WEBVTT - Boobs Are A Power Move 🤠

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<v Speaker 1>Flex and Frooms. Flex and Frooms.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the Flex and Frooms catch up podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>The girl is getting her steps up, Babe turns out

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<v Speaker 3>walking thirty minutes to work and thirty minutes from work.

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<v Speaker 3>There's not equal ten thousand steps. So we are working

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<v Speaker 3>on that.

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<v Speaker 4>We are what's it equal? Not enough?

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<v Speaker 3>Like, yeah, four thousand if that guy? So I'm like, well,

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<v Speaker 3>where else I have to walk? There's noe asked me

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<v Speaker 3>to go right, I'll let you know how I go

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<v Speaker 3>with that. We are getting yoked for the apocalypse. You

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<v Speaker 3>never know if you have to fight someone at a nondescript.

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<v Speaker 4>Bar redactor, redactor, We'll talk to you soon. Potty tier two.

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<v Speaker 5>To two types of people with Flex and Frooms.

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<v Speaker 1>On Uring the Week, Guys, I played a voice note

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<v Speaker 1>that I collected from my friend Ali, who supposed that

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<v Speaker 1>being bullied by your sibling makes you a better person,

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<v Speaker 1>makes you more able to handle rejection and smooth out

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<v Speaker 1>some of those character flaws. She brought me another theory,

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<v Speaker 1>and that is the princess prince which warlock theory. You

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<v Speaker 1>could either be a princess or a witch. Yeah, or

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<v Speaker 1>you can be a prince or a warlock.

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<v Speaker 4>Got it?

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<v Speaker 2>Which are you, And I'm going to start by saying

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<v Speaker 2>which I am.

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<v Speaker 4>No, we'll do each other. You're a witch? Did that

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<v Speaker 4>feel targeted?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, I send it self identify as a princess.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm confused as to why which is coming across?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you agree McCall?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like.

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<v Speaker 3>Rum has been in denial about her spookiness since the

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<v Speaker 3>day that we decided to join forces in profession, matrimony,

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<v Speaker 3>and vocation. She vehemently denied being a fellow spooky person,

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<v Speaker 3>but then went on to express her and a family.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm just a bit confused as to why she's confused.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I say, you know, I want to name my

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<v Speaker 1>first girl Sabrina?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh for you?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so I would say I believe I'm a princess.

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<v Speaker 1>It's quite like I like to think I'm the main character.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I had bond here for so long. But

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<v Speaker 1>now I've relegated myself back to alpha beta Beta.

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<v Speaker 2>It's I mean, you're blonde.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, so yeah, and the pink sister, listen, I am

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<v Speaker 3>a self identified witch, and I do so with intention.

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<v Speaker 3>Now I see it that I was presenting to the

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<v Speaker 3>world a more socially acceptable version of myself. Oh, that

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't helpful.

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<v Speaker 2>And what did that look like?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, in the sense that like, I just feel like

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<v Speaker 3>if I was talking to a friend and I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>my goodness, I had the witch's experience. I was driving

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<v Speaker 3>to the airport and I checked the flight and it

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<v Speaker 3>was all on time. And then I said to my friend,

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<v Speaker 3>I hope it's the legs. I'm a little bit late

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<v Speaker 3>and the flight's late. I'm such a witch. But I

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<v Speaker 3>wouldn't say that to people because I'm like, well, that

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<v Speaker 3>might be off putting.

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<v Speaker 4>Now I don't care.

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<v Speaker 3>So I am a self identifying witch, but in my

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<v Speaker 3>heart of hearts, I am a princess. My family calls

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<v Speaker 3>me princess, but they also call me boss, which I

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<v Speaker 3>think says heaps.

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<v Speaker 2>You're definitely both, Mikayla, what do you hunt?

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<v Speaker 1>I want to be a witch, but I think I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a princess.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a bad thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to be a bit more serious.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, get off it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you're a beautiful princess.

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<v Speaker 3>But good to know that we've brought it out the category.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's appropriate to know that it's not just binary.

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<v Speaker 3>Sometimes there's four.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, yeah, it could be so many things at once. Definitely,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm always interested in you fan dangle theories, social theories.

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<v Speaker 1>I did post the theory the other day about your

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<v Speaker 1>friend's top if you can post on the internet, and

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<v Speaker 1>there was a bit of blowback.

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<v Speaker 4>Was that a theory? There was a bit of blowback.

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<v Speaker 3>But also I think it's important for us to understand

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<v Speaker 3>the breadth and depth of the narrawarrative of borrowing things

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<v Speaker 3>from friends.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree. I stand by what I said.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I stand by you.

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<v Speaker 1>I was at the pub yet again. Okay, it seems

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<v Speaker 1>to be an ongoing thread. Talk to me and a

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<v Speaker 1>friend of mine with quite large bosoms, that's her words,

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<v Speaker 1>not mine, gave a hug.

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<v Speaker 2>To a man.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, anyway, walked away, and another friend of mine I

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<v Speaker 1>over heard this conversation, said, oh my god, did you

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<v Speaker 1>see that was such a power move when you hugged

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<v Speaker 1>that guy because you have massive boobs.

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<v Speaker 2>And apparently she thinks if.

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<v Speaker 1>You have a large chest and you hug men, particularly

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<v Speaker 1>like ex boyfriends or like guys that hurt your feelings,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like a dominant power move.

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<v Speaker 3>What man told them this, No, this is if you

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<v Speaker 3>hate me, hug me just so I can feel you

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<v Speaker 3>in a way that I don't want to feel you.

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<v Speaker 2>Chicks are crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't see the vision, not at all. But maybe

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not understanding. If you could one more time.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, yes, So the idea is that if you have

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<v Speaker 1>big boobs, you can use them as weapons and subjugate

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<v Speaker 1>men who are attracted to boobs or others in what

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<v Speaker 1>way you're intimidating them with a gentle caress, with a

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<v Speaker 1>gender caress of each bottom against their chest.

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<v Speaker 3>And when you heard this at the pub, did you

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<v Speaker 3>immediately think, yeah, this makes heaps of sense.

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<v Speaker 1>The woman who was saying the theory was pissed, and

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<v Speaker 1>she was looking like this and gieing like this. It

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<v Speaker 1>was funny and it was like from a really primal, primal.

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<v Speaker 4>Place, from a primal pace that can be trusted.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So we've cut the cameras and suddenly.

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<v Speaker 4>Everybody in the moon is like, yeah, it's primal power.

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<v Speaker 4>Where were you when we.

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<v Speaker 5>Were cooking before?

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<v Speaker 2>Are going to be?

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<v Speaker 1>What are you going to be?

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<v Speaker 2>Une?

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<v Speaker 3>I understand for me, people are sick, every single one

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<v Speaker 3>here because you're.

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<v Speaker 5>Like, ye, you're listening to flex and frooms on kata

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<v Speaker 5>I recently redownloaded hinge.

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<v Speaker 1>The prompts like, I've got people out here being so

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<v Speaker 1>lazy with these prompts, being like I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>do them.

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<v Speaker 2>These ones are stupid.

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<v Speaker 1>Get off the app then, Okay, go and meet someone

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<v Speaker 1>at a bar if you need that. Bloody lazy, we

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<v Speaker 1>get it. They're usually the ones that want a long

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<v Speaker 1>term relationship be vulnerable. Anyway, Mikayla has gotten me onto

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<v Speaker 1>this AI program.

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<v Speaker 2>What is it, Mikayla.

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<v Speaker 4>It's called Love Genius dot Io.

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<v Speaker 1>Love Genius dot Io and it gives you an AI

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<v Speaker 1>style program.

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<v Speaker 3>Mickayla made you a hinge profile, right, yeah, because because

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<v Speaker 3>you were struggling a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you sorry guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so last week we were in the studio and

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying to make my hinge and it's like

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<v Speaker 1>really hard to pick the right photos. That's why Mikayla's

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<v Speaker 1>gone out and done this. It was consensual. I really

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate you doing that.

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<v Speaker 3>So basically, Michaela's filled in the question there for through

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<v Speaker 3>me and confirmed a few details, but we'll just go

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<v Speaker 3>through them for me. Is a female living in an

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<v Speaker 3>Eastern suburbs location. Describes herself as a Ceoh silly TikTok

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<v Speaker 3>spark joy, and she loves making starter pack memes.

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<v Speaker 4>That's so true.

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<v Speaker 3>So basically the bio that's been created for Throume says,

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<v Speaker 3>and she quotes.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a CEO who knows how to get the job

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<v Speaker 1>done and have fun along the way, whether it's creating

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<v Speaker 1>catchy tiktoks or memes. I'm always up for a good

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<v Speaker 1>laugh and entertainment while busting out some serious work. Taking

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<v Speaker 1>life by the horns is what I do best.

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<v Speaker 2>So if you're looking for.

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<v Speaker 1>Someone drivenant with ambition and an upbeat attitude, then that's me.

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<v Speaker 1>This is like what my dad would write.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and that's option number one.

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<v Speaker 3>But option number two, which I'll read, please, the world

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<v Speaker 3>is my playground. Froom says. I conquer mountains and dive

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<v Speaker 3>into the unknown with courages my compass. I explore uncharted

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<v Speaker 3>territory with a relentless ambition for success. Amidst this journey

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<v Speaker 3>of exploration, I say, mindful and relish in each moment

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<v Speaker 3>that life has to offer. Crafting silly tiktoks from dancing

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<v Speaker 3>things and creating memes out of startupacks a unique combination

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<v Speaker 3>of drive and playfulness that will keep you on your toes.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, this is kind of pose option.

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<v Speaker 3>Ready to make a positive impact if you share my

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<v Speaker 3>passion for social justice and leading by example.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's chat.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm an ambitious business executive looking with someone who is

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<v Speaker 3>ready to take on the world with me for the challenge.

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<v Speaker 3>These all work perfectly. Which one will you be using?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go with the one one feels good.

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<v Speaker 2>This is great, So what's the program again?

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<v Speaker 4>Mikayla love genius io.

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<v Speaker 1>Al Right, guys, let's up.

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<v Speaker 3>It is so important for you to know how your

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<v Speaker 3>friends are talking about you behind your back. And I

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<v Speaker 3>don't mean gossiping or bitching about you. What I mean

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<v Speaker 3>is how are your friends representing your image when you're

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<v Speaker 3>not in the room.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, very important.

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<v Speaker 3>This question was sparked based on a conversation for me

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<v Speaker 3>and I were having off air.

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<v Speaker 4>Those two happen quite frequently, would you believe.

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<v Speaker 2>Which We've got a little text shat.

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<v Speaker 3>And it happens every now and then when we will

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<v Speaker 3>tell each other that somebody has asked us about the

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<v Speaker 3>other person that I'll be at a party, somebody will

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<v Speaker 3>be like, oh you know, oh my god, what's froom

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<v Speaker 3>really really like? And la la, and does she go

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<v Speaker 3>by Lucinda? You know she live and all these things.

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<v Speaker 1>You got to say, there is such an honor in

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<v Speaker 1>being in people's mounts.

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<v Speaker 2>I must make oh to sudden and heard yeah yeah yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So that let us have a conversation on how we

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<v Speaker 3>had both defined each other to other people or described

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<v Speaker 3>each other, which then dovetailed into a more important conversation,

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<v Speaker 3>which was what do you want us to say? What

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<v Speaker 3>are the key words you'd like to come up so

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<v Speaker 3>we can ensure that the narrative is either accurate or

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<v Speaker 3>just working in your favor. Frumy had mentioned to me

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<v Speaker 3>that she likes to tell people that I am more

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<v Speaker 3>sensitive than I come across, which I appreciate because it's

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<v Speaker 3>good to make sure the perception of me is balanced. However,

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<v Speaker 3>I think we get into a bit of a slippery pickle.

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<v Speaker 3>Slippery pickle for me, my sensitivity and vulnerability is a

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<v Speaker 3>gift that I like to share with close circle people,

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<v Speaker 3>and so I would hate people to get the wrong

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<v Speaker 3>impression that I'm going to be super sensitive to them

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<v Speaker 3>and break my sternum open when I'm just gonna giggle and.

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<v Speaker 4>Go yeah, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's good to know that I like a broad narrative.

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<v Speaker 3>Since we've had this conversation, I've been having kind of

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<v Speaker 3>like counter conversation with a few of my friends, And

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<v Speaker 3>what I've been encouraging my friends to do is give

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<v Speaker 3>people context for the era of their life that they

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<v Speaker 3>are currently in. Okay, because you know how sometimes you

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<v Speaker 3>see your friends switching up or doing different things and

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<v Speaker 3>you're kind of like, are you going through something or

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<v Speaker 3>is this intentional? I don't really know what's the vibe.

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<v Speaker 3>Or if you suddenly switch it up and suddenly you're

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<v Speaker 3>doing pottery every weekend, but you never been in pottery

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<v Speaker 3>Bay before, let me know youre just trying new things.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you found an inner calling for the ceramic arts?

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<v Speaker 3>What is happening? We're always changing and evolving, but expecting

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<v Speaker 3>people around us to just get it without the context

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<v Speaker 3>of it happening.

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<v Speaker 2>Totally agree.

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<v Speaker 1>Always let them be like, I'm a clean girl.

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<v Speaker 3>So the thing that I've been doing, remember we had

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<v Speaker 3>this conversation that I was trying to integrate a bit

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<v Speaker 3>more of a damsel energy into my life. Right, So

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<v Speaker 3>one part of that was not self inflicted, it was

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<v Speaker 3>COVID inflicted.

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<v Speaker 4>I became more clumsy. Where'd that come from? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's a COVID thing.

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<v Speaker 3>COVID inflicted clumsiness, COVID inflicted Oh no, influencer inflicted anxiety.

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<v Speaker 3>And then suddenly I was like softer than I intended

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<v Speaker 3>to be loopsie. But instead of just doing that, I

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<v Speaker 3>told people I said, I'm a damsel.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a damsel.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to be acting in damsel ways. And then

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<v Speaker 3>suddenly it manifested. As such, people are more open to

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<v Speaker 3>help or I've created an environment where it's more comfortable

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<v Speaker 3>to help me.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 4>Similarly, one thing I do say, and this is.

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<v Speaker 3>A hot tip if you're a reforming, hyperindependent babbitch who

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<v Speaker 3>needs to kind of soften the battleground, is you have

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<v Speaker 3>to use the keywords that project exactly how you want

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<v Speaker 3>to be treated. Okay, when I go on dates, you

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<v Speaker 3>best believe I'm saying things like I'm just a pretty princess.

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<v Speaker 3>I could have been kidnapped on the way here. It's

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<v Speaker 3>just like, get the key words in, because even if

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<v Speaker 3>it comes across as a joke, it's a key word

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<v Speaker 3>that has been popped into the ether that is standing

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<v Speaker 3>out what we tend to do is like subliminally and

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<v Speaker 3>maybe subconsciously communicate a narrative that is far from the

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<v Speaker 3>reality we're trying to achieve.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep, I get that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like that meme that's the monkey and it's sitting,

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<v Speaker 1>it's waiting. It's like in my slot.

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<v Speaker 4>Era wanting someone to hold me. That's me.

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<v Speaker 2>I just drew a picture of flex.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wow, that's so good, picky one two three, snap,

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<v Speaker 3>I love that.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>So keywords how I describe through me. I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>people don't really ask me how Frumy is, but they

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<v Speaker 3>often allude to the behind the scenes of who she is, right,

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<v Speaker 3>so they're not saying like what is she like generally

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<v Speaker 3>like oh what was that about? Or like oh, I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't know she's the type person to go here or

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<v Speaker 3>do that or whatever, go where. So then I will

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<v Speaker 3>make sure every time I'm communicating through me, I always

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<v Speaker 3>make sure to communicate the contrasting elements and like, she

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<v Speaker 3>is as serious as she is silly. That's a fact.

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<v Speaker 3>She is as quirky as she is traditional. Yes, that's

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<v Speaker 3>a fact traditional conservative might have been thrown and so

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<v Speaker 3>for that reason, it gives you room to decide when

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<v Speaker 3>you're with people which part you want to bring out

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<v Speaker 3>and like tuck away?

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<v Speaker 4>You know what I'm saying like that, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>With people yesterday on a shoot and that's always coming up.

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<v Speaker 4>Everyone's chatting about us.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh my god, and they say, oh, do you

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<v Speaker 1>know Flex mummy?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, she's the best. I just say, oh, she's

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<v Speaker 2>the best. Yeah, Like are you in love with her?

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<v Speaker 2>Is there something sapphic going on? Said? Not with Flex?

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<v Speaker 3>Not yet, not yet, never say never. That's That's where

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<v Speaker 3>I'm at in life.

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely ask you if you swing, I would.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, contextually like at a party.

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<v Speaker 1>Feel we did come to that conclusion. Good thing to

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<v Speaker 1>ask you, mates, I reckon very much.

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<v Speaker 4>Ask them quickly get on the same stup.

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<v Speaker 3>Might be doing damage as we speak, and you need

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<v Speaker 3>to ensure that the narrative is aligned for real.

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<v Speaker 4>Missy Deally, you've been listening to The Flex and Froom's

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<v Speaker 4>daily podcast.

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