Speaker 1: The Rising Conquer Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of the
Speaker 1: land which this episode is being recorded, the Yugen Bear region.
Speaker 1: We further acknowledge country throughout Australia and their connections to land,
Speaker 1: sea and community. We pay our respect to their elders
Speaker 1: past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal
Speaker 1: and Terrestride Islander peoples today. Hello and welcome back to
Speaker 1: the Rising Conquer Podcasts. This is the podcast for ordinary
Speaker 1: people who want to do extraordinary things. If I ever
Speaker 1: got home from school and I realized I'd fucking left
Speaker 1: the whites on, I literally would be like this, like, oh,
Speaker 1: we fucked out on the fucking belt.
Speaker 2: My dad's one is also like turn off the fan. Yeah,
Speaker 2: don't need the fan on the whole night.
Speaker 1: I don't. Oh, and don't even think about aircon or
Speaker 1: using the dryer. Hello and welcome back to the Rise
Speaker 1: and Conker Podcast. It is your host, Georgie Stevenson, lawyer
Speaker 1: turned entrepreneur, business owner, new mum all the things. Today
Speaker 1: we are going to be talking about everyone's favorite topic,
Speaker 1: money mindset. I'm so excited. So guys, heading to Christmas
Speaker 1: and the end of the year, you tend to start
Speaker 1: spending more money on you know, things, presents, going out
Speaker 1: doing all the things, and it is so important to
Speaker 1: do this in the right energy because money is energy.
Speaker 1: So today I am going to chat about the importance
Speaker 1: of having a good money mindset, especially around this time
Speaker 1: of year, share some of our personal stories around money
Speaker 1: and how you can shift a scarcity mindset into an
Speaker 1: abundant mindset. I have a whole journey with my money mindset,
Speaker 1: and truly, guys, when you change your money mindset, your
Speaker 1: life changes. Plus I have a very special announcement, so
Speaker 1: one of the most requested topics when we do the
Speaker 1: project is money mindset, and hence that's why we're chatting
Speaker 1: about it today. Plus we have a freebe for you,
Speaker 1: so you guys know I love doing a free ebook
Speaker 1: every six months or so. So the next one is
Speaker 1: all about creating an abundant mindset, which I thought was
Speaker 1: you know, so fitting for this time of year. So
Speaker 1: it is available to download. I'll make sure I linked
Speaker 1: into the show notes and also there will be links
Speaker 1: on the website. So it's going to be like a
Speaker 1: really incredible ball toil to help you know, shift your
Speaker 1: money mindset. Obviously it is just an intro tool. It's
Speaker 1: you know, it's just going to touch the surface and
Speaker 1: get you thinking. And I kind of go a bit
Speaker 1: more into this any episode. But guys, just like anything
Speaker 1: else in your life, like your money mindset is something
Speaker 1: you have to work on. It's not something you're just
Speaker 1: like born with unless you have a really incredible family
Speaker 1: who or you know, supports system who has like the
Speaker 1: best money mindset and you are hashtag blessed. But most
Speaker 1: of us do not be the world we live in.
Speaker 1: And so just like anything like your fitness journey or
Speaker 1: your self development journey, your business journey, or any you know,
Speaker 1: any skill that you can learn, money mindset is just
Speaker 1: like that. So I think it is something really important
Speaker 1: to work on. That's why we did the free ebook.
Speaker 1: But of course yet it is just touching the surface.
Speaker 1: But yeah, definitely download it and check it out if
Speaker 1: this is a topic interested in diving a little bit deeper. Also,
Speaker 1: just a quick note, I just want to say, I
Speaker 1: am so incredibly excited. I tell you, we've had so
Speaker 1: many people signed up for the do It for your
Speaker 1: Future Self course. We haven't even like, as I'm recording
Speaker 1: this intro we haven't even announced it on Instagram. We
Speaker 1: obviously just soft launched it on the potty on Friday,
Speaker 1: and we're so excited. Oh my god, it just it
Speaker 1: makes me so excited too.
Speaker 2: I'm holding out from doing it until the first of January.
Speaker 1: I tea, I'm not letting myself no, like, of course
Speaker 1: you've had a sneak peek and you know what's inside
Speaker 1: of it. But me too, even though actually I lie,
Speaker 1: I have been doing some of it.
Speaker 2: You are. It's so hard to not do it because
Speaker 2: I'm reading out like I need to do this, but
Speaker 2: I need to I want to wait.
Speaker 1: It's yeah, I'm I'm just so excited. Basically, guys, if
Speaker 1: you don't know what it is, it is our brand
Speaker 1: new course. It is a seven day course. So the
Speaker 1: basis is it starts January the first. That's when the
Speaker 1: first module unlocks, and then a module unlocks every single
Speaker 1: day for seven days. And the whole gist of the
Speaker 1: course is really setting the foundations for your year. It
Speaker 1: is all about getting clear on, first of all, who
Speaker 1: you are in this new season, because we constantly are
Speaker 1: up leveling, We're constantly changing as people, and if you're
Speaker 1: not doing that foundational work. It is going to feel
Speaker 1: like you're a hamster on the wheel and you're just
Speaker 1: like not able to do the things, but you've got
Speaker 1: to do the foundational work. So it's about first exploring
Speaker 1: about who you are in this new season, going into
Speaker 1: a new year. I personally the reason why this course
Speaker 1: was born because I personally did this a couple of
Speaker 1: months ago when I was feeling very unaligned and I
Speaker 1: hadn't done the foundational work since becoming a new mum,
Speaker 1: and I thought, just myself, idiot, you even know this.
Speaker 1: You teach this stuff, and I had forgot to do
Speaker 1: it for like, you know, eight months or whatever. So
Speaker 1: if you're going into a new season, maybe you know,
Speaker 1: a new level or yeah, just a new season of life,
Speaker 1: it's going to be so incredible. And of course we're
Speaker 1: doing it going into a new year, so that energy
Speaker 1: is so potent, and so it's all about first of all,
Speaker 1: getting to know this new you really like you know
Speaker 1: your your priorities, what you're actually wanting out of life,
Speaker 1: what's in this season, and then going into obviously your
Speaker 1: goals for the new year, your routines and your rituals,
Speaker 1: and it's really setting those foundational things and getting clear.
Speaker 1: It's getting clear on who you are and what you
Speaker 1: want and what you want this year to be like,
Speaker 1: because from that place, it's like you can really quantum
Speaker 1: leap and really like reach those goals because if you're
Speaker 1: not clear, you're just going to go nowhere fast. So yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a very foundational and I've made sure I've really
Speaker 1: made sure you guys know, I can fucking talk underwater,
Speaker 1: but I've made sure you can do each day in
Speaker 1: thirty minutes. So it's either going to be a training video,
Speaker 1: a meditation, a workbook or all three. And you're going
Speaker 1: to do this every single day for seven days and
Speaker 1: then just feel fucking so incredibly excited and like high
Speaker 1: on life, high in life and like on point, and
Speaker 1: you're going to have such a plan for the new year.
Speaker 1: So I'm so excited so many of you have already
Speaker 1: dedicated and like proud of you. Also, just a ps
Speaker 1: because we are talking about money in this episode, but
Speaker 1: the course is currently seventy seven seventy seven dollars, which
Speaker 1: means it's eleven dollars eleven per day. We love some
Speaker 1: major yes good vibes only literally, but after the seventh
Speaker 1: of jan the course does go up in price, So
Speaker 1: I wanted to really reward you guys who are like, fuck, yes,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make this the best year, and like, are
Speaker 1: really just going to take the chance and do the
Speaker 1: thing again. This is a course. You can do it
Speaker 1: anytime but the year, but it's just gonna be so
Speaker 1: incredible in that like New Year energy. But yes, enough
Speaker 1: of that. How was your weaker tear So much fun?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, guys, we get so much fun at
Speaker 1: the Christmas party.
Speaker 2: It's so good. I haven't had a good dance in
Speaker 2: such a long time.
Speaker 1: I tear you were raving hardcore. I've got this.
Speaker 2: Violve you, I've got this video.
Speaker 1: Let's get it up right now. It's probably shocky. It's
Speaker 1: so good. You're literally just bopping around like like so
Speaker 1: much energy. The fact that you were so bad and
Speaker 1: when I was like just had a lot of cordials slivid,
Speaker 1: I was like, she's definitely had free workout. Guys. We
Speaker 1: had the best time. It was so good. I think
Speaker 1: just the fact that it was Rodeo themed. Oh so
Speaker 1: much fun. Best thme ever. If you're going to hold
Speaker 1: a Christmas party for now on it's always going to
Speaker 1: be like themed because I'm like, I rocked up, excited.
Speaker 2: Literally, and I normally get a bit nervous about dress
Speaker 2: up because I'm like, some people are gonna go all out,
Speaker 2: some people aren't.
Speaker 1: But it was so good. Yeah, everyone looked amazing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so yeah, so much fun. I also loved I definitely
Speaker 1: wasn't hung over to the point of like sick, but
Speaker 1: I was definitely tired. I was sober by the time
Speaker 1: we went to sleep, but I was definitely tired. And
Speaker 1: I loved that it was on a Friday night and
Speaker 1: then like on the Saturday, I watched the whole season
Speaker 1: of Wednesday and it was just like a lazy day
Speaker 1: and then like I had a whole other day.
Speaker 2: So good. Friday night parties are good. Yeah, it feels
Speaker 2: like Saturday.
Speaker 1: But yeah, that was our week guys, that was our
Speaker 1: whole weekend. Was just that, all right, guys, let's get
Speaker 1: into the episode. All right, Well, let's chat money mindset.
Speaker 1: I'm so excited me every episode A tears like our
Speaker 1: resident hype girl, and I love it. All right, So
Speaker 1: how I want to start this episode is really getting you,
Speaker 1: guys to think about your relationship with money with wealth
Speaker 1: with abundance, because I feel like it has almost a
Speaker 1: stigma around it of it's just a topic we should
Speaker 1: not even touch on. It's just a topic that is like,
Speaker 1: that is what it is, rather than something we can
Speaker 1: influence or think too much about, rather than just seeing
Speaker 1: it as another relationship in our life. So for example,
Speaker 1: you know, if you listen to this podcast, your into
Speaker 1: self development, Like I'm sure you've been on a health
Speaker 1: journey or a self love journey or some sort of journey.
Speaker 1: And you know, we all go through these issues in
Speaker 1: life where we realize that we maybe don't have a
Speaker 1: great relationship with something, whether it's ourself, whether you know,
Speaker 1: we want to improve our mindset, whether we want to
Speaker 1: start a business or that sort of thing, and then
Speaker 1: we seek out information to improve in that area. So
Speaker 1: I just think it's so odd that so many people
Speaker 1: don't see money and their relationship with money as the
Speaker 1: same as a relationship they should look at first, be aware,
Speaker 1: be interested in, and be like, oh, this is interesting,
Speaker 1: I have different beliefs around this, and maybe what could
Speaker 1: I tweak here to change my relationship with money. They
Speaker 1: very much see it as matter of a fact, like
Speaker 1: there's almost it's almost like black and white, you know.
Speaker 1: So with those relationships, you know, we're improving, we're progressing,
Speaker 1: we're finding different tools to overcome them, and I just
Speaker 1: find it so interesting that we don't do the same
Speaker 1: thing with money.
Speaker 2: Absolutely, it's weird.
Speaker 1: Great input there. So something that I have personally found
Speaker 1: with my journey is when I first of all realized
Speaker 1: I had an issue with money and just like funky
Speaker 1: beliefs about it, and when I started you know, working
Speaker 1: on them, I started changing my limiting beliefs around money.
Speaker 1: My life really changed like that. It's definitely as you know,
Speaker 1: along the side of me going on my health journey,
Speaker 1: me going on just like a self development journey, me
Speaker 1: going on my money journey is I would say, like
Speaker 1: you know, in tieh with them, and it's something that
Speaker 1: you know, we do forget about. And so that's why
Speaker 1: we're gonna do a whole episode about money. I love
Speaker 1: it and money mindset. So you know, just like anything else,
Speaker 1: this whole episode, I want you to be very self
Speaker 1: aware and just kind of you know, think about your
Speaker 1: relationship with money. Is there anything interesting that pops up?
Speaker 1: Maybe I say something and you're like, Georgia. That just
Speaker 1: is not true. And I think also the reason why
Speaker 1: sometimes I don't like to be too vocal about this
Speaker 1: is I feel like people are going to be like, oh,
Speaker 1: you know, you're rich. How can you understand?
Speaker 2: Like it's easy to say when you've got money, yes, but.
Speaker 1: I'm like, you also don't know how I grew up. Yes,
Speaker 1: my parents were the definition of frugal, which I love
Speaker 1: for them, and you know, they taught me some really
Speaker 1: great savvy tips saving tips around money. But yeah, so
Speaker 1: let's chat about money mindset. Okay, So a big thing
Speaker 1: with money mindset is just like you know, me talking
Speaker 1: about the health journey or if you're on you know,
Speaker 1: wanting to start a business or those sorts of things.
Speaker 1: If you're not actively working on your limiting beliefs and
Speaker 1: addressing you know, your issues with money, your current reality
Speaker 1: with money will never change. So if you are someone
Speaker 1: who you know, maybe is living paycheck to paychecked, maybe
Speaker 1: you have these feelings around money that it's like you
Speaker 1: you feel like you can never get enough, yeah, or
Speaker 1: you feel like it's almost just out of reach, or
Speaker 1: you know, all these feelings that is because you have
Speaker 1: some funky money stories happening internally, because your reality will
Speaker 1: always reflect what is happening internally.
Speaker 2: And I think if anything that's mentioned triggers you or
Speaker 2: like put you in a weird mood when you hear it,
Speaker 2: really reflect on that because sometimes that is how you
Speaker 2: uncover limiting beliefs.
Speaker 1: Yes, one hundred percent. Yeah, yeah, I can pop that
Speaker 1: in there. Fuck you, Georgie.
Speaker 2: Yeah, if that's coming out of your mouth, what you.
Speaker 1: Say, people probably hate us. So, just like anything else,
Speaker 1: working on your mindset is so important. And that's why
Speaker 1: we've created a whole ebook, you know, going into it deeply.
Speaker 1: There's like a couple of training videos, there's a couple
Speaker 1: of workbooks. But today let's just kind of chat about
Speaker 1: money mindset. Let's chat about some of the limiting beliefs.
Speaker 1: And also I really want to chat about like the
Speaker 1: energy of money too, because I was kind of talking
Speaker 1: to a tear off air. But it's almost something I
Speaker 1: struggle to articulate because it's like stuff I just know
Speaker 1: in my soul and I feel in my soul. But
Speaker 1: I'm like, when I say it, it sounds silly or
Speaker 1: it sounds like, you know, so weird. But look, we're
Speaker 1: gonna we're gonna see how we go. So let's chat
Speaker 1: money stories a tear. Yes, So tell me about a
Speaker 1: money story that you've had that you thought was just
Speaker 1: fact about money, but you've realized is a limiting.
Speaker 2: Belief or this one was really growing up. I think
Speaker 2: I held onto it a bit too. One is that
Speaker 2: there's never enough money was a big one for me.
Speaker 2: And number two is that wanting money means you're greedy
Speaker 2: and you should never want money. Interesting, Yeah, which I
Speaker 2: really had to reframe.
Speaker 1: And so are these both from childhood?
Speaker 2: Yeah, just I think growing up and like obviously in
Speaker 2: zimbabwere the economy was yeah, like next level, shit.
Speaker 1: It's next level. Yeah, Like things.
Speaker 2: Were double in price from the morning to the afternoon,
Speaker 2: and that very much hammered into me, like no matter
Speaker 2: how hard you try, there's just never gonna be enough,
Speaker 2: and even if you have enough, it can get taken away. Interesting. Yes,
Speaker 2: And so that was obviously from that, which was unfortunate.
Speaker 2: And then the greediness. I don't know exactly where that
Speaker 2: came from, but I think, like when when I think back,
Speaker 2: it's almost like in the movies and stuff. Yes, the
Speaker 2: rich people were always evil.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: And then you had like the underdog that didn't have
Speaker 2: enough money and that sort of stuff. So I was like, oh, like,
Speaker 2: if I want that, then I'm also wanting to be
Speaker 2: the bad evil man that controls everything.
Speaker 1: But it's not It's not bad at all. I love that.
Speaker 1: I love that you also said evil man, yes, because
Speaker 1: it was always suit in a tour singing monopoly or something.
Speaker 2: Georgie, what were yours when you you're big? Ones that
Speaker 2: you found out when you started your money journey.
Speaker 1: So I think the biggest one that I've had to
Speaker 1: work through with money is so kind of my background
Speaker 1: with money, which I feel like I've spoken about a bit,
Speaker 1: is my parents grew up very poor and you know,
Speaker 1: managed to work really hard and kind of make, you know,
Speaker 1: make something of themselves. And then I would say, it's
Speaker 1: like us for kids. We would never spoil, but we
Speaker 1: never went without. Yes, that was kind of you know,
Speaker 1: the vibe. But also like I remember like little things
Speaker 1: like and it's funny because I still do it now
Speaker 1: and Tim laughs at me. But for example, like orange juice. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like we were never allowed to pour a big glass
Speaker 1: of orange juice because it could be wasteful. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: if we wanted some orange juice, like literally would have
Speaker 1: to pour a little bit, drink it all, drink it
Speaker 1: all poor because then Dad would be like if you
Speaker 1: wasted that little bit, oh, you just wasted some orange juice.
Speaker 1: So with milk. I don't know, sound like anyone else resonating,
Speaker 1: but like so it's just small things like that. And
Speaker 1: like when we had a bath, like we did use
Speaker 1: the same bathwater, yeah, and not in the same bath,
Speaker 1: but like Cuba's finished his bath by hobby now anyway,
Speaker 1: So like little things like oh, and like always turn
Speaker 1: off the lights even now. My dad gets. If I
Speaker 1: ever got home from school and I realized I'd fucking
Speaker 1: left the lights on, I literally would be like this, like,
Speaker 1: holy fuck, Dad's gonna fucking belt me.
Speaker 2: You know. My dad's one is also like turn off
Speaker 2: the fan, Yeah, don't need the fan on the whole night.
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Oh, and don't even think about air con yeah, or
Speaker 1: using the dryer anyway, you guys get the vibe. I'm
Speaker 1: sure there's so many people like nodding their heads right now.
Speaker 1: I feel like this is like typical, like such dad stuff, Yeah,
Speaker 1: typical dad shit. Anyway, So yeah, grew up with that,
Speaker 1: but a big thing was like, yes you could have money,
Speaker 1: but you had to work really really hard, and once
Speaker 1: you had it, you had to be very frugal to
Speaker 1: hold on to it. And it was always like I
Speaker 1: just remember, like even when I was like, you know,
Speaker 1: fourteen fifteen, when I went to the shops with my
Speaker 1: friends and I worked at cam up at the point
Speaker 1: and so you know, I get a couple hundred, but
Speaker 1: I remember like full lunch, looking at menus and always
Speaker 1: picking the cheapest thing. Yeah, and like being like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm not going to get a coffee because I could
Speaker 1: just have a coffee at home, and like different stuff
Speaker 1: like that of just like being very going without to
Speaker 1: save money. And that was very much the Norman you know,
Speaker 1: my mind. So that was kind of the biggest money
Speaker 1: stories for me. So it's very interesting. So it's like
Speaker 1: we've got different ones, but I'm sure a lot of
Speaker 1: people could resonate with it, like both, Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 1: So guys, those those kind of you know, beliefs around money,
Speaker 1: like we talk about, is they're limiting beliefs. So there's
Speaker 1: stuff that has been like you know, very conditioned on
Speaker 1: us from our parents or growing up and it's just
Speaker 1: what we believe. But the big thing is realizing that's
Speaker 1: not actually true because you could have someone who, you know,
Speaker 1: let's say they grew up very opposite to me, where
Speaker 1: it was a very abundant household, all the orange dishes.
Speaker 1: Leave the fan on, it doesn't no joke.
Speaker 2: Tim is like that, turning the lights and fans off.
Speaker 1: No, I turned them. Like we had a fight last
Speaker 1: night because we were walking out the room and I
Speaker 1: joined the light off and he's like, just leave it on.
Speaker 1: I can't fucking.
Speaker 2: See it.
Speaker 1: Because I'm He's like, you're actually so an. I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm just saving I'm just helping the planet. But also
Speaker 1: it's because I'm what I'm conditioned to anyway. I'm talking
Speaker 1: so their beliefs that you know, we believe, but they're
Speaker 1: not actually you know, correct because even now I am
Speaker 1: the same person, but I have a completely different reality
Speaker 1: because my beliefs have shifted.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So a big thing, like any limiting belief, is when
Speaker 1: we change it, when we flip it, when we feel
Speaker 1: into the new belief that then becomes our reality. So
Speaker 1: something I want you guys to feel in when you're
Speaker 1: listening to this of like where can you completely flip
Speaker 1: your money limiting belief or beliefs on their head and
Speaker 1: feel into, you know, a new belief. And why this
Speaker 1: is so difficult and why so many people don't change
Speaker 1: and they stay the same is because our reality often
Speaker 1: is like it's lagged a little bit and it takes
Speaker 1: a little bit to catch up. So even if you
Speaker 1: feel into this new belief of I am abundant, I
Speaker 1: am wealth, your reality is going to take a tiny
Speaker 1: bit to catch up. It's almost like a lag. Let's say, yeah,
Speaker 1: so it's up to you. The biggest thing you need
Speaker 1: to do is keep showing up in that I am abundant,
Speaker 1: I am wealth in that vibe until your reality catches up.
Speaker 1: And a lot of people never make that because you know,
Speaker 1: their reality reflects their old beliefs, which then gives them
Speaker 1: the evidence that the old beliefs are correct and they
Speaker 1: can't step into the new belief. So big thing that
Speaker 1: we want to chat about today, obviously, there's so much
Speaker 1: more great information in the ebook, And if you do
Speaker 1: want to go deeper and really write down this and
Speaker 1: really change your beliefs, you know, do that in the
Speaker 1: free download. But I guess let's just chat about it
Speaker 1: from like some of my new money beliefs and how
Speaker 1: I feel into them and like what it even feels
Speaker 1: like to me because we know, like when we manifest something,
Speaker 1: it's what's the feeling? How are we going to attract
Speaker 1: that thing? And also just talking about like this time
Speaker 1: of year, it's we are you know, we're spending a
Speaker 1: bit more money. It's Christmas, we're prepping for the new year,
Speaker 1: We're seeing family, we're going on holidays. And then even
Speaker 1: how like it gets into how you spend money, like
Speaker 1: your relationship with spending money. So my beliefs and I've
Speaker 1: got them written down here, is I always earn more
Speaker 1: money than I spend, so I can never outspend what
Speaker 1: I earn. And that's just a belief I have. So
Speaker 1: it's like if there's a bill that comes up, if
Speaker 1: there's something that pops up, my belief is it's okay,
Speaker 1: I'm always going to be able to sort out. And
Speaker 1: I was speaking to a tear off air about like
Speaker 1: a speeding fine I recently go which was like so
Speaker 1: outrageous because it got billed to my business account and
Speaker 1: they charge you like four times the amount, and I
Speaker 1: had to like really step into the I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: let this mean anything, if that makes sense, Like, rather
Speaker 1: than being like, fuck this bock the system, the police
Speaker 1: so rogue. I love the police. I mean no, I
Speaker 1: really don't. You know, like I have to act even now,
Speaker 1: I have to actively go this is fine, instead of
Speaker 1: being like, oh my god, that's two thousand dollars I
Speaker 1: just lost that. I could have bought a fucking you
Speaker 1: know why I sell bags. You could have really treated
Speaker 1: meself and now it's gone down the drain. I don't
Speaker 1: do that. I might have had that thought. It's like,
Speaker 1: you just get better at catching yourself. Yes, you've got
Speaker 1: to catch yourself. And I'm like that's okay. For whatever
Speaker 1: reason the police needed my money, no, And it's like
Speaker 1: just about catching yourself and being like it's fine, Like
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna let this affect me or mean something
Speaker 1: about my wealth or yeah, you know, my essence or
Speaker 1: my relationship with money, yeah, anyway going on. So money
Speaker 1: is always there for me. So I feel like a
Speaker 1: lot of people almost have this negative relationship with money
Speaker 1: where they're like, well, it's never there when I need it,
Speaker 1: And it's if you can reframe that and be like no,
Speaker 1: money is always there for me. When I need something,
Speaker 1: I have the money for it. Yeah, And I'm going
Speaker 1: to change the word money with wealth and abundance throughout,
Speaker 1: but we're all talking about the same thing. Yeah, even
Speaker 1: if it's not like cash. Money, like abundance is just
Speaker 1: almost like having enough that feeling of like you know
Speaker 1: you're being supported.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Absolutely, Well that's like a huge thing too, is like
Speaker 1: I am always supported in regards to like, yeah, I
Speaker 1: you know, I have what I need, if that makes sense.
Speaker 1: I do great things with money. So that's so I
Speaker 1: like that one. That would be a great one for you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because I talk about this story in the project actually
Speaker 1: of talking to a girlfriend who definitely had limiting beliefs
Speaker 1: around money and greed, and she was, you know, explaining
Speaker 1: that don't you think if you had extra money, you know,
Speaker 1: you would change as a person, And she kind of
Speaker 1: her example was like if you had Kylie Jener money,
Speaker 1: don't you think you would change as a person? And
Speaker 1: she doesn't want to change as a person, And I'm like, no,
Speaker 1: if I had Kylie Jenner money.
Speaker 2: Like I'd have my own foundations.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's like often wealthy people who are good
Speaker 1: people at heart do amazing things with money, like really
Speaker 1: beautiful things with money, and so you need to believe.
Speaker 1: And then I even explained to her like since I
Speaker 1: have created more wealth for myself, like I have monthly
Speaker 1: charities I give to I have, you know, any time,
Speaker 1: like the other day, Oh my god, I was watching
Speaker 1: this instagram about these beautiful welfare animals at the Sunshine
Speaker 1: Coast and they're like animals that have been you know,
Speaker 1: mistreated or yeah, just like abused and you know, not
Speaker 1: treated well. And then there's this beautiful farm and they
Speaker 1: look after them and they have this Instagram and it
Speaker 1: was beautiful and I was like so so emotional where
Speaker 1: I saw it that I was able to go in
Speaker 1: and you know, click and give money to this foundation
Speaker 1: because yeah, it felt right to me and those instances
Speaker 1: whereas if I didn't have any money in my bank account,
Speaker 1: I couldn't do that. No you just want to yes,
Speaker 1: yeah exactly. So that was kind of a rant. But
Speaker 1: I do great things with money. This is a great
Speaker 1: one for your tire. There is nothing bad about wanting money.
Speaker 1: It brings opportunities, freedom and money is the reason I
Speaker 1: don't have to say no, I love that one that
Speaker 1: was a good affirmation I had for a very long time.
Speaker 1: What are some of your money affirmations? You don't have any?
Speaker 2: Not really, I'm starting them process now, I think mine.
Speaker 2: I'm not even gonna share them because they weren't good. Like,
Speaker 2: I've now come to the realization that I need different ones,
Speaker 2: because sometimes your affirmations can affirm different limiting beliefs.
Speaker 1: M M, I go with me. Yeah. Well, another one
Speaker 1: that I used to say was like almost like leaning
Speaker 1: into the you don't have to work extremely hard, is
Speaker 1: just money comes to me with ease and flow. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like the more fun I'm having, the more money I make.
Speaker 2: I love that one.
Speaker 1: So different stuff like that that just like almost yeah,
Speaker 1: it changes your limiting belief and makes you feel good.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I will actually share this one. One of the
Speaker 2: ones that I noticed that wasn't okay was I was
Speaker 2: always like, I have enough money, but it's like I
Speaker 2: shouldn't want enough, I should want an abundance and an overflow.
Speaker 2: I always use the word overflow, yeah, because it's like
Speaker 2: it doesn't have an ending, it doesn't have an ending,
Speaker 2: whereas enough is like there's an ending, there's an ending,
Speaker 2: and it's where I am at so how can I
Speaker 2: go further?
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, yeah, I always have an overflow of money.
Speaker 2: I love that one.
Speaker 1: An overflow of abundance. I just love the word overflow. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's like so much. So it's like a fountain and
Speaker 1: it just keeps yeah, going and going going. Oh I
Speaker 1: love it. Okay, So they're kind of like my new
Speaker 1: affirmations and in the ebook you're going to create your own.
Speaker 1: Let's kind of chat about the energy of money. Because
Speaker 1: again I hope I'm explaining this right it like it
Speaker 1: makes sense in my head. I hope it makes sense
Speaker 1: to you guys. But you know, if we're talking the
Speaker 1: law of attraction manifestation, the universe can't give us anything
Speaker 1: that we don't believe we can have, so our the
Speaker 1: biggest part about your relationship with money is believing you
Speaker 1: are worthy, and that's kind of the biggest part of
Speaker 1: any manifestation and kind of like changing your beliefs and
Speaker 1: emotions around money, you will honestly change your life. And
Speaker 1: it's really feeding into like what really changed my life
Speaker 1: is going from a scarcity mindset to an abundance mindset,
Speaker 1: and a scarcity mindset just is the feeling of never
Speaker 1: having enough, never being supported by money, always feeling like
Speaker 1: if you let it go, yeah, it's not going to
Speaker 1: come back in. And just like even the energy of
Speaker 1: scarcity like it feels gross, it feels like feel shitty,
Speaker 1: Whereas then the energy of abundance is I'm not worried, relaxed, relaxed.
Speaker 1: I know it's always there. I know I'm always going
Speaker 1: to be supported and guided. I can't fuck it up.
Speaker 1: I can't do shitty things of money. Because that's another
Speaker 1: thing is people have weird things about money because they're like, oh,
Speaker 1: but if I have too much of it, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: go gamble it or I'm going to do something you know,
Speaker 1: stupid with them. So it's like the feeling of abundance
Speaker 1: is like I can't fuck it up. I always have enough,
Speaker 1: I always have what I need and it's all good,
Speaker 1: and almost shifting into that feel that energy shift of
Speaker 1: if you have an abundant mindset, it's kind of and
Speaker 1: bear with me as I explain this. So, for example,
Speaker 1: when I was obsessed with my body image and being
Speaker 1: smaller and you know, diet culture, it literally consumed my life.
Speaker 1: And I very much talk about this shift of when
Speaker 1: I stop. I stopped in that negative loop, and I
Speaker 1: stopped obsessing over how I was looking, and you know
Speaker 1: that being my worth. Amazing stuff happened with my business
Speaker 1: and you know, different things in my career, and it's
Speaker 1: because I actually had the mental capacity to think about
Speaker 1: other things and step out of that negative loop. So
Speaker 1: if you can kind of get over this negative loop
Speaker 1: with money, it almost just becomes something you don't even
Speaker 1: think about because it's just your reality. You don't have
Speaker 1: to sit there and think, oh, how am I shifting
Speaker 1: this limiting belief? How can I not be in this
Speaker 1: scarcity mindset? You're not even having the thought of when
Speaker 1: you see a bill of oh do I have enough money?
Speaker 1: What's in my bank account?
Speaker 2: This?
Speaker 1: And that. It's just it's it's allowing you to almost
Speaker 1: like have that mental capacity back.
Speaker 2: Yeah, does that make sense? Yes?
Speaker 1: So big, Yeah, A big thing for me was shifting
Speaker 1: out of that scarcity mindset into that abundance mindset. And
Speaker 1: that is very much of if we're talking about manifesting.
Speaker 1: If you're sitting in energy of scarcity where you feel
Speaker 1: like you never have enough, your reality is always going
Speaker 1: to reflect that. So you need to ask yourself how
Speaker 1: can you shift internally? Yeah, so your reality reflects that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like raise. If you want something that's high vibe,
Speaker 2: you have to raise your vibe to then attract that thing. Yeah,
Speaker 2: if you're stuck in a lower vibe, the low vibe things,
Speaker 2: you will attract them. You will attract the bad day,
Speaker 2: You'll attract the spilt coffee, You'll attract the red light,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Yeah, those days when you're
Speaker 2: like everything's just going around correct.
Speaker 1: Yes, And that's the exact same thing. Yes, with money.
Speaker 1: So well then let's chat about like spending in that
Speaker 1: mindset that is going to attract more abundance. Yes, because
Speaker 1: this is such a great thing. Like with this time
Speaker 1: of year one hundred. So you know this time of year,
Speaker 1: you know it's Christmas time. We're going up to buying
Speaker 1: all our family presents. We might be going on holidays,
Speaker 1: we might be staying somewhere, and you know, we might
Speaker 1: be going out for New Years and treating ourselves to
Speaker 1: a new diary, et cetera, et cetera, or a manifestation channel.
Speaker 1: So the vibe this time of year is spending with
Speaker 1: joy and ease and gratitude and like spending with intention,
Speaker 1: because also we're not silly gals. We're being smart with
Speaker 1: our money. But you can be smart with your money,
Speaker 1: but you can spend with the intention of abundance, if
Speaker 1: that makes sense. And so, for example, and I'm kind
Speaker 1: of going to left ear, but someone in the project
Speaker 1: I remember was asking me about you know, we're talking
Speaker 1: about the energy of money and the vibe of money,
Speaker 1: and her goal obviously has a lot to do with money,
Speaker 1: and she's like, yeah, but what does it mean about
Speaker 1: my energy and me if I am always looking for
Speaker 1: a bargain? And I said, it doesn't actually matter about
Speaker 1: the if you're getting a bargain or not. It's about
Speaker 1: how you feel about that bargain. Because for example, I
Speaker 1: grew up and you know, me and mom would walk
Speaker 1: into a store and we would walk straight to the
Speaker 1: sail section, and that's why we would shop. And then
Speaker 1: I remember us always like really getting bang for our buck,
Speaker 1: and you know, you're like getting five T shirts for
Speaker 1: twenty bucks or whatever, but then like, you never actually
Speaker 1: wear those five T shirts because they were shitty and
Speaker 1: you didn't actually like them. You just bought them because
Speaker 1: they were cheap. And so my relationship with bargains is
Speaker 1: I don't do that anymore because I have like PSTD
Speaker 1: from going up, and it's more I've got a really
Speaker 1: for example, if there's a sale, like I recently bought
Speaker 1: a whole heap of stuff from Dish in their Black
Speaker 1: Friday and it was twenty percent off, but it was
Speaker 1: stuff like that. I was like I wanted this before
Speaker 1: the sale, yes, and then the sale happened and I
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, amazing, I'll get it. And also I
Speaker 1: bought a whole heap of stuff from Seed, which I
Speaker 1: was obsessed with, and I literally said to Ellie, I
Speaker 1: want to buy some stuff for Ivy from Seed, but
Speaker 1: it is so cute Black Friday is going to be,
Speaker 1: you know next week put in my diary.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So we bought a whole heap of stuff and it
Speaker 1: was also twenty percent off, and so the feeling with
Speaker 1: that is it was stuff that it's like I was
Speaker 1: gonna buy that anyway, and it feels really good and
Speaker 1: in the energy of like I am abundant rather than
Speaker 1: I'm just buying this because it's ten dollars cheaper. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And that's so, for example, that's what I said to
Speaker 1: the person of well, it doesn't matter if you bargain
Speaker 1: shop or not. It's the energy in which you bargain shop. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if that makes sense.
Speaker 2: That makes a lot of sense, because it's almost like
Speaker 2: you you're smart enough with your money to know that
Speaker 2: it's nice to save money here and there on things.
Speaker 2: So if you've got something in your wishless then then
Speaker 2: like I do it on Iconic, for example, because they
Speaker 2: have sales all the time. I'm so randomly I like
Speaker 2: or like I kind of like, but it's just not
Speaker 2: quite in the moment, and they'll send you a notification
Speaker 2: when it's on sale, and I'll go, oh, this is
Speaker 2: down twenty percent or it's down thirty percent, and I'll go,
Speaker 2: I'll actually get it now because I like it, and
Speaker 2: i'll wear it, and now I'm getting a good deal.
Speaker 2: But that doesn't mean that I wouldn't have paid full price.
Speaker 1: And it feels really good to you. Yeah, yeah, And
Speaker 1: I think that's the big thing. And that's why, you know,
Speaker 1: when people are talking about money mindset, they're like, you know,
Speaker 1: tap your card and say stuff like there's more where
Speaker 1: that came from.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And like I started using that actually good.
Speaker 1: I used to always use that too, like very much of.
Speaker 1: And also looking at even the exchange of money is huge.
Speaker 1: So instead of looking at something as in like I'm
Speaker 1: losing money to get this thing, It's like I'm just
Speaker 1: exchanging money to get this thing, and then it's back
Speaker 1: into my you know wealth. Yeah, that's an even exchange.
Speaker 1: And I love that. And like, I'm my view of
Speaker 1: money now is like it's meant to be spent where
Speaker 1: I was like it was meant to be saved. And
Speaker 1: so even that shift, I'm not worried when money, you know,
Speaker 1: releases or I have to pay speeding fine or anything,
Speaker 1: because I'm like, it's all good. It's just getting recycled.
Speaker 2: Yeah, just I'll like, someone else needed that money somewhere
Speaker 2: and this is just how it's getting to them.
Speaker 1: And also like a big thing of like that money
Speaker 1: that I paid, it was never my money. It's the
Speaker 1: universe's money, do you mean? And I'm just borrowing money.
Speaker 1: I'm just borrowing money from the universe. I'm just giving
Speaker 1: it here and I get some more and it's abundant.
Speaker 1: There's like literally an infinite amount, and so why am
Speaker 1: I worried?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like I have someone stuff.
Speaker 1: To work me. I'm borrowing the universe. This is what
Speaker 1: I mean. I know, like I get a little bit
Speaker 1: worried talking about this topic because in my brain it
Speaker 1: makes so much sense. But I can understand if you're
Speaker 1: listening and you're like, she's a bit crazy, But bear
Speaker 1: with me, because trust me, you want to think this way.
Speaker 1: It's it's amazing. And so that's why I never get
Speaker 1: like upset when I release money, because I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: it's all good. Yeah, And that's the energy you want
Speaker 1: to be in because you'll just you just get more money. Yeah,
Speaker 1: You're not stressed, you're not.
Speaker 2: Stressed about you're not fixating on it.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So that's like a big thing that I wanted to
Speaker 1: talk about, just in regards to like scarcity versus abundance.
Speaker 2: I have a question, yeah, which I feel comes up
Speaker 2: a lot. And then something I think about too, is like,
Speaker 2: what's the difference between budgeting and having a scarcity mindset?
Speaker 1: M Well, again, it's like it's the energy and within
Speaker 1: like within doing it. Yeah. So for example, I still
Speaker 1: somewhat budget Yeah, so you know, we have a certain
Speaker 1: amount of money that goes into certain accounts that pays
Speaker 1: you know, certain things, and if I do want to,
Speaker 1: you know, treat myself. I am looking in my accounted
Speaker 1: account and being like like explange or yeah, is there
Speaker 1: three hundred dollars? Is there fifteen? You know what's been happening, because,
Speaker 1: for example, what happened the other day, Oh, I wanted
Speaker 1: to buy Oh I want to sow my partnership's manager
Speaker 1: just since I was getting married next year at Hamilton Island,
Speaker 1: and so we've already booked our accommodation, my favorite quality.
Speaker 1: That's done. But I have on my list of Ellie
Speaker 1: reminding me to book flights. Yeah, but then it's been
Speaker 1: on my list for three weeks. But I want to
Speaker 1: book business because that's just how I want to fly.
Speaker 1: Fly help. Yeah, I want to be I want to
Speaker 1: book business class, and at the moment, I don't have
Speaker 1: enough free money to do that. So I'm like, remind
Speaker 1: me every week and I'll check checkuals. I'm like essentially
Speaker 1: saving up for it. Yeah, if that makes sense. So
Speaker 1: there's different stuff like that where I'm like, you know,
Speaker 1: I this is it. I am very familiar with my money.
Speaker 1: I know where it's going. I know exactly how much
Speaker 1: I'm earning. I know exactly how much bills, costs, and
Speaker 1: I'm very familiar, I'm very smart. I know where everything is. Yes,
Speaker 1: but I'm not sitting there going, for example, when that
Speaker 1: fine came in of two thousand dollars, I'm not sitting
Speaker 1: there going, oh well, I'm down two thousand dollars.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And you're not like rearranging your whole spread for
Speaker 2: the month because you spend two thousand dollars on a
Speaker 2: fine that wasn't there.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, I don't do that.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: In saying that, for example, would have been great to
Speaker 1: pook those flights last week, but fucking had to base
Speaker 1: reading fines, I'm like, we'll push that you also, you know,
Speaker 1: like it might get to a point where I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'll just book economy. No, we're not doing that. But
Speaker 1: it's like, I'm very I'm very familiar with my money,
Speaker 1: and I consciously make decisions but in the energy of
Speaker 1: abundance and ease and I'm supported. It's never in the energy.
Speaker 2: Of I have to do this because there's not enough
Speaker 2: I have.
Speaker 1: To hold onto my money. I did actually go through
Speaker 1: a weird, funky thing with my money mindset when we
Speaker 1: purchased our new house, and I feel like you do
Speaker 1: this anytime you go to a new level. And then
Speaker 1: you know, this is more about energetic minimums, which alsously
Speaker 1: go hugely into the project, and it's all about like
Speaker 1: essentially how much the energy of money, like how much
Speaker 1: you can energetically hold is what you will always attract.
Speaker 1: So when you go to a new level of buying
Speaker 1: a new car, buying a new house, and that huge
Speaker 1: amount of chunk of money comes out or you know,
Speaker 1: it just feels like so next level, you will go
Speaker 1: through a weird time where you either are like in
Speaker 1: full scarcity mode until you rebuild that energetic minimum or
Speaker 1: you allow yourself to go to the next level without
Speaker 1: being worried.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: And I went through the scarcity Yeah, and I was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, we've just spent out this money. What
Speaker 1: have we done? What if the market crashes? Blah blah
Speaker 1: blah blah. And I had to fully you know, works
Speaker 1: through it because I was at that you know, next limit,
Speaker 1: if that makes sense. Yeah, And that's like a big
Speaker 1: thing with anything in your life. You're always going to
Speaker 1: have these new limiting beliefs say come up that there's
Speaker 1: always going to be a new level and that's okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: and that's why you have the tools to work through
Speaker 1: it and every time and understand your money mindset and
Speaker 1: work on it. But that was a bit of a
Speaker 1: tangent love that for us, so tire guys. I know
Speaker 1: we've kind of gone all over the place right now,
Speaker 1: but I guess we just wanted to dive in into
Speaker 1: quite a few topics and just you know, put our
Speaker 1: little thoughts on it. And then if you are getting
Speaker 1: the feeling where you're like, I actually do need to
Speaker 1: work on my money mindset. I kind of want to
Speaker 1: go a bit deeper into this. Make sure you download
Speaker 1: the Freebee put it out for you guys, completely free.
Speaker 1: All you have to do is click the link in
Speaker 1: the show notes. Otherwise it will be in our bio
Speaker 1: on Instagram, I'm sure. And yeah, you can get a
Speaker 1: free ebook. You can look at the limiting Beliefs, you
Speaker 1: can do the workbook. There's a couple of short training
Speaker 1: videos that are from the project that you can have
Speaker 1: a look at. And like I said, it's just about
Speaker 1: being aware and being like, oh this is interesting, I
Speaker 1: think this is something I need to work on. Or
Speaker 1: if your current reality reflects a scarcity reality and you're
Speaker 1: like oh, I do need to shift something internally to
Speaker 1: then you know, have a different reality. That's also a
Speaker 1: big thing of like I need to work on this. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but yeah, amazing the ebook. I hope you enjoyed this.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry it was a bit all over the best.
Speaker 2: If you feel like you still have questions about anything
Speaker 2: we've spoken about, hop in the Facebook group will put
Speaker 2: a thread up and then we might do another episode.
Speaker 1: And also a huge thing we actually didn't talk about today,
Speaker 1: it tire is how people have this thing with money.
Speaker 1: It's almost like they don't want to work on their
Speaker 1: relationship with money because they're like, oh, I just get
Speaker 1: paid by my boss and there's no way money can
Speaker 1: come in, which is a lie.
Speaker 2: And that used to be one of my limiting beliefs,
Speaker 2: like I needed my own business or.
Speaker 1: To get more money, or a side hustle to get
Speaker 1: more money, which ees centrome. So there is a bonus
Speaker 1: episode going out where we're giving you a whole bunch
Speaker 1: of money stories, and these are for the purpose of
Speaker 1: expanding you, for you to realize that money and abundance
Speaker 1: can come in so many different ways. You just have
Speaker 1: to be open to it. You have to change your
Speaker 1: beliefs around it, and you're gonna love that episode, So
Speaker 1: that's dropping at some point, should be Thursday. Okay, noted.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening. Guys, we will talk
Speaker 1: to my next episode. Guy. Thank you so much for
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