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Speaker 1: All right, cheeky one's heads up, Saucy Secrets is about

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Speaker 1: This isn't your average radio chat. It has adult themes

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Speaker 1: It's Saucy Secrets. I'm kiss Saucy Secrets. Now.

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Speaker 3: Now, well, you've got a massive first show.

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Speaker 2: Of saucy secrets coming up, including one of Okay, so

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Speaker 2: you're a you're a relationship dating a sex columnist for

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Speaker 2: many publications all around the world, and that involves you

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Speaker 2: going on some rather interesting and somewhat sourcy assignments.

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Speaker 1: I have the best job in the world. Yeah, basically

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Speaker 1: all the things that I got in trouble for at school,

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Speaker 1: don't talk about sex. I went to a Catholic.

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Speaker 3: Didn't pay for it?

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Speaker 2: Now I get paid for it? Did The Chili Pepers

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Speaker 2: released a song called Catholic School Girls Rule apparently?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it checks out, it checks out?

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Speaker 2: One of the many incredible adventures that you've been on

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Speaker 2: recently an orgasm retreat I did. Yeah, what happens at

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Speaker 2: that's in the title will get to that inter second.

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Speaker 2: But how do you become a sex columnist? And who

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Speaker 2: is Janat Hawking? We're going to do that next. We

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Speaker 2: thought we'd sort of kick off the show by sort

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Speaker 3: Who is Jenna Hawking? What makes for tick?

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Speaker 2: And how did she end up in this weird and

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Speaker 1: It's so fun?

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Speaker 3: Question number one, how did you become a sex colmness?

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Speaker 1: Okay, So I did study journalism in UNI, and then

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Speaker 3: Their Have you ever had a walk of shame?

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Speaker 1: I have slept with semberj just Sig, Sammy B, Sammy B.

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Speaker 3: So what's what's the worst date you've been on?

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Speaker 1: The worst date was a guy. This was before I

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Speaker 2: So he wasn't like ninety five years old and wearing

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Speaker 2: I was going to ask, what's the one story you've

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Speaker 1: I'm so proud of you, but I will never read

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Speaker 2: I'm assuming them that neither your brother, your mother, or

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Speaker 2: Californian desert.

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Speaker 2: going to talk about that next. Growing up, most of

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Speaker 1: You haven't been on one now, I highly recommend it.

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Speaker 1: So this came about because I was a columns for

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Speaker 1: eventually I found this ranch. It was beautiful, and I

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Speaker 1: arrived in Pamela the sexologist there she was when around

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Speaker 1: You've come all this way cleaning, and she gathered all

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Speaker 2: So let's backtrack just a second, because I want to

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Speaker 3: Welcome to Saucy Secrets. This is our.

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Speaker 2: First ever episode with dating and sex calmness. Janna hockeing, Hey,

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I remember a happy place. That's seck good.

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Speaker 2: This is also an educational show in case, in case

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Speaker 3: How not to get caught in a brothel.

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Speaker 1: Very important.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know the dos and don'ts if you are

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Speaker 3: We will do that in just a moment.

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Speaker 2: But one of the things I guess that help you

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I was just bored one Monday night and

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Speaker 2: So what we thought we'd do on this show every

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Speaker 2: And we are literally starting with a bang tonight. Someone

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Speaker 1: At sometimes why not.

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Speaker 2: I've rid in our first saucy secret. Next, I guess

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Speaker 1: It was lockdown. I was bored, I was slightly horny.

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Do we like that?

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Speaker 1: She's popping our cherry and I'm very happy about it?

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Speaker 1: What should we call her? Because she wants to be anonymous.

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Speaker 1: I keep thinking Candy Candy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, would you like to pick your own alias?

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Speaker 3: It's completely up to you. Saucy secrety' I think Charlotte's nice.

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Speaker 2: There we go, all right, classy, we've got Charlotte with us.

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Speaker 1: So, Charlotte, you met your husband at twenty nine years old,

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Speaker 1: How do you do it for twenty years?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Life has changed nowadays. It's a throwaway society marriage wife.

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Speaker 4: I think I was reading an article in a magazine

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Speaker 4: really changed for me because I wasn't really into mainstream

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00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:35,200
Speaker 4: dating sites because I wasn't really after a relationship at first.

441
00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:40,560
Speaker 4: So I discovered this sex site online and that really

442
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Speaker 4: changed my life for the better. I think, all.

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Speaker 3: Right, I'm just going to say it. I'm going to

444
00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:44,960
Speaker 3: say it.

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Speaker 2: All right, Charlotte, you're beating around the bush and I've

446
00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:47,679
Speaker 2: got on this piece of paper.

447
00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:51,040
Speaker 3: What it is that you did is true.

448
00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:54,359
Speaker 4: Yes, that you had an.

449
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Speaker 2: Encounter special cuddle with two other people in the room

450
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Speaker 2: at the same time two men died.

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Speaker 4: Yes, it was actually much better than what I expected.

452
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Speaker 4: It was just amazing. It was one of the nicest

453
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Speaker 4: experiences actually, because.

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Speaker 1: I always wonder like, is it awkward where people put

455
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Speaker 1: their hands where they know, you know what?

456
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Speaker 4: It just flowed. I think there was one there that

457
00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:23,200
Speaker 4: who had actually been experienced in this field before, so yes,

458
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Speaker 4: he was the one who was sort of guarding the way.

459
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Speaker 4: It just made it really really easy.

460
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Speaker 1: So you need a team leader to kind of steer

461
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Speaker 1: the ship and then you just go with it. And

462
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Speaker 1: not to be true, but I'm going to ask the

463
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Speaker 1: question that everyone wants to know it was two men?

464
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Speaker 1: Was there any crossing swords?

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Speaker 4: Not at all. No. One was sort of sitting probably,

466
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Speaker 4: you know, watching for a little bit while the action

467
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Speaker 4: was happening.

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Speaker 1: Oh, that's very And then what's it like afterwards? Do

469
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Speaker 1: you shake hands? Is there a sleepover? You'll be sure

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Speaker 1: to know. I've never had a threesome.

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Speaker 4: I am shocked. I'm very shocked. I think we could

472
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Speaker 4: talk about this another time off air.

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Speaker 3: By the sounds of things, if you want.

474
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Speaker 4: Honestly, yeah, if I can plan it for you, I

475
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:15,960
Speaker 4: can organize it.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, So how long ago was this? It has

477
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Speaker 2: there been another one since?

478
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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: No, there hasn't been another one that was probably maybe

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Speaker 4: six months ago. There hasn't as yet, but never say never.

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Speaker 1: Wow, And not to be rude, but can I ask

482
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Speaker 1: your age?

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Speaker 4: I am r.

484
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Speaker 1: Yeah, so you had your first threesome in your mid

485
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Speaker 1: fifties exactly.

486
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Speaker 4: I I don't know what's around the corner. I think

487
00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 4: once I hit menopause, I became very sexual. I haven't

488
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:54,320
Speaker 4: needed to be fed. Yes, it was like my sex

489
00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:57,240
Speaker 4: strike went through the roof, and I think I've been

490
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Speaker 4: having fun ever since.

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Speaker 1: There's got to be some upside to menopause.

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Speaker 4: Of course, I've got another.

493
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Speaker 1: Friend who said that. She said, because we all think

494
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Speaker 1: that women lose their libidos and a lot of the cads.

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Speaker 4: Okay, every woman is different, but I wasn't expecting this.

496
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Speaker 4: I've certainly made up that's the next th.

497
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Speaker 2: Reason being organized in the background. Better picked that one up.

498
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Speaker 3: You don't want to miss it.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Charlotte, thank you so much for being our very

500
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Speaker 2: first saucy secrete.

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Speaker 1: We appreciate.

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Speaker 2: Brothels next topic of conversation on the show tonight. It's

503
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Speaker 2: not something that I've had anything to do with. It's

504
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Speaker 2: not a place that I frequent, but apparently, not only

505
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Speaker 2: is it incredibly common, but there are weird and wonderful

506
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Speaker 2: ways that men are getting caught in set establishments.

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Speaker 1: Listen, they do say that men have two options. They

508
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Speaker 1: think through their brain or they think through their pants,

509
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Speaker 1: and they cannot think with both at the same time.

510
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Speaker 3: Men can't multitask. Let's be honest.

511
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Speaker 1: No, they really can't, and thank god because it makes

512
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:04,720
Speaker 1: for a great story. So this brothel owner, cord Catherine

513
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:07,520
Speaker 1: de Noir, so she's come out and she's spoken to

514
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Speaker 1: a journalist and told of the many different ways men

515
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Speaker 1: have been caught at her brothel, and she's had screaming

516
00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:17,480
Speaker 1: wives turning up demanding not good for business, not great

517
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Speaker 1: for business, but great for us. So she's said that,

518
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Speaker 1: she said a lot of men get caught by leaving

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Speaker 1: their phone location on. So you're married, do you have

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Speaker 1: Find my Friends with your wife?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: I don't. I've never never had it at all, really no, never.

523
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Speaker 1: Well you need to check that because actually now a

524
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Speaker 1: lot of wives are putting air tags in their men's.

525
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Speaker 2: Maybe because I'm really boring and she knows that I'm

526
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Speaker 2: not going to go anywhere and do anything, so there's

527
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Speaker 2: no real need.

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Speaker 1: Well, a lot of people do they have Find my Friends'

529
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Speaker 1: locations on with their partners, And these men just forget

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Speaker 1: to turn them off, and then all of a sudden

531
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Speaker 1: their wife is like, why is my husband at the

532
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Speaker 1: White Rabbit?

533
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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 1: This other way that men are finding out is so dumb.

535
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Speaker 1: So they're withdrawing large sums of money from the car's

536
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Speaker 1: joint account. That seems silly to me, but from the

537
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Speaker 1: brothel atm because.

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Speaker 2: You can see that on your bank statement where it's

539
00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:07,720
Speaker 2: been withdrawn from.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and they're turning up in brothels. She said, there

541
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Speaker 1: was one man that directly transferred from his joint bank

542
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Speaker 1: account with his partner to a personal account of the

543
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Speaker 1: sex worker he was seeing.

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Speaker 3: What do you think that comes up as on the statement.

545
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 1: A tricksy bell or candy.

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Speaker 2: From your experience, you know, with sex and dating and

547
00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:32,120
Speaker 2: all that kind of stuff, is brothel visits?

548
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Speaker 3: Is it a common thing?

549
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:37,360
Speaker 1: Super common? Super common? She also put in how men

550
00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:40,119
Speaker 1: are actually getting away with being to brothels, and I

551
00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:43,760
Speaker 1: found that more interesting than the men that are getting caught.

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00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:46,679
Speaker 1: So she said things like men will come during their

553
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Speaker 1: lunch breaks. See, I'm telling you lunch breaks are I think.

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Speaker 2: I mean a lot of men are sprinters. I guess

555
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:53,200
Speaker 2: it's not exactly a marathon, so they don't need time, right.

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Speaker 1: It does not surprise, yeah at all. They're leaving their

557
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Speaker 1: phone in the office, they're turning off their shed occasion.

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Speaker 1: I love that a lot of men are getting money

559
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Speaker 1: out at ATMs, really really far from a brothel.

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Speaker 3: It's a lot of admin, isn't it. It's a lot

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Speaker 3: of admin for the.

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Speaker 1: Best two minutes of their lives, right, yeah, yeah, so oh,

563
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Speaker 1: She said, they also bring cash. They never withdraw money nearby,

564
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Speaker 1: They keep no receipts, and they take a shower after

565
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Speaker 1: this session. So there's no sense that feels like a

566
00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:26,000
Speaker 1: no brainer, right, I mean, that's just good manners.

567
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Speaker 2: Wider blokes do this because it feels like it's really

568
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Speaker 2: fraught with danger.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it really is. But for a lot of men.

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Speaker 1: I get a lot of men slide into my DMS

571
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 1: and tell me why. Most of them are usually my

572
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 1: wife doesn't want to have sex anymore. She's lost her libido,

573
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:44,280
Speaker 1: she's not interested. I'm still a man, I still have needs.

574
00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:48,360
Speaker 1: But then there are other men who have kinks that

575
00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 1: they want to explore, and they don't feel comfortable doing

576
00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 1: it with their wives, so they go explore these kinks elsewhere.

577
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:57,359
Speaker 1: That's the most common.

578
00:27:57,440 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 2: So instead of just having you know, probably an uncomfortable

579
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 2: conversation with their partner, they go, no, wait a minute,

580
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:04,439
Speaker 2: the best way to deal with this is to go

581
00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:06,560
Speaker 2: and sleep with someone else out of brothel and go

582
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:09,399
Speaker 2: through all those outrageous steps you outlined before to completely

583
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Speaker 2: get away with it and lead a double lot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, Well, then there's just the men who just

585
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:15,680
Speaker 1: want to feel like a legend. Oh and they're still

586
00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:18,399
Speaker 1: getting it at home. They're in perfectly loving marriages, but

587
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:20,600
Speaker 1: they want to feel like a real legend.

588
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:22,439
Speaker 3: Bloods luods, luds, bluds lads.

589
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Speaker 2: Let's get into the needy gritty, the stats, the details.

590
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:30,640
Speaker 2: What is it that gets Australians going in the bedroom

591
00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 2: because we have got the sex census data in.

592
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Speaker 3: Front of us.

593
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 1: Yes, So the biggest question was what is Australia's top

594
00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:42,200
Speaker 1: turn on? And I call utter bullshit on this one

595
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:45,560
Speaker 1: because last year it was everyone was turned on by threes?

596
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 1: IM sure, okay, I get that, But this year the

597
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 1: biggest turn on was slow build, romantic seduction, snare.

598
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 3: Romance is sexy as well? What do you mean?

599
00:28:57,520 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 1: I want to know who they asked, because I just

600
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 1: don't believe that the biggest turn on was like, you

601
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Speaker 1: look really pretty. Let's have sluic.

602
00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 2: People filling out forms in front of their partners. That's

603
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Speaker 2: probably who's written that. Oh no, I'm all about the romance.

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Speaker 1: You're so right, you're so right. There was another interesting one,

605
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Speaker 1: so one in three Aussies say their sexuality has become

606
00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 1: more open and fluid over time. Okay, I would believe that.

607
00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 1: Another one was, oh this is not surprising missionary and

608
00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:29,640
Speaker 1: doggie style are still the most common sexual positions deployed

609
00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:33,080
Speaker 1: by the nation. Yeah, that's true, Like sometimes you just

610
00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 1: want comfort. Oh, this one upset me. Oral sex is

611
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 1: more common in casual relationships than it is for long

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Speaker 1: term unions.

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Speaker 2: Why is that because it's naughty and exciting? So when

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Speaker 2: you first meet someone, I don't know. Is it because

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Speaker 2: you're the expert?

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Speaker 3: Why are you asking me?

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Speaker 1: Well, I think at the start you're really trying to

618
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Speaker 1: impress each other. Yeah, so you're going to that extra

619
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Speaker 1: evert Now, I haven't been in a long.

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Speaker 3: Term you have nothing to write about if that was

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Speaker 3: the case.

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Speaker 1: You know, I've been in a situationship and we are

623
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Speaker 1: very giving in our situationships. So to find out that,

624
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 1: like couples aren't giving each other oral sex anymore just

625
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Speaker 1: makes me sad.

626
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Speaker 2: Maybe maybe that relates to one of these other stats.

627
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Speaker 2: And to be honest, I looked at this and was

628
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Speaker 2: somewhat surprised that sixty four percent of people are satisfied

629
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Speaker 2: with their sex lives.

630
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Speaker 3: Does that feel high?

631
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Speaker 2: Group?

632
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:21,080
Speaker 1: No, that feels grim. Why I thought it was.

633
00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:22,000
Speaker 3: High for some reason?

634
00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:22,239
Speaker 2: What?

635
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 3: Yeah?

636
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Speaker 1: No?

637
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:27,920
Speaker 2: Now, sex tech has become a thriving industry as well.

638
00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:31,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've got what'sapp groups we've named after our favorite

639
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:31,640
Speaker 1: sex toy.

640
00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 3: Really, obviously all juju sex toys naturally.

641
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 1: Is what there are, obviously, especially this purple one. Here

642
00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:40,360
Speaker 1: is the it listen. I've been using it all week

643
00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:42,240
Speaker 1: and it's incredible. It's called the one too, and I

644
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 1: highly recommend it and it comes in a pretty purple color.

645
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Speaker 2: Forty three percent of Aussies are using vibrators regularly or occasionally.

646
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Speaker 1: I think that's a very polite estimate.

647
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Speaker 3: Do you think it's higher than that?

648
00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:57,520
Speaker 1: Well, I did a check with all my girlfriends and

649
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Speaker 1: I would say it's eighty percent and a lot of

650
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 1: them I didn't use one until lockdown yep, and lockdown

651
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 1: was low.

652
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Speaker 2: I'm assuming most of the time they're used when it's

653
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Speaker 2: a person on their own, but how often are they

654
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Speaker 2: being used and brought into the bedroom with a sexual partner?

655
00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:16,680
Speaker 1: Not necessarily. I know a lot of guys that get

656
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 1: off on watching their partner use one, But then I

657
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:24,840
Speaker 1: also know a lot of guys who are intimidated by it. Yeah,

658
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 1: my ask Johnna Colum. We get at least one question

659
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 1: a week. That's my wife brought a vibrator into the bedroom.

660
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 1: I'm so horrified, how can I compete? I had one

661
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Speaker 1: guy message me once and he was like, my wife

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Speaker 1: got a really, really big one and now I can't

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Speaker 1: get it up because I'm.

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Speaker 2: So dron and they've got batteries that, let's be honest,

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Speaker 2: most blokes cannot keep up with. If you are looking

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Speaker 2: to bring sex tech into the bedroom, there obviously is

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Speaker 2: an obvious place to turn, and that is the Legends

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Speaker 2: at Juju joyou dot com dot Au will be mentioning

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Speaker 2: all show that we do have one to give away,

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Speaker 2: and we've got one. We've got one here. It is

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Speaker 2: the we Vibe wand two. Before we tell people how

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Speaker 2: to win this, you've given this a crack, You've road

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Speaker 2: tested it.

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Speaker 1: Yes, Now this is designed for the clean and that's

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Speaker 1: where a lot of women will be brought to August.

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Speaker 3: This giant thing is designed for don't.

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Speaker 1: Be deceived by how big it is. You just want

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Speaker 1: to place it at see the go.

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Speaker 3: I'm already getting intimidated by it.

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Speaker 1: No, I swear it's really really good. So I used it. Sadly,

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Speaker 1: I am so tragically single at the moment, so I

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Speaker 1: just used it on myself. It really did the job

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Speaker 1: for me this week ten stars.

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Speaker 2: So if you want to pick up one of these

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Speaker 2: we vibe ones from the legends at juju Kiss dot

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Speaker 2: com dot I, you jump on there now. We can

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Speaker 2: send it your way, not the ones that we've been handling.

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Speaker 2: By the way, it to be beautifully clean.

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Speaker 1: We'll keep those.

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Speaker 2: Hey, that's the first show done. We got there. We're

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Speaker 2: still on air, I know, right, I mean, who knows.

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Speaker 2: The plug might have been pulled and we're just sitting

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Speaker 2: in here yapping on thank you.

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Speaker 3: That was fun.

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Speaker 1: I loved it. I loved every second. Egress