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Speaker 1: I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the

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Speaker 1: Merry people. They've been having conversations and telling stories on

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Speaker 1: This is Rise and Conquer, the podcast where we strive

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Speaker 1: to become the highest version of ourselves through curious conversations,

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Speaker 1: healthy mindsets, laughter, connection, and a deep desire to evolve.

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Speaker 1: I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson. Join me as we explore parenthood, business, manifestation,

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Speaker 1: and so much more. It's positive, it's practical, and it's

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Speaker 1: about putting you in the driver's seat of your own life.

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Speaker 1: Are you ready, Cooper, Welcome back to the Rise and

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Speaker 2: Thanks for having me on my own podcast. It's good

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Speaker 2: to be back.

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Speaker 1: It's so I thought today we would just do a

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Speaker 1: both doing from maternity, eternity going on, lot's going on.

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Speaker 3: We seem to always sink, but I'm pretty sure you're

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Speaker 3: always a little bit behind me.

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Speaker 1: So are you trying to say a copy?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: We are, my big brother, So how are you feeling

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Speaker 1: what's been happening?

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm great, I feel good. I'm the same as ever. No,

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Speaker 3: she's definitely not feeling that great. Her back is killing her.

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Speaker 3: Just uncomfortable, like as you know now, like full limbs

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Speaker 3: But like if a boot, like if the baby boots, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Your stuff inside. The whole thing is just so weird.

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Speaker 1: Just this week, I have like started to I feel

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Speaker 2: You're shorter breath.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I just feel like I like I was filming

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Speaker 2: No snungen yeah, snors a lot. I don't think them

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Speaker 1: What about like, So no other updates with the pregnancy, yeah,

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Speaker 3: Now I just focus in on gym, the business, always

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Speaker 2: I've got the tools too, which is really cool.

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Speaker 1: What's the current block you're working on?

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Speaker 3: Something around trust? Like I don't trust myself, So there's

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Speaker 1: Where's it coming up?

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Speaker 2: Just some triggers?

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Speaker 1: Really?

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Speaker 3: They won. Yesterday that I had with a family member

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Speaker 2: Amazing Georgia, what are your life updates?

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Speaker 3: It's new and exciting that I already know about the community.

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Speaker 1: And I'm a bit of a control you know, I

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Speaker 2: That sounds like you're trying to be good.

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Speaker 1: So, like, obviously she's going to be a LEO because

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Speaker 2: So there's just there's all challenged. Yeah, there's a lot

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Speaker 1: Yes, I've seen it. I've seen another doctor and I've

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Speaker 1: done my research. It's funny because my current doctor he

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Speaker 1: just like, don't expect an instant reply, don't expect me

442
00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 1: to be in the office, and don't expect any recordings,

443
00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:47,000
Speaker 1: photo shoots or like fresh content. So like I still

444
00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:49,320
Speaker 1: want to be I still want you to communicate with me.

445
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:51,120
Speaker 1: I still want to know what's happening in the business.

446
00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:54,560
Speaker 1: I still want to be involved in decisions. But also

447
00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:58,920
Speaker 1: this very kind of if I want to be out

448
00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:02,000
Speaker 1: for six months, like everything sorted and it's not like

449
00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:03,960
Speaker 1: a big thing, but like, I don't think that's going

450
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:05,880
Speaker 1: to happen because I love what I do so much.

451
00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 2: Maybe three months, maybe pretty long.

452
00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:15,399
Speaker 3: I know it's a long time, Like I'm planning I

453
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 3: was going to do one month and I'm like, ah,

454
00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:19,960
Speaker 3: I can't males get I.

455
00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:21,439
Speaker 2: Remember as much as women.

456
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Speaker 1: I remember Tim.

457
00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 2: I get stereotypically, but.

458
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Speaker 1: I remember Tim used to be like, like, right at

459
00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:30,480
Speaker 1: the start with IVY, he was like, I'm going to

460
00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:32,399
Speaker 1: go to the shops. I'm like what for. He's like,

461
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:35,480
Speaker 1: I don't know, I just got to go, and he

462
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:37,600
Speaker 1: just like go on and get like milk, and then

463
00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:39,400
Speaker 1: like the next day you'd get like cereal and then

464
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:42,199
Speaker 1: next day it's like get out of the house. So

465
00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:43,960
Speaker 1: do you get like males need to get out?

466
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Speaker 3: No, I'm all talking to have maternity leave because like

467
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 3: the government only gives males like two weeks pay. The

468
00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:57,480
Speaker 3: women get ten weeks pay or something, which I fully

469
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Speaker 3: understand the recovery, and I get it that makes sad,

470
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:06,159
Speaker 3: But to have a dad at home helping out is

471
00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:10,520
Speaker 3: so important, very important for the child as well as

472
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 3: the wife or partner.

473
00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:14,720
Speaker 2: And yeah, it.

474
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Speaker 3: Would be because it's like dad just go back to

475
00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:21,639
Speaker 3: work because they have to provide for the family of

476
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 3: their lifestyles and that sort of thing.

477
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Speaker 2: And it sucks that that what happens, what's normalized. But

478
00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 2: I did not want that, so I've molded my life

479
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Speaker 2: not to do that.

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00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:37,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's so exciting to see what happens. Yeah,

481
00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:39,600
Speaker 1: I know, I'm excited just to see like how I

482
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Speaker 1: feel and what I want to do. And I think

483
00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:45,520
Speaker 1: another thing too, with Ivy's newborn stage, she was like

484
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 1: very separate. It was like work, and then I was

485
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:51,120
Speaker 1: a mom at home, was like this time, I kind

486
00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:52,960
Speaker 1: of want to mesh the identities a bit more and

487
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:54,920
Speaker 1: be just like a bit more fluid, which is what

488
00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 1: you can do in your own business where it's like

489
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Speaker 1: if I do want to pop in for the marketing meeting,

490
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Speaker 1: like I can just her and it not be this

491
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Speaker 1: whole thing. Whereas I was like.

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Speaker 3: Well to do that, what are you going to? Are

493
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Speaker 3: you going to do sleep training? Because if you do

494
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 3: that sort of thing, you can't do sleep training.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not too worried about the sleep training. It

496
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Speaker 1: depends if she's got colic or.

497
00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:19,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, but if I need to.

498
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Speaker 3: Let's say they do, she's got whoa sweet baby has something? Yeah,

499
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:31,399
Speaker 3: but that's the like Ash hasn't done sleep training for

500
00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:37,240
Speaker 3: each kid, and they're such good sleepers. Later on, look

501
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 3: at Ivy was really good.

502
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:40,400
Speaker 1: Look at her personalities.

503
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:44,360
Speaker 2: You can't keep saying that.

504
00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:49,640
Speaker 1: Guys, you don't understand. Cooper has these like angel children who,

505
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 1: like prim is like fifteen months old, and she just

506
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:56,720
Speaker 1: sits there. She just looks at you. She just cuddles you,

507
00:28:57,080 --> 00:28:58,600
Speaker 1: She just eats.

508
00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:03,200
Speaker 3: But do you know why I not just like randomly

509
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:04,880
Speaker 3: getting three good kids.

510
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:08,440
Speaker 2: It's called having good parents and the parents.

511
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:09,960
Speaker 1: Are you trying to say I'm not a good parent.

512
00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:14,800
Speaker 3: No, I'm saying you're crazy, and that's rubbing off.

513
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:19,720
Speaker 1: I hope, I hope this child's a bit crazy just

514
00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:21,440
Speaker 1: for the sake of you need it.

515
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:25,560
Speaker 2: I just don't. I don't know. I don't think it will.

516
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:27,960
Speaker 3: But even if he will, I think he will calm

517
00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 3: him down because me and Ash are just so calm.

518
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 1: Yeah. Cooper and Ash are like the most chillous people

519
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 1: to the point where I'm like, hello, I'm.

520
00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:38,680
Speaker 2: Not that chilled. Like Ash is pretty chilled.

521
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:43,880
Speaker 3: So she's very loving and very man Yeah. Yeah, she's

522
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:46,960
Speaker 3: born to be a born to be a mom. Yeah,

523
00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:50,040
Speaker 3: and we're like forgone. She's reading that book as well,

524
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:55,440
Speaker 3: and I asked her, like to read this paragraph of

525
00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 3: your purpose, And as you read it, it asks you,

526
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 3: like what you purpose, but it says it in it obviously,

527
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:06,000
Speaker 3: you know, like a way that you whatever you think

528
00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 3: is your purpose straight away, like it just yeah, and

529
00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:16,959
Speaker 3: hers was yeah straight away, I am here to be

530
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Speaker 3: a mum.

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Speaker 1: She totally is not so vite sweet ash. Then all right,

532
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 1: well let's get in some questions. I hope that answered.

533
00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:32,800
Speaker 1: It's like very much on the fly for me. We'll

534
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:35,000
Speaker 1: see what happens. I'll like that.

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00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:40,800
Speaker 2: Crazy gonna add three crazy girls.

536
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:44,760
Speaker 1: Okay, So a couple of questions from the community. This

537
00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:47,880
Speaker 1: is a good one. This is like abundance academy vibes.

538
00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:53,040
Speaker 1: How do we maintain an abundant mindset when we go

539
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 1: on half pay? So she's like obviously taking maternal leave

540
00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:58,520
Speaker 1: for a longer time, so she has to go on

541
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Speaker 1: half pay. Does she maintain abundant mindset?

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00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:06,120
Speaker 3: Well, I always like to look at giving yourself more space.

543
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 3: So like when that sort of thing happens, you straight

544
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:13,880
Speaker 3: away go into panic and you think we're not going

545
00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:16,760
Speaker 3: to be able to afford. And then the instinct is

546
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 3: straight away, how we're going to cut cross? How are

547
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 3: we going to do this? We're not going to be

548
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:25,080
Speaker 3: able to do it. So you're already telling yourself you're

549
00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:27,360
Speaker 3: not going to be able to survive and you're going

550
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 3: to be working on a budget, and like.

551
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:34,480
Speaker 2: That's that's going to be your reality. Like that's it.

552
00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 2: So it's to.

553
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:42,160
Speaker 3: Just believe that you're not going to go into that state.

554
00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:46,040
Speaker 3: But to get into that state is like, yeah, we

555
00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 3: were talking about before, it's meditation and just to relax

556
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:52,960
Speaker 3: your mind. And then once you've done that, then you're

557
00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 3: able to trust the process and something just stuff just

558
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:02,280
Speaker 3: happens works out. It's like magic kind of happens. And

559
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:05,840
Speaker 3: I have been wrestling with this for the last six

560
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:12,280
Speaker 3: months and it has taken me a while. So foreveryone

561
00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 3: it's not like just a one day fix. You're like,

562
00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:17,160
Speaker 3: I believe I'm going to be rich now.

563
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 2: Money is going to come in.

564
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:25,880
Speaker 3: It's yeah, consistently believing in yourself that something is going

565
00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:26,320
Speaker 3: to come.

566
00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:28,520
Speaker 2: Well, I think, what do you reckon?

567
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:32,000
Speaker 1: Like the answer to anything is like, sorry, the answer

568
00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 1: to any desire that you would have. So her desire

569
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Speaker 1: is like, I want to feel abundant even if I'm

570
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:40,680
Speaker 1: getting paid half the amount. It's like, well, you need

571
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:45,240
Speaker 1: to be an energetic match to that. And so the

572
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:50,040
Speaker 1: example like, for example, let's say if you want to

573
00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:55,760
Speaker 1: feel peace, and less anxiousness. But then you're in this

574
00:32:55,920 --> 00:33:00,680
Speaker 1: constant energy of like rushing or overbooking your schedule or

575
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 1: saying things like I never have enough time. Can you

576
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 1: see how like that energy does not match the outcome

577
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:10,840
Speaker 1: that you want. So like in this example of like

578
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:14,000
Speaker 1: I want to feel abundance, even them getting paid you know,

579
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:18,320
Speaker 1: half whatever, it's like, well, let's say, how would you

580
00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:22,160
Speaker 1: feel if you were going on maternity leave and getting

581
00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:24,960
Speaker 1: paid the full amount or like double or like, I

582
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:27,360
Speaker 1: don't know whatever you want to play with, Like what

583
00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:30,640
Speaker 1: would that feeling be? You would be like match that,

584
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:35,760
Speaker 1: I'm sorted. Everything is like I'm so supported during this period.

585
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Speaker 1: And this is actually for me with my newborn stage,

586
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:42,600
Speaker 1: I've been really and that's why you probably like, oh

587
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Speaker 1: my god, why is Georgie so relaxed? Is because I've

588
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:50,640
Speaker 1: been embodying the energy I want in the newborn stage now. Yeah,

589
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 1: And it's like it is about this.

590
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Speaker 3: How does someone get to that point? Well, they feel

591
00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 3: good to say that they need to do.

592
00:33:56,600 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 1: The nervous system regulation. So if you are feeling panicked,

593
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 1: if you are feeling in survival, it's the ift tapping,

594
00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:08,640
Speaker 1: sorry padding, it's the meditation it's taking yourself out of

595
00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:11,760
Speaker 1: the panic in fear and being like, that's an illusion

596
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:14,040
Speaker 1: that's not actually real. What is real?

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00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 2: Sorry? Has this lady done that aboutance academy?

598
00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:21,520
Speaker 1: No, I would highly recommend she does that. Oh, I

599
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 1: don't know. Sorry, it's just like a random thing. So

600
00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:27,759
Speaker 1: one hundred percent first thing to the abundant academy. But

601
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Speaker 1: if we're just talking on the fly here, I would

602
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:33,759
Speaker 1: be telling her to like sit in the energy of

603
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:37,840
Speaker 1: feeling like she's supported, it's worked out, and being making

604
00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:43,440
Speaker 1: decisions from that way, not making decisions from I'm getting

605
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:46,520
Speaker 1: paid less, I have to go on a budget, et cetera,

606
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:49,239
Speaker 1: et cetera. Because, like you said, if that's what you

607
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:51,879
Speaker 1: lean into, then that's the reality you'll get.

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00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:52,960
Speaker 2: Yeah. Cool.

609
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:57,799
Speaker 1: Next question, how do Oh, this is probably one more

610
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Speaker 1: for me. How do you deal with the foe in

611
00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:06,440
Speaker 1: your career and it changing your relationship to work after what?

612
00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:07,359
Speaker 3: Sorry?

613
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:09,799
Speaker 1: So I think what she's trying to say is like,

614
00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:14,480
Speaker 1: for example, I've experienced this with being like, oh, if

615
00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:18,600
Speaker 1: I take six months twelve months off my career for

616
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:22,319
Speaker 1: maternity leave, what's going to happen to my career? You know?

617
00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 1: For me, it's like Am I going to be less

618
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:27,880
Speaker 1: relevant on Instagram? Am I going to be behind in

619
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:32,719
Speaker 1: my career? I feel like you won't resonate with this. Yeah,

620
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:36,920
Speaker 1: I get what this person is saying because I had

621
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Speaker 1: these feelings even like taking time. I've never taken like

622
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Speaker 1: a month of social media ever, Like I've consistently posted,

623
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:48,160
Speaker 1: I've consistently shown up. And I was thinking about it

624
00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:51,239
Speaker 1: the other day, and it's because it's probably comes from

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00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:55,319
Speaker 1: that fear of like will I be relevant? You know,

626
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 1: will I lose the community? And like that's I can see,

627
00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:03,440
Speaker 1: like that's obviously that's so fear. So it's like a

628
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:07,799
Speaker 1: similar energetic question where it's like, well, what do you

629
00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:10,279
Speaker 1: want to be true? Do you want it to be

630
00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 1: true that you take this time off and you do

631
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 1: fall behind? Or do you want it to be true.

632
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 1: So something I've been leaning into is like I take

633
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:24,400
Speaker 1: this time off and I'm so filled up from my

634
00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:28,560
Speaker 1: experience and just like my evolution in that six months

635
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:31,399
Speaker 1: that I come back to work and it's like then

636
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:34,719
Speaker 1: what I do moving forward is like tenfold and it

637
00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:38,719
Speaker 1: catapults me because I took that time off, yep. And

638
00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:42,239
Speaker 1: that's the charge, that's the belief I'm leaning into so

639
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:44,480
Speaker 1: it's like it doesn't exist.

640
00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 2: Yep, that's a good answer.

641
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 1: Next person asks what have you done in your biz

642
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:53,359
Speaker 1: to set yourself up for the time off. We kind

643
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:56,200
Speaker 1: of answered this, but it's just like honestly getting in

644
00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:56,800
Speaker 1: good team.

645
00:36:57,600 --> 00:37:00,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, all this is.

646
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:03,760
Speaker 1: A good one. Cup Tips for keeping your relationship alive

647
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:09,480
Speaker 1: postpartum postpartum, Yeah, so after baby's here, keeping the spark

648
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:11,440
Speaker 1: alive relationship.

649
00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:15,560
Speaker 3: I like, I just love spending time with Ash, Like

650
00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:20,120
Speaker 3: our relationship is the easiest thing ever, but it needs

651
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:20,880
Speaker 3: a lot of work.

652
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:25,800
Speaker 1: So it's time time.

653
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:30,440
Speaker 3: Just really because you've got to understand each other's love language,

654
00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:34,400
Speaker 3: Like that's always the number one. So we're pretty downpat

655
00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:39,680
Speaker 3: with that and Ashes is time and mine's touch.

656
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:46,560
Speaker 2: Just touch me knows, And.

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00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 3: It's just so much easier after you know that sort

658
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:54,680
Speaker 3: of thing, so you can help each other. But I

659
00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:59,880
Speaker 3: don't know, just embracing having a new baby, like I

660
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:04,560
Speaker 3: love it so much, And there's a new human in

661
00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:08,799
Speaker 3: your world that you've got to look after that's completely

662
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:11,360
Speaker 3: useless and would.

663
00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 2: Die without you.

664
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:19,520
Speaker 3: It's so crazy how humans are just so pathetic, but

665
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:25,440
Speaker 3: every other animal on this planets upper walks.

666
00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:25,239
Speaker 1: Like little potatoes.

667
00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, so it's but I love that because you're so

668
00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:34,200
Speaker 3: involved from the day dot and you hare this little

669
00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:38,880
Speaker 3: baby cute Like I love that stage. But then like

670
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:41,320
Speaker 3: when it when the baby's one years.

671
00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:43,480
Speaker 1: Old, Yeah, it has a personality.

672
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:47,920
Speaker 3: Crueling that's a dad thing. But yeah, at the start,

673
00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:50,520
Speaker 3: like you've got another new member to your family.

674
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:54,080
Speaker 1: So I think it also like excepting that, it's going

675
00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:56,880
Speaker 1: to look different, do you know what I mean? Like,

676
00:38:56,920 --> 00:39:02,760
Speaker 1: it's like, obviously it's different because I'm guessing this person

677
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:05,759
Speaker 1: is maybe not had a baby yet. So it's like

678
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:09,160
Speaker 1: you've gone from this stage where you guys can do

679
00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:13,640
Speaker 1: whatever you want, whenever you want, date nights, whenever you

680
00:39:13,680 --> 00:39:17,600
Speaker 1: want going out, having time if you need time, you know,

681
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:21,800
Speaker 1: doing that for your relationship to then you know, having

682
00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:26,040
Speaker 1: this baby that needs you consistency, if the I don't

683
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:28,239
Speaker 1: know if she's breastfeeding, like there's you know, there's a

684
00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:30,600
Speaker 1: lot of different things. So it's not going to look

685
00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:36,359
Speaker 1: exactly like the previous relationship. But embracing that new relationship

686
00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:37,560
Speaker 1: and what.

687
00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:40,440
Speaker 3: That looks like, I'm probably got to look more when

688
00:39:40,480 --> 00:39:44,080
Speaker 3: I had Body. When we had Body, yeah, it was hectic,

689
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:48,839
Speaker 3: so it was fucked well I was twenty one. Yeah,

690
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:52,640
Speaker 3: you were very like twenty one year old with a kid.

691
00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:55,439
Speaker 3: I wouldn't advise it, but it was the best thing

692
00:39:55,480 --> 00:40:00,360
Speaker 3: that happened to me because it really catapulted me to

693
00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:04,440
Speaker 3: actually step up get my shit sorted, which I didn't

694
00:40:05,719 --> 00:40:09,520
Speaker 3: didn't for a while young and I just didn't plan it.

695
00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:11,320
Speaker 1: Is that in my life, very young.

696
00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:14,279
Speaker 2: But luckily our dash but.

697
00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 1: Not like probably not like that situation, but just in general.

698
00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:24,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's you just gotta take time with one another,

699
00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:29,719
Speaker 3: like a new baby. Even get your mum or dad

700
00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:32,960
Speaker 3: and nanny and granted to come over and have them

701
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:35,600
Speaker 3: for like a couple hours, so you and your partner

702
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 3: can go and spend some alone time.

703
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:40,800
Speaker 2: Like that's key in a relationship.

704
00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:44,919
Speaker 3: Kind of just time you need. Yeah, yeah, you need

705
00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:48,640
Speaker 3: time and space. Otherwise, if you're just looking after the

706
00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:51,279
Speaker 3: baby all the time, Yeah, you'll get frustrated.

707
00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:52,719
Speaker 2: You'll lose your ship.

708
00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:57,120
Speaker 1: Well that's like me and Tim Will. We used to

709
00:40:57,400 --> 00:40:59,600
Speaker 1: actually be pretty still big on like date nights and

710
00:40:59,640 --> 00:41:03,319
Speaker 1: stuff when I was little, but now because she's at

711
00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:06,000
Speaker 1: an age where she's like, no, I don't want to

712
00:41:07,040 --> 00:41:10,840
Speaker 1: be looked after and like can vocalize it. So like

713
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:13,719
Speaker 1: we don't really do that anymore, but you just go.

714
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:15,560
Speaker 2: On twenty holidays.

715
00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:19,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's lots of fun. He loves her.

716
00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:22,200
Speaker 2: Don't go to a restaurant. I want to go away.

717
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:28,000
Speaker 1: Shut up. But like, for example, yesterday me and Tim

718
00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:30,480
Speaker 1: when it had lunch because she was at Kinney, so

719
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:34,760
Speaker 1: like it's nice. Or if she's napping on the weekend,

720
00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:35,839
Speaker 1: we'll be.

721
00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:37,359
Speaker 2: Like leave it home and go out.

722
00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:42,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll just hit the down. No, we'll be like,

723
00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:46,200
Speaker 1: let's order uber eats and like sit down and like

724
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:50,840
Speaker 1: you know, watch a movie. No, so we can have

725
00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:56,719
Speaker 1: like date night but at home a date lunch. Let's

726
00:41:56,800 --> 00:41:58,280
Speaker 1: order rubrets and not get her anything.

727
00:41:59,040 --> 00:42:01,879
Speaker 3: We try and sneak away from their kids. We've got

728
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:03,480
Speaker 3: three credits running around it.

729
00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:04,239
Speaker 2: We just can't.

730
00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:06,439
Speaker 1: She follows us.

731
00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:10,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, well because we've going to go finds us first.

732
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:14,480
Speaker 1: Then he's probably it's probably fine with three because like

733
00:42:14,520 --> 00:42:16,359
Speaker 1: they could somewhat entertain each other.

734
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:20,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, it does get better in different ways, but you'll

735
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:20,920
Speaker 3: find that out.

736
00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:27,960
Speaker 1: Next question interesting one. I think we have different opinions

737
00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:32,360
Speaker 1: on this. So someone said mine is around anxious attachment

738
00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:36,320
Speaker 1: to my kids. I don't trust anyone to care for them,

739
00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:40,480
Speaker 1: so I don't ever spend time away from them. How

740
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:43,560
Speaker 1: do you have confidence in things like this? I think

741
00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:45,799
Speaker 1: it depends on the child too, because Ivy was very

742
00:42:46,400 --> 00:42:49,280
Speaker 1: independent from the start because I went back to work,

743
00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:52,279
Speaker 1: so like naturally she kind of had to be. And

744
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 1: Tim is a very male Yeah, like he's not you

745
00:42:57,239 --> 00:42:59,319
Speaker 1: know like she.

746
00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:02,720
Speaker 2: It's like the worst.

747
00:43:03,680 --> 00:43:09,040
Speaker 1: No, don't say that. No, So, like he's been always

748
00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:12,480
Speaker 1: been very like oh, like just they'll be out, let

749
00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:14,480
Speaker 1: it go. Yeah, she's just like off doing her thing.

750
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:18,080
Speaker 1: He's not like he's the opposite to a helicopter parent.

751
00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:19,920
Speaker 1: He's just like, yeah, let her do a thing, like

752
00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:24,200
Speaker 1: she'll figure it out. And she's like two. So she's

753
00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:30,960
Speaker 1: always been very independent, always very outwardly confident in herself,

754
00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:34,040
Speaker 1: goes up to people, can articulate herself, like, guys, we

755
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:39,239
Speaker 1: were at my granddad's funeral. You want that? And she

756
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 1: was like did I tell you?

757
00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:44,120
Speaker 2: Yes? Yeah, it was on Instagram.

758
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:47,839
Speaker 1: Oh yeah. So she literally like, my mum has four

759
00:43:47,880 --> 00:43:51,400
Speaker 1: sisters and they were doing the whole like describing granddad's life,

760
00:43:52,239 --> 00:43:56,400
Speaker 1: and she literally went up there and was like I

761
00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:59,520
Speaker 1: want to speak on the microphone, Like this three year

762
00:43:59,520 --> 00:44:03,400
Speaker 1: old in front of a whole audience funeral, and was

763
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:05,279
Speaker 1: like tugging on my mum and was like I want

764
00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:08,960
Speaker 1: to have a turn, like she's so and then she

765
00:44:09,040 --> 00:44:11,799
Speaker 1: literally got the microphone and she goes, my name is

766
00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:17,240
Speaker 1: Ivy and I'm having a baby sister, and then everyone

767
00:44:17,320 --> 00:44:20,279
Speaker 1: like cheers, and Tim was so embarrassed, and I was like, oh,

768
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:23,160
Speaker 1: just let her go. She's fine. But she's like she's

769
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:27,880
Speaker 1: very confident, So I feel confident in her around people

770
00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:32,759
Speaker 1: and like things like Kindie. She gets to Kindy, she's

771
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:35,040
Speaker 1: like see a mom and she runs and plays with

772
00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:38,480
Speaker 1: the kids like she's not very like clinging on me

773
00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:40,120
Speaker 1: or anything like that.

774
00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:45,760
Speaker 3: You can really resonate with that person because you haven't done.

775
00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:48,520
Speaker 1: It so well, that's well, that's what I'm saying. I

776
00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:52,880
Speaker 1: that's my experience because of her. But I haven't experienced

777
00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:55,160
Speaker 1: a child that's super anxiously attached to.

778
00:44:55,080 --> 00:45:00,360
Speaker 2: Me, so I would the child at all. It's all you.

779
00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:03,120
Speaker 2: You're so free flowing. Tim's so free flowing.

780
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:06,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, accept and confidence that she's going to make the

781
00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:07,640
Speaker 3: right choice.

782
00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:11,359
Speaker 1: And also from a young age, we had like Mum

783
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:14,400
Speaker 1: would always look after Ivy even from a baby stage.

784
00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:17,720
Speaker 1: And because I have one hundred percent trust in mom

785
00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:21,040
Speaker 1: because she raised four kids and she's so maternal. I

786
00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:23,239
Speaker 1: never had issues, do you know what I mean? Like

787
00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:24,440
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, yeah, it's mum.

788
00:45:24,680 --> 00:45:24,879
Speaker 2: Yeah.

789
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:30,640
Speaker 3: It would just be because Ash was more of a

790
00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:35,719
Speaker 3: very cautious and anxious with the kids going anywhere and

791
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:38,839
Speaker 3: running too far ahead in the shops and always has

792
00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:43,239
Speaker 3: to have her eyes on her, So that it just

793
00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:46,919
Speaker 3: comes down to your fears. It's not really the kid

794
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:51,120
Speaker 3: or anything, it's the parent, and it's just you have

795
00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:54,160
Speaker 3: too much anxiety that something's going to happen.

796
00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:55,320
Speaker 1: Fears.

797
00:45:55,600 --> 00:46:01,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's something will happen, and you will just always

798
00:46:01,440 --> 00:46:06,360
Speaker 3: be that person until you work on yourself really in

799
00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:09,720
Speaker 3: your ways, and then you'll put that anxiety onto your kids.

800
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:10,760
Speaker 3: Mm hmmm.

801
00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:13,919
Speaker 2: So like what did she say? What is the question?

802
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:15,920
Speaker 1: Well, she's like, how do I deal with like trusting

803
00:46:15,920 --> 00:46:19,279
Speaker 1: other people with my kids and letting them be with

804
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:20,400
Speaker 1: other people or whatever?

805
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:21,920
Speaker 2: You have to do work on yourself.

806
00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:26,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like, it's not it's anything towards kids or anything.

807
00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:29,319
Speaker 1: It's because you're anxiously attached, So you would have to

808
00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:30,880
Speaker 1: work on your anxious attachment.

809
00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:35,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you're in a child Yeah, you're you're and

810
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:39,040
Speaker 3: a child wasn't safe when they were young, So you've

811
00:46:39,040 --> 00:46:44,279
Speaker 3: got anxious feelings that you're going to put on your kids. This.

812
00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:48,840
Speaker 1: Okay, we'll do quick ones, really funny. Just this is

813
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:52,640
Speaker 1: a quick one. Will nh be inherited by your guys

814
00:46:52,760 --> 00:46:57,520
Speaker 1: babies one day? I wish, I say, I say all

815
00:46:57,560 --> 00:46:59,920
Speaker 1: the time to Jamie. I'm like you wait, I was

816
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:02,560
Speaker 1: going to be bossing around. She'll be in here bossing

817
00:47:02,600 --> 00:47:07,920
Speaker 1: around James. I know in a couple of years it

818
00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:10,240
Speaker 1: was like she doesn't Now I'm actually scared about.

819
00:47:14,080 --> 00:47:16,040
Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know. I hope not. It's

820
00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:18,520
Speaker 2: like that's a long time working.

821
00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:24,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, I like, I love having Naked Harvest,

822
00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:28,399
Speaker 3: and it'd be hard to see us not having it.

823
00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:32,719
Speaker 2: Like there's too much feelings there. I know.

824
00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:37,720
Speaker 1: It would actually be like imagine though, in like twenty

825
00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:41,759
Speaker 1: years time and like Body and Ivy are running Naked

826
00:47:41,760 --> 00:47:46,040
Speaker 1: Harvest and it's like this mega natural well knows company.

827
00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:48,000
Speaker 2: I've never thought of that, I know.

828
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:51,080
Speaker 1: Me either, never, But how fun would that be?

829
00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:53,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, you'd be like whoa.

830
00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:57,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, because like the ultimate I thought the ultimate goal

831
00:47:58,040 --> 00:48:00,960
Speaker 3: was to do a business, and so it like that's

832
00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:04,040
Speaker 3: what I've been heard. Yeah, now thinking of it, like,

833
00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:08,920
Speaker 3: I imagine you don't want that because I love having

834
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:12,200
Speaker 3: the team. I love having something that you've built from

835
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:17,400
Speaker 3: the ground up and it's surviving through everything, economy changes

836
00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:20,360
Speaker 3: and that sort of thing. And then for your kids

837
00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 3: to take over. I never thought of it'd be a

838
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:29,320
Speaker 3: bit more cool. I'd be such a funny vibe, maybe

839
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:31,120
Speaker 3: sweet bony.

840
00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:32,799
Speaker 2: Bods doing it.

841
00:48:35,200 --> 00:48:37,239
Speaker 3: He's already said, He's like, yeah, I want to work

842
00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:40,000
Speaker 3: with you, because like what job do you want to do,

843
00:48:40,120 --> 00:48:43,320
Speaker 3: Like you want to be a fireman or police or

844
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:46,680
Speaker 3: just these typical things, and like, nah, I'll just work

845
00:48:46,719 --> 00:48:50,239
Speaker 3: with you. So they got packing boxes, He's like nah,

846
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:51,840
Speaker 3: like helping you do the business.

847
00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:53,560
Speaker 1: He would just be like upstairs chattinger.

848
00:48:55,120 --> 00:49:01,200
Speaker 2: You'd be running it. He's got really his brain.

849
00:49:01,400 --> 00:49:05,000
Speaker 3: Can like think of stuff and do puzzles and yeah,

850
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:08,840
Speaker 3: those skills you into the business to get out of

851
00:49:08,840 --> 00:49:12,359
Speaker 3: a problem. Like he's got them already.

852
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:12,319
Speaker 2: All right.

853
00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:14,600
Speaker 1: He can be the problem solver and Ivy can be

854
00:49:14,640 --> 00:49:15,320
Speaker 1: the face.

855
00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 3: Tim I think, and just hand out banana bread everyone

856
00:49:23,600 --> 00:49:25,280
Speaker 3: and then talk to every postman.

857
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:29,799
Speaker 1: She would love that, she would because she'd also have

858
00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:30,239
Speaker 1: to be that.

859
00:49:30,480 --> 00:49:33,400
Speaker 3: Body wouldn't be able to control him. That was me

860
00:49:33,560 --> 00:49:36,040
Speaker 3: with Tim and tried to control him once.

861
00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:40,200
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for your questions. We hope you

862
00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:45,800
Speaker 1: loved this little, raw, honest, transparent update of the vibe

863
00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:48,520
Speaker 1: and I'm so excited to see how we go.

864
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 2: Yep, thanks for having me.

865
00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:55,759
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