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Speaker 1: Podcasting Now.

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Speaker 2: Yesterday we were talking about the fact that there's a

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Speaker 2: brand new bachelor.

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Speaker 1: His name is Lockie Gilbert.

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Speaker 3: Yes, you're know him from Survivor and also Survivor All Stars.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and he did the double D. Yeah, he became

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Speaker 2: an All Star dirty dog. But speaking of dirty dogs,

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Speaker 2: you've hooked up with his ex.

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Speaker 3: Take that. Take that back, No, you have.

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Speaker 1: You're hooked up with his x.

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Speaker 2: What's her name.

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Speaker 4: Again, we're not saying her name for a number of reasons,

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Speaker 4: but hint, it's a country.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's a loose hint.

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Speaker 4: So so look, what everyone needs to know is that, yes,

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Speaker 4: I kissed his ex, but it was before they actually

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Speaker 4: went out.

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Speaker 3: So there's no dirtiness on this dog at all. I'm

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Speaker 3: a very clean dog. I'm not a dog at all. Actually,

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Speaker 3: I'm not a dog at all. All right, I'm a

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Speaker 3: human being.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So, no, you're right.

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Speaker 2: You hooked up with this woman whose name is a

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Speaker 2: country in the Middle.

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Speaker 3: East, and and then he Libya, I miss her.

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Speaker 1: That's a good year.

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Speaker 2: So so you worked up with her and then and

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Speaker 2: then he that was then with her, yes, and then something.

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Speaker 1: This is where the story gets really interesting. And I

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Speaker 1: think this is where I want everybody else to get involved.

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Speaker 2: I really, I think it's I think this is worth

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Speaker 2: talking about in general on your scenario in the first instance,

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Speaker 2: but then more broadly, I think everyone's been in this situation.

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Speaker 2: You went out with them, so you were not not

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Speaker 2: out as in like you dated them as there was

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Speaker 2: a night out where he was there, Lucky the bachelor.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Middle Eastern Country was there as well.

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Speaker 3: Yes, Libya and you. Yes, and they were together.

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Speaker 1: They had since become an item.

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Speaker 2: Yes, And you didn't mention at any stage during that

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Speaker 2: evening that the two of you had hooked up.

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Speaker 1: Didn't have any guilt.

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Speaker 2: At that stage?

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Speaker 4: Is no, because they were hooked up when they went together,

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Speaker 4: this was before they were together.

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Speaker 3: But nothing do with each other.

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Speaker 2: Shortly you go, oh, so funny, so good to see you,

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Speaker 2: bachelor's X. I was only I was we were touching

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Speaker 2: lips a couple of months ago.

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Speaker 4: Well, no, I would say, Okay, that's probably that's her

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Speaker 4: to have a chat with him about. I'm not sure

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Speaker 4: whether she had that chat with him about it, but

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Speaker 4: I it's not my place to bring that up, and

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Speaker 4: then me it is your place.

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Speaker 3: To bring it home.

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Speaker 1: It is your place to bring that up.

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Speaker 3: I don't think it is my place, all right?

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Speaker 2: Well, look thirty one six five, anyone's got an opinion

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Speaker 2: on that. I actually love to hear from.

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Speaker 3: I want to hear from.

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Speaker 2: We didn't get a chance to take those calls yesterday.

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Speaker 2: Thirty one and six five. Anyone's got an opinion on that?

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Speaker 2: How long have you got before you have to tell

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Speaker 2: your partner that you've hooked up with the third person?

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Speaker 3: So in a in a social setting, when the third

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Speaker 3: persons there, do you have to bring up?

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Speaker 2: Yes, I've been with that pa Hey, look just so

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Speaker 2: you know, for in her shoes she should have said

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Speaker 2: it some sage. I just so you know, Lockie, I've

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Speaker 2: hooked up with Woody.

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Speaker 1: When do you have to do that? How long have

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Speaker 1: you got to do it? I'll take your calls up

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Speaker 1: next to podcasting.

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Speaker 2: Now, Woody hooked up with the the brand new bachelor

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Speaker 2: Locke Gilbert's X.

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Speaker 1: Whose name is a Middle Eastern country. And we'll leave

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Speaker 1: it there.

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Speaker 3: Yes, we're fine with that. That's vague enough. And to

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Speaker 3: clarify that.

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Speaker 4: I kissed her before he was with her, So it's

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Speaker 4: not that's scandalous at all.

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Speaker 3: It's not.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 2: The fact that you hooked up with her before he

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Speaker 2: was with her means that no, not at all. But

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Speaker 2: here's the interesting part. You had a night out with

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Speaker 2: the three, with the two of them in Bali. In Bali,

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Speaker 2: sos you the brand new bachelor Locke Gilbert and his

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Speaker 2: then girlfriend Libya.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we're we're calling it Libya.

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Speaker 2: So I think in that situation there is an obligation

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Speaker 2: Locke Gilbert that you have in fact hooked up before.

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Speaker 3: I think it's on Libya, I'm gonna be. I don't

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Speaker 3: think it's my place.

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Speaker 1: To say tell you about the Middle Eastern golf golf war, or.

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Speaker 3: Let's just okay, let's just keep calling her the bachelor's X.

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Speaker 4: I think it was the bachelor's ex's responsibility there to

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Speaker 4: say something to him, to say, hey, I've actually kissed

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Speaker 4: Woody in the past, so insignificant, I don't know, no.

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Speaker 2: See. And my point here is the reason I think

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Speaker 2: you need to say something in these scenarios is because

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Speaker 2: when he finds out that you have hooked up, which

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Speaker 2: inevitably you do, he feels like a prized idiot because

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Speaker 2: he's been acting all chumming with you and he had

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Speaker 2: no idea. Sure, and it's just I think it's embarrassing.

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Speaker 2: But anyway, look, we're taking calls of this now. Nick's

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Speaker 2: called Nick, talk to us. Should you have to tell

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Speaker 2: your partner that you're hooked up with someone?

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Speaker 5: I think you need straight away? I think straight straight

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Speaker 5: away there's going to cause issues down the track.

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Speaker 4: So Nick, by straight away, do you mean if you

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Speaker 4: walk into the same bar and the person, you see

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Speaker 4: the person and you go, hey, I know that person's there.

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Speaker 4: I need to tell you right now that I've hooked

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Speaker 4: up with them. Is that what you're talking about?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? I think that's the honesty is the best policy

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Speaker 5: in my eyes. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And again and if you put yourself again in the

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Speaker 2: bachelor's shoes. Thanks for the call, Nick, I mean you're

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Speaker 2: you're there, you know, drinking panicoladas with him and carrying

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Speaker 2: on like.

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Speaker 1: A couple of loose headed chucks.

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Speaker 3: We were actually back for you Panico in.

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Speaker 2: Mexicolar and he's going to look back on that and

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Speaker 2: go like, jeez, man, Like I would have appreciated their

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Speaker 2: heads up. At any stage you could have said to me, hey,

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Speaker 2: by the way, I've hooked up with you girlfriend, Like,

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Speaker 2: it's a pretty significant piece of information to omit from

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Speaker 2: the conversation.

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Speaker 4: I think he would have slammed down his pennicolada at

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Speaker 4: that point, would mean night over. I just don't think

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Speaker 4: it's my responsibility. She may have told him, by the way.

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Speaker 1: Well it's her.

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Speaker 4: It's her issue to solve. I think the two people

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Speaker 4: that are in the relationship. Yeah, I'm the outside party there.

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Speaker 1: We're going to get a Warah here, Hi, how you

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Speaker 1: going he talk to us?

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Speaker 5: Mate?

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Speaker 2: What do you reckon in this situation? Do you have

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Speaker 2: to tell your partner that you've hooked up with a

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Speaker 2: third party?

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Speaker 6: Look, I don't think it's what are his responsibility to

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Speaker 6: do that? I think it's the girl. But even in private,

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Speaker 6: like not while.

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Speaker 2: You're out at the time, after the night, after the night, hey,

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Speaker 2: by the way, but I've got any ship with that.

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Speaker 2: I mean, this is my issue with the whole thing,

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Speaker 2: because how long do you if you put yourself in

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Speaker 2: his shoes. Let's put yourself in Locky the Bachelor's shoes.

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Speaker 2: He's just spent a night with somebody that's hooked up.

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Speaker 2: I assume it was just a kiss. Woods yes, have

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Speaker 2: you got any more?

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Speaker 3: No, Okay, don't laugh. Why, let's just it's just a kiss.

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Speaker 2: He's then had a whole night with you not knowing that,

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Speaker 2: and they would totally change his relationship with you if

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Speaker 2: he if he knew.

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Speaker 6: But how close the friends are Woody and him? Because

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Speaker 6: if they're close, understandable.

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Speaker 1: But if they're not.

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Speaker 6: Relevant, it's not that you're lucky.

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Speaker 3: I thought I wasn't for that conversation.

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Speaker 2: I mean, we're going to go to Karen here, Karen,

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Speaker 2: we're talking about the obligation to tell your partner whether

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Speaker 2: or not you've hooked up with the third party.

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Speaker 1: Karen, I I gotcha. We might have lost.

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Speaker 2: We lost Karen. We've lost Karen.

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Speaker 3: We've got Dan.

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Speaker 2: We've got Dan, Dan, Dan, talk to us, take us home. Mate,

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Speaker 2: what do you think? What's your opinion on this?

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Speaker 5: What's going on? Boys?

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Speaker 1: Mate? Not just enjoying talking about.

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Speaker 5: Honestly, boys, I don't I don't think you tell you

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Speaker 5: you'd have it? Tell Look, everyone has their past, you

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Speaker 5: know it just it doesn't matter, it's in significant, it doesn't.

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Speaker 5: They don't need to.

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Speaker 4: And if you never tell them though, and then it

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Speaker 4: comes out without you actually saying if it comes out

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Speaker 4: another way, that's when it's really bad.

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Speaker 3: And I've been in that situation, but it's.

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Speaker 5: Before you know, you haven't done a wall together.

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Speaker 2: Forgive you, you know, I'll forgive you your past if

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Speaker 2: you forgive me mine, I think is the expression Dan,

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Speaker 2: thanks to the cool mate.

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Speaker 1: So looks. Let's let's say let's assume that he doesn't

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Speaker 1: know so.

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Speaker 3: And we hope the radio at this time, Yeah, he.

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Speaker 2: Doesn't know if we have him in here for the Bachelor,

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Speaker 2: which you neverably will will you tell him wire youre

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Speaker 2: going to?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 1: Do you feel about it? If I told him this

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Speaker 1: is not do not tell him on the radio? No,

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Speaker 1: it could be entertaining.

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Speaker 3: I don't care.

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Speaker 1: It could be good for the ratio. I can't what

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Speaker 1: about it. We brought her in here, we reunite, and

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Speaker 1: then she has to choose to be like, you.

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Speaker 3: Know, she's got a new she's got a new partner.

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Speaker 1: How do you know that you've been.

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Speaker 3: You see what you're hearing?

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