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Speaker 1: Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson,

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Speaker 1: and this is the Rise and Concer podcast. This is

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Speaker 1: help you be curious, pull yourself out, and embrace radical

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Speaker 1: you by, then you're in the right place. Hello, my loves,

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Speaker 1: and welcome back to the potty. Okay, so I have

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Speaker 1: If these are questions currently in your brain, then today's

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Speaker 1: episode is for you. We unpack the power of pivoting,

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Speaker 1: it because you're almost there. If you struggle to allow

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Speaker 1: going to love this episode. But before we get into it,

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Speaker 1: where we are chatting about pivoting, which is honestly, I

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