WEBVTT - LIFE UNCUT RADIO - 23rd April 0:00:00.880 --> 0:00:05.320 Life Uncut podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of country throughout 0:00:05.320 --> 0:00:09.080 Australia and their connections to land, sea and community. We 0:00:09.160 --> 0:00:11.920 pay our respect to their elders past and present and 0:00:12.039 --> 0:00:15.360 extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait islander 0:00:15.360 --> 0:00:16.120 peoples today. 0:00:16.320 --> 0:00:19.599 This episode is recorded on Gaddigal Land of the Aurora Nation. 0:00:39.040 --> 0:00:42.680 Hi guys, and welcome back to another episode of Life Uncut. 0:00:42.720 --> 0:00:44.360 I'm Laura and I'm buried me. 0:00:45.120 --> 0:00:47.040 There she is the big d h. I've been hanging 0:00:47.080 --> 0:00:48.280 out with Rich Jury for too long. 0:00:48.560 --> 0:00:49.800 Mitch Jerry's influence. 0:00:51.240 --> 0:00:53.560 He says, you know what Mitch does. 0:00:53.680 --> 0:00:55.280 If you guys haven't listened to Mitch a lot, he 0:00:55.400 --> 0:00:57.920 tends to break into songs sporadically. 0:00:58.240 --> 0:00:59.360 He is a bit theatrical. 0:00:59.520 --> 0:01:00.120 What do you mean. 0:01:05.240 --> 0:01:08.160 We went on bak, We are back. We are back 0:01:08.200 --> 0:01:08.520 in action. 0:01:08.560 --> 0:01:10.320 We've got a really great episode for you guys today. 0:01:10.480 --> 0:01:12.959 This is our radio show for anybody who's just jumping 0:01:13.000 --> 0:01:14.959 onto the podcast for the first time. Only sorry that 0:01:15.040 --> 0:01:16.119 you had to listen to that intro. 0:01:16.240 --> 0:01:17.880 So I'm on the show with the girls, only on 0:01:17.880 --> 0:01:18.680 the radio. 0:01:18.520 --> 0:01:19.959 And you're still very confused. 0:01:20.120 --> 0:01:23.199 Every Saturday morning, we do a radio show Mitch Churi, 0:01:23.240 --> 0:01:25.360 who is our beautiful co host on the show, and 0:01:25.400 --> 0:01:27.640 every Saturday we package up the radio show, so it's 0:01:27.680 --> 0:01:30.679 here in a beautiful bite side little morsel for you 0:01:30.760 --> 0:01:33.880 to consume. Well, we and when I say we, Mitch 0:01:34.040 --> 0:01:37.039 churry and I has laughed. But Laura pranked Matt. She 0:01:37.160 --> 0:01:40.360 got him pretty good. Well, as you guys know, we're 0:01:40.400 --> 0:01:42.200 getting married at the end of the year, so November, 0:01:42.280 --> 0:01:45.080 and we decided that, you know, the wedding is all 0:01:45.160 --> 0:01:48.320 very stressful at the moment. Matt hasn't really been attending 0:01:48.440 --> 0:01:50.800 any of our meetings. So we have a wedding planner 0:01:50.800 --> 0:01:53.160 who's been helping us a little bit, and Matt's just 0:01:53.240 --> 0:01:55.080 not been there, which was surprising. 0:01:55.120 --> 0:01:55.920 He's been very busy. 0:01:55.960 --> 0:01:58.560 But I thought this is the perfect opportunity to get 0:01:58.600 --> 0:01:59.160 him back for that. 0:01:59.480 --> 0:02:02.000 He took the to didn't ever blind and sinker. 0:02:02.160 --> 0:02:04.520 Yeah, he did say I would rather drink my own piss, 0:02:04.560 --> 0:02:05.600 which was probably my. 0:02:05.480 --> 0:02:07.640 Favorite part of the holidays, and I was a bit excessive. 0:02:07.640 --> 0:02:09.600 But speaking of Piers, I did go on a plane 0:02:09.600 --> 0:02:13.519 at night. I did forget how discussing they can be sometimes. 0:02:13.560 --> 0:02:15.600 So mud had a holiday, but we're not short on 0:02:15.600 --> 0:02:16.200 those segways. 0:02:16.200 --> 0:02:19.639 That was tight the Life on Cut radio show. 0:02:19.520 --> 0:02:21.120 With Hockey and Laura Burn. 0:02:23.320 --> 0:02:25.840 Some of you guys might know, but Matt and I, 0:02:25.919 --> 0:02:28.360 my partner, Matt and I, we have been planning our 0:02:28.400 --> 0:02:30.639 wedding and now we have two kids, and it's been 0:02:30.680 --> 0:02:33.000 on the backburn for quite some time. But at the 0:02:33.080 --> 0:02:35.400 end of this year we are actually finally getting married. 0:02:35.440 --> 0:02:38.760 And there is so much planning that goes into organizing 0:02:38.800 --> 0:02:39.160 a wedding. 0:02:39.160 --> 0:02:41.240 I wouldn't know, but I'll take your word for it. 0:02:42.400 --> 0:02:44.440 Well, okay, we have a wedding planner who's on board, 0:02:44.440 --> 0:02:47.160 but we both Matt and I unanimously agree that we 0:02:47.200 --> 0:02:48.440 are going to have a very very. 0:02:48.320 --> 0:02:48.920 Low key wedding. 0:02:49.000 --> 0:02:50.920 It's going to be small. It's going to be just 0:02:51.000 --> 0:02:53.080 family and friends. It's not going to be a big 0:02:53.120 --> 0:02:56.040 instagram a big instagram able event. 0:02:56.080 --> 0:02:56.880 That's not what we want. 0:02:57.080 --> 0:02:59.320 A little surprising for me, but this is why we 0:02:59.400 --> 0:03:02.280 decided to pull a little prank on our boy, Matt. 0:03:02.480 --> 0:03:04.400 Well, you know what, Matt hasn't been showing up to 0:03:04.480 --> 0:03:06.960 any of the wedding planning meetings that we've been having. 0:03:07.040 --> 0:03:07.880 Well he will from now on. 0:03:07.960 --> 0:03:09.239 So I thought it was time to get him a 0:03:09.280 --> 0:03:15.280 bit of payback on that one. Hi baby, how you going, Jim? 0:03:15.520 --> 0:03:18.480 You know how I had the meeting yesterday with the 0:03:18.600 --> 0:03:21.600 wedding planner. Yes, she has a couple of ideas, and 0:03:21.600 --> 0:03:24.160 I know that we have been pretty strict around like 0:03:24.200 --> 0:03:26.560 wanting it to be low key and everything and having 0:03:26.600 --> 0:03:31.880 it like very small. But yesterday she was talking about 0:03:32.080 --> 0:03:33.600 there was a few things that she kind of gave 0:03:33.600 --> 0:03:35.760 me ideas on and I have been thinking about it 0:03:35.800 --> 0:03:37.480 and I really wanted to kind of run a few things. 0:03:37.360 --> 0:03:39.440 By you hear me out. 0:03:39.800 --> 0:03:41.520 Firstly, I know that we said we have a very 0:03:41.520 --> 0:03:44.800 conservative budget for flowers, but because of where it is 0:03:44.840 --> 0:03:46.800 and it's like that big open space, I think that 0:03:46.840 --> 0:03:48.920 we should put some more money into the flowers so 0:03:48.960 --> 0:03:52.080 that we can have like a really beautiful archway like 0:03:52.160 --> 0:03:54.560 all the way leading down the aisles to make it 0:03:54.600 --> 0:03:56.720 like a real centerpiece. So I'm thinking, like we need 0:03:56.760 --> 0:04:00.800 to have like cascading flowers down that side. The amazing 0:04:00.840 --> 0:04:03.360 photos she has shown me has has changed my mind. 0:04:03.680 --> 0:04:06.280 I'm thinking we need to go a bit more out all. 0:04:07.360 --> 0:04:08.920 I mean, I like flowers. 0:04:08.920 --> 0:04:12.520 Wise, I'm not really fuss you know, like obviously I 0:04:12.560 --> 0:04:15.720 wanted to look good budget like budget wise, flowers are 0:04:15.760 --> 0:04:19.279 just like already taking up like so much money, Like 0:04:19.360 --> 0:04:19.680 how much? 0:04:19.720 --> 0:04:20.839 How much more are we talking? 0:04:21.040 --> 0:04:23.800 I mean, okay, it sounds like a lot, but like 0:04:23.839 --> 0:04:26.560 she said, it would be around thirty thousand dollars. What 0:04:28.520 --> 0:04:31.320 I mean we could there's ways that we can do this, 0:04:31.520 --> 0:04:33.240 like you know, we could maybe even. 0:04:34.760 --> 0:04:35.039 Laugh. 0:04:35.360 --> 0:04:38.120 Okay, what if we got Woman's Day to put it 0:04:38.160 --> 0:04:41.560 in the magazine and just went with that and got 0:04:41.600 --> 0:04:42.479 like the money from there. 0:04:42.880 --> 0:04:44.880 I would rather drink mine your eye. 0:04:47.120 --> 0:04:49.599 Day, Yeah, like I want to. 0:04:49.600 --> 0:04:54.159 I'm like, I'm totally down for more flowers, but like 0:04:54.240 --> 0:04:59.040 I just think for that much money flowers, is that 0:04:59.080 --> 0:05:01.400 you put them in after the event? 0:05:01.560 --> 0:05:03.240 Well, no, my mum will probably take them more home. 0:05:03.360 --> 0:05:03.680 You know that. 0:05:04.480 --> 0:05:06.799 But also, okay, look, we're going to do this once, 0:05:07.080 --> 0:05:08.440 like let's go all out. 0:05:08.839 --> 0:05:11.719 I just think we'll always like I've got one hundred people. 0:05:11.760 --> 0:05:14.279 It's not like we're not being conservative at all. Like 0:05:14.360 --> 0:05:18.000 we're already dropping a heap of money. But don't you 0:05:18.600 --> 0:05:20.479 is that really going to make your wedding? Is that 0:05:20.640 --> 0:05:23.599 if you if you tell me, that is like my 0:05:23.800 --> 0:05:27.080 dream come true. This is like the very first time. 0:05:27.760 --> 0:05:29.400 I feel like I need to come to more of 0:05:29.400 --> 0:05:30.880 these meetings, to any of. 0:05:30.839 --> 0:05:33.440 The meetings, Like you haven't been to any of them, so. 0:05:33.400 --> 0:05:37.159 Like because because you were you were you were the 0:05:37.160 --> 0:05:39.240 one initially who was like, I don't want to spend 0:05:39.240 --> 0:05:40.960 too much money on this, so I was like. 0:05:41.120 --> 0:05:44.159 Now I do absolutely Okay. 0:05:44.200 --> 0:05:46.400 Well, last thing I wanted to talk to you about 0:05:46.560 --> 0:05:49.200 is in terms of MCing and stuff, especially if we 0:05:49.240 --> 0:05:52.160 do go down the road like the route of selling 0:05:52.160 --> 0:05:54.680 it to Women's day What if britt was the MC. 0:05:55.440 --> 0:05:58.039 Yeah, I don't care if BRIT's the MC. It's just 0:05:58.080 --> 0:06:01.720 I don't think Women's Day care. Who's am seeing the wedding? 0:06:02.480 --> 0:06:04.520 So wait, do you want to sell it to a Wednesday? 0:06:04.520 --> 0:06:04.560 Like? 0:06:04.600 --> 0:06:05.359 Would you be okay with? 0:06:06.600 --> 0:06:06.720 All? 0:06:06.800 --> 0:06:07.680 Right? Cool? 0:06:08.600 --> 0:06:11.120 Like I think that would like be the worst idea 0:06:11.120 --> 0:06:12.880 you've ever had in your entire life. 0:06:13.160 --> 0:06:16.200 Okay, Well, apparently Brittany's going to be the. 0:06:17.920 --> 0:06:19.240 Time down the MC of the wedding. 0:06:19.279 --> 0:06:24.200 Thanks Mattie Jay, Sorry, my love you on RADO and 0:06:24.240 --> 0:06:26.839 I don't want to have thirt thousand dollars with a flowers. 0:06:26.839 --> 0:06:27.400 Believe it or not. 0:06:28.640 --> 0:06:30.880 He's waiting for the day that you guys try and 0:06:30.920 --> 0:06:31.919 Frank me, did you? 0:06:35.000 --> 0:06:38.440 I was like, I was like, what the what do 0:06:38.520 --> 0:06:39.800 you about? 0:06:39.839 --> 0:06:41.599 You want to spend thirty thousand dollars. 0:06:41.440 --> 0:06:43.440 In a wedding, but I'm going to beat those women's. 0:06:43.200 --> 0:06:44.680 Day take photos. That's not going to happen. 0:06:44.680 --> 0:06:45.960 Do you know what we can end it. We're gonna end. 0:06:45.960 --> 0:06:47.560 I have two little pigeons at the end that we 0:06:47.720 --> 0:06:51.839 rounded up. That is about all our budget will allow 0:06:51.960 --> 0:06:56.440 right now. Then even pigeons, I can't fly to chickens, chickens, seagulls. 0:06:57.960 --> 0:07:00.359 This is actually the most we've spoken about the wedding 0:07:00.360 --> 0:07:01.320 in about four months. 0:07:01.920 --> 0:07:03.080 Yeah, we are the worst. 0:07:03.120 --> 0:07:05.920 We're still unorganized anyway, No, we don't need to do 0:07:06.600 --> 0:07:08.039 what is smoking? 0:07:08.480 --> 0:07:10.520 Well, thanks Matt, you're a I love that he stopped 0:07:10.520 --> 0:07:11.000 his gym. 0:07:11.520 --> 0:07:13.280 Also, also, honey, do not worry. 0:07:13.280 --> 0:07:16.440 Everything is going exactly to plan and there's no surprises 0:07:16.520 --> 0:07:18.200 and you don't have to come to any meetings. 0:07:18.240 --> 0:07:20.920 It's okay, okay, great, Can I get back to the gym? 0:07:21.040 --> 0:07:24.040 Yeah? 0:07:21.600 --> 0:07:29.040 Made love You is a keeper? Thirteen one sixty five. 0:07:29.120 --> 0:07:30.920 What did your partner hate at your wedding? We've got 0:07:31.000 --> 0:07:31.800 Jess morning. 0:07:31.880 --> 0:07:32.040 Hi. 0:07:32.600 --> 0:07:32.800 Hi. 0:07:33.120 --> 0:07:36.520 Yeah, So when I booked our wedding. I thought that 0:07:36.560 --> 0:07:38.440 I was doing the right thing by putting it on 0:07:38.480 --> 0:07:40.160 a long weekend because I was like, you know, it 0:07:40.160 --> 0:07:42.400 gives the run the extra day off to recover from 0:07:42.400 --> 0:07:44.640 all the festivities and all the drinks and everything like that. 0:07:45.040 --> 0:07:47.800 I didn't think about the fact that the NRL Grand 0:07:47.840 --> 0:07:49.840 Final was always on the October long weekend. 0:07:50.480 --> 0:07:51.760 Aroocky era. 0:07:52.200 --> 0:07:56.320 My partner is like the biggest Melbourne Storm supporter in 0:07:56.360 --> 0:07:59.480 the world. As memorabilia all through the house it just 0:07:59.560 --> 0:08:02.760 so happy they made they made the Grand Final that year, 0:08:03.320 --> 0:08:05.800 and he's he's at the wedding, I'm not kidding, on 0:08:05.840 --> 0:08:10.960 his phone trying to live stream the game while we're 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:12.160 at our own wedding. 0:08:12.920 --> 0:08:14.920 At the reception or at what part of the wedding. 0:08:14.960 --> 0:08:16.400 Was he trying to lie stream the game? They're like, 0:08:16.440 --> 0:08:17.240 you need to say I do. 0:08:17.400 --> 0:08:18.360 He's just like God. 0:08:20.200 --> 0:08:22.760 In his defense, in his defense, we'd already done the 0:08:22.760 --> 0:08:25.120 official wedding part of it. But we're at the reception 0:08:25.440 --> 0:08:27.880 and he's in between speetures trying to run out to 0:08:28.040 --> 0:08:30.920 like you know, the outside the working area, trying to 0:08:30.960 --> 0:08:33.160 get reception on his phone to watch it. And the 0:08:33.200 --> 0:08:35.480 worst part is banded up winning. It was like a 0:08:35.520 --> 0:08:36.199 really good game. 0:08:36.320 --> 0:08:39.680 Well he went allowed, what though, I like when you say, 0:08:39.840 --> 0:08:42.720 you know in his defense, in your defense, he also 0:08:42.800 --> 0:08:44.760 had a say in picking the date. The guy could 0:08:44.760 --> 0:08:48.719 have been proactive in this decision making. Has been very 0:08:48.760 --> 0:08:49.960 active in the decision making. 0:08:50.040 --> 0:08:52.600 Laura, let's go to Natalie and Gregory Hills. Tell of Natalie, 0:08:52.679 --> 0:08:54.120 what did your partner hated your wedding? 0:08:55.720 --> 0:08:58.640 We actually had a security guard sitting in the middle 0:08:58.640 --> 0:09:02.880 of the dance floor the whole night. Every single photo 0:09:03.360 --> 0:09:06.079 we had the security guards standing there with like this 0:09:06.240 --> 0:09:07.439 cranky look on his face. 0:09:07.880 --> 0:09:10.040 Why why why did you need security in the middle 0:09:10.040 --> 0:09:11.920 of dance floor? Was there some rogue dancing or. 0:09:12.760 --> 0:09:14.400 There was a pretty rogue dancing look there was? 0:09:14.480 --> 0:09:16.480 There was there was some parts coming off and some 0:09:16.520 --> 0:09:17.199 top coming off. 0:09:18.240 --> 0:09:20.319 There was some dance moves that were truly I legal, 0:09:21.520 --> 0:09:22.240 they really were. 0:09:22.360 --> 0:09:24.640 But yeah, it was probably just just before the end 0:09:24.679 --> 0:09:27.960 of the COVID restrictions. And yeah, he obviously didn't like 0:09:28.040 --> 0:09:28.880 so many people there. 0:09:29.240 --> 0:09:29.920 So I'll hang on. 0:09:30.040 --> 0:09:32.640 So you didn't employ a security guard to come to 0:09:32.720 --> 0:09:35.320 your wedding, So you're not You're not Beyonce or something, but. 0:09:35.240 --> 0:09:40.360 The venue no, no, Well, you could have been an alias. 0:09:40.360 --> 0:09:42.080 I don't know, so so that then you had the 0:09:42.080 --> 0:09:43.920 security guard, and now every fody you've ever got has 0:09:43.960 --> 0:09:44.719 a security guard in it. 0:09:44.760 --> 0:09:45.240 Of your wedding. 0:09:46.520 --> 0:09:48.080 At least just tell people he's a cousin. 0:09:48.200 --> 0:09:51.760 No, he's the cranky cousin sits on a dance floor. 0:09:51.559 --> 0:09:53.640 Always all black and has security written on the chest 0:09:53.640 --> 0:09:56.000 and his shirt gun gud. 0:09:56.080 --> 0:09:56.959 Yeah, he's really secret. 0:09:57.080 --> 0:10:01.120 It's a secret of cousin Joe in twenty two. 0:10:01.120 --> 0:10:05.199 Your Saturday Morning, the last time Bad Hockley and Laura 0:10:05.240 --> 0:10:06.720 Ben ladies. 0:10:06.760 --> 0:10:06.920 You know. 0:10:06.960 --> 0:10:09.080 Coachella's at the moment when were like the little mini break. 0:10:09.080 --> 0:10:10.800 There's like week one and have a break so the 0:10:10.880 --> 0:10:13.200 artists can go like hydro and rest and then week two, 0:10:13.240 --> 0:10:15.760 next week recover. Coachella is a weird place. The big 0:10:15.840 --> 0:10:18.040 names that Harry Sales is performing, Billie Eilish, But did 0:10:18.040 --> 0:10:19.760 you know a lot of lesson known artists also get 0:10:19.760 --> 0:10:22.600 their first big break at Coachella. Like really, I'm talking 0:10:22.800 --> 0:10:25.280 fringe artist somes that you'd never something, you've never even heard, 0:10:25.400 --> 0:10:27.559 some with even very obscure names Brittany. 0:10:27.280 --> 0:10:29.160 And Laura, the ones that if you know who they are, 0:10:29.240 --> 0:10:30.160 you're really cool. 0:10:30.200 --> 0:10:32.400 Oh if you know cool, you know so. I've got 0:10:32.400 --> 0:10:34.560 some of the best names. I'm going to give them 0:10:34.559 --> 0:10:35.880 to you. You have to tell me whether or not 0:10:35.920 --> 0:10:37.480 it is a real name or in fact, a made 0:10:37.520 --> 0:10:37.800 up name. 0:10:37.840 --> 0:10:38.960 I'm not going to know that. I don't even know 0:10:38.960 --> 0:10:39.680 Harry Styles. 0:10:40.320 --> 0:10:43.959 Oh come, sometimes it's shocking how a radio show. I 0:10:44.000 --> 0:10:45.199 don't know any musical artists. 0:10:45.200 --> 0:10:47.439 All right, let's go number one. Let's start with you, Britt, 0:10:48.200 --> 0:10:50.240 which is a real band playing at Coachella, which is 0:10:50.280 --> 0:10:53.520 completely better Emma and the Sniffers or Emma and the 0:10:53.600 --> 0:10:57.240 Swallowers's real first one. One's real ones fake emmel and 0:10:57.280 --> 0:10:59.760 the Sniffers, Emil and the Swallows. 0:11:00.320 --> 0:11:01.679 Haven't called this off the Swallowers. 0:11:01.679 --> 0:11:03.440 It's got to be the Sniffers Snippers. 0:11:04.240 --> 0:11:04.880 She's done it. 0:11:04.920 --> 0:11:07.599 Wait, there is a band called Amil and the Sniffers. 0:11:07.679 --> 0:11:08.679 Very good. I've seen them live. 0:11:08.960 --> 0:11:13.360 That's very interesting. Anyone who knows what you would know 0:11:13.400 --> 0:11:13.880 that this is. 0:11:13.840 --> 0:11:14.760 A very interesting name. 0:11:14.760 --> 0:11:16.600 Beautiful eyes. All right, Laura, your turn. Put down that 0:11:16.600 --> 0:11:21.160 coffee ook Storia. Laura is the man playing at Coachella. 0:11:21.240 --> 0:11:27.240 Real fake Prince Prince Samsung sorry, or Princess Nokia. 0:11:28.679 --> 0:11:30.600 Prince Prince Nokia. 0:11:30.320 --> 0:11:34.800 Princemung, you're not looking, Princess Princess Nokia. There'll be royalty there, 0:11:34.840 --> 0:11:36.720 Princess perform. 0:11:36.600 --> 0:11:39.000 A fantastic What a stupid name? 0:11:39.720 --> 0:11:41.640 Stupid Let's never get them on because we just called them. 0:11:42.280 --> 0:11:45.280 She's behind you right now. Let's go, Laura, back to you, 0:11:45.440 --> 0:11:47.960 back to you? Is the band playing at coach fake 0:11:48.120 --> 0:11:50.320 land dragons or beach goons? 0:11:51.960 --> 0:11:53.800 Is that a beach like having a glass of wine 0:11:53.800 --> 0:11:58.319 at the beach. I'm going to go a land dragon? 0:11:59.080 --> 0:12:01.880 Oh my god, I think, Laura. 0:12:01.960 --> 0:12:04.160 I'm very I'm very good at this game. 0:12:04.720 --> 0:12:11.200 A fantastic I love the hit. Paul Shard nay, alright, 0:12:12.480 --> 0:12:14.800 I should get this right. You win, Laura Burn? 0:12:14.920 --> 0:12:16.200 What do I win? Mitch Churi? 0:12:16.760 --> 0:12:20.200 Unconditional love and tickets to Coachella? Real band playing at 0:12:20.240 --> 0:12:26.319 Coachella or fake emotional oranges or physical pairs? Physical pairs? 0:12:26.800 --> 0:12:28.800 Physical surely is the emotion for the. 0:12:28.760 --> 0:12:32.800 Wind, oh, ladies and gentlemen. And that gets us to 0:12:32.840 --> 0:12:33.640 a tiebreaker. 0:12:34.160 --> 0:12:35.439 Do we have a tiebreaker band? 0:12:36.080 --> 0:12:37.520 I'm a tiebreaker band, which this. 0:12:37.520 --> 0:12:39.000 Music is actually giving me anxiety. 0:12:39.200 --> 0:12:42.600 Thank you. It's a million dollar hot seat band playing 0:12:42.640 --> 0:12:45.080 at Coachella. Buzz in with your name first to buzz 0:12:45.160 --> 0:12:48.440 in and get it right with real band playing at 0:12:48.440 --> 0:12:52.480 Coachella or made up whipped cream, salted. 0:12:52.160 --> 0:12:59.320 Butter Brittany, Brittany salted butter, salted but I hate but 0:12:59.480 --> 0:13:00.320 why did I pick butter? 0:13:01.400 --> 0:13:05.040 Sadly, that's wrong, Brittany as lost. Laurie, you what the queens? 0:13:06.040 --> 0:13:09.679 Nothing lying an emotional and emotional orange and a whipped 0:13:09.880 --> 0:13:11.360 cream or butter or whatever it was. 0:13:12.800 --> 0:13:15.079 I've heard of one of those bands in my life. 0:13:15.120 --> 0:13:15.440 Do you know what? 0:13:15.440 --> 0:13:17.040 We're going to be really sort of eating our own 0:13:17.040 --> 0:13:18.840 words when one day one of them is super famous 0:13:18.880 --> 0:13:20.920 and on here and we have to say, I'm very 0:13:21.000 --> 0:13:23.480 sorry that we slanmmered the emotional orange. 0:13:23.280 --> 0:13:26.119 Emil sorry, and to the sniffers as well, we also apologize, 0:13:26.200 --> 0:13:26.679 but I'll have. 0:13:26.679 --> 0:13:28.640 The Sandy shardonay on any harm. 0:13:30.640 --> 0:13:35.840 Ask Uncut, Ask gun Cut is a segment we do 0:13:36.000 --> 0:13:38.960 on Life on Cut podcast every Thursday. You guys, run 0:13:38.960 --> 0:13:40.880 your deepest, darkest, sexiest question. 0:13:41.000 --> 0:13:43.240 Love him It's sorry. It is my favorite part of 0:13:43.280 --> 0:13:43.800 the podcast. 0:13:43.800 --> 0:13:45.320 Now are you writing the sexy questions? 0:13:45.360 --> 0:13:48.360 Don't you? I've been Tracy, I've been Sandy. I love it. 0:13:48.440 --> 0:13:49.640 Every week I'm like a new woman. 0:13:50.080 --> 0:13:51.480 We do my best to answer them, and I have 0:13:51.640 --> 0:13:54.920 a hot, sexy little one for you guys today. I've 0:13:54.960 --> 0:13:56.640 been with my partner for about a year and a 0:13:56.679 --> 0:13:59.800 half now. He's wonderful and a really great guy. At 0:13:59.800 --> 0:14:03.160 the very beginning of our relationship, he judged me heavily 0:14:03.240 --> 0:14:06.560 on my past relationships and sexual encounters with other men. 0:14:06.960 --> 0:14:10.440 Now this was before I even knew he existed. Because 0:14:10.480 --> 0:14:13.120 he thinks that sex should be special and not just 0:14:13.160 --> 0:14:16.360 a bit of fun. I have done nothing but except him, 0:14:16.720 --> 0:14:19.960 all of him as he is, including his past, which, 0:14:20.000 --> 0:14:22.800 let me tell you, is considerably more colorful than mine. 0:14:23.560 --> 0:14:26.000 He since apologized for it all, but I can't ever 0:14:26.040 --> 0:14:29.320 help feel like I can be fully myself and I 0:14:29.360 --> 0:14:33.120 can't talk about my past relationships ever at all because 0:14:33.120 --> 0:14:36.000 he doesn't like it. How do I navigate this? And 0:14:36.200 --> 0:14:37.360 is this normal? 0:14:37.560 --> 0:14:38.280 That's a problem? 0:14:38.400 --> 0:14:40.800 No, And I don't like the double standards that are 0:14:40.800 --> 0:14:43.320 happening here. That something's okay for him, but he expects 0:14:43.320 --> 0:14:45.640 different from her because she's female. I think we can 0:14:45.680 --> 0:14:49.160 all agree that this is heavily and deeply seated in misogyny. 0:14:49.240 --> 0:14:56.040 Yep, misogyny leaf Yeah, yeah. The patriarchy. 0:14:56.120 --> 0:14:58.240 But also I think in this and something that we 0:14:58.280 --> 0:15:00.440 can like when you write it out, like it's so 0:15:00.520 --> 0:15:02.720 obvious that he's jealous, and I think it just sort 0:15:02.760 --> 0:15:05.560 of shows how his own insecurity. So it has nothing 0:15:05.600 --> 0:15:07.280 to do with you in your past, has nothing to 0:15:07.320 --> 0:15:10.720 do with whether you've had relationships that have been meaningful 0:15:10.840 --> 0:15:13.320 in their sexual experiences or whether you've had a whole 0:15:13.360 --> 0:15:15.120 lot of fun at the meantime as well. It's like 0:15:15.320 --> 0:15:17.800 that is completely beside the point because it was before 0:15:17.840 --> 0:15:20.840 your relationship with him, and him getting upset about something 0:15:20.880 --> 0:15:23.520 that happened before he even came along just shows his 0:15:23.560 --> 0:15:24.560 own insecurities. 0:15:24.600 --> 0:15:26.320 And this has actually have a name. We've done a 0:15:26.320 --> 0:15:28.480 podcast episode on it. You can google it. It's called 0:15:28.560 --> 0:15:31.400 retroactive jealousy. And it can be a real issue. It 0:15:31.400 --> 0:15:33.360 can be very detrimental to that when you look back 0:15:33.520 --> 0:15:37.000 when you were so jealous of somebody's past but you 0:15:37.040 --> 0:15:38.880 weren't even involved, like you don't even know them, you 0:15:38.920 --> 0:15:41.280 know nothing about them, but you can't and you get obsessive. 0:15:41.280 --> 0:15:43.920 It's when you go on google your current partner's exes, 0:15:43.960 --> 0:15:45.640 you see what they did, and then you get jealous 0:15:45.720 --> 0:15:48.160 that maybe four years ago they went on a really 0:15:48.200 --> 0:15:49.120 romantic trip to Italy. 0:15:49.200 --> 0:15:50.840 But why haven't you been on the romantic trip. 0:15:50.920 --> 0:15:53.440 Yeah, it's that kind of thing, become a bit obsessed 0:15:53.600 --> 0:15:56.760 with your partner's ex and like, are they prettier than me? 0:15:56.800 --> 0:15:57.520 Are they funnier? 0:15:57.600 --> 0:15:59.960 You know, you're trying to figure out if your level upward? 0:16:00.320 --> 0:16:02.000 Why did that with you? Guys? When we started the show, 0:16:02.040 --> 0:16:03.360 I wanted to see what are the mails you've had 0:16:03.360 --> 0:16:06.320 on And I've blocked many people like Facebook, Carl Steven Ogaannight, 0:16:06.360 --> 0:16:07.000 we don't talk. 0:16:06.920 --> 0:16:10.320 Poor Maddie Jay, he is out of here. No, I've dated. 0:16:10.400 --> 0:16:11.160 This is a real problem. 0:16:11.200 --> 0:16:13.120 I dated someone in the past that I could not 0:16:13.440 --> 0:16:15.320 talk about anyone else I had ever been with. 0:16:15.400 --> 0:16:16.320 So he really flagged. 0:16:16.400 --> 0:16:18.360 He knew nothing about what didn't work out, but he 0:16:18.440 --> 0:16:20.040 knew nothing about anyone I'd ever dated, because it was 0:16:20.040 --> 0:16:21.440 a problem. But at the end of the day, if 0:16:21.440 --> 0:16:23.160 you want to be with this person, there's got to 0:16:23.160 --> 0:16:24.120 be some level of respect. 0:16:24.200 --> 0:16:26.360 If he doesn't want to hear about your past, you 0:16:26.400 --> 0:16:26.760 don't have. 0:16:26.920 --> 0:16:29.400 To talk about it and controversial, but like I think, 0:16:29.480 --> 0:16:31.680 of course, you don't want to talk too much about 0:16:31.720 --> 0:16:32.080 your exites. 0:16:32.120 --> 0:16:33.520 Of course, there's a limit to it totally. 0:16:33.560 --> 0:16:35.840 I think knowing a little bit about your partner's past 0:16:35.880 --> 0:16:38.040 and who they've been with and everything else gives you insight. 0:16:38.120 --> 0:16:40.360 It makes you connect with them even more so. I 0:16:40.520 --> 0:16:43.480 just think he's very jealous and just shows that maybe 0:16:43.520 --> 0:16:44.440 he has a few insecurity. 0:16:44.440 --> 0:16:47.640 Maybe just put the PowerPoint presentation away or your relationships. 0:16:47.400 --> 0:16:49.640 With that download Excel, make a spreadsheets all right? If 0:16:49.640 --> 0:16:50.960