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Speaker 1: Hi, everybody, Welcome back to the R and C Potty
Speaker 1: and Happy Friday. Today's episode is a geez hotline and
Speaker 1: oh gosh, do we have some amazing questions for you today.
Speaker 1: So today we are managing shame and guilt in relation
Speaker 1: to money and success in business. We then unpack a
Speaker 1: question we got in DMS from a listener who got
Speaker 1: triggered by me and my posts about going to the
Speaker 1: Morgan walln concept. Can I just say I loved this
Speaker 1: message so much. I loved unpacking it. I also really
Speaker 1: loved the first question, Hey.
Speaker 3: Tia, another amazing question. I think these are our best questions.
Speaker 1: Literally, I'm gonna say one of the best hotlines, so
Speaker 1: strap in. She's a bit bloody fun. But before we
Speaker 1: get into it, of course, our week update a tear.
Speaker 4: It's been so busy.
Speaker 1: What haven't we done this week? So we had a shoot,
Speaker 1: That's all we can say. It involved Ivy and it's
Speaker 1: so cute and it's really cute. You guys are gonna.
Speaker 4: Love it all my boots and Ivy had little boots too,
Speaker 4: so cute.
Speaker 1: She didn't like them. She didn't like them one bit,
Speaker 1: not at all. We actually had to take it, but
Speaker 1: we loved you. Yeah, we thought they were cute. And
Speaker 1: then also, guys you may have already seen, but we
Speaker 1: are launching limited edition Life Happens for Me journaling boxes.
Speaker 4: And they're the best ever.
Speaker 1: So this is something we have been curating for a
Speaker 1: very long time and basically we were like, what's something
Speaker 1: we can give the RNC community that completely creates the vibe.
Speaker 1: The vibe but for manifesting your dream life, for unpacking
Speaker 1: those triggers, for doing all the things. And so, as
Speaker 1: you guys know, we launched the Life Happens for Me
Speaker 1: journals previous this year and they sold out so quickly,
Speaker 1: you guys are obsessed. It's a six month journaling manifestation journal,
Speaker 1: and we just thought we're going to create the whole experience.
Speaker 1: So the Life Happens for Me boxes include Life Happens
Speaker 1: for Me Journal, a Life Happens for Me, cute glass tumbler.
Speaker 4: And it's it's the best thing.
Speaker 1: It's the bubble mug. If you haven't seen the hints
Speaker 1: we've been giving you a lot, it's a cute little
Speaker 1: pink bubble mug you may have seen around. It can
Speaker 1: hold cold or hot liquid. I personally love putting my
Speaker 1: ice coffee in that. I love doing like cute little juices. Wait,
Speaker 1: are you doing coffee anymore? No? I am, but just
Speaker 1: not really, Yeah you're not, okay, I drink.
Speaker 4: Clarity coffee of course.
Speaker 1: Of course we also have a gorgeous butterfly diffuser, so
Speaker 1: We chose the butterfly because it represents growth and the
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Speaker 4: She's pretty good.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, she's amazing.
Speaker 4: Literally the best sent ever.
Speaker 1: A couple of drops and fuck she's powerful. Yeah, she's
Speaker 1: like how would you describe the scent etia.
Speaker 3: It's so weird because every time I explain it, I
Speaker 3: feel like I'm contradicting myself. But it's so calming but
Speaker 3: so energizing. Like it's a very soft energy and it's
Speaker 3: exactly what you want when you journal.
Speaker 1: It's activating. Yeah, Like I smell it and I'm like,
Speaker 1: I feel activated, but not in an anxiety. I've just
Speaker 1: had a coffee way activated in a grounded way. Yes,
Speaker 1: So that's why I completely know what you're saying. And
Speaker 1: until you smell it, you won't get it. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: you'll be like that makes no sense, but trust us.
Speaker 1: So these boxes are going online next week next Wednesday.
Speaker 1: They are limited edition. Also, something really special about these
Speaker 1: boxes is ten dollars from every box will be going
Speaker 1: to Pink Elephants Support Network. So basically, this is an
Speaker 1: amazing charity who supports females going through early pregnancy loss.
Speaker 1: So obviously this is very special to my heart as
Speaker 1: I experience a miscarriage before Ivy Girl, and it is
Speaker 1: it's a really it's a really hard and confusing time,
Speaker 1: and it's a subject that not a lot of people
Speaker 1: even speak about, and it can feel very.
Speaker 4: Taboo and.
Speaker 1: It can even feel like a shameful because no one's
Speaker 1: speaking about it. And so, yeah, so this charity is
Speaker 1: so beautiful. They help, you know, mums going through this
Speaker 1: have support and have a network. And yeah, so we're
Speaker 1: really proud to be partnering with Pink Elephants and a
Speaker 1: tear do and explain why it's called pink elephants. So
Speaker 1: they're called pink elephants because it's believed that when a
Speaker 1: mother elephant loses her baby, the elephant stand in a
Speaker 1: circle around her, allowing her all the time she needs
Speaker 1: to grieve and mourn.
Speaker 4: My whole heart, I know, it's so beautiful. I love elephants.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna cry what elephants.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we're really proud to be giving ten dollars
Speaker 1: away from every single box. So it's a really really
Speaker 1: exciting launch for us because it's about really curating your environment.
Speaker 1: You have this whole you know, process and really beautiful
Speaker 1: ritual for journaling. And yeah, it's all in this beautiful
Speaker 1: box that it looks like a coffee table book, doesn't
Speaker 1: it to er?
Speaker 3: It does, and I can't wait to like keep mine
Speaker 3: on my bedside table because it's also like such a
Speaker 3: good reminder. When you look at it, you'll go, oh,
Speaker 3: I have to do my journaling today.
Speaker 1: And that's what I wanted. I was like, keep the
Speaker 1: box out, you can have all your beautiful little things
Speaker 1: in it, because I really love it too, because yeah,
Speaker 1: you have this beautiful box. It's like coffee table vibes.
Speaker 1: So wanted to make sure you could keep that and
Speaker 1: style it. And then it's beautiful because you can rich
Speaker 1: literally put all the products back in and it's like
Speaker 1: you can create the ritual wherever.
Speaker 4: Yeah, on the go, on the go, get your diffuse
Speaker 4: it out, get you to fuse it out.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, we're so funny. But go and check
Speaker 1: out our social media because we have all the information
Speaker 1: there and they're so body cute. And I do want
Speaker 1: to stress they are limited edition. Once they are gone,
Speaker 1: they are gone, very very limited. Yeah. Look, well we
Speaker 1: just this is you know, we wanted to do something
Speaker 1: that create an amazing experience few but also has a
Speaker 1: really impactful message and so to partner with Pink Elephants
Speaker 1: Support Network on this and ten dollars from every single
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Speaker 1: are limited. So if you do want your own rn C,
Speaker 1: life happens for me, a journaling bob makes your you know,
Speaker 1: makes you got your alarm on, said you. And it's
Speaker 1: also a beautiful gift so true. It's like the perfect
Speaker 1: gift box, Like if you have a bestday's birthday coming
Speaker 1: up or your own the perfect gift, especially if she's
Speaker 1: trying to get into self development, it's yeah, or like
Speaker 1: just start journally, I tear what the perfect Mother's day gift?
Speaker 2: Yeah it is.
Speaker 1: I didn't think about that.
Speaker 4: Love that for us by self owned box.
Speaker 3: Yeah, before we get into that.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, yeah, what are we doing?
Speaker 3: We have our little Friday segment and today's segment is
Speaker 3: a manifesting story. Ooh Jordie, this is insane. How insane
Speaker 3: scale I one to text, I think you're gonna scream. Okay,
Speaker 3: So this is from our project Facebook group and I
Speaker 3: couldn't get over it because I don't think i'd react
Speaker 3: as well as this person as so.
Speaker 1: Is this the round that just had has been?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Round seeks it just finished? Tell me, tell me, tell me, okay,
Speaker 4: I'm ready.
Speaker 3: So last week I bought a two dollars scratchy, read
Speaker 3: the instructions, scratched away, thought oh, how cool if I
Speaker 3: get this other one I just won twenty five k,
Speaker 3: didn't get what I thought I needed, and threw it
Speaker 3: away like if she scratched another symbol she'd get twenty
Speaker 3: five k.
Speaker 4: Oh okay yah ya.
Speaker 3: This week I was given basically the same Scratchy, read
Speaker 3: the instructions and realized I did, in fact win twenty
Speaker 3: five thousand dollars on the one I threw away also
Speaker 3: happens to be the exact value I'm currently manifesting.
Speaker 4: Annoying, but that's what it has.
Speaker 3: Taken for me to realize I do still have limiting
Speaker 3: beliefs around that I thought I had worked through. I
Speaker 3: read the instructions maybe five times before I threw it
Speaker 3: out because it can't be that easy. Quote unquote here
Speaker 3: we are, thank you, Universe. Message received. The money will
Speaker 3: show up for me in another way.
Speaker 1: No a tea, no this sing I do because I'm
Speaker 1: so fucking like not observant. Yeah, oh my god, no,
Speaker 1: is she sure?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Oh I love like I love her reaction.
Speaker 4: Me too, Fuck me, it was like I'd be diving
Speaker 4: in the bin.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd be. It's giving me the vibes where Tim
Speaker 1: nearly threw out my wedding dress, I nearly died.
Speaker 4: No, But also I.
Speaker 1: Love that for her.
Speaker 4: I love that she just got twenty five k like that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it felt too easy, you know, that's so interesting.
Speaker 1: I had the exact same experience when someone I knew
Speaker 1: won a lot of money, and I in my head,
Speaker 1: I was just like, wow, I have this full belief
Speaker 1: that no, you have to work really really hard for
Speaker 1: your money and you get to have a lot of money,
Speaker 1: but it's like, you gotta work really hard, and it's
Speaker 1: also got to just come through my business. And I
Speaker 1: had a huge moment of like, oh, I do have
Speaker 1: some limiting beliefs around money. So that's incredible. Fuck she
Speaker 1: she took that, well she did.
Speaker 4: Oh, that's a different word.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: It's a bit of a different manifesting story. But I
Speaker 3: thought it'd be a fun story for everyone to hear.
Speaker 2: Life happens for me.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what she's saying.
Speaker 2: Let's get into the episode.
Speaker 4: Our first question.
Speaker 3: I own a beauty salon with a team of six
Speaker 3: incredible therapists. I've owned my own salon for years now
Speaker 3: and have worked extremely hard to get it to the
Speaker 3: point that it's at long twelve hour days, six days
Speaker 3: a week kind of things. However, for the last two
Speaker 3: years I have not been working on the floor in
Speaker 3: my salon as I had two babies quite close together.
Speaker 3: I work on the business now and not in the business.
Speaker 3: Where my limiting belief comes into this is I always
Speaker 3: feel ashamed and embarrassed and lessen my achievements or money
Speaker 3: I've made down since stepping off the floor. I'm so
Speaker 3: consumed by what I think my team think of me
Speaker 3: if I make good money whilst not physically working in
Speaker 3: the cell on seeing clients. I have once had a
Speaker 3: team member comment on what I was wearing and how
Speaker 3: much it would have cost. She has also commented during
Speaker 3: team meetings that I only care about making money and
Speaker 3: that why we have targets in place. I then feel
Speaker 3: like I need to say that I'm not getting a
Speaker 3: wage from the business, which I am, and that my
Speaker 3: husband buys me nice things, just so I don't feel
Speaker 3: embarrassed by it. I know this is a huge block
Speaker 3: for me now, but I'm not sure how to overcome
Speaker 3: it and own what I have around my team members.
Speaker 4: Oh's a good one. I love this question.
Speaker 1: First of all, like, thank you for being so honest
Speaker 1: and transparent and so vulnerable. Yeah, I really appreciate this,
Speaker 1: and I think this is like I feel like a
Speaker 1: lot of people would be able to resonate with this. So,
Speaker 1: first of all, something that came up for me is
Speaker 1: like the first thing here is you're projecting onto your
Speaker 1: staff about what they think, Like you're making assumptions and
Speaker 1: if you live your life like projecting and making assumptions
Speaker 1: and they're like not that great. It's kind of like
Speaker 1: what's that saying where it's almost like worrying about the
Speaker 1: anxiety before the thing even happens.
Speaker 3: Oh, like, don't worry about things because you're just putting
Speaker 3: yourself through the pain twice kind of.
Speaker 1: But yeah, so it's like you're projecting that you know
Speaker 1: your staff see you in the light where you're potentially greedy,
Speaker 1: you potentially don't work hard for your money. And this
Speaker 1: is such an interesting thing because if you don't do
Speaker 1: the work on yourself and where these projections are coming from.
Speaker 1: This is not only going to limit you from making
Speaker 1: more money and actually enjoying your wealth and what you
Speaker 1: have created, but it's also just taking up a lot
Speaker 1: of like rent in your brain, Yeah, like rent space
Speaker 1: in your brain. And it's like, do you want to
Speaker 1: like live a life where you project that people see
Speaker 1: you in a certain way? And I totally get like
Speaker 1: there was a comment there, and that makes that makes sense.
Speaker 1: But also for example, if someone was to comment to
Speaker 1: me about the car drive or the clothes that I wear,
Speaker 1: my reaction is, yeah, I work fucking hard for this,
Speaker 1: and you know, yeah, like yeah, of course I fucking
Speaker 1: bought a Tessa. Yeah, why wouldn't you. Yeah, And if
Speaker 1: you've got a problem, that that's your problem, not mine. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And then like you're not then wasting the energy of
Speaker 1: being like, oh but do they think I'm greedy?
Speaker 2: You know what?
Speaker 1: Do they think I've been carelessly? Do you think I'm materialistic?
Speaker 1: And like all that energy where it's like that could
Speaker 1: go somewhere else. And then also the limitation here is
Speaker 1: you will find you get to a point where you
Speaker 1: won't be able to make a certain amount, like you
Speaker 1: will get to a point story where you won't be
Speaker 1: able to make more than a certain amount because your
Speaker 1: subconscious will be like, if I make more than this,
Speaker 1: I am more alienated, I am more frowned upon, I
Speaker 1: am more blah blah blah. So it's like energetically, you
Speaker 1: would never go past that. So you would then limit
Speaker 1: yourself because that's like the energetics of money. If you
Speaker 1: think people that earn the money that you're earning a
Speaker 1: quote unquote greedy, all that sort of thing is, it's
Speaker 1: going to be hard to evolve from that level of wealth.
Speaker 1: So that's kind of talking like money manifestation.
Speaker 3: I'd say more what came through for me was like
Speaker 3: a weave. It's almost like her money limiting beliefs and
Speaker 3: her self trust and is like woven in and they're
Speaker 3: like all interlinked, all these like few limiting beliefs on
Speaker 3: she feels guilty for having money. She feels she's obviously
Speaker 3: got a limiting belief in that you have to work
Speaker 3: hard to have money because she feels like she's not
Speaker 3: working hard huge But also I would say, you're probably
Speaker 3: working hard because you're working on the business, just because
Speaker 3: you're not physically serving customers, doesn't mean you're not doing invoicing.
Speaker 3: It doesn't mean you're not managing your team and doing
Speaker 3: the roster. And even if you're not doing the roster,
Speaker 3: you're doing your expansion plan like you're planning the future
Speaker 3: of the business. But also you work twelve hour days
Speaker 3: for six days a week, like taking as time luidly
Speaker 3: I know, And I think that's also like I for me,
Speaker 3: I feel like that part is irrelevant. Yeah, don't you
Speaker 3: reckon like, for example, a tear, even though you do
Speaker 3: see me face to face a lot. But it's like
Speaker 3: sometimes I won't be here or sometimes I'll be on
Speaker 3: holidays and everyone's working. Yeah, and it's like, do you think.
Speaker 4: I don't work on I know, not at all. Like
Speaker 4: that's I.
Speaker 1: Feel like that's not even a thought because I know
Speaker 1: that you are emotionally intelligent.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: And also it's like.
Speaker 4: I don't give a fuck what you think about me
Speaker 4: now I do.
Speaker 2: I do it.
Speaker 4: I enjoy it.
Speaker 1: But it's like, you know, if I am going to
Speaker 1: place my worth on like how many hours I work
Speaker 1: or what that means, I think it's also okay, So
Speaker 1: the big thing here that I can see I've just
Speaker 1: had something else. She hasn't evolved her identity, like she
Speaker 1: is stuck where she's like, because that's for instance, I've
Speaker 1: been in a similar situation where it's like, for example,
Speaker 1: you know, I've done the thing where it's like I
Speaker 1: post all my content for my own page and for
Speaker 1: Naked Harvest, I create, I edit, I post all my content.
Speaker 1: I don't do that anymore. But it's I don't think that,
Speaker 1: you know, I am all of a sudden working less
Speaker 1: because I don't do that specific job. I have just
Speaker 1: upgraded my identity of now I do different things in
Speaker 1: the business and also upgraded my identity where it's like,
Speaker 1: if the business doesn't have a visionary who's so clear
Speaker 1: on where the business is going and what's important to
Speaker 1: the team and how they want to lead, it's like
Speaker 1: it's not going to be a growing business. Yeah, And
Speaker 1: so I think it's like, you know, in her head,
Speaker 1: her identity is okay, So to work hard, I've got
Speaker 1: to work twelve hours days, six days a week. I've
Speaker 1: got to be on the floor. I've got to work
Speaker 1: really hard for my money. But it's like I need
Speaker 1: people to see me working hard for my yeah, but
Speaker 1: it's like that's not actually we all know that's not
Speaker 1: actually true because there's fucking billionaires out there just like
Speaker 1: taking a couple of calls and holidaying and you know,
Speaker 1: like really like doing things differently. Yeah, so of course
Speaker 1: you can do things differently.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So it's like she needs to upgrade her identity about
Speaker 1: who she is. They're not letting things shake her when
Speaker 1: people are different. And also in this part too, I
Speaker 1: think there needs to be a point here where it's
Speaker 1: I personally have been looking too this core belief of
Speaker 1: I am generous with how people see me let me
Speaker 1: She's like, what that I'm trying to understand. So, for example,
Speaker 1: in this moment, I am going to be if I'm
Speaker 1: her sorry, yeah, I'm going to be generous that my team,
Speaker 1: if they see me not working, they trust that I'm
Speaker 1: actually like a key part of the business and I've
Speaker 1: got them. I'm going to be over generous with what
Speaker 1: I think they're like a lot I'm rejecting. So for example,
Speaker 1: like I just said before, like just because a tear
Speaker 1: doesn't see me in the office at the exact times
Speaker 1: she is, I'm gonna assume she knows I work really hard,
Speaker 1: and also she knows I'm a great leader. Yeah, because
Speaker 1: until we discuss otherwise, I'm not gonna assume the worst.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna assume the best. And like, imagine if you
Speaker 1: did that how And it's human nature we assume the
Speaker 1: worst so we can like fix the problem. But it's like,
Speaker 1: and that's even me and Ellie was thinking about something
Speaker 1: the other day. I kind of forget the context, but
Speaker 1: I just thought, Oh, it was like something on social
Speaker 1: media about someone posting or something like that, and I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, like, that's like it's not directed at me, Like,
Speaker 1: I don't assume that they're targeting me. Why would I
Speaker 1: think that?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: And She's like, oh, no, I think they're talking you
Speaker 1: know what you're talking about. And I'm like, nah, I
Speaker 1: assume that person doesn't target me, Yeah, because why have
Speaker 1: your back? Why would they? Yes? And then I that's
Speaker 1: the world I live. Yeah, because also imagine because also
Speaker 1: I can't fucking do anything about whatever that person is
Speaker 1: doing or saying. Imagine living in a world where you're
Speaker 1: so vigi like vigilant too. Is that the word vigilant?
Speaker 4: No, I don't know what word vigilant.
Speaker 3: Vigilant you're just like very onto, like who's saying what
Speaker 3: about me?
Speaker 1: Yeah, vigilant, Why is it saying that?
Speaker 4: Don't doesn't mean I know, like.
Speaker 1: No one can see me. But it's if you go
Speaker 1: through life and you assume the worst that this person
Speaker 1: is saying bad things about you, this person was talking
Speaker 1: about you. It's almost like taking things really personally too.
Speaker 3: I love that, and it's almost like assume the best
Speaker 3: and if it's anything, but it's on them to communicate
Speaker 3: with that that with you, not your job to preemptively
Speaker 3: fix it.
Speaker 1: Yes, like I said at the start, like she's projecting
Speaker 1: that her staff don't think she works hard. Also just
Speaker 1: gonna bring something in so like bit of shadow work here.
Speaker 1: If if she is constantly having these feelings of my
Speaker 1: team think I'm greedy, my team think I don't work hard,
Speaker 1: where inside you do you actually feel greedy? Do you
Speaker 1: mean like this is mirroring something that you don't like
Speaker 1: about yourself and it doesn't mean that you're quote unquote
Speaker 1: greedy in this way. It might be for instance, of
Speaker 1: the way you do groceries, or like another aspect in
Speaker 1: your life.
Speaker 3: Where you act in scarcity, or even just like she
Speaker 3: might have the limiting belief that having money is greedy.
Speaker 3: Therefore that then projects onto her team that she's greedy
Speaker 3: because she now has money.
Speaker 4: Correct.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So it's like this is trying to show you
Speaker 1: a mirror of what you need to work on. And
Speaker 1: it's beautiful because me and Tea have just picked up
Speaker 1: like three limiting beliefs you can now work on and
Speaker 1: then you know you can transcend this feeling and this
Speaker 1: whole Yeah.
Speaker 3: And I think the other thing to remember is I
Speaker 3: feel like I think this way, but some people don't
Speaker 3: and can. It is interesting but people assume that business
Speaker 3: owners have this massive flexible life and they just get
Speaker 3: to go on holidays all the time and blah blah blah,
Speaker 3: and they're.
Speaker 4: Never at the office, et cetera.
Speaker 3: But if you actually were around someone who owned a
Speaker 3: business or lived with someone who owned a business, you
Speaker 3: will see that they are the hardest working people in
Speaker 3: the world. And even if they're not physically they're working.
Speaker 3: They are doing it every other hour of the day.
Speaker 3: You can text them, they're thinking about it, They're thinking
Speaker 3: about it. Something happens, they're thinking about it. The responsibility
Speaker 3: and stress is like next level. And if your employees
Speaker 3: maybe just aren't at the point of understanding that it's
Speaker 3: not necessarily your job to teach them. But I wouldn't
Speaker 3: worry about it either. And you're living a life like
Speaker 3: you worked really hard so that you can have this flexibility,
Speaker 3: So I would just enjoy it instead of feeling guilty
Speaker 3: about it.
Speaker 1: And this is even a really interesting concept to bring in,
Speaker 1: don't you think it's interesting? Like, you know, she is
Speaker 1: saying she's fucking worked really hard and she's got a
Speaker 1: seal on to this point, and then she is buying
Speaker 1: herself nice things, and you know she isn't working quote
Speaker 1: unquote on the tools and she's working on the business.
Speaker 1: And it's like, how interesting that her brain is going, Oh,
Speaker 1: things are going so well, how can I like make
Speaker 1: you feel like shit?
Speaker 4: So true?
Speaker 1: Our human brains honestly do this when things are going
Speaker 1: well and things are actually really good, we're like, what
Speaker 1: can we fucking fuck up here? Give yourself a bit
Speaker 1: of drama? Almost, yeah, and that's that could even be
Speaker 1: like a little subconscious loop there, and we'll leave you
Speaker 1: with those thoughts. She's like, I actually feel worse, So
Speaker 1: thanks too, And Georgia, you would not helpful, no, But
Speaker 1: I think there's some great things to unpack there and
Speaker 1: think about it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and you've got to, you know, do that work.
Speaker 2: Now.
Speaker 3: I know this is a big call, but I think
Speaker 3: we have my most favorite question that's ever been really
Speaker 3: to the point, what's it about? Now? I wouldn't beforehand,
Speaker 3: I know, and I want a live reaction. And I
Speaker 3: would also just like to preface this with how proud
Speaker 3: I am of this person for having the self awareness
Speaker 3: and guts to send this question in.
Speaker 4: But here we go.
Speaker 3: Okay, hit me, Hello, Ronc Potty. I have something I
Speaker 3: would love to get your opinion on. I've been sitting
Speaker 3: on this for a few days and didn't know if
Speaker 3: I was going to write in about it or not,
Speaker 3: But here goes nothing. I was so triggered by Georgie's
Speaker 3: posts and stories when she went to Morgan Wollen and
Speaker 3: was having a major internal conflict with myself about it.
Speaker 3: I'm from a small country town. Agriculture, farming and country
Speaker 3: music is a big part of our culture. So when
Speaker 3: Georgie posted that she went to Morgan Wollen and the
Speaker 3: outfit she wore, I was immediately triggered and part of
Speaker 3: me thought she's dressing to fit in for a country concert.
Speaker 3: She probably only knows his songs from TikTok. She talks
Speaker 3: about being integral to yourself and not changing yourself to
Speaker 3: fit in the mold of others, but she'd purposely dressed
Speaker 3: to fit in here, just brought a tesla to be
Speaker 3: eco conscious, but is flying all the way to Melbourne
Speaker 3: for a concert and buying new clothes just to fit in.
Speaker 3: Georgie being at this concert felt a little bit disingenuous
Speaker 3: to me, and like she was overcompensating and trying to
Speaker 3: be someone she's not. Clearly part of me was really triggered.
Speaker 3: Another part of me, however, did not care at all
Speaker 3: and thought, you go girl for getting out of your
Speaker 3: comfort zone and trying something new. You looked like you
Speaker 3: had such a fab time. If I could, I would
Speaker 3: be going to every artist that came to OZ, even
Speaker 3: if I only knew five songs, because hashtag live your
Speaker 3: best life. So I would love to get your thoughts
Speaker 3: on this. Maybe you gals can see a limiting belief
Speaker 3: or negative belief here that I'm not seeing, or can
Speaker 3: help me with my internal battle of feelings. I love
Speaker 3: this party so much and want to go back to
Speaker 3: not feeling so torn in my relationship with Georgie, even
Speaker 3: though she doesn't even know who I am. Low, I'm
Speaker 3: so confused by my feelings.
Speaker 4: Help.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love this question so fucking mud
Speaker 1: me too. Genuinely, this is generally my favorite question. Also,
Speaker 1: I know, my god, you know who you are. We
Speaker 1: adore this question. Thank you so much for fucking bringing
Speaker 1: this up. I feel like this is really exciting. I
Speaker 1: feel like a girlfriend has just like brought something to me,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, yes, let's fucking unpack this.
Speaker 4: I know, like, let's go.
Speaker 3: And I also think, although this is obviously a very
Speaker 3: specific example, but I do think that people can probably
Speaker 3: very much relate to this when they're getting triggered by something,
Speaker 3: but then they're unpacking it and going, oh, like I
Speaker 3: shouldn't be triggered by this, and then you're like having
Speaker 3: that internal battle of why am I triggered but I
Speaker 3: shouldn't be triggered? And then how to resolve that?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Cool, all right, well let's go straight in. So first
Speaker 1: of all, don't be because I can see she's like
Speaker 1: she's getting triggered, and then she's kind of shaming herself
Speaker 1: for being triggered. Yeah, so she's like, I shouldn't feel
Speaker 1: this way.
Speaker 4: I know George is a great person.
Speaker 1: You're right, why are we so bady? But first of all, like,
Speaker 1: don't For example, I feel like all those points are
Speaker 1: so valid, and I'm so glad that you were able
Speaker 1: to have this awareness within yourself. But don't shame yourself
Speaker 1: or feel guilty for having these strong feelings because that's perfect.
Speaker 1: How you feel is literally like great, it's so great,
Speaker 1: but then be able to unpack it and go deeper. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so let's get straight into it. So for example, also,
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna quickly chat I personally like I do
Speaker 1: adore Morgan Wollen, like I'm now fucking so obsessed with him.
Speaker 1: But also I didn't buy these tickets. Tim did so
Speaker 1: because Tim is a huge country singer fan and he
Speaker 1: listens to it while we cook, and Morgan Wallen didn't
Speaker 1: come to Brisbane, so he was like, babe, I really
Speaker 1: want to go see Like can we go and see him?
Speaker 1: So this was something I did for Tim. Okay, if
Speaker 1: it was me and my girlfriends, I probably wouldn't have
Speaker 1: gone because yeah, like I'm like, Morgan Waller was great
Speaker 1: country I love. I also love Luke Holmes. But yeah,
Speaker 1: very like it is totally trending right now. It's like
Speaker 1: all we play in the office and that sort of thing.
Speaker 1: So I completely get that. And also one hundred percent, oh, like,
Speaker 1: I got gifted that dress, so I just had that dress.
Speaker 1: But one hundred percent I.
Speaker 3: Went and bought some boots because I thought you used
Speaker 3: the ones from the rodeo. What No, I didn't buy
Speaker 3: boots for the rodeo. I used I borrowed a hat.
Speaker 4: Oh so I didn't buy a hat, but I.
Speaker 1: Went and bought some boots. But I also, like, I
Speaker 1: really wanted some country boots because I'm like, oh, it's
Speaker 1: like fashion, hashtag fashion. So like, I completely get where
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, you're being disingenuous because on the outside
Speaker 1: it doesn't make sense. But I'm sure me being like, well,
Speaker 1: here are my reasons, like you can see it a
Speaker 1: different way. But also, I guess adding to that, I
Speaker 1: don't fucking have to explain myself if I want to
Speaker 1: go and do something that feels good for me or
Speaker 1: for my partner that doesn't fit into what you think
Speaker 1: my concept is self is that's fine because you're not
Speaker 1: in my brain of what my concept of self is,
Speaker 1: So what you think is disingenuous doesn't kind of have
Speaker 1: any weight for me because I know what is Does
Speaker 1: that make sense? Because I'm so solid on my concept
Speaker 1: of self and who I am and is what is
Speaker 1: integral for me is like my integrity doesn't have to
Speaker 1: make sense to you, And I'm not trying to make
Speaker 1: it make sense to everyone because also, like I do
Speaker 1: have such a big platform that it's like, I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna be able to fucking please everyone. Yeah, and imagine
Speaker 1: if I try to.
Speaker 3: So.
Speaker 1: Also, I think a big part here which I want
Speaker 1: to reflect this person is how much they cannot hold duality.
Speaker 1: So in their mind it's like, okay, well George's eco conscious,
Speaker 1: so she can't go on a plane. Imagine living in
Speaker 1: a world where things are so black and white that
Speaker 1: in yourself you're like, oh, well, I want to be
Speaker 1: this person.
Speaker 4: I can't do that.
Speaker 1: Imagine how limiting that is. And it's You're not limiting
Speaker 1: to me, because I'm fucking just living my life. But
Speaker 1: within your internal dialogue, if you seriously cannot hold the
Speaker 1: duality of I can be eco conscious and have an
Speaker 1: eco conscious company, and like, for an instance, this week,
Speaker 1: our solar got put on our house because that is
Speaker 1: a step on my eco conscious journey. Yeah, and like
Speaker 1: if you cannot hold that, I can make those steps
Speaker 1: but also live a life where I go enjoy things
Speaker 1: and I do things that's maybe not quote unquote in
Speaker 1: the step of whatever you think I need to do.
Speaker 1: I would say there was there would be a lot
Speaker 1: of like internal conflict happening inside them of what you
Speaker 1: think this means this? So I have to do this
Speaker 1: not actually locking into what's you know, integral for you. You're
Speaker 1: looking external, what does it look like it's integral for
Speaker 1: me rather than what's in here?
Speaker 4: I love that.
Speaker 1: And if you're constantly okay, so if I make this
Speaker 1: step externally, I'm gonna look like this to this person
Speaker 1: or that person. And you constantly live your life of
Speaker 1: those choices, you're you're here And I wish.
Speaker 2: This was a video.
Speaker 4: Video.
Speaker 1: So it's like, you know, you're intel. Let's just like
Speaker 1: lock into your heart so you're internal. Who you are
Speaker 1: is here. If you constantly make these decisions based off,
Speaker 1: oh well, how I'm gonna look to this person, I
Speaker 1: need to be this person. You are slowly getting outside
Speaker 1: yourself and you're slowly not being yourself. You're slowly not
Speaker 1: like being integral to who you are because you're so
Speaker 1: concerned about what other people think and what other people
Speaker 1: you know believe. And even though it's not maybe with
Speaker 1: these specific examples, it's just about understanding that you know,
Speaker 1: this trigger is very much showing you a mirror of
Speaker 1: what you need to work on. So obviously, like I said,
Speaker 1: like to me, it seems like you can't really hold
Speaker 1: the duality of I can actually be an eco conscious
Speaker 1: person and also go and fly on a plane for
Speaker 1: a spontaneous trip with my husband. Like that doesn't to me,
Speaker 1: that's not even anything.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's you're.
Speaker 1: Trying to put an identity. You're trying to put me
Speaker 1: in a box, which is fine, but.
Speaker 3: It's like can all or nothing mindset.
Speaker 1: You're not limiting anyone but yourself, because I guarantee you
Speaker 1: put yourself in a box.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: And then also it's like, because the big thing here
Speaker 1: is the disingenuous, I feel like that's and trying to
Speaker 1: be someone she's not. Yeah, so I challenge you, where
Speaker 1: are you trying to be someone you're not? I love
Speaker 1: you to sit with that, because I would only trigger
Speaker 1: that in you. If genuinely, somewhere inside you you're trying
Speaker 1: to be something you're not. Otherwise, why would I trigger
Speaker 1: you that's true because I'm over here just fucking living
Speaker 1: my good life. Go to my country in music.
Speaker 3: I think what jumped out to me in this as
Speaker 3: well is that she's very clearly, very attached to her
Speaker 3: own identity of small country town, agriculture, farming, country music.
Speaker 3: It's our culture. It's my thing, and I like a
Speaker 3: little bit different, but have been triggered by something similar
Speaker 3: in the past, where I would sometimes see videos of
Speaker 3: people like going to Indian weddings and getting dressed up
Speaker 3: and I'm like, no, but you can't do that. That's
Speaker 3: my thing. But I'm like, it's not my thing. And
Speaker 3: it's shifting that belief of owning your culture and that
Speaker 3: having to be your whole identity, because your culture is
Speaker 3: not your identity and you need to separate yourself from that.
Speaker 3: It's part of your identity and it's something you can appreciate,
Speaker 3: but it's also something everyone else in this world can appreciate,
Speaker 3: and it should bring you joy to see people appreciating
Speaker 3: that and enjoying what you enjoy.
Speaker 4: It shouldn't piss you off, so true to here.
Speaker 1: You know what's interesting too, is I think that's such
Speaker 1: a great point of if your identity is really attached
Speaker 1: to things outside.
Speaker 4: Of you, you.
Speaker 1: Will get pissed off or upset almost like shaken really easily,
Speaker 1: because your identity is not around your internal it's around
Speaker 1: your external. Yes, And so where have you attached yourself
Speaker 1: so much to something external that it's like that's that's
Speaker 1: not what your identity should be. And that's such a
Speaker 1: great point of like her identity is stuck in but
Speaker 1: this is my thing. Yeah, you can't do my thing.
Speaker 3: Because then you're trying to be me yes, and you're
Speaker 3: not me yes.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: And it's even I feel like this is even I
Speaker 1: think for moms because someone comes to mom yeah. And
Speaker 1: what I've noticed a huge theme of and also just
Speaker 1: being a mom myself, it's really easy for then your
Speaker 1: whole life to be I'm a mom and not have
Speaker 1: any identity out of that because it is all encompassing.
Speaker 1: It's the most encompassing thing I've ever experienced. But I
Speaker 1: have noticed the part of me where I want to
Speaker 1: go like almost fall in of like, oh no, but
Speaker 1: I'm a mom now and I probably have had times,
Speaker 1: but you do, and it's like no, no, no, this
Speaker 1: is my identity. And then if anything comes to shake
Speaker 1: that identity, you would feel threatened. Yeah, but it's like no,
Speaker 1: my being a mom is something I do, Yeah, but
Speaker 1: it's not my identity.
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 1: Do you see even that?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: I love that so much.
Speaker 1: And that's why I like so many moms get fucking
Speaker 1: like crazy on Instagram. Is their whole identity is like, no,
Speaker 1: I'm a mum and I know best and I should
Speaker 1: parent your child for you. I'm like, no, babe.
Speaker 3: And I think that she's held on too, is that
Speaker 3: people can't be multifaceted. Yes, huge, And that's something that
Speaker 3: I get described as being the most random person all
Speaker 3: the time because I just love doing lots of different
Speaker 3: things and trying lots of different things and that brings
Speaker 3: me so much joy. And I would even go as
Speaker 3: far to say, like my hobby is doing lots of
Speaker 3: different hobbies.
Speaker 1: Literally, a tea will come in and I was like,
Speaker 1: how was your weekend?
Speaker 4: She's like good, I went full driving, and I'm like,
Speaker 4: you know, what the fuck?
Speaker 1: But also like I love that fingah, But also it's
Speaker 1: really funny because when I did post that real, I
Speaker 1: did think, oh my god, people are gonna be like
Speaker 1: this is the most random thing.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: But also it's because you don't see as soon as
Speaker 1: I get home, I walk in the door, country music
Speaker 1: is playing, and then me and Tim cooked dinner together.
Speaker 1: It's on the TV. Like, you don't see those moments
Speaker 1: because I'm not documenting them. But that doesn't mean I
Speaker 1: can't be a country music fan.
Speaker 3: No, And even if country music wasn't playing every day
Speaker 3: in your house, you still have every right to go
Speaker 3: try it out and enjoy it. Yeah, and like see
Speaker 3: if the shoe fits yeast, because that's how you find
Speaker 3: things you love, and that's how you get out.
Speaker 4: Of your comfort zone.
Speaker 3: And your girl as a human being is through new
Speaker 3: experiences hugely. Yeah.
Speaker 1: And also that is a big thing too, of like
Speaker 1: how often do we put ourselves inside a box of Like, No,
Speaker 1: this is what I like and this is who I am,
Speaker 1: and this is my identity.
Speaker 4: And that's even a.
Speaker 1: Really cool thing, like to ask yourself where have you said,
Speaker 1: you know, like the whole saying that's around right now,
Speaker 1: like not for me, it's not for me, Like where
Speaker 1: have you said? Oh, not for me, Like I notice
Speaker 1: I did it the other day because my girlfriend did
Speaker 1: a pole dancing class. Yeah, And I was like, hmm,
Speaker 1: not for me. And then she's like, yeah, but have
Speaker 1: you tried it? And I and she's like she's in
Speaker 1: self doublbe. So she totally called me out and I
Speaker 1: was like, fuck, you're so right. Yeah, And I was like, yeah, well,
Speaker 1: I might go and do one. But I noticed the
Speaker 1: side of me who did want to be like, nah,
Speaker 1: not my thing. You're out even trying it. And we do.
Speaker 1: We love to put ourselves in these little boxes and
Speaker 1: we love to have the labels.
Speaker 4: Of I'm the artie girl, or I'm the sporty.
Speaker 1: Girl, I'm the country girl, yeah, and no one else
Speaker 1: can be yeah, and like it is I'm the mom.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: It's so interesting.
Speaker 3: And so I think that that's probably something for you
Speaker 3: to unpack. The listener to unpack as well, is like,
Speaker 3: have you not allowed yourself to try new things because
Speaker 3: you feel like other people won't understand why, or maybe
Speaker 3: you're guilty yourself and you're saying, no, it's just ingenuous
Speaker 3: for me to have a hobby that's not country or exactly.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, yeah, it's like I'm just showing you
Speaker 1: a mirror of where it's like something's not because I
Speaker 1: love that she used Georgie talks about being integral, but
Speaker 1: this doesn't feel integral. Yeah, So it's like, where is
Speaker 1: something not feeling integral for you? Or like a way
Speaker 1: have you put yourself in a box of Oh no,
Speaker 1: I'm this person.
Speaker 3: I can't do that because it's not integral. Yeah, and
Speaker 3: you really want.
Speaker 1: To because it's funny. And I love this because I
Speaker 1: can now this is such a good question because it's
Speaker 1: giving me a lot of self awareness of what I
Speaker 1: have transcended because I'm like, oh, I just would have
Speaker 1: never had these thoughts.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So it's like, and I don't mean that in it
Speaker 1: like a degrading way, because I think this is so
Speaker 1: valid how you feel.
Speaker 3: And it's amazing you sent it in.
Speaker 1: Yeah. No, we're like, we're actually like so thankful and
Speaker 1: before you send this in, it's really cool to see.
Speaker 1: It's really cool for me to be like, oh, that's
Speaker 1: really cool. I've actually like transcended something like this and
Speaker 1: I can see how but I can see how this
Speaker 1: good come up because previously maybe something like this would
Speaker 1: have come up for me. Yeah, it actually, you know,
Speaker 1: it's giving. You know when you're in school and like
Speaker 1: a song gets trending and you're like, I was listening
Speaker 1: to that like three years ago.
Speaker 3: That was my or like what you just reminded me
Speaker 3: of when everyone gets so triggered in high school musical
Speaker 3: because Troy starts singing and he's the basketball guy. I
Speaker 3: love how you bringing the most rid That's exactly what
Speaker 3: it is. Oh yeah, you can't do that, You're going
Speaker 3: and there's a whole song about it, status quo or whatever.
Speaker 1: Oh of course, I actually don't really remember.
Speaker 4: I know that I remember.
Speaker 3: So he's like the basketball guy and then he goes
Speaker 3: and sings and it triggers his entire basketball team, including
Speaker 3: his best friend. And there's this whole song where they're like, no,
Speaker 3: you need to stick to the status quo. You're the
Speaker 3: basketball boy. You have to be the basketball boy. You
Speaker 3: can't sing yes, And then everyone's bringing out all their
Speaker 3: secret hobbies and I'm like everybody, he hasn't stop being ashamed.
Speaker 1: I love that so much.
Speaker 4: It breaks the randomness.
Speaker 1: I love that, And obviously, like what me and Tia
Speaker 1: both said then is like some very surface level examples,
Speaker 1: And I do want to stress that what you're feeling
Speaker 1: is so fucking valid. And it's like I feel like
Speaker 1: and like I said, I'm so happy you brought this up.
Speaker 1: But it's like it's a really cool thing of even
Speaker 1: if you think about any problem you have with anyone
Speaker 1: or anything, and then just being able to under like
Speaker 1: if you can be like, okay, if it wasn't about them,
Speaker 1: because often we're like, no, it's just them. They're just
Speaker 1: really annoying, you know, It's like it's them if we
Speaker 1: bring it back from let's dissolve like the fucking person.
Speaker 1: But it's like, what are they showing me? That is
Speaker 1: what's the what's the thing that's triggering me? And like
Speaker 1: where have I either suppressed that for myself or it's
Speaker 1: like where either am I actually that? And I don't
Speaker 1: like it because that's usually the thing of yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you're even jealous because you didn't have the guts to
Speaker 1: do it m.
Speaker 3: Or it's mirroring something that you feel internally guilt or
Speaker 3: shame about.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think the big thing here too is
Speaker 1: what we don't do is we don't even let ourselves
Speaker 1: go through that process that we just did a tia
Speaker 1: because we feel fucking bad for doing it, like this person,
Speaker 1: She's like, I generally fucking want to heal my relationship
Speaker 1: with Georgie because like she enjoys the potty and I
Speaker 1: feel like she gets it. But also it's like, can
Speaker 1: we actually have this process and use people as tools
Speaker 1: and mirrors and be like, cool, let's unpack this and
Speaker 1: do it in a non shaming guilt way. Yeah, And
Speaker 1: it actually just gets to be a really cool experience
Speaker 1: of like, oh cool, yeah, and feeling okay for feeling
Speaker 1: jealous or shame or guilt or pissed off or triggered
Speaker 1: by someone like you should feeling fucking any emotion? Yeah,
Speaker 1: how much do we feel emotion and feel ashamed of
Speaker 1: feeling an emotion?
Speaker 3: I know?
Speaker 4: And then it's just like this little spiral.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it does sound like she's on the cusp cusp
Speaker 3: our favorite word.
Speaker 4: You're on the cusp.
Speaker 2: Girl.
Speaker 1: She'll listen to this and be.
Speaker 3: Like, oh, yeah, thanks for unpacking it for me, And
Speaker 3: then she'll be like cool, I.
Speaker 1: Can see or maybe she won't fit you know who
Speaker 1: are come jump back into the DMS and let us
Speaker 1: know what you think.
Speaker 4: I generally would love to know me too. I do
Speaker 4: a little part to her, and guys said us more
Speaker 4: questions like this, Yes, we loved it.
Speaker 1: Tell me how I treat you and we will pack
Speaker 1: it for you. Also, let's do on for a tea.
Speaker 1: It's all funny, guys, we're paying Georgie out, isn't it?
Speaker 4: Am I being triggered? I'm so curious. It's you.
Speaker 1: I was having this conversation with myself. What's not really conversation,
Speaker 1: is it. I was having this I call it conversation. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: we'll call it combo. I was having this conversation with myself.
Speaker 1: It is very interesting to have a podcast and to
Speaker 1: put so much of my life out for people to
Speaker 1: like no, no, and see and feel, because it's like
Speaker 1: so much of the time I am processing so much,
Speaker 1: and like my whole thing is I'm so transparent with
Speaker 1: you guys. That's like I will bring stuff in that
Speaker 1: I'm processing myself.
Speaker 4: And I did think.
Speaker 1: I was like, I was wondering if people can kind
Speaker 1: of grasp when I'm like processing something or it's like
Speaker 1: when I'm not yet to the point where I've gotten
Speaker 1: over it, but it's like I still bring it in
Speaker 1: and A big thing for me is like I love
Speaker 1: that because I never want to be the guru. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I never wanted to be the person in the room
Speaker 1: who knows everything. I want to be constantly learning and
Speaker 1: constantly unpacking new layers and textures of myself. And like,
Speaker 1: the podcast has been such a healing journey for me
Speaker 1: because I literally do it as I'm doing the episode. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and now I love it. I hope people know that,
Speaker 1: and I hope people can again be able to hold
Speaker 1: the duality of like one week I could be really
Speaker 1: feeling into and processing something, and then the next week,
Speaker 1: not that my mind changed, but you can see a
Speaker 1: new level of my evolution because it's like, for example,
Speaker 1: again feeding into this question is if we don't allow
Speaker 1: people to grow and transform and evolve, it means we
Speaker 1: don't let ourselves do that.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So a big thing of like noticing even that of like, oh,
Speaker 1: do I expect this person to have all the answers
Speaker 1: or do I expect this person to.
Speaker 4: Be like evolving?
Speaker 1: Yeah, and allowing them.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that was just a random rant.
Speaker 2: I love that.
Speaker 3: No, I love that because my mum always saw me
Speaker 3: hashtag thoughts. Yeah, if you stop learning, you're dead literally though,
Speaker 3: So you know, you can never expect anyone to be
Speaker 3: the same, and you just got to hope that they're growing.
Speaker 1: And also, I really hope that I fucking never will.
Speaker 1: But it's like if you go back and listen to
Speaker 1: one of our first episodes and like even hear how
Speaker 1: I talk or how I process things, like, I hope
Speaker 1: I'm a lot different. I fucking hope I even contradict
Speaker 1: myself now, because if you're not contradicting yourself, you're not growing.
Speaker 2: If you have.
Speaker 1: The same thoughts and the same way you do things
Speaker 1: like four years later like that, I don't see that
Speaker 1: as a fucking good thing. I'm like, shit, you've just
Speaker 1: missed four years of growing. Oh, So like yeah, and
Speaker 1: I'm so open to that. I'm so open to you
Speaker 1: guys going back to old episodes and being like, she
Speaker 1: literally says something completely different now and me being like yeah,
Speaker 1: and also you being able to like hold me in
Speaker 1: that and be like, yeah, well she's just evolved.
Speaker 4: That's so true.
Speaker 1: And that's what I also like being over generous with
Speaker 1: other people too, and like that's what I hope for
Speaker 1: you guys too.
Speaker 4: I hope you guys enjoyed this hotline.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was a bit of fun. Yeah, send more
Speaker 1: questions like this. Yeah them, we love them.
Speaker 2: Is this?
Speaker 1: I feel like our community is like, all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: they're like, let's fucking do it.
Speaker 4: Let's get into my shadows. I love that so much.
Speaker 1: All Right, thank you so much, guys, Thank you so
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