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Speaker 1: Also today on the podcast, some people actually hate us.

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Speaker 1: I'll Do Better Tomorrow edition for Friday August the first

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Speaker 1: Real Parenting Solutions every Day. This is Australia's most downloaded

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Speaker 1: parenting podcast. Kylie, I've got in my run sheet that

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Speaker 1: I don't mind that squirrel on on isn't listening because

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, can you leave? I think I can

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Speaker 1: and Kylie for the daily inspo and practical tips to

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Speaker 1: Your podcast is an absolutely wonderful way to start my day.

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Speaker 3: I remember listening to a podcast once and they talked

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Speaker 1: These two white cisgendered straight, mid mid fifties gibberish talkers.

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Speaker 1: I haven't done my old I haven't done my older

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Speaker 3: Now you're talking my language.

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Speaker 1: The Happy Families podcast is produced by Justin Rulan from

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Speaker 1: Bridge Media. Mimhammon's assists with research, admin and other support.

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Speaker 1: We hope you have a wonderful weekend, a really great weekend,

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Speaker 1: connecting with your kids and spending time doing the stuff

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Speaker 1: that matters most. If you would like more information and

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Speaker 1: resources to make your family happier, visit us at Happy

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Speaker 2: And next week it's No Bullying Week.

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Speaker 1: We have a full week of how to help your

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