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Speaker 1: The Will and Woody Podcast.

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Speaker 2: I mean, something we've probably all thought about at one

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Speaker 2: stage in our lives is whether or not it's a

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Speaker 2: good idea to hook up with someone at work.

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Speaker 3: Do you think about it? I do really think about it,

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Speaker 3: though I don't think.

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Speaker 1: There's a lot of thought involved. It's more emotion.

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Speaker 4: Well, I think you're not going in there, going like,

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Speaker 4: but there's some crazy statistic whereby if you didn't meet

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Speaker 4: your partner, isn't it like seventy percent of people meet

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Speaker 4: their partner at work?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Interesting you brought that up because there's new statistics out today,

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Speaker 2: and that's why I'm talking about it. Where Apparently because

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Speaker 2: more people are working from home. This is kind of

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Speaker 2: like post COVID world. Not us though not us. We're

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Speaker 2: in here, in here every day, Daily Grind, Daily Grind

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Speaker 2: Live shows. That's it. But so they're saying, because a

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Speaker 2: lot of people are working from home, less people are

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Speaker 2: less people are actually meeting people in the workplace.

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Speaker 1: That's just not happening as much anymore.

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Speaker 5: So.

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Speaker 2: The dating apps are just popping off right now. Wow,

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Speaker 2: But for me, it.

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Speaker 3: Just every minimum of a zoom. My little brother's got

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Speaker 3: new girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: They I think God, I'm stop talking. Okay.

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Speaker 2: Nice nice filter, man, good filter, good pace to it. Shit,

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Speaker 2: you're making it sounds hi worse than it probably is.

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Speaker 2: It sounds controversial and scandalous now, so we're all thinking it.

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Speaker 1: You said a lot.

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Speaker 2: Actually anyway, for me, it just begs a question of

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Speaker 2: whether it's ever a good idea to hook up with

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Speaker 2: someone at work.

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Speaker 1: So, like, what I'd love to do right.

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Speaker 2: Now on thirteen one oh sixty five is if you're

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Speaker 2: currently in a situation where you just you find someone

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Speaker 2: at work attractive, or you're just feeling that there's like

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Speaker 2: a sexual tension or a chemistry and you're not sure

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Speaker 2: whether to like climb that tree or embark on that journey.

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Speaker 1: Climb that tree. I sorry, that was weird, weird way

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Speaker 1: to describe it.

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Speaker 2: But if you're not sure as to whether like make

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Speaker 2: a move or not, give us a call on thirteen

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Speaker 2: one oh sixty five and will and I will like

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Speaker 2: hear the details. We'll hear about the person you're into,

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Speaker 2: and will decide for you as to whether we think

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Speaker 2: it's worth it, whether it's a good move. Now, just

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Speaker 2: a couple of case studies before we hear from you, guys,

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Speaker 2: So my sister is now married with a child with

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Speaker 2: a guy she met at work and direct team as well.

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Speaker 2: They were like within a small crack team, and I

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Speaker 2: know that for it was very stressful for a while.

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Speaker 1: It was a Christmas party hookup.

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Speaker 2: Might be giving away too much, not sure, but they

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Speaker 2: found it quite stressful for a while, and they kept

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Speaker 2: it a secret for ages.

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Speaker 1: It's exciting as well. That's that's that's great fun when

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Speaker 1: you're at work.

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Speaker 2: Well, I never had that conversation with my sister, and

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Speaker 2: I forgot who talk about.

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Speaker 6: All?

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Speaker 1: Did it get exciting though? I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fine, I'm sorry. Just don't go out anyway.

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Speaker 2: So they might have yeah at work, who knows, No.

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Speaker 1: They wouldn't because they'respectful employee. Can't respectful employees.

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Speaker 2: Oh they're still there, so yes, but they they're in

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Speaker 2: different teams, so they made short like I think eventually

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Speaker 2: they spoke to people and then we're like, we can't

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Speaker 2: work in directly in the same team, move to teams

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Speaker 2: and then just works beautifully.

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Speaker 1: You know, get to share a ride to work. There's

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Speaker 1: all sorts of work or I don't. So that's it.

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Speaker 1: That's a happy one. That's a happy one.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's happy. It sounds happy, sounds good.

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Speaker 1: So I couldn't be happy. I'm married.

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Speaker 2: So look, we'd like to help you out if you

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Speaker 2: are in that situation right now, and we just want

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Speaker 2: you to like give us the details of the person

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Speaker 2: that you aren't into, and then will and I will

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Speaker 2: decide with with with great maturity and wisdom, given we're

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Speaker 2: both in our late thirties, if it's a good idea

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Speaker 2: to pursue it, Let's go to Angel here, Angel, who's

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Speaker 2: the whole How do you at work?

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Speaker 1: Angel? You're there? Angel, you're into someone at work? You've

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Speaker 1: got to crush on someone at work?

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Speaker 5: Yes, famelessly?

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Speaker 4: Shamelessly? Yeah, well you're calling you a radio station. I

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Speaker 4: mean you're at that point clearly. What's what's it been?

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Speaker 4: Have you had any So he doesn't know, I assume

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Speaker 4: he will. He doesn't know.

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Speaker 5: He's got a girlfriend.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, this is getting scandalous. This is getting scandalous. Okay,

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Speaker 2: so he's got a girlfriend. Can I ask you what?

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Speaker 2: You don't have to go into specific details, but what

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Speaker 2: do you.

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Speaker 1: Do for work? I'm a cleaner, and so he is

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Speaker 1: also a cleaner?

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Speaker 5: Yes, and I have my own team and sometimes he's

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Speaker 5: on my team and it's a bit hard to work.

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Speaker 1: WHOA, what's that? What's the sexiest thing that he cleans?

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Speaker 2: Like when he's doing the cleaning work, what really gets

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Speaker 2: you hot under the collar?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 5: You know anything? He's just willing to do it. So

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Speaker 5: it's my to see a man clean.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, bloody earth. Okay.

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Speaker 2: So you have identified though that he has a girlfriend.

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Speaker 2: Can you can you give me the details of the girlfriend?

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Speaker 2: Is it a long term girlfriend? Do you think it's

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Speaker 2: do you think they're strong and stable?

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Speaker 6: Well?

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Speaker 5: He actually said on the first time that we had met,

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Speaker 5: you know, I was just trying to get to know him,

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Speaker 5: and I was like, oh, you know, are you seeing someone?

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Speaker 5: And he's like, yeah, I've got a girlfriend. And I'm like,

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Speaker 5: oh okay, and he's like, oh I think I'm going

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Speaker 5: to marry her. And I'm like, oh, okay.

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Speaker 1: This is not sounding good at all.

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Speaker 4: The only the game here is is this a good idea?

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Speaker 4: I think it's a bad idea. And enjoy looking at him.

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Speaker 4: I think that's the beautiful thing about crushes. You can

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Speaker 4: admire from Afar Jacob's called on thirteen sixty five.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for calling Jack, ask you just this Morrow. This

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Speaker 2: is an ethical question in Angels situation. I am so

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Speaker 2: against the idea of breaking people up. Obviously, do you

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Speaker 2: reckon it's wrong? Do you think it's fair to walk

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Speaker 2: up and go hey, listen. I respect that you're in

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Speaker 2: a relationship right now, but I am completely obsessed with you.

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Speaker 2: Where does that Where does that sit with you? Or

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Speaker 2: is that is that like, is that an intention to

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Speaker 2: break people up and it's bad? Well, I think it

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Speaker 2: comes down to the intention and like, what's your intention

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Speaker 2: in saying it to hook up with them? I'd say,

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Speaker 2: to hook up? You're doing it to hook up with them?

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Speaker 2: Then I don't think that's a great idea. Yeah, because

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Speaker 2: they're in a relationship.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you got to.

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Speaker 4: But then I suppose, like at the end of the day,

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Speaker 4: you only get one shot. Well, what are you prepared

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Speaker 4: for the fact that the friendship is going to end?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you are laying like, Okay, this person might be

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Speaker 2: out of my life going forward now because I am

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Speaker 2: laying it on the table for them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well there you go.

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Speaker 2: Angel, You could I suppose if you're a head of

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Speaker 2: the heels in love with someone, right, That's what I'm

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Speaker 2: saying like sometimes, yeah, of course you got to give it,

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Speaker 2: give them the option, and like obviously, like if they

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Speaker 2: want to stay with their partner, you respect that you leave, of.

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Speaker 1: Course, and you don't want to. You don't want to.

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Speaker 4: You wouldn't want to break someone up unless you were

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Speaker 4: head of a heels in love with someone, in which

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Speaker 4: case you're like, I need to see if the feelings

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Speaker 4: go both ways.

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Speaker 1: For sure, it's going to Jacob.

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Speaker 4: It's a good it is an interesting deliver I think

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Speaker 4: there's definitely another side to that.

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Speaker 1: But Jacob's called Jacob. How you going, mate?

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Speaker 6: Good? May?

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Speaker 1: How are you very very good? Now you're interested in

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Speaker 1: someone at work? Jacob?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, so I'm actually interested in my CEO of my company.

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Speaker 3: Holy wow, the company, Jacob. What are we talking here?

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Speaker 6: So I won't go into specifics what I do for work,

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Speaker 6: but basically we help people out in certain situations and

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Speaker 6: I'm just a front line like groundworker and me and

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Speaker 6: her have had meetings and it's just just getting a

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Speaker 6: bit too hot for the room.

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Speaker 2: WOA can you run us through the first time that

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Speaker 2: you knew that maybe there were some sparks there, Jacob.

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Speaker 6: So obviously you know I'm twenty seven. I'm not a

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Speaker 6: bad looking bud. So first day and the job walk in,

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Speaker 6: we walk eyes and she just just stares at me

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Speaker 6: for a little bit. I'm like, okay, this is cool.

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Speaker 1: And how old is she?

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Speaker 6: Geez, wow, this is groundbreaking news. She is forty two

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Speaker 6: years old. Forty three year age gap.

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Speaker 2: I think that's that's out of the question. I think

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Speaker 2: that's completely out of the question.

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Speaker 1: That agent. Yeah, age is just the number of Jacob.

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Speaker 2: So do you do you get the impression, Jacob that

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Speaker 2: she the feeling goes back to you like you said

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Speaker 2: to you said before that she locks eyes with you.

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Speaker 6: Oh, there's a lot of like compliments, is like, oh,

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Speaker 6: really great work today, doing a really great job. Is

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Speaker 6: as like, you know, touching on my arm and I'm like, okay, okay, she.

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Speaker 3: Might be commenting on your job like she is the CEO.

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Speaker 6: But no, but it's just like the flirtatious with the

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Speaker 6: hand gestures drowning it down my arm.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, okay, your arm and dragging your hand down there.

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Speaker 3: That's the stroke.

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Speaker 2: That's what I mean, getting strokes.

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Speaker 1: She's stroking you. Do you know if she's single, Jacob.

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Speaker 6: She is single, She's actually single, recently divorced.

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Speaker 2: Holy wow, duly so, Jacob, I mean, so the reason

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Speaker 2: you've come to us is obviously to ask if we

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Speaker 2: think it's a good idea for you.

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Speaker 6: I heard the scenario on the radio. I'm like, this

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Speaker 6: is exactly the scenario I'm in right now. I need

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Speaker 6: some advice.

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Speaker 4: How How if, Jacob, if you were to make a play,

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Speaker 4: if you were to make a play, how would you

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Speaker 4: make the play?

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Speaker 6: That's the thing. It's just I think it might have

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Speaker 6: to be maybe sent a text and be like an

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Speaker 6: after work meeting, like maybe like a dinner or something

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Speaker 6: or some of that matter, and then see where that

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Speaker 6: potentially leads to.

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Speaker 2: So because you'll ask her like, maybe let's let's go

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Speaker 2: and see each other outside of it, I think getting

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Speaker 2: outside of work, extending an invitation to remove yourselves from

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Speaker 2: the workplace, I think is a pretty good idea, Jacob.

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Speaker 6: That's what I'm thinking as well. Okay, I think maybe not.

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Speaker 4: A bad idea here, Jay, I mean, Jay, if you're

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Speaker 4: happy for us to stay with you, because this is

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Speaker 4: a pretty interesting situation, a bit.

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Speaker 6: Of an arm taged, bit of up and down the shoulder,

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Speaker 6: it's a bit of everything going on there.

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Speaker 3: Holy, how often has she done the tug stroke?

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Speaker 6: So she just did it once and it was most recently.

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Speaker 4: It was last week, just the two of you in

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Right, Yeah, she's sitting down and I'm having her some

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Speaker 2: Wow, that's online, I think coupled with the compliment that's wow.

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Speaker 2: So another bit of information. She's recently divorced Jacob. So

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Speaker 6: Yeah, she got divorced around I think it was around

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Speaker 1: Right, Okay, and that's I mean that's time. That's that's

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Speaker 1: water under.

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Speaker 3: Let's go to Diana.

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Speaker 2: Yes, sure, what do you think Diana? I think there's

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Speaker 2: there's two sides of this is should Jacob make a move?

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Speaker 2: Firstly and then secondly how should he do it? Where

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Speaker 2: are you at, Diana?

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Speaker 6: Oh my god?

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Speaker 9: I am absolutely he did not make a move. I'm like,

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Speaker 9: has the world not learned anything after the cold Play incident?

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Speaker 9: When you have a CEO and ahead of hr let

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Speaker 9: but it's just so not the right thing to do,

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Speaker 2: Of hot order to use the Cold Play example, though, Diana,

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Speaker 2: I believe the main issue there was the CEO was

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Speaker 9: He was yeahely he was and completely wrong for a difference,

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Speaker 9: you know, from a different point of view in the

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Speaker 9: if you're working, it's you know, you're you're in a

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Speaker 9: go wrong. That is something that I would not you know,

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Speaker 9: where have you got to go? It is?

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Speaker 4: It is a dice circumstance with the age gap and

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if it's if it's a pr, if it's someone.

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Speaker 2: That's your age, if it's going on the power dynamic

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Speaker 2: is yeah, that's the fact that Yeah, it's a fact

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Speaker 2: in fact, Jacob, just well a question for you is

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Speaker 2: that what.

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Speaker 1: Makes it saucy?

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Speaker 4: Would sorry, might keep done do because I know she's

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Speaker 4: going to hate that, But is that what makes it saucy?

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Speaker 7: From you?

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Speaker 4: Know at the end of the day that she is

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Speaker 4: a little bit older in the CEO of the company.

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Speaker 2: I think to some people that would add some sauce,

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Speaker 2: but I wouldn't come on and whether it ads sauce

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Speaker 2: for me. Let's go to Jacob here, Jacob, just a

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Speaker 2: real quick one from me, how do you do you

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Speaker 2: do you love this job? Because I think another point

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Speaker 1: Jacob?

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Speaker 6: Listen, I love my job, but the realm that I

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, so losing the job isn't a huge

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Speaker 2: What did you think about what Diana said, Jacob?

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Speaker 6: I feel like, listen, I understand her perspective, but I

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Speaker 6: feel like, in life sometimes you've got to take some risks.

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Speaker 6: You know, you live life too boring and vanilla? What

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Speaker 6: is life? I feel like sometimes you've got to, you know,

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Speaker 6: just go for it.

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Speaker 3: And who's called? And what do you reckon about this?

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Speaker 6: Okay?

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Speaker 10: I'm speaking from experience and I've had a lot of

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Speaker 3: Realm Okay okay, as in, you've been involved in this,

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Speaker 3: or you.

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Speaker 6: Work in HR like twice you involved with this.

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Speaker 4: So you're the older woman in this situation or the

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Speaker 4: or the younger. Give us some details, Jacob, Jacob, older

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Speaker 4: man or older.

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Speaker 1: Woman that you're going for.

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Speaker 10: One man, one woman.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, great perspective from here, great perspective.

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Speaker 1: Tell us what so what do you think Jacob should do?

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Speaker 10: Absolutely, do not do it if you want to keep

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Speaker 10: the job. But you know, if it's partial you don't

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Speaker 2: Hey, Jacob, question for you right now, Like if it

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Speaker 2: came down to it, I mean, this would be potentially

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Speaker 2: an incredibly romantic gesture. Would you leave your job right

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Speaker 6: I mean, sometimes love you have to make some.

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Speaker 1: Time love, Jacob.

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Speaker 2: This isn't just lust, you're in love with it.

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Speaker 6: It could be love. I don't know. You know, sometimes

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Speaker 6: you've got to strike while the kettle's hot.

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Speaker 4: I thus saying that when you've got to strike and

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Speaker 4: I want to go back, Tom, You've done this twice?

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Speaker 4: Was it just like dip the pen in the company

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Speaker 4: in sort of a situation and then move on. Or

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Speaker 4: were they prolonged relationships for you?

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Speaker 10: One was prolonged okay, and that got complicated obviously yep.

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Speaker 10: The other one was more just fun, but then that

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Speaker 2: Theory is going to be strings attached. So the other question,

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Speaker 2: which we really haven't got into.

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Speaker 4: Is if, because em appears to be down the yolow

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Speaker 4: dare I say it bandwagon woods she was?

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Speaker 3: She was, how should he go about it?

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Speaker 4: Because I mean, I don't know if you approach them

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Speaker 4: in the past, but how do you think Jacob should

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Speaker 4: go about it?

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Speaker 10: Well, it seems like Jacob has other options, so like

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Speaker 10: you gotta just have fun sometimes, like spice things up

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Speaker 10: cause drama.

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Speaker 2: Wow, yeah, there we go. Hey, Jacob, do you have

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Speaker 2: her social media? Jacob A you exchange social media details?

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Speaker 1: Followed?

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Speaker 6: You just strictly are work numbers as of this man.

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Speaker 2: Okay, just work, Okay, So there's no social media activity.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to keep things going here. We're going to

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Speaker 3: get to Brad.

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Speaker 4: We're gonna round things out because Lose Changed Legends is

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Speaker 4: up next five and a half grand for one of

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Speaker 4: you guys, Brad, you've been in this situation before.

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Speaker 1: What should Jacob do?

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Speaker 7: Man?

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Speaker 8: I would one hundred percent go for it, mate, And

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Speaker 8: I'm like, well, before anything, I love you guys, that's it,

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Speaker 8: one hundred percent. I would go for it, mate. I

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Speaker 8: was in your boots when I was younger. I'm now

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Speaker 8: fifty four. But I think it's just one of those

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Speaker 8: attractions and they just take it all the way. You've

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Speaker 8: got to do it like I did it. I think

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Speaker 8: that Sheila was about thirty years older than me. Might

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Speaker 8: it's sound a little bit gross. You're a sexy man,

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Speaker 8: as you've been saying. I just go for it, mate,

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Speaker 8: all the way, take it all the way. Don't ay

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Speaker 8: about the job. That's got nothing to do with it.

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Speaker 8: She's doing what she's doing, patting your arms, doing all

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Speaker 8: that sort of thing. She's definitely interested. As you said,

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Speaker 8: she's just split up.

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Speaker 3: And yeah, I think how should he go about it, Brad?

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Speaker 3: How should she go about it?

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Speaker 1: Specifically? What should he do? Brad?

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Speaker 8: Well, I wouldn't take her out for dinner, but I

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Speaker 8: mean she's obviously she wants a quick hit.

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Speaker 4: Legends is right up next, Hey, Jacob, Thank you, Brad, Jacob, thanks.

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Speaker 3: Much for entertaining us, mate.

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Speaker 1: That was awesome. You can never said a sent.

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Speaker 4: Hi's momentum for Wireless Headphones and eightieth anniversary edition for you.

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Speaker 6: Mate, Oh, thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: Thanks joining us. Stay in touch.

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Speaker 2: Stay in touch, Jacob, if that's okay, because I'd love

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Speaker 2: to hear if something happens between you and the c.

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Speaker 3: Love your work, Jacob, B Louise. Changed Legends is right

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Speaker 3: up next.

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Speaker 2: Quick hit Brad, Brad, very very very funny until then,

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Speaker 2: quick hit, come on, He's in love.

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Speaker 1: Brad will and what is loose?

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Speaker 2: Change Legends five thousand and four hundred and seventy three

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Speaker 2: dollars and sixty eight cents could be yours if you

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Speaker 2: can tell me how much money I'm dropping in the ball,

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Speaker 2: I'm going to give you a fresh drop because that's

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Speaker 2: what you want. Here it comes, Jamie, you're there, mate, Sorry,

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Speaker 2: Jam's going.

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Speaker 3: To to that someone playing.

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Speaker 4: I forgot that people need to get this is the

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Speaker 4: problem with you dropping the coins.

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Speaker 3: You're getting far too into.

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Speaker 1: The drop of it. I love it, Jamie. I'm getting

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Speaker 1: better at the coin drop. So you've joined us at

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Speaker 1: a time play. I get that. I forgot one detail Jamie,

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Speaker 1: would you like a fresh drop of the coins?

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Speaker 10: Right?

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Speaker 1: Awesome? Great? Here we go now Jamie, I'm going to

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Speaker 1: go again because one of them hopped down of the.

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Speaker 3: Balls fair, I think I should drop way. I think

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Speaker 3: a few people have mentioned it too.

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Speaker 2: Take that from me. A few people have been by

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Speaker 2: taking one of my children. Don't take it from me, Jamie,

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Speaker 2: Sorry about that. Here we go, good drop? How how

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Speaker 2: much do you think that is?

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Speaker 1: Jamie?

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Speaker 11: I'm going with four dollars?

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Speaker 6: Good?

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Speaker 1: Guess?

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Speaker 3: Guess incorrect?

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Speaker 1: Jamie incorrect?

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Speaker 4: Five four hundred and seventy three dollars and sixty eight

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Speaker 4: cents is what you win if you guess how much

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Speaker 4: loose change is being dropped?

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Speaker 1: Yes, Isabelle? You want to have a guess?

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Speaker 7: Yes?

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Speaker 11: I think that there is nine dollars.

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Speaker 2: Should have gone for a fresh drop, there, Isabelle?

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Speaker 1: Why would you? Coins are everywhere? I just look. I

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Speaker 1: think it's stupid not to go for a fresh drop

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Speaker 1: and have a game.

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Speaker 3: You want to have a guess how much change that is?

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Speaker 10: In?

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Speaker 6: Hello?

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Speaker 12: Is that?

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Speaker 7: Meet?

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Speaker 9: Am I on?

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Speaker 1: Yes? Siron and you want a fresh drop? Or I

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Speaker 1: just want to have a guest from the hips? Thirty

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Speaker 1: five cents?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Incorrect, are playing and nice.

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Speaker 2: Straight for the guess, Lad, A lot of silly people

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Speaker 2: aren't asking for a fresh drop. It's a chance to

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Speaker 2: get another ear across exactly what I'm dropping.

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Speaker 1: Do you want a fresh drop blood?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, of course of course you do, Blad, good man,

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Speaker 2: Here we go, Here we go.

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Speaker 1: How much is that?

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Speaker 8: Four dollars and sixty five stones?

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Speaker 1: Incorrect? Flat?

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, great work, Blad.

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Speaker 4: Hey, Loose Change Legends will be back tomorrow at the

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Speaker 4: same time. Might do another fresh drop for you if

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Speaker 4: you're missing it in about fifteen minutes as well, So

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Speaker 4: you guys can try and guess how much and which means,

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Speaker 4: dollar amount, the money goes up again.

447
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Speaker 3: Wow, okay, how much money are we talking?

448
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Speaker 1: I reckon and fifty bucks? All right, you're just coming up.

449
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Speaker 1: You're just pulling this out of your eyes. Change, Wow,

450
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Speaker 1: turn out of my pocket? Change all right?

451
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Speaker 4: So that means we move into like two five hundred

452
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Speaker 4: dollars or something there about.

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Speaker 1: I've got my calculator out now and trying to add

454
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Speaker 1: it up. Good work, good work, everybody.

455
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Speaker 4: Okay, your chance at Loose Change Legends tomorrow it is

456
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Speaker 4: the same amount of money you can gets. How much

457
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Speaker 4: lose change that is tomorrow you win nearly six thousand dollars.

458
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Speaker 4: Moves on up, no more drop thinks. So everyone is

459
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Speaker 4: apparently watching Big Brothers. Huge congratulations to.

460
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Speaker 1: Everyone involved, everyone involved, the whole production team.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, go work everyone, Yes, ten tens doing it, ten

462
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Speaker 4: ting it on your ten roll the dice.

463
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Speaker 1: They brought it back back in the game.

464
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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I know that they were ever out.

465
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Speaker 1: They've had some ups and downs, but you know every

466
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Speaker 1: network does you know it's.

467
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Speaker 4: A move past it. Sure we'll get past it. So

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Speaker 4: Big brother It's back. There's a girl called Holly in

469
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Speaker 4: the house. Sure they standing around as they do. Yeah,

470
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Speaker 4: the pool or whatever they're doing, generally speaking, the invaders,

471
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Speaker 4: and that's my memory of the show.

472
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Speaker 3: Holly says this to another one who I don't.

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Speaker 13: Agree with pretty privilege at all. Yes, there are privileges

474
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Speaker 13: that come with being beautiful, but pretty privilege. I always

475
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Speaker 13: say this is a double edged sword. There's pros and

476
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Speaker 13: there's cons. Like, I get social anxiety. You wouldn't think that,

477
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Speaker 13: but when sometimes a beautiful girl works into a room,

478
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Speaker 13: sometimes we don't want to even be noticed when we

479
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Speaker 13: walk in the room, like sometimes even when I dress

480
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Speaker 13: down and I'm hiding.

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Speaker 4: So Holly is a model, I find that. Yeah, I

482
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Speaker 4: think it's hard to hear. I think a lot of

483
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Speaker 4: people find that hard to hear from a model who

484
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Speaker 4: is gorgeous, she's gorgeous, that it is difficult for her

485
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Speaker 4: being gorgeous. I think that's tough. That's tough to hear.

486
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Speaker 4: It's a tough thing for her to argue. I think interestingly, though,

487
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Speaker 4: I think if you weren't.

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Speaker 2: Necessarily gorgeous, and you were saying it's got to be

489
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Speaker 2: hard for pretty people and probably listen a little bit

490
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Speaker 2: more to the conversation, it's a little bit like if

491
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Speaker 2: you know a billionaires saying, hey, it's it's really.

492
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Speaker 4: Tough getting out to the airport to get on the

493
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Speaker 4: private yet.

494
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Speaker 1: Yeah, the traffic sucks.

495
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Speaker 2: Yah, it's hard to find my car cas because my

496
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Speaker 2: house is so humongous.

497
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Speaker 3: Do you know what or something it probably is sure

498
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Speaker 3: probably does suck.

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Speaker 1: Carkes in a huge house, Well, yeah, I still have

500
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Speaker 1: a key rack, I'm sure.

501
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Speaker 3: Well, maybe they bight away.

502
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Speaker 1: Sure.

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Speaker 4: I think it's a hard thing to get on board

504
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Speaker 4: with someone's argument if they're trying to argue it from.

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Speaker 1: First person perspective. Do you think, though, there's any merit

506
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Speaker 1: to what she's saying?

507
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Speaker 2: Do you think I wouldn't value myself as ridiculously good looking?

508
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Speaker 2: So I can't really comment on whether life like given

509
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Speaker 2: I haven't lived as an attractive man. I don't know

510
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Speaker 2: if life is easier or harder. Do you think there's

511
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Speaker 2: any merit to what she said? Around a world where

512
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Speaker 2: if you are attractive, life is harder?

513
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Speaker 1: Is it harder being pretty?

514
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Speaker 8: Like?

515
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Speaker 1: Do you?

516
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Speaker 2: I'm not either way? But do you reckon? Life could

517
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Speaker 2: be harder if you're very attracted? Let's take those calls

518
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Speaker 2: thirteen one oh six five? People might think you is

519
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Speaker 2: it harder being pretty? People might think you're un intelligent?

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Speaker 4: Maybe so I know someone who is inventionally very pretty

521
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Speaker 4: and they are a very good friend of mine, and

522
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Speaker 4: they said.

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Speaker 1: For sorry, sorry, And Elise is pointing it herself.

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Speaker 4: So so she she said to me that when she

525
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Speaker 4: was younger, you're beautiful.

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Speaker 1: Analyst stress that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he is talking about you, talking about she said

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Speaker 2: to me that, which was when she was younger, she

529
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Speaker 2: was told very often that she was pretty. Teachers, parents,

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Speaker 2: oh you're such a pretty good but such pretty good, right,

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Speaker 2: And then she said that sucked because she would always

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Speaker 2: have to prove herself beyond pretty. And she said she

533
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Speaker 2: knew that because like her.

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Speaker 4: You know, she would have should you know, in whatever

535
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Speaker 4: relationship she was engaged with someone, whether it was a

536
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Speaker 4: mentor or a friend or whatever it is, they would

537
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Speaker 4: often get to the point where they would say to her.

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Speaker 1: Oh, not just a pretty face.

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Speaker 4: And she hates that expression now because it is it

540
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Speaker 4: typifies the judgment that she gets.

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Speaker 2: So basically they're saying it's a backhanded compliment. So basically

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Speaker 2: what they're saying is, so after this point, I actually

543
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Speaker 2: didn't rate you well when I saw you and you

544
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Speaker 2: were attractive, I just thought you.

545
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Speaker 3: Were an attractive person.

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Speaker 4: Are I'm going to give you until you prove to

547
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Speaker 4: me that you're more than just an attractive person. You

548
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Speaker 4: are just an attractive person. But so's both sides of

549
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Speaker 4: this argument. I don't know thirty one and six five.

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Speaker 4: I do think this is this is this is a

551
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Speaker 4: tough question to answer in the affirmative though thirty one

552
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Speaker 4: and six five is it harder to be pretty?

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Speaker 2: Because the other side of it is, like, you know,

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Speaker 2: if you've seen the film Shallow, How Life's pretty good

555
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Speaker 2: for Age Weld that movie, didn't it, And that's the

556
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Speaker 2: last we'll talk about it.

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Speaker 3: I think it is hard. It's a hard argument to

558
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Speaker 3: run for a model.

559
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Speaker 2: She's gorgeous, this holy girl, she's you know, objectively attractive.

560
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Speaker 3: Hard argument for her to run that it is a tough.

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Speaker 4: World for her to be and being objectively attractive, that's

562
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Speaker 4: just the nature of that argument.

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Speaker 1: You're just never going to win that.

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Speaker 4: It's like a white guy walking into a room saying

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Speaker 4: it's tough being a white guy. Yeah, you're going to

566
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Speaker 4: lose that, and tell you right.

567
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Speaker 1: Now you are going to lose that fight hund percent.

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Speaker 2: And I think as well for people who maybe aren't

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Speaker 2: stereotypically attractive, like you know that aren't on that.

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Speaker 1: Level, yeah, they would.

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Speaker 2: They would look at pretty people, are very attractive people

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Speaker 2: and be like, well, from the outside, it looks.

573
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Speaker 1: Like your life is a lot easier than mine.

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Speaker 3: There's all those tests.

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Speaker 4: Around, you know, people who've who are objectively attractive, who

576
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Speaker 4: put on fat suits for the day and all that

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Speaker 4: sort of stuff.

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Speaker 1: That's why I brought up shallow. Horo went out in the.

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Speaker 3: Suit because she plays.

580
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Speaker 4: She plays both herself and her natural body weight, and

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Speaker 4: then she also wears a fat suit.

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Speaker 2: Yes, And she went out in the in the suit

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Speaker 2: when she wasn't even filming, and she was like, she

584
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Speaker 2: could not believe how different it was. People weren't holding

585
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Speaker 2: outdoors for her, no one was looking at her like

586
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Speaker 2: it was right.

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Speaker 1: And she's lived a life.

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Speaker 4: So from that side of things, it is a very

589
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Speaker 4: hard argument to say.

590
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Speaker 2: That it is harder to be pretty. But Rachel's cold?

591
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Speaker 2: Or is it Rachelle? I can't tell.

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Speaker 12: Hey, boys, it's Rochelle.

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Speaker 3: OHI Rachelle, what do you reckon? Is it harder to

594
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Speaker 3: be pretty?

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Speaker 8: Look?

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Speaker 12: I do have to say hot. Is life harder to

597
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Speaker 12: an extent, But this is what I mean by it.

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Speaker 12: I am on the more fit, sinnar side of the spectrum.

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Speaker 12: But in saying that I've gone through two pregnancies, I

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Speaker 12: put on over twenty kilos in both my pregnancies. I've

601
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Speaker 12: worked very, very hard to get to where I am

602
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Speaker 12: right now in terms of I wake up at four

603
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Speaker 12: point thirty every morning to get my butt to the gym.

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Speaker 12: So is that easy? No, I'm working my butt off

605
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Speaker 12: every single day getting in the gym, making sure that

606
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Speaker 12: I'm eating right. Would I prefer to eat crap every day?

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Speaker 14: One hundred percent?

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Speaker 12: I wouldn't. I stick to a decent diet, and that's all.

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Speaker 4: It's harder to be pretty to maintain your prettiness well.

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Speaker 12: To an extent, yes, you do. Like I would prefer

611
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Speaker 12: to sleep in every day, But that.

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Speaker 3: Is your choice, the gym. That is your choice, though,

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Speaker 3: rachel Everyone has a choice. It's not imposed on you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but you know that old expression, choose your difficult,

615
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Speaker 4: you know, like like you're imposing that, you know, you

616
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Speaker 4: know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: Like it's like someone who's like, I'm going to be

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Speaker 3: a writer.

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Speaker 4: And I'm going to get up at five o'clock every

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Speaker 4: morning and write and then go God, it's tough being

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Speaker 4: a writer, you know.

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Speaker 13: Like that is.

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Speaker 3: That is your plate.

624
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Speaker 4: Like if you want to be fit and and you

625
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Speaker 4: want to eat well and you want to exercise and

626
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Speaker 4: all those sorts of things, that's great. But I think

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Speaker 4: it's I think it's I think it's different than what

628
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Speaker 4: I'm talking about here, which I think is like genetically

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Speaker 4: being gifted with looks.

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Speaker 2: Rachelle, you might have a good perspective on you said

631
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Speaker 2: that you put on a little bit of weight after pregnancy,

632
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Speaker 2: which again totally normal and obviously that happens. But do

633
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Speaker 2: you think you were treated differently after your pregnancies when

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Speaker 2: you put on a little bit of weight.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, I think I definitely was. And that's where I

636
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Speaker 12: do believe that. Yes, there is a privilege if you

637
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Speaker 12: look a certain way, but it also is hard to

638
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Speaker 12: maintain that or to even get to that, Like there's

639
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Speaker 12: a little work that goes behind it. Am I talking

640
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Speaker 12: like botox and fillers and plastic surgery. That's obviously a

641
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:09,280
Speaker 12: much easier way to get there, which I have not

642
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Speaker 12: done any of. But yeah, I definitely think my way

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Speaker 12: of eating really well and making sure I get to

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Speaker 12: the gym and I look after myself.

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Speaker 4: No no judgment here, Michelle at all sounds. I've got a

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Speaker 4: couple of kids, So you can have on a hundred

647
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Speaker 4: all a while. Who vouched you to take with you

648
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Speaker 4: over summer?

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Speaker 1: Enjoy?

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Speaker 4: We've got Jackie here on thurday one and six five. Jackie, Hey, Jackie,

651
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Speaker 4: is it harder to be pretty? You've got some experience

652
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Speaker 4: from both sides here.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 11: So I used to be one hundred and sixty five

655
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Speaker 11: kilos and I lost ninety five kilos, so wow, definitely, yeah,

656
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Speaker 11: on both ends of the spectrum. And now so in

657
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Speaker 11: my skinniest time, I've actually become very successful in business.

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Speaker 11: I've got three cafes goodbye Sydney, and I've also got

659
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Speaker 11: two trucks that i'm a business partner in. And sadly,

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Speaker 11: now that you know you've you've lost weight and you're

661
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Speaker 11: looking better now, people assume you're not so smart anymore

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Speaker 11: and you must have done something to get with And

663
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Speaker 11: because I've got a lot of followers online, I'm a

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Speaker 11: bit of an influencer in Sydney, so I've got about

665
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Speaker 11: one hundred thousand followers across three platforms. And yeah, the

666
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Speaker 11: hate is phenomenal. If you read my comments, it's like, oh,

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Speaker 11: I bet you she did this to get where she is.

668
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Speaker 11: A bet you she did this.

669
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 1: It's not sorry, Jackie, but she did this. So what

670
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:17,400
Speaker 1: are you referring to it?

671
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:18,840
Speaker 14: What do they think?

672
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:23,200
Speaker 11: They insinuate that you're like like pretty girls, like they

673
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 11: do things to get where.

674
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:28,200
Speaker 2: They are, gifted things because you're attractive.

675
00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:34,160
Speaker 11: No, yeah, oh yeah, and it's quite sad because you

676
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:35,760
Speaker 11: do work so hard to get where you are, like

677
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:36,480
Speaker 11: I'm a single mom.

678
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:38,080
Speaker 6: I've worked my absence.

679
00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's extraordinary.

680
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 2: What was you Saycret Jackie? Ninety five killers? Is an

681
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:48,400
Speaker 2: extraordinary journey? Like what was What was the number one

682
00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:49,760
Speaker 2: thing you changed about your life style?

683
00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:52,880
Speaker 11: Honestly, I had to get the help. I got the

684
00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:55,280
Speaker 11: sleeve and I got the manjaro, and I just have

685
00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:57,800
Speaker 11: to stick to it. Like and that obviously brings on

686
00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:00,120
Speaker 11: the good eating because.

687
00:29:59,880 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 1: If what is the manjaro? You got a stomach band?

688
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:04,960
Speaker 6: The band?

689
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 11: But is that injection you get from the doctor. It's

690
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:10,280
Speaker 11: it makes to play. Yeah, it's really good.

691
00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:12,680
Speaker 6: Like a zimbic exactly.

692
00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:16,560
Speaker 1: Yeah. Okay, cool, all right, well thanks.

693
00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:22,840
Speaker 3: Thanks, let's go to any more about that? Okay, Kiara,

694
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:24,240
Speaker 3: it's called.

695
00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 1: Yiara Jari.

696
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:34,080
Speaker 3: So you're the producers written here? You are conventionally pretty?

697
00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:34,720
Speaker 12: Yes?

698
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:34,960
Speaker 1: Is it?

699
00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 3: I guess do you get that? I mean, are people

700
00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:39,440
Speaker 3: telling you that? Have they told you that a long time?

701
00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:39,800
Speaker 6: Yes?

702
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 14: It sounds you know a bit for myself.

703
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 12: I do get it.

704
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:44,120
Speaker 3: You've heard that?

705
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:45,040
Speaker 1: Okay?

706
00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 3: Is it harder to be pretty? Is it harder to

707
00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:48,160
Speaker 3: be pretty?

708
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:48,480
Speaker 1: Gara?

709
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 12: Look, it's a double edged sword.

710
00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 14: There is a lot of benefits. You get some crazy

711
00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:56,200
Speaker 14: offers and you get treated in a certain type of way.

712
00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:58,600
Speaker 14: But I do say that you experienced the opposite side

713
00:30:58,640 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 14: of that simultaneously.

714
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:02,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, what's the craziest offer you've received. We're a family

715
00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 2: friendly shadow of course.

716
00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 8: Yeah.

717
00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:05,800
Speaker 14: I used to work at cant Casino, So I worked

718
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:10,680
Speaker 14: in the pogany room and I got three thousand, three

719
00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 14: thousand dollars just because I had a pretty face. I

720
00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 14: would make a lot of money and tips just for

721
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:21,600
Speaker 14: the way I looked. Obviously, attractiveness a subjective, but you

722
00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:24,280
Speaker 14: know a lot of places. You know, my girlfriends are

723
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 14: all very attractive as well. We get treated in a

724
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 14: different type of way. A lot of people can offer

725
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 14: us money. I mean we can.

726
00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:33,000
Speaker 12: I've walked at work, I'm.

727
00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 14: A designer and people say, look, I'll give you money

728
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:37,080
Speaker 14: just to go on a date with me.

729
00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:41,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then what's the other side of the sword,

730
00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 2: What's what's what's the negative side of the sword?

731
00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:51,760
Speaker 14: I think that conventionally attractive people, we attract quite toxic relationships.

732
00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 14: I think we attract quite narcissistic traits in terms of

733
00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:59,400
Speaker 14: you know, the dating scene. I think that people need

734
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:02,640
Speaker 14: to kind of confidence to pursue us that's what people think.

735
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:05,080
Speaker 14: So I find that a lot of my girlfriends and

736
00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:09,280
Speaker 14: I attract a real interesting experience while dating because people

737
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:11,240
Speaker 14: just put us in a box. We don't get taken

738
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 14: seriously a lot of the time.

739
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:14,880
Speaker 3: That I was saying before, it's more than just a

740
00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:19,160
Speaker 3: pretty face. Yeah, yeah, thanks for calling Kiara.

741
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:22,600
Speaker 2: We don't have a three thousand dollar tip, but we

742
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:26,080
Speaker 2: do have a can you here at stubby holder? Okay,

743
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:29,040
Speaker 2: so you can take that.

744
00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 15: Tell a dream will Woodies Gumtree game dream.

745
00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:41,400
Speaker 1: I describe an item on gum Tree.

746
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:44,680
Speaker 2: If you can guess the price of that item, I

747
00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:47,520
Speaker 2: give you that dollar amount.

748
00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:50,600
Speaker 1: Nadine is our first player today.

749
00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:55,440
Speaker 2: Hello Nadine, Hey guys, Hello Struth almighty. And this is

750
00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:59,960
Speaker 2: a great item, beautiful for cold nights, I would think, Nadine,

751
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:03,200
Speaker 2: you are trying to guess the price of an exotic chair.

752
00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:06,600
Speaker 1: That's what it's described as. Now let me go into

753
00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 1: it a little bit.

754
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 2: It says exotic chair might be goat, might be lamb

755
00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:14,840
Speaker 2: because it's the chair itself. It's all like goat or

756
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:19,239
Speaker 2: lamb fur and there's three goat or lamb heads on it.

757
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 1: So on the back of.

758
00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:22,840
Speaker 2: Rist there's a goat head on both armrets there's a

759
00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:26,560
Speaker 2: goat head, but it kind of does look luxurious.

760
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:29,720
Speaker 1: Apparently it's only been satin once.

761
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 2: And also the owner felt the need to let you

762
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 2: know that it's not satanic.

763
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 11: Oh my god, it definitely sounds that way.

764
00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:41,960
Speaker 2: It is sounding like like, why why have you mentioned

765
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:43,160
Speaker 2: that it's not satanic?

766
00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:45,360
Speaker 1: For me, that stinks of satanic.

767
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:48,400
Speaker 2: But look, look it's a great chair. I've got all

768
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 2: the heads on it and only been sat in one.

769
00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 2: So how much do you that's selling for.

770
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:58,240
Speaker 11: I'm gonna, I'm, you know, going with the not satanic

771
00:33:58,280 --> 00:33:58,920
Speaker 11: but satanic.

772
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:01,680
Speaker 12: I'm gonna say six times sixty six dollars.

773
00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:09,080
Speaker 1: Ah, yes, so you've done therein clever. It's clever. It's incorrect, though,

774
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:11,280
Speaker 1: in two thousand.

775
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:16,719
Speaker 2: Two hundred dollars for the exotic lamb slash goat cheer Nadine.

776
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:20,880
Speaker 16: Wow, no thanks anyway, guys, No one wins anyway.

777
00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:22,840
Speaker 1: Mate, someone went two and a half months ago. Have

778
00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:24,360
Speaker 1: a look at that. We'll have a look at the

779
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:25,960
Speaker 1: goat chair. I'd sit in it.

780
00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:32,880
Speaker 2: Let's go to Sonny here today, Sonny. Okay, I'm outstanding, Sonny. Okay, Sonny,

781
00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:35,560
Speaker 2: you are trying to guess the price. This is a

782
00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:40,960
Speaker 2: framed a framed photo of Jesus.

783
00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 1: Of Jesus with his shepherd. Oh for good.

784
00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:46,840
Speaker 2: So I was going to read you the description here, Sonny,

785
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:51,400
Speaker 2: beautiful photo with Jesus and his shepherd, so amazingly beautiful.

786
00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:52,160
Speaker 3: Jesus the shepherd.

787
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:54,160
Speaker 1: Well, so this is where it gets confusing.

788
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:55,919
Speaker 2: Let me, I'll just finish the description and then I'll

789
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:57,759
Speaker 2: go in to describe the photo a bit more. So,

790
00:34:57,840 --> 00:35:00,600
Speaker 2: beautiful photo with Jesus and his shepherd, so amazing beautiful.

791
00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:03,279
Speaker 2: Your money, it's worth it. It needs a new home.

792
00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:06,640
Speaker 2: This has been authenticated as the only existing photo of Jesus.

793
00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:08,000
Speaker 2: The price is firm.

794
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:11,480
Speaker 4: And then so do you only have a photo of Jesus,

795
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:14,520
Speaker 4: only one that exists because cameras didn't exist.

796
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:17,480
Speaker 1: Only one that's authenticated. Price is firm.

797
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:20,040
Speaker 2: But again, so if I can describe the photo now,

798
00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:24,319
Speaker 2: So it's a lamb across a guy's shoulders, and the guy,

799
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:26,319
Speaker 2: I mean, it's it's Jesus, but.

800
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:27,840
Speaker 1: It also looks a lot like Brad Pitt.

801
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:32,480
Speaker 2: So it just looks like a weird photoshop photo of

802
00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:36,520
Speaker 2: Brad Pitt in Jesus' garb with a lamb over his shoulders.

803
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:38,759
Speaker 2: And I don't want to go into it too much,

804
00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 2: but the person who wrote the description is trying to

805
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 2: say that the lamb around the shoulders is Jesus because

806
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:46,719
Speaker 2: he was a lamb for our sins. Or I don't

807
00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:48,440
Speaker 2: want to go too much. But how much do you

808
00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 2: think they're selling it for? Sonny?

809
00:35:53,560 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 7: Do you have a range? So? Should I just?

810
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:59,520
Speaker 2: I guess I'll give you a range between zero and

811
00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:00,880
Speaker 2: five thousand dollars.

812
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:06,560
Speaker 12: That's kind of fake.

813
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:17,200
Speaker 7: Actually, she's just in the I would say like seventy dollars.

814
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:23,600
Speaker 2: It's not a bad guess, honey, but incorrect. Unfortunately, one

815
00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 2: hundred dollars for the only authenticated photo of Jesus.

816
00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:29,879
Speaker 1: There you go to get that bad boy.

817
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:32,840
Speaker 4: If anyone you know giving any sermons this weekend, just

818
00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:35,279
Speaker 4: remember that Christ was a lamb for our sins. Well,

819
00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:38,720
Speaker 4: according to this person, Melissa Leong is in the studio

820
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:41,319
Speaker 4: with us. She's got a brand new memoir. It's called

821
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:44,800
Speaker 4: Guts Out in all bookstores with mel look and gorgeous

822
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:47,239
Speaker 4: on the front cover. She's in the studio right now.

823
00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:48,799
Speaker 4: Thanks coming in, Hi, Hi?

824
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:50,360
Speaker 3: How are you got nice words?

825
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:52,440
Speaker 15: Look at a cover? It's a big deal. When it's

826
00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:55,480
Speaker 15: your memoir, like you really needed to represent who you are,

827
00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:57,200
Speaker 15: and hopefully it doesn't date too badly.

828
00:36:57,360 --> 00:37:01,080
Speaker 3: So not dating too baud it, You've got.

829
00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 15: The well, I mean, my dating life is a whole

830
00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:06,920
Speaker 15: other story. I think it's fairly timeless.

831
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:11,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, you've also gone with the Kylie Kwong quote on

832
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:14,120
Speaker 2: the front cover. I noticed that Norella Jacobs and Ronnie

833
00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:16,600
Speaker 2: Chan they're on the back cover. Yes, do they feel

834
00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:18,880
Speaker 2: a bit let down that their quotes are on the

835
00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:20,319
Speaker 2: back cover and you're gone with Kylie Kwong.

836
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:26,719
Speaker 15: It's Kylie, so you know she's She's a legend and

837
00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:29,879
Speaker 15: someone that I really looked to when I started sort

838
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:31,919
Speaker 15: of entering that media space. So, I mean, I think

839
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:33,759
Speaker 15: everyone should bow down to Kylie Kwong.

840
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:37,319
Speaker 2: Do you I've never had someone like have like make

841
00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 2: a quote about anything I've made or done. Do you

842
00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:43,399
Speaker 2: if they send you a quote and you're like not bad,

843
00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:44,680
Speaker 2: can you say, like try again?

844
00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:50,680
Speaker 15: I mean, I luck everyone was like oh thank god.

845
00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:51,320
Speaker 3: No everyone.

846
00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:54,440
Speaker 15: I mean, Runniees is very he's very busy, man, So

847
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:55,040
Speaker 15: can you.

848
00:37:56,719 --> 00:37:59,879
Speaker 1: Straight to the point. Melissa Leong is an Australian color

849
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 1: and cultural treasure.

850
00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:06,200
Speaker 15: I just wanted you to say that on but I

851
00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:08,680
Speaker 15: did make I did make up one from my mom,

852
00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:11,279
Speaker 15: and so people who have read you have gone to

853
00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 15: book signings. Oh that's so funny about what your mother said.

854
00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:16,280
Speaker 15: And I don't know that my mother has actually seen

855
00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:16,920
Speaker 15: it yet.

856
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:20,080
Speaker 1: So sorry, what's what's the made up? I think I

857
00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:22,960
Speaker 1: can see it on the front page. Can I read it? Okay?

858
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 1: So this is apparently a quote from your mom.

859
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:27,600
Speaker 2: I'm still not sure what Melissa does for work, but

860
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:30,400
Speaker 2: her brother is just graduated as a doctor, so now

861
00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:31,400
Speaker 2: whatever she does.

862
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:32,040
Speaker 1: Is okay with me.

863
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:38,640
Speaker 4: It does sound eerily like something your mom would say.

864
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:40,760
Speaker 4: I know your mum from a bar side.

865
00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 15: It's about a savage. It can be yeah, sorry mom,

866
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:49,160
Speaker 15: Her mum is much nicer than that, but she is

867
00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:51,960
Speaker 15: also still a savage. Of course, she's tiny and savage.

868
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I don't know where.

869
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:53,239
Speaker 2: I get it.

870
00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 3: Okay, So we were we were listening to you the

871
00:38:57,640 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 3: other day.

872
00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:00,200
Speaker 2: It's a bit of hypocrisy going on here. So it's

873
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:02,759
Speaker 2: just let me know I go too far already. You

874
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:04,959
Speaker 2: said this the other day about your book tour.

875
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 15: When it comes to nutrition, I don't tend to eat

876
00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:10,240
Speaker 15: a lot when I am traveling.

877
00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:11,360
Speaker 2: If it's not good food.

878
00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:12,040
Speaker 9: I don't want to eat it.

879
00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:14,399
Speaker 15: I'd rather just do a little bit of a fast.

880
00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:21,160
Speaker 15: I may or may not protract that an I in

881
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:25,919
Speaker 15: the bath, No, mad, I was in the bath eating

882
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 15: a Philo chicken nugs.

883
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:30,320
Speaker 3: As well of all the macas.

884
00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:32,799
Speaker 15: They don't at me, no, why not?

885
00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 1: I think it was a strange order.

886
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 15: It's either a thing or if it's not a thing,

887
00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:40,759
Speaker 15: I would I would also order a cheeseburger with the

888
00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 15: steamed bun, but on that particular account. Oh yeah, that's

889
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:47,920
Speaker 15: a revelation. Just custom custom do it. So instead of

890
00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:50,879
Speaker 15: the regular cheeseburger bun, go for the Philly fish bun.

891
00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 15: It's steamed, it's softer, it's better.

892
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:57,240
Speaker 1: Wow, I've never thought about that. Yeah. Cool.

893
00:39:57,360 --> 00:39:57,560
Speaker 6: Yeah.

894
00:39:57,560 --> 00:39:59,960
Speaker 15: There was a real phase in hospitality, especially in Sea,

895
00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:04,799
Speaker 15: where chefs would do custom orders. So post work it

896
00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:08,080
Speaker 15: was like, how could how badly could you franken burger

897
00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 15: your McDonald's order, and so like replacing a big mac

898
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:19,080
Speaker 15: with chicken patties instead, different mixing up different sauces. What wow,

899
00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:23,600
Speaker 15: just to see how making steamed one on a cheeseburger

900
00:40:23,719 --> 00:40:28,320
Speaker 15: is just a very simple substitution. But fantastic all trying that.

901
00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:30,760
Speaker 2: I have a specific question just about eating in the bath.

902
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:35,920
Speaker 2: My problem with eating in the bath is that I

903
00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:37,719
Speaker 2: find so you get excited about it.

904
00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:39,480
Speaker 1: The idea of it amazing, right, It's.

905
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:44,520
Speaker 15: Like shower is amazing. Logistically sometimes problematic depending on the

906
00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:47,399
Speaker 15: top you need a yeah.

907
00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:47,800
Speaker 1: Yeah.

908
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:49,680
Speaker 2: My problem with eating in the bath though, is like,

909
00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:52,239
Speaker 2: how do you enter the bath without getting your hands wet?

910
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:58,520
Speaker 15: Okay, so soggy food how near? But this particular bath,

911
00:40:58,520 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 15: it was in a very nice hotel that I was.

912
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:02,480
Speaker 15: I was put up in in Canberra. It had the

913
00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:07,000
Speaker 15: little that sits over the top, so put the food there,

914
00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:11,239
Speaker 15: had the hand handtail there as well, and so you

915
00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:14,520
Speaker 15: can get into the bathket yourself situated, and then you know,

916
00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:17,160
Speaker 15: it's a long day.

917
00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 8: I was.

918
00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:19,960
Speaker 15: The thing that the iron of all ironing is was

919
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:22,799
Speaker 15: I was hosting a dinner at the restaurant, so I

920
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:25,600
Speaker 15: kind of instead of eating, I just went around every

921
00:41:25,640 --> 00:41:30,040
Speaker 15: table chatted. So I didn't actually eat the dinner.

922
00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:33,440
Speaker 3: Fish had I ate it in the bath.

923
00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:33,799
Speaker 1: That's great.

924
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:35,719
Speaker 15: It was very lovely and very common.

925
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:38,279
Speaker 4: Breast that the breast that the bath thing was a

926
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 4: spontaneous situation like I often The first thing I look

927
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:43,239
Speaker 4: at when I walk into a nice hotel room is

928
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:43,680
Speaker 4: off in the bath.

929
00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 3: Yes, and I would think to myself, I'm going to

930
00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 3: be doing that.

931
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know that I'll be in that at the

932
00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:48,680
Speaker 1: end of the day.

933
00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:50,040
Speaker 15: Even if you have a bath at home, we don't

934
00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:50,560
Speaker 15: tend to use that.

935
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:53,360
Speaker 4: No, exactly, but when you're away, Yeah, you walk in,

936
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:54,759
Speaker 4: You're like, I'm going to be in that at least once.

937
00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:57,840
Speaker 15: Suddenly something in your mind goes Burger's Bath.

938
00:41:58,600 --> 00:41:59,320
Speaker 3: Of the Horse.

939
00:41:59,880 --> 00:42:01,840
Speaker 5: I know.

940
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:03,239
Speaker 4: So I know this is going to be absolutely chuck

941
00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:06,480
Speaker 4: a block with stories about your life. Yes, what is

942
00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 4: one that you would like people to remember most?

943
00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:13,600
Speaker 15: I look, there are lots of complex stories, so there's

944
00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:15,280
Speaker 15: a lot of light. There's a lot of talking about

945
00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:18,240
Speaker 15: food and fun, fun things, but we're all complex creatures.

946
00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:20,400
Speaker 15: The big one that everyone's been talking about over the

947
00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:23,319
Speaker 15: last few months has been that this is the very

948
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:27,160
Speaker 15: first time I've been able to face acknowledging publicly that

949
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 15: I have been sexually assaulted. And it was in the

950
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:32,439
Speaker 15: hospitality industry about fifteen years ago.

951
00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 1: Wow, I'm sorry.

952
00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 15: We've just come through our National Survivor Week, which I

953
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:39,880
Speaker 15: think is a really important thing. To reference. For me,

954
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:42,799
Speaker 15: the big message here is one that I hope I

955
00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:45,920
Speaker 15: can pass on that is consent is key. Consent is

956
00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:48,719
Speaker 15: really really important. And back when this happened to me,

957
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:51,920
Speaker 15: consent was not something that we were talking about and

958
00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:55,319
Speaker 15: certainly not something that was driven home to me. I

959
00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:59,120
Speaker 15: definitely want to lend my weight to that discussion and

960
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 15: for survivors to understand that the shame is not ours

961
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:06,719
Speaker 15: to carry, it's the perpetrators, and so we need to

962
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:10,440
Speaker 15: kind of draw ourselves out of shame. And in two strengths.

963
00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:12,799
Speaker 1: Is that why it's it's so long to talk about it.

964
00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:16,239
Speaker 15: I've repressed it. I had repressed it. I had put

965
00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 15: it in a box in a deep dark hole for

966
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 15: a really really long time. And it wasn't until I

967
00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 15: guess the year leading up to writing the book where

968
00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:26,440
Speaker 15: I started to kind of sketch out the shape, the

969
00:43:26,520 --> 00:43:29,400
Speaker 15: rough shape of the book. I watched it bubble up

970
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:31,320
Speaker 15: on the screen and it just sort of wrote itself.

971
00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:33,719
Speaker 15: And I was like very confronted by that because I

972
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:37,279
Speaker 15: had to remind myself that this is part of my

973
00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:40,040
Speaker 15: existence and part of my resilience is a human being.

974
00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 15: And so for people that you see that are bright

975
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:47,440
Speaker 15: and happy and doing fun, interesting, glamorous things. Don't discount

976
00:43:47,440 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 15: what they might have gone through to get to where

977
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 15: they are.

978
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:51,160
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah.

979
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:54,400
Speaker 15: So my victories are particularly you know, big victories for

980
00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:56,960
Speaker 15: me because I've come through some pretty dark stuff, including

981
00:43:57,000 --> 00:43:58,640
Speaker 15: that particular chapter.

982
00:43:58,560 --> 00:43:59,000
Speaker 8: Of my life.

983
00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:02,640
Speaker 4: Thanks for yeah, yeah, we're done for writing about it

984
00:44:02,640 --> 00:44:06,520
Speaker 4: as well. I should mention the number for anyone who's

985
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:09,000
Speaker 4: been through anything like that is of course one hundred.

986
00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:12,400
Speaker 4: Respect Now back to your book, mel it is called guts,

987
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:14,799
Speaker 4: which I thought actually was just a food reference for them,

988
00:44:17,320 --> 00:44:19,040
Speaker 4: all of the references.

989
00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:20,680
Speaker 15: To fill your guts, to spill your guts, you know,

990
00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:21,800
Speaker 15: to hate people's guts.

991
00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:24,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, rights, yeah yeah.

992
00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:26,799
Speaker 15: But to have the guts to do things again, I

993
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:28,640
Speaker 15: think is a big thing that keeps coming up here.

994
00:44:28,680 --> 00:44:32,360
Speaker 4: Interesting sort of the nature of the hospitality industry, isn't it.

995
00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 4: The brightest lights in the darkest dark. That's what we

996
00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:37,280
Speaker 4: are very well respected in the hospitality industry.

997
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:42,880
Speaker 1: Now though we actually tested here we go, here we go.

998
00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:44,239
Speaker 1: You keep saying that you.

999
00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:50,440
Speaker 2: Have a lot of pool within restaurants around Australia.

1000
00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:53,840
Speaker 15: To say, I have built hard earned your strong relationship.

1001
00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:56,160
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, and we believe you. We just thought one.

1002
00:44:56,200 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 2: Don't test it out. So there's there's a new restaurant.

1003
00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:02,640
Speaker 2: It's a hot, happening restaurant called Daphnie. Are you cause Daphne?

1004
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:05,239
Speaker 15: Daphne hottest new opening of the year.

1005
00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:06,160
Speaker 1: So oh.

1006
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:11,440
Speaker 2: So Will and I were due for our annual blowout dinner.

1007
00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:15,320
Speaker 15: I think you've chosen a fantastic restaurant.

1008
00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:17,239
Speaker 2: Let's call them and let's just try and look a

1009
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:19,840
Speaker 2: really popular time, like six pm this Saturday. Yeah, I

1010
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:23,320
Speaker 2: would say if they don't accommodate us, if you called

1011
00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:25,920
Speaker 2: straight back and then asked for the same time.

1012
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:28,879
Speaker 1: Okay, would they make room for you? Okay, let's test

1013
00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:29,239
Speaker 1: that out.

1014
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:30,040
Speaker 15: All right, let's go.

1015
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:37,600
Speaker 2: This is Hannah Sorry, is this a Daphne restaurant?

1016
00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:39,960
Speaker 12: It is Daphnie, Yes, amazing.

1017
00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:42,800
Speaker 2: I was just wondering if I could please make a

1018
00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:45,120
Speaker 2: booking for this Saturday at six pm please.

1019
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:52,080
Speaker 16: Unfortunately, we have just opened and we're fully booked this Saturday.

1020
00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:55,080
Speaker 16: There's definitely some space you can walk in if you

1021
00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:57,080
Speaker 16: give it a try, but I'm fully booked.

1022
00:45:57,200 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 2: Love a guarantee like it's it's my audio. So is

1023
00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:03,320
Speaker 2: there any any wiggle room I can.

1024
00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:03,600
Speaker 9: Pop you on?

1025
00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:05,719
Speaker 16: The light list and if something becomes available, we can

1026
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:06,440
Speaker 16: definitely give.

1027
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:06,719
Speaker 12: You a buzz.

1028
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:11,480
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, no stress, thank you, thanks bye?

1029
00:46:12,200 --> 00:46:14,160
Speaker 1: All right, booked out? So I got I got weight

1030
00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:15,600
Speaker 1: list though, so okay.

1031
00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:17,560
Speaker 15: That's not too bad. You just drop your you did

1032
00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:20,719
Speaker 15: drop the Big four oh guide, and look where it

1033
00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:21,360
Speaker 15: got you?

1034
00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:22,600
Speaker 1: Nowhere? Good lesson?

1035
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:28,000
Speaker 4: Okay, so here we go and now listenly on if

1036
00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:29,160
Speaker 4: that name opens doors?

1037
00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:31,120
Speaker 5: What?

1038
00:46:31,280 --> 00:46:32,880
Speaker 16: Hello, Dashni, This is Hannah.

1039
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:36,439
Speaker 15: Hello, Hannah Green. It's melong here going.

1040
00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:39,840
Speaker 16: I'm so well busy.

1041
00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:43,600
Speaker 15: I know we'll congratulations on the opening. I hear it's fantastic.

1042
00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:44,719
Speaker 16: Thank you.

1043
00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:47,160
Speaker 15: I'm hoping. Look, I know it's really last minute, but

1044
00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:49,319
Speaker 15: I'm hoping that I might be able to get in

1045
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:54,279
Speaker 15: this Saturday and at about six for absolutely parks for

1046
00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:56,200
Speaker 15: you always fantastic.

1047
00:46:56,600 --> 00:46:59,759
Speaker 16: Let me a few things around and I'll sort that out.

1048
00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:01,719
Speaker 15: Thanks babe, I really appreciate it.

1049
00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:04,160
Speaker 1: Pleasure, was it, Hannah?

1050
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:04,919
Speaker 3: Yes?

1051
00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:06,840
Speaker 1: What about my fortieth birthday?

1052
00:47:06,880 --> 00:47:07,240
Speaker 7: Hannah?

1053
00:47:07,440 --> 00:47:11,280
Speaker 2: Literally I literally told you forty five seconds ago, Hannah,

1054
00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:12,440
Speaker 2: And apparently I was awaiting.

1055
00:47:13,120 --> 00:47:15,880
Speaker 16: Well, I've got a twenty year relationship with militia young.

1056
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:25,160
Speaker 15: Yes, around, I know where all the bodies are very thanks.

1057
00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:27,759
Speaker 4: Just sidle up to Melissa you on because she she

1058
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 4: opens doorst.

1059
00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:30,960
Speaker 2: Us pretend to be here. I would say, are you

1060
00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:33,520
Speaker 2: ever making a book? It's like, Hi, it's Melissaly long here.

1061
00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:34,279
Speaker 7: Wow.

1062
00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:35,840
Speaker 15: Okay, that's really frightening.

1063
00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:43,319
Speaker 3: We're encouraging identity catch Please don't. Bell's got a brand

1064
00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:45,080
Speaker 3: new memoire. It's called Guts, Go and get it.

1065
00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:46,719
Speaker 1: Thanks for coming in later.

1066
00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:47,080
Speaker 15: Thank you.

1067
00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:48,839
Speaker 3: It's really what he giz