WEBVTT - FULLSHOW! Is Mitch a man-child? 😅 0:00:12.720 --> 0:00:21.959 Laura and come on in. Hello ladies, Thursday afternoon. Greetings 0:00:22.200 --> 0:00:24.239 your Mitch. Did you cycle him here? 0:00:24.760 --> 0:00:27.120 I've never seen you wear so much micro and active 0:00:27.320 --> 0:00:28.360 in your entire life. 0:00:28.880 --> 0:00:30.240 I'm going for a walk after the show, and I 0:00:30.240 --> 0:00:31.440 don't want to have to get changed after. 0:00:31.560 --> 0:00:33.720 Do you think that wearing active wear is an appropriate 0:00:33.760 --> 0:00:34.840 attire for coming to work? 0:00:34.920 --> 0:00:35.000 Like? 0:00:35.040 --> 0:00:36.800 Where are we at with the whole active wear as well? 0:00:37.159 --> 0:00:38.720 Expect I'm just in the black T shirt and I 0:00:38.760 --> 0:00:39.480 mean five inchin. 0:00:40.960 --> 0:00:43.320 It's not the black T shirt, Mitch, it's the very 0:00:43.440 --> 0:00:44.720 short short. 0:00:44.560 --> 0:00:47.000 Stand up Mitch. 0:00:47.159 --> 0:00:48.440 You don't need to stand up. 0:00:48.479 --> 0:00:50.400 We saw them very short. 0:00:51.040 --> 0:00:53.599 As your hot girl walks are getting more intense, your 0:00:53.600 --> 0:00:54.640 shorts are getting shorter. 0:00:54.800 --> 0:00:57.200 I've noticed there's a direct correlation between the two. 0:00:57.360 --> 0:01:00.760 Oh my legs growing. Perhaps it's okay you wear all time. 0:01:00.840 --> 0:01:03.840 Yeah, if I'm not at work doing this, and sometimes 0:01:03.840 --> 0:01:05.679 even doing this, I'm one hundred percent always in active. 0:01:05.680 --> 0:01:07.160 Where can I just say nothing worse than someone that 0:01:07.160 --> 0:01:09.039 wears active where to work with their like it's smelly 0:01:09.080 --> 0:01:11.480 active wear. Oh all right, that's enough. 0:01:11.520 --> 0:01:14.320 We have a brilliant I've had enough of this. 0:01:15.200 --> 0:01:17.640 No, we've got to ask on cut coming up. As 0:01:17.680 --> 0:01:19.600 you know, it's one of our favorites here on a Thursday. 0:01:19.600 --> 0:01:21.680 We do it on the podcast on Life on Cut podcast. 0:01:21.920 --> 0:01:24.480 A listener writes in or calls in with the deepest, 0:01:24.560 --> 0:01:27.440 darkest burning question and we do our best to get 0:01:27.520 --> 0:01:29.480 our completely unqualified advice. 0:01:29.640 --> 0:01:30.840 But with a lot of enthusiasm. 0:01:31.080 --> 0:01:32.440 Yeah, always coming up. 0:01:32.480 --> 0:01:34.080 All right, we've got some help coming up here at 0:01:34.080 --> 0:01:36.320 the pickup for your thurs Day thanks to Chemists Warehouse 0:01:36.319 --> 0:01:40.000 heading today great savings every day. It's the pickup around 0:01:40.000 --> 0:01:42.720 Australia with Brit, Laura and Mitch here. Hello, Hi, welcome, 0:01:42.959 --> 0:01:45.320 thanks to Chemists Warehouse. Rush in to Chemist Warehouse for 0:01:45.360 --> 0:01:48.280 half priced vitamins and cosmetics. That's good teas and seas. 0:01:48.280 --> 0:01:51.880 Apply Chemist ware House, Great savings every day. Ladies. You 0:01:51.880 --> 0:01:53.120 feel in like a bit of therapy. 0:01:53.640 --> 0:01:55.760 Oh therapy Thursday. We love it. 0:01:55.840 --> 0:01:59.040 This is ask on Cut sanction. Let's jump in ask 0:01:59.320 --> 0:01:59.760 ur Cut. 0:02:02.040 --> 0:02:04.120 We do this every week on our podcast Life on 0:02:04.440 --> 0:02:08.040 Podcast where you guys ride in your deepest, darkest burning 0:02:08.120 --> 0:02:10.080 questions and we do our best to answer them. And 0:02:10.120 --> 0:02:13.000 we have someone that's called in this week beck Hi, 0:02:13.080 --> 0:02:13.639 beck I. 0:02:13.639 --> 0:02:18.440 Beg hi, guys, I'm so exciting to be talking to you. 0:02:18.639 --> 0:02:20.040 Please me, I've got a. 0:02:20.040 --> 0:02:25.760 Call I had. Oh it's the worst, excuse my name voice, 0:02:25.800 --> 0:02:28.200 but I've got a question for you. So it's do 0:02:28.320 --> 0:02:31.240 I change my last name? Basically, my partner and I 0:02:31.440 --> 0:02:34.079 we've been together for or five years and we got 0:02:34.080 --> 0:02:37.320 engaged finally at the start of this year, and our 0:02:37.320 --> 0:02:40.320 wedding is not too fast around the corner. It's in February. 0:02:40.480 --> 0:02:43.560 I had told my partner that I would absolutely change 0:02:43.560 --> 0:02:46.600 my last name and take his. However, as we're getting 0:02:46.639 --> 0:02:49.840 closer to the wedding, I'm getting cold feet and I'm 0:02:49.840 --> 0:02:51.320 feeling really nervous about. 0:02:51.040 --> 0:02:52.880 It, about the wedding or the name. 0:02:53.760 --> 0:02:58.360 More the name change because femininely child, my dad, his 0:02:58.520 --> 0:03:02.799 sibling is. He only has a sister. So my situation 0:03:03.040 --> 0:03:09.200 is if I take his name, like yeah, yeah, basically 0:03:09.240 --> 0:03:09.840 it ends with me. 0:03:10.240 --> 0:03:12.640 So what have you spoken to your partner about not 0:03:12.680 --> 0:03:14.440 wanting to take his name or that you are feeling 0:03:14.480 --> 0:03:16.600 like you're having a bit of a change of heart. 0:03:16.960 --> 0:03:20.200 Well, no, not yet, because I think he'll be a 0:03:20.200 --> 0:03:22.440 bit upset because I always said I would, and I 0:03:22.520 --> 0:03:26.079 think he won't understand why I would change my name. 0:03:26.360 --> 0:03:29.000 I didn't make a joke the other day about hyphenating, 0:03:29.240 --> 0:03:33.120 and he was like, wait what, And I think no. 0:03:33.160 --> 0:03:35.640 I think a hyphen's a happy medium. Look, the whole 0:03:35.800 --> 0:03:38.920 taking the man's name is very archaic. It always has been. 0:03:39.000 --> 0:03:41.320 It's just it's just what society expects of us. No 0:03:41.360 --> 0:03:43.000 one even knows why we do it anymore. It's just 0:03:43.040 --> 0:03:44.560 what we've been told to do, so we do it. 0:03:44.960 --> 0:03:47.280 I think trying to approach the hyphen if nothing else, 0:03:47.280 --> 0:03:48.680 so you don't have to completely change. 0:03:48.720 --> 0:03:50.200 But what are you going to do in the instance 0:03:50.240 --> 0:03:52.000 if you guys have kids, so say you do keep 0:03:52.040 --> 0:03:55.640 your name and then you have children together, what last 0:03:55.720 --> 0:03:57.560 name would you give the kids? 0:03:58.480 --> 0:04:01.640 This is this is the other thing I don't I 0:04:01.680 --> 0:04:03.640 would assume they just have to take his name. 0:04:04.880 --> 0:04:06.720 Well, that's the thing. Why why do you have to assume? Also, 0:04:06.760 --> 0:04:09.040 this is what I hate about this whole situation. Why 0:04:09.040 --> 0:04:11.040 does this have to happen? I understand the patriarchy, We're 0:04:11.040 --> 0:04:12.680 not going to destroy it in the three pm pickup, 0:04:12.880 --> 0:04:15.240 but I just feel you should. What do you want 0:04:15.240 --> 0:04:16.800 to do, Beck, Do you want to keep your surname 0:04:16.920 --> 0:04:19.159 or not? If it ends with you, does that upset you? 0:04:19.520 --> 0:04:21.839 It kind of does. And I feel like it's so 0:04:21.960 --> 0:04:23.960 nice that I have the same nickname as my dad 0:04:23.960 --> 0:04:26.680 because our surname's foodles. What's fun to be called goodie? 0:04:26.839 --> 0:04:29.200 Then keep it? Then My answer is keep it because 0:04:29.240 --> 0:04:30.880 if that's how you feel, keep it. And you have 0:04:30.920 --> 0:04:32.520 to have a conversation with your husband. 0:04:32.240 --> 0:04:34.120 It's so hard because what if you know, you have 0:04:34.240 --> 0:04:37.120 had these conversations all the way, you are obviously engaged now, 0:04:37.160 --> 0:04:38.919 and then you worry that when you do speak to 0:04:38.960 --> 0:04:40.760 him that he's going to react badly to it, like. 0:04:40.960 --> 0:04:42.640 Well, it's not the right partner, even totally. 0:04:43.880 --> 0:04:46.599 I mean that's very easy to say though, Like you know, 0:04:47.000 --> 0:04:49.680 and beck is actually living there. So if you do 0:04:49.760 --> 0:04:52.440 broach this conversation with him, do you feel that he 0:04:52.480 --> 0:04:54.440 will just be disappointed? Do you think he's going to 0:04:54.520 --> 0:04:56.599 want to call the wedding off? Like, what do you 0:04:56.600 --> 0:04:58.839 think will be his level of frustration? 0:04:59.400 --> 0:05:01.640 I think I don't think he would call the wedding off. 0:05:01.680 --> 0:05:04.320 I do think he would be really disappointed, and I 0:05:04.360 --> 0:05:07.000 think I get the feeling he would take it quite personally. 0:05:08.640 --> 0:05:11.560 I mean, I don't know your fiance, but I would 0:05:11.640 --> 0:05:13.039 think if he's going to pull the pin on the 0:05:13.080 --> 0:05:15.120 wedding over you broaching this, then it's. 0:05:15.000 --> 0:05:18.960 Probably perfectly honest. He needs to, and I'm sure he's 0:05:19.000 --> 0:05:20.920 a lovely person back, but he needs to understand the 0:05:21.000 --> 0:05:23.760 nuance of why you why it's important to you. I'm 0:05:23.760 --> 0:05:25.480 going to end up marrying a man one day, We're 0:05:25.480 --> 0:05:27.240 going to keep our names. Means nothing to us, and 0:05:27.240 --> 0:05:29.760 that's only because we have the privilege of being two men. 0:05:29.800 --> 0:05:32.240 He just needs to understand what is actually at play here. 0:05:32.240 --> 0:05:34.599 And I think regardless of whether or not you choose 0:05:34.640 --> 0:05:36.840 to keep your name, he needs to understand why it's 0:05:36.880 --> 0:05:37.960 important if you want. 0:05:37.800 --> 0:05:41.200 To beck speaking from experience, am I got married to 0:05:41.200 --> 0:05:43.680 my husband last year. His last name's Johnson, and I've 0:05:43.720 --> 0:05:46.400 remained a burn and both of our little girls have 0:05:46.440 --> 0:05:50.400 the last name Johnson Matt. When we originally got together, 0:05:50.560 --> 0:05:52.359 he very much said that he wanted us to have 0:05:52.400 --> 0:05:54.839 the same name in the household. He wanted me to 0:05:54.880 --> 0:05:57.080 take his name, and I sat down and had an 0:05:57.080 --> 0:05:59.600 honest conversation with him about how I really felt attached 0:05:59.600 --> 0:06:01.280 to my name and I really wanted to keep it, 0:06:01.320 --> 0:06:04.640 and I was so surprised by how okay he was 0:06:04.680 --> 0:06:06.840 with it once he realized how important it was to 0:06:06.880 --> 0:06:08.680 me and he never pushed back, so. 0:06:09.600 --> 0:06:11.480 You may be pleasantly surprised. 0:06:11.480 --> 0:06:13.159 But I think if you're just doing it because you 0:06:13.240 --> 0:06:15.600 don't want to disappoint him, but it doesn't feel authentic 0:06:15.600 --> 0:06:17.960 for you, then I think it's a really important conversation 0:06:18.000 --> 0:06:18.560 that you should have. 0:06:19.400 --> 0:06:22.040 Oh thank you, but actually makes me feel so much better. 0:06:22.040 --> 0:06:23.440 I'm going to tell him, Laura. 0:06:23.200 --> 0:06:24.880 Said, Yeah, did you tell him, Laura Burn? 0:06:27.000 --> 0:06:27.120 No? 0:06:27.200 --> 0:06:30.200 But sorry in your situation, Laura, Matt, your husband didn't 0:06:30.320 --> 0:06:32.640 change his name to Burn, So if you want all 0:06:32.680 --> 0:06:34.480 the same name as a family, that's where it comes 0:06:34.520 --> 0:06:35.280 to the issue. 0:06:35.560 --> 0:06:37.480 I don't mind. It's like we have kids. We obviously 0:06:37.520 --> 0:06:39.560 want to have kids together, and he would want the 0:06:39.640 --> 0:06:42.479 kids to have his name. It's just more maybe my name. 0:06:42.760 --> 0:06:44.760 Yeah, and that was a sacrifice we made as well. 0:06:45.080 --> 0:06:47.880 Yeah, oh no, that's really good to know that. Don't 0:06:48.360 --> 0:06:49.039 so much better. 0:06:49.560 --> 0:06:52.240 If the relationship falls apart, just blame Laura Burn. Yes, 0:06:53.160 --> 0:06:55.000 you know she's the one who pushed you. 0:06:54.960 --> 0:06:59.800 In the end, Laura Johnson, she doesn't exist's saying so much. 0:07:00.200 --> 0:07:01.840 If you want to get in touch, you can hit 0:07:01.920 --> 0:07:04.120 us up on the Pickupsocials or pickup dot Com. Dot 0:07:04.240 --> 0:07:05.560 you will get you on for an as gun cut. 0:07:05.600 --> 0:07:06.040 Coming up. 0:07:06.080 --> 0:07:09.320 I want to tell you guys about a very look 0:07:09.480 --> 0:07:11.560 got a little bit heated a fight that I had 0:07:11.680 --> 0:07:15.200 with my lovely husband Maddie J. I may have doubled down. 0:07:15.280 --> 0:07:17.440 Oh good, coming up, All right, that's next on the pickup. 0:07:17.640 --> 0:07:21.000 It is the pickup. Welcome Britt, Laura and Mitch here 0:07:21.040 --> 0:07:24.920 thanks to chemist Warehouse heading today great sievings every day. 0:07:25.120 --> 0:07:27.800 Do you, guys, ever have a fight with your partner 0:07:28.800 --> 0:07:31.120 and then you know that you're wrong, Like halfway through 0:07:31.160 --> 0:07:33.440 the fight, somewhere along the way, you're like, I've made 0:07:33.480 --> 0:07:34.440 a grave error here. 0:07:34.760 --> 0:07:36.760 But then you just double down because you're stubborn. 0:07:36.840 --> 0:07:38.840 It's the shame. You can't double down once you've picked 0:07:38.840 --> 0:07:40.840 a fight. You just have to. You got a hold on. 0:07:41.080 --> 0:07:43.000 Yeah, that was the only way to fight. That's what 0:07:43.080 --> 0:07:43.480 you do. 0:07:43.960 --> 0:07:47.560 Look to put it into perspective, my beautiful husband Matt 0:07:47.560 --> 0:07:49.720 and I we don't fight very often, but we bicker. 0:07:50.000 --> 0:07:51.920 We bicker like an old married couple, and I think 0:07:51.960 --> 0:07:53.960 it's what keeps the spark alive. 0:07:54.080 --> 0:07:55.679 You know, you are as a young married couple. 0:07:55.800 --> 0:07:57.680 I know, but you know we had kids before we 0:07:57.720 --> 0:07:58.280 got married. 0:07:58.360 --> 0:08:00.280 So like, we're well in the trenches, right, that's what 0:08:00.320 --> 0:08:01.280 you do when you're in the trenches. 0:08:01.280 --> 0:08:03.000 You're bicker. You're bicker, you're bicker. 0:08:03.160 --> 0:08:07.000 Anyway, recently, our youngest Lola, she's two years old. She's 0:08:07.040 --> 0:08:10.840 had a horrendous ear infection, and we're both running on 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:13.240 very little sleep. We are both tiged, and we are 0:08:13.280 --> 0:08:17.000 spread way too thin. Anyway, one night, her ear drum perforated. So, 0:08:17.120 --> 0:08:19.560 like I think some parents will know this. It's like 0:08:19.600 --> 0:08:23.800 when it's like they peek in pain, they're screaming, and 0:08:23.840 --> 0:08:26.200 then you walk in in the morning and all this 0:08:26.360 --> 0:08:29.960 gunk is just oozing out of their ears. Right, yuck, 0:08:30.040 --> 0:08:32.040 it's so yuck, But it also is just this moment 0:08:32.080 --> 0:08:34.520 of relief for them as well. So Lola, her ear 0:08:34.600 --> 0:08:36.960 drum are perforated, except I didn't know that that's what 0:08:37.000 --> 0:08:38.680 it was, or this gunk could come out of her ear. 0:08:39.120 --> 0:08:41.520 And I was like, well, she had swimming lessons in 0:08:41.559 --> 0:08:44.960 the morning, right, which, if your kids got an ear infection, 0:08:45.240 --> 0:08:47.360 you probably shouldn't send them to swimming lessons. 0:08:47.080 --> 0:08:51.400 No, definitely not if anyone as an ear infection, don't get. 0:08:51.400 --> 0:08:54.240 But also swimming lessons are expensive and her older sister 0:08:54.360 --> 0:08:55.920 was going, and so we were like, look, just go. 0:08:56.040 --> 0:09:00.480 She can kind of just get a legs wet. 0:09:03.800 --> 0:09:04.000 No. 0:09:03.800 --> 0:09:05.800 No, I was like, just just she can just play, 0:09:05.840 --> 0:09:07.480 like get her body wet, but don't like let her 0:09:07.559 --> 0:09:09.160 put her head under, you know, like don't let her 0:09:09.160 --> 0:09:13.760 get anything above the sort of the shoulders wet. But 0:09:13.840 --> 0:09:16.760 she's got a swim instructor. She could have just floated along. 0:09:16.840 --> 0:09:18.600 Her swim instructor could have bobbed her up and down 0:09:18.600 --> 0:09:21.160 a few times. Anyway, So that's what I said to Matt. 0:09:21.200 --> 0:09:23.040 I was like, she can go, but don't let her 0:09:23.080 --> 0:09:24.439 get her ear wet. 0:09:24.640 --> 0:09:27.320 And so she'd been assimming lessons for half an hour. 0:09:27.360 --> 0:09:29.240 I gave him a call and I was like, how's 0:09:29.240 --> 0:09:30.600 it all going, and he was like, oh, yeah, put 0:09:30.600 --> 0:09:33.319 a cap on, YadA YadA, yah, she's fine. I was like, 0:09:33.360 --> 0:09:35.160 what do you mean she's fine? And he was like, oh, 0:09:35.160 --> 0:09:37.520 she's she's okay, like you know, she's got a cap on. 0:09:37.800 --> 0:09:39.520 And now I felt like he wasn't taking the ear 0:09:39.559 --> 0:09:43.640 infection seriously enough, and I said she could go deaf 0:09:44.000 --> 0:09:46.080 was very dramatic, and then he got angry at me. Anyway, 0:09:46.120 --> 0:09:48.280 back and forth for a little bit The bickering escalated, 0:09:48.760 --> 0:09:50.560 and then he said, what's something he should never say 0:09:50.559 --> 0:09:51.000 on a call? 0:09:51.280 --> 0:09:56.440 He said, cheers pow? Oh them fight and were kids hard? 0:09:56.559 --> 0:09:57.600 Doesn't it cheese? 0:09:58.240 --> 0:10:01.240 It's as like, all right, ledge cheers poal. So of 0:10:01.280 --> 0:10:04.640 course I got angry and it escalated and I said. 0:10:04.360 --> 0:10:07.920 How dare you call me pal? I am not your pal? Anyway. 0:10:08.040 --> 0:10:10.280 It went on for a while and maybe I overreacted, 0:10:10.320 --> 0:10:14.000 and halfway through the overreacting, he said, are you sure 0:10:14.040 --> 0:10:16.599 you don't have your period? 0:10:16.120 --> 0:10:20.400 Hey, pal? 0:10:20.800 --> 0:10:23.320 And I was like, oh, oh, he doesn't want to 0:10:23.320 --> 0:10:25.160 have a bigger he wants a fire. 0:10:26.600 --> 0:10:27.040 Ready. 0:10:27.240 --> 0:10:29.760 So I was like, how dare and anyone knows, don't 0:10:29.800 --> 0:10:31.440 say this to someone. Don't ever say it to war 0:10:31.600 --> 0:10:34.960 who's angry? I was like, how dare you minimize my feelings? 0:10:35.240 --> 0:10:37.319 I was like, this is not because I am emotional. 0:10:37.559 --> 0:10:40.200 I was like, I, you are wrong. Anyway, this it escalated. 0:10:40.280 --> 0:10:43.720 I was yelling maybe I overreacted, and he was like 0:10:43.920 --> 0:10:45.880 I don't know about this, and I was like, I reckon, 0:10:46.040 --> 0:10:49.040 and he doubled down and he once again said, I reckon, 0:10:49.080 --> 0:10:50.240 you've got your period, so. 0:10:52.320 --> 0:10:53.640 Rude, rude. 0:10:53.679 --> 0:10:55.480 I'm not dating dating women? And I know that you 0:10:55.520 --> 0:10:56.720 don't say that to women. 0:10:56.920 --> 0:10:58.760 I don't say that, even if you think that might 0:10:58.800 --> 0:11:01.080 be the case, you don't say that. And so of 0:11:01.120 --> 0:11:03.040 course I told him he was completely wrong and what 0:11:03.080 --> 0:11:05.280 he'd done had made me so upset. I even sent 0:11:05.400 --> 0:11:07.839 him a text message afterwards, and I said to him 0:11:08.000 --> 0:11:10.320 that I feel like he's been less loving lately and 0:11:10.360 --> 0:11:12.280 he needs to really think about his behavior and he 0:11:12.320 --> 0:11:17.520 should call me and apologize. 0:11:18.320 --> 0:11:19.640 At this point, I'm just wondering where they are. 0:11:20.000 --> 0:11:22.440 Who knows where she has a head under the water. 0:11:22.679 --> 0:11:25.320 The entire assuming lesson. I was upset, and I'd send 0:11:25.320 --> 0:11:28.040 a few back and forth messages. Then I stood up 0:11:28.240 --> 0:11:31.319 and I was like, Ah, there it is. 0:11:31.880 --> 0:11:33.120 I think I just got my period. 0:11:34.679 --> 0:11:36.680 You didn't tell him that though you take that to 0:11:36.720 --> 0:11:38.280 the grave, you never admit. 0:11:38.720 --> 0:11:40.520 Don't tell him. You can't tell him. He'll win that 0:11:40.640 --> 0:11:41.320 argument forever. 0:11:41.400 --> 0:11:42.679 No, it's day four now, and I have to just 0:11:42.679 --> 0:11:45.560 tell him I've got a headache for seven days. 0:11:45.679 --> 0:11:46.760 That's so funny. 0:11:46.880 --> 0:11:48.959 I hate that he was right, and I really overreacted. 0:11:48.960 --> 0:11:50.600 And honey, if you're listening to this, I'm sorry that 0:11:50.679 --> 0:11:51.840 I'm such a walking cliche. 0:11:52.040 --> 0:11:53.680 Got to give him the credit it's like a basset hand. 0:11:53.679 --> 0:11:54.839 He knew like clockwork. 0:11:55.679 --> 0:11:58.200 Sniff it out me. Oh that's not it's just the 0:11:58.280 --> 0:12:00.000 once every month. I'm a peper. 0:12:00.240 --> 0:12:03.640 I'm a bit crazy and he knows it. And look, yeah, 0:12:03.679 --> 0:12:04.400 I really do hate that. 0:12:04.440 --> 0:12:06.280 I'm a walking cloichee Oh god. 0:12:06.880 --> 0:12:08.280 The Laura Johnson Byrne. 0:12:08.120 --> 0:12:12.320 Family Hunt can't wait to tell you what the arguments 0:12:12.360 --> 0:12:12.880 we have next week. 0:12:12.960 --> 0:12:14.760 All right back after this on the pickup. It is 0:12:14.800 --> 0:12:16.600 the Pickup with Britt, Laura and Mitch. 0:12:16.640 --> 0:12:16.800 Here. 0:12:16.840 --> 0:12:19.880 Hello, Hi, welcome rushing to chemist Warehouse for half price 0:12:19.920 --> 0:12:23.120 off vitamins and cosmetics, teas and c supply. Chemist Warehouse, 0:12:23.200 --> 0:12:24.120 great savings every day. 0:12:24.160 --> 0:12:26.120 You're always very bubbling, Mitch. And I think I've just 0:12:26.200 --> 0:12:27.440 realized why it is. 0:12:27.880 --> 0:12:29.880 I'm a nice, loving person with a great life and 0:12:29.920 --> 0:12:31.760 good friends and a radio show that I love and 0:12:31.800 --> 0:12:32.120 a door. 0:12:32.440 --> 0:12:36.160 You have zero stressing your life because you don't adult. 0:12:36.400 --> 0:12:38.319 You don't know how to adult, and you know how 0:12:38.360 --> 0:12:38.880 I know this. 0:12:39.000 --> 0:12:41.520 Hold on, where are you in on this intervention? 0:12:41.720 --> 0:12:43.840 I have done No, I am taking a back seat 0:12:43.920 --> 0:12:44.240 right here. 0:12:44.240 --> 0:12:46.720 Oh it's not an intervention, it's an accusation. I mean, 0:12:46.760 --> 0:12:48.800 you know, we're just getting coffee Laura before the show, 0:12:49.080 --> 0:12:51.160 and his mom called and he was on speaker. You know, 0:12:51.200 --> 0:12:52.920 he always puts Michelle on speaker. 0:12:52.760 --> 0:12:55.040 And Muma loves you guys, so careful what you say. 0:12:55.200 --> 0:12:57.640 We love your mum. I'm so nice to you. 0:12:57.720 --> 0:12:59.640 I'm Tim Michelle. This is why I'm bringing this up. 0:12:59.720 --> 0:13:03.120 And she asked Mitch what he wants for dinner, and 0:13:03.160 --> 0:13:04.840 I was like, Oh, that's cute. They're getting ready there 0:13:04.840 --> 0:13:05.880 go to order any breach. 0:13:05.720 --> 0:13:08.040 And for context, I've just moved back in with my 0:13:08.120 --> 0:13:09.359 parents at twenty seven. 0:13:09.200 --> 0:13:12.440 Yes, Mitch's twenty seven newly single Bad Breakup moved back 0:13:12.520 --> 0:13:13.280 with the fan. 0:13:15.200 --> 0:13:15.440 Bad? 0:13:15.679 --> 0:13:18.200 Wasn't that the summary? That was a summary? And so 0:13:18.640 --> 0:13:19.800 Michelle's like, what do you want for dinner? 0:13:19.800 --> 0:13:20.000 Mitch? 0:13:20.000 --> 0:13:21.560 I thought they were going to or eats and like 0:13:21.559 --> 0:13:23.880 have a movie night, and Mitch started to rattle off 0:13:24.040 --> 0:13:27.320 this really long list. He wanted his mom to go 0:13:27.320 --> 0:13:29.640 and get from the grocery store. Then he rattled off 0:13:29.720 --> 0:13:34.959 a breakfast list salmon, multi grain, low carb bread and 0:13:35.600 --> 0:13:36.280 poached eggs. 0:13:36.400 --> 0:13:39.000 Then he said, if they have any of like this 0:13:39.120 --> 0:13:40.880 caviari and everything he likes that. 0:13:41.080 --> 0:13:43.719 No, it's not Wait, brit So was this just a 0:13:43.880 --> 0:13:46.079 shopping order. Or is your mom doing the cooking? 0:13:46.160 --> 0:13:46.439 Bitch? 0:13:46.520 --> 0:13:49.600 No, like she cooks every meal, Laura, every meal? Which, Turia, 0:13:49.720 --> 0:13:51.600 do you even know how to adult? 0:13:51.880 --> 0:13:54.400 Listen here they have said, we want to help you 0:13:54.440 --> 0:13:56.440 get back on your feet. So how we will help 0:13:56.760 --> 0:13:59.160 is we would just cook your meals for you. No, 0:13:59.360 --> 0:14:01.720 so my mum and my dad cooked my dinners and 0:14:01.760 --> 0:14:03.800 some of my breakfast and maybe a lunch if they're free. 0:14:03.920 --> 0:14:06.640 Okay, who is doing and snacks? Who is doing? Like 0:14:06.679 --> 0:14:09.400 you're washing and you're tidying of your person. 0:14:09.520 --> 0:14:11.559 You are in on this intervention. My mom does all 0:14:11.559 --> 0:14:12.000 my washing. 0:14:12.040 --> 0:14:15.040 No, she doesn't know I live at home. She does 0:14:15.600 --> 0:14:16.240 in taxes to. 0:14:18.280 --> 0:14:22.400 She does, Mitch, you're never gonna get into a relationship 0:14:22.480 --> 0:14:23.680 because you live like a charge. 0:14:23.760 --> 0:14:25.920 She just itemized some of the receipts that I printed, 0:14:25.920 --> 0:14:28.840 and she scanned them and put them in a word doc. Listen. No, no, no, no, no, 0:14:28.880 --> 0:14:31.120 because it's actually easier for my mum to do mine. 0:14:31.480 --> 0:14:34.160 Let me tell you why. Because no, it is because 0:14:34.200 --> 0:14:36.440 it'd be so confusing if if I said, I also 0:14:36.480 --> 0:14:38.320 need the washing machine. So I just put it in 0:14:38.360 --> 0:14:39.880 the basket with everyone, and she does it all in 0:14:39.880 --> 0:14:40.800 one go Mitch. 0:14:40.840 --> 0:14:43.480 This is literally weaponized in confidence to try and turn 0:14:43.520 --> 0:14:45.680 around and say, oh, it's easier for mom to do 0:14:45.720 --> 0:14:47.160 it because she's already doing it. 0:14:47.160 --> 0:14:49.720 It's not easier, it's more work. She enjoys it. 0:14:50.080 --> 0:14:52.680 This is no one I'm always washing My mom. 0:14:52.520 --> 0:14:54.320 Works two days a week, and God bless it, she 0:14:54.600 --> 0:14:56.800 loves looking after the family. That she's the best mum 0:14:56.800 --> 0:14:59.040 in the whole world, and she has offered to do this. 0:14:59.120 --> 0:15:01.760 I lived alone for years. I can adult. I may 0:15:01.760 --> 0:15:05.280 have forgotten certain key aspects, but I'm getting to help mom. 0:15:05.520 --> 0:15:07.600 She gets up before she goes to work, and you 0:15:07.640 --> 0:15:10.600 don't start work until two o'clock because we do the afternoon. 0:15:10.680 --> 0:15:11.479 Huh. 0:15:11.520 --> 0:15:14.160 And you make her cook you breakfast before she goes 0:15:14.160 --> 0:15:16.520 to work, a hot breakfast, mind you, I heard what 0:15:16.560 --> 0:15:18.400 you said. You don't have to be at workd o. 0:15:18.800 --> 0:15:18.920 No. 0:15:21.040 --> 0:15:24.960 She meal preps on a Sunday night and she freezes. 0:15:25.520 --> 0:15:27.320 I wonder how many people are living like you. 0:15:27.840 --> 0:15:29.520 Well, the laundry is the worst part, I think, because 0:15:29.520 --> 0:15:31.120 that's like I'll go through. I've been through a lot 0:15:31.160 --> 0:15:33.160 of clothes in my hot Go walk Era. I'm sweating too. 0:15:33.520 --> 0:15:35.720 Oh God, you've set this whole thing up. Rihanna's here 0:15:35.760 --> 0:15:39.000 on six five. What's what was your mum doing for you? Rihanna? 0:15:39.520 --> 0:15:41.200 My mom is ironing for me. 0:15:41.680 --> 0:15:42.320 How old are you? 0:15:42.400 --> 0:15:45.240 Rand And I'm thirty and I've got two small kids 0:15:45.280 --> 0:15:45.880 at home too. 0:15:46.080 --> 0:15:48.440 That's so funny for you. 0:15:48.880 --> 0:15:51.760 Is it just because the volume of ironing is too high? 0:15:51.880 --> 0:15:53.560 Or is it because you don't ever want to iron? 0:15:53.600 --> 0:15:54.920 So your mom's like, fine, give it to me. 0:15:55.120 --> 0:15:58.200 Come on, that's her and she loves it, so I 0:15:58.240 --> 0:16:01.360 can't deny her. I'll take it my washingye, And and. 0:16:01.440 --> 0:16:02.280 Thank you God. 0:16:03.400 --> 0:16:04.920 Don there an intervention for you. 0:16:05.080 --> 0:16:08.440 There is no mother on the planet who enjoys ironing. 0:16:08.560 --> 0:16:08.840 Stop. 0:16:10.760 --> 0:16:13.200 My mom puts on a podcast too, and she loves 0:16:13.840 --> 0:16:17.200 life podcast she does, Thanks, Rihanna, And I love you, babe, Hianna. 0:16:17.360 --> 0:16:19.240