WEBVTT - Ask Uncut - He Doubled Down On Why He Ghosted Me 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:03.840 Life Uncut acknowledges the traditional custodians of country whose lands 0:00:03.880 --> 0:00:06.600 were never seated. We pay our respects to their elders 0:00:06.600 --> 0:00:07.640 past and present. 0:00:07.600 --> 0:00:11.360 Always was, always will be Aboriginal Land. This episode was 0:00:11.400 --> 0:00:12.799 recorded on Cameragle Land. 0:00:22.600 --> 0:00:25.479 Hi guys, and welcome back to another episode of Life Uncut. 0:00:25.560 --> 0:00:30.120 I'm Brittany and I'm Laura, and today is Thursday Therapy, Thursday, 0:00:30.160 --> 0:00:31.880 Ask gun Cut, where you're write in you did the 0:00:32.000 --> 0:00:33.680 darkest questions, we answer them before that. 0:00:34.320 --> 0:00:36.400 It's not only Thursday, it's not only ask gun Cut, 0:00:36.479 --> 0:00:36.959 but it is. 0:00:36.880 --> 0:00:41.000 Our last record before we take a little teeny weenie Vaca. 0:00:41.159 --> 0:00:42.760 Yes, it very much is. We meant to tell you 0:00:42.800 --> 0:00:46.080 this on Tuesday's episode. We had planned and we were like, Okay, 0:00:46.120 --> 0:00:47.479 we're going to talk about the fact that we're going 0:00:47.520 --> 0:00:50.440 on a mini little holiday just two weeks off, and 0:00:50.479 --> 0:00:53.159 then we got excited and we forgot about it because 0:00:53.320 --> 0:00:54.920 engagements trump holidays. 0:00:54.960 --> 0:00:57.160 So I can't understand why that happened. And there's definitely 0:00:57.160 --> 0:01:02.560 a pecking order. It goes diarrhea, engagement holidays, engagement, NITS holiday. 0:01:02.720 --> 0:01:05.840 I think that that's the order. Nits, no awards, knits holiday. 0:01:05.920 --> 0:01:09.480 That's that's what it is. This engagement wasn't at the bottom. Also, 0:01:09.520 --> 0:01:10.360 I thoroughly enjoyed it. 0:01:10.520 --> 0:01:13.200 Somebody wrote in on our our YouTube channel, so if 0:01:13.200 --> 0:01:15.319 you guys haven't seen it and you've listened to tuesday's episode, 0:01:15.319 --> 0:01:18.399 you can also watch Tuesday's episode on the YouTube so 0:01:18.440 --> 0:01:21.680 life on cut podcast YouTube, and someone had written, actually, 0:01:21.720 --> 0:01:23.200 I'll read it to you because that really gave me 0:01:23.240 --> 0:01:24.119 a giggle this morning. 0:01:24.680 --> 0:01:27.160 When you just said the YouTube, it was so boomer. 0:01:27.280 --> 0:01:29.360 It was like, it's the same as people saying you. 0:01:29.280 --> 0:01:31.480 Can watch it on the Instagram, you can watch it 0:01:31.520 --> 0:01:34.040 on the YouTube, just on YouTube, just on YouTube. 0:01:34.080 --> 0:01:36.440 I am a millennial and I'm okay with that. I 0:01:36.440 --> 0:01:38.640 feel like I'm becoming more millennial as the days go on. 0:01:39.480 --> 0:01:41.800 I've been a lifer since twenty twenty, and it is 0:01:41.880 --> 0:01:44.560 so beautiful to see how much you have flourished together. 0:01:45.000 --> 0:01:48.720 Congrats on the award producer, Keisha, huge congratulations to you, 0:01:48.800 --> 0:01:51.040 Ben and to Britt and Laura. I am so sorry 0:01:51.040 --> 0:01:54.320 about your knits. It was like, thank you, condolences. 0:01:54.760 --> 0:01:57.000 That is the time of sympathy that I need rip 0:01:57.120 --> 0:01:57.720 to your scalp. 0:01:57.800 --> 0:02:00.240 Well, we are going on a two week break pretty 0:02:00.320 --> 0:02:01.120 much as of tomorrow. 0:02:01.440 --> 0:02:03.840 What is your plans exactly? You don't even know yet. 0:02:04.000 --> 0:02:06.200 No, we had to book really last minute because we 0:02:06.240 --> 0:02:07.880 never know what happens with Ben's football. 0:02:07.920 --> 0:02:09.919 Sometimes they want you to go back like his job. 0:02:10.000 --> 0:02:11.440 Sometimes they want you to go back early, or go 0:02:11.440 --> 0:02:13.320 somewhere else, to go to a training camp or whatever. 0:02:13.480 --> 0:02:15.320 So we always have to wait till the last minute 0:02:15.320 --> 0:02:17.400 to see if this time. So we just booked a 0:02:17.440 --> 0:02:20.239 couple of days ago. We're going back to see Sherry, 0:02:20.320 --> 0:02:24.040 my sister, Sherry and Jay. We've randomly book We just 0:02:24.120 --> 0:02:26.440 picked one place in Europe. So we're flying an all 0:02:26.440 --> 0:02:27.320 meeting in Malta. 0:02:27.639 --> 0:02:29.799 Oh my god, amazing that. You know that's what Matt's 0:02:29.840 --> 0:02:31.280 favorite place in Europe that he's been to. 0:02:31.440 --> 0:02:33.720 Well, I really yeah, I really wanted to try and 0:02:33.760 --> 0:02:35.920 go somewhere I haven't been because I did in my 0:02:36.040 --> 0:02:37.960 youth spend a lot of time in Europe. So I 0:02:38.000 --> 0:02:39.560 was like, I want to go somewhere new. Sherry hasn't 0:02:39.560 --> 0:02:42.160 been there other so we're going to Malta. So random, 0:02:42.200 --> 0:02:42.880 but I can't wait. 0:02:43.120 --> 0:02:44.840 But on the Blue Lagoon there is one of the 0:02:44.840 --> 0:02:46.400 most beautiful places in the world. 0:02:46.560 --> 0:02:48.679 Yeah, and it's so small so we're going to rent 0:02:48.680 --> 0:02:50.520 a car and you can get everywhere, but we've only 0:02:50.520 --> 0:02:52.720 got four or five it's very short four or five days. 0:02:52.880 --> 0:02:55.280 But on the way we're stopping in the mal Dives, 0:02:59.720 --> 0:03:02.720 just like a sneaky little bypass. You know. 0:03:02.760 --> 0:03:05.160 Most people have like their holiday destination that they frequent 0:03:05.200 --> 0:03:07.120 it's like Byron Bay or down the coast. 0:03:07.160 --> 0:03:09.240 And Brittany goes to the Maldives. She was like, we're 0:03:09.280 --> 0:03:11.720 just popping back in. Well, I this is Ben. Ben 0:03:11.760 --> 0:03:13.120 wanted to go there really badly. 0:03:13.200 --> 0:03:14.919 He loved it so much and he only gets one 0:03:14.919 --> 0:03:17.079 holiday a year, so he was like, can we stop 0:03:17.120 --> 0:03:19.080 in the Maldives? And I'm like, I mean, the worst 0:03:19.080 --> 0:03:21.040 place is to stop. The mountains is so hard to 0:03:21.080 --> 0:03:21.360 get to. 0:03:21.400 --> 0:03:24.000 It's not fourteen direct flight, is it? 0:03:24.080 --> 0:03:24.320 Yeah? 0:03:24.520 --> 0:03:26.200 Fourteen and a half hour, It's not. 0:03:26.120 --> 0:03:28.440 That hard to get going to the Bermuda Triangle. I 0:03:28.440 --> 0:03:31.040 think people think it's really far. No, I think people 0:03:31.080 --> 0:03:32.079 just think it's really expensive. 0:03:32.080 --> 0:03:32.320 It is. 0:03:34.440 --> 0:03:36.720 You can do it really expensive or you can do 0:03:36.760 --> 0:03:38.680 it pretty cheap too. It just depends on what you 0:03:38.720 --> 0:03:40.640 want to stay, what island and how lush like it's 0:03:40.680 --> 0:03:43.800 like anywhere you can go to Barley and do it cheap, 0:03:43.800 --> 0:03:47.240 waller expensive, like there's always options. But that's my holiday. 0:03:47.280 --> 0:03:48.000 What are you doing, Laura? 0:03:48.120 --> 0:03:51.160 So I am going to India on Sunday and my 0:03:51.280 --> 0:03:54.160 sister and I with Tony May. We manufacture at all 0:03:54.160 --> 0:03:56.280 different places, but in India that's where we get a 0:03:56.320 --> 0:03:58.560 lot of our stones from because that is like such 0:03:58.640 --> 0:04:01.880 a mineral hub before like all semi precious stones, so 0:04:02.400 --> 0:04:05.320 we have multiple supplies over there. We're going to Jaipur, 0:04:05.400 --> 0:04:08.360 then we're going to Mumbai. We're going to Delhi and 0:04:08.400 --> 0:04:10.960 then we fly from there to Bali. So I've got 0:04:11.080 --> 0:04:13.640 twelve days of NonStop work. It's kind of like how 0:04:13.680 --> 0:04:15.640 we run things, like when we're on holidays from here, 0:04:15.720 --> 0:04:17.680 I just go and do that job instead. But I'm 0:04:17.720 --> 0:04:20.120 going without the kids, and I'm going without Matt. So 0:04:20.400 --> 0:04:26.240 it's twelve days of blizz It's twelve days of uninterrupted sleep. 0:04:26.400 --> 0:04:28.440 Not been back to India since before I met Matt, 0:04:28.480 --> 0:04:31.280 so I can't wait. But I also don't know how 0:04:31.279 --> 0:04:33.600 I'm gonna feel about it now, because when I went 0:04:33.640 --> 0:04:37.600 in my twenties, I loved the chaos, I loved the overstimulation. 0:04:37.880 --> 0:04:40.360 I loved that you kind of have to be okay 0:04:40.400 --> 0:04:42.400 with things not going the way that you want them 0:04:42.400 --> 0:04:44.440 to go because they don't follow the same order as 0:04:44.440 --> 0:04:46.680 what they do in Australia that we used to no rules, No, 0:04:46.839 --> 0:04:48.919 well there's rules, but it's kind of like Bali, but 0:04:49.040 --> 0:04:51.400 times a million in terms of just how chaotic it 0:04:51.440 --> 0:04:53.479 can be and how busy it is. But I don't 0:04:53.520 --> 0:04:55.720 know whether I'm going to enjoy that as much as 0:04:55.720 --> 0:04:58.640 what I did when I was also just traveling and 0:04:58.720 --> 0:05:01.320 didn't have any like time limitations around me. But now 0:05:01.360 --> 0:05:04.160 going there for work and having like very structured things 0:05:04.160 --> 0:05:06.240 that I need to get done whilst I'm there, if 0:05:06.279 --> 0:05:08.240 things don't go to plan, I'm going to find that 0:05:08.400 --> 0:05:10.839 very very frustrating. So I'm curious to see whether I 0:05:10.880 --> 0:05:12.440 actually enjoyed it as much as I did when I 0:05:12.480 --> 0:05:13.320 was just traveling around. 0:05:13.440 --> 0:05:16.960 It's so interesting because travel changes so much as you 0:05:16.960 --> 0:05:19.320 get older, totally. I just think of the things that 0:05:19.360 --> 0:05:21.280 I used to do when I was backpacking in my 0:05:21.400 --> 0:05:24.320 twenties with Sherry, and I look back at it now 0:05:24.480 --> 0:05:27.560 with like almost like a parental motherly lenses. 0:05:27.880 --> 0:05:29.360 And I'm not a parent or a mother, but I'm 0:05:29.400 --> 0:05:30.200 old enough to be. 0:05:30.360 --> 0:05:33.520 But I look back and I'm like, were you crazy 0:05:33.560 --> 0:05:36.520 putting yourself in those situations and like doing the things 0:05:36.520 --> 0:05:39.480 that you did now that I know are so dangerous. 0:05:39.640 --> 0:05:42.159 The places that we slept, like we were sharing single 0:05:42.160 --> 0:05:43.719 beds in hostels. 0:05:43.839 --> 0:05:45.560 Now I'm like, I'm just popping back. 0:05:45.440 --> 0:05:49.200 To the mouldip speaking of sounding boomer, you just joined 0:05:49.200 --> 0:05:50.599 me on that saying I feel parental. 0:05:50.760 --> 0:05:53.160 Back in the day, what in my time, I would 0:05:53.200 --> 0:05:53.840 have done some crazy. 0:05:53.920 --> 0:05:55.760 Okay, last time I was in India, I got this 0:05:55.920 --> 0:05:56.760 stupid tattoo. 0:05:57.160 --> 0:05:59.480 I was in ak with my best girlfriend Kaya. 0:05:59.320 --> 0:06:02.839 And we were like, yollow, let's get Tattoosine. I got 0:06:02.839 --> 0:06:06.240 a mandala, also terribly culturally inappropriate. I know that now, 0:06:06.240 --> 0:06:08.280 but I was like nineteen at the time I got 0:06:08.279 --> 0:06:10.760 a mandala, and I got off center because I was like, 0:06:10.839 --> 0:06:13.320 everything in life is off center. And then for my 0:06:13.680 --> 0:06:16.600 entire twenties, people would look at my wrists and be like, wow, 0:06:16.600 --> 0:06:19.200 you had a big weekend. So everyone thought that this 0:06:19.279 --> 0:06:21.280 stupid tattoo was a nightclub stamp. 0:06:21.560 --> 0:06:23.680 I cringe. My whole twenty is tiny bit. 0:06:23.880 --> 0:06:25.480 Every time you tell a story about how you got 0:06:25.480 --> 0:06:27.080 it off center, because life's off center. 0:06:27.279 --> 0:06:28.359 Life is off center. 0:06:28.800 --> 0:06:32.120 I'm going to take me to a tattoours is very stupid, Producercasia. 0:06:32.120 --> 0:06:34.719 Where are you going for holiday? I am going first week. 0:06:34.760 --> 0:06:36.719 I'm actually gonna go and meet my brand new niece. 0:06:37.000 --> 0:06:39.520 My brother and sister in law had their third baby 0:06:39.640 --> 0:06:40.919 last week and. 0:06:40.800 --> 0:06:42.840 So I'm gonna go meet her. And then I'm going 0:06:42.880 --> 0:06:44.000 to Bali for a week. 0:06:43.839 --> 0:06:46.800 And I'm so so excited to just like lay on 0:06:46.839 --> 0:06:49.200 a beach and not do anything. 0:06:49.200 --> 0:06:51.000 I don't know what I'm gonna do with myself though. 0:06:51.160 --> 0:06:54.120 The last time I went to Bali for me, Semnyak 0:06:54.160 --> 0:06:57.440 and Chungu were just a little bit too busy. 0:06:57.080 --> 0:06:59.160 For what I was after. So this time I'm going 0:06:59.160 --> 0:07:02.000 on a chill in Uluwashu. Don't get an off center tattoo. 0:07:02.080 --> 0:07:03.000 I'm not gonna get in a dull. 0:07:03.880 --> 0:07:07.120 I promise I will not come back with any more tattoos. Also, 0:07:07.240 --> 0:07:08.719 and I know that this is not as big a 0:07:08.720 --> 0:07:10.360 deal to anybody else as what it is to me, 0:07:10.560 --> 0:07:15.119 But today is Marley's birthday and she is five years old, 0:07:15.200 --> 0:07:17.680 and it is crazy to me that when we started 0:07:17.680 --> 0:07:19.000 this podcast, she was. 0:07:19.080 --> 0:07:21.800 In my belly and on your tit a lot. 0:07:22.040 --> 0:07:25.200 Yeah, and so like when we started having the conversations 0:07:25.240 --> 0:07:27.400 around whether we were going to make a podcast or not. 0:07:27.600 --> 0:07:29.760 I was like midway through my pregnancy, and then when 0:07:29.800 --> 0:07:33.000 we recorded our first episode, I was very, very, very 0:07:33.040 --> 0:07:36.640 heavily pregnant, so like there's real significance around like Marley's birthdate. 0:07:36.920 --> 0:07:38.600 So yeah, I had a moment today this morning when 0:07:38.640 --> 0:07:39.760 I got her out of bed and we had like 0:07:39.800 --> 0:07:42.160 presents and stuff before coming to work. It was the 0:07:42.160 --> 0:07:44.320 first time where I felt like, I can't believe that 0:07:44.360 --> 0:07:46.560 she's that big. I can't believe that much time has 0:07:46.600 --> 0:07:48.080 passed and how quickly it's passing. 0:07:48.320 --> 0:07:50.480 It is actually wild when you think about it like that, 0:07:50.560 --> 0:07:53.080 and when you link the two, because I still look 0:07:53.120 --> 0:07:55.240 at her like she's like two years old. She's a baby, 0:07:55.280 --> 0:07:56.840 and that means I still look at life on cunt 0:07:56.840 --> 0:07:59.000 like that. But when you think back, I don't think 0:07:59.080 --> 0:08:01.680 if you asked me on that day that we started 0:08:01.680 --> 0:08:04.400 that podcast, literally almost five years to the day, we've 0:08:04.440 --> 0:08:05.239 just actually missed. 0:08:05.040 --> 0:08:05.880 The birthday by a week. 0:08:06.040 --> 0:08:09.160 No, we recorded early, so we actually started conversations like 0:08:09.200 --> 0:08:11.760 six months before this, But basically we recorded an episode 0:08:11.760 --> 0:08:13.840 and then we didn't release it into July July, so 0:08:14.080 --> 0:08:16.160 it's our birthday is coming out for life and cart 0:08:16.240 --> 0:08:16.720 we need. 0:08:16.600 --> 0:08:18.920 To not forget our birthday because we forget it every year. 0:08:18.960 --> 0:08:21.640 But if you ask me then five years ago, do 0:08:21.680 --> 0:08:23.920 you think this will be your full time job and 0:08:23.960 --> 0:08:26.360 that you'll be still doing it in five years? I 0:08:26.360 --> 0:08:28.040 would have said no way. Like I would have said, 0:08:28.040 --> 0:08:29.960 I would have hoped it. But I had no idea. 0:08:30.000 --> 0:08:31.320 I'm going to cry and what is wrong with me? 0:08:31.800 --> 0:08:34.560 I had no idea that the podcast, that. 0:08:34.440 --> 0:08:36.880 Little idea that we had would turn into something that 0:08:37.000 --> 0:08:37.920 changed our entire life. 0:08:38.000 --> 0:08:39.720 Yeah, we're so glad that you guys have all joined 0:08:39.760 --> 0:08:41.760 in and been along with it. But yeah, five years 0:08:42.360 --> 0:08:45.960 your birthday. Miley so much she's the freaking verse. I 0:08:45.960 --> 0:08:48.079 can't believe she's five years old. But anyway, guys, that's 0:08:48.080 --> 0:08:50.000 a little update, a life update from us. 0:08:50.120 --> 0:08:52.559 We have two weeks holiday then we're back. We're refreshed. 0:08:52.880 --> 0:08:55.400 Oh, we've got some great interviews which we've already banked 0:08:55.480 --> 0:08:57.160 when we come back. So yeah, we're going to be 0:08:57.280 --> 0:09:00.439 hitting it hard in two weeks time. But let's get 0:09:00.440 --> 0:09:02.839 into vibes and unsubscribes. Brit what is your vibe of 0:09:02.840 --> 0:09:03.160 the week. 0:09:03.360 --> 0:09:05.840 My vibe this week is a drink, and it is 0:09:05.840 --> 0:09:09.560 a drink that my fiance Ben has brought into my life. 0:09:09.640 --> 0:09:09.840 Now. 0:09:09.840 --> 0:09:12.400 Ben doesn't drink a lot because they can't drink all year. 0:09:12.440 --> 0:09:14.439 He gets one time of the year he drinks, and 0:09:14.640 --> 0:09:16.960 because it's the only time he's allowed to drink on holiday. Now, 0:09:17.200 --> 0:09:19.559 he doesn't like alcohol, to be honest, so he drinks 0:09:19.600 --> 0:09:21.680 things that mainly don't taste a lot like alcohol. But 0:09:21.760 --> 0:09:24.160 this is a Spanish drink that he has told me 0:09:24.160 --> 0:09:26.120 about that they drink over there. The locals drink it 0:09:26.360 --> 0:09:29.280 like it's like a very very local sangria. 0:09:29.679 --> 0:09:32.559 It's literally and he's been ordering this at every restaurant 0:09:32.600 --> 0:09:32.920 we go to. 0:09:33.760 --> 0:09:36.600 It's just a red wine that's quite full bodied, and 0:09:36.640 --> 0:09:38.800 you just do half a glass of red wine loads 0:09:38.840 --> 0:09:40.800 of ice, and then it has to be the other 0:09:40.880 --> 0:09:43.800 half has to be orange fanta. So he mixes just 0:09:43.880 --> 0:09:46.720 wine and fantera. And when he told me about it, 0:09:46.720 --> 0:09:48.440 because I love red wine, I was like, I don't 0:09:48.480 --> 0:09:50.320 know if I want to butcher my red wine like that, 0:09:50.440 --> 0:09:52.240 And now I'm obsessed. 0:09:52.360 --> 0:09:54.160 It's so funny because we went out for dinner the 0:09:54.160 --> 0:09:56.240 other night and he ordered this and I looked at 0:09:56.320 --> 0:09:57.839 him like he was an absolute freak. 0:09:57.960 --> 0:09:58.520 But okay, I. 0:09:58.480 --> 0:10:00.360 Don't know whether my phone is listening to me or 0:10:00.400 --> 0:10:02.000 whether I'm going to put my tin ful hat on 0:10:02.040 --> 0:10:04.720 and be all conspiracy theory. I went home that night, 0:10:05.200 --> 0:10:08.560 went on TikTok and somebody had made a TikTok this 0:10:08.720 --> 0:10:11.920 is how to make a homemade sangria, and just did 0:10:12.040 --> 0:10:14.360 half served red wine and half serve fanta. 0:10:14.600 --> 0:10:17.280 It is now delicious. I've been served it twice, as 0:10:17.280 --> 0:10:18.320 in like I've not. 0:10:18.400 --> 0:10:20.240 Known physically brought it to you, but I've been served 0:10:20.280 --> 0:10:21.360 it on the internet twice. 0:10:21.840 --> 0:10:24.280 Well, maybe you should physically be served it and try it, 0:10:24.360 --> 0:10:26.360 but that is it. The key is make sure there's 0:10:26.400 --> 0:10:28.680 loads of ice in it. It has to be really really cold, 0:10:29.040 --> 0:10:31.360 but it is divine like, it's so weird. 0:10:31.800 --> 0:10:32.760 That's my recommendation. 0:10:32.800 --> 0:10:35.920 It's kind of like a mimosa but two point zero. 0:10:36.160 --> 0:10:38.800 But mimosas are also acceptable because everyone does it. If 0:10:38.840 --> 0:10:40.880 you go into a bar in Australia and ask for 0:10:40.960 --> 0:10:42.640 red wine and fantom, people still look at you like 0:10:42.679 --> 0:10:43.559 you just sit all the time. 0:10:43.640 --> 0:10:46.400 It's funny because Benny's this big six nearly six foot six, 0:10:46.600 --> 0:10:48.680 and everyone's ordering their drinks and he goes do you 0:10:48.720 --> 0:10:51.120 have fanta? Like? It's always just very funny every time 0:10:51.120 --> 0:10:52.600 I ask it, because he doesn't ask for red wine 0:10:52.600 --> 0:10:52.920 and fanta. 0:10:52.960 --> 0:10:54.719 He always checks if they've got the fanto first, and 0:10:54.800 --> 0:10:56.760 it just makes him sound like a child that's ordering 0:10:56.800 --> 0:10:58.280 out like a fire engine. 0:11:00.240 --> 0:11:00.720 Vibe for the week. 0:11:00.840 --> 0:11:02.960 My vibe for the week is it's an episode of 0:11:03.000 --> 0:11:05.679 The Daily OS. It's twelve minutes, so you can listen. 0:11:05.679 --> 0:11:08.240 It's very, very snappy. I'm recommending it because I was 0:11:08.280 --> 0:11:10.920 also recommended it by so many of you who listened 0:11:10.960 --> 0:11:13.400 to it yesterday or who saw it in socials and 0:11:13.559 --> 0:11:15.160 thought maybe I would be interested in it. And you 0:11:15.160 --> 0:11:17.400 will understand why in two seconds. Maybe I should be 0:11:17.400 --> 0:11:17.920 offended by this. 0:11:18.000 --> 0:11:19.760 I'm not sure. I can't imagine the Daily OL's doing 0:11:19.760 --> 0:11:21.679 a plant podcast. 0:11:21.280 --> 0:11:23.200 No, but you will understand this one. It is the 0:11:23.320 --> 0:11:26.319 rise in young women getting LaBier surgery. 0:11:26.559 --> 0:11:27.720 Oh yes, saw that. Now. 0:11:27.720 --> 0:11:30.880 It's all around the social pressures as to why there 0:11:30.880 --> 0:11:33.640 has been this increase in women wanting to get it done. 0:11:33.760 --> 0:11:34.640 And it's really interesting. 0:11:34.679 --> 0:11:38.920 It's like the most rapidly increasing plastic surgery that is 0:11:39.200 --> 0:11:41.680 happening at the moment, as in, like the most increase 0:11:41.800 --> 0:11:45.160 in requested plastic surgery, and it unpacks the reasons why 0:11:45.200 --> 0:11:48.640 that's happening in young people, like why women feeling insecure 0:11:48.800 --> 0:11:51.920 around their labiers, what are the reasons why women are 0:11:51.920 --> 0:11:52.920 asking for it now? 0:11:53.080 --> 0:11:54.959 And also what has. 0:11:54.880 --> 0:11:56.920 Been the impact from the porn industry in terms of 0:11:56.920 --> 0:11:59.400 how we view our bodies and the expectation for our 0:11:59.400 --> 0:12:01.640 bodies to look certain way. There seems to be a 0:12:01.679 --> 0:12:04.480 bit of a movement at the moment talking about labya plasty, and. 0:12:04.440 --> 0:12:06.600 We just want to say that Laura's labia got it first. 0:12:07.320 --> 0:12:08.880 I just want to say we've been talking about it 0:12:08.920 --> 0:12:11.800 for years, okay, But I think that there's two reasons 0:12:11.840 --> 0:12:15.800 why people discuss this. One is because maybe after childbirth, 0:12:15.840 --> 0:12:18.440 things or not even maybe things are just like gravity's 0:12:18.440 --> 0:12:21.600 taking a hole, guys, boomer, but maybe things are not 0:12:21.840 --> 0:12:25.680 what they used to be. And it's a functionally impacts 0:12:25.679 --> 0:12:27.880 your life, right, that's an actual thing. Some people have 0:12:28.000 --> 0:12:32.280 labiers that are uncomfortable because of length or size or whatever. 0:12:32.400 --> 0:12:34.160 But then for us it's also like it's a bit 0:12:34.160 --> 0:12:36.120 of an oh ands thing, like sometimes we trip over 0:12:36.160 --> 0:12:36.920 yours at work. 0:12:36.800 --> 0:12:39.280 Yeah, totally, so we do. Yeah, we need to like 0:12:39.320 --> 0:12:41.280 I've got a particulation of a tax deduction. 0:12:41.440 --> 0:12:43.520 Now I've got to use double sided sticky tape to 0:12:43.559 --> 0:12:47.120 sticking it back inside myself. Otherwise it's just like they're 0:12:47.120 --> 0:12:48.480 coming out the bottoms of my jeans. 0:12:48.559 --> 0:12:48.959 Guys. 0:12:49.000 --> 0:12:51.480 Fuck, So one day when I do get my labia plasty, 0:12:51.480 --> 0:12:52.959 you just know it's not because they want to look 0:12:52.960 --> 0:12:53.640 like a Barbie doll. 0:12:53.720 --> 0:12:56.000 It's just because I don't want to trip your stuff. 0:12:56.000 --> 0:12:57.559 I don't want my laby to hang in the toilet 0:12:57.559 --> 0:13:02.920 bot when I got to something, I don't want to 0:13:02.600 --> 0:13:05.000 go too far. I don't want the splash back. 0:13:06.280 --> 0:13:09.080 Well, you could pull it over like a wind catcher, 0:13:09.200 --> 0:13:11.160 like you're blown away like a kite surf. 0:13:11.360 --> 0:13:14.480 You could go klidesurfing like you're parachuting, and I can 0:13:14.559 --> 0:13:16.360 hold them out, sugar child. 0:13:19.160 --> 0:13:22.000 I will say though, that you guys had such a 0:13:22.000 --> 0:13:24.760 good conversation with Ellie from Comfortable in my Skin, who 0:13:24.840 --> 0:13:26.760 chose not to have a laby a plassy, And I 0:13:26.760 --> 0:13:28.480 think that if we're going to talk about, you know, 0:13:28.679 --> 0:13:30.760 the reasons people want them, we should also talk about 0:13:30.760 --> 0:13:33.679 the reasons that people shouldn't get them or have decided 0:13:33.679 --> 0:13:34.400 that they don't want them. 0:13:34.400 --> 0:13:37.960 So we'll also yeah, absolutely. That episode is amazing. That 0:13:38.080 --> 0:13:40.439 episode with Ellie was a couple of years ago now. 0:13:40.600 --> 0:13:42.320 But also I want to be very clear. I know 0:13:42.360 --> 0:13:44.240 we joke about it a lot, and there will probably 0:13:44.240 --> 0:13:46.360 come a time where I do get it done and 0:13:46.440 --> 0:13:49.760 I have that conversation with you all. But I also 0:13:49.880 --> 0:13:51.240 know that there are a lot of people who have 0:13:51.280 --> 0:13:53.840 had it and regretted it because they weren't specific enough 0:13:53.840 --> 0:13:56.319 around how much they wanted taken off or how they 0:13:56.320 --> 0:13:58.400 wanted it to be, and so therefore it became purely 0:13:58.440 --> 0:14:00.520 about aesthetics and not about function. 0:14:00.760 --> 0:14:03.520 And you need lair beers. They are important. 0:14:03.840 --> 0:14:05.640 I have a friend who falls into that category. Yeah, 0:14:05.679 --> 0:14:07.280 I don't want the less pleasure in sex now. 0:14:07.320 --> 0:14:08.880 I don't want it all gone. I just want to 0:14:09.000 --> 0:14:10.560 just want to nip and duck. 0:14:10.880 --> 0:14:13.679 Just want I just want half, just want half of 0:14:13.800 --> 0:14:15.880 aba on each side. 0:14:16.160 --> 0:14:17.080 Just did a little trim jim. 0:14:18.000 --> 0:14:20.440 Anyway, maybe if I have another third child, then I'll 0:14:20.440 --> 0:14:20.840 have it done. 0:14:21.160 --> 0:14:23.440 Don't think it done before, Yeah no, don't get it 0:14:23.440 --> 0:14:26.120 done before you're going to birth. God knows what's gonna happen. 0:14:26.360 --> 0:14:27.880 Slip and slide for the baby to come out. 0:14:28.000 --> 0:14:34.560 Yeah, you could just straightens arms out. 0:14:35.320 --> 0:14:38.479 Clara La La Laura. 0:14:38.240 --> 0:14:42.280 Byozer and Hammock to bar just streaking up on one side. 0:14:42.320 --> 0:14:46.160 The kid sits in it hangs a close up pick. Akay, 0:14:46.160 --> 0:14:49.200 that's enough, Keisha. Do you have any other? I do? 0:14:49.400 --> 0:14:56.280 And it's gonna sound so serious and boring after that demonstration. Sorry, guys, 0:14:56.600 --> 0:14:59.560 I have a new podcast that I'm really starting to 0:14:59.680 --> 0:15:02.880 just turn through. It is called search Engine and it 0:15:02.920 --> 0:15:05.680 was named the best podcast of twenty twenty three by Vulture, Time, 0:15:05.760 --> 0:15:07.200 The Economist, and Vogue. 0:15:07.280 --> 0:15:08.840 So you know, it's life on card, isn't that? 0:15:09.160 --> 0:15:09.240 No? 0:15:09.360 --> 0:15:13.160 Apparently not I no editor's mistake. They're only human. 0:15:14.760 --> 0:15:18.400 So this particular episode, it will probably only be interesting 0:15:18.440 --> 0:15:20.480 to statistically about seven percent of you. 0:15:20.720 --> 0:15:22.280 The episode that I started on. 0:15:22.400 --> 0:15:24.000 I was sent this by a friend who said that 0:15:24.000 --> 0:15:27.120 I'd be really interested in it, and it's part one. 0:15:27.240 --> 0:15:30.280 It's called why Do I Take Speed? For twenty Years? 0:15:30.680 --> 0:15:32.760 There is also a part two, and so what's quite 0:15:32.760 --> 0:15:34.920 interesting about it is that the host of the podcast 0:15:35.040 --> 0:15:38.480 has ADHD and was on prescription stimulants for twenty years. 0:15:38.880 --> 0:15:42.240 He is now not on those stimulants, and I think 0:15:42.240 --> 0:15:44.200 he kind of regrets being on medication for that long 0:15:44.240 --> 0:15:46.080 I mean, We've spoken a million times about the fact 0:15:46.080 --> 0:15:50.760 that I'm diagnosed and medicated on ADHD medications. Also, I 0:15:50.760 --> 0:15:52.560 have to be kind of careful of what I say 0:15:52.720 --> 0:15:56.400 because the TGA in Australia has really strict regulations on 0:15:56.520 --> 0:15:59.040 talking about prescription medications. You know, we're spoken about that 0:15:59.120 --> 0:16:01.320 more recently with Bota and with Litfeller, but it also 0:16:01.360 --> 0:16:06.000 applies to this. So this episode was all about the 0:16:06.080 --> 0:16:09.680 history of where stimulant medication came from. I think this 0:16:09.720 --> 0:16:13.000