WEBVTT - Tim Robards - SAS AUSTRALIA - TV Personality

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<v Speaker 1>It's in the news today, but it was actually on

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<v Speaker 1>On today's podcast, I have Tim Robarts, who is here

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about his epic time on SAS Australia, which

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<v Speaker 1>finished up last week with Matthew, mitchm and Tim passing

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<v Speaker 1>the cause. Tim has had a pretty active career in

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<v Speaker 1>television since first appearing on the Bachelor, from being the

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<v Speaker 1>Badge of the Jungle to acting in Neighbors, amongst other

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<v Speaker 1>TV series, Tim is now here to tell you about

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<v Speaker 1>how challenging this latest TV venture was to film. Sas

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<v Speaker 1>Australia is a huge show for Channel seven where celebrity

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<v Speaker 1>contestants undergo a training program that echoes the Special Air

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<v Speaker 1>Services selection. They face several challenges that test both their

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<v Speaker 1>physical and mental capacity, and with all that yelling from

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<v Speaker 1>Aunt Middleton, I'm pretty sure the main prize win or

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<v Speaker 1>lose is PTSD. I will ask him about being called boring,

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<v Speaker 1>and will find out about his relationship with Craig McLaughlin

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<v Speaker 1>or what that was like behind the scenes. I'll ask

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<v Speaker 1>him if he felt he needed to beat his wife Anna,

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<v Speaker 1>who did the series last year, and I also will

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<v Speaker 1>find out what pushed him each day. There is also

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<v Speaker 1>a lot to unpack with Tim's interrogation and we will

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<v Speaker 1>talk about the time in his life that could have

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<v Speaker 1>been explored and been a little bit more revealing. Plus

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<v Speaker 1>we will get plenty of exclusives from behind the scenes

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<v Speaker 1>of Sas Australia, which finished last week on Channel seven,

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<v Speaker 1>but guys, you can still catch up on on seven

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<v Speaker 1>plus if you missed it anyway, let's bring Tim into

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast. And guys, I really do hope you enjoy

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<v Speaker 1>this catch up with sas Australia's latest success story. Hey Tim,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very well. You know what I just realized I

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<v Speaker 1>was Because it's Halloween. I got tagged in this photo

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<v Speaker 1>with you, and I don't know if you've ever remembered,

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<v Speaker 1>because this is now ten years ago, but we were

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<v Speaker 1>at a Halloween party together in Sydney that a woman

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<v Speaker 1>Tiffany I think her name was, that set it up.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, yeah, and you.

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<v Speaker 1>Your show was about to start. No one had even

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<v Speaker 1>seen an episode of the Bachelor, and do you remember

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<v Speaker 1>they had to like write Bachelor on your suit and

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<v Speaker 1>put roses on you so people knew who you were

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<v Speaker 1>because you were about to be catastrophically famous, but not

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<v Speaker 1>at that point.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there was. So I went as a as a

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<v Speaker 2>the thing was like, all right, let's do the suit.

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<v Speaker 2>But as a bachelor that's had like, you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>been accosted by these women. So it was like a

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<v Speaker 2>food that was all.

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<v Speaker 3>Torn and I had a black eye and and all that,

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<v Speaker 3>and I remember the next day I got a call

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<v Speaker 3>from the producer going, what the f what are you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>What are you doing? Was he was so dirty and

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<v Speaker 2>that I had, you know, potentially I don't know, either

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<v Speaker 2>mocked or tonic or whatever.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I got in trouble as well because I was dressed

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<v Speaker 1>as an Indian and on stage being interviewed by Angela Bishop.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was one of those entertainment ladies and

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<v Speaker 1>you know you're in trouble with the network because you've

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<v Speaker 1>been punched in the face and attacked by women. But

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<v Speaker 1>I actually said I came dressed as an Indian because

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<v Speaker 1>it was my favorite food, Indian food. So it's very

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<v Speaker 1>casually and so between the two of us, surprise we

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<v Speaker 1>weren't canceled and not talking right now?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well it wasn't. There was the same cancer culture

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<v Speaker 2>back then.

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<v Speaker 1>We survived. We're here.

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<v Speaker 2>I think everyone else got the joke with mine, apart

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<v Speaker 2>from the producer.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you still speak to him, No.

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't for a while. That he was he was

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<v Speaker 2>he was a good actually just that.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, Timmy, he's not going to listen to the podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>It's okay, you won't come for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you never know, you never know.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I should stop congratulations on completing the course. Congratulations

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<v Speaker 1>to you and Matthew. What an achievement.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so it was a lot harder than it looks.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I think what's being from home, you see

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<v Speaker 2>it is that some people want you look at me

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<v Speaker 2>and go, you know, well, I don't think I could

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<v Speaker 2>do that. I could walk along that road for to

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<v Speaker 2>do that. But the course the hardest because the course

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<v Speaker 2>is all the stuff in between the challengers. They grind

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<v Speaker 2>you down. They constantly keep you in a state of

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<v Speaker 2>fear and stress and anxiety, and that getting to every

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<v Speaker 2>day feels like a week. So to get to the end,

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<v Speaker 2>and for me to get to the end without being

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<v Speaker 2>totally broken was was quite an achievement.

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<v Speaker 1>What I feel like to you know, at times come

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<v Speaker 1>close to not completing the course. What are those What

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<v Speaker 1>did those moments feel.

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<v Speaker 2>Like like when you know, the first two or three days,

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<v Speaker 2>but I was like, I don't know if I can

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<v Speaker 2>do this, like this issue, this constant fear and stress,

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<v Speaker 2>and that is not worse. Like I was doing well

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<v Speaker 2>in itially in a lot of the tasks and passing

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<v Speaker 2>and there's that sense of achievement, But that sense of

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<v Speaker 2>achievement you don't get much of a pat on the back.

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<v Speaker 2>It's right done. On the next thing, that sense of

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<v Speaker 2>achievement was not outweighing the constant discomfort in site that

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<v Speaker 2>I was in, and I'm like, man, I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to be I'm not. Actually I thought i'd feel a

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<v Speaker 2>lot more like wow, because I remember Anna talking to

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<v Speaker 2>me about hurting and she's like, didn't do this for this,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I was doing it and I felt amazing,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know he was he had no expectations on herself.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually went in there with sign like that spectation

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<v Speaker 2>on myself from others and end with that pressure too,

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<v Speaker 2>like I've at least got to do as well as

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<v Speaker 2>my wife or I will never be able to hold

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<v Speaker 2>my head up. I want to get home.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to know that though. So that was a

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<v Speaker 1>driving force because I mean, you know, I know that

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<v Speaker 1>Anna completed the course, you know, and she did eleven days,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I can imagine it would have been really

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<v Speaker 1>important for you to do the same thing.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't a driving force, but it was a great

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<v Speaker 2>reason not to quit. But it wasn't my driving force

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<v Speaker 2>to go on there and do well. I didn't need

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<v Speaker 2>to go and I could have not done it at all,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I'd still never be compared, you know. But

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<v Speaker 2>once I'd gone yes, I'll do it, there was that

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<v Speaker 2>underlying prector if I don't make it all the way

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<v Speaker 2>to the end, I'm always going to have that louing

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<v Speaker 2>over me. But it was it wasn't ever the thing

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<v Speaker 2>that made me do it or the thing that pushed me,

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<v Speaker 2>but it was the thing that just stopped me quitting.

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<v Speaker 2>It was one thing that stopped me quitting.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, if by any chance, you only did two

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<v Speaker 1>days and she did eleven, you just hope that her

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<v Speaker 1>genetics was stronger.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess, yeah, exactly. I think I got some good excuses,

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<v Speaker 2>but I had no I definitely had other things that

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<v Speaker 2>really were the things that I used to drive me

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<v Speaker 2>to push through the end. I mean that was a

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<v Speaker 2>mixture of wanting to set as an example of my daughter.

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<v Speaker 2>I know my wife did it, but you know, you

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<v Speaker 2>think your daughter is also going to work throople my

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<v Speaker 2>coo daughters, now, the second one on the way, it's

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<v Speaker 2>going to watch this, and you want them to have

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<v Speaker 2>something to kind of be able to watch back and remember.

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<v Speaker 1>And what about the bragging rights at home? Because I

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<v Speaker 1>mean we saw that. You know, your wife Anna tweet

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<v Speaker 1>you know, tweeted or put it on Instagram that you

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<v Speaker 1>know she completed an extra day than you on the

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<v Speaker 1>show because her series was longer. Does she have extra

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<v Speaker 1>bragging rights at home? Is she allowed to have that?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, one of my mates, cit he has always

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<v Speaker 2>let you. I think he's the one in contole power.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'll just let her have that.

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<v Speaker 1>You did not let her have that though. You are

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<v Speaker 1>just saying that now, you're like, oh, I've got nowhere

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<v Speaker 1>to go.

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<v Speaker 2>Always set up for failure because I was set up

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<v Speaker 2>for fallue because there was no way I could beat

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<v Speaker 2>her because I only our course only went for ten days.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like we agree to disagree.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you'd obviously compare the courses, and I actually

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<v Speaker 1>think that the course that you completed was much harder

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<v Speaker 1>than hers. When you swaped notes between the two of you,

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<v Speaker 1>what were the comparisons.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, sometimes did be. I think the biggest comparison was

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<v Speaker 2>that she went in with no expectations on her from

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<v Speaker 2>her very minimal from herself, from the DS, from what

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<v Speaker 2>you would deceive, the audience would think. And so every

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<v Speaker 2>day he lasted another day. He was kind of you know,

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<v Speaker 2>to the Laker, he was so happy where Yeah, me

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<v Speaker 2>going in there, I felt like I already come in

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<v Speaker 2>being the health and fitness guy with an expectation. I

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<v Speaker 2>look a certain way, there's an expectations. And then also

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<v Speaker 2>my wife did so well, there's an expectape then for

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<v Speaker 2>me to do as well or better or forever be

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<v Speaker 2>you know. My wife then in her fat So they.

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<v Speaker 1>Were okay though, you know, in a world where we

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<v Speaker 1>celebrate the Matilda's and no one can remember any of

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<v Speaker 1>the soccer wo's name, it's okay, you know for the

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<v Speaker 1>woman to do well.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, well, you know, yeah, possibly in our situation,

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<v Speaker 2>but there's still I think me and my wife are

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<v Speaker 2>very competitive scene in someway. Although she's super supportive, she's

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<v Speaker 2>also very competitive.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that you need it.

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<v Speaker 2>So there was there was that that was a big

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<v Speaker 2>part of it. But then we come back and together, right.

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<v Speaker 2>So one thing she left out was, you know, she

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<v Speaker 2>would still have experienced all the stuff in between the

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<v Speaker 2>challenges because we only ever talked about the challenges and

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<v Speaker 2>the stuff you see uf you don't see it's the

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<v Speaker 2>day to day see all the you know, even the

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<v Speaker 2>runs they do sometimes we'd finish the task and they

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<v Speaker 2>go right, everyone run and they kind of beast you,

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<v Speaker 2>semi beast you with a run. You'd run push ups,

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<v Speaker 2>run push ups, run for kilometers and then they don't

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<v Speaker 2>show that at all. We've been through it. So you

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<v Speaker 2>kind of like get to the camp and everyone's like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, I'm you know, and you're like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>you just went and did one little you know, climb

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<v Speaker 2>across the road. What are you so worn out for?

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<v Speaker 2>You don't realize the run kilometers there we you know,

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<v Speaker 2>all the things you do, Like last night, even in

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<v Speaker 2>that final episode they said, oh, they were moved to

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<v Speaker 2>a holding ground, we were held in stress positions for

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<v Speaker 2>three hours. They kind of left that part out, but

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<v Speaker 2>you know, stress positions are ones where they hold you

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<v Speaker 2>in each position for about twenty minutes and then a

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<v Speaker 2>lay came and if you didn't hold that position, they'd

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<v Speaker 2>come in and yell at you and put your back

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<v Speaker 2>in that position. So your body throbbing, your muscles are

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<v Speaker 2>aching in these positions, and that was the whole thing

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<v Speaker 2>that they left out, Like, why don't you just say

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<v Speaker 2>they put us in stress positions? They like they've tried

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<v Speaker 2>to stoppen it a lot and leave a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>that stuff out, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Not to show the audience. I mean, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if I could. I could not do this course. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I just thought it was so stressful watching. I would

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<v Speaker 1>also say, I'd wonder if I'd be able to face

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<v Speaker 1>my biggest fear to be true, because mine is pretty bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Mine's the sound of people eating. You know, if I

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<v Speaker 1>had and I was watching everyone eating on this show

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<v Speaker 1>and I reckon, that would have had me pull out.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, yep, I'm out of the competition.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. One of the hardest things was the snoring orchestra

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<v Speaker 2>at night. And you don't think about it, but like,

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<v Speaker 2>if you're not sleeping on that course, you will be.

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<v Speaker 2>You'll go pretty quick, like there's only so many nights

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<v Speaker 2>you can do with you are our sleep. And we

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<v Speaker 2>had two people like really loud ignored and then one

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<v Speaker 2>reverse or who would breathe in and then on the

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<v Speaker 2>way out, it would be.

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<v Speaker 1>Do they pay you danger money for this sort of

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<v Speaker 1>a show, because I mean, you've done a few reality

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<v Speaker 1>shows right now, so I guess when you're on the

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<v Speaker 1>Bachelort it was your first reality experience. They probably wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>have paid you, you know, Motza like if THEYD you

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<v Speaker 1>do a show like that again, I mean you've done

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<v Speaker 1>on the Celebrity, you've done other shows. Is do you

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<v Speaker 1>get paid a lot more for SAS because of danger money?

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<v Speaker 2>Probably? I mean everyone's on different things, but I think

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<v Speaker 2>that's probably one way. You know, that's the longer you last,

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<v Speaker 2>the better. And it's one of those those because even

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<v Speaker 2>though it's only ten days, you're still getting a full

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<v Speaker 2>those you probably I guess you'd probably get paid similar

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<v Speaker 2>to other stories they go for five or six week right,

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<v Speaker 2>So there's maybe there's that's positive in a way, But.

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<v Speaker 1>This would be your biggest payday there from a reality show,

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't it.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe maybe I guess you haven't finished without going into it,

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<v Speaker 2>but I remember talking to Abby who did fifty five

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<v Speaker 2>days on Survivor, Yeah, and I think she was saying

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<v Speaker 2>that this was harder.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>So you know, nine days on SAS compared to fifty

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<v Speaker 2>five days on Survivor. I'm sure they think that you know,

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<v Speaker 2>on six five days and survive and all that hell

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<v Speaker 2>a lot more. But I'm a day to day grueling

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<v Speaker 2>sort of thing. I think you were saying it was

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<v Speaker 2>harder than you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Mental load though this show, the mental load would be

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<v Speaker 1>really high. So when you returned, Laura, did you find

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<v Speaker 1>that you behaved bizarrely or weirdly? Was there like a

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<v Speaker 1>hangover period where you'd be a bit snappy or you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't feel so motivated? Do you want to go catch

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<v Speaker 1>the waves down and BONDI?

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<v Speaker 2>I think because I knew I did well.

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<v Speaker 1>I was.

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<v Speaker 2>I came back with like quite a bit of self belief.

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<v Speaker 2>I was really happy that was something I got out

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<v Speaker 2>of it. I knew how hard it was for me

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<v Speaker 2>and how much I had to put through. That was

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<v Speaker 2>quite a positive. So I came back really somewhat positive.

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<v Speaker 2>I couldn't tell anyone anything though, but I was having

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit of It's almost a bit of BTSD

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<v Speaker 2>where I go to bed and every night for about

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<v Speaker 2>two weeks, i'd wake up, like almost.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd wake up and think I'd strangle.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was. I was waking up thinking that I'm

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<v Speaker 2>ready for another mentioning because you're constantly go, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I do this? Am I really my boots dry?

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<v Speaker 3>Try?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that right? And I'd wake up and it'd be

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<v Speaker 2>in a fluster. I'd be like I'm actually I'm back home.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm okay, I'm okay, you're okay.

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<v Speaker 2>And that went on for about two weeks. Wow, you

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<v Speaker 2>can only imagine what it would be like if you

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<v Speaker 2>were actually you know, you'd actually gone through war until

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<v Speaker 2>different autrocities and all that, and did this for months,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I can understand how my little taste of it.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, there's a lot of you know, potentially people

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<v Speaker 2>see real bad dust would need a lot of support.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, Jackie came out today saying that, you know, she's

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<v Speaker 1>like as if these any of these celebrities could get

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<v Speaker 1>into sas you know, she took you all the task.

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<v Speaker 1>But what are your thoughts on that? Do you think

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<v Speaker 1>that you would be able to officially get into the SASH?

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<v Speaker 2>I think, like doing their stories, what they go through

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<v Speaker 2>is so much tougher. I think I in a younger

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<v Speaker 2>time would have had maybe the physical ability and stuff

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<v Speaker 2>that you've really got to have the mental want to

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<v Speaker 2>put through like they go through six months and that stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, you've you've really got to be sort of

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<v Speaker 2>a different build or like Ant says, he sort of

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<v Speaker 2>says like we you know a lot of us to

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<v Speaker 2>dig dinners where the some of the earth. If we

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<v Speaker 2>weren't doing this, we'd probably be big drug dealers. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>pretty sure I've heard him say that before. We'd be

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<v Speaker 2>not drug necessarily drug dealer, but like we'd be.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, if you weren't a million dollar island and

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<v Speaker 1>being on sas, I'm pretty sure you would be in

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<v Speaker 1>a lineup possibly.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So, like you know, a lot of these people

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<v Speaker 2>come from sort of you know, foster families and broken

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<v Speaker 2>families and this, and that they actually do really well

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<v Speaker 2>with a real sense of structor, probably people who haven't

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<v Speaker 2>grown up with my structor in their life, and what

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<v Speaker 2>the military offers is a real center of structor, but

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<v Speaker 2>also that achievement and knowing you know, some of them

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<v Speaker 2>might be super patriotical I didn't want to help, but

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<v Speaker 2>there's also that level of like kinding all that kind

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<v Speaker 2>of energy, and there's there's all of that so that

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<v Speaker 2>that is a different person there's generally in the s

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<v Speaker 2>So I think you have to have a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>testos thrown, you have to have a lot of that,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, that right kind of energy. So look, I

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<v Speaker 2>think I if I had the want to be there,

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<v Speaker 2>I reckon I can I could put myself through that

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<v Speaker 2>pull degree. But as they said, you know, like I

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<v Speaker 2>remember when Aunt went through, he said there was like

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<v Speaker 2>two hundred and something people in three pasts. I think, wow,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, so that's I don't know if I'd fully passed,

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<v Speaker 2>but you know, i'd give it a red hot craft.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you did pretty well. You did get to

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<v Speaker 1>meet some very amazing people. And the cast that they

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<v Speaker 1>put together for this show is always very complex because

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<v Speaker 1>you're looking for people who might have had a check

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<v Speaker 1>a past, or they might have had had something happen

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<v Speaker 1>in their lives that they really need to face. Who

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<v Speaker 1>surprised you the most when it came to the day

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<v Speaker 1>to day and getting to know these people up close.

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone for sort of different reasons, But.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, was there somebody in particular you were like, Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>I got really close to this person and it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>who I thought they were from my own interpretation, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>from my own reading of the news or seeing them

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<v Speaker 1>on shows.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, yeah, I had a lot of that with

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of them. There wasn't necessarily a stand. One

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<v Speaker 2>thing I did love about everyone in there was everyone

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<v Speaker 2>kind of allowed everyone to come in with a clean

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<v Speaker 2>slate and it was open to you know, they weren't

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<v Speaker 2>quick to judge and they're preconceived ideas. I think we

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<v Speaker 2>kind of all just left them and we're like, right,

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<v Speaker 2>let's just be open to you know, we've we've all

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<v Speaker 2>probably read things about each other, but let's be open

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<v Speaker 2>to just a clean slate and get to know you

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<v Speaker 2>for who you really are. Because I think everyone was

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<v Speaker 2>kind of there's a lot of people in there for that,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's one thing I really appreciated about it, and

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<v Speaker 2>I thought it was really nice and not sort of

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<v Speaker 2>said a few times, and I think we need a

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<v Speaker 2>bit more of that in the world. You know, everyone's

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<v Speaker 2>so quick to label and judge, and I think that

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<v Speaker 2>was nice to go in there with a clean slate.

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<v Speaker 2>I did, you know, I think initially I'd seen Cathy

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<v Speaker 2>you know, talk over the over the time, so different interviews,

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<v Speaker 2>and it was nice to see her at a point

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<v Speaker 2>where things in her life it can be, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>more open and honest, and she was quite a really

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<v Speaker 2>nice person and very giving as much as he could.

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<v Speaker 2>Like he was having a struggle in there because it

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<v Speaker 2>was bringing back a lot of memories and things I

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<v Speaker 2>think for it from when he was overseas in prison,

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<v Speaker 2>but he was a really sort of central goal and

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<v Speaker 2>you can seek he's been through so much, he's been

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<v Speaker 2>really lovely. They also really wanted to know that they've

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<v Speaker 2>turned the corner and they've you know, they've more to

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<v Speaker 2>them than like expectively say heard through this label of

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<v Speaker 2>cocaine passy that he's got to kind of live with.

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<v Speaker 1>The person who I was thinking about was Craig McLaughlin

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<v Speaker 1>after hearing his story and as much as we've known

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<v Speaker 1>about what had really happened to him after he'd been

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<v Speaker 1>in the Rocky Horror Picture Show and he was almost

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<v Speaker 1>you know, completely his career just came to a grinding halt.

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<v Speaker 1>After hearing his story up close, How do you feel

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<v Speaker 1>about him now? I mean, what was that experience like

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<v Speaker 1>to watch him processing something very hard? Was that hard

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<v Speaker 1>for you to watch it up close?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Look, I think Craig was a real great support

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<v Speaker 2>in that he brought a great energy. He was always

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<v Speaker 2>sort of entertaining us. He was he was a good

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<v Speaker 2>support to me. He was like a father figure in

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<v Speaker 2>there in a way. In some bits you know, that

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<v Speaker 2>was really nice, Like I really got along well with Craig,

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<v Speaker 2>and he was he was great having there. I know

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<v Speaker 2>that you could tell like he's been through so much,

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<v Speaker 2>so he did have and he wanted to kind of

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<v Speaker 2>tell his story being there, use this as a way

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<v Speaker 2>to go what he's been through. And even though he

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<v Speaker 2>was acquitted of everything, the damage has got it done

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<v Speaker 2>to his brand. You know, he hasn't been able to

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<v Speaker 2>work for five years, and you know, I know how

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<v Speaker 2>challenging that must because this was an opportunity for him

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<v Speaker 2>to try and go again who he really is, or

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<v Speaker 2>at least you know, kind of like get redeem himself

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<v Speaker 2>for what been put out there in the media. And

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<v Speaker 2>I know he'd been through such a struggle like he

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<v Speaker 2>has could have said, you know, he struggled to like

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<v Speaker 2>just go down to a coffee, grab a coffee because

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<v Speaker 2>he's worried about you know, he would see people were

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<v Speaker 2>saying what they were the look he was getting all

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<v Speaker 2>of that, and I can only magine how horrible that was.

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<v Speaker 2>And he'd become a real bell and had that obia

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<v Speaker 2>of local phobia. So I think for him, he was

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<v Speaker 2>just so great to like so appreciative to be able

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<v Speaker 2>to talk the new people again and open himself up again.

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<v Speaker 2>I think so. I think it's been a really positive

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<v Speaker 2>thing for.

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<v Speaker 1>Him doing a show like this, though, do you think

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<v Speaker 1>it could change someone's profile? Like, do you think if

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<v Speaker 1>you've been scrutinized this hard for so long and even

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<v Speaker 1>though he's acquitted, there's still so much noise that's there.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think going on says and facing your demons

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<v Speaker 1>and showing the pain up front and on you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a national program like this, is there a possibility that

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<v Speaker 1>you can get a redemption store and go back to work,

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<v Speaker 1>Like what do you think?

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<v Speaker 2>Now? There will always be people on both sides, probably

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<v Speaker 2>for him, where someone will just wether either team Craig

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<v Speaker 2>or they're not. And yes, I think something like this

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<v Speaker 2>could definitely bring people more people honest, Actually maybe people

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<v Speaker 2>are sort of fitting the fans or don't know much,

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<v Speaker 2>but you know, you know, I heard him speak and

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<v Speaker 2>I like or at least there's always going to be

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<v Speaker 2>people on both sides of the fence, So yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>think there's I think there's been a lot of people

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<v Speaker 2>who liked watching his journey and he's got a lot

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<v Speaker 2>more respect from a lot of people. And then you'll

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<v Speaker 2>probably always have some people who just got things on

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<v Speaker 2>on their own life, they're never going to accept any

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<v Speaker 2>of it.

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<v Speaker 1>And Matthew was the other person. You know, he completed

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<v Speaker 1>the course with you, and you guys are going to

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<v Speaker 1>share that for a long time, which I think, you

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<v Speaker 1>know would be a very special bond. Have you kept

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<v Speaker 1>in contact with him? And I was curious to know

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<v Speaker 1>how he went. His revelations were in his interrogation episode

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<v Speaker 1>were so honest and so brutal. Do you know much

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<v Speaker 1>about how he went returning to his life and how

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<v Speaker 1>his husband's had taken that on board, how people had

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<v Speaker 1>absorbed his like his revelations or he's honesty.

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<v Speaker 2>With Matthew, I mean, yeah, he had some really open

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<v Speaker 2>and honest acts on there, and you know, how to

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<v Speaker 2>off him for being so vulnerable, for putting it out there,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know, I think, I think you know, he's

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<v Speaker 2>he's in a good place at the moment. And and

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<v Speaker 2>I think sometimes you know, listening going on these shows,

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<v Speaker 2>they make you accountable because you know thee an audience watching,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think by bringing that up, it's probably made

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<v Speaker 2>him extra accountable to stick to it. Yeah, I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>I've told everyone that I you know, I have had

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<v Speaker 2>a tendency to lie in the past, and now that's

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<v Speaker 2>out there. Now I have to stick to not lying

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<v Speaker 2>because I've put it out there.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I think he'd been masking something. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>when you're masking some secrets, you've developed these habits to

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<v Speaker 1>keep them a secret. And when you unmasking like this

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<v Speaker 1>and tell people what's actually going on, and it's so

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<v Speaker 1>visible to everyone, you know, it becomes so palsiful. You've

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<v Speaker 1>got nowhere to hide. So I think, you know, what

0:21:49.840 --> 0:21:53.040
<v Speaker 1>he did in that was was phenomenal. I think a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people also commented that you didn't dig as deep.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I don't want I wanted to ask you about

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<v Speaker 1>this because is that because you have less to confront

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<v Speaker 1>than say, some of the others, or did you actually

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<v Speaker 1>go through that while they were filming? Did we not

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<v Speaker 1>see all the work that you did in the interrogation room.

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<v Speaker 1>I've kind of felt like there's kind of a possibility

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<v Speaker 1>of things happening here, a.

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<v Speaker 2>Mixture of both. I felt like my I didn't have

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<v Speaker 2>the big traumatizing backstory that a lot of people have

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<v Speaker 2>got going in there. I haven't been in jail, in

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<v Speaker 2>a comby in prison. I don't have haven't had sexual assault,

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<v Speaker 2>so it's me. I haven't that, and I could be

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<v Speaker 2>got all those things, but my stuff is relative to me.

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<v Speaker 2>I've had my challenges and my challeent is getting in there,

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<v Speaker 2>but they're just not as they haven't been as headline

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<v Speaker 2>worthy and so there's that. But then also watching it back,

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<v Speaker 2>I found in the edit they've kind of really someone

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<v Speaker 2>in there has gone right, let's pitch him as Ken

0:22:50.520 --> 0:22:53.960
<v Speaker 2>who you know whose job is beach and so that's seen.

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<v Speaker 2>That was a bit frustrating where they wouldn't really one.

0:22:56.840 --> 0:22:58.760
<v Speaker 2>I knew they wouldn't show because they're focused on all

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<v Speaker 2>the others two people who as the evening they're selling

0:23:00.760 --> 0:23:02.760
<v Speaker 2>a lot more of them and their struggles doing the

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<v Speaker 2>gaftical individual challenges and things. They weren't really showing me.

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<v Speaker 2>There's so many sort of finish but that was it,

0:23:08.560 --> 0:23:10.680
<v Speaker 2>and I wasn't. I was actually really mean to what

0:23:10.840 --> 0:23:13.000
<v Speaker 2>someone might run back because I want to experience them again,

0:23:13.080 --> 0:23:14.960
<v Speaker 2>but I just wasn't really going to sign. There was that,

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<v Speaker 2>But then a lot of times when you just see me,

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<v Speaker 2>they'd sew me in the background having a shower with

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<v Speaker 2>my third off and not really involved in some of

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<v Speaker 2>the conversations I were selling and I kind of looked

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<v Speaker 2>like this liner in the background, and I'm like, that's

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<v Speaker 2>not how it was at all. I was given chiropractic

0:23:28.840 --> 0:23:31.399
<v Speaker 2>to people of last making jokes. I was supporting. But

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<v Speaker 2>they never saw that until basically they started to show

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<v Speaker 2>it on the final episode that there wasn't month before

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<v Speaker 2>then my actually interrogation. But they came in because, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>they have a bit of an idea beforehand. We have

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<v Speaker 2>some meetings with producers and about different things, so they

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<v Speaker 2>have an idea a little bit about background, and they've

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<v Speaker 2>got stuff they need to point out. And you know,

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<v Speaker 2>the des told me after that they were looking to

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<v Speaker 2>They kind of came in at me hard rather than

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<v Speaker 2>just what to say. They were looking for it on me,

0:24:00.240 --> 0:24:04.399
<v Speaker 2>as they quoted, and they said, we literally couldn't find it.

0:24:04.440 --> 0:24:07.640
<v Speaker 2>And you know, you just a genuinely nice guy. And

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<v Speaker 2>you know, and I think part of in this everyone's

0:24:10.720 --> 0:24:14.680
<v Speaker 2>looking big story and sometimes I'm like, isn't it enough

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<v Speaker 2>to just be a nice guy who did wants to

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<v Speaker 2>do well? You know, And that's my story.

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<v Speaker 1>So it would have opened up and revealed more about

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<v Speaker 1>there's a particular point in your career though, and it

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<v Speaker 1>was when you were doing Neighbors and there was a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of screwed in Carle and Jackie O brought up that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, your marriage was in trouble. You know, you've

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<v Speaker 1>been separated from Anna for a period of time there,

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<v Speaker 1>and there was so much media speculation and I think

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<v Speaker 1>people I think at one point, and forgive me if

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<v Speaker 1>this is not a headline that happened, but I remember

0:24:42.640 --> 0:24:44.080
<v Speaker 1>someone saying it had like a bit of a mid

0:24:44.119 --> 0:24:46.920
<v Speaker 1>life crisis or something. At some point, I thought that

0:24:47.040 --> 0:24:50.440
<v Speaker 1>was going to be the sweet spot for what they

0:24:50.440 --> 0:24:52.240
<v Speaker 1>were going to try and dig out of your make

0:24:52.280 --> 0:24:55.479
<v Speaker 1>you confront And because you never dressed any of that

0:24:55.560 --> 0:24:57.320
<v Speaker 1>when it all was going down, you know you kind

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<v Speaker 1>of I mean you did leave Neighbors. Could they have

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<v Speaker 1>delved a little bit deeper into what was going on

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<v Speaker 1>in your life during that time?

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe, But you know what, it wasn't that. The most

0:25:06.320 --> 0:25:08.119
<v Speaker 2>of that was just bookhit headlines. And that's where I

0:25:08.280 --> 0:25:10.399
<v Speaker 2>remember calm jack brought it up there like is this

0:25:10.400 --> 0:25:12.159
<v Speaker 2>stuff real or is this not? And it was all

0:25:12.240 --> 0:25:14.920
<v Speaker 2>tot of rubbish, So that really wasn't it was all

0:25:15.200 --> 0:25:17.399
<v Speaker 2>it was all just it was all just bs really,

0:25:17.680 --> 0:25:20.040
<v Speaker 2>so it wasn't an honest thing to go through. As

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<v Speaker 2>far as the midlife crisis, yeah, a little bit. There

0:25:22.359 --> 0:25:25.600
<v Speaker 2>was a little bit of that with because you know

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<v Speaker 2>going through Yeah, like what am I like? You know,

0:25:28.320 --> 0:25:31.199
<v Speaker 2>I'm working as an actor, but I haven't worked for

0:25:31.400 --> 0:25:33.560
<v Speaker 2>you know, it's been a while now. There's some challenges

0:25:33.600 --> 0:25:36.760
<v Speaker 2>with that because of my history has looks of different things.

0:25:36.760 --> 0:25:39.240
<v Speaker 2>So there's there's my journey, but it's just not as

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<v Speaker 2>we did delve into a lot of that stuff. But

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<v Speaker 2>they've sort of pitched me in a certain way, and

0:25:44.560 --> 0:25:47.159
<v Speaker 2>they've shown certain bits of my story and left certain

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<v Speaker 2>bits out.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think your story is still so fascinating and

0:25:52.760 --> 0:25:55.760
<v Speaker 1>still open because so many people like yourself. I mean,

0:25:55.760 --> 0:25:57.600
<v Speaker 1>you were a chiropractor, You're an everyday guy. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>a very good looking, handsome man of course, so accessible

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<v Speaker 1>and so right to be the bachelor at that time

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<v Speaker 1>of your life. But then you're on a TV show,

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<v Speaker 1>you're now kind of a celebrity. Do you go back

0:26:08.320 --> 0:26:10.919
<v Speaker 1>to being a chiropractor? And I'm not now talking about you,

0:26:10.960 --> 0:26:13.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about all the people that got reality television

0:26:13.800 --> 0:26:15.840
<v Speaker 1>and then have this expectation they've got to still be

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<v Speaker 1>in the media somehow, you know, wouldn't it have been

0:26:18.359 --> 0:26:20.480
<v Speaker 1>good to unpack the pressures that you might have had

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<v Speaker 1>after the Bachelor of a Crossroads? Do I now continue

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<v Speaker 1>to push this life everybody?

0:26:26.440 --> 0:26:26.639
<v Speaker 2>You know?

0:26:26.680 --> 0:26:31.040
<v Speaker 1>I think there's some really decent exploration of who we

0:26:31.080 --> 0:26:34.000
<v Speaker 1>are once having that media exposure. Do we return to

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<v Speaker 1>who we really are? Or do we try and chase

0:26:35.720 --> 0:26:36.240
<v Speaker 1>something else?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think they kind of they came in with that,

0:26:38.760 --> 0:26:40.680
<v Speaker 2>but it was in a way instead of like, let's

0:26:40.680 --> 0:26:43.040
<v Speaker 2>explore this, it was like, let's try and pull them

0:26:43.080 --> 0:26:44.399
<v Speaker 2>down with this a bit. So they did a bit

0:26:44.400 --> 0:26:46.840
<v Speaker 2>of oh, so you're just an actor. We freaking hate actors,

0:26:46.960 --> 0:26:48.720
<v Speaker 2>you know, are you acting on this course that kind

0:26:48.720 --> 0:26:50.600
<v Speaker 2>of thing? And oh, your reality starts you're just on

0:26:50.720 --> 0:26:52.600
<v Speaker 2>the same So there was a bit of that, but

0:26:52.760 --> 0:26:55.439
<v Speaker 2>that was pretty quickly squashed, and I think they've not

0:26:55.640 --> 0:26:57.560
<v Speaker 2>used that, but it was it was kind of they

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<v Speaker 2>sort of come came at that with trying to I

0:27:00.560 --> 0:27:03.240
<v Speaker 2>try to suss out here for the right reasons, rather

0:27:03.320 --> 0:27:05.560
<v Speaker 2>than actually, yeah, explore that, like you're saying, on that

0:27:05.720 --> 0:27:06.280
<v Speaker 2>angle of thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it would have been really fascinating. I think

0:27:08.160 --> 0:27:11.480
<v Speaker 1>really missed opportunity because for you, how did that feel?

0:27:11.560 --> 0:27:14.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean, at one point, you know, you're the most

0:27:14.160 --> 0:27:16.600
<v Speaker 1>You're the pin up boy of Australia that first season

0:27:16.680 --> 0:27:18.960
<v Speaker 1>that I mean the rebooted Bachelor that you did. When

0:27:19.200 --> 0:27:21.320
<v Speaker 1>that season when The Bachelor came back on ten was

0:27:21.520 --> 0:27:25.000
<v Speaker 1>just huge. It was massive, and you were everywhere after

0:27:25.119 --> 0:27:25.520
<v Speaker 1>that show.

0:27:25.880 --> 0:27:27.240
<v Speaker 2>And then what do you do?

0:27:27.400 --> 0:27:30.920
<v Speaker 1>You're the guy that gets the girl and most stories

0:27:31.000 --> 0:27:32.520
<v Speaker 1>we don't see what happens next.

0:27:32.680 --> 0:27:34.960
<v Speaker 2>Well that's what. Yeah, so on the air, like I did,

0:27:35.480 --> 0:27:38.280
<v Speaker 2>I've never like The Bachelor and stuff like that. We

0:27:38.440 --> 0:27:41.480
<v Speaker 2>we felt this pressure to continue, like so many people

0:27:41.560 --> 0:27:43.080
<v Speaker 2>invested in it. So he thought it a little bit

0:27:43.359 --> 0:27:45.720
<v Speaker 2>through Instagram show where it goes. But I never thought

0:27:45.760 --> 0:27:48.639
<v Speaker 2>this pressure to stay in the media as such. But

0:27:49.119 --> 0:27:51.359
<v Speaker 2>I did actually enjoy some of the creative that I

0:27:51.480 --> 0:27:53.080
<v Speaker 2>was working with. It was a good balance from you know,

0:27:53.240 --> 0:27:55.760
<v Speaker 2>being in a clinic by myself with Patent and papin

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<v Speaker 2>out and I started to enjoy some of that stuff.

0:27:57.960 --> 0:28:00.240
<v Speaker 2>And yeah, I did a little bit more reality where

0:28:00.240 --> 0:28:01.760
<v Speaker 2>I really want to go and what I love is

0:28:01.920 --> 0:28:07.600
<v Speaker 2>is the acting world. And I guess frustrations over the

0:28:07.640 --> 0:28:09.720
<v Speaker 2>time is here I'm always sort of put into that

0:28:10.240 --> 0:28:12.280
<v Speaker 2>he's just a pretty boy. Probably his brand sicken and

0:28:12.400 --> 0:28:14.840
<v Speaker 2>rice and broccoli, and there's not much steps to him.

0:28:15.119 --> 0:28:17.119
<v Speaker 2>And liked in some of the episodes they tried to

0:28:17.160 --> 0:28:19.280
<v Speaker 2>be like, you know, play on that intelligence. Well you

0:28:19.280 --> 0:28:21.440
<v Speaker 2>think through intelligis you know, they're just having a crack

0:28:21.480 --> 0:28:24.040
<v Speaker 2>at year. But like there was you know, I was

0:28:24.119 --> 0:28:26.359
<v Speaker 2>painted a bit of that kindle and there's there is

0:28:26.400 --> 0:28:28.399
<v Speaker 2>a lot more to me and and I guess there

0:28:28.520 --> 0:28:30.160
<v Speaker 2>was a part of me that doing this, So there's

0:28:30.160 --> 0:28:31.920
<v Speaker 2>a lot of personal stuff, but I guess from the

0:28:31.960 --> 0:28:34.040
<v Speaker 2>public point of view, I was like, I actually like

0:28:34.160 --> 0:28:36.000
<v Speaker 2>to throw the public a little more of who I

0:28:36.119 --> 0:28:38.160
<v Speaker 2>really am, and this might be a show where I

0:28:38.200 --> 0:28:38.600
<v Speaker 2>can do that.

0:28:38.960 --> 0:28:41.640
<v Speaker 1>Well, I think it makes for more conversations, I mean,

0:28:41.680 --> 0:28:44.080
<v Speaker 1>more reality for you, but then more opportunity for you

0:28:44.160 --> 0:28:45.640
<v Speaker 1>to share and stead of peel the onion.

0:28:46.000 --> 0:28:48.840
<v Speaker 2>Well now I think, you know, my reality TV days

0:28:48.880 --> 0:28:52.280
<v Speaker 2>are over and I'm just focused on the reacting. Then

0:28:52.360 --> 0:28:54.920
<v Speaker 2>I can be I can be vulnerable and open with

0:28:55.160 --> 0:28:56.840
<v Speaker 2>my acting playing other characters.

0:28:56.960 --> 0:28:58.480
<v Speaker 1>Of course, of course, now I've got to wrap this

0:28:58.560 --> 0:29:00.800
<v Speaker 1>up really quickly, but everyone the dron the podcast gets

0:29:00.800 --> 0:29:03.480
<v Speaker 1>asked this one question, what is something from behind the scenes,

0:29:03.560 --> 0:29:06.800
<v Speaker 1>something from says that audiences won't see, but they might

0:29:06.880 --> 0:29:09.600
<v Speaker 1>be interested to know with what it's like to make

0:29:09.640 --> 0:29:10.000
<v Speaker 1>this show.

0:29:10.440 --> 0:29:12.320
<v Speaker 2>The way they put the fear in you and that

0:29:12.560 --> 0:29:16.200
<v Speaker 2>constant stress and anxiety is you throw something up, everyone

0:29:16.240 --> 0:29:19.200
<v Speaker 2>else will suffer. So there's so many times where they's

0:29:19.200 --> 0:29:22.000
<v Speaker 2>a beating or in between other bits where they'll make

0:29:22.120 --> 0:29:24.960
<v Speaker 2>other people suffer because of one little thing that you've

0:29:25.000 --> 0:29:27.840
<v Speaker 2>done wrong. That's how they put this constant fear in you,

0:29:28.160 --> 0:29:31.320
<v Speaker 2>in this constant prospecting everything, because at the end of

0:29:31.360 --> 0:29:32.640
<v Speaker 2>the day, you don't want to be the other one,

0:29:32.680 --> 0:29:35.680
<v Speaker 2>putting the person responsible for putting other people through pain.

0:29:35.880 --> 0:29:37.800
<v Speaker 2>But people like wouldn't you did laugh? And they pull

0:29:37.800 --> 0:29:39.320
<v Speaker 2>off their head thing and they're all sitting there like

0:29:39.320 --> 0:29:41.280
<v Speaker 2>wouldn't you did laugh? I'm like, no, they put the

0:29:41.320 --> 0:29:43.480
<v Speaker 2>fear of God in you because they can do that

0:29:43.600 --> 0:29:45.200
<v Speaker 2>because they will make everyone suffer.

0:29:45.560 --> 0:29:49.360
<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, that's yeah, yeah, absolutely. I mean I guess you've

0:29:49.360 --> 0:29:50.800
<v Speaker 1>got to be in those positions to be able to

0:29:50.880 --> 0:29:54.000
<v Speaker 1>understand it. Tim. I have really enjoyed talking to you,

0:29:54.080 --> 0:29:56.440
<v Speaker 1>and I really do appreciate how open and honest you've

0:29:56.480 --> 0:29:59.360
<v Speaker 1>been and the generosity with your time. So thank you

0:29:59.440 --> 0:30:01.400
<v Speaker 1>so much. You know, I look forward to talking to

0:30:01.440 --> 0:30:04.000
<v Speaker 1>you when you're when you're on your press tour for

0:30:04.320 --> 0:30:05.240
<v Speaker 1>the next acting role.

0:30:05.720 --> 0:30:08.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Thanks, I I'm look forward to that as well.

0:30:08.440 --> 0:30:10.800
<v Speaker 1>It will happen, so while I'm in your audience, taking

0:30:10.800 --> 0:30:13.720
<v Speaker 1>care about it. Enjoy chadding to the meet see your buddy.

0:30:13.800 --> 0:30:15.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, thanks buddy. Yeah.