:06:36.000 --> 0:06:38.560 got out of that marriage thirteen months ago, so if 0:06:38.560 --> 0:06:40.720 I get into this other one, people are going to 0:06:40.800 --> 0:06:42.920 be really excited and want to hear what I've got 0:06:43.000 --> 0:06:45.320 to say and be engaged to what I'm talking about. 0:06:45.400 --> 0:06:48.000 I think it's also because they have a disposable income. 0:06:48.080 --> 0:06:49.800 To them, it's not a big deal to save up 0:06:49.839 --> 0:06:52.120 for a wedding. I mean, I don't even this divorce 0:06:52.160 --> 0:06:53.880 seems to have just gone through. It takes, you know, 0:06:54.160 --> 0:06:55.800 quite a while for a divorce to come through. I 0:06:55.800 --> 0:06:59.000 can't even imagine the logistics of planning a divorce and 0:06:59.040 --> 0:07:00.760 then another wedd I don't think I have to plan 0:07:00.920 --> 0:07:03.720 much for a defense, But you've still got the mental 0:07:03.880 --> 0:07:06.840 load of having to lodge it and go through all 0:07:06.880 --> 0:07:09.200 of that upset, and then you've already got over that 0:07:09.240 --> 0:07:10.840 marriage and you're already into another one. 0:07:10.880 --> 0:07:13.680 But even in quotations normal. 0:07:13.320 --> 0:07:17.000 Life, I've never really heard of someone getting married so 0:07:17.160 --> 0:07:19.480 often and so quickly like it does seem to be 0:07:19.600 --> 0:07:22.320 either your celebrity like celebrities seem to do this a lot, 0:07:22.440 --> 0:07:25.600 or influence. People are calling her the Elizabeth Taylor of 0:07:25.640 --> 0:07:28.960 the influencer world. At the moment, I do wonder now 0:07:29.000 --> 0:07:33.480 there is so much speculation whether Sophie's next YouTube video 0:07:33.680 --> 0:07:37.280 is going to confirm this marriage. What I don't get 0:07:37.400 --> 0:07:39.760 is the guys that end up marrying these people that 0:07:39.800 --> 0:07:43.280 have publicly been engaged or married so many different times, 0:07:43.280 --> 0:07:46.320 Because wouldn't you have alarm bells ringing and think, oh, 0:07:46.480 --> 0:07:49.320 maybe I shouldn't propose or maybe I shouldn't get into this. 0:07:49.480 --> 0:07:51.360 I think they just get in such a love bubble. 0:07:52.440 --> 0:07:55.080 This concept and this idea again is exciting me. 0:07:56.480 --> 0:07:59.080 Sarah's Day has announced she's going back to her roots 0:07:59.120 --> 0:08:01.680 and will again be sharing what she eats in a day. 0:08:02.040 --> 0:08:05.760 The controversial influencers stopped creating this style of content after 0:08:05.840 --> 0:08:09.600 receiving backlash, but is one of many influencers jumping back 0:08:09.680 --> 0:08:11.960 on the trend. I literally thought we had left this 0:08:12.000 --> 0:08:14.760 trend back in twenty ten. So did I, and as 0:08:14.800 --> 0:08:18.000 you touched on, this trend originated on YouTube more than 0:08:18.080 --> 0:08:20.600 ten years ago, and if you cast your mind back, 0:08:21.080 --> 0:08:24.480 influencers would share in great detail exactly what they ate 0:08:24.560 --> 0:08:27.480 during the day. Normally it would be ultra healthy, so 0:08:27.800 --> 0:08:30.400 it would include a smoothie, a piece of dark chocolate 0:08:30.440 --> 0:08:33.080 at the end of the day, not a lot of snacking, 0:08:33.200 --> 0:08:35.680 I have to say now, the content did form the 0:08:35.679 --> 0:08:40.640 basis of many OG Australian influencers YouTube channels, including Sarah's Day. 0:08:41.120 --> 0:08:43.160 Now, there was a point where everyone started. 0:08:42.920 --> 0:08:45.000 Waking up to the fact that this was very toxic 0:08:45.080 --> 0:08:48.520 dieting messaging and it did become taboo to actually share 0:08:48.600 --> 0:08:50.120 what you ate during the day. 0:08:50.520 --> 0:08:52.520 However, recently it has. 0:08:52.480 --> 0:08:56.120 Been supercharged by TikTok's algorithm and this trend has made 0:08:56.240 --> 0:08:59.920 a massive resurgence on TikTok, clocking up billions of view 0:09:00.440 --> 0:09:02.880 Sarah's Day is one of those people that is back 0:09:02.920 --> 0:09:03.800 on this trend. 0:09:03.960 --> 0:09:05.439 And what really. 0:09:05.200 --> 0:09:07.560 Annoyed me and didn't sit well with me is she 0:09:07.640 --> 0:09:10.320 started filming this video sharing what she was eating on 0:09:10.360 --> 0:09:12.480 her Instagram story and she said, I'm actually filming the 0:09:12.480 --> 0:09:15.000 full video for YouTube, and she showed off this very 0:09:15.040 --> 0:09:18.560 healthy looking salad. However, she then opened up and said 0:09:18.559 --> 0:09:21.680 when she originally filmed this content back in twenty thirteen, 0:09:22.120 --> 0:09:24.480 that she was in a very bad place with her eating. 0:09:24.800 --> 0:09:25.959 Let's row to what she said. 0:09:27.280 --> 0:09:30.280 First off, this concept and this idea again is exciting 0:09:30.320 --> 0:09:33.960 me because I'm not like back in the day in 0:09:34.000 --> 0:09:36.120 twenty thirteen when I would film these videos, I was 0:09:36.200 --> 0:09:39.480 so fixated on like looking a certain way and like 0:09:39.520 --> 0:09:42.480 being shredded and being at like low body fat, or 0:09:42.520 --> 0:09:44.360 I was like trying to get my period back or 0:09:44.920 --> 0:09:48.440 healing my acne. There was always a specific goal in 0:09:48.520 --> 0:09:50.240 mind in terms of like what I was putting into 0:09:50.240 --> 0:09:53.920 my body, Whereas now I'm thirty one, I have two children. 0:09:54.360 --> 0:09:56.240 I'm just a stay at home mom, like trying to 0:09:56.240 --> 0:09:57.680 work at the same time, and I'm like, I just 0:09:57.679 --> 0:10:01.080 want to fill my body with nutrient vicious foods that 0:10:01.120 --> 0:10:03.319 are going to give like my skin a glow, give 0:10:03.400 --> 0:10:06.320 me energy, allow me to be regular and poop. 0:10:06.400 --> 0:10:10.440 I'm like, I just you know, it really annoys me. 0:10:10.559 --> 0:10:13.600 Because Sarah still has a lot of these toxic videos 0:10:13.600 --> 0:10:16.559 still up on her YouTube channel, and if she's reflected 0:10:16.640 --> 0:10:18.720 back and thought, oh, I wasn't in a good space 0:10:18.760 --> 0:10:21.199 when I shared these, why don't you delete them? Yeah, 0:10:21.200 --> 0:10:24.120 they're still monetized on her channel, and reading between the lines, 0:10:24.240 --> 0:10:27.120 what she's essentially said is that her YouTube channel was 0:10:27.160 --> 0:10:30.480 based on sharing content that promoted disordered eating. Well, it 0:10:30.480 --> 0:10:32.880 gets worse because she then went on to say that 0:10:32.960 --> 0:10:35.640 the main reason she stopped filming this type of content 0:10:35.800 --> 0:10:39.080 is because of the backlash she received, and also because 0:10:39.120 --> 0:10:42.240 these videos were having a negative impact on the way 0:10:42.480 --> 0:10:44.200 that she was eating and the way that she was 0:10:44.240 --> 0:10:45.760 perceiving what she was eating. 0:10:46.040 --> 0:10:47.199 Let's throw to what she said. 0:10:48.840 --> 0:10:51.160 I didn't like watching them because I would sit back 0:10:51.160 --> 0:10:54.080 and be like WHOA, like I eat so much? Or like, 0:10:54.120 --> 0:10:57.360 oh my gosh, I'm like consuming double what that person consumes. 0:10:57.480 --> 0:10:59.880 Or if there's like a really beautiful model and they 0:11:00.200 --> 0:11:02.040 in a certain way, you subconsciously think. 0:11:01.920 --> 0:11:03.559 Like can I be eating like that? 0:11:03.640 --> 0:11:06.760 Like and never want people to watch my videos and 0:11:06.800 --> 0:11:09.280 then feel bad about themselves or like have any kind 0:11:09.320 --> 0:11:12.880 of negative reaction. So I fully pulled back because I 0:11:12.960 --> 0:11:15.200 was like, I just don't want people continuing my content 0:11:15.280 --> 0:11:21.200 and like comparing themselves. Why so yeah, I stopped doing them. 0:11:21.679 --> 0:11:24.559 It's quite ironic because in this video she literally points 0:11:24.559 --> 0:11:26.439 out all the issues with this style of content, but 0:11:26.480 --> 0:11:28.600 there says, nah, I'm back on it again, like it 0:11:28.600 --> 0:11:31.679 doesn't make any sense to me. And she also spoke 0:11:31.720 --> 0:11:34.280 a lot about how it's not really authentic because she 0:11:34.320 --> 0:11:36.720 said back in the day, she'd be so focused on 0:11:36.800 --> 0:11:40.360 what she's actually filming that she wouldn't actually show any 0:11:40.360 --> 0:11:42.600 of us knacks. So she said, normally as a mum, 0:11:43.000 --> 0:11:44.880 she would grab a hand, you know, eat some of 0:11:44.960 --> 0:11:47.880 Fox's apple, her son's apple, or you know, finish off 0:11:47.920 --> 0:11:48.599 the leftovers. 0:11:48.760 --> 0:11:52.000 But that's obviously not very aesthetically pleasing for TikTok or 0:11:52.080 --> 0:11:54.280 for you think that annoys me. 0:11:54.400 --> 0:11:56.920 Is she clearly has the awareness to know that these 0:11:57.040 --> 0:12:00.560 videos can have detrimental impacts for what peopleeople are eating 0:12:00.559 --> 0:12:02.160 and the way that they look at food. I mean 0:12:02.200 --> 0:12:04.559 it even had a detrimental impact on the way. 0:12:04.400 --> 0:12:06.800 That she viewed what she was eating. Yet she is. 0:12:06.760 --> 0:12:09.000 Happy to come back and jump back on this trend 0:12:09.000 --> 0:12:10.360 because it's popular at the moment. 0:12:10.480 --> 0:12:12.520 It's clearly in a bid to stay relevant. 0:12:12.520 --> 0:12:15.160 We have spoken a lot about how Sarah's Day's YouTube 0:12:15.240 --> 0:12:18.240 views are dropping off, how she is losing followers, She's 0:12:18.280 --> 0:12:21.319 no longer actually on that momentum of gaining a lot 0:12:21.320 --> 0:12:23.400 of followers, and maybe she's like, well, I've got to 0:12:23.440 --> 0:12:26.480 convert back to what I used to do. And particularly 0:12:26.520 --> 0:12:29.360 TikTok is playing a big role in this, because the 0:12:29.400 --> 0:12:32.719 algorithm is favoring this type of content and it has 0:12:32.800 --> 0:12:36.120 been proven to be serving it up directly to vulnerable 0:12:36.160 --> 0:12:38.720 people who will consume it, and those people are people 0:12:38.720 --> 0:12:41.000 that suffer with disordered eating or an eating disorder, and 0:12:41.000 --> 0:12:43.240 that is so scary. It's important that we don't just 0:12:43.280 --> 0:12:45.600 single out Sarah's Day because there are so many other 0:12:45.679 --> 0:12:49.040 influencers who are jumping back on this trend. PR Queen 0:12:49.160 --> 0:12:52.520 roxy Jusenko is one of these high profile Australians who 0:12:52.559 --> 0:12:55.239 doesn't mind giving her followers an insight into. 0:12:55.080 --> 0:12:56.040 What she's eating. 0:12:56.440 --> 0:12:58.440 Last week, she put up a Q and A asking 0:12:58.480 --> 0:13:01.320 her followers to send in questions, and the majority of 0:13:01.400 --> 0:13:04.360 questions were centered around her diet and how she stays 0:13:04.400 --> 0:13:07.320 so thin, and she did not hold back. She was 0:13:07.360 --> 0:13:11.560 happy to share specific details about how she curbs her cravings, 0:13:11.760 --> 0:13:14.720 her exercise regimes, her hacks were staying. 0:13:14.440 --> 0:13:17.560 Thin, and also even how much she weighs. 0:13:17.600 --> 0:13:20.600 I have seen her sharing her scales so many times 0:13:20.679 --> 0:13:23.320 on her Instagram. I was really shocked when she actually 0:13:23.400 --> 0:13:25.640 outlined like this is my height, this is my weight. 0:13:26.120 --> 0:13:28.880 I don't know how that's helpful information for anyone. It 0:13:28.960 --> 0:13:32.400 just makes people compare themselves to her. And when she 0:13:32.520 --> 0:13:35.480 was asked what she eats during the day, she wrote, okay, 0:13:35.520 --> 0:13:38.600 so this was controversial. I was doing two boiled eggs 0:13:38.640 --> 0:13:40.760 a day and a Greek salad for dinner and the 0:13:40.800 --> 0:13:43.280 world lost its minds on my behalf. So I have 0:13:43.360 --> 0:13:45.480 been working with sm Nutrition and she has done a 0:13:45.480 --> 0:13:47.959 meal plan specifically for me now. 0:13:48.000 --> 0:13:50.160 She did share a very sad. 0:13:49.920 --> 0:13:53.880 Looking photo of her Greek salad with this information, and 0:13:54.040 --> 0:13:56.320 it's not like it was some massive bowl. It was 0:13:56.360 --> 0:13:58.800 like a little plastic container. I'm glad to hear that 0:13:58.840 --> 0:14:01.320 she's no longer eating this, but she's literally just. 0:14:01.320 --> 0:14:03.040 Spelt out how. 0:14:02.800 --> 0:14:05.280 You can look like her if you want to. I mean, 0:14:05.320 --> 0:14:08.720 how many people have probably now started replication. Is looking 0:14:08.960 --> 0:14:12.440 very fit and thin at the moment, and someone who 0:14:12.480 --> 0:14:15.160 I assume people would find aspirational. And it is quite 0:14:15.200 --> 0:14:18.520 disturbing because last year she opened up about how she 0:14:18.760 --> 0:14:22.200 illegally obtained a zenpic and that is because her doctor 0:14:22.240 --> 0:14:25.240 would not prescribe it to her, so she actually got 0:14:25.280 --> 0:14:27.960 someone to go and get it from another state. She 0:14:28.120 --> 0:14:31.040 paid them to drive and get it, and she ended 0:14:31.120 --> 0:14:34.920 up overdosing on a zen pick and almost died in hospital. 0:14:35.000 --> 0:14:37.520 So she wanted to speak out about how dangerous it is. 0:14:37.560 --> 0:14:39.960 But it's crazy about of people who are actually on ozempick, 0:14:40.040 --> 0:14:42.560 like people you would never actually think would be on 0:14:42.640 --> 0:14:44.880 the drug. Well, it is really concerning because there's been 0:14:44.920 --> 0:14:47.960 this huge cultural shift away from the slim, thick era 0:14:48.040 --> 0:14:50.800 that we knew in the twenty tens to this ultra 0:14:50.960 --> 0:14:54.080 slim cut ashy an esque era where they're getting the 0:14:54.080 --> 0:14:57.760 implants removed. Everyone appears to be on ozenpick, but some 0:14:57.800 --> 0:14:59.520 of these what eight in a day? I have seen 0:14:59.560 --> 0:15:02.840 diet teaations or even health gurus doing them, and some 0:15:02.880 --> 0:15:06.200 of the meals actually look very nutritious. Is there some 0:15:06.280 --> 0:15:09.320 aspect of it that is positive or are all of 0:15:09.360 --> 0:15:12.040 these videos just negative? Look? I actually wrote an article 0:15:12.080 --> 0:15:14.000 on this topic for Mum and Mia this week, and 0:15:14.040 --> 0:15:17.240 I did speak to a dietitian and nutritionist called Tanya Ferreto, 0:15:17.680 --> 0:15:20.080 and she said, it's this whole comparison thing that is 0:15:20.200 --> 0:15:24.160 just not helpful. So it's fine for nutritionists to share recipes, 0:15:24.200 --> 0:15:26.400 but when you put it down into this is what 0:15:26.440 --> 0:15:28.920 I eat in a day, people take that on board 0:15:29.000 --> 0:15:32.400 as verbatim that they should be following it. And thanks 0:15:32.400 --> 0:15:35.320 to TikTok, this trend is even more dangerous. I did 0:15:35.320 --> 0:15:39.360 touch on because of the algorithm, and Tanya actually cited 0:15:39.360 --> 0:15:43.040 this groundbreaking research from the University of Melbourne Scott Griffiths, 0:15:43.360 --> 0:15:45.840 and she said that TikTok has been proven to actually 0:15:45.880 --> 0:15:49.640 target users with eating disorders and the study actually found 0:15:49.680 --> 0:15:54.400 that participants with an eating disorder were disproportionately served appearance 0:15:54.480 --> 0:15:59.400 orientated content, with the delivery intensifying over time. And she 0:15:59.440 --> 0:16:02.200 said that this can be extremely triggering for those people 0:16:02.280 --> 0:16:05.760 that have had a history of disordered eating and eating disorders. 0:16:05.960 --> 0:16:10.000 So it's very scary because this app is literally targeting 0:16:10.120 --> 0:16:13.800 vulnerable people, and then there are influencers jumping on this 0:16:13.880 --> 0:16:16.360 trend in a bid to stay relevant. Now, I did 0:16:16.360 --> 0:16:19.920 have a look and TikTok they haven't banned the content. However, 0:16:19.920 --> 0:16:23.720 they do have a disclaimer when you search the hashtag. However, 0:16:23.800 --> 0:16:27.680 that's only on TikTok's desktop version, so it does say 0:16:27.880 --> 0:16:29.800 you're more than your weight. If you or someone you 0:16:29.840 --> 0:16:32.120 know has questions about body image, food or exercise, it 0:16:32.160 --> 0:16:34.280 is important to know that help is out there and 0:16:34.320 --> 0:16:36.280 you are not alone. If you feel uncomfortable, you can 0:16:36.280 --> 0:16:39.160 confide in someone you trust or check out the resources below. 0:16:39.360 --> 0:16:41.960 Please remember to take care of yourselves and each other. Now, 0:16:42.000 --> 0:16:44.120 this is a trend that we're seeing for Tanning as well. 0:16:44.400 --> 0:16:48.000 Like their solution is, oh, rather than banning this content, 0:16:48.040 --> 0:16:49.280 we're just gonna put a bit of exclaim it. 0:16:49.400 --> 0:16:50.480 But everyone takes. 0:16:50.200 --> 0:16:54.000 Cover ourselves legally. Have you guys seen the videos where 0:16:54.160 --> 0:16:57.120 it's people who eat a large amount of unhealthy food 0:16:57.160 --> 0:17:00.640 and they love them. I do have a guilty pleasure 0:17:00.680 --> 0:17:03.960 of watching them. There is one UK creator who does this, 0:17:04.520 --> 0:17:08.000 and she lives off takeaway and she will probably have 0:17:08.240 --> 0:17:11.520 four or five takeaway meals a day, and a lot 0:17:11.560 --> 0:17:13.520 of people are asking, how can you afford this in 0:17:13.560 --> 0:17:16.800 this economic crisis. There's a girl who just eats butter. 0:17:16.880 --> 0:17:18.640 She eats like tubs of butter, and I do think 0:17:18.760 --> 0:17:22.800 that is probably just as unhealthy these influencers who are 0:17:22.800 --> 0:17:25.400 promoting it. But the only thing is it isn't packaged 0:17:25.480 --> 0:17:27.160 up to be aspiration, although. 0:17:26.840 --> 0:17:28.320 That's where it's actually dangerous. 0:17:28.359 --> 0:17:30.120 It's kind of more of a free people and people 0:17:30.160 --> 0:17:32.440 aren't following it to replicate it. That they're following more 0:17:32.480 --> 0:17:34.800 as Wow, it's shot of value and it makes them 0:17:34.800 --> 0:17:37.160 feel better about what they're eating. But I don't necessarily 0:17:37.200 --> 0:17:40.160 think it's that helpful. They're on a positive front. Influencer 0:17:40.240 --> 0:17:42.720 Jade two and she actually shared about this trend and 0:17:42.920 --> 0:17:44.560 it popped up on my feet and I was like, 0:17:44.600 --> 0:17:46.679 oh god, as she jumped on the bandwagon. But this 0:17:46.720 --> 0:17:49.639 is actually what she said, what I eat in a 0:17:49.760 --> 0:17:53.240 day as a pregnant person in week thirty two, whatever 0:17:53.359 --> 0:17:57.040 I feel like eating that day. The same goes for 0:17:57.119 --> 0:18:00.000 when I'm not pregnant, whatever I eat it doesn't determine 0:18:00.320 --> 0:18:03.040 what you should or shouldn't eat, and is not a 0:18:03.040 --> 0:18:05.879 benchmark for your body and the way that it functions. 0:18:06.680 --> 0:18:08.760 This was so refreshing because originally when I saw it, 0:18:08.840 --> 0:18:11.040 I was like, oh, God, like, how bad is this 0:18:11.080 --> 0:18:13.600 that it's a pregnant video diary of what you're eating? 0:18:13.600 --> 0:18:15.840 Because God, if I was tracking what I'm eating, no 0:18:15.880 --> 0:18:17.720 one would want to be following it at the moment. Yeah, 0:18:17.720 --> 0:18:20.280 that is really good of jar Day because some people 0:18:20.320 --> 0:18:22.760 do just sit back and watch the trend and don't 0:18:22.760 --> 0:18:25.240 actually call it out, and that can sometimes be worth worse. 0:18:25.280 --> 0:18:27.719 At least she's using her platform to actually say this 0:18:27.760 --> 0:18:28.520 is a bit fucked. 0:18:29.720 --> 0:18:33.000 They were just so guns ablazing did not care. 0:18:34.640 --> 0:18:38.000 Ruby Tuesday, Matthews is becoming the queen of Neighborhood Watch. 0:18:38.440 --> 0:18:41.399 This week, she shared CCTV vision of a gang of 0:18:41.440 --> 0:18:42.960 youths targeting her street. 0:18:43.000 --> 0:18:43.960 That's important to note not. 0:18:43.960 --> 0:18:47.760 The band, but an actual legitimate group of young people. Yeah. Now, 0:18:47.800 --> 0:18:51.280 in the vision it does show mass teenagers breaking into 0:18:51.280 --> 0:18:54.680 her garage where her Mercedes was parked, and she wrote 0:18:54.680 --> 0:18:58.760 in the Instagram STORYYI at Bangalore four thirty am this morning, 0:18:58.840 --> 0:19:02.000