WEBVTT - 😡 🥄WHERE ARE ALL THE TEASPOONS 🥄 😡

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<v Speaker 1>Flex and Frooms, Flex and Frooms. This is the Flex

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<v Speaker 1>and Frooms catch up podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Eh, sweety pies. We don't want to end your week

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<v Speaker 2>with anything but the best, So today Frumi is dishing

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<v Speaker 2>all the goss and tea on the people and the

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<v Speaker 2>professions to avoid if you want a successful and harmonious relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>Who knows where she got this information, but I'm happy

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<v Speaker 2>to hear it, happy to apply it. And also something

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<v Speaker 2>about missing teaspoons and offices. What's the deal? Where did

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<v Speaker 2>they go? Is there a teaspoon thief? Do you know one?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you one? I don't know? Have a lovely weekend, though,

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<v Speaker 2>here's the potty. You're listening to Flex and Frooms on

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<v Speaker 2>Kita Now. I am no stranger to using the phrase

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<v Speaker 2>eat Pray Love. I mean, I Eat Pray Love era

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<v Speaker 2>this week, and I'm doing Eat Pray Love. And it

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<v Speaker 2>had occurred to me in a moment of clarity that

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<v Speaker 2>I have I have neither read the book or watched

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<v Speaker 2>the movie. I don't even know what it's about, and

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even really know what I'm saying when I

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<v Speaker 2>say that, And I don't even really know what I'm

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<v Speaker 2>communicating and what people are perceiving me to mean when

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<v Speaker 2>I say I'm going to do eprey love.

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<v Speaker 3>Can I tell you what I think of?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, being like lavish and laying down with a grape

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<v Speaker 1>maney mouth, That's what.

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<v Speaker 2>I see, right, I mean, I kind of thought she's

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<v Speaker 2>like taking it easy, not stressing out broadly speaking, but

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<v Speaker 2>I thought I would do some research. So Eat, Pray

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<v Speaker 2>Love is built on the notion of a woman trying

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<v Speaker 2>to heal herself from a severe emotional and spiritual crisis.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a memoir by this woman called Elizabeth Gilbert, who,

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<v Speaker 2>off the back of a divorce, leaves everything behind and

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<v Speaker 2>goes traveling for a year, and the movie that gets

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<v Speaker 2>made documents her quest to heal, find peace, and restore

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<v Speaker 2>balance in her life as she travels through Rome, India

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<v Speaker 2>and Bali, and her ventures bring forth all of these

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<v Speaker 2>really painful lessons and self discoveries and resonating truths and

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<v Speaker 2>so in the book, she talks about what she learned

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<v Speaker 2>on her path to finding herself, and she also talks

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<v Speaker 2>about the peace that she encountered on this path and

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<v Speaker 2>how they responded to her solution of running away as

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<v Speaker 2>a form of healing, and how you know they kind

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<v Speaker 2>of humbled her in the process and what she ended

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<v Speaker 2>up learning. And so there are a few quotes that

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<v Speaker 2>I want to read out because while I didn't read

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<v Speaker 2>the book, I thought, let me get a few nuggets

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<v Speaker 2>near to see if it's gonna do a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>of something for us. And so Liz herself says, if

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<v Speaker 2>you're brave enough to leave behind everything familiar and comfany,

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<v Speaker 2>which can be anything from your house to bitter old resentment,

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<v Speaker 2>and set out on a truth seeking journey, either externally

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<v Speaker 2>or internally. And if you're truly willing to regard everything

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<v Speaker 2>that happens to you on that journey as a clue,

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<v Speaker 2>and if you accept everyone you meet as a teacher,

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<v Speaker 2>and if you are prepared most of all, to forgive

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<v Speaker 2>some very difficult realities about yourself, then the truth will

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<v Speaker 2>not be withheld from you. So that is the kind

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<v Speaker 2>of vibe. It's this real soul searching, but not in

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<v Speaker 2>the superficial way that I think most of us have

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<v Speaker 2>been using it. Right, just like a casual I'm a

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<v Speaker 2>switch on for the weekend, go back to the same

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<v Speaker 2>like frustrating dynamics that has caused me to feel like

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<v Speaker 2>I need to switch off for the weekend. And she

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<v Speaker 2>has this excerpt from this guy called Richard that she

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<v Speaker 2>met in Texas who she told about her journey of eat, pray,

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<v Speaker 2>love and what she was doing, and he said this

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<v Speaker 2>to her, you have to learn to select your thoughts

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<v Speaker 2>the way you select your clothes every day. That's a

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<v Speaker 2>power you can cultivate. You want to come here and

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<v Speaker 2>control your life, so bad work on your mind. That's

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<v Speaker 2>the only thing you should control. If you can't master

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<v Speaker 2>your thoughts, you're in trouble. Stop trying surrender. And I

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<v Speaker 2>guess my interpretation of that is like, you can't control

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<v Speaker 2>the uncontrollable, and you can't control other people's actions, but

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<v Speaker 2>you can dictate what you choose to process, and you

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<v Speaker 2>can process your thoughts. And I think that a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of us when we want to do this escapism thing,

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<v Speaker 2>like go somewhere else, it kind of reminds me of

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<v Speaker 2>that cliche wherever you go there you are, like you

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<v Speaker 2>don't realize that you're carrying those perceptions with you and

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<v Speaker 2>those burdens, and you're carrying the memories with you, and

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<v Speaker 2>you're carrying the learnings with you. And if you're not

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<v Speaker 2>careful of recognizing that that is the reality of the situation.

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<v Speaker 2>You'll overhaul everything to disappear and end up right back

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<v Speaker 2>where you were emotionally and mentally speaking.

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<v Speaker 3>An unfortunate truth.

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<v Speaker 2>WHOA so many of those popping up on the show

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<v Speaker 2>these days. But look, timing is everything because it's it's

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<v Speaker 2>It made me think what other words or phrases are

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<v Speaker 2>we using that are so contradictory to what they truly mean?

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<v Speaker 1>So larv, Yeah, what is that? What will be will be?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure such is life. I still don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what Naquille was on about when he said such.

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<v Speaker 3>Is life, Such as life, that's how it goes? Is

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<v Speaker 3>that the vibe? I'm assuming such is life? Damn.

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<v Speaker 1>We have had the unique pleasure of working at quite

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<v Speaker 1>a few different corporate workspaces, I would say, over our

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<v Speaker 1>time of being in the workforce ten years clocking on

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<v Speaker 1>ten years. As we all know, I love to share

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<v Speaker 1>that my first job was at a car yard Nebo higher,

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<v Speaker 1>Nebo higher obviously, and I was helping make the coffees,

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<v Speaker 1>amongst other things. I did have quite a wide, far

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<v Speaker 1>reaching role, oh, one of them being a personality higher

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<v Speaker 1>bringing morale and a youthful.

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<v Speaker 2>Basically the operational manager logistics in general vibe.

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<v Speaker 1>I used to think I was so good because I

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<v Speaker 1>would like, be really casual and fun with the other CEOs.

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<v Speaker 3>It would come in. I'm like, I was just entitled. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>that's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>But now I know something that I noticed in my

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<v Speaker 1>time as a corporate adjacent girly is that every single

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<v Speaker 1>kitchen kitchenette has no cutlery.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, were are all the baby spoons?

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<v Speaker 2>That is a good question considering I don't think people

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<v Speaker 2>are taking office cutlery home.

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<v Speaker 1>See, I have been guilty of it tom time Again

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<v Speaker 1>tomorrow I bring in a beautiful lazagne hands.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you taken office cutlery? Have you?

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<v Speaker 1>Jo?

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<v Speaker 3>What do you mean you taking office culoring home?

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<v Speaker 2>I just to leave my cutlery here because it's too

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<v Speaker 2>grossed to packbacker into the handbag.

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<v Speaker 3>What are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>Pop it all into the tupperware that I've brought every

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<v Speaker 1>time I bring Mickey a little risky two eats lunch.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes I accidentally take one home.

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<v Speaker 3>They're awful. I'll bring it back when I remember.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm like that, okay, fine, that makes sense. For

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<v Speaker 2>maybe if a fork goes missing, a big spoon but

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<v Speaker 2>where are the teaspoons going?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, one TikTok is here to tell you.

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<v Speaker 4>In the institute's eight tea rooms, and they made a

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<v Speaker 4>weekly count of the spoons over the course of two months,

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<v Speaker 4>and then a fortnightly count over the ensuing three months.

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<v Speaker 4>After the five months the staff were told about the

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<v Speaker 4>surreptitious study, they were asked to return or anonymously report

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<v Speaker 4>any marked spoons that had made it to their desk,

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<v Speaker 4>drawers or homes, and then they were asked to fill

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<v Speaker 4>out a questionnaire. In all, fifty six of seventy or

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<v Speaker 4>eighty percent of the teaspoons disappeared.

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<v Speaker 2>I can imagine, because we do know that office cutlery

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<v Speaker 2>just feels gross. Most office utensils feel really gross. However,

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<v Speaker 2>the logic of keeping a little teaspoin for yourself and

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<v Speaker 2>just using that same one bringing it back to your

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<v Speaker 2>desk using that same one that feels fine, is that

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<v Speaker 2>not allowed?

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's probably a bit selfish.

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<v Speaker 2>Then if there should be one for everyone, and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>sure it's in the.

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<v Speaker 1>Budget, let's go back to the budget's boys. Anyway, I

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<v Speaker 1>am outing myself. I have found myself with a random

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<v Speaker 1>piece of cutlery from this very building. HR already has

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<v Speaker 1>many reasons to dislike me, and yet here I am

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<v Speaker 1>on record fearless, a fearless, a fearless woman.

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<v Speaker 2>A warrior.

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<v Speaker 3>I wasn't gonna do it. I wait for it.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think I can confidently say that we all

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<v Speaker 2>really suck at conflict resolution. But is there something to

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<v Speaker 2>learn from people who literally get paid to de escalate,

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<v Speaker 2>People who literally have money coming in their account every

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<v Speaker 2>week because during the work week they had to pick

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<v Speaker 2>up a call from a disgruntled person, solve their problem

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<v Speaker 2>and make them feel comfortable and heard in the process.

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<v Speaker 2>Here is a video from a TikToker called Hay Slim

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<v Speaker 2>four nine to eight.

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<v Speaker 5>You're yelling again, okay, So remember when you yell, I

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<v Speaker 5>can't assist you to my best ability because you're yelling,

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<v Speaker 5>so I can't hear you clearly or understand you clearly. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 5>So you yelling and getting worked up does not change

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<v Speaker 5>the policies and procedures.

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<v Speaker 2>This reminds me so clearly of a discussion for me

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<v Speaker 2>and I were having last week on air, and we

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<v Speaker 2>were talking about how some advice that people give you

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<v Speaker 2>about conflict resolution is to kind of temper your emotions

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<v Speaker 2>and to meet somebody's anger or emotional explosion with a

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<v Speaker 2>sense of calm. And we said that we could imagine

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<v Speaker 2>in a professional scenario that would work really well, but

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<v Speaker 2>in personal scenarios that it could feel like you were

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<v Speaker 2>in fantializing the person, because really, what it does feel

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<v Speaker 2>like there's a gentle parenting technique where you kind of

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<v Speaker 2>have to diffuse the emotional outbursts before you can even

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<v Speaker 2>start picking away at the problem. But the issue is

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<v Speaker 2>when the problem is the reason why you're having the

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<v Speaker 2>emotional outbursts, it almost seems like you start and stop

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<v Speaker 2>at the outbursts and you can't fix the thing. And

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<v Speaker 2>it reminds me of what I've been noticing a lot online,

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<v Speaker 2>especially these days, but a lot of the way that

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<v Speaker 2>we interact with each other, a lot of things that

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<v Speaker 2>we don't like about the world are symptoms of bigger problems,

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<v Speaker 2>and so we create these micro cures for these symptoms

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<v Speaker 2>that don't match up, or they soothe us for a

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<v Speaker 2>short amount of time. So let's say I have a

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<v Speaker 2>blaring headache because I blast music all day and I

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<v Speaker 2>sleep with the lights on, and I don't drink water

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<v Speaker 2>and so I feel like, Oh, I've got to move house.

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<v Speaker 2>Not the real shit, be like, Oh I don't like

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<v Speaker 2>my environment, I can't sleep here. You know, the vibes

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<v Speaker 2>are off. I'm not taking the time to do a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit of a self assessment and say, is there

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<v Speaker 2>anything else here that could be contributing to this issue?

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<v Speaker 2>But no, in my head, I know it's the house.

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<v Speaker 2>And so if I meet anyone on that journey of

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<v Speaker 2>moving who gets in the way of me finding that house,

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<v Speaker 2>like a real estate agent is frustrating me, and so

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<v Speaker 2>I take out my anger on them. Or I can't

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<v Speaker 2>get my bond returned quickly enough, so I'm frustrated at that.

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<v Speaker 2>Or I couldn't get the delivery organized quick enough, so

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<v Speaker 2>I'm frustrated at that, Or because I'm creating solutions for

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<v Speaker 2>a problem that wouldn't exist if I thought about the

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<v Speaker 2>problem a little bit more. The point is, as it remains,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like in that instance as well, like if

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<v Speaker 2>you're calling a call center and that person is the

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<v Speaker 2>only barrier between you and a solution and you demean them,

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<v Speaker 2>it means you don't really have a good understanding of

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<v Speaker 2>what your best case scenario is, because if you really

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<v Speaker 2>wanted a solution, you would work with this person to

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<v Speaker 2>help you. But I think in a lot of times

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<v Speaker 2>we just want to be heard. We just want to

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<v Speaker 2>get seen, frustrated, acknowledged and be seen and heard. And

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<v Speaker 2>what have we been talking about on Flexi's big questions?

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<v Speaker 2>What's the appropriate way to express anger?

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<v Speaker 3>We don't know?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Will you help us get to an answer?

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<v Speaker 2>Flex I'm learning in my own time. So if I

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<v Speaker 2>figure out the answer, I'm in a practice a bit

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<v Speaker 2>and I might gatekeeper. I mean, just for a little back,

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit throwback. You're listening to Flex and Rooms

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<v Speaker 2>on Kita.

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<v Speaker 1>Here on the show, we are always questing for knowledge.

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<v Speaker 1>We are thirsty to learn more and to enjoy life.

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<v Speaker 3>We came across a TikTok.

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<v Speaker 1>It's by Boston family lawyer, and they have gone in

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<v Speaker 1>to tell the loyal listeners of such a TikTok the

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<v Speaker 1>kind of people to avoid based on their profession, as

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<v Speaker 1>is always when we're making broad, sweeping statements and encouraging stereotypes.

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<v Speaker 2>Take but it doesn't apply, Let it fly, doesn't apply,

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<v Speaker 2>Let it fly.

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<v Speaker 1>I find that difficult sometimes when I get my back

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<v Speaker 1>up and get a bit offended, but it's a great

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<v Speaker 1>way to practice dealing with things that you don't agree

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<v Speaker 1>with when people are wrong. So allegedly, the Boston family

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<v Speaker 1>lawyer says these are the professions to avoid. I'm assuming

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<v Speaker 1>they're because this Boston family lawyer has dealt with a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of divorces. And that's just me surmising Jack and

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<v Speaker 1>I would have been a good lawyer.

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<v Speaker 3>What kind of barrister? Maybe be theatrics?

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<v Speaker 2>I think you have a different energy more do you

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<v Speaker 2>have to suppress a lot of parts of your personality

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<v Speaker 2>and like bring up other parts like the Karen would

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<v Speaker 2>work well in that environment.

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<v Speaker 3>This is what I'm thinking.

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<v Speaker 2>But playful through me? Could you really hang? I think

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<v Speaker 2>I think judges like it. They get a little have

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<v Speaker 2>a bit of fun with her.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, they like that kind of chutzpa.

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<v Speaker 2>Holtzpa we learned.

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<v Speaker 3>Pardon me?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, these are the professions to avoid.

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<v Speaker 3>Number one plumber.

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<v Speaker 2>I would say you would have gone from four down. Okay, sorry, no,

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<v Speaker 2>it's too late. So if it's in order of like

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<v Speaker 2>most avoids, leaf avoid a good.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen, and no hate to plumbers. As we know, I

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<v Speaker 1>have a cousin who's a we do know. If you

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<v Speaker 1>guys need a plumber in Melbourne, hit me up, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>share the dates.

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<v Speaker 3>Great, great guy.

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<v Speaker 1>That's because they have a regular hours, easy access to

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<v Speaker 1>other people, and freedom.

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<v Speaker 3>We've all seen the corn videos. The plumber shows up

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<v Speaker 3>at the house, the wife is alone. You do the math.

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<v Speaker 1>Number two electricians, I'm assuming that's for the same reason

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<v Speaker 1>as plumbers. I also think being electrician is quite a

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<v Speaker 1>dangerous job. That's why they get paid a lot of money.

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<v Speaker 1>Shout out to the all the electricians. Okay. Number three pilots,

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<v Speaker 1>which I see March Simpson's father was a steward. Number

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<v Speaker 1>four doctors.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean there's a there's a duty.

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<v Speaker 1>Of care that a doctor must so if we're if

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<v Speaker 1>we're talking meeting people on.

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<v Speaker 3>The job, that's actually against Melbourne more.

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<v Speaker 2>So than just the irregular hours, easy access to other people,

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<v Speaker 2>and freedom. Like all of these jobs listed plumber, electrician, pilots,

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<v Speaker 2>and lawyers, these are all high stress, high adrenaline, high

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<v Speaker 2>quarters sold jobs. And sure when you're making decisions at

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<v Speaker 2>a level that's so critical every day, you would kind

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<v Speaker 2>of drop the ball and get decision fatigue. For the

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<v Speaker 2>basic stuff. I just saved someone's life cut me some slack.

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<v Speaker 3>Cut me some slack.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, if you're a plumber, an electrician, a pilot, or

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<v Speaker 1>a doctor, power to you. We salute you, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for your service, and it's a pleasure to have you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's time for our favorite time of the week. It's

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the la week. It's Friday, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>time for.

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<v Speaker 3>Mickey's music Quiz. Hello, Hi, hell, are you hits me?

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<v Speaker 3>It's m I K K I. Is that what your

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<v Speaker 3>friends call you?

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<v Speaker 6>You guys are actually the only people that call me Mickey?

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<v Speaker 5>Whoa?

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<v Speaker 6>But it has infiltrated the friendship group.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you say about us in new Chat? You

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<v Speaker 3>got a favorite? Its me?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, guys, and I'd be surprised if it wasn't for

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<v Speaker 2>your brain. Siamese twiny things.

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<v Speaker 6>I love you in different ways, different babe, I love

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<v Speaker 6>youth in different ways.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, let's play the queen.

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<v Speaker 6>That's the point.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>Today's quiz it's musicians who are also actors.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, yeah, I got to be out of shack

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<v Speaker 1>this week, guys, Madonna?

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<v Speaker 3>All right, let's go. Who's to say? Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm scared sexy back. Justin's in like that? Was quick, babe,

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<v Speaker 3>he's on heaps? He did that?

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<v Speaker 1>Mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Like cens movie with Madonna?

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<v Speaker 3>What? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want me to pull up the discory random jt.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay number two?

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<v Speaker 1>That on?

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<v Speaker 3>This one's hard? Wait again?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh this is Cake by the Ocean?

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<v Speaker 6>What bad liar Bicelena Gomez?

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<v Speaker 3>That wasn't coming.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know that wasn't clue?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, Rihanna, Yes, it's like that real anthemic one?

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<v Speaker 3>Is that day? Who's that with? Is that with?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that with Mickey?

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<v Speaker 3>No? Is that Paul McCartney?

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<v Speaker 6>No, but I did that for five seconds.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just different. Now this is not in my.

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<v Speaker 1>You're really hard today, Please play it again?

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<v Speaker 3>I thought this.

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<v Speaker 6>It sounds like I really thought.

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<v Speaker 3>You'd know genre.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that too many noises?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 6>Sorry, No, it's Kimmy K turned me up?

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<v Speaker 3>Who have you ever turned me up?

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<v Speaker 1>Like Kimmy K a little bit?

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't know kim Kardashen had a singing moment.

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<v Speaker 6>Because I can't believe you guys didn't know about that

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<v Speaker 6>was incredible?

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<v Speaker 3>Have you seen that?

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<v Speaker 2>No? But I'm also really against I told you how

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<v Speaker 2>DJing put me off a lot of music.

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<v Speaker 3>It's too much.

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<v Speaker 6>I think anyone was teaching, and they should they should. Okay,

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<v Speaker 6>it's one all this time might be hard.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, it's a bit of an old school moment, Nirvana,

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<v Speaker 3>you really stopped us this.

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<v Speaker 6>Wow, that was David Bowie heroes.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, do we.

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<v Speaker 2>Not understanding Mickey? Get out of here?

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<v Speaker 3>Don't there's too creative one.

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<v Speaker 2>This.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what you think this is.

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<v Speaker 2>Is great Friday trying to pull a fast on? Do

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<v Speaker 2>you want to embarrass that humiliation ritual?

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<v Speaker 1>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, actors, actors can cut ash David, this is common Beyonce,

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<v Speaker 2>could we do a common beyond?

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, We've had enough, Beyonce.

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<v Speaker 6>I was like, I was like, I've had enough photo

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<v Speaker 6>every week?

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<v Speaker 3>You know what about a common j Lo?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I thought that was true.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I'm real scared? Is okay?

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<v Speaker 5>Guys?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay anymore? No, that was it?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you know what, Mickey, I'll play you the one

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<v Speaker 1>and only Davy Bowie songs.

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<v Speaker 3>Berwie, It's Friday, give me a break Friday. You guys ready?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, this is the exact example you were talking about

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<v Speaker 1>at the previous break FLEXI about how if you listen

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<v Speaker 1>to too much of like one thing, it can change

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<v Speaker 1>your mood. This to me is the song that gives

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<v Speaker 1>me sad vibes, quirky sad vibes and a bit scared.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, it's giving, it's giving me scary.

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<v Speaker 2>It's very it's quirky, scary for sure, and even a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit sad.

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<v Speaker 3>It's been a pleasure to have you, guys.

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<v Speaker 2>And this is why you're not the music director.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey SERI play Peggy Goo Na na Nah.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna do it on.

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<v Speaker 1>It goes like Nanana edit by Peggy Gown now playing

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<v Speaker 1>on guys.

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<v Speaker 3>Nice all right, It's been a pleasure to have you, guys.

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<v Speaker 3>It's Flexing Froomes.

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