1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:03,040 Speaker 1: Jum mission with Jones and Amanda. 2 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:06,440 Speaker 2: We all live in an online filtered world, A little 3 00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:09,160 Speaker 2: touch up here, a hashtag there. We know that what 4 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:13,680 Speaker 2: we see at a fundamental level isn't real, but we 5 00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 2: also know it can be hard not to compare. That's 6 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:19,479 Speaker 2: why Instagram has teamed up with the Butterfly Foundation to 7 00:00:19,560 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 2: launch body Kind online. Here to tell us more is 8 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:26,200 Speaker 2: one of its fabulous influence. As someone I've worked with 9 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 2: on the living Room who I love very much, Denny Tdorovich. 10 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 1: Hello, hello, darling. How are you? 11 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 3: We are great? 12 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 1: Now? 13 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:35,239 Speaker 2: For those who don't know you, Denny, tell us a 14 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:35,839 Speaker 2: bit about you. 15 00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:40,239 Speaker 1: Sure, so, my name is Denny. I use they then pronouns. 16 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:43,680 Speaker 1: I am a full time content creator. I host a 17 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:46,680 Speaker 1: podcast and a sort of form of fashion editor in 18 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:47,880 Speaker 1: a different way. 19 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 2: And you've had to work through a lot of issues 20 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:53,760 Speaker 2: yourself about your body and how you feel about your 21 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:56,600 Speaker 2: body and the way you portrayed online. So tell us 22 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 2: why then you were drawn to this campaign? 23 00:00:59,640 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 1: Yes, so, I guess to give some context to your listeners, 24 00:01:02,640 --> 00:01:06,399 Speaker 1: I worked in fashion for about over a decade, and 25 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:09,480 Speaker 1: more specifically in fashion magazines for about seven years, and 26 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:13,199 Speaker 1: you know, I become very used to a world where 27 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: photoshop is used liberally, people's images and their bodies are 28 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 1: changed quite drastically, and that sort of really can impact 29 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:25,960 Speaker 1: your self esteem and your self worth and your relationship 30 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:29,000 Speaker 1: with your body. And then amongst that, Instagram sort of 31 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 1: joined the world probably like four years into my mag career, 32 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 1: and that changed things like infinitely because now suddenly it 33 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 1: wasn't just magazines that had the power to photoshop. It 34 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:42,319 Speaker 1: was also us in our own hands. And when you 35 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:45,759 Speaker 1: start to see these images on a daily basis, they 36 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 1: can really skew your your self worth in the way 37 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 1: that you feel about yourself. So when the Butterfly Foundation 38 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 1: reached out to me to be a part of this campaign, 39 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 1: I sort of jumped at the chance because body, our 40 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 1: relationships with our bodies is something that I seek about 41 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 1: a lot. 42 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:03,160 Speaker 2: It's one thing to say, and this is what a 43 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:05,920 Speaker 2: parent would say to a teenager, just don't look at 44 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 2: the comments. But it's us that get We all get 45 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 2: impacted by it, and it's easier said than done. So 46 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 2: what practically is this doing? I mean, what's the solution? 47 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 1: Yeah? I mean I think for me, it was really 48 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 1: about setting boundaries when I started using Instagram as a 49 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:26,800 Speaker 1: way to, I guess, educate and communicate people around the 50 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 1: trans experience. Specifically, I was, I guess privy to hate 51 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 1: and controlling that I'd never seen before. And you know, 52 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 1: it's quite confronting when someone is jumping on Instagram to 53 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 1: tell you to take your own life, or to lose weight, 54 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 1: or that your body hair definds your agenda like this, 55 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:48,080 Speaker 1: It's hard to not take these things personally. So for me, 56 00:02:48,400 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 1: it was really about setting boundaries limiting my interaction with 57 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 1: those types of comments. I mean, Instagram also now has 58 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 1: these great features where you can put keywords in the 59 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 1: back end of your account so that those sorts of 60 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 1: comments don't pop up. So it's just really about setting 61 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 1: boundaries for me, Amanda. It's like in my life, I 62 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:09,799 Speaker 1: wouldn't have anyone in my life that said those things 63 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 1: to me face to face, So then why should I, 64 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: you know, be confronted by that on a daily basis 65 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 1: on Instagram? You know? 66 00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:18,760 Speaker 3: But do you feel that we're rounding a corner with it. 67 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 3: I'm seeing more and more anecdotally, I'm meeting more and 68 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 3: more trans people, like people that I actually know and 69 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 3: surely that you know, I'm from an era where gay 70 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 3: bashing was acceptable in the eighties and when you look 71 00:03:33,320 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 3: back at that, that was horrific, and now people are 72 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 3: more and more accepting of it. So surely we're rounding 73 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:39,240 Speaker 3: a corner. 74 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:41,880 Speaker 1: I think so. And I think that's what makes it 75 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 1: even more hurtful, is because you know, trans people have 76 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:50,280 Speaker 1: existed since the beginning of human civilization, but only now 77 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 1: are they, say, are they starting to be sort of 78 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 1: let's say, accepted for want of a better term, and celebrated. 79 00:03:58,240 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 1: And we see this globally. It just seems so bizarre 80 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:06,600 Speaker 1: to me that we would make such a distinction. I mean, 81 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 1: it kind of feels very reminiscent to the Plema site 82 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 1: that we had many years ago, when it just, yeah, 83 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 1: it just seems so unnecessary and really damaging. And you know, 84 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 1: we will see those two asach its just sticks rise 85 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 1: because that's just what happened. And I just don't understand 86 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 1: why that would want to be the legacy of our country. 87 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:25,479 Speaker 1: Like it just yeah, boggles my mind. 88 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:27,720 Speaker 3: But don't let it keep you up, Denny, because we're 89 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:31,120 Speaker 3: talking about it, We're on the case. It's happening. It's happening, 90 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:33,279 Speaker 3: and you're doing a great job with it. Instagram and 91 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:38,039 Speaker 3: Butterfly have launched hashtag body kind online. Head to butterfly 92 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:40,359 Speaker 3: dot org dot are you to find out more. Denny, 93 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 3: thank you for joining us. 94 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:43,159 Speaker 1: Oh, thank you so much for having me. 95 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 2: Love your work, Danny, You talk to you later. 96 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 1: Jonesy and Amanda's