WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Imaginary Ducks & Google Glasses 0:00:01.320 --> 0:00:05.200 A good pickup with Britt Hockley and Laura Burn. 0:00:05.600 --> 0:00:08.560 Bady what our windows down? 0:00:09.119 --> 0:00:09.560 My world? 0:00:09.600 --> 0:00:13.640 Reason the dust only good bad dog all down. I 0:00:13.880 --> 0:00:16.400 don't much, but yeah I'm not. 0:00:16.880 --> 0:00:18.560 I'll big get and what I want. 0:00:18.880 --> 0:00:21.360 It don't matter where. This is the. 0:00:21.360 --> 0:00:24.439 Pickup, Hi, guys, it's the pickup with Britt Hockey and 0:00:24.520 --> 0:00:25.079 Laura Burn. 0:00:25.480 --> 0:00:28.560 And it's Tuesday, and I feel like I have been 0:00:28.720 --> 0:00:32.800 hit by a bus my body. Let me just get 0:00:32.800 --> 0:00:35.440 you up to speed here. I for some reason said 0:00:35.479 --> 0:00:36.800 yes to Dancing with the Stars. 0:00:36.880 --> 0:00:38.440 You said you were enjoying it last week. 0:00:38.560 --> 0:00:42.320 I am enjoying it like most days mentally. But I 0:00:42.440 --> 0:00:45.239 thought I was relatively fit and healthy, like you know. 0:00:45.280 --> 0:00:47.000 I thought, you know, I've got a base level of fitness. 0:00:47.040 --> 0:00:47.879 I love sports. 0:00:48.080 --> 0:00:50.440 I can kick a ball. I went in there, and. 0:00:50.320 --> 0:00:52.880 That's right, because you're a baller. Now you love basketball. 0:00:52.920 --> 0:00:53.600 I'm a baller. 0:00:53.720 --> 0:00:56.440 In my spare time, I shoot some hoops. So I thought, 0:00:56.480 --> 0:00:58.880 you know, I'm going in there with this really solid foundation. 0:00:59.280 --> 0:01:02.000 Oh my sull god, my whole body is bruised and batter. 0:01:02.120 --> 0:01:03.920 They supply you with a phisio. They're like, if anyone 0:01:04.000 --> 0:01:05.080 needs physio, I'm booked. 0:01:05.080 --> 0:01:06.520 In every day. I need everything. 0:01:06.600 --> 0:01:08.200 Yep, He's like, what's the problem today? I was like 0:01:08.240 --> 0:01:10.360 my own childer knee rib hip. 0:01:10.800 --> 0:01:12.679 I don't think that that's the most of your worries, though. 0:01:12.680 --> 0:01:14.360 I saw one of your dancing videos and your foot 0:01:14.400 --> 0:01:16.520 keeps getting caught in your skirt. I think the wardrobe 0:01:16.560 --> 0:01:18.560 malthfunction is a bigger worry for you at this point. 0:01:18.800 --> 0:01:19.000 Bro. 0:01:19.760 --> 0:01:21.520 So we did somebody we did. 0:01:22.880 --> 0:01:23.919 I did because I'm. 0:01:23.760 --> 0:01:25.119 A baller, I'm a hooper. 0:01:25.600 --> 0:01:28.360 We did some like a dress rehearsal, and my heel 0:01:28.640 --> 0:01:32.280 keeps getting stuck in my skirt and literally like basically 0:01:32.319 --> 0:01:33.360 pulling it off my body. 0:01:33.400 --> 0:01:35.240 Well, at least we know that's gonna make great TV 0:01:35.319 --> 0:01:36.280 when it does eventually happen. 0:01:36.440 --> 0:01:38.840 Raon't give me more points? No, I mean you're on it. 0:01:38.840 --> 0:01:40.720 You know, when you make a mistake, they say, hey, 0:01:40.720 --> 0:01:42.520 if you make a mistake, you have to play on. 0:01:43.120 --> 0:01:45.360 If my skirt is off and I'm in a G string. 0:01:45.160 --> 0:01:46.680 Is that play on? Or do you stop down? 0:01:46.760 --> 0:01:47.160 Play on? 0:01:47.319 --> 0:01:48.120 In a g stream? 0:01:48.520 --> 0:01:49.960 Just go for gold drop it. 0:01:50.160 --> 0:01:52.600 Your legs are looking so good that actually you might 0:01:52.640 --> 0:01:53.720 get extra points if you. 0:01:53.680 --> 0:01:55.800 Think I am sashing around a dance floor on national 0:01:55.840 --> 0:01:56.960 television and a g banger. 0:01:57.520 --> 0:02:00.320 I think you have to wear like skims underneath. Anyway, 0:02:00.360 --> 0:02:01.160 we can unpack. 0:02:00.880 --> 0:02:02.559 That another day. Look, we've got a very big show 0:02:02.560 --> 0:02:03.400 coming up for you guys. 0:02:03.680 --> 0:02:06.040 There is a man in Australia who's currently being investigated 0:02:06.040 --> 0:02:09.960 by her police because he's been wearing these sunglasses which 0:02:10.000 --> 0:02:13.200 are now available, which actually record whatever it is that 0:02:13.280 --> 0:02:16.360 he's seeing. I hate this and women have been caught 0:02:16.400 --> 0:02:18.760 out by his secret filming of them. 0:02:18.880 --> 0:02:19.880 Yeah, that's so shitty. 0:02:21.320 --> 0:02:23.320 So there's something I want to talk to you about, Laura. 0:02:23.440 --> 0:02:26.560 There is an American TikToker here in Australia at the 0:02:26.560 --> 0:02:30.320 moment that basically a lot of women are saying leave, 0:02:30.520 --> 0:02:32.400 go back home, like you should not be allowed to 0:02:32.440 --> 0:02:34.160 be in Australia and doing what you're doing. 0:02:34.600 --> 0:02:37.520 So his name is It's Polo Kid. That's his like 0:02:37.600 --> 0:02:40.640 TikTok Instagram name. He's this huge TikToker. He's got like 0:02:40.639 --> 0:02:41.960 one point two million followers. 0:02:42.639 --> 0:02:46.800 He's famous for filming videos where he hits on women, 0:02:46.880 --> 0:02:48.480 like he'll go up to them wherever he is, he 0:02:48.560 --> 0:02:50.920 hits on them. He has some banter, he posts it 0:02:50.960 --> 0:02:55.200 and it goes viral. The problem is he's in Australia now, 0:02:55.240 --> 0:02:57.919 he's actually in Sydney at the moment, and he has 0:02:58.000 --> 0:03:01.600 got these new glasses that Raise have produced. So Rayband 0:03:01.600 --> 0:03:04.959 have produced these glasses that look identical to a normal 0:03:05.000 --> 0:03:08.760 pair of ray Bands, but they film, They literally film 0:03:08.800 --> 0:03:11.440 whatever he's looking at. So he has been walking up 0:03:11.480 --> 0:03:13.919 to people like women on the beach in their bikinis 0:03:14.040 --> 0:03:17.120 whatever else. These women do not know they're being filmed. 0:03:17.440 --> 0:03:19.880 He's hitting on them, having these conversations with them, filming 0:03:19.919 --> 0:03:22.240 them while they're in their wimen where, posting it without 0:03:22.280 --> 0:03:22.800 their consent. 0:03:23.000 --> 0:03:24.720 And these videos are going viral. 0:03:24.919 --> 0:03:27.480 I mean, surely if someone like Rayband's making glasses, there's 0:03:27.520 --> 0:03:29.720 something on them. Like, I don't understand how you can 0:03:29.760 --> 0:03:32.200 make a pair of glasses look identical to a normal 0:03:32.240 --> 0:03:33.800 pair and then still be able to film. 0:03:33.840 --> 0:03:35.960 Yeah, have look at this. They're exactly the same as 0:03:36.040 --> 0:03:36.440 ray Bands. 0:03:36.440 --> 0:03:38.920 Oh my god, They're like, there's nothing no. 0:03:39.160 --> 0:03:40.760 So this is where it gets worse, right, and this 0:03:40.800 --> 0:03:44.560 is what's really grinding my gears. Women have found out 0:03:44.840 --> 0:03:46.520 through other people that they've been filmed. 0:03:46.560 --> 0:03:48.160 They have messaged him. 0:03:48.000 --> 0:03:50.400 To say, hey, I did not consent to this, I 0:03:50.440 --> 0:03:53.680 did not know take my video down and he's blocking them, 0:03:53.760 --> 0:03:55.000 like block delete. 0:03:54.720 --> 0:03:56.600 Can just keep in contact for clout. 0:03:56.840 --> 0:03:58.520 Okay, I'm just getting my head around the idea of 0:03:58.520 --> 0:04:02.120 these glasses. It's wild that in itself is like exploiting 0:04:02.160 --> 0:04:05.320 these women, but it's so dangerous for so many other reasons, 0:04:05.320 --> 0:04:07.040 Like you could walk into a public change room and 0:04:07.080 --> 0:04:09.600 be wearing those sunglasses. Like I think about going to 0:04:09.640 --> 0:04:11.600 the beach and walking into like a beach change room 0:04:11.600 --> 0:04:13.640 where women might be naked or people might be naked. 0:04:14.040 --> 0:04:16.320 It seems like something that should be illegal. Like it 0:04:16.360 --> 0:04:18.760 seems like something that if someone's wearing that, at least 0:04:18.800 --> 0:04:20.280 if someone's got a phone in their hand, you can 0:04:20.360 --> 0:04:22.840 kind of tell if someone's filming because of the way 0:04:22.839 --> 0:04:25.640 they've got to hold their phone. So totally wearing glasses, 0:04:25.640 --> 0:04:27.760 it's like they can get away with it without being detected. 0:04:28.080 --> 0:04:29.120 And what are they using that for? 0:04:29.200 --> 0:04:32.320 Like what about kids in parks or there's so many 0:04:32.480 --> 0:04:35.599 environments that make the people that are being filmed very vulnerable. 0:04:35.640 --> 0:04:38.440 It's so problematic even just like this is top level, 0:04:38.440 --> 0:04:40.080 what you just said is so much worse, But just 0:04:40.080 --> 0:04:42.479 think about like walking around your office or something, or 0:04:42.480 --> 0:04:44.640 your boss or whoever it is wearing these glasses and 0:04:44.680 --> 0:04:47.120 filming everything that happens, things that you think of private 0:04:47.120 --> 0:04:49.080 conversations to use against someoney. 0:04:49.120 --> 0:04:50.280 I think that's where it's going to go. 0:04:50.400 --> 0:04:51.960 Like, I think this is going to be used for 0:04:52.040 --> 0:04:54.080 some really negative, malicious things. 0:04:53.920 --> 0:04:55.440 More so than it's going to be used for good 0:04:55.520 --> 0:04:55.960 in the world. 0:04:56.080 --> 0:04:58.480 If you're going to do this, RAYBN needs to make 0:04:58.520 --> 0:05:01.000 something where if it's in cord mode, I don't know 0:05:01.040 --> 0:05:03.440 how it works, maybe are lights on it, maybe it 0:05:03.520 --> 0:05:04.159 changes color. 0:05:04.200 --> 0:05:06.080 Like people need to be aware that they're being filmed. 0:05:06.120 --> 0:05:09.120 I know in Japan you cannot take a photo on 0:05:09.160 --> 0:05:11.800 a phone in Japan without it making the shut a 0:05:11.880 --> 0:05:14.680 sound like it goes so that everyone. 0:05:14.360 --> 0:05:16.679 Is aware if there are secret photos and videos being taken. 0:05:16.680 --> 0:05:18.479 And I think that's really brilliant. 0:05:18.120 --> 0:05:20.440 In Australia, especially in useft Wales, because I'm sure the 0:05:20.480 --> 0:05:22.800 laws are different in every state, but it's illegal to 0:05:22.839 --> 0:05:25.120 record someone without their consent in usef Wales and can 0:05:25.120 --> 0:05:26.640 carry up to five years imprisonment. 0:05:26.960 --> 0:05:28.800 We even know this from radio, Like we've got to. 0:05:28.800 --> 0:05:32.040 Make people aware that they're being audio recorded for radio. 0:05:32.160 --> 0:05:35.560 We can't just secretly record them. And if something secretly recorded, 0:05:35.600 --> 0:05:37.280 you have to get their consent in order to play 0:05:37.279 --> 0:05:37.599 it out. 0:05:37.640 --> 0:05:40.159 But then how did paparazzi get away with that? Then 0:05:40.440 --> 0:05:42.080 are they in media? So it's like a different law 0:05:42.120 --> 0:05:43.679 because they film people all the time. 0:05:43.760 --> 0:05:46.640 I think it is because if you are deemed as 0:05:46.680 --> 0:05:49.680 a public figure, or you're deemed as a celebrity personality, 0:05:49.760 --> 0:05:52.080 then you kind of off limits from those sort of exemptions. 0:05:52.360 --> 0:05:55.120 I mean, it's interesting because having like a random dude 0:05:55.240 --> 0:05:57.280 hiding in a bush taking videos of you and your 0:05:57.320 --> 0:05:58.840 kid is very very intrusive. 0:05:58.880 --> 0:05:59.960 And we've talked about this before. 0:06:00.320 --> 0:06:04.039 Yeah, I remember that years ago, they got you breastfeeding, 0:06:04.320 --> 0:06:07.040 and that was like one thing, take my photos I'm 0:06:07.040 --> 0:06:09.640 walking on the street. Another thing to impose on such 0:06:09.680 --> 0:06:12.080 a moment and then like display that all over the news. 0:06:12.160 --> 0:06:15.279 Also, I remember turn I was sitting on the grass, 0:06:15.480 --> 0:06:17.320 like in a park with a girlfriend of mine, having 0:06:17.360 --> 0:06:20.479 a chat, and I was breastfeeding my oldest daughter now 0:06:20.600 --> 0:06:24.080 and I remember looking across and he literally was hiding 0:06:24.520 --> 0:06:26.839 behind like the side of a wall and a bush, 0:06:26.839 --> 0:06:28.800 and I just saw the black lens of the camera 0:06:29.360 --> 0:06:31.680 And it wasn't until later that I saw who it 0:06:31.760 --> 0:06:34.599 was that walked past. I recognized the paparazzi and I 0:06:34.680 --> 0:06:37.679 was so enraged because I was like, you just hid 0:06:37.880 --> 0:06:40.560 to take photos of me feeding my kid? How is 0:06:40.600 --> 0:06:42.520 this news? And how is this something? It felt, and 0:06:42.560 --> 0:06:44.599 how is it okay? Yeah, it felt so invasive. I 0:06:44.600 --> 0:06:47.839 can only imagine how these women felt, especially probably humiliated. 0:06:47.880 --> 0:06:49.760 To be honest, I think kick him out. I can 0:06:49.760 --> 0:06:50.520 go back to America. 0:06:50.839 --> 0:06:52.760 Yeah, I mean he should be in a lot of 0:06:52.760 --> 0:06:54.720 trouble for doing these types of things. 0:06:55.360 --> 0:06:55.560 Now. 0:06:55.640 --> 0:07:00.240 I had possibly the most wildest and quick turnaround to 0:07:00.279 --> 0:07:01.599 Africa in the last couple of days. 0:07:01.640 --> 0:07:03.640 I think you could say the weekend from hell almost. 0:07:04.279 --> 0:07:05.000 I feel really. 0:07:04.800 --> 0:07:07.680 Bad saying that, because we had this really beautiful reunion. 0:07:07.960 --> 0:07:09.720 My husband was on im, get me out of here. 0:07:09.760 --> 0:07:12.120 I took the kids over to South Africa for us 0:07:12.200 --> 0:07:15.960 to have this like very genuinely beautiful moment on TV 0:07:16.080 --> 0:07:20.080 where we got to see him again, and it was stunning, stunning, 0:07:20.320 --> 0:07:22.280 so emotional, so beautiful, so many tears. 0:07:22.320 --> 0:07:23.920 It was like there was not a dry ironshit. The 0:07:24.000 --> 0:07:25.040 video was so beautiful. 0:07:25.040 --> 0:07:27.720 It's gone viral, but well, I mean there's been a 0:07:27.760 --> 0:07:28.560 lot of comments. 0:07:28.680 --> 0:07:31.560 I don't know what constitutes viral these days, whatever, just 0:07:32.000 --> 0:07:32.720 it's viral. 0:07:32.520 --> 0:07:34.480 Go follow my Instagram Lady in Cat and Brittany Huk. 0:07:35.000 --> 0:07:37.239 I'm joking, no. 0:07:37.080 --> 0:07:39.200 But the thing is that I haven't really been able 0:07:39.200 --> 0:07:41.360 to talk about and for any parent who has done 0:07:41.520 --> 0:07:46.119 solo international travel with two young children, it's really really hard. 0:07:46.200 --> 0:07:48.559 Like I have trouble on my own, and that's hard too. 0:07:49.200 --> 0:07:51.160 But the thing is when you're traveling with two little kids, 0:07:51.160 --> 0:07:53.240 like my kids are four and five and doing three 0:07:53.320 --> 0:07:55.840 separate flights, which was what our trip over to South 0:07:55.880 --> 0:07:59.040 Africa was. It was like twenty four or twenty five 0:07:59.120 --> 0:08:02.320 hours of you as travel to get to see mat 0:08:02.760 --> 0:08:06.800 and we had the tantrum to trump all tantrums. So 0:08:07.280 --> 0:08:08.840 we got to Singapore and we had a one hour 0:08:08.920 --> 0:08:10.400 layover and I did. 0:08:10.200 --> 0:08:11.640 Not think it was the middle of the night. 0:08:11.960 --> 0:08:14.160 I get them off the plane and like they are 0:08:14.760 --> 0:08:17.880 so tired, absolutely wrecked, and on the plane they've both 0:08:17.880 --> 0:08:19.880 been playing with this sticker book, like they both got 0:08:19.920 --> 0:08:22.000 their own individual sticker books. 0:08:22.040 --> 0:08:23.080 Such a good travel hack. 0:08:23.120 --> 0:08:26.440 If you've got little kids on planes three hundred stickers each, Wow, 0:08:26.480 --> 0:08:27.920 Like there's no way you're going to get through three 0:08:28.000 --> 0:08:30.640 hundred stickers, Like we've got stickers for days. So we 0:08:30.680 --> 0:08:32.960 get off the plane, and it's at that point that 0:08:33.080 --> 0:08:38.480 Lola takes a single sticker from Marley's sticker book, just one. 0:08:38.559 --> 0:08:41.480 The tantrum that followed that went for forty five minutes 0:08:41.559 --> 0:08:44.679 until we boarded the next plane. Marley was so distressed 0:08:44.679 --> 0:08:46.959 by losing one single sticker that she tried to get 0:08:47.040 --> 0:08:49.880 naked because she couldn't handle the rage that she fell 0:08:49.920 --> 0:08:50.439 in her body. 0:08:51.960 --> 0:08:53.680 I'm so angry, I must be naked. 0:08:53.760 --> 0:08:55.360 I don't know what it is with my children that 0:08:55.400 --> 0:08:56.760 when they're angry, they get naked. 0:08:57.000 --> 0:08:58.960 Yeah, Lola's been known to take your pants off. 0:08:58.840 --> 0:09:00.680 Like I don't get nude when I get mad. I 0:09:00.720 --> 0:09:01.600 was gonna say, kids. 0:09:01.520 --> 0:09:04.040 Usually learn from their parents. So do you and Matt 0:09:04.160 --> 0:09:06.080 just have an argument of a dinner and something start 0:09:06.080 --> 0:09:09.560 taking clothes off for different You cooked tonight, BRA's off? 0:09:09.559 --> 0:09:10.760 No, you cook pants off? 0:09:11.240 --> 0:09:13.000 No, we surprisingly don't. 0:09:13.200 --> 0:09:14.920 I think it's because they've got so much rage in 0:09:14.960 --> 0:09:17.720 their little bodies and they need to get it out 0:09:17.720 --> 0:09:19.320 in some way, and they know they can't hit their sister, 0:09:19.440 --> 0:09:21.520 so instead they just strip. But this is the thing, right, 0:09:21.600 --> 0:09:24.640 Sometimes your kids will have arguments like the ground zero 0:09:24.720 --> 0:09:27.880 of the argument itself is so dumb. It's so dumb 0:09:27.960 --> 0:09:31.680 that it's almost impossible to have any like understanding or 0:09:31.760 --> 0:09:35.360 reasoning or anything with the most outrageously stupid argument. And 0:09:35.360 --> 0:09:37.839 that's where we were at in the middle of the night. Well, 0:09:37.880 --> 0:09:39.120 I want to make you feel a little bit better. 0:09:39.240 --> 0:09:41.280 Bree just wrote in and said my son had a 0:09:41.320 --> 0:09:43.920 tantrum because his ears were stuck to his head. 0:09:44.200 --> 0:09:44.840 Bless him. 0:09:45.880 --> 0:09:47.520 He's gonna be happy for that when he's older. My 0:09:47.600 --> 0:09:50.280 husband had to have her what's it called ears pinned back, 0:09:50.320 --> 0:09:51.840 and he paid a lot of money for that. 0:09:51.920 --> 0:09:53.640 He wants to get them taken off, so I don't 0:09:53.640 --> 0:09:55.960 think he's gonna okay. Hannah has written in and said 0:09:56.000 --> 0:09:58.160 my toddler had a tantrum because she decided that she 0:09:58.240 --> 0:09:59.240 hated her shadow and. 0:09:59.240 --> 0:10:02.200 It would have weaver. She couldn't get away from her shadow. 0:10:02.720 --> 0:10:04.079 Just turn the lights off. No, put it in a 0:10:04.120 --> 0:10:05.280 dark room. Turn the lights off. 0:10:05.320 --> 0:10:07.200 We've got Tory on the line. Tory, what did your 0:10:07.200 --> 0:10:08.400 toddler have a tantrum about? 0:10:09.080 --> 0:10:11.880 She was upset that the dog could not carry her 0:10:11.920 --> 0:10:12.600 up the stairs. 0:10:13.240 --> 0:10:14.760 Now dog, how big is the dog? 0:10:16.160 --> 0:10:18.440 He's a French bull dog, very little. 0:10:19.160 --> 0:10:21.240 Well, she wanted to like ride him up the stairs. 0:10:21.720 --> 0:10:24.240 No, she fully wanted him to use his paws and 0:10:24.360 --> 0:10:28.360 carry her up the stairs. Oh bless, she threw herself 0:10:28.400 --> 0:10:30.199 on the ground and she refused to come up. 0:10:30.360 --> 0:10:33.679 So understandable. Understandable, Tory. Thanks for the call, Jess. We've 0:10:33.679 --> 0:10:35.240 got Jess on the line. What did your told to 0:10:35.280 --> 0:10:36.120 have a tantrum about? 0:10:36.840 --> 0:10:40.320 She had a tantrum because we have two kitchen sinks 0:10:40.360 --> 0:10:41.880 and she only wanted one. 0:10:42.760 --> 0:10:44.160 Kids are so cooked? 0:10:45.080 --> 0:10:47.560 Did she know that people would die for two kitchen sinks? 0:10:47.600 --> 0:10:50.800 You're like, we're very lucky, Like that's last, that's expensive. 0:10:51.440 --> 0:10:51.680 Yeah. 0:10:51.760 --> 0:10:53.840 I was like, it's not a fixable problem. They can't 0:10:53.880 --> 0:10:54.400 remove one. 0:10:54.600 --> 0:10:56.120 What was it about the two things that she was 0:10:56.160 --> 0:10:57.199 particularly upset about. 0:10:58.120 --> 0:11:00.640 I think she only had just realized we had two 0:11:00.720 --> 0:11:02.719 because there's always been a cover on one of them 0:11:02.720 --> 0:11:05.360 and I was cleaning it and so, yeah, not a 0:11:05.360 --> 0:11:08.880 good morning. Absolutely melt down over the realization that we 0:11:08.960 --> 0:11:09.319 had too. 0:11:09.559 --> 0:11:12.440 Yeah, her whole reality just changed. She freaked her out. 0:11:12.440 --> 0:11:14.920 Thanks for the cor Jazz, Sasha, what did your toddler 0:11:14.960 --> 0:11:16.400 have a tantrum about? 0:11:16.960 --> 0:11:20.000 Okay, so was actually me that had the tantrum, But 0:11:20.200 --> 0:11:25.280 essentially what my sister stole my imaginary Doug, and I 0:11:25.480 --> 0:11:26.679 was in hysteric. 0:11:26.880 --> 0:11:29.760 Oh you meant as a kid you had a tan? Yes? 0:11:29.880 --> 0:11:31.720 No, But like, how did you know that she's stolen it? 0:11:31.760 --> 0:11:34.240 If it was an imaginary I don't know. 0:11:34.480 --> 0:11:37.200 I would have been like four. And I came out 0:11:37.280 --> 0:11:40.000 and my sister then followed me, and she was patting 0:11:40.040 --> 0:11:43.120 the air and said, nice jucky, nice ducky. 0:11:44.520 --> 0:11:46.880 Do you know what, though, is if it's your imaginations 0:11:46.960 --> 0:11:49.400 made believe and someone's gaslighting you into thinking that has 0:11:49.400 --> 0:11:51.079 been stolen, I can understand. 0:11:50.679 --> 0:11:51.680 Why you would have believed that. 0:11:51.800 --> 0:11:56.160 Like, while your imagination sort of switched into your sister's narrative, I. 0:11:56.200 --> 0:11:57.840 Like, you're trying to breize in this bridge. 0:11:58.000 --> 0:12:01.199 I am, I can understand this robotiz. Yeah, I actually 0:12:01.240 --> 0:12:01.680 feel for you. 0:12:01.760 --> 0:12:03.240 Hey, Sasha, how old are you now? 0:12:04.000 --> 0:12:04.800 I'm twenty five. 0:12:04.880 --> 0:12:06.400 Well, I'm glad that you've held onto this for all 0:12:06.400 --> 0:12:06.840 these years. 0:12:06.840 --> 0:12:08.679 I hope you got your imaginary duck back and your 0:12:08.720 --> 0:12:09.959 parents intervene. 0:12:10.679 --> 0:12:11.800 Thank you so much. 0:12:12.360 --> 0:12:15.120 I really did think though his question, like how old 0:12:15.160 --> 0:12:17.360 are you when you stop having these tantrums? Because I thought, 0:12:17.400 --> 0:12:20.240 like five, Marley's age five ish six, I thought that 0:12:20.360 --> 0:12:22.040 was on the other end of tantrums like that. 0:12:22.240 --> 0:12:25.160 I think Tired plays a massive, massive like a part 0:12:25.240 --> 0:12:27.400 in this. Also, you know you're never too old to 0:12:27.400 --> 0:12:28.440 miss your imaginary duck. 0:12:30.559 --> 0:12:30.760 Now. 0:12:30.800 --> 0:12:32.760 We get asked a lot on our podcast, Life un 0:12:32.760 --> 0:12:36.240 Cut podcast about wedding questions and Hen's parties questions. 0:12:36.679 --> 0:12:39.120 And there's a thread that's going off in the Mama 0:12:39.200 --> 0:12:41.160 mea like community. 0:12:40.640 --> 0:12:44.040 Facebook group that has sparked a really big debate surrounding 0:12:44.040 --> 0:12:46.080 Hen's parties. So I'm just going to read it for you. 0:12:46.520 --> 0:12:48.920 A pretty good friend of mine is having a Hen's party. 0:12:49.080 --> 0:12:51.480 It's a two hundred and fifty dollars per person lunch. 0:12:52.200 --> 0:12:54.040 It's going to be a struggle to afford that in 0:12:54.080 --> 0:12:56.240 our budget, especially when I have the wedding in a 0:12:56.280 --> 0:12:59.240 few weeks, because I have to factor in expensive gifts, accommodation, 0:12:59.360 --> 0:13:02.280 and baby. She's the type of person who is going 0:13:02.320 --> 0:13:04.720 to be upset and angry if I don't go, and 0:13:04.760 --> 0:13:08.440 it will likely damage our friendship. So she goes on 0:13:08.480 --> 0:13:11.120 to say, like, knowing I can't afford it, do I 0:13:11.200 --> 0:13:15.079 put myself and my family first and not go? Knowing 0:13:15.080 --> 0:13:17.480 that she's got all these other expenses coming up, or 0:13:18.120 --> 0:13:20.200 does she have to like make some really personal cuts 0:13:20.200 --> 0:13:22.240 and cuts in her lifestyle and her family and home 0:13:22.280 --> 0:13:24.880 life so that she can afford this really expensive lunch 0:13:24.960 --> 0:13:28.480 so that she doesn't quote unquote lose her friend. 0:13:28.880 --> 0:13:31.240 I think Ken's parties in general are getting too expensive, 0:13:31.480 --> 0:13:33.880 absolutely really, And I get it, like, if you want 0:13:33.880 --> 0:13:36.720 to do something nice for your pre wedding celebrations, often 0:13:36.720 --> 0:13:39.440 that comes with a price tag. I mean, everything's kind 0:13:39.480 --> 0:13:41.400 of expensive at the moment. But I don't think that 0:13:41.440 --> 0:13:43.760 you can be angry at someone if they have said 0:13:43.800 --> 0:13:45.920 that they're not able to afford it. Like I think 0:13:46.000 --> 0:13:47.760 if it was free and they turned around and said, oh, 0:13:47.800 --> 0:13:49.400 I can't come, then you can have a reason to 0:13:49.400 --> 0:13:51.440 be like, well, you're not prioritize so it's important. 0:13:51.480 --> 0:13:53.839 Yeah, they hate you, Yeah, But if you're expecting. 0:13:53.440 --> 0:13:54.800 Someone to pay a lot of money to come to 0:13:54.840 --> 0:13:56.720 the wedding, They've got to pay for babysitters, they've got 0:13:56.760 --> 0:13:58.199 to buy a present, it's you know, they've got to 0:13:58.240 --> 0:14:00.600 travel to the wedding. I don't I think that you 0:14:00.640 --> 0:14:03.080 can be personally offended if someone tells you that they 0:14:03.120 --> 0:14:05.559 can't afford to go to your hens party. 0:14:05.320 --> 0:14:07.199 Well, it makes you think like for you to make 0:14:07.240 --> 0:14:09.640 the statement I might lose her as a friend if 0:14:09.679 --> 0:14:12.120 I don't go, Like spoiler, that's not a friend. 0:14:12.160 --> 0:14:12.400 Yeah. 0:14:12.440 --> 0:14:14.120 If a friend is going to drop. 0:14:13.920 --> 0:14:16.040 You because you say you can't afford to go to 0:14:16.080 --> 0:14:18.160 her HENS party, know when you're going to her wedding, 0:14:18.480 --> 0:14:20.360 I don't think that's a very good friend. But get this, 0:14:20.880 --> 0:14:24.640 According to Wedded Wonderland, Ozzie's are spending on average six 0:14:24.800 --> 0:14:27.600 hundred and fourteen dollars just on the HENS. 0:14:27.920 --> 0:14:30.600 I that's crazy. I actually can't believe that. I feel 0:14:30.640 --> 0:14:31.760 like that's too high. 0:14:32.040 --> 0:14:33.920 And when I think about it, I'm like I would 0:14:34.000 --> 0:14:37.240 normally I guess the kind of going rate amongst my friends. 0:14:37.400 --> 0:14:39.440 In the past few HENS parties I've been to has 0:14:39.480 --> 0:14:43.400 been over two hundred dollars, But six hundred seems absolutely crazy, 0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:45.440 Like where are these people going. They're going away on holidays, 0:14:45.480 --> 0:14:47.960 They're going away on mini vacations. Like it's one thing 0:14:48.000 --> 0:14:49.760 to have a lunch for a Hen's party, it's another 0:14:49.800 --> 0:14:52.000 thing to have like a full weekend away or something, 0:14:52.040 --> 0:14:53.560 and expect everyone to pay that sort of money. 0:14:53.600 --> 0:14:55.320 Well, even for the two hundred and fifty dollars for 0:14:55.360 --> 0:14:58.040 this lunch, Like this question, it was just a lunch 0:14:58.120 --> 0:14:59.880 and like true drinks or something. It's not like they're 0:14:59.880 --> 0:15:01.640 going to a buffet. It's not like they're going on 0:15:01.840 --> 0:15:03.480 a boat or it's nothing. 0:15:03.200 --> 0:15:06.800 Like elaborate or luxurious. That's just like a standard eat lunch. 0:15:06.880 --> 0:15:08.840 And what if you don't drink, Actually, that's a whole 0:15:08.880 --> 0:15:09.320 other thing. 0:15:09.320 --> 0:15:11.040 There's a lot of people who don't drink these days, 0:15:11.080 --> 0:15:12.960 and then they get footed with the same bill that 0:15:13.000 --> 0:15:15.440 everyone else is, like out of coke zero. I don't 0:15:15.480 --> 0:15:17.080 know my thing is, and like, I mean, I know 0:15:17.080 --> 0:15:19.680 I've already said it. But whatever hen's party you want 0:15:19.720 --> 0:15:22.960 to have, it's absolutely fine. You can organize and do 0:15:23.120 --> 0:15:25.240 whatever it is that you want to do, and it 0:15:25.240 --> 0:15:27.640 can be whatever price you want it to be. But 0:15:27.760 --> 0:15:29.920 you cannot be angry at people who don't want to go. 0:15:30.040 --> 0:15:31.520 I think that at the end of the day, if 0:15:31.520 --> 0:15:33.520