WEBVTT - Are you running away from your problems or is it time to make a change?

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<v Speaker 1>I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the

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<v Speaker 1>land on which this episode is being recorded, the Komboo

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<v Speaker 1>Marry people. We pay our respects to elders past, present

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<v Speaker 1>and emerging and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and

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<v Speaker 1>Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson,

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<v Speaker 1>and this is the Rise and Concer podcast. This is

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast where we ch have mindset, self development and

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<v Speaker 1>becoming your higher self mix soon with a lot of laughs,

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<v Speaker 1>plus behind the scenes of my life running two businesses

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<v Speaker 1>and being among Think of us as the perfect combo

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<v Speaker 1>of brunch with your besties mixed with self development. No

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<v Speaker 1>matter where you are in your journey, we're here to

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<v Speaker 1>help you be curious, pull yourself out, and embrace radical

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<v Speaker 1>self awareness. If you're ready to get into the driver's

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<v Speaker 1>seat of your own life and stop letting life pass

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<v Speaker 1>you by, then you're in the right place. Hello, my loves,

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<v Speaker 1>and welcome back to the potty. Okay, so I have

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of questions for you guys. Are you currently

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<v Speaker 1>stuck at a crossroads or are you trying to navigate

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<v Speaker 1>whether it's time to let go and move on or

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<v Speaker 1>push Because you might be on the edge of a breakthrough.

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<v Speaker 1>If these are questions currently in your brain, then today's

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<v Speaker 1>episode is for you. We unpack the power of pivoting,

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<v Speaker 1>how to know when it's time to make a change,

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<v Speaker 1>and how to know when it's time to stick with

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<v Speaker 1>it because you're almost there. If you struggle to allow

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<v Speaker 1>yourself to change or navigate change in general, then you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to love this episode. But before we get into it,

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<v Speaker 1>a tear Weekly Recommendations. Mind's a bit of a hack

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<v Speaker 1>if you do listen to audiobooks that's all you do,

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<v Speaker 1>over twelve years, so it's like I feel like I've

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<v Speaker 1>spoken to him about everything under the sun. So the

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<v Speaker 1>cards were just like amazing to really help that connection obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>help us have like some fun things to talk about.

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, they were just like a lot of fun,

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<v Speaker 1>ask which deck you were using? We got to get

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<v Speaker 1>into the episode before day. There may be another deck

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<v Speaker 1>covering and I may be using the new ones. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>tell Jamie we told you though. We'll get into the episode.

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<v Speaker 1>So today is going to be a fun quick episode

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<v Speaker 1>where we are chatting about pivoting, which is honestly, I

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<v Speaker 1>love this word right now, A dear, Yeah, me too.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think this is what's really fun about manifesting

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<v Speaker 1>and self development work is you get to have a

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<v Speaker 1>bit of fun with it and it can be this

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<v Speaker 1>like almost like you're playing You're playing a bit of

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<v Speaker 1>a game. Yeah, it is a bit of a game.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's what I think of what we're doing about

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<v Speaker 1>the pivoting concept. And basically, I think there is just

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<v Speaker 1>so much power in the pivot. When I think of

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<v Speaker 1>pivoting in a manifesting lens, pivoting is the universe redirecting you.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think society has really given us this warped

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<v Speaker 1>view of things shouldn't change and you shouldn't pivot, Like

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<v Speaker 1>even if you think about the concept. When I was

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<v Speaker 1>in school, you know, about ten years ago. It really

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<v Speaker 1>was like pick one job and that's your job for

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<v Speaker 1>the rest of your life. Yeah, and then you retire

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<v Speaker 1>and that's it. There was like I actually didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>any adults who didn't do more than one job. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>Like if I think of every adult like to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking when I'm like what sixteen. Yeah, Like my

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<v Speaker 1>dad he picked plumbing. He was the plumber for this

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<v Speaker 1>whole life. You know. My brothers were younger, but they

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<v Speaker 1>had done the same thing. My mom picked typewriting, became

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<v Speaker 1>a typewriter at court, but then had kids and every

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<v Speaker 1>went back to work. And I just really didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>any adults who had pivoted, who had done different things.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's like it just wasn't normalized to me. And

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<v Speaker 1>I really had this concept of like you peak one

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<v Speaker 1>thing and you don't pivot. And that's really why I

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<v Speaker 1>finished and completed my law degree, even though I probably

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<v Speaker 1>knew I didn't want to actually practice law, because I

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<v Speaker 1>had this thing of like you have to you have

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<v Speaker 1>to finish it. Yeah, you have to get it done.

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<v Speaker 1>And don't get me wrong, I love that I finished

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<v Speaker 1>my law degree and I got so many life skills,

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<v Speaker 1>but I really wasn't well versed on this like being normalizing,

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<v Speaker 1>changing your mind and pivoting. And I feel like in

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<v Speaker 1>the last couple of years, I've really leant into this

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<v Speaker 1>vibe of not only being like a multifacet person where

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<v Speaker 1>I'm able to change and evolve at a rapid rate

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<v Speaker 1>that honestly, I probably contradict myself after twelve months, but

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<v Speaker 1>also I'm happy to contradict myself. I think I've said

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<v Speaker 1>on the podcast before, I really hope that if you

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<v Speaker 1>listen to an episode a couple of years ago on

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast, I am contradicting myself and I'm saying something

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<v Speaker 1>different because I truly believe it's like, as humans, we

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<v Speaker 1>are meant to evolve, we are meant to change, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's just it's not normalized. So it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>let's start talking about how we should change and evolve

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<v Speaker 1>and almost have a bit of fun with pivoting in

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<v Speaker 1>our lives in manifesting. And I think the concept of

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<v Speaker 1>pivoting too is I love to think of quote unquote

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<v Speaker 1>setbacks or things that happen that you're like, oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't like that, They're not bad things or things that

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't have happened. It's just showing me what I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want in my life, what energy I don't want, what

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<v Speaker 1>things that I would want differently, And it's like these

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<v Speaker 1>really amazing lessons and things that are happening for me

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<v Speaker 1>to show me the life I do want, to show

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<v Speaker 1>me the person I do want. And I get to

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<v Speaker 1>make mistakes and I get to pivot, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>there's so much you know, power in the pivot on

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<v Speaker 1>your school example as well, don't you think that like

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<v Speaker 1>in school, pivoting is also frowned upon a little bit, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>or even like I've got this like thing in my

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<v Speaker 1>head of I remember my dad saying, you know, his

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<v Speaker 1>friend's daughter changed her degree like five times, and like

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<v Speaker 1>how disappointing it was. Yeah, and like what a mess

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<v Speaker 1>of a human you must be if you change your mind. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like hot mess, Yeah, hot mess vibes. And even every

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<v Speaker 1>time I think about pivoting, I think about high school

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<v Speaker 1>musical and that song they sing. I think I've said

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<v Speaker 1>this on the podcast before this, the song they sing

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<v Speaker 1>where they like stick to the status quo, like if

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<v Speaker 1>you're the basketball boy, you're only the basketball boy. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're the no girl, you're the nerd girl. You cannot

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<v Speaker 1>sing together, yeah, which is like the whole plot of

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<v Speaker 1>the first movie. But that's like reinforced within us from

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<v Speaker 1>such a young age because thinking back to school, like

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<v Speaker 1>people didn't really change their mind much like the kids

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<v Speaker 1>winning cross country in grade seven were kind of the

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<v Speaker 1>same as the kids winning cross country in grade twelve.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if it's just my school such a

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<v Speaker 1>great example, yeah, but like people didn't change and it

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<v Speaker 1>was frowned upon if you almost tried something new, because

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<v Speaker 1>that's what's ingrained in us from like such a young age.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's so funny because it really could be as

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<v Speaker 1>simple as if something's not working, pivot yeah, or change

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<v Speaker 1>if you're bought yeah, change change it up. Yeah. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's so many of us are like almost scared. And

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<v Speaker 1>I think even now thinking about it, it's like how

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<v Speaker 1>people say you need to pick a niche, you need

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<v Speaker 1>to have a niche, Like what do you enjoy? What's

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<v Speaker 1>your one thing? But it's like learning, like how you

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<v Speaker 1>said you started to embrace it. You're a multifaceted person.

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<v Speaker 1>It's learning that you're not just gonna have one thing

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<v Speaker 1>and that's okay, and also there's allowed to be stepping

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<v Speaker 1>stone things. Yeah. I think, like I even talk about

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<v Speaker 1>in my Journey of when I left Laura and I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know what I wanted to do. I had this

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<v Speaker 1>like twelve month period before me and Cooper started Naked

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<v Speaker 1>Harvest where I try a whole bunch of things, like

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<v Speaker 1>I released a cooking ebook just honestly, I was obviously

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<v Speaker 1>really into it at the moment. It's like so random

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<v Speaker 1>of me. I did presets like I just like dabbled

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<v Speaker 1>and was like, hm, what feels good to me? And

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<v Speaker 1>all those things were very successful because they were very

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<v Speaker 1>like authentically me in that moment. But they were like

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<v Speaker 1>these beautiful moments of just like leaning into what felt

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<v Speaker 1>good and they led to really amazing things. Yeah, And

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<v Speaker 1>I think sometimes people can be scared that it's like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I've got to do this thing. It's got to be

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<v Speaker 1>like the thing, yes, and it's got to work, and

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<v Speaker 1>I can't do anything other than this single option. And

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<v Speaker 1>the only person you're hurting when you decide that is yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's interesting too, because I think when things don't

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<v Speaker 1>go our way, we think it's like this really bad

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<v Speaker 1>thing but really it's like you're not blocked, you're just

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<v Speaker 1>being asked to pivot. So it's like where do I

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<v Speaker 1>need to go next? Where do I need to pivot?

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<v Speaker 1>And seeing that as a really really positive thing rather

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<v Speaker 1>than negative. Yeah, all right, guys. So if something's not

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<v Speaker 1>going your way, or if you're getting weird like feelings

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<v Speaker 1>about doing something different, I want you to ask yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>what is this showing me? Is this an invitation to

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<v Speaker 1>Because another thing with a pivot that I want you

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<v Speaker 1>guys to think about that I like to do is

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<v Speaker 1>if things aren't going my way, I really do see

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<v Speaker 1>this as an invitation to go deeper. As you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if something's triggering me, it's like, oh, what part of

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<v Speaker 1>me needs to heal? What part of me? Is this

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<v Speaker 1>showing that I get to work on. There is a

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<v Speaker 1>bit of a moment though, where you don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>just constantly pivot so you're never learning the lesson yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and just constantly oh it's not working, change, Oh it's

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<v Speaker 1>not working. Change. So there's so much power in the pivot,

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<v Speaker 1>but also make sure you're taking into consideration what's the

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<v Speaker 1>lesson here? Yeah? Is there a moment I can go deeper?

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<v Speaker 1>And figure out, Like, if something doesn't work, I always

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<v Speaker 1>love to like reflect and figure it out, because if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't, it's usually going to come back again again

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<v Speaker 1>in some other way. And so it's really important to

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<v Speaker 1>do the work on that. For example, if you find

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<v Speaker 1>someone and you see someone and they just like jump

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<v Speaker 1>from job to job to job to job to job

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<v Speaker 1>very quickly, and when you ask them about it, they're like, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>it just wasn't the right vibe. It just wasn't this,

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<v Speaker 1>It just wasn't that. But when you look at the timing,

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<v Speaker 1>it's almost that like every time there was a potential

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<v Speaker 1>challenge or something that was uncomfortable or something that would

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<v Speaker 1>have put them out of their comfort zone, instead of

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<v Speaker 1>doing the thing, they just went and got a different job. Yes, totally.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's about navigating that like, oh, is this just

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<v Speaker 1>a lesson I need to learn, or like is this

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<v Speaker 1>just an uncomfortable conversation I need to have to then

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<v Speaker 1>grow and then continue in this job, or is it

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<v Speaker 1>actually a bad environment for me and is it actually

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<v Speaker 1>not serving me? And navigating that decision, because if you

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<v Speaker 1>just jump from job to job to job to job

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<v Speaker 1>every time, you have to have an uncomfortable conversation. It's

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<v Speaker 1>inevitable that you're just going to keep changing because workplaces

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<v Speaker 1>come with conversations that aren't the most comfortable all the time. Yeah, totally.

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<v Speaker 1>That's such a great point. And I think again, it's

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<v Speaker 1>like noticing the patterns. If something is popping up more

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<v Speaker 1>than once, it's not a coincidence. That's what I like

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<v Speaker 1>to think, And it's like, Okay, what's the lesson here,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the thing that I need to learn and work

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<v Speaker 1>through and makes you do that and then pivot and

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<v Speaker 1>then change, And like, obviously it's going to depend on

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<v Speaker 1>the circumstance, but being consciously aware of that, I do

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<v Speaker 1>think like there's so much too like seasons. So I've

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<v Speaker 1>talked about this concept on the podcast for a very

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<v Speaker 1>long time of like understanding what season you are in

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<v Speaker 1>and this month and rise we are talking about alignment,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's really about understanding that just because something served

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<v Speaker 1>you at a certain time doesn't mean it's going to

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<v Speaker 1>serve you in the future. So maybe it's a friendship,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe it's a job, maybe it's a hobby you do,

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<v Speaker 1>you know whatever, It's like, it's okay for that to

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<v Speaker 1>be a season where that is perfect for you and

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<v Speaker 1>it serves you. But then it is okay to pivot

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<v Speaker 1>and change. But only you are going to know if

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<v Speaker 1>that is the right time, if that thing is not

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<v Speaker 1>serving you anymore. And that's a big thing. Is like

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<v Speaker 1>you need to lock into your intuition because only you

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<v Speaker 1>will know. And obviously we teach you the realignment formula

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<v Speaker 1>in the Rise at this month. It's called the Rose effect,

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<v Speaker 1>and I really bring you through this formula of like

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<v Speaker 1>when you need to realign because things aren't feeling right,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's like it's time to pivot, it's time to change.

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<v Speaker 1>But really leaning into I guess normalizing that because this

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<v Speaker 1>is I'm someone who's very disciplined where if something worked

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<v Speaker 1>for a certain amount of time, I even if it's uncomfortable,

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<v Speaker 1>I will continue to act and do that thing because

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<v Speaker 1>it worked at a certain time. Yeah, it's like logic,

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, yeah, logically, I'm like, I don't mind delayed gratification,

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<v Speaker 1>don't mind being a bit like not in the right

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<v Speaker 1>vibe because it's like it works, so I'm just going

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<v Speaker 1>to do it. Yeah, But what's really important is understanding

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<v Speaker 1>that if it doesn't feel good, it totally means it's

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<v Speaker 1>time to change, because when you realign, it should feel

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<v Speaker 1>easy and it should feel flowy. But we are totally

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<v Speaker 1>creatures of comfort and we like to stick to what

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<v Speaker 1>we know, and so that new like period of figuring

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<v Speaker 1>out what is the new? You know, comfortable, it's uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>So you can understand why we don't always like to pivot.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't always like to realign. And would you say

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<v Speaker 1>that fear of pivoting also has a lot to do

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<v Speaker 1>with fear of judgment from others, Yeah, and also like

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<v Speaker 1>judgment or yourself. Yeah, because I think that, like when

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<v Speaker 1>I think back to times when I've decided to pivot

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<v Speaker 1>or not or like I have pivoted, the main I

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<v Speaker 1>guess limiting belief for me has always been but what

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<v Speaker 1>are people going to think when they see that I've

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<v Speaker 1>done this? And I think that that's probably a really

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<v Speaker 1>common one, hugely, Yeah, I think, yeah, I think majority

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<v Speaker 1>of people for sure. Yeah, So how would you suggest

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<v Speaker 1>people sort of navigate that exact sort of belief when

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<v Speaker 1>it comes up in relation to pivoting, because I know

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<v Speaker 1>it comes up a lot in a lot of different scenarios,

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<v Speaker 1>but pivoting specifically, Yeah, that's a really great question, Tia. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's like judgment of others is because if

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<v Speaker 1>we're looking at this from like a shadow work lens,

0:17:51.040 --> 0:17:55.399
<v Speaker 1>you thinking others are judging you, is really you just

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<v Speaker 1>judging yourself. Yeah, that's like it's like no one can

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<v Speaker 1>make you feel certain way, only you can. So if

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<v Speaker 1>we bring it into that concept, it's really the work

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<v Speaker 1>of what's the belief behind you not wanting to make

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<v Speaker 1>the pivot and what's the belief behind the judgment. So

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<v Speaker 1>bringing it back to the example of like me having

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<v Speaker 1>that memory of dad saying that girl who changes her

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<v Speaker 1>degree five times is a hot mess. There there's the judgment. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's like I'm going to project, well, people are

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<v Speaker 1>going to judge me that I'm a hot mess, that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not I haven't got my shit sorted. But really

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<v Speaker 1>it's an internal judgment to myself from a belief from

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<v Speaker 1>childhood through my dad. Yeah. And I could simply do

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<v Speaker 1>the limiting belief blasting formula that we teach you in

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<v Speaker 1>Rise last month, and so I would go through that

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<v Speaker 1>belief and rewrite it, rewire my subconscious and then what

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<v Speaker 1>would happen is I wouldn't have that judgment anymore, because

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<v Speaker 1>that wouldn't be a belief anymore, right, and you could

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<v Speaker 1>put a new belief on top. You could create a

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<v Speaker 1>new belief that it's like the person who is listening

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<v Speaker 1>to that intuition, the person who is following their heart,

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<v Speaker 1>always has their dream reality, and you would replace it

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<v Speaker 1>with a new belief that feels better, that honors how

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<v Speaker 1>you want to feel. I love that. Yeah, that's what

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<v Speaker 1>I do. And that's even something I've been leaning into recently.

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<v Speaker 1>Is any time you think like you have a projection

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<v Speaker 1>that someone is judging you or you shouldn't do something

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<v Speaker 1>for judgment reasons. Yeah, really bringing it back to how

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<v Speaker 1>am I judging myself here? Because it's so easy to

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<v Speaker 1>put the blame on other people and society, and of

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<v Speaker 1>course it like it is, it's it's not actually us.

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<v Speaker 1>But if this was a judge on myself, like bringing

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<v Speaker 1>it back to their because I do find it's easier

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<v Speaker 1>to work through rewiring like my subconscious and my beliefs

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<v Speaker 1>when I do it that way. I love that. And

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<v Speaker 1>just asking yourself the question, because as long as you're

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<v Speaker 1>okay with what you're doing, it shouldn't matter. And this

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<v Speaker 1>is A really good thing to start is I guarantee

0:20:23.400 --> 0:20:26.439
<v Speaker 1>you if you judge yourself. Let's go back to my

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<v Speaker 1>example of being that person who's like a hot mess

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<v Speaker 1>because they change their mind, I catch yourself. I guarantee

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<v Speaker 1>you judge others. You would not judge yourself if you

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<v Speaker 1>weren't judging others for the same thing, If you weren't

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<v Speaker 1>judging others for the same thing. So the next time

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<v Speaker 1>that that comes up and your reality, catch yourself and go, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I was just about to judge that person and project

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<v Speaker 1>that they didn't have their shit together because they changed

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<v Speaker 1>their mind. Can I have a new belief on this?

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<v Speaker 1>Can I decide differently because you not putting judgment on

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<v Speaker 1>someone else will then reflect and you not judging yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that because it's almost that thing of like,

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<v Speaker 1>the people who have succeeded at doing what you want

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<v Speaker 1>to do will never judge you because they've been there totally.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's that thing like when it comes to pivoting.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess when I look at like people's stories, because

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<v Speaker 1>I love looking at people who've had insane amounts of success,

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<v Speaker 1>like their journey. There's always heaps of decisions that just

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<v Speaker 1>don't make sense until you look at the entire journey

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<v Speaker 1>as a whole and you're like, oh, I can kind

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<v Speaker 1>of see how they were feeling like that would have

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<v Speaker 1>been the right thing, but in the moment, there's no

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<v Speaker 1>way anyone ever thought that that was the right decision.

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<v Speaker 1>But then it falls into place and they're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>of course that made sense. But it's reinforcing that within yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Of like, if I trust my gut and my intuition

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<v Speaker 1>and being in tune with yourself and trusting yourself, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess then you can't go wrong, and that maybe in

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<v Speaker 1>ten years time, with hindsight, everyone will go I get

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<v Speaker 1>why she did what she did totally. And it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>also just would you rather live a life making decisions

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<v Speaker 1>from other people's projections and point of view, or would

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<v Speaker 1>you rather make a life where you get to decide

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<v Speaker 1>because it feels good for you and decide like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>getting into that because it's like I remember making decisions,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like doing my law degree, which is very

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<v Speaker 1>much I was trying to please other people, and I

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<v Speaker 1>felt so scat, I felt so like empty, whereas now

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<v Speaker 1>I make decisions from my heart and my intuition, and

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<v Speaker 1>they absolutely don't make sense to other people sometimes, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's like I can live with myself because they're mine exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're the only person you have to answer to

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of the day. Yes, yeah, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>my loves. I hope you loved this episode. If you

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<v Speaker 1>But thank you so much for listening, and if you

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<v Speaker 1>have any good pivot stories, oh yes, pop us. Yeah

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