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Speaker 1: Our local barber, Tony.

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Speaker 5: He is very well known in the community and a

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Speaker 1: We are yet to decide who we're going to be

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Speaker 1: know spent a lot of time supporting you guys. That said,

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Speaker 1: it's a weird job whereby Yeah, you're just cutting someone's

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Speaker 1: hair or trimming them or whatever it is. But often

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Speaker 1: as I said, a world class barbershop quartet. I'm very,

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Speaker 1: very excited to say that. The two other members of

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Speaker 1: the barbershop coutet that we have in the studio today,

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Speaker 1: we've got Phil Burton from Human Nature and we've got

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Speaker 1: Rom Mels. Welcome by. Thank you guys. It's a pleasure

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Speaker 1: to be here. How exciting?

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Speaker 6: Can I just say?

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Speaker 7: Ye?

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Speaker 1: World class?

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Speaker 8: Oh yeah, it's a it's a broad term, isn't it

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Speaker 8: world class?

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Speaker 1: Do you think we're going to be world class?

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Speaker 6: I think you played internationally? I just I've played international.

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Speaker 1: In Singapore, Yeah, yeah, absolutely, had a.

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Speaker 6: DJ in Indonesia there it is.

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Speaker 1: Okay, visited Hawaii once.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I've traveled. I've just been overseas.

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Speaker 6: That's all.

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Speaker 1: What is not technically in the bands?

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Speaker 6: That's also true.

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Speaker 1: There's an open spot there's Yeah, we will address the elephant

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Speaker 9: Yeah. You could cut it with a knife. You could

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Speaker 1: We're all playing home. We're also one. Yeah, that is

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Speaker 6: Tell us what you're get offer the band an amazing voice.

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Speaker 9: I don't know if you've heard me auditioning. Well, obviously

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Speaker 1: To need to be something tangible. Isn't it like got

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Speaker 1: a good mustache?

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Speaker 6: It is my member good.

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Speaker 1: He's been going here for three years for this moment,

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Speaker 1: for this moment, and I think great band to backstage

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Speaker 6: Crucial in human nature. Who's good with the band to backstage?

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Speaker 8: Yeah? Yeah, you've got to have a team atmosphere backstage.

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Speaker 8: Yew's your full setto going? By the way, I did

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I've been working hard. I'm not ready now. I'm

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Speaker 6: You're gonna be ready at a moment's notice.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's it. You've just got to jump in.

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Speaker 9: But the performance is next week, so I just feel

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Speaker 1: To Phil gave you homework, and he gave you a chance.

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Speaker 1: He gave you a window, gave you a big chance dropped.

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Speaker 6: I'm training, I'm mid training. I'm not ready yet.

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Speaker 1: Are you sure? I mean, I know you've been working

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Speaker 9: But I get very nervous.

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Speaker 1: It's actually it's a job interview.

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Speaker 9: You've got two of the two of the greatest singers

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Speaker 6: And the world.

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Speaker 10: Hide.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm flu cotting done?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, well, how long did I have you for? Quite seriously?

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Speaker 1: Zero. It's probably the most iconic voice in music history.

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Speaker 9: I didn't pick I didn't Freddy Freddy Woody Yeah no, mate,

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Speaker 9: it's Freddie Mancury.

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Speaker 6: Well, okay, well again my answer now is I'm not ready.

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Speaker 9: I'm not ready right now. Okay, but but in a

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Speaker 1: Wow, wow, straight to it all right, let's yeah, you say,

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't want to lie to him anymore.

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Speaker 1: This is awkward for all of us. I'm sure we

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Speaker 8: It's a pleasure. And I tell you what, You're absolutely right.

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Speaker 8: Barbers and hairdressers they do they cop a lot of

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Speaker 1: I haven't been to one in fifteen years, but I've

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Speaker 1: heard that that's what they still do that, which is great.

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Speaker 1: Let's not talk about it.

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Speaker 6: Your beard trimmed, you can still go. And then you

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Speaker 8: Those classic straight razor ones you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the back of from three guys with great hair.

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Speaker 1: We really do. I'm not going to lie. I'm not

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Speaker 1: And I can just go and sing someone's song that's

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Speaker 9: You have no money usually take to prepare a song

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Speaker 9: like this. So if you were performing in a legit

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Speaker 9: barbershop quartet, how long would you take?

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Speaker 6: How many for a musical you would spend for six

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Speaker 6: you could probably get it done in like a week.

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Speaker 1: I reckon, Okay, how long week we go?

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Speaker 6: We wed a week? Okay, a bit under a week?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, a little bit under. You're saying we

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Speaker 1: but they're also yeah once again us he savage, I

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Speaker 1: mean Phil at least just trying to be nice. We

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Speaker 8: I've got a bit of experience with the barbershop, I

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Speaker 8: mean human nature we started off as a barber's joking

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Speaker 8: the four tracks shut up? We did, We absolutely did.

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Speaker 6: So did you reword them on separate tracks.

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Speaker 1: Which we should have?

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Speaker 11: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Got four tracks?

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Speaker 8: No, but we've had so we've had some experience with

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Speaker 8: barbershop quarteting. Yeah, I don't think we're going to be

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Speaker 1: Experience, Phil, what's the hardest part of performing as a

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Speaker 1: barbershop quartet? Was one of the things that Mill said

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Speaker 1: to say on I thought we're going to my hair.

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Speaker 1: I said, you call it an alternate melody and then

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Speaker 1: you can sing it. Yes, so, but can I know?

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Speaker 4: So?

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Speaker 1: Obviously a big part of seeing your barbershop quartet, mean,

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Speaker 1: that's what sounds so good about it is that multi

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Speaker 8: And that's probably the biggest trick is listening to not

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Speaker 1: The other three so hard, trying.

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Speaker 8: To make sure that you're staying in tune and but

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Speaker 8: don't sort of leap out if it's not your lead, Okay,

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Speaker 8: leap out and be.

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Speaker 1: Over so the lead alternates as well it can do.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I'd actually rather not be in the quartet.

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Speaker 1: Okay, guys, well let's hear the song this. So we

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Speaker 1: others as to what the song for people. We think

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Speaker 11: I really think there's an odd his choice here that

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Speaker 11: you take me to the barbershops up nice.

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Speaker 6: And short, cutting you up nice and short, n s N.

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Speaker 8: Take me to the barbershop, take me to the can shop.

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Speaker 1: The can Okay, yeah, I like it.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, I think we funky barbershop harmonies to that.

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Speaker 1: Ye can we get it?

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Speaker 11: Dude?

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Speaker 1: Like yeah a little bit. Yeah, you look at you guys,

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Speaker 1: go do something well. I think because I'm the base,

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Speaker 1: I'll just visiting. Dude, do that is a good base?

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Speaker 1: Thank you? Thanks, boys, I appreciate that's that's to be

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Speaker 6: All right, just do a bit straight away. I don't

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Speaker 1: See what happens.

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Speaker 9: Okay, it would be to one go doude do that's nice?

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Speaker 4: But you.

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Speaker 8: That was so good for a minute, there was amazing

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Speaker 8: then something right.

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Speaker 1: I thought you gave me a look.

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Speaker 6: I thought you gave me a look.

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Speaker 1: I didn't give you a look, but it wasn't the looking. Well,

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Speaker 1: you would be back tomorrow. We got plenty of works.

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Speaker 1: Great to have Phil Burton in here from M and

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Speaker 1: H and Rob Mills the barbershop content. I feel wrong

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Speaker 1: for a fly a song. He hadn't really got your

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Speaker 1: work today? Really good will woulds be part of the

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Speaker 1: quartet tomorrow? I think maybe a proper audition.

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Speaker 6: Sure Woods, if you are a beer drinker, you will

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Speaker 6: want to hear this.

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Speaker 1: Will.

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Speaker 6: Have you ever had a sing towel.

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Speaker 1: A chin towel, Yeah for sure. Excuse me, you racist dog.

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Speaker 1: Make an effort, make an effort. Have you had a

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Speaker 1: chintown I've had a chintaw Yeah for sure, with well

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Speaker 1: Chinese food, largely if you get dumpling, unbelievable.

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Speaker 9: So it's China's top beer producer, Chingtao. A video has

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Speaker 9: Chintao factory.

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Speaker 1: It's Chintau like, I just wouldn't hit that g that hard.

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Speaker 1: You're sounding chin Chintao. Yeah.

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Speaker 9: So a video has gone viral of this worker in

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Speaker 9: the chintow factory is in the full garb and he

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Speaker 9: is just standing over a vat of beer taking a

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Speaker 9: big old Wii straight into the beer, so like he's

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Speaker 9: not trying to hide away from.

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Speaker 1: That at Allen. I can't see any peen there, though

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Speaker 1: he might have his back to us.

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Speaker 9: If you look at the video online, it's very clear

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Speaker 9: that he is taking a Wii straight into the beer,

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Speaker 9: which brings a whole new meaning to the two I'm

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Speaker 9: getting pissed.

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Speaker 6: Jeez, I thought you guys are going.

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Speaker 1: To erupt there.

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Speaker 6: I really I I really thought you guys are going

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Speaker 5: Man.

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Speaker 6: That's a shame. That's a shame anyway.

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Speaker 1: Vindictive, do you think? Or just just a convenience? And

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Speaker 1: I mean the big question you've got to ask is,

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Speaker 1: if it is convenience, how many more of them have

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Speaker 1: done it? Well?

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Speaker 9: You do after that, wondering if you're drinking a chintowel

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Speaker 9: if there's a presence of urine in there, would you But.

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Speaker 1: Even well, I think that's the I wouldn't say that.

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Speaker 1: First of all, I think they're owned by the second

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Speaker 6: But I'm sorry, but that's a video of a guy

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Speaker 6: taking away.

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Speaker 1: In the vat. No, I know that, but I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: say that there's a lot of urine in there.

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Speaker 6: I didn't say a lot.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So can I ask you another question though?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Hip, But it's let's say chintowe is your favorite beer?

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Speaker 6: Sure?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Even if you found out that the occasional worker ducked

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Speaker 1: out the back and took a tinkle in your favorite beverage. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you love a chintael. You love a chintawel. You love

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Speaker 1: a chintawel and a seschuan pork, right, you love it? Uh?

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Speaker 1: Would you get rid of drinking chintawels even if you,

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Speaker 1: like I knew your favorite drinks in a gronie if

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Speaker 1: you've found out that somebody's been pissing in all the

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Speaker 1: mez gal that you've been having in your wanking mescal

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Speaker 1: and the gronies? Yeah? Yeah, Yeahould you stop drinking the gronies?

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Speaker 10: Nah?

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Speaker 6: Because it hasn't impacted me.

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Speaker 9: I can't taste it, and if anything, I'm going maybe

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Speaker 9: it was the magic ingredient. Maybe that's why I love

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Speaker 9: it so much. It's a little bit of way in there,

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Speaker 9: that's start way in the cook and Anyway, what it

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Speaker 9: made me think.

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Speaker 1: Of will is so weird.

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Speaker 9: It just made me think of someone getting caught ween

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Speaker 9: in a beer. It made me think of waiters and waitresses.

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Speaker 9: And you see this in movies a lot. But when

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Speaker 9: is really rude to them.

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Speaker 1: And in the movies, oh, you think they've got the

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Speaker 1: chintael work has been offended. That's why he's pissing in

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Speaker 9: Maybe because in the movies a lot of the time

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Speaker 9: the waiter will go to the kitchen like spit in

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Speaker 9: the food or do something bad to the food.

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Speaker 6: I want to know.

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Speaker 9: I'm thirteen one oh six five. If that actually happens,

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Speaker 9: you can one hundred percent remain anonymous here. But thirteen

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Speaker 9: one oh sixty five is the number. What did you

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Speaker 9: do to the order when the customer was really rude

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Speaker 9: to you? Have you ever, i mean truth, have you

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Speaker 9: taken away in their drink? Have you just done something

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Speaker 9: really bad to their food?

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Speaker 1: Or you did when your sister sippy cup that time?

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Speaker 6: That was when I was like eight years old.

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Speaker 1: Not a good example, A good example, though, What did

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Speaker 1: you do to their food or dream.

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Speaker 6: Like restaurants specific stuff.

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Speaker 9: So either waiter or waitress, okay, really rude customer did

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Speaker 9: something to their food.

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Speaker 6: Poop pants?

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Speaker 1: What do we got?

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Speaker 7: Do you guys remember the Couljibay hotel incident in about

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Speaker 7: two thousand and eight, no no so as a hotel

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Speaker 7: in Kujin, Sydney. There was a family that ordered some gelato,

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Speaker 7: made some complaints about the quality of the food and

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Speaker 7: the timing of the service. The ice cream came back out,

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Speaker 7: the chocolate ice cream came.

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Speaker 1: Back out and it was found to have human X.

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Speaker 1: That's disgusting.

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Speaker 9: Oh my, how much does this happen. Let's go to

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Speaker 9: Dennis here on thirteen one sixty five. Dennis, were you

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Speaker 9: the waiter? Uh? Yeah?

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Speaker 11: I was working at at a takeaway chicken takeaway shop

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Speaker 11: many years ago when I was going through UNI, and

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Speaker 11: basically we had a root, an abrupt customer who one

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Speaker 11: we did was basically in the core room, throwled around,

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Speaker 11: the speed. It got kicked, it got cooked, and then

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Speaker 11: basically the customer they grabbed it they took it home

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Speaker 1: Thanks to the girl dn goat start, you can have

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Speaker 1: one hundred bucks to spit at a porto. How about

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Speaker 1: that Wris Well, it sounds like it is a bit

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Speaker 1: of fresh chicken.

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Speaker 6: Make sure they asked him to kick the chicken around

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Speaker 6: before he hasn't. That's right now, I love this.

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Speaker 9: We have an anonymous caller. This will be spicy. Anonymous.

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Speaker 9: You used to be a barrista.

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Speaker 11: Yes, a very prominent Sydney cafe chain.

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Speaker 1: S truth.

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Speaker 6: Okay, what happened?

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Speaker 11: What did you do when I would say customers that

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Speaker 11: we knew to be difficult come in, I would wipe

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Speaker 11: my balls in their cups before I sent out their coffees.

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Speaker 6: Sorry inside the cub or would you on the on

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Speaker 6: the other side of the cub.

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Speaker 11: Just put the tea cup all over my balls?

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Speaker 4: Make the coffee.

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Speaker 1: There's a new lord. I got to remember what my

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Speaker 1: point was here that a Turkish Airlines got to be careful.

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Speaker 1: You're talking about segregating kids on planes. You got to

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Speaker 1: the air. But there's a Turkish owned airline that is

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Speaker 1: announced that's announced child free zones on its some of

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Speaker 6: Okay, so do pay extra to be in a child

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Speaker 6: free zone?

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Speaker 1: I don't know about that. Yeah, extra forty five euro

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Speaker 1: one way, there you go, thank you. It was highlighted

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Speaker 1: for me on the sheet. He's going to ask him this,

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Speaker 1: you know, you know classic parents are up in arms.

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Speaker 1: I'm I you know. I'm saying this because I sound

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Speaker 1: But as a parent, I actually which is how most

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Speaker 1: idea of a child free zone. I don't know about you,

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Speaker 1: but the only anxiety I feel when I take my

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's true. And if they're the kind of person

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Speaker 1: I'm glad they're going to be in another spot because.

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Speaker 9: They can pay an extra forty five euro and to

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Speaker 9: worry about Yeah, I couldn't agree more So, who who's

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Speaker 9: up in arms about this? What like my parents wouldn't

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Speaker 9: want there to be a child free zone. That's getting

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Speaker 9: rid of the people who you know, those people that

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Speaker 9: like look back and go, you know, you know exactly

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Speaker 6: They turn around and go, what do you do here?

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Speaker 1: I'm trying doing everything I possibly can. Yeah, yeah, exactly right.

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Speaker 1: So they're the only ones who worried about where if

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Speaker 7: I had a guy.

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Speaker 1: They are no, they are. They are deep in the

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Speaker 6: I had a guy the other day. I was walking

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Speaker 9: I was holding Remy and this dad had a little

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Speaker 9: and he goes, mate, we've got this.

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Speaker 6: And I was like, and he pointed at the baby

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Speaker 1: And it was like, that is great, lie, is it?

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Speaker 6: So keep those people the normal section of the plane.

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Speaker 9: Yes, And if you want to, like, you know, button

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Speaker 9: push a tom, you'd obviously pay the forty five year

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm like on a plane, Well, I'm

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Speaker 4: Get off my plane.

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Speaker 1: One child at a time. Absolutely get the.

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Speaker 9: People have been left stunned by Jennifer Lawrence's full frontal.

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Speaker 6: Nude scene in the movie No Hard Feelings. He was

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Speaker 6: stunned by it, you said, genuinely shocks by it.

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Speaker 1: So for the reason you watched the movie in the end,

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Speaker 1: So absolutely not.

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Speaker 9: I actually watched the movie because we interviewed the stars

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Speaker 9: Jennifer and excuse me, Cory. I don't know the other

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Speaker 9: I've got to watch this week.

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Speaker 1: We spoke to him.

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Speaker 6: I've forgotten his name, Andrew Andrew.

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Speaker 9: Anyway, the scene if you haven't seen the movie, so

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Speaker 1: Like you said, it was a shocking movie, by the way,

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Speaker 1: I didn't think it was great.

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Speaker 9: Good start then falls off a cliff. Anyway, most celebrities

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Speaker 9: What I actually liked and respected about this is so

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Speaker 9: Jennifer Lawrence's nude scene is her life.

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Speaker 1: Did you respect about Jenny f Lawrence.

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Speaker 9: The fact that it was like it was seeing her

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Speaker 6: Because the scene she goes for a nude dip.

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Speaker 9: She goes skinny dipping, right, and then these these teenage

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Speaker 1: Hey, put that back.

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Speaker 6: I'm warning you.

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Speaker 1: You said nothing, Dad were happy.

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Speaker 6: We need to find it an adults.

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Speaker 1: Christy, you're an adult?

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Speaker 6: Where are you going?

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Speaker 9: And then she's he's the crap out of these like

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 6: But so there bits flying everywhere and stuff.

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Speaker 9: And again I just I really respect it because it

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Speaker 6: So it's great. But my question on thirteen one oh

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Speaker 1: Helps that she's you know, gorgeous.

449
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Speaker 6: Yeah, but it's if you watch the scene, you don't

450
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Speaker 6: watch it and go oh wow, Jennifer Lawrence, nake you.

451
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Speaker 6: It's funny.

452
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Speaker 9: It's just you're watching her do things that are so

453
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Speaker 9: traditionally not sexy. So thirteen one oh sixty five, by

454
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Speaker 9: the way, is our number.

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Speaker 6: I want to know. Did you have a fight in

456
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Speaker 6: the nude?

457
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Speaker 1: Everybody was going for fight physically.

458
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Speaker 9: I'll take I'll take aggressive verbal fighting as well, but

459
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Speaker 9: obviously physical is the real win here. Now, I imagine

460
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Speaker 9: the only scenario is I can really imagine where you're

461
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Speaker 9: naked and having a physical fight is maybe you've gone

462
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Speaker 9: to bed, you're a nude sleeper, and then there's like

463
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Speaker 9: a house invader. So if you've got a story like that,

464
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Speaker 9: maybe you were at a nude beach and engaged in

465
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Speaker 9: a fight with a seagull.

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Speaker 6: I mean, bloody hell.

467
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Speaker 1: I don't know.

468
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Speaker 6: I personally haven't had a physical or verbal fight.

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Speaker 1: I've had verbal fight before, but they have it lasts

470
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Speaker 1: very long because you kind of like you feel, you know,

471
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Speaker 1: when you're fighting verbally with someone, and then if you

472
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Speaker 1: are nude, you haven't done this. But if you're nude

473
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Speaker 1: and you have a full bone argument with someone, there's

474
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Speaker 1: a point where they like, look at it.

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Speaker 6: Oh, then you're kind of like and you're gone, You're gone,

476
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Speaker 6: all of you.

477
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and then yeah, you cover yourself up aggressively,

478
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Speaker 1: and then you've lost the argument because once you've covered up,

479
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Speaker 1: it's almost like you've shown weakness. Yes, everybody was.

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Speaker 9: So, I mean classic, So let's hear some real stories

481
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Speaker 9: about Let's go to Stephanie here, Stephanie, what's your story?

482
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Speaker 5: So I was turning at Kongong Beach nude obviously, and

483
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Speaker 5: this lady comes up to me and she's like to me,

484
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Speaker 5: hi and not mentally tanning yard nude. And I started

485
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Speaker 5: going off at her because I'm like, said, no, like,

486
00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:06,840
Speaker 5: this is a nude beach, you're allowed to be nude.

487
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Speaker 5: And then I look up and his family's all around

488
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Speaker 5: me with kids, and I'm like, oh my gosh, this

489
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Speaker 5: really isn't a new beach.

490
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Speaker 1: Oh no, oh.

491
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Speaker 9: My god, it's the Let's go to Christy here, Christy,

492
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Speaker 9: this was your mum who had a fight in the nude.

493
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Speaker 4: Yes, boys, my.

494
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Speaker 3: Mum at least once a week when we were kids

495
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Speaker 3: before school would have a screaming match at all our

496
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Speaker 3: three kids and my brother included starkers. At least once

497
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Speaker 3: a week something would go wrong. We weren't aughty getting

498
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Speaker 3: ready for school naked things well, because she'd sleep naked

499
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Speaker 3: and she'd come down.

500
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Speaker 1: Make it it's the morning, mate, it's a pretty good

501
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Speaker 1: punny time.

502
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Speaker 3: My brother would try to Yeah, well, every time my

503
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Speaker 3: brother would try to cover his eyes, she'd then, you know,

504
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Speaker 3: give us the discussion of it was natural and get that.

505
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Speaker 1: God, there's nothing less than it's natural. We shouldn't be

506
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Speaker 1: ashamed of our bodies. Conversation with your parents while dude,

507
00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:09,440
Speaker 1: there's nothing worse.

508
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Speaker 6: And then they start going like, I've seen you naked,

509
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Speaker 6: and it's like, mom, no.

510
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Speaker 1: Why do they why do they feel the need to

511
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Speaker 1: do that? Are you by the way, because I want

512
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Speaker 1: to wear Christie if again, Christy, I I do know

513
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Speaker 1: I both have daughters. Yeah, and I mean obviously it's

514
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Speaker 1: different for girls, but like, yeah, like, did your dad

515
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Speaker 1: ever have that chat with you, like, you know, bodies

516
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Speaker 1: a natural sort of a vibe, well kind of, but.

517
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Speaker 3: When he was older and a little bit intoxicated, but

518
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Speaker 3: he was in budgies, So.

519
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Speaker 1: It's always a drunk don't you think that. It's like, yes,

520
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Speaker 1: you're trying to give your teacher child lesson there, but

521
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Speaker 1: it's almost the reason that you're so on it. Well,

522
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Speaker 1: I think with children is because parents can't be bother

523
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Speaker 1: changing their ways around you, Like it's just a pain

524
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Speaker 1: in the ark, Like when I had to have a

525
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Speaker 1: chat with Dad around his nude yoga ye, like, well

526
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Speaker 1: you know, you know, forget bodies, et cetera. I'm no, mate,

527
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Speaker 1: just put a pair of tracksuit pants on. It's just

528
00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:04,760
Speaker 1: because he doesn't want to get changed, that's all it is.

529
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:05,639
Speaker 1: It's the convenience.

530
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Speaker 6: Yeah right, I've been doing it for twenty years, hasn't been.

531
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Speaker 1: I don't want to have to do that. Yeah, it's

532
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:11,320
Speaker 1: the same with you and you and I are using

533
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Speaker 1: our outdoor showers.

534
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Speaker 6: It's a problem. It's a problem. I mean mine's effectively

535
00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:16,119
Speaker 6: in the living room, which is a real problem.

536
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Speaker 10: Yeah.

537
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Speaker 6: Let's go to.

538
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Speaker 9: Daniel here on thirty one oh sixty five. Daniel, this

539
00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:22,360
Speaker 9: was a mate of yours who had a nude fight.

540
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Speaker 6: Yeah that's correct.

541
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Speaker 3: Yeah, so my mate was arguing with his mum one day.

542
00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:28,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, his sister I ever heard what was going on.

543
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:29,960
Speaker 10: She got the ships of it and decided to run

544
00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:32,000
Speaker 10: out and chase him and chase him down the street naked.

545
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Speaker 6: Wait, sorry, who's naked?

546
00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:34,040
Speaker 3: There?

547
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Speaker 6: Both of them naked? Or is just the sister naked

548
00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 6: just the sister.

549
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, bloody, hell.

550
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Speaker 11: Boy, hell's actually quite entertaining. Let's be serious.

551
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Speaker 1: Yeah, hang on, Daniel, Yeah, I have been for you.

552
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Speaker 6: It is the friend there being like my god sisters

553
00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:51,359
Speaker 6: chasing your nerds through the streets.

554
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Speaker 1: Jimmy, can I just go to Daniel very quickly as well,

555
00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:55,920
Speaker 1: because you were saying it's part of the Jennifer Lawrence

556
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Speaker 1: nerd scene that you didn't find it necessarily sexy because

557
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Speaker 1: she's running, she's physically exerting herself. Yeah, Daniel, Yeah, well

558
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:06,399
Speaker 1: I need to know like what he seems to think

559
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Speaker 1: that if a human body is doing something unsexy, there's

560
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 1: not necessarily a sexy scene. Yeah. Do you agree with that?

561
00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:13,440
Speaker 11: Yes?

562
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:13,720
Speaker 1: And no?

563
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Speaker 6: Yeah, right, come on, had a crush on this is

564
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Speaker 6: clearly James.

565
00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:19,720
Speaker 1: Yes, and no.

566
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Speaker 6: Political answer there, James. This was on its good mate,

567
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Speaker 6: We're very good. This was on a night out. Yeah,

568
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Speaker 6: you had a nude final, there was a nude fight.

569
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Speaker 1: Yeah mate, yeah mate.

570
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Speaker 10: Yeah, I was heading home after an idea of the

571
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Speaker 10: city and I had a group of guys to start.

572
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Speaker 10: Him come up to me trying to be smart after

573
00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:44,440
Speaker 10: sorry smart and having to go and saying a couple

574
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Speaker 10: of words yeah and push got the shove, and I

575
00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:52,399
Speaker 10: realized I was well and truly outnumbered and didn't have anybody.

576
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Speaker 1: How I was going to get out of this.

577
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Speaker 10: You know what, I wouldn't want to fight a naked bloke.

578
00:25:58,240 --> 00:25:58,800
Speaker 1: So here we go.

579
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Speaker 10: I to draw crowd hook we heard off and just

580
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Speaker 10: charge them and try and take them on.

581
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 1: And you should have seen them run.

582
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 6: Self defense one.

583
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Speaker 1: Just pick a card. Pick a card, pick a card,

584
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Speaker 1: pick a card, pick a card, pick a card, pick

585
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Speaker 1: a card.

586
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Speaker 6: Pick you don't believe your thoughts in our heat car,

587
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:24,920
Speaker 6: pick a card and take.

588
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:31,200
Speaker 1: A leap card. This is basically where we steal a

589
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Speaker 1: talk topic from a much more successful game with much

590
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:38,600
Speaker 1: more eloquent questions than we can think of ourselves today.

591
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Speaker 1: I've chosen from the Imperfect Vulnerability House cards. You can

592
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:43,359
Speaker 1: get yourself as a deck of these. They're boody, awesome,

593
00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:45,960
Speaker 1: and look, I've chosen a card that I want to

594
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Speaker 1: talk about. Whilst we were in the song there I

595
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:51,160
Speaker 1: was rifling through the deck. I've chosen another one as well.

596
00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:53,560
Speaker 1: If we get there two cards, let's deal with the

597
00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:55,879
Speaker 1: first card first, because I think it's good in what

598
00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:57,960
Speaker 1: part of your life. Do you feel immature?

599
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Speaker 6: Yes, so I've got I've got a positive one and

600
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Speaker 6: a negative one.

601
00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:04,200
Speaker 1: So nice, well done.

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00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:07,000
Speaker 9: So positively, I would say this radio show so at

603
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Speaker 9: four o'clock every single day.

604
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Speaker 6: Yeah, I feel very lucky that I get to act

605
00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 6: like a child for two hours straight.

606
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:13,280
Speaker 1: Yeah. Man, you come in here, you drink yourself, drink,

607
00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:14,359
Speaker 1: and you act like a dickhead.

608
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:17,480
Speaker 9: It's unbelievable. It's truly. I got to act like a dickhead,

609
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:19,800
Speaker 9: and I have the most fun. I really do feel

610
00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 9: like a child for two hours, and I love that.

611
00:27:21,359 --> 00:27:24,439
Speaker 1: Positive Yeah, you're currently using an Indiana Jones pen.

612
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:27,800
Speaker 6: I just love it anyway negatively.

613
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:30,399
Speaker 9: What's bad that I'm immature about is anything to do

614
00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:31,680
Speaker 9: with conflict or confrontation.

615
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:32,360
Speaker 10: Ah.

616
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Speaker 1: Nice, I didn't I didn't see you're taking it that way.

617
00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:35,440
Speaker 1: That's a good one. Yeah.

618
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:38,879
Speaker 9: The way I treat anything, any conflict or confrontation is

619
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Speaker 9: the way like a ten year old boy would.

620
00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:40,880
Speaker 1: Yeah.

621
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Speaker 9: I either won't engage with it, make a joke, get

622
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:46,400
Speaker 9: out of there, or I'll get way too emotional.

623
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Speaker 6: I'm just not very good at sitting in the emotion

624
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 6: of disagreement.

625
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think I think if people are honest. Most

626
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:59,160
Speaker 1: people listening would say that they're.

627
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Speaker 11: Not.

628
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:03,120
Speaker 1: They're not maybe not their first up approach, but their

629
00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 1: instinctive approach to conflict regresses them as an adult. Yeah,

630
00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:11,920
Speaker 1: it's so natural to fall into a really bad habit there.

631
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:15,280
Speaker 6: I'm in there. Yeah, it's just ten year old boy

632
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:15,679
Speaker 6: in there.

633
00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:18,640
Speaker 1: Because you're scared. It's when you's when you get properly

634
00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:19,960
Speaker 1: scared that you start acting.

635
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:21,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, and I feel like a little It's like it'll

636
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Speaker 6: be a small disagreement.

637
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:24,600
Speaker 9: Someone will say something like, oh, you put your bins

638
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:27,200
Speaker 9: in the wrong spot, and I will absolutely crumble.

639
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:35,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, right, that's pathetic. Mine was I And this is

640
00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 1: very challenging to me. I I will create like a

641
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:43,520
Speaker 1: competition in my head, which is not a competition. So

642
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:46,280
Speaker 1: like when I when I get in the car, like

643
00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:51,000
Speaker 1: on the road, and someone overtakes me, I'm not okay

644
00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 1: with that.

645
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 6: So even though I don't know they're in a race with,

646
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 6: you have no idea.

647
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:57,280
Speaker 1: They have no idea. And I was start getting really

648
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Speaker 1: I was still getting really angry at them. One time,

649
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Speaker 1: I mister turn off for a freeway so I could reovertake.

650
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:04,000
Speaker 9: Home, and they would have no idea. No idea then

651
00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 9: nonetherwise you do that with walking on like sidewalks. I

652
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 9: don't try it, but if someone so, if someone walks

653
00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:11,160
Speaker 9: past you, you're okay with that.

654
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:13,640
Speaker 1: Yeah. But if there was like one thing left in

655
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 1: a shop window, I would build it in my head

656
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 1: that everyone else wants that thing, and then I'd find

657
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Speaker 1: out a way to get to the front of the

658
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:20,920
Speaker 1: que and then make sure I got my hands on it.

659
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:22,360
Speaker 6: Even if you don't want it, You're like, I'm just

660
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:23,280
Speaker 6: going to get last one.

661
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:27,880
Speaker 1: That is weird, man, Let's go to Let's go that

662
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:34,280
Speaker 1: is weird. Melissa. Hey, Melissa, what part of your life

663
00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:35,280
Speaker 1: do you feel immature?

664
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Speaker 4: Mine's more situational. I'd say in general, I'm a pretty mature,

665
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 4: quite a serious person. However, anything to do with farts,

666
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 4: I become a five year old child.

667
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:53,040
Speaker 9: Brilliant, Melissa, brilliant. Which area should we play here? I mean,

668
00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 9: let's take you there.

669
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Speaker 6: What's what's your favorite what's your favorite fart? Stroy, Let's

670
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Speaker 6: just do it.

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Speaker 1: You brought it up.

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Speaker 6: I didn't.

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Speaker 9: It was a bit of a band on farts in

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Speaker 9: this show. Favorite fart story far away, Melistia. Probably I

675
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Speaker 9: tend to fight a bit too often, brilliant. I think

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Speaker 9: that's my down for worst time to worst time one

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Speaker 9: for you who was in front of.

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Speaker 1: Where was it?

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Speaker 3: Talk to me?

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Speaker 4: So I am a nurse in a prison.

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Speaker 1: And prison who farts too much?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and I was speaking to I guess one of

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Speaker 4: my patients who was an inmate, and I was mid

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Speaker 4: conversation and I accidentally started and I was looking at

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Speaker 4: him straight in the eyes.

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Speaker 1: What was this guy in for? What was he doing

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Speaker 1: time for? I don't know. Was he a bad boy?

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Speaker 1: Did you get into last?

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Speaker 4: But yeah, he laughed and I laughed, so I did,

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Speaker 4: just to make it less awkward, I laughed. But anything

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Speaker 4: to do as fast, I just I lose it.

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Speaker 1: Awesome that love that from you, Melissa. I've got a

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Speaker 1: brand new card that I want to do right up next. Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I know why I was Rightfully, these have been great

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Speaker 1: and I'm sure there's of other people that want to

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Speaker 1: call it for this bit. I've hit a new card,

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Speaker 1: and I think it'd be a good thing to talk about.

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Speaker 1: The card I've picked is what character traits do you

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Speaker 1: worry people will see in you? Yeah? How do you

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Speaker 1: go with that? So it's it's not it's a tough one.

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Speaker 1: I mean the reason I picked her because we're all

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Speaker 1: having fun with you know, farting in a prison before.

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Speaker 1: But I mean the point of these card games is

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Speaker 1: to try and get us to, you know, interact with

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Speaker 1: something real. And this struck me immediately because I think

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Speaker 1: as soon as you hear that question, if you're honest

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Speaker 1: with yourself, you can find something pretty quickly. We're all

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Speaker 1: very good at hiding something. So there's two for me.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, again, both bad. So I've talked about this before,

710
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:47,959
Speaker 9: but so Coward's a big one for me. Yeah, that's right,

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Speaker 9: Like so I because so I was talking before the

712
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Speaker 9: song about the fact that I don't like conflict and

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Speaker 9: I don't like confrontation yep, And I think because of that,

714
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Speaker 9: I think I can I can be cowardly.

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Speaker 6: Is the last thing I will want to do is

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Speaker 6: to confront someone.

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Speaker 9: And if I'm being really self critical of myself, I

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Speaker 9: sort of look at that situation and go, you're a

719
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Speaker 9: coward because you didn't say what you needed to say

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Speaker 9: you should have said in that situation.

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Speaker 1: Yeh. I actually remember you saying to me once we'd

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Speaker 1: had a year of very tough conversations and I think

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Speaker 1: you were away, and I think you were. I think

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Speaker 1: you had a few drinks. But you said your voice,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know to Srilanka could have

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Speaker 1: been anywhere. Yeah, you could have been right after you

727
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Speaker 1: brought Princess dies Sapphires, but you said your voice not.

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Speaker 1: And you said to me you were grateful for me

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Speaker 1: because I had the selflessness to have tough conversations with people.

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Speaker 9: Yes, And I said, I said, because I said to you,

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Speaker 9: I wrote you a letter about this was a letter

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Speaker 9: and I said to you in the letter that.

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Speaker 1: For so write each other's letter.

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Speaker 6: Go it's durable.

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Speaker 9: I said, for so for so long, I made the

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Speaker 9: assumption that, oh, Will likes confrontation. So it's good that

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Speaker 9: he likes that because he's a to do those conversations,

738
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Speaker 9: and that has had this this moment when I was like, no,

739
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Speaker 9: he doesn't. That's just as hard for him as anyone else.

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Speaker 9: But he's willing to do them.

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Speaker 7: Ye.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, that was thank you. It was a really

743
00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 1: nice compliment. It may be feel good about it myself actually,

744
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Speaker 1: because they're not nice conversations to have. But you just

745
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Speaker 1: know that sometimes if you don't say this thing that Yeah,

746
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Speaker 1: your relationship is not going to move forward. Yeah, and

747
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:26,440
Speaker 1: those things fester and they stick around, and all of

748
00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:28,960
Speaker 1: a sudden you can lose a relationship because you didn't

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Speaker 1: have a conversation. Yeah.

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Speaker 9: So the other one, yeah, so so there's One's an

751
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Speaker 9: interesting one because we joke a lot a lot on

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Speaker 9: this show, and I make jokes as well about the

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Speaker 9: fact that I'm a tight ass.

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Speaker 6: So again, we dine out on this in the show,

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Speaker 6: and I love doing that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 9: The idea that people would think, like maybe outside of

758
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Speaker 9: the show, like so I'm thinking more like good friends

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Speaker 9: and yeah, people that you're actually cheap, that I was

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Speaker 9: actually not generous if they thought that would really hurt me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I need to start bringing your wallet to more bars.

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Speaker 6: I genuinely forget it, though, I'm just forgetful. Will I'm

763
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Speaker 6: not tied.

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Speaker 1: Maybe this is something astaurant pack because I am conscious

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Speaker 1: of time a little bit later on character trait, do

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Speaker 1: you worry people who are seeing you? The one that

767
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Speaker 1: the one that struck out for me, which I am

768
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Speaker 1: very aware of these days, is this idea that I

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Speaker 1: I worry that people will see that I don't have

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Speaker 1: it all together.

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Speaker 6: What is that why does that affect you so much?

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Speaker 1: I think that I call this like an older sibling syndrome.

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Speaker 1: I just don't think I'm, as an older sibling, very

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Speaker 1: good at admitting that I don't have it together because

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Speaker 1: I'm worried that the people that rely on me will

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Speaker 1: kind of be very upset. The truth is that I

777
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Speaker 1: don't have it all together. Yeah, And and often I

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Speaker 1: feel like when I have told people that I'm, you know,

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Speaker 1: struggling or things aren't going well for me, they get

780
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Speaker 1: quite worried because I sure am that person for a

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Speaker 1: lot of people who does have it all together and

782
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Speaker 1: does have a solution and is going to be able

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Speaker 1: to figure it out.

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Speaker 6: The idea that like, oh, if you don't have it together,

785
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:08,600
Speaker 6: like how the hell am I going to have it?

786
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:09,080
Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. And it's a really really hard thing to

788
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:14,040
Speaker 1: admit to you. It's a really really hard thing to

789
00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:16,239
Speaker 1: admit to my partner A lot of the time. I

790
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:17,879
Speaker 1: think I lied to Sam a lot of the time

791
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Speaker 1: about the fact that I'm good, not a lie to word,

792
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Speaker 1: but it takes me a long time to admit that

793
00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:26,920
Speaker 1: I'm not in a great way, and it does scare me.

794
00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:29,520
Speaker 1: Most importantly, for when Max grows up, for my daughter

795
00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:34,280
Speaker 1: grows up, because I remember, I think it's really damaging

796
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 1: for parents to tell their kids that they that they

797
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 1: don't know everything and that they you know, they haven't

798
00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:42,920
Speaker 1: got it all together. And a friend of mine reminded

799
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 1: me of that recently. He's got this amazing relationship with

800
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Speaker 1: his father. And I remember saying to him once, like, a, wi,

801
00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:50,200
Speaker 1: is your relationship with your dad so good? And he

802
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:52,600
Speaker 1: was like, oh, because one time I walked into him

803
00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:54,200
Speaker 1: when I was like sixteen, and I had all these

804
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:56,359
Speaker 1: problems for him, and he turned around and he faced

805
00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:59,239
Speaker 1: me and he said, mate, the moment that you realize

806
00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:01,520
Speaker 1: that I'm struggling with all of this is as much

807
00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:03,480
Speaker 1: as you can you are, is the moment that we

808
00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 1: can be friends.

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00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:04,719
Speaker 9: Yeah.

810
00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:07,360
Speaker 1: So I think I want to try and let go

811
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:11,760
Speaker 1: of that idea and that aura that I create around myself,

812
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:14,960
Speaker 1: because I think it's important for my relationship with my

813
00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:18,520
Speaker 1: child that she knows that I'm not a superman, yeah,

814
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:21,600
Speaker 1: even though you want to be. I think it's the

815
00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:23,759
Speaker 1: courageous step is to sort of and I think it

816
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:25,799
Speaker 1: also affects all of your I think anyone listening right

817
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 1: now who tries to act like they've got it all

818
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:30,239
Speaker 1: together all the time. They would empathize with the fact

819
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:33,000
Speaker 1: that it ruins your relationships, but yeah, it puts everyone

820
00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:35,920
Speaker 1: around you in this box where you don't let them

821
00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:36,239
Speaker 1: help you.

822
00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:37,520
Speaker 6: Yeah, totally.

823
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Speaker 9: And also, like you if if I'm around someone who

824
00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:44,800
Speaker 9: is constantly putting out an image of perfection, I'm not

825
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:46,800
Speaker 9: going to talk to that person about my problems.

826
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Speaker 6: But it's like, exactly, oh, you're not bringing problems.

827
00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:50,840
Speaker 9: I'm not going to bring problems kind of think like

828
00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:53,160
Speaker 9: I feel like when you share the things that you're

829
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 9: struggling with.

830
00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:55,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, totally contagious.

831
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Speaker 1: Right, it's exactly vulnerability breeds vulnerability. Yeah, and I suppose

832
00:36:58,520 --> 00:37:00,239
Speaker 1: that's what these cards are all about, the vulnerable late

833
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:01,600
Speaker 1: House cards. They're very good questions