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Speaker 2: Am I the asshole for not wanting to call my
Speaker 2: boyfriend daddy? That is the question we're answering today on
Speaker 2: Flex and Frooms. Listen to this. I'm going to get
Speaker 2: it right into it. I am twenty five, My boyfriend
Speaker 2: is twenty eight, and he likes to be called daddy
Speaker 2: in bed while we're being intimate. I've obliged this request,
Speaker 2: but it started to creep me out, and I've decided
Speaker 2: that I don't want to do it anymore. He's not
Speaker 2: happy with this and insists it has nothing to do
Speaker 2: with the connotation of the word. He just simply enjoys
Speaker 2: hearing me say it. Since he wasn't budging on the issue,
Speaker 2: I told him I'd like for him to call me
Speaker 2: Grandma in bed as a compromise. He didn't like this
Speaker 2: option and said it was giving him visuals he'd prefer
Speaker 2: not to have anyway. The last time he tried to
Speaker 2: initiate intimacy with me, I started to refer to myself
Speaker 2: as grandma and the third person do you like when
Speaker 2: Grandma does that? Etc? And he flew off the handle.
Speaker 2: Said I ruined the mood made him feel gross and
Speaker 2: that I was being ridiculous. I think I proved my point,
Speaker 2: but he thinks I'm being an asshole. So am I
Speaker 2: the art.
Speaker 1: The idea of him getting gross out because he has
Speaker 1: to call her grandma and however, daddy's okay. I don't
Speaker 1: want to have to bring it there. But this is
Speaker 1: sexism one on one, and there's also agism. Grandmas have sex, Okay,
Speaker 1: everyone get that into your head. Grandma's root, as do daddies,
Speaker 1: and as do twenty four year olds and twenty eight
Speaker 1: year olds. I think it's a genius. I wish that
Speaker 1: I had recommended to her the whole grandma line, because
Speaker 1: that's very smart. But we do have in the studio,
Speaker 1: I producer brook who refers to herself, us and men
Speaker 1: that she fornicates with as daddy. Give us your opinion, Brookie.
Speaker 3: Look, I think one she shouldn't have had an issue
Speaker 3: with the word daddy. It's amazing and it's probably the
Speaker 3: most used word I use all the time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, top two in your vocab.
Speaker 3: But I also don't understand why people find it weird
Speaker 3: and gross like we get it.
Speaker 1: I see it like I would feel dirty saying it.
Speaker 3: But do you, as an adult call your dad daddy
Speaker 3: because that's what I find gross?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I actually fully agree with you they I would
Speaker 1: never call my dad daddy.
Speaker 3: So if you're saying you've an issue with it because
Speaker 3: it reminds you of your dad, well then that's your
Speaker 3: own fault and you should probably grow up, is my opinion.
Speaker 1: I do hear men referring to women with large bosoms
Speaker 1: as mommy here, mummy, flex, mummymummy, milkley, mummy, flex, mummy,
Speaker 1: mommy milkers.
Speaker 2: I have many many A man call me mommy and
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, oh no, that's me.
Speaker 3: Sorry.
Speaker 2: Look, I will say it is a bad habit to kink.
Speaker 2: Shame right. Nobody wants to, you know, be in an
Speaker 2: intimate scenario, share something through vulnerability, and then be told
Speaker 2: it's not cool, it's not interesting, it's a slippery slope. However,
Speaker 2: I don't care about all that. I don't want to
Speaker 2: hear it. I don't want to hear it if we
Speaker 2: start allowing anything to go. I just think that a
Speaker 2: lot of sex can be very performative to a point
Speaker 2: where you don't know where the enjoyment begins and the
Speaker 2: performance starts, it just kind of blurs into one. And
Speaker 2: so I feel like someone setting a boundary and saying like, hey,
Speaker 2: I don't want to engage with you in that way.
Speaker 2: Should be fair and just, and if you want me
Speaker 2: to say it, then you're gonna have to compromise in
Speaker 2: some capacity. Also, I think that like, who wants to
Speaker 2: do something so intimate and be fundamentally uncomfortable totally, especially
Speaker 2: when you have an option to not do it. It's
Speaker 2: not a core part of the act. It's an add on,
Speaker 2: so add it off.
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