Speaker 1: Come on, don't say welcome to the pickup.
Speaker 2: Hi, Hi, you two.
Speaker 3: I'm having a bit of some problems in a love
Speaker 3: life already. I know only just got engaged, but that's
Speaker 3: sort of.
Speaker 4: What that's why we're having problems. A bit soon for
Speaker 4: trouble and paradise, isn't it. So.
Speaker 3: My fiancee Ben pulled off a couple of weeks ago,
Speaker 3: like the ultimate proposal, but now because he thinks he
Speaker 3: did so well, then he thinks it's given him. And
Speaker 3: he said, this is a bit of a rule. He
Speaker 3: thinks it's given him a month past of doing anything else.
Speaker 3: And what I mean by that is I was like, hey, babe,
Speaker 3: can you take the rubbish out for me?
Speaker 2: Because I was keep the rubbish.
Speaker 3: He's like, babe, I proposed, He goes, I really outdid
Speaker 3: myself with the proposal, that's what he said. Quote, I
Speaker 3: really I did myself with appraisals. I think I've a
Speaker 3: just gonna kick back for a while. And I was like, like,
Speaker 3: he's obviously joking.
Speaker 2: But I was like, excuse me, A.
Speaker 3: Proposal doesn't mean you get He's like, no, one, I'm
Speaker 3: pretty sure it does in multiple countries. He's like, if
Speaker 3: you nail the proposal, it means you get to take.
Speaker 2: A month off.
Speaker 4: Have you asked him how long off he has of
Speaker 4: like normal boyfriending dudies or fiance duty's He said a month.
Speaker 1: I'd love to work out that. This is clearly boy
Speaker 1: math or your math. He's trying to work it out.
Speaker 1: I agree to a certain extent. No, I agree.
Speaker 4: I don't think any woman out there anywhere stupid.
Speaker 1: It's just, you know, it's a bit of fun. You
Speaker 1: guys are engaged. You want to ride that way for
Speaker 1: as long as you can.
Speaker 4: I mean, he can try and pull that for as
Speaker 4: long as he cans. But I don't think he's going
Speaker 4: to get away with it.
Speaker 5: Just leave.
Speaker 3: You know what you do.
Speaker 2: You're gonna do what I do.
Speaker 4: You just leave the garbage bag at the door, and
Speaker 4: then your husband takes it out. You just walk to
Speaker 4: the doorway and then you leave it in the doorway,
Speaker 4: and then someone else is going to deal with that.
Speaker 2: And I think that's TeamWorks. I've taken it halfway and
Speaker 2: he takes it the rest of the way.
Speaker 5: I have some fun have a couple of weeks off.
Speaker 2: A ravish bag in his bed.
Speaker 5: That ring I didn't take twelve months off. You put
Speaker 5: a ratneys bit, you know.
Speaker 2: A rubbish back.
Speaker 4: I just said I a Dumpany's suitcase, and everybody ignored it,
Speaker 4: which I'm glad about, but also to the few people
Speaker 4: who've heard me.
Speaker 3: Say that I didn't think we should sit in it herit,
Speaker 3: I haven't.
Speaker 5: Fund Laura's like put a horse heat in his bed.
Speaker 2: In the Kenne. I'm the only one who knows what
Speaker 2: married life is like out of the suitcase. Sorry, I'm
Speaker 2: not getting married here. That's what it looks like.
Speaker 5: You TV couples are weird, all right.
Speaker 1: Next and Ask and Cut, Linda wants to know whether
Speaker 1: it's okay to let a dog lick plates before she
Speaker 1: puts the digital shirt. She's like, let's come to the pickup.
Speaker 1: They're the only people that are gonna be able to
Speaker 1: help me with this conundrum. We'll chat to her. Next
Speaker 1: stand by, it's Thursday, let's.
Speaker 6: Do this, askut.
Speaker 2: It's Thursday.
Speaker 3: This is my favorite segment Ask Uncut, where you guys
Speaker 3: call up with the problem of the week, the conundrum
Speaker 3: something you need a little bit of help with. Now,
Speaker 3: we don't have any education around this, but we're very
Speaker 3: enthusiastic about giving our advice.
Speaker 4: Well, where you're a free therapist, but we are. We
Speaker 4: don't have any qualifications. We both build first ten to free.
Speaker 2: We we both build. But they're all free because it's.
Speaker 5: Not no prize attached as well. It's just come on
Speaker 5: and we'll try our best.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and today's one is about man's best friend.
Speaker 2: I have Linda on the phone, haylely do what's the conundrum?
Speaker 5: How can we help?
Speaker 7: Hi there, guys, I really need your help. I've got
Speaker 7: a domestic dilemma and it's quite danger of becoming a
Speaker 7: domestic drama. My question for you today is is it
Speaker 7: okay to let the dog lick the dishes clean before
Speaker 7: they get washed up?
Speaker 2: Okay? How are you washing them?
Speaker 5: Though?
Speaker 4: Are you hand washing them or are they going into
Speaker 4: a dishwasher? Because I think dishwasher like that's like an
Speaker 4: hour wash. You could do anything. You can go to the
Speaker 4: toilet on them and put them in the dishwasher.
Speaker 3: Don't but I think you're discussing from Laura Show.
Speaker 2: It's a dump in the dish Washer's right?
Speaker 4: Serious question though? How is it is it? Are you
Speaker 4: hand washing or your dishwasher?
Speaker 7: Well, it depends. I mean something's going the dishwasher, obviously,
Speaker 7: but some pots and pans, plates going the dishwasher. Some
Speaker 7: are hand washed, so it's a bit of boat.
Speaker 2: What kind of dog is it.
Speaker 7: Well, it's a boy dog for a start. Well we
Speaker 7: know what he looks.
Speaker 2: Dogs lick their genitals.
Speaker 5: Okay, I do not know where that was going.
Speaker 4: All right, I need I need to get to the
Speaker 4: one of this, Linda, Who in your household has.
Speaker 2: A problem with it? And who doesn't have a problem
Speaker 2: with it.
Speaker 7: I think it's a great environmental initiative. It's and it's yeah, I'm.
Speaker 6: Good with it.
Speaker 7: Have my hobby and kids. They think it's disgusting and unhygienic.
Speaker 4: Ohlinda, we've just seen the video of your dogs. Not
Speaker 4: only is your dog licking the plates, your dog is
Speaker 4: literally inside the dishwasher.
Speaker 1: If anyone wants a mental image, google eating ants out
Speaker 1: of a well tongue. Its tongue is like ten centimeters long,
Speaker 1: looking the bolic NAIs of porcel and my for Brooks,
Speaker 1: that's disgusting.
Speaker 2: You can call it. You can't do that, Linda. You
Speaker 2: have to give the dog his own.
Speaker 4: But I know I said you could take a dumb
Speaker 4: on a plate and then put in a dishwasher.
Speaker 2: But I changed my mind after watching.
Speaker 1: If you're at the dinner table and you've had spag
Speaker 1: bowl and there's a bit of mintce on the plate,
Speaker 1: I'm all for putting the plate down on the ground
Speaker 1: letting the dog clean it up. But filling a dirty
Speaker 1: dishwasher and letting the dog go at it like ribs
Speaker 1: and rump style on it, like a rack of ribs,
Speaker 1: that's fair all.
Speaker 2: I can't stop watching this video. We're gonna have to
Speaker 2: put your socials.
Speaker 4: I think. Also, surely it can't be good for the
Speaker 4: dog's digestion, Like it's okay to give him a little
Speaker 4: bit of a lick, but letting them lick every plate,
Speaker 4: I feel like it's just gonna make the poor dog sick.
Speaker 2: No, No, I don't think it's gonna I mean, it
Speaker 2: could make him sick. Linda, I just want to say,
Speaker 2: I'm in two minds.
Speaker 4: About this because we have a dog and a cat
Speaker 4: in our household, and we for our cat especially, we
Speaker 4: have like a little side plate and if we interchange,
Speaker 4: it's just like it's like a little bread plate.
Speaker 2: Entree It's yeah, like a little entree plate.
Speaker 4: But we don't have a specific cat plate, so that
Speaker 4: goes in the dishwasher and then it goes back into
Speaker 4: the draw and then another one comes out. So who
Speaker 4: knows everyone's eating off the cat plate, but the dog
Speaker 4: plate in the dishwasher just feels different. Linda, So I
Speaker 4: think I'm taking your husband's side on.
Speaker 5: This one, you know.
Speaker 7: Okay, So I'm hearing appalling. I'm just hanging my head.
Speaker 2: Although sorry to shame you.
Speaker 5: You know, I might be convinced because I don't have
Speaker 5: a dog.
Speaker 1: Although you know, when you wash it dishes in the
Speaker 1: dishwasher and then it comes out and there's still a
Speaker 1: bit of grime left on them, like you've kind of
Speaker 1: got to do it again. Have you found, Linda, that
Speaker 1: with the dog licking them, you only ever have to
Speaker 1: do one cycle on the dishwasher.
Speaker 7: Yes, it's so environmentally friendly, dog looking.
Speaker 3: If you if your dishes not coming out clean, you
Speaker 3: need to clean the dishwasher. You know that you need
Speaker 3: to clean a dishwasher, right? You don't know that, did you?
Speaker 3: It's a dishwashers a filter. You're disgusting.
Speaker 4: Oh, Linda, Sorry, but I'm on your husband's side.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm one husband.
Speaker 7: Okay, I asked the question. I'm hearing the decision.
Speaker 2: It cannot be unhappy with the looks very cute.
Speaker 5: It dogs. I disagree it's feral. It's like a mate.
Speaker 1: It had teeth coming out of the sides, and it
Speaker 1: had a tongue.
Speaker 2: To be yourself, I'm not going that far.
Speaker 1: If you want to get into the text slide, if
Speaker 1: you've got an ask gun cut of your own, you
Speaker 1: can text us. And you can also textus footage. That's
Speaker 1: how we got the video of that that coyote eating
Speaker 1: the food. You can text this O four nine nine
Speaker 1: four four one O six five four nine nine four
Speaker 1: four one six five all right back after this, I
Speaker 1: would pick up.
Speaker 2: Guys.
Speaker 4: We have been having the spiciest debate in our household
Speaker 4: at the moment, and I want you to wage in
Speaker 4: on this, especially you two, since you know the only
Speaker 4: two here. Yes, because we paid to do okay, So,
Speaker 4: and I want to try and keep this a little
Speaker 4: bit obscure because I don't want the person who is no.
Speaker 4: I know, I know you want me to out people, Mitch,
Speaker 4: but I don't want the person who is part of
Speaker 4: this story to know. But my mum was telling me
Speaker 4: a story about a girl that she knows who has
Speaker 4: just had a baby. So the baby's now four months old,
Speaker 4: and she knows who the dad is now. The dad
Speaker 4: was a man who is in his very early twenties.
Speaker 4: He was in Australia as a backpacker. They're friends on
Speaker 4: Facebook and their friends on Instagram. But they had a
Speaker 4: one night stand while he was traveling through Sydney and
Speaker 4: he has no idea that he has fathered a baby.
Speaker 2: Now, the big.
Speaker 4: Moral question of this is is can she keep this
Speaker 4: a secret, the fact that she now has as a
Speaker 4: little baby to this guy, or does she morally have
Speaker 4: to tell him because at this rate, there's no way
Speaker 4: that this kid's ever going to find out who their
Speaker 4: father is.
Speaker 5: Who she telling people the father is currently.
Speaker 4: She's just said it happened on a one night stand
Speaker 4: and doesn't know I She's honestly been very obscure with it.
Speaker 4: And it's just like she's.
Speaker 1: Got to tell him, you can't, you can't have a
Speaker 1: baby with someone and not it's a fifty to fifty
Speaker 1: He has to know that it is a child out
Speaker 1: of them.
Speaker 2: Well, he's back home, so he's back home in the
Speaker 2: country that he came from.
Speaker 3: It doesn't matter, he still needs to know that the
Speaker 3: guy's only in his early twenties. Also irrelevant. If he's
Speaker 3: old enough to put it in and create the baby,
Speaker 3: he's old enough to be able to look after the
Speaker 3: baby and.
Speaker 2: Make a decision.
Speaker 3: I'm going to say this because this exact situation happened
Speaker 3: to my friend.
Speaker 2: And the reason I think did she keep it a secret? Well, listen,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you.
Speaker 3: The reason I think so strongly that she needs to
Speaker 3: tell him is so, my friend was in a relationship
Speaker 3: with a guy that was like cross continent, and then
Speaker 3: they decided to take a break. And on that break,
Speaker 3: he traveled to Thailand, had a one night stand that
Speaker 3: was it, and then.
Speaker 2: They decided the break was over they were getting back together.
Speaker 3: Ten eleven, twelve months later, they're back together, going strong.
Speaker 2: My friend and his guy.
Speaker 3: He gets a call that says from that one night
Speaker 3: stand in Thailand ten months ago that they never spoke
Speaker 3: an a couple.
Speaker 2: I have had a child. We have a child.
Speaker 3: I don't expect anything from you, but I'm doing the
Speaker 3: right thing and I want you to know. And he
Speaker 3: then made the decision that he wanted to be a
Speaker 3: part of its life. He's like, I don't want to
Speaker 3: have a child out there and not be a part
Speaker 3: of its life.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, so so hard.
Speaker 5: She's got a partner.
Speaker 3: This is three years ago. So he went over to
Speaker 3: meet the baby and then he said to my friend,
Speaker 3: I am sorry, but like this isn't going to work out.
Speaker 3: I need to go and and I want my child
Speaker 3: to have a dad, so I'm going to move to
Speaker 3: that country to be around to raise it. And now
Speaker 3: he's actually with the girl, the mother the one night
Speaker 3: saying mother and they're a family.
Speaker 2: That seems like such an anomaly. That's great.
Speaker 4: So the other thing is is there's almost there's almost
Speaker 4: an eighteen year age gap in this relationship as well.
Speaker 4: So it's not like they're not going to just run
Speaker 4: away together and get together. No, but you don't have
Speaker 4: to get together. But he he didn't go there to
Speaker 4: be with the mom.
Speaker 2: He went there because it's his child. That's what. He
Speaker 2: didn't go there and say, I'm going to be a family.
Speaker 5: Where are you guys meeting your friends. I can't even
Speaker 5: get mine to pay you back for dinner.
Speaker 2: Insane? No, But I think like, at the end of
Speaker 2: the day, it's his child.
Speaker 3: Too, and he if as long as she knows that
Speaker 3: he doesn't necessarily isn't going to pack up and come here.
Speaker 3: But he's entitled as the dad to know that he
Speaker 3: has a child out there, and then he can do
Speaker 3: without what he will.
Speaker 1: What do you do, Laury in eighteen years though, when
Speaker 1: he gets a call and it's hey dad.
Speaker 2: Yeah exactly, Yeah, I know, I agree.
Speaker 4: I think my take on it is it's not so
Speaker 4: much around like the relationship with the mum. I know
Speaker 4: that at the moment, she's probably doing the right thing
Speaker 4: for her, But I always think, like, what about when
Speaker 4: this kid's like six, seven, eight, nine, ten old enough
Speaker 4: to ask like, where's my dad and really starts to
Speaker 4: dig into it. Then do you have to do with
Speaker 4: a really awful situation when they're an adult discovering that
Speaker 4: your mum's lied to you this whole time, that they've
Speaker 4: actually known who your dad is and where he is
Speaker 4: and just kept that information from you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but the dad having the same feeling like eighteen
Speaker 3: years later, you knows that from me, you took fatherhood
Speaker 3: from me for eighteen years.
Speaker 5: If not anything to cover yourself, like what if I
Speaker 5: don't know, what if he came back twenty years later,
Speaker 5: found out and suit you like, that's possible.
Speaker 2: Knowledge power.
Speaker 3: I mean everyone sees everyone these days. Knowledge is power,
Speaker 3: That's what I think. And think and let them make
Speaker 3: the decision once they've got all the information.
Speaker 5: Protection is also power.
Speaker 2: And were a condum?
Speaker 5: Were a condom.
Speaker 2: Let's wrap it up like they should have.
Speaker 5: All right, we're back after this other pick up.
Speaker 3: Well, you guys are lucky to have me here at
Speaker 3: the moment, because I did have a near death experience
Speaker 3: over the weekend.
Speaker 2: Now, Laura, oh yeah, sorry, hold it please.
Speaker 4: I was I was speechless because I was overcome with fear.
Speaker 3: You remember, you remember a few years ago I got
Speaker 3: stuck in a fence.
Speaker 2: Do you remember I stuck?
Speaker 3: You a baby goat? My leg got stuck in a fence.
Speaker 3: You know how they have like little openings. I slipped
Speaker 3: my nee and and yeah, and I couldn't get it
Speaker 3: back out.
Speaker 2: That's something my four year old would do. Yeah, she
Speaker 2: did that with her head.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: The only way I could get out, this is taking
Speaker 3: a segway. This is even my story. The only way
Speaker 3: I could get out was I had to wait for
Speaker 3: a passer by to come and put sunscreen on my leg.
Speaker 2: And so I could pull my leg out anyway. I
Speaker 2: got stuck somewhere over the weekend.
Speaker 3: So I mean my like fitness sauna ice bath era,
Speaker 3: and I was having a sauna and there's a couple
Speaker 3: of saunas and a couple of ice bas in this
Speaker 3: one little area, and it was just it was empty
Speaker 3: because it was just like the middle of the day.
Speaker 3: Everyone was having a better life than me. So I
Speaker 3: was in the sauna and with one other guy. Now
Speaker 3: he exited the sauna and went into the ice bath.
Speaker 3: And I'm at the point where I'm like trying to
Speaker 3: work up how long I can spend in the sauna
Speaker 3: and the ice bath, and I met my limit.
Speaker 2: Like these are really hot?
Speaker 5: How hot is it?
Speaker 3: Like as I don't know the temperature, but as high
Speaker 3: as you can go, Like you were in there for
Speaker 3: two minutes and dripping, so.
Speaker 2: You only stay in there for a really short period
Speaker 2: of time.
Speaker 3: You're I know, I was in there for eighteen minutes,
Speaker 3: which is a really long time. Okay, Okay, so usually
Speaker 3: people do ten twelve minutes and they get out quickly.
Speaker 1: Is it one of those old school like Novatail Hotel
Speaker 1: saunas with the bricks in the middle that you pour
Speaker 1: the water on with the wooden spoon.
Speaker 2: Gets those infrared ones.
Speaker 3: No, it's got hot rocks in it, really yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: but yeah, and it's very modern. But anyway, so the
Speaker 3: guy gets out and he gets into the ice bath
Speaker 3: that's directly in front of the sauna. So he takes
Speaker 3: the lid off the ice ba, hops in, puts his
Speaker 3: headphones in, starts to go into this meditation. Then I'm
Speaker 3: here eighteen nineteen minutes and I'm like, I'm literally about
Speaker 3: to pass out. I have to get out of here.
Speaker 3: I was feeling sick.
Speaker 5: My fault.
Speaker 3: So I went to open the door and he has
Speaker 3: taken the little off his ice bath and locked wedged
Speaker 3: the door in, and I couldn't. I couldn't get out,
Speaker 3: and I was like the lid with the lips of
Speaker 3: the ice bar the eyeba. So I'm banging the door
Speaker 3: and I'm like, get me out. So I was like,
Speaker 3: it's okay, I'll just knock and get his attention, but
Speaker 3: he had a headphones flaring, and I was like, I
Speaker 3: am going to die here.
Speaker 4: The good thing is that not many people can spend
Speaker 4: very long in an ice bath either.
Speaker 2: So he didn't have too long.
Speaker 3: That's what you would think. Guess how long he's spending
Speaker 3: the ice pas. I'm going for seven minutes, twelve twelve
Speaker 3: minutes in an ice bar, twelve minutes.
Speaker 4: I'm never going to understand why people want to talk
Speaker 4: to themselves that much. I just I can't get into this.
Speaker 4: So for me, this is when.
Speaker 2: I'm back to my ya.
Speaker 1: I was going to sound for you, Yes, Ice, what
Speaker 1: was the brand name I want to purchase? Mine was
Speaker 1: your heart rate through the roof?
Speaker 3: Okay, So I'm like I'm going to die because I'm
Speaker 3: smashing on the window trying to get his attention. By
Speaker 3: the time he looks up, this miracle ice b man,
Speaker 3: he looks up and I'm like spluttered against the side,
Speaker 3: melting down the side, and I'm like.
Speaker 2: Please send help. What did he do?
Speaker 1: Well?
Speaker 2: He got up opened it and he was like, oh
Speaker 2: my god, that's so funny. The lid must have locked
Speaker 2: you in. Have you seen how I'm like a dehydrated
Speaker 2: little prude.
Speaker 3: I literally thought my life was and I was like,
Speaker 3: surely other people are getting stuck.
Speaker 1: I need to tell the gym that that's a worry
Speaker 1: because that could happen to someone who's not as famous
Speaker 1: as you, and that could be really bad for them.
Speaker 3: I was starting to think, I wonder if I could
Speaker 3: throw myself at the glass and fall through.
Speaker 5: Is it glass?
Speaker 2: It's glass door? I think that that would not work out.
Speaker 2: Very wealthy. Have you guys that have been stuck somewhere conversation?
Speaker 1: It's a I was stuck in a blizzard in Scotland
Speaker 1: with you, butrit We were stuck for about three hours
Speaker 1: and we ate all the rations. We had like a
Speaker 1: box of favorites in the car, and it lasted thirty minutes.
Speaker 3: We ate the whole box of favorite hang on, we
Speaker 3: didn't collectively you ate all of our emergency rations.
Speaker 2: Stress How quickly did you eat them?
Speaker 5: Like thirty minutes. But it's a different time zone, so
Speaker 5: it was dinner.
Speaker 2: Actually, I once got stuck. I got stuck on a hill.
Speaker 2: You guys know this.
Speaker 4: I got stuck on a hill and I couldn't reverse
Speaker 4: out because the hill was too steep, and I kept
Speaker 4: rolling into.
Speaker 2: The car in front and my husband had to come
Speaker 2: and save me.
Speaker 5: And it was really you made him drive another car.
Speaker 4: He had to drive another car to three suburbs away
Speaker 4: to reverse park my car.
Speaker 2: It was humiliating.
Speaker 1: We're all really load people out, really sad. Christy's called Christy,
Speaker 1: Where did you get stuck?
Speaker 6: High? Not me, but my son four years ago. He
Speaker 6: got stuck in a giant chopper chop tin.
Speaker 2: Did he stick his head in the tin?
Speaker 4: Had like, oh my god, our producer has just sent
Speaker 4: us a photo.
Speaker 2: I'm looking at him stuck.
Speaker 3: Look guys, this is him in the chops.
Speaker 6: He went viral.
Speaker 1: It's like a little tin, so it's like it was
Speaker 1: like a little mini oil vat he's sitting in it.
Speaker 6: I actually had to call emergency services.
Speaker 2: That's was he Okay? He was fine, Yeah, good story though.
Speaker 5: Down there definitely not great.
Speaker 2: Sorry, I just remembered right now. One other place I
Speaker 2: got stuck.
Speaker 3: I was going through into a supermarket, and you know
Speaker 3: electric doors, like the sensor doors, they opened what you're in,
Speaker 3: they closed.
Speaker 2: They just closed.
Speaker 3: They malfunctioned and closed when I was in the middle
Speaker 3: of them and closed on my body and then didn't open.
Speaker 3: I was stuck in the doors of a supermarket.
Speaker 1: It's so unrelatable because no one else is that thin
Speaker 1: that they can in slither of an armond of a
Speaker 1: crack at the Coals check out.
Speaker 2: You're turned on the side and you can't see it.
Speaker 5: It's like, you know what else I get? Second, the
Speaker 5: gap between the train, my full right through.
Speaker 2: I mean lots of people have done that, Like nine
Speaker 2: years old usually