WEBVTT - ASK UNCUT: "My partner HATES my dog sleeping in the bed"

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<v Speaker 1>Hi Heart podcasts, hear more Kiss podcast playlist, and listen

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<v Speaker 1>which means it is time for what we do every Thursday,

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<v Speaker 1>and that is ask Guncut, where you guys give us

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<v Speaker 1>a call and you tell us you're deep as dark

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<v Speaker 1>as problems, and even though we have absolutely no qualifications

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<v Speaker 1>or skills, necessarily we do our best to answer them

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<v Speaker 2>We actually have qualifications. You say that every.

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<v Speaker 1>Week, Well, we do this on our podcast, Life Uncut

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<v Speaker 1>podcast and that's been going pretty good for us specific since,

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<v Speaker 1>so we thought we're bring across anywa. We got Alisha

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone. Hi Alisha, Hi guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Alisha, what is going on in your house?

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<v Speaker 3>My partner doesn't really like having my dog in our bed.

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<v Speaker 1>How long have you been with your partner for and

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<v Speaker 1>is this a new problem or is it the problem

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<v Speaker 1>that's always existed.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, we're reaching like a three year mark. It's been

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<v Speaker 3>two and a half years. This is actually a new thing.

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<v Speaker 3>We only moved in maybe like a year goes so,

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<v Speaker 3>but it's just happened and I'm kind of freaking out

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<v Speaker 3>about it. Because like, whoa where did this come from?

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<v Speaker 4>It's like I've cheated? Hang on, where does this come from?

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<v Speaker 4>So a few questions? Hang on, we need to set

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<v Speaker 4>the scene. Are we talking Chihuahua or Great Dane?

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<v Speaker 3>No, it's brutles. So he's a little big.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, goodles are big, okay? And I don't even know

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<v Speaker 2>what a goodle is. It's a goodle. They're big. They're

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<v Speaker 2>very big Golden Retriever poodles.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, sorry, I just did a quick google. There's three sizes, miniature,

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<v Speaker 1>medium and standard. Miniature is fifteen kilos, twenty two kilos

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<v Speaker 1>or thirty kilos.

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<v Speaker 2>Fifteen kilos been the smallest. That's still big.

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<v Speaker 3>It is a standard okay, right?

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<v Speaker 1>Twenty two?

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<v Speaker 2>So important question?

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<v Speaker 4>Was the godle a part of your life before you

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<v Speaker 4>met your partner or did you bring it in to

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<v Speaker 4>your life together as a couple.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, he's my dog. So I've had him for five

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<v Speaker 3>years and he's just kind of getting on a beard,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>Getting on.

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<v Speaker 2>The girdle. The girdle.

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<v Speaker 1>I slept in your bed for five years, and now

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<v Speaker 1>your partner's decided that it's just too much and the

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<v Speaker 1>dog needs to go and sleep in a dog bed.

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<v Speaker 1>I understand that to be Yeah, do you know I

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<v Speaker 1>had a very similar situation, so I have My dog

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<v Speaker 1>is much bigger than this, he's forty kilos and he

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<v Speaker 1>used to sleep in bed with me every single night.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I met my husband, and then also my

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<v Speaker 1>husband would start sleeping in bed with us. And at

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<v Speaker 1>one point we've been together for about eight months, Matt

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<v Speaker 1>woke up in the middle of the night and he said,

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<v Speaker 1>I've had enough. He's like, I can't do this anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is the first time we'd ever had a

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<v Speaker 1>conversation about it. He was like, it's me or the dog.

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<v Speaker 1>The dog has to sleep in a dog bed. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't sleep with a dog in the bed anymore. And

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<v Speaker 1>unfortunately for Buster, the ultimatum did stick and Matt got

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<v Speaker 1>to stay in the bed even though I threatened to

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<v Speaker 1>put him in the dog bed. And Buster is now

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<v Speaker 1>in a dog bed next to Can you not get

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<v Speaker 1>a dogbed next to the bed? I feel like that's

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<v Speaker 1>a good solution, so that the grudle's still in the room,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's not in your you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Your room. Your grudle.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I guess, so, I guess. It just feels funny

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<v Speaker 3>because he moved into like my house. Yeah, but.

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<v Speaker 4>Unless the bed is like one of those extra king beds,

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<v Speaker 4>that's really really big.

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<v Speaker 2>I understand because.

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<v Speaker 4>Sleep is very important if you're getting broken sleep because

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<v Speaker 4>you have a giant grudle licking you, moving around, making noise.

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<v Speaker 4>Griddles don't molt. But if there was another dog that

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<v Speaker 4>like molten hair was all through it, like for me,

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<v Speaker 4>that's pretty gross. I think you need to move the

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<v Speaker 4>groodle to the ground. It can still be close to you.

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<v Speaker 4>You can keep your eye on it, but you can

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<v Speaker 4>maintain your relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Where does the grudle go when you guys are being

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<v Speaker 1>intimate with each other, just looks at them. He can

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<v Speaker 1>go awhere, you know wherever he Okay, look, grudle needs

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<v Speaker 1>to go on a dog bed.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I don't think it's worth it, the divorce or

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<v Speaker 4>the split. I think moves to the bed.

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<v Speaker 2>I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>I get why this is hard, but I reckon for

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<v Speaker 1>the sake of your relationship, it's time to pop. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>the pooch in the dog bed right next to the bed.

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<v Speaker 1>He's very close. He's not going to feel too like

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<v Speaker 1>he's being shafted. I think that that's your best solution.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, thanks for calling if you want to.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want some advice like that and also feel defeated,

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<v Speaker 1>give us a call at the pickup.

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<v Speaker 2>That was a great call.