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Speaker 1: Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson, and this is the

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Speaker 1: Rise and Conquer Podcast. This is the podcast where which

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Speaker 1: of my life running two businesses and being among Think

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Speaker 1: in your journey, We're here to help you be curious,

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Speaker 1: pull yourself out, and embrace radical self awareness. If you're

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Speaker 1: Hi, everybody, Welcome back to the R and C Potty

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Speaker 1: and Happy Friday. Today's episode is a geez hotline and

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Speaker 1: oh gosh, do we have some amazing questions for you today.

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Speaker 1: So today we are managing shame and guilt in relation

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Speaker 1: to money and success in business. We then unpack a

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Speaker 1: question we got in DMS from a listener who got

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Speaker 1: Morgan walln concept. Can I just say I loved this

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Speaker 1: message so much. I loved unpacking it. I also really

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Speaker 1: loved the first question, Hey.

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Speaker 3: Tia, another amazing question. I think these are our best questions.

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Speaker 1: Literally, I'm gonna say one of the best hotlines, so

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Speaker 1: strap in. She's a bit bloody fun. But before we

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Speaker 1: get into it, of course, our week update a tear.

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Speaker 1: What haven't we done this week? So we had a shoot,

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Speaker 1: then also, guys you may have already seen, but we

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Speaker 1: are launching limited edition Life Happens for Me journaling boxes.

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Speaker 4: And they're the best ever.

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Speaker 1: So this is something we have been curating for a

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Speaker 1: very long time and basically we were like, what's something

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Speaker 1: we can give the RNC community that completely creates the vibe.

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Speaker 1: The vibe but for manifesting your dream life, for unpacking

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Speaker 1: and we just thought we're going to create the whole experience.

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Speaker 1: So the Life Happens for Me boxes include Life Happens

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Speaker 1: for Me Journal, a Life Happens for Me, cute glass tumbler.

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Speaker 4: And it's it's the best thing.

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Speaker 1: It's the bubble mug. If you haven't seen the hints

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Speaker 1: Of course we also have a gorgeous butterfly diffuser, so

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Speaker 3: a manifesting story. Ooh Jordie, this is insane. How insane

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Speaker 3: Oh, like, don't worry about things because you're just putting

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Speaker 1: But yeah, so it's like you're projecting that you know

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Speaker 1: Feel like that's not even a thought because I know

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Speaker 1: No one can see me. But it's if you go

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Speaker 3: I love that, and it's almost like assume the best

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Speaker 3: Where you act in scarcity, or even just like she

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Speaker 3: And I think the other thing to remember is I

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Speaker 1: don't you think it's interesting? Like, you know, she is

440
00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:00,720
Speaker 1: saying she's fucking worked really hard and she's got a

441
00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:02,960
Speaker 1: seal on to this point, and then she is buying

442
00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:06,280
Speaker 1: herself nice things, and you know she isn't working quote

443
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:09,320
Speaker 1: unquote on the tools and she's working on the business.

444
00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:12,800
Speaker 1: And it's like, how interesting that her brain is going, Oh,

445
00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:15,000
Speaker 1: things are going so well, how can I like make

446
00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:15,720
Speaker 1: you feel like shit?

447
00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:17,080
Speaker 4: So true?

448
00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:21,280
Speaker 1: Our human brains honestly do this when things are going

449
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:23,960
Speaker 1: well and things are actually really good, we're like, what

450
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:28,000
Speaker 1: can we fucking fuck up here? Give yourself a bit

451
00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:31,159
Speaker 1: of drama? Almost, yeah, and that's that could even be

452
00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:34,720
Speaker 1: like a little subconscious loop there, and we'll leave you

453
00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:39,679
Speaker 1: with those thoughts. She's like, I actually feel worse, So

454
00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:43,720
Speaker 1: thanks too, And Georgia, you would not helpful, no, But

455
00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:45,719
Speaker 1: I think there's some great things to unpack there and

456
00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:46,280
Speaker 1: think about it.

457
00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:48,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, and you've got to, you know, do that work.

458
00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:52,119
Speaker 2: Now.

459
00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:54,240
Speaker 3: I know this is a big call, but I think

460
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:57,440
Speaker 3: we have my most favorite question that's ever been really

461
00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:01,119
Speaker 3: to the point, what's it about? Now? I wouldn't beforehand,

462
00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:03,919
Speaker 3: I know, and I want a live reaction. And I

463
00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:06,680
Speaker 3: would also just like to preface this with how proud

464
00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:08,879
Speaker 3: I am of this person for having the self awareness

465
00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:10,680
Speaker 3: and guts to send this question in.

466
00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:11,800
Speaker 4: But here we go.

467
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 3: Okay, hit me, Hello, Ronc Potty. I have something I

468
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:17,760
Speaker 3: would love to get your opinion on. I've been sitting

469
00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:19,520
Speaker 3: on this for a few days and didn't know if

470
00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 3: I was going to write in about it or not,

471
00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:25,440
Speaker 3: But here goes nothing. I was so triggered by Georgie's

472
00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:28,600
Speaker 3: posts and stories when she went to Morgan Wollen and

473
00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:33,080
Speaker 3: was having a major internal conflict with myself about it.

474
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:37,399
Speaker 3: I'm from a small country town. Agriculture, farming and country

475
00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:40,160
Speaker 3: music is a big part of our culture. So when

476
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:42,720
Speaker 3: Georgie posted that she went to Morgan Wollen and the

477
00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:45,760
Speaker 3: outfit she wore, I was immediately triggered and part of

478
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:48,640
Speaker 3: me thought she's dressing to fit in for a country concert.

479
00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:52,399
Speaker 3: She probably only knows his songs from TikTok. She talks

480
00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:55,439
Speaker 3: about being integral to yourself and not changing yourself to

481
00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 3: fit in the mold of others, but she'd purposely dressed

482
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:01,199
Speaker 3: to fit in here, just brought a tesla to be

483
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:03,960
Speaker 3: eco conscious, but is flying all the way to Melbourne

484
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 3: for a concert and buying new clothes just to fit in.

485
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:10,840
Speaker 3: Georgie being at this concert felt a little bit disingenuous

486
00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:13,679
Speaker 3: to me, and like she was overcompensating and trying to

487
00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 3: be someone she's not. Clearly part of me was really triggered.

488
00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:22,479
Speaker 3: Another part of me, however, did not care at all

489
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 3: and thought, you go girl for getting out of your

490
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:27,840
Speaker 3: comfort zone and trying something new. You looked like you

491
00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:30,560
Speaker 3: had such a fab time. If I could, I would

492
00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:32,800
Speaker 3: be going to every artist that came to OZ, even

493
00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:35,560
Speaker 3: if I only knew five songs, because hashtag live your

494
00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:38,399
Speaker 3: best life. So I would love to get your thoughts

495
00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 3: on this. Maybe you gals can see a limiting belief

496
00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:43,720
Speaker 3: or negative belief here that I'm not seeing, or can

497
00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:46,760
Speaker 3: help me with my internal battle of feelings. I love

498
00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:48,679
Speaker 3: this party so much and want to go back to

499
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:51,440
Speaker 3: not feeling so torn in my relationship with Georgie, even

500
00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:54,520
Speaker 3: though she doesn't even know who I am. Low, I'm

501
00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:56,400
Speaker 3: so confused by my feelings.

502
00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 4: Help.

503
00:26:57,520 --> 00:26:59,960
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love this question so fucking mud

504
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:03,639
Speaker 1: me too. Genuinely, this is generally my favorite question. Also,

505
00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:07,639
Speaker 1: I know, my god, you know who you are. We

506
00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:11,200
Speaker 1: adore this question. Thank you so much for fucking bringing

507
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:13,720
Speaker 1: this up. I feel like this is really exciting. I

508
00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 1: feel like a girlfriend has just like brought something to me,

509
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:18,119
Speaker 1: and I'm like, yes, let's fucking unpack this.

510
00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:19,360
Speaker 4: I know, like, let's go.

511
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:22,920
Speaker 3: And I also think, although this is obviously a very

512
00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 3: specific example, but I do think that people can probably

513
00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 3: very much relate to this when they're getting triggered by something,

514
00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 3: but then they're unpacking it and going, oh, like I

515
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:35,840
Speaker 3: shouldn't be triggered by this, and then you're like having

516
00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:38,399
Speaker 3: that internal battle of why am I triggered but I

517
00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:41,120
Speaker 3: shouldn't be triggered? And then how to resolve that?

518
00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:41,840
Speaker 4: Yeah?

519
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:44,560
Speaker 1: Cool, all right, well let's go straight in. So first

520
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:48,040
Speaker 1: of all, don't be because I can see she's like

521
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:50,760
Speaker 1: she's getting triggered, and then she's kind of shaming herself

522
00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:53,040
Speaker 1: for being triggered. Yeah, so she's like, I shouldn't feel

523
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:53,360
Speaker 1: this way.

524
00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:54,800
Speaker 4: I know George is a great person.

525
00:27:57,440 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 1: You're right, why are we so bady? But first of all, like,

526
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 1: don't For example, I feel like all those points are

527
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:12,080
Speaker 1: so valid, and I'm so glad that you were able

528
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:17,480
Speaker 1: to have this awareness within yourself. But don't shame yourself

529
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:23,240
Speaker 1: or feel guilty for having these strong feelings because that's perfect.

530
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:26,320
Speaker 1: How you feel is literally like great, it's so great,

531
00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:31,240
Speaker 1: but then be able to unpack it and go deeper. Yeah,

532
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 1: so let's get straight into it. So for example, also,

533
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:39,200
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna quickly chat I personally like I do

534
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:42,560
Speaker 1: adore Morgan Wollen, like I'm now fucking so obsessed with him.

535
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:46,680
Speaker 1: But also I didn't buy these tickets. Tim did so

536
00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:51,560
Speaker 1: because Tim is a huge country singer fan and he

537
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 1: listens to it while we cook, and Morgan Wallen didn't

538
00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:59,360
Speaker 1: come to Brisbane, so he was like, babe, I really

539
00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 1: want to go see Like can we go and see him?

540
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:05,160
Speaker 1: So this was something I did for Tim. Okay, if

541
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:07,240
Speaker 1: it was me and my girlfriends, I probably wouldn't have

542
00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 1: gone because yeah, like I'm like, Morgan Waller was great

543
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 1: country I love. I also love Luke Holmes. But yeah,

544
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:16,480
Speaker 1: very like it is totally trending right now. It's like

545
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 1: all we play in the office and that sort of thing.

546
00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 1: So I completely get that. And also one hundred percent, oh, like,

547
00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:25,720
Speaker 1: I got gifted that dress, so I just had that dress.

548
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:26,720
Speaker 1: But one hundred percent I.

549
00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 3: Went and bought some boots because I thought you used

550
00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:33,520
Speaker 3: the ones from the rodeo. What No, I didn't buy

551
00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:36,520
Speaker 3: boots for the rodeo. I used I borrowed a hat.

552
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 4: Oh so I didn't buy a hat, but I.

553
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 1: Went and bought some boots. But I also, like, I

554
00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:43,000
Speaker 1: really wanted some country boots because I'm like, oh, it's

555
00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 1: like fashion, hashtag fashion. So like, I completely get where

556
00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, you're being disingenuous because on the outside

557
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:55,080
Speaker 1: it doesn't make sense. But I'm sure me being like, well,

558
00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:57,360
Speaker 1: here are my reasons, like you can see it a

559
00:29:57,360 --> 00:30:01,080
Speaker 1: different way. But also, I guess adding to that, I

560
00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 1: don't fucking have to explain myself if I want to

561
00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 1: go and do something that feels good for me or

562
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:11,520
Speaker 1: for my partner that doesn't fit into what you think

563
00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 1: my concept is self is that's fine because you're not

564
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:18,680
Speaker 1: in my brain of what my concept of self is,

565
00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:24,239
Speaker 1: So what you think is disingenuous doesn't kind of have

566
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:28,160
Speaker 1: any weight for me because I know what is Does

567
00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:31,760
Speaker 1: that make sense? Because I'm so solid on my concept

568
00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:35,080
Speaker 1: of self and who I am and is what is

569
00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 1: integral for me is like my integrity doesn't have to

570
00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:42,720
Speaker 1: make sense to you, And I'm not trying to make

571
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 1: it make sense to everyone because also, like I do

572
00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:47,360
Speaker 1: have such a big platform that it's like, I'm not

573
00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:51,040
Speaker 1: gonna be able to fucking please everyone. Yeah, and imagine

574
00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:51,760
Speaker 1: if I try to.

575
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:52,640
Speaker 3: So.

576
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:56,040
Speaker 1: Also, I think a big part here which I want

577
00:30:56,080 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 1: to reflect this person is how much they cannot hold duality.

578
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 1: So in their mind it's like, okay, well George's eco conscious,

579
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:08,640
Speaker 1: so she can't go on a plane. Imagine living in

580
00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:12,400
Speaker 1: a world where things are so black and white that

581
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:14,920
Speaker 1: in yourself you're like, oh, well, I want to be

582
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 1: this person.

583
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:15,960
Speaker 4: I can't do that.

584
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:20,240
Speaker 1: Imagine how limiting that is. And it's You're not limiting

585
00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:23,000
Speaker 1: to me, because I'm fucking just living my life. But

586
00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 1: within your internal dialogue, if you seriously cannot hold the

587
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 1: duality of I can be eco conscious and have an

588
00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:35,400
Speaker 1: eco conscious company, and like, for an instance, this week,

589
00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 1: our solar got put on our house because that is

590
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 1: a step on my eco conscious journey. Yeah, and like

591
00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:44,800
Speaker 1: if you cannot hold that, I can make those steps

592
00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 1: but also live a life where I go enjoy things

593
00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 1: and I do things that's maybe not quote unquote in

594
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 1: the step of whatever you think I need to do.

595
00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:58,920
Speaker 1: I would say there was there would be a lot

596
00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 1: of like internal conflict happening inside them of what you

597
00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:06,520
Speaker 1: think this means this? So I have to do this

598
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:13,320
Speaker 1: not actually locking into what's you know, integral for you. You're

599
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:16,640
Speaker 1: looking external, what does it look like it's integral for

600
00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:19,360
Speaker 1: me rather than what's in here?

601
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:20,560
Speaker 4: I love that.

602
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:24,600
Speaker 1: And if you're constantly okay, so if I make this

603
00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 1: step externally, I'm gonna look like this to this person

604
00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:31,240
Speaker 1: or that person. And you constantly live your life of

605
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:35,280
Speaker 1: those choices, you're you're here And I wish.

606
00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:36,000
Speaker 2: This was a video.

607
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:37,720
Speaker 4: Video.

608
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:40,719
Speaker 1: So it's like, you know, you're intel. Let's just like

609
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:43,720
Speaker 1: lock into your heart so you're internal. Who you are

610
00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:48,520
Speaker 1: is here. If you constantly make these decisions based off,

611
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 1: oh well, how I'm gonna look to this person, I

612
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:54,480
Speaker 1: need to be this person. You are slowly getting outside

613
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:58,720
Speaker 1: yourself and you're slowly not being yourself. You're slowly not

614
00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:01,160
Speaker 1: like being integral to who you are because you're so

615
00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:04,640
Speaker 1: concerned about what other people think and what other people

616
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:07,720
Speaker 1: you know believe. And even though it's not maybe with

617
00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:14,000
Speaker 1: these specific examples, it's just about understanding that you know,

618
00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 1: this trigger is very much showing you a mirror of

619
00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:20,240
Speaker 1: what you need to work on. So obviously, like I said,

620
00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:22,760
Speaker 1: like to me, it seems like you can't really hold

621
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:25,480
Speaker 1: the duality of I can actually be an eco conscious

622
00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:28,160
Speaker 1: person and also go and fly on a plane for

623
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:32,640
Speaker 1: a spontaneous trip with my husband. Like that doesn't to me,

624
00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 1: that's not even anything.

625
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's you're.

626
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:37,440
Speaker 1: Trying to put an identity. You're trying to put me

627
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:39,320
Speaker 1: in a box, which is fine, but.

628
00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 3: It's like can all or nothing mindset.

629
00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:44,560
Speaker 1: You're not limiting anyone but yourself, because I guarantee you

630
00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 1: put yourself in a box.

631
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:45,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

632
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:48,960
Speaker 1: And then also it's like, because the big thing here

633
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:52,840
Speaker 1: is the disingenuous, I feel like that's and trying to

634
00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:56,800
Speaker 1: be someone she's not. Yeah, so I challenge you, where

635
00:33:57,280 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 1: are you trying to be someone you're not? I love

636
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:03,960
Speaker 1: you to sit with that, because I would only trigger

637
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:09,160
Speaker 1: that in you. If genuinely, somewhere inside you you're trying

638
00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:11,920
Speaker 1: to be something you're not. Otherwise, why would I trigger

639
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:16,919
Speaker 1: you that's true because I'm over here just fucking living

640
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 1: my good life. Go to my country in music.

641
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:24,919
Speaker 3: I think what jumped out to me in this as

642
00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:31,120
Speaker 3: well is that she's very clearly, very attached to her

643
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:37,280
Speaker 3: own identity of small country town, agriculture, farming, country music.

644
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:42,680
Speaker 3: It's our culture. It's my thing, and I like a

645
00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 3: little bit different, but have been triggered by something similar

646
00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:48,480
Speaker 3: in the past, where I would sometimes see videos of

647
00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:51,000
Speaker 3: people like going to Indian weddings and getting dressed up

648
00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 3: and I'm like, no, but you can't do that. That's

649
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:55,359
Speaker 3: my thing. But I'm like, it's not my thing. And

650
00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:58,880
Speaker 3: it's shifting that belief of owning your culture and that

651
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:01,680
Speaker 3: having to be your whole identity, because your culture is

652
00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:05,520
Speaker 3: not your identity and you need to separate yourself from that.

653
00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:08,200
Speaker 3: It's part of your identity and it's something you can appreciate,

654
00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:11,440
Speaker 3: but it's also something everyone else in this world can appreciate,

655
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:14,960
Speaker 3: and it should bring you joy to see people appreciating

656
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 3: that and enjoying what you enjoy.

657
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:20,520
Speaker 4: It shouldn't piss you off, so true to here.

658
00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 1: You know what's interesting too, is I think that's such

659
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:28,400
Speaker 1: a great point of if your identity is really attached

660
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 1: to things outside.

661
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:31,880
Speaker 4: Of you, you.

662
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:38,560
Speaker 1: Will get pissed off or upset almost like shaken really easily,

663
00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:42,920
Speaker 1: because your identity is not around your internal it's around

664
00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:47,360
Speaker 1: your external. Yes, And so where have you attached yourself

665
00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 1: so much to something external that it's like that's that's

666
00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:54,960
Speaker 1: not what your identity should be. And that's such a

667
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:57,839
Speaker 1: great point of like her identity is stuck in but

668
00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:00,840
Speaker 1: this is my thing. Yeah, you can't do my thing.

669
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:03,480
Speaker 3: Because then you're trying to be me yes, and you're

670
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:04,520
Speaker 3: not me yes.

671
00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:05,160
Speaker 2: Yeah.

672
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 1: And it's even I feel like this is even I

673
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:12,600
Speaker 1: think for moms because someone comes to mom yeah. And

674
00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:16,400
Speaker 1: what I've noticed a huge theme of and also just

675
00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:20,239
Speaker 1: being a mom myself, it's really easy for then your

676
00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:23,400
Speaker 1: whole life to be I'm a mom and not have

677
00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:27,080
Speaker 1: any identity out of that because it is all encompassing.

678
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:30,480
Speaker 1: It's the most encompassing thing I've ever experienced. But I

679
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:33,239
Speaker 1: have noticed the part of me where I want to

680
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:35,839
Speaker 1: go like almost fall in of like, oh no, but

681
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:40,920
Speaker 1: I'm a mom now and I probably have had times,

682
00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:43,200
Speaker 1: but you do, and it's like no, no, no, this

683
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:46,319
Speaker 1: is my identity. And then if anything comes to shake

684
00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:50,040
Speaker 1: that identity, you would feel threatened. Yeah, but it's like no,

685
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:53,600
Speaker 1: my being a mom is something I do, Yeah, but

686
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 1: it's not my identity.

687
00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 2: No.

688
00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 1: Do you see even that?

689
00:36:57,360 --> 00:36:57,880
Speaker 3: Yeah?

690
00:36:57,920 --> 00:36:59,400
Speaker 4: I love that so much.

691
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:01,560
Speaker 1: And that's why I like so many moms get fucking

692
00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:05,319
Speaker 1: like crazy on Instagram. Is their whole identity is like, no,

693
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:08,080
Speaker 1: I'm a mum and I know best and I should

694
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 1: parent your child for you. I'm like, no, babe.

695
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:16,799
Speaker 3: And I think that she's held on too, is that

696
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:22,640
Speaker 3: people can't be multifaceted. Yes, huge, And that's something that

697
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:26,600
Speaker 3: I get described as being the most random person all

698
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:28,920
Speaker 3: the time because I just love doing lots of different

699
00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:32,360
Speaker 3: things and trying lots of different things and that brings

700
00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:34,319
Speaker 3: me so much joy. And I would even go as

701
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:36,960
Speaker 3: far to say, like my hobby is doing lots of

702
00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:37,720
Speaker 3: different hobbies.

703
00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:40,080
Speaker 1: Literally, a tea will come in and I was like,

704
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:40,800
Speaker 1: how was your weekend?

705
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:43,360
Speaker 4: She's like good, I went full driving, and I'm like,

706
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:45,560
Speaker 4: you know, what the fuck?

707
00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:49,239
Speaker 1: But also like I love that fingah, But also it's

708
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:51,440
Speaker 1: really funny because when I did post that real, I

709
00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:53,440
Speaker 1: did think, oh my god, people are gonna be like

710
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:54,959
Speaker 1: this is the most random thing.

711
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 4: Yeah.

712
00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:58,279
Speaker 1: But also it's because you don't see as soon as

713
00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:00,800
Speaker 1: I get home, I walk in the door, country music

714
00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:04,120
Speaker 1: is playing, and then me and Tim cooked dinner together.

715
00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:07,000
Speaker 1: It's on the TV. Like, you don't see those moments

716
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:10,520
Speaker 1: because I'm not documenting them. But that doesn't mean I

717
00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 1: can't be a country music fan.

718
00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 3: No, And even if country music wasn't playing every day

719
00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:17,200
Speaker 3: in your house, you still have every right to go

720
00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:19,680
Speaker 3: try it out and enjoy it. Yeah, and like see

721
00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:22,360
Speaker 3: if the shoe fits yeast, because that's how you find

722
00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:24,840
Speaker 3: things you love, and that's how you get out.

723
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:25,399
Speaker 4: Of your comfort zone.

724
00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:27,160
Speaker 3: And your girl as a human being is through new

725
00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 3: experiences hugely. Yeah.

726
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 1: And also that is a big thing too, of like

727
00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 1: how often do we put ourselves inside a box of Like, No,

728
00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:40,880
Speaker 1: this is what I like and this is who I am,

729
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:42,440
Speaker 1: and this is my identity.

730
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:43,879
Speaker 4: And that's even a.

731
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:47,480
Speaker 1: Really cool thing, like to ask yourself where have you said,

732
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 1: you know, like the whole saying that's around right now,

733
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:53,800
Speaker 1: like not for me, it's not for me, Like where

734
00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:57,320
Speaker 1: have you said? Oh, not for me, Like I notice

735
00:38:57,320 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 1: I did it the other day because my girlfriend did

736
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:02,239
Speaker 1: a pole dancing class. Yeah, And I was like, hmm,

737
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:04,520
Speaker 1: not for me. And then she's like, yeah, but have

738
00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:07,160
Speaker 1: you tried it? And I and she's like she's in

739
00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:09,480
Speaker 1: self doublbe. So she totally called me out and I

740
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:11,920
Speaker 1: was like, fuck, you're so right. Yeah, And I was like, yeah, well,

741
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:13,840
Speaker 1: I might go and do one. But I noticed the

742
00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:16,279
Speaker 1: side of me who did want to be like, nah,

743
00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:19,480
Speaker 1: not my thing. You're out even trying it. And we do.

744
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:23,080
Speaker 1: We love to put ourselves in these little boxes and

745
00:39:23,080 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 1: we love to have the labels.

746
00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 4: Of I'm the artie girl, or I'm the sporty.

747
00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:30,120
Speaker 1: Girl, I'm the country girl, yeah, and no one else

748
00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:33,040
Speaker 1: can be yeah, and like it is I'm the mom.

749
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:33,800
Speaker 4: Yeah.

750
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:34,640
Speaker 3: Yeah.

751
00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:36,680
Speaker 1: It's so interesting.

752
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:38,440
Speaker 3: And so I think that that's probably something for you

753
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 3: to unpack. The listener to unpack as well, is like,

754
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:45,320
Speaker 3: have you not allowed yourself to try new things because

755
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 3: you feel like other people won't understand why, or maybe

756
00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:52,000
Speaker 3: you're guilty yourself and you're saying, no, it's just ingenuous

757
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:55,320
Speaker 3: for me to have a hobby that's not country or exactly.

758
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:58,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, yeah, it's like I'm just showing you

759
00:39:58,520 --> 00:40:03,200
Speaker 1: a mirror of where it's like something's not because I

760
00:40:03,239 --> 00:40:06,160
Speaker 1: love that she used Georgie talks about being integral, but

761
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 1: this doesn't feel integral. Yeah, So it's like, where is

762
00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:11,839
Speaker 1: something not feeling integral for you? Or like a way

763
00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:14,799
Speaker 1: have you put yourself in a box of Oh no,

764
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:15,760
Speaker 1: I'm this person.

765
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 3: I can't do that because it's not integral. Yeah, and

766
00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:19,600
Speaker 3: you really want.

767
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:21,799
Speaker 1: To because it's funny. And I love this because I

768
00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:24,759
Speaker 1: can now this is such a good question because it's

769
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:27,000
Speaker 1: giving me a lot of self awareness of what I

770
00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:29,920
Speaker 1: have transcended because I'm like, oh, I just would have

771
00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 1: never had these thoughts.

772
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:31,760
Speaker 4: Yeah.

773
00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:33,520
Speaker 1: So it's like, and I don't mean that in it

774
00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 1: like a degrading way, because I think this is so

775
00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:37,200
Speaker 1: valid how you feel.

776
00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 3: And it's amazing you sent it in.

777
00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:42,120
Speaker 1: Yeah. No, we're like, we're actually like so thankful and

778
00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:44,400
Speaker 1: before you send this in, it's really cool to see.

779
00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:47,040
Speaker 1: It's really cool for me to be like, oh, that's

780
00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:50,919
Speaker 1: really cool. I've actually like transcended something like this and

781
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:54,279
Speaker 1: I can see how but I can see how this

782
00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:57,359
Speaker 1: good come up because previously maybe something like this would

783
00:40:57,360 --> 00:40:59,759
Speaker 1: have come up for me. Yeah, it actually, you know,

784
00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:03,799
Speaker 1: it's giving. You know when you're in school and like

785
00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 1: a song gets trending and you're like, I was listening

786
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:07,200
Speaker 1: to that like three years ago.

787
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:13,600
Speaker 3: That was my or like what you just reminded me

788
00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:16,720
Speaker 3: of when everyone gets so triggered in high school musical

789
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:23,440
Speaker 3: because Troy starts singing and he's the basketball guy. I

790
00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:27,080
Speaker 3: love how you bringing the most rid That's exactly what

791
00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:29,560
Speaker 3: it is. Oh yeah, you can't do that, You're going

792
00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:31,920
Speaker 3: and there's a whole song about it, status quo or whatever.

793
00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:34,800
Speaker 1: Oh of course, I actually don't really remember.

794
00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:38,200
Speaker 4: I know that I remember.

795
00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:41,879
Speaker 3: So he's like the basketball guy and then he goes

796
00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:45,759
Speaker 3: and sings and it triggers his entire basketball team, including

797
00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 3: his best friend. And there's this whole song where they're like, no,

798
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:50,960
Speaker 3: you need to stick to the status quo. You're the

799
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 3: basketball boy. You have to be the basketball boy. You

800
00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:58,399
Speaker 3: can't sing yes, And then everyone's bringing out all their

801
00:41:58,440 --> 00:42:01,719
Speaker 3: secret hobbies and I'm like everybody, he hasn't stop being ashamed.

802
00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:03,439
Speaker 1: I love that so much.

803
00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:04,640
Speaker 4: It breaks the randomness.

804
00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:06,799
Speaker 1: I love that, And obviously, like what me and Tia

805
00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:10,200
Speaker 1: both said then is like some very surface level examples,

806
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:12,840
Speaker 1: And I do want to stress that what you're feeling

807
00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:15,520
Speaker 1: is so fucking valid. And it's like I feel like

808
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:18,200
Speaker 1: and like I said, I'm so happy you brought this up.

809
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:21,160
Speaker 1: But it's like it's a really cool thing of even

810
00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:24,280
Speaker 1: if you think about any problem you have with anyone

811
00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 1: or anything, and then just being able to under like

812
00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:32,279
Speaker 1: if you can be like, okay, if it wasn't about them,

813
00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:34,719
Speaker 1: because often we're like, no, it's just them. They're just

814
00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:39,279
Speaker 1: really annoying, you know, It's like it's them if we

815
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:42,960
Speaker 1: bring it back from let's dissolve like the fucking person.

816
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:46,640
Speaker 1: But it's like, what are they showing me? That is

817
00:42:46,760 --> 00:42:50,360
Speaker 1: what's the what's the thing that's triggering me? And like

818
00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 1: where have I either suppressed that for myself or it's

819
00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:59,320
Speaker 1: like where either am I actually that? And I don't

820
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:03,520
Speaker 1: like it because that's usually the thing of yeah, yeah,

821
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:06,279
Speaker 1: you're even jealous because you didn't have the guts to

822
00:43:06,360 --> 00:43:07,440
Speaker 1: do it m.

823
00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:13,360
Speaker 3: Or it's mirroring something that you feel internally guilt or

824
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:13,960
Speaker 3: shame about.

825
00:43:14,360 --> 00:43:16,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think the big thing here too is

826
00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:19,719
Speaker 1: what we don't do is we don't even let ourselves

827
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:22,000
Speaker 1: go through that process that we just did a tia

828
00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:25,320
Speaker 1: because we feel fucking bad for doing it, like this person,

829
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:28,360
Speaker 1: She's like, I generally fucking want to heal my relationship

830
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:31,440
Speaker 1: with Georgie because like she enjoys the potty and I

831
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:35,000
Speaker 1: feel like she gets it. But also it's like, can

832
00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:39,680
Speaker 1: we actually have this process and use people as tools

833
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:42,480
Speaker 1: and mirrors and be like, cool, let's unpack this and

834
00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:45,880
Speaker 1: do it in a non shaming guilt way. Yeah, And

835
00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:47,720
Speaker 1: it actually just gets to be a really cool experience

836
00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:52,240
Speaker 1: of like, oh cool, yeah, and feeling okay for feeling

837
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:55,640
Speaker 1: jealous or shame or guilt or pissed off or triggered

838
00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:59,000
Speaker 1: by someone like you should feeling fucking any emotion? Yeah,

839
00:43:59,040 --> 00:44:01,400
Speaker 1: how much do we feel emotion and feel ashamed of

840
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:02,120
Speaker 1: feeling an emotion?

841
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:02,759
Speaker 3: I know?

842
00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 4: And then it's just like this little spiral.

843
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:08,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, it does sound like she's on the cusp cusp

844
00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:09,399
Speaker 3: our favorite word.

845
00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 4: You're on the cusp.

846
00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:10,960
Speaker 2: Girl.

847
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:13,560
Speaker 1: She'll listen to this and be.

848
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:17,440
Speaker 3: Like, oh, yeah, thanks for unpacking it for me, And

849
00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:19,399
Speaker 3: then she'll be like cool, I.

850
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 1: Can see or maybe she won't fit you know who

851
00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:26,759
Speaker 1: are come jump back into the DMS and let us

852
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:27,920
Speaker 1: know what you think.

853
00:44:27,960 --> 00:44:30,560
Speaker 4: I generally would love to know me too. I do

854
00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:32,279
Speaker 4: a little part to her, and guys said us more

855
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:34,640
Speaker 4: questions like this, Yes, we loved it.

856
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:37,319
Speaker 1: Tell me how I treat you and we will pack

857
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:39,120
Speaker 1: it for you. Also, let's do on for a tea.

858
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:44,200
Speaker 1: It's all funny, guys, we're paying Georgie out, isn't it?

859
00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:53,440
Speaker 4: Am I being triggered? I'm so curious. It's you.

860
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:57,760
Speaker 1: I was having this conversation with myself. What's not really conversation,

861
00:44:57,840 --> 00:45:01,439
Speaker 1: is it. I was having this I call it conversation. Okay, yeah,

862
00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:04,200
Speaker 1: we'll call it combo. I was having this conversation with myself.

863
00:45:04,239 --> 00:45:08,719
Speaker 1: It is very interesting to have a podcast and to

864
00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:12,279
Speaker 1: put so much of my life out for people to

865
00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:16,440
Speaker 1: like no, no, and see and feel, because it's like

866
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:19,760
Speaker 1: so much of the time I am processing so much,

867
00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:23,680
Speaker 1: and like my whole thing is I'm so transparent with

868
00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:25,960
Speaker 1: you guys. That's like I will bring stuff in that

869
00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:27,759
Speaker 1: I'm processing myself.

870
00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:29,239
Speaker 4: And I did think.

871
00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:31,479
Speaker 1: I was like, I was wondering if people can kind

872
00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:34,839
Speaker 1: of grasp when I'm like processing something or it's like

873
00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:37,320
Speaker 1: when I'm not yet to the point where I've gotten

874
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:39,120
Speaker 1: over it, but it's like I still bring it in

875
00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:42,399
Speaker 1: and A big thing for me is like I love

876
00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:46,120
Speaker 1: that because I never want to be the guru. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I never wanted to be the person in the room

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Speaker 1: who knows everything. I want to be constantly learning and

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00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:57,880
Speaker 1: constantly unpacking new layers and textures of myself. And like,

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00:45:58,040 --> 00:46:00,320
Speaker 1: the podcast has been such a healing journey for me

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00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:03,920
Speaker 1: because I literally do it as I'm doing the episode. Yeah,

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00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:06,960
Speaker 1: and now I love it. I hope people know that,

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Speaker 1: and I hope people can again be able to hold

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Speaker 1: the duality of like one week I could be really

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Speaker 1: feeling into and processing something, and then the next week,

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Speaker 1: not that my mind changed, but you can see a

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00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:24,400
Speaker 1: new level of my evolution because it's like, for example,

888
00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:28,320
Speaker 1: again feeding into this question is if we don't allow

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00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:33,239
Speaker 1: people to grow and transform and evolve, it means we

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Speaker 1: don't let ourselves do that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So a big thing of like noticing even that of like, oh,

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00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:43,080
Speaker 1: do I expect this person to have all the answers

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Speaker 1: or do I expect this person to.

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Speaker 4: Be like evolving?

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00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:48,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, and allowing them.

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00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:51,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, that was just a random rant.

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Speaker 2: I love that.

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Speaker 3: No, I love that because my mum always saw me

900
00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:59,880
Speaker 3: hashtag thoughts. Yeah, if you stop learning, you're dead literally though,

901
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Speaker 3: So you know, you can never expect anyone to be

902
00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:04,880
Speaker 3: the same, and you just got to hope that they're growing.

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Speaker 1: And also, I really hope that I fucking never will.

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Speaker 1: But it's like if you go back and listen to

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Speaker 1: one of our first episodes and like even hear how

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00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:14,960
Speaker 1: I talk or how I process things, like, I hope

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00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 1: I'm a lot different. I fucking hope I even contradict

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00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:21,640
Speaker 1: myself now, because if you're not contradicting yourself, you're not growing.

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Speaker 2: If you have.

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Speaker 1: The same thoughts and the same way you do things

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00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:28,560
Speaker 1: like four years later like that, I don't see that

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Speaker 1: as a fucking good thing. I'm like, shit, you've just

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Speaker 1: missed four years of growing. Oh, So like yeah, and

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Speaker 1: I'm so open to that. I'm so open to you

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00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:40,040
Speaker 1: guys going back to old episodes and being like, she

916
00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:44,840
Speaker 1: literally says something completely different now and me being like yeah,

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00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:46,719
Speaker 1: and also you being able to like hold me in

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00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:48,840
Speaker 1: that and be like, yeah, well she's just evolved.

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Speaker 4: That's so true.

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Speaker 1: And that's what I also like being over generous with

921
00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:54,440
Speaker 1: other people too, and like that's what I hope for

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00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:55,359
Speaker 1: you guys too.

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Speaker 4: I hope you guys enjoyed this hotline.

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00:47:57,080 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was a bit of fun. Yeah, send more

925
00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:01,040
Speaker 1: questions like this. Yeah them, we love them.

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Speaker 2: Is this?

927
00:48:01,600 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 1: I feel like our community is like, all of a sudden,

928
00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:07,560
Speaker 1: they're like, let's fucking do it.

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Speaker 4: Let's get into my shadows. I love that so much.

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Speaker 1: All Right, thank you so much, guys, Thank you so

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Speaker 1: much for listening to another episode of the Rise and

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Speaker 1: Conquer podcast. If you enjoyed it and want more, come

933
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 1: connect with us on Instagram at Riseinconquer dot podcast and

934
00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:36,279
Speaker 1: join our Facebook discussion group, a Rise and Concer podcast community.

935
00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 1: We're an independent podcast and we have a small team,

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Speaker 1: so we do appreciate your time and support. If you

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00:48:42,719 --> 00:48:46,280
Speaker 1: have a spare moment, a follow or subscribe on whatever

938
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:50,600
Speaker 1: platform you listen to would be so amazing. And look,

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00:48:50,640 --> 00:48:54,279
Speaker 1: if you're feeling extra kind, a review on Apple Podcasts

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Speaker 1: would be great.