WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Britt got STUCK in a sauna 🥵

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, don't say welcome to the pickup.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, Hi, you two.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm having a bit of some problems in a love

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<v Speaker 3>life already. I know only just got engaged, but that's

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<v Speaker 3>sort of.

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<v Speaker 4>What that's why we're having problems. A bit soon for

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<v Speaker 4>trouble and paradise, isn't it. So.

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<v Speaker 3>My fiancee Ben pulled off a couple of weeks ago,

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<v Speaker 3>like the ultimate proposal, but now because he thinks he

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<v Speaker 3>did so well, then he thinks it's given him. And

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<v Speaker 3>he said, this is a bit of a rule. He

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<v Speaker 3>thinks it's given him a month past of doing anything else.

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<v Speaker 3>And what I mean by that is I was like, hey, babe,

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<v Speaker 3>can you take the rubbish out for me?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I was keep the rubbish.

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<v Speaker 3>He's like, babe, I proposed, He goes, I really outdid

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<v Speaker 3>myself with the proposal, that's what he said. Quote, I

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<v Speaker 3>really I did myself with appraisals. I think I've a

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<v Speaker 3>just gonna kick back for a while. And I was like, like,

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<v Speaker 3>he's obviously joking.

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<v Speaker 2>But I was like, excuse me, A.

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<v Speaker 3>Proposal doesn't mean you get He's like, no, one, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>pretty sure it does in multiple countries. He's like, if

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<v Speaker 3>you nail the proposal, it means you get to take.

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<v Speaker 2>A month off.

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<v Speaker 4>Have you asked him how long off he has of

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<v Speaker 4>like normal boyfriending dudies or fiance duty's He said a month.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd love to work out that. This is clearly boy

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<v Speaker 1>math or your math. He's trying to work it out.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree to a certain extent. No, I agree.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think any woman out there anywhere stupid.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just, you know, it's a bit of fun. You

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<v Speaker 1>guys are engaged. You want to ride that way for

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<v Speaker 1>as long as you can.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, he can try and pull that for as

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<v Speaker 4>long as he cans. But I don't think he's going

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<v Speaker 4>to get away with it.

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<v Speaker 5>Just leave.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what you do.

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<v Speaker 2>You're gonna do what I do.

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<v Speaker 4>You just leave the garbage bag at the door, and

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<v Speaker 4>then your husband takes it out. You just walk to

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<v Speaker 4>the doorway and then you leave it in the doorway,

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<v Speaker 4>and then someone else is going to deal with that.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think that's TeamWorks. I've taken it halfway and

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<v Speaker 2>he takes it the rest of the way.

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<v Speaker 5>I have some fun have a couple of weeks off.

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<v Speaker 2>A ravish bag in his bed.

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<v Speaker 5>That ring I didn't take twelve months off. You put

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<v Speaker 5>a ratneys bit, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>A rubbish back.

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<v Speaker 4>I just said I a Dumpany's suitcase, and everybody ignored it,

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<v Speaker 4>which I'm glad about, but also to the few people

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<v Speaker 4>who've heard me.

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<v Speaker 3>Say that I didn't think we should sit in it herit,

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<v Speaker 3>I haven't.

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<v Speaker 5>Fund Laura's like put a horse heat in his bed.

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<v Speaker 2>In the Kenne. I'm the only one who knows what

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<v Speaker 2>married life is like out of the suitcase. Sorry, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not getting married here. That's what it looks like.

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<v Speaker 5>You TV couples are weird, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>Next and Ask and Cut, Linda wants to know whether

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay to let a dog lick plates before she

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<v Speaker 1>puts the digital shirt. She's like, let's come to the pickup.

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<v Speaker 1>They're the only people that are gonna be able to

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<v Speaker 1>help me with this conundrum. We'll chat to her. Next

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<v Speaker 1>stand by, it's Thursday, let's.

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<v Speaker 6>Do this, askut.

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<v Speaker 2>It's Thursday.

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<v Speaker 3>This is my favorite segment Ask Uncut, where you guys

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<v Speaker 3>call up with the problem of the week, the conundrum

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<v Speaker 3>something you need a little bit of help with. Now,

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<v Speaker 3>we don't have any education around this, but we're very

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<v Speaker 3>enthusiastic about giving our advice.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, where you're a free therapist, but we are. We

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<v Speaker 4>don't have any qualifications. We both build first ten to free.

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<v Speaker 2>We we both build. But they're all free because it's.

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<v Speaker 5>Not no prize attached as well. It's just come on

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<v Speaker 5>and we'll try our best.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and today's one is about man's best friend.

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<v Speaker 2>I have Linda on the phone, haylely do what's the conundrum?

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<v Speaker 5>How can we help?

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<v Speaker 7>Hi there, guys, I really need your help. I've got

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<v Speaker 7>a domestic dilemma and it's quite danger of becoming a

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<v Speaker 7>domestic drama. My question for you today is is it

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<v Speaker 7>okay to let the dog lick the dishes clean before

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<v Speaker 7>they get washed up?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? How are you washing them?

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<v Speaker 5>Though?

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<v Speaker 4>Are you hand washing them or are they going into

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<v Speaker 4>a dishwasher? Because I think dishwasher like that's like an

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<v Speaker 4>hour wash. You could do anything. You can go to the

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<v Speaker 4>toilet on them and put them in the dishwasher.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't but I think you're discussing from Laura Show.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a dump in the dish Washer's right?

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<v Speaker 4>Serious question though? How is it is it? Are you

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<v Speaker 4>hand washing or your dishwasher?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, it depends. I mean something's going the dishwasher, obviously,

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<v Speaker 7>but some pots and pans, plates going the dishwasher. Some

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<v Speaker 7>are hand washed, so it's a bit of boat.

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<v Speaker 2>What kind of dog is it.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, it's a boy dog for a start. Well we

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<v Speaker 7>know what he looks.

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<v Speaker 2>Dogs lick their genitals.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I do not know where that was going.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, I need I need to get to the

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<v Speaker 4>one of this, Linda, Who in your household has.

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<v Speaker 2>A problem with it? And who doesn't have a problem

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<v Speaker 2>with it.

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<v Speaker 7>I think it's a great environmental initiative. It's and it's yeah, I'm.

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<v Speaker 6>Good with it.

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<v Speaker 7>Have my hobby and kids. They think it's disgusting and unhygienic.

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<v Speaker 4>Ohlinda, we've just seen the video of your dogs. Not

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<v Speaker 4>only is your dog licking the plates, your dog is

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<v Speaker 4>literally inside the dishwasher.

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<v Speaker 1>If anyone wants a mental image, google eating ants out

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<v Speaker 1>of a well tongue. Its tongue is like ten centimeters long,

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<v Speaker 1>looking the bolic NAIs of porcel and my for Brooks,

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<v Speaker 1>that's disgusting.

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<v Speaker 2>You can call it. You can't do that, Linda. You

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<v Speaker 2>have to give the dog his own.

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<v Speaker 4>But I know I said you could take a dumb

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<v Speaker 4>on a plate and then put in a dishwasher.

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<v Speaker 2>But I changed my mind after watching.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're at the dinner table and you've had spag

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<v Speaker 1>bowl and there's a bit of mintce on the plate,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm all for putting the plate down on the ground

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<v Speaker 1>letting the dog clean it up. But filling a dirty

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<v Speaker 1>dishwasher and letting the dog go at it like ribs

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<v Speaker 1>and rump style on it, like a rack of ribs,

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<v Speaker 1>that's fair all.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't stop watching this video. We're gonna have to

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<v Speaker 2>put your socials.

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<v Speaker 4>I think. Also, surely it can't be good for the

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<v Speaker 4>dog's digestion, Like it's okay to give him a little

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<v Speaker 4>bit of a lick, but letting them lick every plate,

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like it's just gonna make the poor dog sick.

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<v Speaker 2>No, No, I don't think it's gonna I mean, it

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<v Speaker 2>could make him sick. Linda, I just want to say,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm in two minds.

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<v Speaker 4>About this because we have a dog and a cat

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<v Speaker 4>in our household, and we for our cat especially, we

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<v Speaker 4>have like a little side plate and if we interchange,

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<v Speaker 4>it's just like it's like a little bread plate.

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<v Speaker 2>Entree It's yeah, like a little entree plate.

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<v Speaker 4>But we don't have a specific cat plate, so that

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<v Speaker 4>goes in the dishwasher and then it goes back into

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<v Speaker 4>the draw and then another one comes out. So who

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<v Speaker 4>knows everyone's eating off the cat plate, but the dog

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<v Speaker 4>plate in the dishwasher just feels different. Linda, So I

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<v Speaker 4>think I'm taking your husband's side on.

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<v Speaker 5>This one, you know.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, So I'm hearing appalling. I'm just hanging my head.

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<v Speaker 2>Although sorry to shame you.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, I might be convinced because I don't have

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<v Speaker 5>a dog.

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<v Speaker 1>Although you know, when you wash it dishes in the

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<v Speaker 1>dishwasher and then it comes out and there's still a

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<v Speaker 1>bit of grime left on them, like you've kind of

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<v Speaker 1>got to do it again. Have you found, Linda, that

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<v Speaker 1>with the dog licking them, you only ever have to

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<v Speaker 1>do one cycle on the dishwasher.

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, it's so environmentally friendly, dog looking.

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<v Speaker 3>If you if your dishes not coming out clean, you

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<v Speaker 3>need to clean the dishwasher. You know that you need

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<v Speaker 3>to clean a dishwasher, right? You don't know that, did you?

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<v Speaker 3>It's a dishwashers a filter. You're disgusting.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, Linda, Sorry, but I'm on your husband's side.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm one husband.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, I asked the question. I'm hearing the decision.

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<v Speaker 2>It cannot be unhappy with the looks very cute.

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<v Speaker 5>It dogs. I disagree it's feral. It's like a mate.

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<v Speaker 1>It had teeth coming out of the sides, and it

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<v Speaker 1>had a tongue.

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<v Speaker 2>To be yourself, I'm not going that far.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want to get into the text slide, if

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<v Speaker 1>you've got an ask gun cut of your own, you

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<v Speaker 1>can text us. And you can also textus footage. That's

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<v Speaker 1>how we got the video of that that coyote eating

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<v Speaker 1>the food. You can text this O four nine nine

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<v Speaker 1>four four one O six five four nine nine four

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<v Speaker 1>four one six five all right back after this, I

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<v Speaker 1>would pick up.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys.

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<v Speaker 4>We have been having the spiciest debate in our household

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<v Speaker 4>at the moment, and I want you to wage in

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<v Speaker 4>on this, especially you two, since you know the only

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<v Speaker 4>two here. Yes, because we paid to do okay, So,

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<v Speaker 4>and I want to try and keep this a little

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<v Speaker 4>bit obscure because I don't want the person who is no.

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<v Speaker 4>I know, I know you want me to out people, Mitch,

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<v Speaker 4>but I don't want the person who is part of

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<v Speaker 4>this story to know. But my mum was telling me

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<v Speaker 4>a story about a girl that she knows who has

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<v Speaker 4>just had a baby. So the baby's now four months old,

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<v Speaker 4>and she knows who the dad is now. The dad

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<v Speaker 4>was a man who is in his very early twenties.

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<v Speaker 4>He was in Australia as a backpacker. They're friends on

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<v Speaker 4>Facebook and their friends on Instagram. But they had a

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<v Speaker 4>one night stand while he was traveling through Sydney and

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<v Speaker 4>he has no idea that he has fathered a baby.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, the big.

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<v Speaker 4>Moral question of this is is can she keep this

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<v Speaker 4>a secret, the fact that she now has as a

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<v Speaker 4>little baby to this guy, or does she morally have

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<v Speaker 4>to tell him because at this rate, there's no way

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<v Speaker 4>that this kid's ever going to find out who their

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<v Speaker 4>father is.

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<v Speaker 5>Who she telling people the father is currently.

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<v Speaker 4>She's just said it happened on a one night stand

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<v Speaker 4>and doesn't know I She's honestly been very obscure with it.

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<v Speaker 4>And it's just like she's.

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<v Speaker 1>Got to tell him, you can't, you can't have a

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<v Speaker 1>baby with someone and not it's a fifty to fifty

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<v Speaker 1>He has to know that it is a child out

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<v Speaker 1>of them.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, he's back home, so he's back home in the

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<v Speaker 2>country that he came from.

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<v Speaker 3>It doesn't matter, he still needs to know that the

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<v Speaker 3>guy's only in his early twenties. Also irrelevant. If he's

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<v Speaker 3>old enough to put it in and create the baby,

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<v Speaker 3>he's old enough to be able to look after the

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<v Speaker 3>baby and.

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<v Speaker 2>Make a decision.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to say this because this exact situation happened

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<v Speaker 3>to my friend.

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<v Speaker 2>And the reason I think did she keep it a secret? Well, listen,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna tell you.

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<v Speaker 3>The reason I think so strongly that she needs to

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<v Speaker 3>tell him is so, my friend was in a relationship

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<v Speaker 3>with a guy that was like cross continent, and then

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<v Speaker 3>they decided to take a break. And on that break,

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<v Speaker 3>he traveled to Thailand, had a one night stand that

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<v Speaker 3>was it, and then.

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<v Speaker 2>They decided the break was over they were getting back together.

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<v Speaker 3>Ten eleven, twelve months later, they're back together, going strong.

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<v Speaker 2>My friend and his guy.

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<v Speaker 3>He gets a call that says from that one night

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<v Speaker 3>stand in Thailand ten months ago that they never spoke

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<v Speaker 3>an a couple.

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<v Speaker 2>I have had a child. We have a child.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't expect anything from you, but I'm doing the

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<v Speaker 3>right thing and I want you to know. And he

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<v Speaker 3>then made the decision that he wanted to be a

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<v Speaker 3>part of its life. He's like, I don't want to

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<v Speaker 3>have a child out there and not be a part

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<v Speaker 3>of its life.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, so so hard.

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<v Speaker 5>She's got a partner.

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<v Speaker 3>This is three years ago. So he went over to

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<v Speaker 3>meet the baby and then he said to my friend,

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<v Speaker 3>I am sorry, but like this isn't going to work out.

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<v Speaker 3>I need to go and and I want my child

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<v Speaker 3>to have a dad, so I'm going to move to

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<v Speaker 3>that country to be around to raise it. And now

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<v Speaker 3>he's actually with the girl, the mother the one night

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<v Speaker 3>saying mother and they're a family.

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<v Speaker 2>That seems like such an anomaly. That's great.

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<v Speaker 4>So the other thing is is there's almost there's almost

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<v Speaker 4>an eighteen year age gap in this relationship as well.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's not like they're not going to just run

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<v Speaker 4>away together and get together. No, but you don't have

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<v Speaker 4>to get together. But he he didn't go there to

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<v Speaker 4>be with the mom.

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<v Speaker 2>He went there because it's his child. That's what. He

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<v Speaker 2>didn't go there and say, I'm going to be a family.

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<v Speaker 5>Where are you guys meeting your friends. I can't even

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<v Speaker 5>get mine to pay you back for dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>Insane? No, But I think like, at the end of

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<v Speaker 2>the day, it's his child.

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<v Speaker 3>Too, and he if as long as she knows that

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<v Speaker 3>he doesn't necessarily isn't going to pack up and come here.

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<v Speaker 3>But he's entitled as the dad to know that he

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<v Speaker 3>has a child out there, and then he can do

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<v Speaker 3>without what he will.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you do, Laury in eighteen years though, when

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<v Speaker 1>he gets a call and it's hey dad.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah exactly, Yeah, I know, I agree.

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<v Speaker 4>I think my take on it is it's not so

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<v Speaker 4>much around like the relationship with the mum. I know

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<v Speaker 4>that at the moment, she's probably doing the right thing

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<v Speaker 4>for her, But I always think, like, what about when

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<v Speaker 4>this kid's like six, seven, eight, nine, ten old enough

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<v Speaker 4>to ask like, where's my dad and really starts to

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<v Speaker 4>dig into it. Then do you have to do with

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<v Speaker 4>a really awful situation when they're an adult discovering that

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<v Speaker 4>your mum's lied to you this whole time, that they've

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<v Speaker 4>actually known who your dad is and where he is

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<v Speaker 4>and just kept that information from you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but the dad having the same feeling like eighteen

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<v Speaker 3>years later, you knows that from me, you took fatherhood

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<v Speaker 3>from me for eighteen years.

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<v Speaker 5>If not anything to cover yourself, like what if I

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<v Speaker 5>don't know, what if he came back twenty years later,

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<v Speaker 5>found out and suit you like, that's possible.

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<v Speaker 2>Knowledge power.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean everyone sees everyone these days. Knowledge is power,

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I think. And think and let them make

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<v Speaker 3>the decision once they've got all the information.

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<v Speaker 5>Protection is also power.

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<v Speaker 2>And were a condum?

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<v Speaker 5>Were a condom.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's wrap it up like they should have.

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<v Speaker 5>All right, we're back after this other pick up.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you guys are lucky to have me here at

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<v Speaker 3>the moment, because I did have a near death experience

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<v Speaker 3>over the weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, Laura, oh yeah, sorry, hold it please.

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<v Speaker 4>I was I was speechless because I was overcome with fear.

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<v Speaker 3>You remember, you remember a few years ago I got

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<v Speaker 3>stuck in a fence.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you remember I stuck?

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<v Speaker 3>You a baby goat? My leg got stuck in a fence.

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<v Speaker 3>You know how they have like little openings. I slipped

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<v Speaker 3>my nee and and yeah, and I couldn't get it

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<v Speaker 3>back out.

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<v Speaker 2>That's something my four year old would do. Yeah, she

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<v Speaker 2>did that with her head.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>The only way I could get out, this is taking

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<v Speaker 3>a segway. This is even my story. The only way

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<v Speaker 3>I could get out was I had to wait for

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<v Speaker 3>a passer by to come and put sunscreen on my leg.

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<v Speaker 2>And so I could pull my leg out anyway. I

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<v Speaker 2>got stuck somewhere over the weekend.

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<v Speaker 3>So I mean my like fitness sauna ice bath era,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was having a sauna and there's a couple

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<v Speaker 3>of saunas and a couple of ice bas in this

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<v Speaker 3>one little area, and it was just it was empty

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<v Speaker 3>because it was just like the middle of the day.

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<v Speaker 3>Everyone was having a better life than me. So I

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<v Speaker 3>was in the sauna and with one other guy. Now

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<v Speaker 3>he exited the sauna and went into the ice bath.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm at the point where I'm like trying to

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<v Speaker 3>work up how long I can spend in the sauna

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<v Speaker 3>and the ice bath, and I met my limit.

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<v Speaker 2>Like these are really hot?

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<v Speaker 5>How hot is it?

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<v Speaker 3>Like as I don't know the temperature, but as high

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<v Speaker 3>as you can go, Like you were in there for

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<v Speaker 3>two minutes and dripping, so.

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<v Speaker 2>You only stay in there for a really short period

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<v Speaker 2>of time.

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<v Speaker 3>You're I know, I was in there for eighteen minutes,

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<v Speaker 3>which is a really long time. Okay, Okay, so usually

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<v Speaker 3>people do ten twelve minutes and they get out quickly.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it one of those old school like Novatail Hotel

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<v Speaker 1>saunas with the bricks in the middle that you pour

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<v Speaker 1>the water on with the wooden spoon.

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<v Speaker 2>Gets those infrared ones.

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<v Speaker 3>No, it's got hot rocks in it, really yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>but yeah, and it's very modern. But anyway, so the

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<v Speaker 3>guy gets out and he gets into the ice bath

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<v Speaker 3>that's directly in front of the sauna. So he takes

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<v Speaker 3>the lid off the ice ba, hops in, puts his

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<v Speaker 3>headphones in, starts to go into this meditation. Then I'm

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<v Speaker 3>here eighteen nineteen minutes and I'm like, I'm literally about

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<v Speaker 3>to pass out. I have to get out of here.

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<v Speaker 3>I was feeling sick.

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<v Speaker 5>My fault.

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<v Speaker 3>So I went to open the door and he has

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<v Speaker 3>taken the little off his ice bath and locked wedged

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<v Speaker 3>the door in, and I couldn't. I couldn't get out,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like the lid with the lips of

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<v Speaker 3>the ice bar the eyeba. So I'm banging the door

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm like, get me out. So I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>it's okay, I'll just knock and get his attention, but

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<v Speaker 3>he had a headphones flaring, and I was like, I

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<v Speaker 3>am going to die here.

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<v Speaker 4>The good thing is that not many people can spend

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<v Speaker 4>very long in an ice bath either.

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<v Speaker 2>So he didn't have too long.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what you would think. Guess how long he's spending

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<v Speaker 3>the ice pas. I'm going for seven minutes, twelve twelve

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<v Speaker 3>minutes in an ice bar, twelve minutes.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm never going to understand why people want to talk

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<v Speaker 4>to themselves that much. I just I can't get into this.

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<v Speaker 4>So for me, this is when.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm back to my ya.

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to sound for you, Yes, Ice, what

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<v Speaker 1>was the brand name I want to purchase? Mine was

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<v Speaker 1>your heart rate through the roof?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So I'm like I'm going to die because I'm

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<v Speaker 3>smashing on the window trying to get his attention. By

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<v Speaker 3>the time he looks up, this miracle ice b man,

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<v Speaker 3>he looks up and I'm like spluttered against the side,

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<v Speaker 3>melting down the side, and I'm like.

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<v Speaker 2>Please send help. What did he do?

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<v Speaker 1>Well?

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<v Speaker 2>He got up opened it and he was like, oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god, that's so funny. The lid must have locked

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<v Speaker 2>you in. Have you seen how I'm like a dehydrated

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<v Speaker 2>little prude.

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<v Speaker 3>I literally thought my life was and I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>surely other people are getting stuck.

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<v Speaker 1>I need to tell the gym that that's a worry

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<v Speaker 1>because that could happen to someone who's not as famous

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<v Speaker 1>as you, and that could be really bad for them.

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<v Speaker 3>I was starting to think, I wonder if I could

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<v Speaker 3>throw myself at the glass and fall through.

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<v Speaker 5>Is it glass?

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<v Speaker 2>It's glass door? I think that that would not work out.

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<v Speaker 2>Very wealthy. Have you guys that have been stuck somewhere conversation?

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<v Speaker 1>It's a I was stuck in a blizzard in Scotland

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<v Speaker 1>with you, butrit We were stuck for about three hours

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<v Speaker 1>and we ate all the rations. We had like a

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<v Speaker 1>box of favorites in the car, and it lasted thirty minutes.

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<v Speaker 3>We ate the whole box of favorite hang on, we

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<v Speaker 3>didn't collectively you ate all of our emergency rations.

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<v Speaker 2>Stress How quickly did you eat them?

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<v Speaker 5>Like thirty minutes. But it's a different time zone, so

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<v Speaker 5>it was dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, I once got stuck. I got stuck on a hill.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys know this.

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<v Speaker 4>I got stuck on a hill and I couldn't reverse

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<v Speaker 4>out because the hill was too steep, and I kept

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<v Speaker 4>rolling into.

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<v Speaker 2>The car in front and my husband had to come

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<v Speaker 2>and save me.

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<v Speaker 5>And it was really you made him drive another car.

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<v Speaker 4>He had to drive another car to three suburbs away

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<v Speaker 4>to reverse park my car.

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<v Speaker 2>It was humiliating.

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<v Speaker 1>We're all really load people out, really sad. Christy's called Christy,

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<v Speaker 1>Where did you get stuck?

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<v Speaker 6>High? Not me, but my son four years ago. He

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<v Speaker 6>got stuck in a giant chopper chop tin.

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<v Speaker 2>Did he stick his head in the tin?

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<v Speaker 4>Had like, oh my god, our producer has just sent

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<v Speaker 4>us a photo.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm looking at him stuck.

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<v Speaker 3>Look guys, this is him in the chops.

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<v Speaker 6>He went viral.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like a little tin, so it's like it was

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<v Speaker 1>like a little mini oil vat he's sitting in it.

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<v Speaker 6>I actually had to call emergency services.

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<v Speaker 2>That's was he Okay? He was fine, Yeah, good story though.

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<v Speaker 5>Down there definitely not great.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, I just remembered right now. One other place I

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<v Speaker 2>got stuck.

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<v Speaker 3>I was going through into a supermarket, and you know

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<v Speaker 3>electric doors, like the sensor doors, they opened what you're in,

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<v Speaker 3>they closed.

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<v Speaker 2>They just closed.

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<v Speaker 3>They malfunctioned and closed when I was in the middle

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<v Speaker 3>of them and closed on my body and then didn't open.

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<v Speaker 3>I was stuck in the doors of a supermarket.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so unrelatable because no one else is that thin

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<v Speaker 1>that they can in slither of an armond of a

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<v Speaker 1>crack at the Coals check out.

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<v Speaker 2>You're turned on the side and you can't see it.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like, you know what else I get? Second, the

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<v Speaker 5>gap between the train, my full right through.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean lots of people have done that, Like nine

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<v Speaker 2>years old usually