Speaker 1: Flex and Frooms. Flex and Frooms.
Speaker 2: This is the Flex and Frooms catch up podcast.
Speaker 3: The girl is getting her steps up, Babe turns out
Speaker 3: walking thirty minutes to work and thirty minutes from work.
Speaker 3: There's not equal ten thousand steps. So we are working
Speaker 3: on that.
Speaker 4: We are what's it equal? Not enough?
Speaker 3: Like, yeah, four thousand if that guy? So I'm like, well,
Speaker 3: where else I have to walk? There's noe asked me
Speaker 3: to go right, I'll let you know how I go
Speaker 3: with that. We are getting yoked for the apocalypse. You
Speaker 3: never know if you have to fight someone at a nondescript.
Speaker 4: Bar redactor, redactor, We'll talk to you soon. Potty tier two.
Speaker 5: To two types of people with Flex and Frooms.
Speaker 1: On Uring the Week, Guys, I played a voice note
Speaker 1: that I collected from my friend Ali, who supposed that
Speaker 1: being bullied by your sibling makes you a better person,
Speaker 1: makes you more able to handle rejection and smooth out
Speaker 1: some of those character flaws. She brought me another theory,
Speaker 1: and that is the princess prince which warlock theory. You
Speaker 1: could either be a princess or a witch. Yeah, or
Speaker 1: you can be a prince or a warlock.
Speaker 4: Got it?
Speaker 2: Which are you, And I'm going to start by saying
Speaker 2: which I am.
Speaker 4: No, we'll do each other. You're a witch? Did that
Speaker 4: feel targeted?
Speaker 2: What do you mean?
Speaker 1: Okay, well, I send it self identify as a princess.
Speaker 1: So I'm confused as to why which is coming across?
Speaker 2: Do you agree McCall?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 4: I feel like.
Speaker 3: Rum has been in denial about her spookiness since the
Speaker 3: day that we decided to join forces in profession, matrimony,
Speaker 3: and vocation. She vehemently denied being a fellow spooky person,
Speaker 3: but then went on to express her and a family.
Speaker 3: So I'm just a bit confused as to why she's confused.
Speaker 1: Can I say, you know, I want to name my
Speaker 1: first girl Sabrina?
Speaker 4: Oh for you?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Okay, so I would say I believe I'm a princess.
Speaker 1: It's quite like I like to think I'm the main character.
Speaker 1: That's why I had bond here for so long. But
Speaker 1: now I've relegated myself back to alpha beta Beta.
Speaker 2: It's I mean, you're blonde.
Speaker 3: Now, so yeah, and the pink sister, listen, I am
Speaker 3: a self identified witch, and I do so with intention.
Speaker 3: Now I see it that I was presenting to the
Speaker 3: world a more socially acceptable version of myself. Oh, that
Speaker 3: wasn't helpful.
Speaker 2: And what did that look like?
Speaker 3: Well, in the sense that like, I just feel like
Speaker 3: if I was talking to a friend and I was like, oh,
Speaker 3: my goodness, I had the witch's experience. I was driving
Speaker 3: to the airport and I checked the flight and it
Speaker 3: was all on time. And then I said to my friend,
Speaker 3: I hope it's the legs. I'm a little bit late
Speaker 3: and the flight's late. I'm such a witch. But I
Speaker 3: wouldn't say that to people because I'm like, well, that
Speaker 3: might be off putting.
Speaker 4: Now I don't care.
Speaker 3: So I am a self identifying witch, but in my
Speaker 3: heart of hearts, I am a princess. My family calls
Speaker 3: me princess, but they also call me boss, which I
Speaker 3: think says heaps.
Speaker 2: You're definitely both, Mikayla, what do you hunt?
Speaker 1: I want to be a witch, but I think I'm
Speaker 1: a princess.
Speaker 4: It's a bad thing.
Speaker 1: I just want to be a bit more serious.
Speaker 4: Oh, get off it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're a beautiful princess.
Speaker 3: But good to know that we've brought it out the category.
Speaker 3: I think it's appropriate to know that it's not just binary.
Speaker 3: Sometimes there's four.
Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, it could be so many things at once. Definitely,
Speaker 1: I'm always interested in you fan dangle theories, social theories.
Speaker 1: I did post the theory the other day about your
Speaker 1: friend's top if you can post on the internet, and
Speaker 1: there was a bit of blowback.
Speaker 4: Was that a theory? There was a bit of blowback.
Speaker 3: But also I think it's important for us to understand
Speaker 3: the breadth and depth of the narrawarrative of borrowing things
Speaker 3: from friends.
Speaker 2: I agree. I stand by what I said.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I stand by you.
Speaker 1: I was at the pub yet again. Okay, it seems
Speaker 1: to be an ongoing thread. Talk to me and a
Speaker 1: friend of mine with quite large bosoms, that's her words,
Speaker 1: not mine, gave a hug.
Speaker 2: To a man.
Speaker 1: Yeah, anyway, walked away, and another friend of mine I
Speaker 1: over heard this conversation, said, oh my god, did you
Speaker 1: see that was such a power move when you hugged
Speaker 1: that guy because you have massive boobs.
Speaker 2: And apparently she thinks if.
Speaker 1: You have a large chest and you hug men, particularly
Speaker 1: like ex boyfriends or like guys that hurt your feelings,
Speaker 1: it's like a dominant power move.
Speaker 3: What man told them this, No, this is if you
Speaker 3: hate me, hug me just so I can feel you
Speaker 3: in a way that I don't want to feel you.
Speaker 2: Chicks are crazy.
Speaker 3: You don't see the vision, not at all. But maybe
Speaker 3: I'm not understanding. If you could one more time.
Speaker 1: Well, yes, So the idea is that if you have
Speaker 1: big boobs, you can use them as weapons and subjugate
Speaker 1: men who are attracted to boobs or others in what
Speaker 1: way you're intimidating them with a gentle caress, with a
Speaker 1: gender caress of each bottom against their chest.
Speaker 3: And when you heard this at the pub, did you
Speaker 3: immediately think, yeah, this makes heaps of sense.
Speaker 1: The woman who was saying the theory was pissed, and
Speaker 1: she was looking like this and gieing like this. It
Speaker 1: was funny and it was like from a really primal, primal.
Speaker 4: Place, from a primal pace that can be trusted.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, So we've cut the cameras and suddenly.
Speaker 4: Everybody in the moon is like, yeah, it's primal power.
Speaker 4: Where were you when we.
Speaker 5: Were cooking before?
Speaker 2: Are going to be?
Speaker 1: What are you going to be?
Speaker 2: Une?
Speaker 3: I understand for me, people are sick, every single one
Speaker 3: here because you're.
Speaker 5: Like, ye, you're listening to flex and frooms on kata
Speaker 5: I recently redownloaded hinge.
Speaker 1: The prompts like, I've got people out here being so
Speaker 1: lazy with these prompts, being like I don't want to
Speaker 1: do them.
Speaker 2: These ones are stupid.
Speaker 1: Get off the app then, Okay, go and meet someone
Speaker 1: at a bar if you need that. Bloody lazy, we
Speaker 1: get it. They're usually the ones that want a long
Speaker 1: term relationship be vulnerable. Anyway, Mikayla has gotten me onto
Speaker 1: this AI program.
Speaker 2: What is it, Mikayla.
Speaker 4: It's called Love Genius dot Io.
Speaker 1: Love Genius dot Io and it gives you an AI
Speaker 1: style program.
Speaker 3: Mickayla made you a hinge profile, right, yeah, because because
Speaker 3: you were struggling a little bit.
Speaker 2: Oh you sorry guys.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so last week we were in the studio and
Speaker 1: I was trying to make my hinge and it's like
Speaker 1: really hard to pick the right photos. That's why Mikayla's
Speaker 1: gone out and done this. It was consensual. I really
Speaker 1: appreciate you doing that.
Speaker 3: So basically, Michaela's filled in the question there for through
Speaker 3: me and confirmed a few details, but we'll just go
Speaker 3: through them for me. Is a female living in an
Speaker 3: Eastern suburbs location. Describes herself as a Ceoh silly TikTok
Speaker 3: spark joy, and she loves making starter pack memes.
Speaker 4: That's so true.
Speaker 3: So basically the bio that's been created for Throume says,
Speaker 3: and she quotes.
Speaker 1: I'm a CEO who knows how to get the job
Speaker 1: done and have fun along the way, whether it's creating
Speaker 1: catchy tiktoks or memes. I'm always up for a good
Speaker 1: laugh and entertainment while busting out some serious work. Taking
Speaker 1: life by the horns is what I do best.
Speaker 2: So if you're looking for.
Speaker 1: Someone drivenant with ambition and an upbeat attitude, then that's me.
Speaker 1: This is like what my dad would write.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and that's option number one.
Speaker 3: But option number two, which I'll read, please, the world
Speaker 3: is my playground. Froom says. I conquer mountains and dive
Speaker 3: into the unknown with courages my compass. I explore uncharted
Speaker 3: territory with a relentless ambition for success. Amidst this journey
Speaker 3: of exploration, I say, mindful and relish in each moment
Speaker 3: that life has to offer. Crafting silly tiktoks from dancing
Speaker 3: things and creating memes out of startupacks a unique combination
Speaker 3: of drive and playfulness that will keep you on your toes.
Speaker 2: I mean, this is kind of pose option.
Speaker 3: Ready to make a positive impact if you share my
Speaker 3: passion for social justice and leading by example.
Speaker 2: Let's chat.
Speaker 3: I'm an ambitious business executive looking with someone who is
Speaker 3: ready to take on the world with me for the challenge.
Speaker 3: These all work perfectly. Which one will you be using?
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with the one one feels good.
Speaker 2: This is great, So what's the program again?
Speaker 4: Mikayla love genius io.
Speaker 1: Al Right, guys, let's up.
Speaker 3: It is so important for you to know how your
Speaker 3: friends are talking about you behind your back. And I
Speaker 3: don't mean gossiping or bitching about you. What I mean
Speaker 3: is how are your friends representing your image when you're
Speaker 3: not in the room.
Speaker 4: Yes, very important.
Speaker 3: This question was sparked based on a conversation for me
Speaker 3: and I were having off air.
Speaker 4: Those two happen quite frequently, would you believe.
Speaker 2: Which We've got a little text shat.
Speaker 3: And it happens every now and then when we will
Speaker 3: tell each other that somebody has asked us about the
Speaker 3: other person that I'll be at a party, somebody will
Speaker 3: be like, oh you know, oh my god, what's froom
Speaker 3: really really like? And la la, and does she go
Speaker 3: by Lucinda? You know she live and all these things.
Speaker 1: You got to say, there is such an honor in
Speaker 1: being in people's mounts.
Speaker 2: I must make oh to sudden and heard yeah yeah yeah.
Speaker 3: So that let us have a conversation on how we
Speaker 3: had both defined each other to other people or described
Speaker 3: each other, which then dovetailed into a more important conversation,
Speaker 3: which was what do you want us to say? What
Speaker 3: are the key words you'd like to come up so
Speaker 3: we can ensure that the narrative is either accurate or
Speaker 3: just working in your favor. Frumy had mentioned to me
Speaker 3: that she likes to tell people that I am more
Speaker 3: sensitive than I come across, which I appreciate because it's
Speaker 3: good to make sure the perception of me is balanced. However,
Speaker 3: I think we get into a bit of a slippery pickle.
Speaker 3: Slippery pickle for me, my sensitivity and vulnerability is a
Speaker 3: gift that I like to share with close circle people,
Speaker 3: and so I would hate people to get the wrong
Speaker 3: impression that I'm going to be super sensitive to them
Speaker 3: and break my sternum open when I'm just gonna giggle and.
Speaker 4: Go yeah, you know.
Speaker 3: But it's good to know that I like a broad narrative.
Speaker 3: Since we've had this conversation, I've been having kind of
Speaker 3: like counter conversation with a few of my friends, And
Speaker 3: what I've been encouraging my friends to do is give
Speaker 3: people context for the era of their life that they
Speaker 3: are currently in. Okay, because you know how sometimes you
Speaker 3: see your friends switching up or doing different things and
Speaker 3: you're kind of like, are you going through something or
Speaker 3: is this intentional? I don't really know what's the vibe.
Speaker 3: Or if you suddenly switch it up and suddenly you're
Speaker 3: doing pottery every weekend, but you never been in pottery
Speaker 3: Bay before, let me know youre just trying new things.
Speaker 3: Have you found an inner calling for the ceramic arts?
Speaker 3: What is happening? We're always changing and evolving, but expecting
Speaker 3: people around us to just get it without the context
Speaker 3: of it happening.
Speaker 2: Totally agree.
Speaker 1: Always let them be like, I'm a clean girl.
Speaker 3: So the thing that I've been doing, remember we had
Speaker 3: this conversation that I was trying to integrate a bit
Speaker 3: more of a damsel energy into my life. Right, So
Speaker 3: one part of that was not self inflicted, it was
Speaker 3: COVID inflicted.
Speaker 4: I became more clumsy. Where'd that come from? I don't know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a COVID thing.
Speaker 3: COVID inflicted clumsiness, COVID inflicted Oh no, influencer inflicted anxiety.
Speaker 3: And then suddenly I was like softer than I intended
Speaker 3: to be loopsie. But instead of just doing that, I
Speaker 3: told people I said, I'm a damsel.
Speaker 4: I'm a damsel.
Speaker 3: I'm going to be acting in damsel ways. And then
Speaker 3: suddenly it manifested. As such, people are more open to
Speaker 3: help or I've created an environment where it's more comfortable
Speaker 3: to help me.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 4: Similarly, one thing I do say, and this is.
Speaker 3: A hot tip if you're a reforming, hyperindependent babbitch who
Speaker 3: needs to kind of soften the battleground, is you have
Speaker 3: to use the keywords that project exactly how you want
Speaker 3: to be treated. Okay, when I go on dates, you
Speaker 3: best believe I'm saying things like I'm just a pretty princess.
Speaker 3: I could have been kidnapped on the way here. It's
Speaker 3: just like, get the key words in, because even if
Speaker 3: it comes across as a joke, it's a key word
Speaker 3: that has been popped into the ether that is standing
Speaker 3: out what we tend to do is like subliminally and
Speaker 3: maybe subconsciously communicate a narrative that is far from the
Speaker 3: reality we're trying to achieve.
Speaker 2: Yep, I get that.
Speaker 1: It's like that meme that's the monkey and it's sitting,
Speaker 1: it's waiting. It's like in my slot.
Speaker 4: Era wanting someone to hold me. That's me.
Speaker 2: I just drew a picture of flex.
Speaker 3: Oh wow, that's so good, picky one two three, snap,
Speaker 3: I love that.
Speaker 4: Thank you.
Speaker 3: So keywords how I describe through me. I feel like
Speaker 3: people don't really ask me how Frumy is, but they
Speaker 3: often allude to the behind the scenes of who she is, right,
Speaker 3: so they're not saying like what is she like generally
Speaker 3: like oh what was that about? Or like oh, I
Speaker 3: didn't know she's the type person to go here or
Speaker 3: do that or whatever, go where. So then I will
Speaker 3: make sure every time I'm communicating through me, I always
Speaker 3: make sure to communicate the contrasting elements and like, she
Speaker 3: is as serious as she is silly. That's a fact.
Speaker 3: She is as quirky as she is traditional. Yes, that's
Speaker 3: a fact traditional conservative might have been thrown and so
Speaker 3: for that reason, it gives you room to decide when
Speaker 3: you're with people which part you want to bring out
Speaker 3: and like tuck away?
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying like that, you know.
Speaker 1: With people yesterday on a shoot and that's always coming up.
Speaker 4: Everyone's chatting about us.
Speaker 1: Oh oh my god, and they say, oh, do you
Speaker 1: know Flex mummy?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, she's the best. I just say, oh, she's
Speaker 2: the best. Yeah, Like are you in love with her?
Speaker 2: Is there something sapphic going on? Said? Not with Flex?
Speaker 3: Not yet, not yet, never say never. That's That's where
Speaker 3: I'm at in life.
Speaker 1: I definitely ask you if you swing, I would.
Speaker 4: Yeah, contextually like at a party.
Speaker 1: Feel we did come to that conclusion. Good thing to
Speaker 1: ask you, mates, I reckon very much.
Speaker 4: Ask them quickly get on the same stup.
Speaker 3: Might be doing damage as we speak, and you need
Speaker 3: to ensure that the narrative is aligned for real.
Speaker 4: Missy Deally, you've been listening to The Flex and Froom's
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