WEBVTT - AITA For Not Wanting To Call My Boyfriend Daddy? 👨 🍆

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<v Speaker 1>On Flex and Frooms Flex and Frooms. This is the

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<v Speaker 1>Flex and Frooms catch up podcast?

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<v Speaker 2>Am I the asshole for not wanting to call my

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<v Speaker 2>boyfriend daddy? That is the question we're answering today on

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<v Speaker 2>Flex and Frooms. Listen to this. I'm going to get

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<v Speaker 2>it right into it. I am twenty five, My boyfriend

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<v Speaker 2>is twenty eight, and he likes to be called daddy

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<v Speaker 2>in bed while we're being intimate. I've obliged this request,

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<v Speaker 2>but it started to creep me out, and I've decided

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<v Speaker 2>that I don't want to do it anymore. He's not

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<v Speaker 2>happy with this and insists it has nothing to do

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<v Speaker 2>with the connotation of the word. He just simply enjoys

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<v Speaker 2>hearing me say it. Since he wasn't budging on the issue,

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<v Speaker 2>I told him I'd like for him to call me

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<v Speaker 2>Grandma in bed as a compromise. He didn't like this

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<v Speaker 2>option and said it was giving him visuals he'd prefer

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<v Speaker 2>not to have anyway. The last time he tried to

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<v Speaker 2>initiate intimacy with me, I started to refer to myself

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<v Speaker 2>as grandma and the third person do you like when

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<v Speaker 2>Grandma does that? Etc? And he flew off the handle.

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<v Speaker 2>Said I ruined the mood made him feel gross and

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<v Speaker 2>that I was being ridiculous. I think I proved my point,

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<v Speaker 2>but he thinks I'm being an asshole. So am I

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<v Speaker 2>the art.

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<v Speaker 1>The idea of him getting gross out because he has

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<v Speaker 1>to call her grandma and however, daddy's okay. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to have to bring it there. But this is

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<v Speaker 1>sexism one on one, and there's also agism. Grandmas have sex, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>everyone get that into your head. Grandma's root, as do daddies,

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<v Speaker 1>and as do twenty four year olds and twenty eight

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<v Speaker 1>year olds. I think it's a genius. I wish that

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<v Speaker 1>I had recommended to her the whole grandma line, because

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<v Speaker 1>that's very smart. But we do have in the studio,

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<v Speaker 1>I producer brook who refers to herself, us and men

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<v Speaker 1>that she fornicates with as daddy. Give us your opinion, Brookie.

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<v Speaker 3>Look, I think one she shouldn't have had an issue

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<v Speaker 3>with the word daddy. It's amazing and it's probably the

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<v Speaker 3>most used word I use all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, top two in your vocab.

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<v Speaker 3>But I also don't understand why people find it weird

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<v Speaker 3>and gross like we get it.

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<v Speaker 1>I see it like I would feel dirty saying it.

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<v Speaker 3>But do you, as an adult call your dad daddy

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<v Speaker 3>because that's what I find gross?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I actually fully agree with you they I would

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<v Speaker 1>never call my dad daddy.

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<v Speaker 3>So if you're saying you've an issue with it because

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<v Speaker 3>it reminds you of your dad, well then that's your

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<v Speaker 3>own fault and you should probably grow up, is my opinion.

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<v Speaker 1>I do hear men referring to women with large bosoms

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<v Speaker 1>as mommy here, mummy, flex, mummymummy, milkley, mummy, flex, mummy,

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<v Speaker 1>mommy milkers.

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<v Speaker 2>I have many many A man call me mommy and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, oh, oh no, that's me.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>Look, I will say it is a bad habit to kink.

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<v Speaker 2>Shame right. Nobody wants to, you know, be in an

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<v Speaker 2>intimate scenario, share something through vulnerability, and then be told

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<v Speaker 2>it's not cool, it's not interesting, it's a slippery slope. However,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care about all that. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>hear it. I don't want to hear it if we

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<v Speaker 2>start allowing anything to go. I just think that a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of sex can be very performative to a point

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<v Speaker 2>where you don't know where the enjoyment begins and the

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<v Speaker 2>performance starts, it just kind of blurs into one. And

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<v Speaker 2>so I feel like someone setting a boundary and saying like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to engage with you in that way.

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<v Speaker 2>Should be fair and just, and if you want me

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<v Speaker 2>to say it, then you're gonna have to compromise in

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<v Speaker 2>some capacity. Also, I think that like, who wants to

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<v Speaker 2>do something so intimate and be fundamentally uncomfortable totally, especially

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<v Speaker 2>when you have an option to not do it. It's

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<v Speaker 2>not a core part of the act. It's an add on,

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<v Speaker 2>so add it off.

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<v Speaker 1>It's an aftermarket situation. You've been listening to The Flex

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