WEBVTT - I Didn’t Know My Boyfriend’s Name For 4 Months 👦

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<v Speaker 1>Flex and rooms, flex and frooms, catch up, podcast and rooms.

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<v Speaker 1>It's flex and it's rooms, and it's Thursday. I swear

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<v Speaker 1>i'd something.

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<v Speaker 2>Good to say, should I start talking? And then you

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<v Speaker 2>interrupt if it comes to you, please?

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<v Speaker 3>So you know.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been learning Dutch right using my Michelle Thomas app.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's really interesting because my approach to life is

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<v Speaker 2>I only want to do things I'm good at. That's

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<v Speaker 2>how I felt for the longest time Tomic not good

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<v Speaker 2>at it, I don't want to do it because I'm

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<v Speaker 2>usually good at a lot of things. But now I'm

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<v Speaker 2>finally this hid and joy of trying really hard things

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not good at, or things i'm not good at doing,

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<v Speaker 2>and then seeing progress and then getting really excited. So

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like I'm about two years away from revisiting

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of the things I take a hard stance on,

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<v Speaker 2>like not wanting to cook and stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>Amazing because I could enjoy it. Who knows you'd be

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<v Speaker 4>a great cook. I have.

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<v Speaker 1>The one time I've tried to do this is with maths.

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<v Speaker 2>Maths, maths, maths, mathematics, mathematics.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I remember, like my I got a tudor when

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<v Speaker 1>I was like in year seven or something.

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<v Speaker 4>Damn academic. So early on, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Know what, I know, I know what what anyway, and

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<v Speaker 1>I like go after the bus after school was so traumatic. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's coming back going to this crappy math space. And

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<v Speaker 1>I literally fucking hate maths. It was so fucked huh.

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<v Speaker 1>So anyway, I'm not there some things I'm not good

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<v Speaker 1>at and I never want to revisit them.

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<v Speaker 4>Mathematics is one of them. I'll be gymnastics.

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<v Speaker 1>Gymnastics, remember I told you that.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if I told you, but my teacher

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<v Speaker 2>because I was that girl who'd always skip pye because

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I'm not athletic, I don't want to try.

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<v Speaker 2>And then for one time, my teacher threatened me with

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<v Speaker 2>detention if I didn't get on the balance beam, which

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<v Speaker 2>is a big that's crazy, big call. And so I

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<v Speaker 2>got on the balance beam and I was actually doing it.

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<v Speaker 4>It was going well.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I don't know if I made this happen

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<v Speaker 2>or I lost my balance, but I fell and I

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<v Speaker 2>turned around and I said, but currently to this day,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have great balance and I don't have great

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<v Speaker 2>core strength. So I think that I might have I

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<v Speaker 2>mustn't have been lying then, but who knows?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay you on that beam girl? This is Flex and

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<v Speaker 1>Rooms on Kita.

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<v Speaker 2>Am I the asshole for ending my friendship over money?

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<v Speaker 2>That is the question we're answering today on Flex and Rooms.

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<v Speaker 2>This was not one source from Reddit or the greater Internet.

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<v Speaker 2>This one landed straight in my DM from someone who said, Hey, Flex,

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<v Speaker 2>I try to send this in a group chat with

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<v Speaker 2>rooms too, but Instagram was not having a bar of it,

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<v Speaker 2>so she chose me.

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<v Speaker 4>Fair enough, they.

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<v Speaker 1>Often choose me, so.

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<v Speaker 4>So she chose me big fan of the party.

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<v Speaker 2>Though. I was listening this morning and you were doing

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<v Speaker 2>and am I the asshole? And I figured I would

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<v Speaker 2>send this in. I put it in a SoundCloud file genius.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, I want to ensure I had all

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<v Speaker 2>the info in the recording. Essentially, I've been feeling guilty

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<v Speaker 2>that I ended a friendship with one of my closest

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<v Speaker 2>friends and want to know if I'm the asshole.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's play the track please.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, Flex and Frooms, I'm coming to you with an

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<v Speaker 3>am I the asshole? Now? This one's been sitting with

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<v Speaker 3>me for a while because I can't help but think

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<v Speaker 3>that I ruined my friendship with one of my closest friends,

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<v Speaker 3>so it's am I the asshole for not paying what

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<v Speaker 3>was requested of me. Now, to preface this, my friend

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<v Speaker 3>was throwing a party to celebrate her one year anniversary

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<v Speaker 3>of moving up to the Gold Coast and created a

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<v Speaker 3>big group chat inviting everyone over to her sharehouse. I

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<v Speaker 3>would say about seventy percent of the people in the

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<v Speaker 3>group chat lived in the sharehouse, and she said, come along,

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<v Speaker 3>bring ten dollars to chip in for food, and let's

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<v Speaker 3>just let's have a big dinner, which is great. So

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<v Speaker 3>the day of me and my partner had spent a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of time at the hospital with family and we

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<v Speaker 3>weren't initially going to go. However, a lot of people

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<v Speaker 3>had dropped out at the last minute, so we thought

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<v Speaker 3>it would be rude not to go because she was

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<v Speaker 3>one of my closest friends. So when we rocked up

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<v Speaker 3>at five point thirty, which was a time in the

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<v Speaker 3>group chat, no one in the sharehouse had come out

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<v Speaker 3>to help cook yet, and none of the food had

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<v Speaker 3>been prepared. So me and my partner spent about an

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<v Speaker 3>hour and a half preparing all the food. So we

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<v Speaker 3>were having like it was a big salad and a

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<v Speaker 3>vegetarian dull, so a lot of the food was like

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<v Speaker 3>can tomatoes, lentils, and all the fresh produce my friend

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<v Speaker 3>had gotten from her work at a discounted price, So overall,

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<v Speaker 3>it wasn't a super expensive meal, and it was one

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<v Speaker 3>of those meals that you could do on bulk and

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<v Speaker 3>not be really expensive. So yeah, we spent about an

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<v Speaker 3>hour and a half preparing all the food. Like my

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<v Speaker 3>partner got together the entire salad, I made the entire

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<v Speaker 3>doll and did the rice and everything, and then the

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<v Speaker 3>night was actually really nice. It was beautiful having everyone together.

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<v Speaker 3>But about a week later, might get a message in

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<v Speaker 3>that group chat and my friends like, thank you allso

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<v Speaker 3>much for coming, Can you all transfer me the fifteen

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<v Speaker 3>dollars that for your chip in Now my problem was

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<v Speaker 3>the fact that she'd initially requested ten dollars per person,

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<v Speaker 3>not fifteen, And as a couple who live by themselves

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<v Speaker 3>and have a mortgage, obviously paying thirty dollars for dinner,

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<v Speaker 3>we could get like half a week's worth of groceries

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<v Speaker 3>with that amount of money. But it's fine, Like I

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<v Speaker 3>was happy to pay the ten dollars, but it's the

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<v Speaker 3>fact that she bumped it up to fifteen, I think

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<v Speaker 3>because some people couldn't come, which meant technically she was

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<v Speaker 3>feeding less people, and that she ended up getting heaps

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<v Speaker 3>of leftovers from it. Anyways, So I spent a week

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<v Speaker 3>thinking about it, and I ended up just transferring her

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<v Speaker 3>twenty dollars, which was just the two ten dollars. And

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<v Speaker 3>I do feel really bad, but I can't help but

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<v Speaker 3>think that you can't just up the price when it's

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<v Speaker 3>convenient for you, and especially the fact that, like we

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<v Speaker 3>cooked most of the meal and all the fresh produce,

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<v Speaker 3>she would have gotten discounted from her work.

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<v Speaker 4>Anyways.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so am I the asshole for not paying money

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<v Speaker 3>that was requested of me.

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<v Speaker 2>In the situation? Who's the asshole? First of all, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna have to stop myself to draw attention to the

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<v Speaker 2>fact that through me is still drinking out of a

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<v Speaker 2>mold infested bottle that she claimed to have cleaned.

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<v Speaker 1>I just did.

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<v Speaker 4>I just I cleaned it yesterday. One second, you said.

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<v Speaker 1>What, I cleaned it yesterday and then I just went

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<v Speaker 1>for a little room job. Look at this.

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<v Speaker 4>Black soot mold.

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<v Speaker 1>That stinks. Yeah, that absolutely stinks. That's discussing that. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just foul. Look at that. That's terrible. It's a really

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<v Speaker 1>bad day.

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<v Speaker 4>That's all right, you will recover.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a really odd scenario to begin with. First of all,

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<v Speaker 2>a sharehouse fiesta where seventy percent of the attendees live

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<v Speaker 2>in the sharehouse, but majority of them did not attend.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm very confused by that to begin with. Second of all,

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<v Speaker 2>I would assume that if you had cooked at that party,

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<v Speaker 2>that you're now null and void for having to pay

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<v Speaker 2>a ten dollars entry fee to attend. And then number three,

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<v Speaker 2>the fact that your friend is a bit, the fact

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<v Speaker 2>that your friend is charging the people who did attend

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<v Speaker 2>more to cover the people who did not attend. Crazy

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<v Speaker 2>for a casual, little house get together. Is psychotic behavior.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's dull, it's dark. This is a tinned good love.

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<v Speaker 2>And also you're gonna keep this. You can be eaten

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<v Speaker 2>for nights after. You're not the asshole in this situation case,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not clear at all. I just I really respect

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<v Speaker 2>frugal people. I do, but in this instance, your friend

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<v Speaker 2>is taking the piss trying to get a free meal

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<v Speaker 2>and extra coins for not cooking and not hosting a party.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it does suck when you invite people that

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<v Speaker 1>don't come.

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<v Speaker 4>So why are you punishing people who did a tend

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<v Speaker 4>just to.

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<v Speaker 1>Make sure that absolutely no one rocks up next time?

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<v Speaker 1>Can you mess us again, sweet friend and let us

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<v Speaker 1>know if you guys have rekindled the friendship. I hate

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<v Speaker 1>that friendships can end over a five dollar tiff. However,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously it was like the last straw at the vibe.

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<v Speaker 2>But I also hate that, not that they can end

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<v Speaker 2>of a five dollar tiff, but the generosity isn't there

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<v Speaker 2>that if you're going to host a party, are you

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<v Speaker 2>really now checking for cover fee?

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<v Speaker 1>Realistically, people are built different.

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<v Speaker 4>Truly, Keita flex and firms.

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<v Speaker 1>Flex At times I don't want to bring to the radio,

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm going to be completely transparent with the listeners.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's when having a producer really comes in handy

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<v Speaker 1>I produce a brook will go out onto the field

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<v Speaker 1>and find stories for us to discuss.

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<v Speaker 2>Because why am I looking at the table and all

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<v Speaker 2>of Fremi's breaks are done? Brooks sourced all of Fumi's

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<v Speaker 2>breaks for her, Yet me, I gotta do my sourcing

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<v Speaker 2>on the go.

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<v Speaker 4>Some people need more help than others.

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<v Speaker 1>Game, I'm gonna pick and choose my battles.

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<v Speaker 2>I need help to Brookie, she decides, she brings her

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<v Speaker 2>own content and then goes, actually, I can't actually speak

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<v Speaker 2>on this.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not quick and they might have to find her stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Social media, rooting democracy, a monologue by rooms.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what some things are above my bake raide.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's hear it, all right?

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<v Speaker 1>So Briggie sends me a Sun article, which we always

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<v Speaker 1>know is going to be a bit of mote, and

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<v Speaker 1>this one is titled I didn't know my boyfriend's name

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<v Speaker 1>for four months. I was too anxious to ask. So

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<v Speaker 1>this is cheek Millennials. She dated her boy me for

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<v Speaker 1>four months without knowing your name. She wasn't sure if

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<v Speaker 1>he was called Patrick or Richard.

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<v Speaker 4>She desperately searched for information, desperately just steal his wallet.

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<v Speaker 1>And how did she find it? Take a guess, steal

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<v Speaker 1>his wallet? She found the answers on her car document.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently this is before Internet or Facebook, So like, fair enough,

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<v Speaker 1>how would you remember people's names?

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<v Speaker 2>I would probably ask somewhere between I don't know the

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<v Speaker 2>first and second time interacting with them.

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<v Speaker 4>How do you get that far? And say I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>really sure I've been in a Relationshipeah. I think she's

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<v Speaker 4>one of me where she just calls everyone daddy.

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<v Speaker 1>It must be Look, I get this all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm absolutely shocking with names.

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<v Speaker 4>You are? Who did you? Where were we last week?

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<v Speaker 2>We were here at Kita and Thrumy said to someone

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<v Speaker 2>like she looked at them and then said, oh, let's

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<v Speaker 2>say this person name was Jack.

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<v Speaker 4>She said, oh, Thomas, right, that was just last week? Sorry?

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<v Speaker 4>Was it Chivers?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 1>It was the sound guy, Jason's Jake guy that's on

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<v Speaker 1>this floor, the music director. I think this was Jake. Jake, Jake, Jake, Jake, Jake.

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<v Speaker 1>It was Jake came in, Jason came in with some

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry James, James came in, Jake Ja Jake came in

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<v Speaker 1>with some panad.

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<v Speaker 2>Rumy needed panadle, right, and so she's desperately seeking to panadole.

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<v Speaker 2>And Frummy's really mastered the art of being a damsel.

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<v Speaker 2>Because we will not continue until Frummy's gone and retreat

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<v Speaker 2>from diet coke.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, I need to quickly do my makeup for ten minutes.

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<v Speaker 4>I gotta go to the bathrooms anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>She needs she needs some panadal So Brookie jump in,

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<v Speaker 2>what happened. Next, I'm not letting Frims tell the story.

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<v Speaker 1>Then we got our music director Jake to grab us

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<v Speaker 1>some and then she's somehow every time she calls something.

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<v Speaker 2>And then he walks into the room a night in

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<v Speaker 2>shining armor, looking so handsome, just being a king, love,

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<v Speaker 2>helpful men.

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<v Speaker 4>Hand to me.

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<v Speaker 2>The Panados are no stress, she says, thank you so much, James, James,

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<v Speaker 2>James like the Boomers she is.

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<v Speaker 4>We're like, no, it's Jake.

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<v Speaker 2>And then she proceeds to tell a story about how

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<v Speaker 2>Brook has made his character on the sim.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook told or Brook told him that story, and I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's crazy behavior anyway, that's.

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<v Speaker 4>What you draw the line, Jason. So how'd you find

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<v Speaker 4>ad Ian.

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<v Speaker 3>Me?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 1>On a car document? This is before Facebook.

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<v Speaker 4>But I swear not what a car document is.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, like a Red Joe paper. To this day,

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<v Speaker 1>just last weekend I can think of.

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<v Speaker 4>I won't actually inplcate my snow please please. I just like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>this guy I wasn't like.

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<v Speaker 1>I kept calling him his name, and now that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>looking back at the weekend, I don't know if that

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<v Speaker 1>was really his name. I believe that, but he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>look correct me and because I would preferred try to

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<v Speaker 1>be polite and say someone's name, like Okay, last weekend

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<v Speaker 1>I called a chick who was a photographer, Natasha. Her

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<v Speaker 1>name is Natalie, and I thought I went out on

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<v Speaker 1>the I went on on a whim and I said

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<v Speaker 1>to I was, Okay, I'm going to finally use someone's name,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's a respectful thing to do. What do I

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<v Speaker 1>do When I try it? It comes out wrong. I

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<v Speaker 1>call it Natalie.

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<v Speaker 4>A lot of things come out wrong when you speak.

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<v Speaker 4>That's a habit that's not right. It's just names and facts.

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<v Speaker 1>It's social media runing toot and see. But everything that

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<v Speaker 1>I say, when I mean it, I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>This is why the fuzzy wrecking ball here, Because this

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<v Speaker 2>is what the fuzzy wrecking ball TikTok was saying. People

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<v Speaker 2>who cause harm, but their packaging is so sweet, so soft,

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<v Speaker 2>so gentle, so kind.

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<v Speaker 4>That you don't even know how to heal. Look as

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<v Speaker 4>she's laughing. This is flex and frooms. It is time

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<v Speaker 4>for a moral dilemma. You are listening to flex or Frooms.

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<v Speaker 4>Topic of the day. To snitch or not to snitch?

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<v Speaker 4>Off the jump, yes or no?

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<v Speaker 1>No, reform snitcher, I'm always down.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going down. I'm not dealt the same cards.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't handle the penal system like my fellow whites,

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't care I'm snitching.

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<v Speaker 4>But listen to this.

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<v Speaker 2>You're an eyewitness to a crime where a man rubbed

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<v Speaker 2>a bank. Instead of keeping the money for himself, he

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<v Speaker 2>donates it to a poor orphanage.

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<v Speaker 4>Who came up with this?

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<v Speaker 2>That can now sut on your brain so you can

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<v Speaker 2>tell it's Brookie's brain. My cranium would never instead of

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<v Speaker 2>keeping the money for himself, he donates it to a

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<v Speaker 2>poor orphanage, as opposed to a rich one that can

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<v Speaker 2>now afford to feed, clothes and care for the children.

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<v Speaker 2>If you snitch, it is guaranteed that he will do time.

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<v Speaker 4>What do you do?

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<v Speaker 2>Here's the thing, I don't ever want to be an eyewitness.

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<v Speaker 2>In some instances, it's only me and I will say

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<v Speaker 2>something if I truly feel certain that I saw what

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<v Speaker 2>I saw, Because even if daily life we're sitting and

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<v Speaker 2>having the same conversation, I'm like, wait, did I hear

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<v Speaker 2>what I thought I heard?

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<v Speaker 4>Wait? What did you say? You're putting where to my mouth?

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<v Speaker 2>Says you miss we are going to talk about if

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<v Speaker 2>social media scruting democracy. So I don't trust that I

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<v Speaker 2>am able to recall details enough enoughs that I won't

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<v Speaker 2>be now considered to be like an unreliable narrator. Whatever

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<v Speaker 2>it might be. Leave me out of it. I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>see anything. I'm not doing anything, especially where the cops

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<v Speaker 2>are involved. Get me out. I don't care where the

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<v Speaker 2>money is going. Rob your banking, go off to whatever

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<v Speaker 2>you need to do.

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<v Speaker 4>It reminds me of.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on you pretending to think I am because it

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<v Speaker 1>was with me and now it's gone.

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<v Speaker 4>Can I help?

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<v Speaker 1>No, Okay, I forget what I was gonna say.

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<v Speaker 4>So how you can come with? And you thought, if

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<v Speaker 4>you want to, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know what, you know who you know. I've been snitched

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<v Speaker 1>on in the past when I was when I was seven,

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<v Speaker 1>when I was literally seven, I got into a car

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<v Speaker 1>with a stranger and I was walking to school with

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<v Speaker 1>my sister me and this guy kept being like, come on,

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<v Speaker 1>it's raining, it's rainy, like get in the car, in

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<v Speaker 1>the car, and he wouldn't stop. So I got in

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<v Speaker 1>the car obviously. Then my sister rounds the corner and

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<v Speaker 1>sees me to come through me and she gets into the.

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<v Speaker 4>Car with me, and now the filthiest look.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, I can't believe you've done that. Anyway, the

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<v Speaker 1>guy rode us to school, right, so it all ended

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<v Speaker 1>up okay, But the whole time, like I know that

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<v Speaker 1>I've done the wrong thing, like, oh my god, get

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<v Speaker 1>to school, I tell someone, someone tells I'm gets back

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<v Speaker 1>to my family right, amazing, And this guy that we

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<v Speaker 1>knew who this other this other parent came over and

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<v Speaker 1>fully yelled at me, and like then he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>my dad's like, you went as red as a beat troop.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'll just never forget being so embarrassed. So don't

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<v Speaker 1>get in cars with strangers. But also don't chastise children

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<v Speaker 1>for making a mistake when an adult made me get

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<v Speaker 1>into a car. Okay, so yeah, watch out, don't snitch,

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<v Speaker 1>and don't get into cars with strange men.

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<v Speaker 2>And if you are a childless or someone who doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>understand basic common sense or discipline, what we were doing

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<v Speaker 2>strange danger in preschool, Babe, we don't know those people,

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<v Speaker 2>and to this day I don't know those people.

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<v Speaker 1>He forced me, yet we now get into a car

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<v Speaker 1>with strangers with uber literally Okay, I was a forefront

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<v Speaker 1>hours of earlier.

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<v Speaker 2>Someone run her chat, Okay, run frooms her money.

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