1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:04,600 Speaker 1: Well and Whatdy podcast Many thirteen one and six five. 2 00:00:04,720 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 1: When did you break your parents' heart? That's what you're asking. 3 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:11,240 Speaker 2: Wow, it's not. 4 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:15,200 Speaker 1: For no reason, isn't it just a sulky Wednesday? I 5 00:00:15,280 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 1: think this is quite cathartic. One of my favorite writers 6 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:19,920 Speaker 1: says that you're not a parent until you've broken your parents, 7 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:22,400 Speaker 1: until your child's broken your heart at least twice. And 8 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:25,960 Speaker 1: it was. It kind of struck me yesterday when we 9 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:28,280 Speaker 1: had a dad, Andrew, who had done everything this god 10 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:30,640 Speaker 1: crawled through broken glass to get his hands on Taylor 11 00:00:30,680 --> 00:00:32,320 Speaker 1: Swift tickets and she's going to give to his daughter. 12 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 1: He insisted that we call his daughter live on air, 13 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 1: and this is what she said. 14 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:40,559 Speaker 2: If you did happen to win the ticket, mum or 15 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:43,560 Speaker 2: me that you're taken mum. 16 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:47,320 Speaker 1: Oh, it kills you, and it kills you. You don't realize 17 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:47,760 Speaker 1: as the kid. 18 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 3: Don't feel guilty about this when you're remembering when you 19 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:52,600 Speaker 3: did it, because at the time you have no idea 20 00:00:52,640 --> 00:00:53,479 Speaker 3: how much you're breaking. 21 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 1: Absolutely not my parents. Was the beauty of kids a 22 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:57,520 Speaker 1: lot of the times, to be honest. Let's go to 23 00:00:57,560 --> 00:01:00,000 Speaker 1: Jack thirty one and six five. Jack, you broke your 24 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:00,600 Speaker 1: dad's heart. 25 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:06,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, when I when I was in high school, 26 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:08,640 Speaker 3: I've got I've got three brothers. Two older brothers work 27 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 3: with my old man still and the youngest one does 28 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 3: as well. So when I left high school, it was 29 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:15,480 Speaker 3: only natural to go work with my dad the company, 30 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:18,760 Speaker 3: to compentry with them. All about a year into it, 31 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:21,120 Speaker 3: even started the apprenticeship and everything, I just realized, this 32 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 3: is not what I want to do. It's not to mean. 33 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 3: I had to sit down conversation at the table and 34 00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 3: I could see the heart break in his I A, is. 35 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 1: He supportive of it now though, Jack, I imagine now 36 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:33,560 Speaker 1: he's like happy. 37 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 3: For your Yeah, well I've started my own company now, 38 00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 3: I'm a fabricator, so he's a static in that aspect. 39 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:41,039 Speaker 3: But I can still see that. You know, I'm the 40 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:41,840 Speaker 3: only one that's not. 41 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:46,320 Speaker 1: A company going to say, you like opened up a 42 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 1: competition against his company. 43 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, that would have been. 44 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 1: Well to drop that one, Like, I'd like to think 45 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 1: that if that was me. I'm sure that dad will 46 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 1: be fine with it. I think that's probably more Jack's 47 00:01:56,320 --> 00:02:00,520 Speaker 1: guilt than his dad's. Yeah, yeah, right, Yeah, let's go 48 00:02:00,520 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 1: to Taylor thirty one and six five. You've had your 49 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 1: heart broken as a parent, Taylor, by your child. This 50 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 1: is there. These are the cautionary tales that Woody and 51 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:11,200 Speaker 1: I need to hear about. Ah. 52 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:12,080 Speaker 3: Yeah I did. 53 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 2: The other night my three year old decided to put 54 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 2: himself to bed and tell me he didn't want me 55 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:18,519 Speaker 2: to put him to bed. 56 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 3: No, no, so no cuddle, no cuddle and kiss before bed. 57 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:23,320 Speaker 1: It is no. 58 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 2: Unfortunately not Oh he didn't. 59 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:25,919 Speaker 1: Want to be tucked in. 60 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:26,919 Speaker 3: Didn't want to be tucked in? 61 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 1: No, he did. 62 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:30,119 Speaker 2: Once he was asleep. 63 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:30,959 Speaker 3: I went in. 64 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 1: One one nil you, Taylor. I told this story before, 65 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:41,799 Speaker 1: but I was reminded of a good friend of mine. 66 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 1: His dad came like a couple of days before Christmas 67 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 1: came and spoke to the kids, all four of the kids, 68 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 1: and was like trying to convince them of how good 69 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 1: Cluto was and how like Cludo was this great like 70 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:55,240 Speaker 1: family game for them. Yeah, and all the kids kind 71 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:57,240 Speaker 1: of like dismissed it. They were like, didn't remember Cludo 72 00:02:57,320 --> 00:02:59,519 Speaker 1: being that good, all this sort of stuff. Anyway, Christmas 73 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 1: Day came went, and then my mate on Boxing Day 74 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:07,640 Speaker 1: found in his dad's cupboard four brand new sets of Cludo. 75 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:09,919 Speaker 3: Just break here. 76 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 1: Interesting, just that Oh, no, yeah, I got Karen. Here, Karen, 77 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:18,760 Speaker 1: when did you break your parents out? A bit of 78 00:03:18,760 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 1: a confession here. 79 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 2: Yes, this was many years ago when I was turning 80 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 2: twenty one. It was coming up to my party. And 81 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 2: in those days you didn't have slide shows. You just 82 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 2: we had cardboard with pictures actually stuck on when you 83 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 2: were kids and stuff. And I didn't want that. I 84 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 2: thought it was I thought it was a bit cool 85 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 2: for that. So anyway, I was looking in my parents' 86 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 2: wardoe one day and I found all these cardboard things 87 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 2: with pictures on them. So I thought i'd be smart 88 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 2: and I just ripped them up, pulled them upon and 89 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 2: then I said to my mum, I found I found 90 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 2: what you're doing. And I told you I didn't want it, 91 00:03:56,560 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 2: and she said, well, I didn't do it. It was your father, 92 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:02,080 Speaker 2: and five I was like, oh my god, he's going 93 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 2: to kill me. Yeah, and he, needless to say, he 94 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:07,280 Speaker 2: didn't talk to me for a while, and even at 95 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 2: my twenty first he was still quite upsett. 96 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 3: Sorry, grow up, I mean your twenty first get over. 97 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:16,360 Speaker 1: It made a couple of pictures on some cardboard because 98 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 1: it's the guild trip from dad. I know that this 99 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 1: is what's killing me about this. Actually, like at the 100 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:27,560 Speaker 1: end of it, you can't hold it against the child. First, 101 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 1: you're still not talking to it. 102 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 3: Is it the cutouts? 103 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 1: Is it the cutouts? 104 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:39,920 Speaker 3: Hear more of the boys on the Full Show podcast, 105 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:42,920 Speaker 3: all on the iHeartRadio w app oh worry me, Get 106 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:43,680 Speaker 3: your podcasts.