WEBVTT - FULLSHOW! Proposal etiquette 💍 0:00:12.640 --> 0:00:21.279 Laura, come on, hello everyone though, Hello, everybody here we go. 0:00:21.480 --> 0:00:22.040 Hi, guys. 0:00:22.200 --> 0:00:24.720 Do you know why I am so excited today? 0:00:24.760 --> 0:00:27.000 Because she just saw us obviously, Laura, Hey, you guys 0:00:27.040 --> 0:00:27.800 always make me happy. 0:00:27.840 --> 0:00:30.360 No kids are here, No, no. 0:00:29.920 --> 0:00:32.400 No, I love my children. That's a horrible thing to say. 0:00:32.560 --> 0:00:35.800 Miss them every day. No, it's because you know on Stan, 0:00:35.960 --> 0:00:37.560 have you guys seen a series Doctor Death? 0:00:37.800 --> 0:00:39.480 Oh yeah, brilliant, phenomenal. 0:00:39.479 --> 0:00:42.080 Okay, so they're bringing out season two of Doctor Death 0:00:42.479 --> 0:00:45.600 and I am so obsessed, Like, I am so invested 0:00:45.640 --> 0:00:47.320 in this series. Like, if you haven't seen the first 0:00:47.360 --> 0:00:49.360 series of Doctor Death, you've got to go and watch it. 0:00:49.360 --> 0:00:51.400 It's based on a true story. It's actually based on 0:00:51.440 --> 0:00:55.200 a podcast which came out first, and it's around this 0:00:55.360 --> 0:00:58.200 doctor who he's a surgeon and it was based between 0:00:58.200 --> 0:01:01.920 twenty eleven and twenty thirteen and he operated on over 0:01:02.000 --> 0:01:05.800 forty patients and maimed or killed every single patient that 0:01:05.880 --> 0:01:08.880 he operated on. It is wild and he's now serving 0:01:08.880 --> 0:01:11.400 his life in prison for it. But it follows that story. 0:01:11.440 --> 0:01:13.600 So I'm so invested in season two. 0:01:13.520 --> 0:01:16.520 Many more in it two. And she's such a brilliant actress. 0:01:16.560 --> 0:01:18.039 Oh yeah, I know, you're obsessed with her. 0:01:18.200 --> 0:01:20.120 I love her, I can't fold. I think she's actually 0:01:20.120 --> 0:01:21.160 a better actress and a singer. 0:01:21.200 --> 0:01:22.760 Controversial, I agree with you. 0:01:22.800 --> 0:01:25.679 Well that's December twenty two on Stand season two, Doctor Death. 0:01:25.880 --> 0:01:27.000 I am so about this. 0:01:27.080 --> 0:01:28.520 I wonder if we can get the doctor on the show. 0:01:28.560 --> 0:01:29.960 Do you reckon he ad, call in from prison? 0:01:30.040 --> 0:01:32.479 I wonder of death or call death to call the show? 0:01:32.560 --> 0:01:34.280 All right, stick stick around? 0:01:34.319 --> 0:01:36.600 Well after that, no, guys, but. 0:01:36.640 --> 0:01:39.279 Do stick around please because we do have a really 0:01:39.280 --> 0:01:41.679 incredible ask on cart. We've had someone call up with 0:01:41.760 --> 0:01:46.600 a bit of a conundrum. Yeah, yeah, yeah, next. 0:01:46.480 --> 0:01:48.200 Also a thousand bucks cash up for grams on the 0:01:48.200 --> 0:01:49.280 show before four o'clock. 0:01:49.440 --> 0:01:52.320 Let's go. Let's do this right. 0:01:52.160 --> 0:01:55.480 Now, ask mcata. 0:01:56.080 --> 0:01:57.920 Okay, So, asking cut is something that we do on 0:01:57.960 --> 0:02:00.960 the show every Thursday. It's where you call in with 0:02:01.080 --> 0:02:04.400 your deepest, your darkest, your most problematic problems and we 0:02:04.440 --> 0:02:05.440 do our best to answer them. 0:02:05.720 --> 0:02:08.280 We have a caller today. Her name is Sally, and 0:02:08.440 --> 0:02:09.359 Sally's little bit. 0:02:09.480 --> 0:02:12.799 Hi, Sally, A little bit concerned about an engagement or 0:02:12.880 --> 0:02:13.200 hit us? 0:02:13.240 --> 0:02:13.480 Sal? 0:02:13.720 --> 0:02:14.880 Yeah, what happened? 0:02:14.960 --> 0:02:15.040 So? 0:02:15.639 --> 0:02:19.720 I have been with my partner for eight years now, right, 0:02:20.200 --> 0:02:23.679 and of course, I've been hinting at wanting to get engaged. 0:02:23.720 --> 0:02:28.760 I want to progress our relationship. He has, he's recently proposed. 0:02:29.240 --> 0:02:34.880 Now upon proposing, he's actually kind of thrown worlds at me, like, okay, 0:02:34.960 --> 0:02:36.760 you've got what you want now, I hope you're happy. 0:02:38.480 --> 0:02:42.560 Now I'm really starting to question whether or not I 0:02:42.639 --> 0:02:44.480 should be with him or stay with him. 0:02:44.520 --> 0:02:44.680 Now. 0:02:44.720 --> 0:02:46.720 I guess it just I just don't know. 0:02:47.240 --> 0:02:50.760 Okay, when he proposed, prior to that, had there been 0:02:50.800 --> 0:02:53.680 lots of conversations of you, like pressuring him into it, 0:02:54.040 --> 0:02:55.320 or like did he want to do it? 0:02:55.440 --> 0:02:57.639 He sounds like you'd be honest, You're right, You're right. 0:02:57.880 --> 0:03:00.440 The conversations led by me. I'm the one who's morning 0:03:00.480 --> 0:03:02.680 to you know, it's been eight years. I think after 0:03:02.760 --> 0:03:06.239 three or four years, I was really looking to get engaged. 0:03:06.280 --> 0:03:09.040 And I think by eight years I might have mentioned 0:03:09.040 --> 0:03:11.160 it one too many times, but that still didn't make 0:03:11.200 --> 0:03:12.440 me question our relationship. 0:03:12.520 --> 0:03:14.359 And now I have, Well, Sally. 0:03:14.120 --> 0:03:16.360 I was going to be like man's perspective, but that's 0:03:16.440 --> 0:03:18.600 not really a thing. I just think, and I'm fairly 0:03:18.639 --> 0:03:20.080 a man, so I wouldn't. 0:03:19.720 --> 0:03:20.560 Be a real perspective. 0:03:20.960 --> 0:03:23.200 I think that comes from a place of truth from him, 0:03:23.240 --> 0:03:25.400 like he must be having real feelings. 0:03:25.639 --> 0:03:28.200 There must resentment. No, I feel like there's resentments. 0:03:28.280 --> 0:03:30.920 Yeah, that sounds like resentment, doesn't it. But I mean, 0:03:31.639 --> 0:03:33.480 what do you do now? So you've got the rings? 0:03:33.880 --> 0:03:36.400 You know you are engaged. 0:03:37.840 --> 0:03:38.960 For Sally, that's the real problem. 0:03:39.040 --> 0:03:43.600 Sell, he talks to you a radio SHOWT stop Sally. 0:03:43.760 --> 0:03:47.080 What I mean is what do you do now in 0:03:47.160 --> 0:03:51.520 terms of if you are oh, guys, someone take it seriously. 0:03:52.800 --> 0:03:56.000 Sally needs help, but we're just laughing. Sorry. 0:03:56.200 --> 0:03:58.600 What I mean is is can you, like, are you 0:03:58.640 --> 0:04:00.240 at a point where you feel like you could give 0:04:00.320 --> 0:04:02.560 him an ultimatum in terms of like, well, I don't 0:04:02.560 --> 0:04:04.600 want to marry you if it's not something that you want, 0:04:04.640 --> 0:04:06.560 and if you are going to ask me, it needs 0:04:06.600 --> 0:04:07.880 to be in a way that makes me feel like 0:04:07.880 --> 0:04:09.880 it's actually something you want, not that I've forced you 0:04:09.920 --> 0:04:12.080 into it. And see what he has to say about it, 0:04:12.120 --> 0:04:13.440 because he might turn around and say, well, you did 0:04:13.440 --> 0:04:14.120 force me into it. 0:04:14.160 --> 0:04:15.120 And that'll be your answer. 0:04:15.160 --> 0:04:17.720 If somebody proposed to me and said here's the ring 0:04:17.760 --> 0:04:20.280 on the knee, I hope you're happy, I would. 0:04:20.000 --> 0:04:23.200 Say I'm not, buddy, I most certainly I'm not. 0:04:23.320 --> 0:04:25.320 We're going to rewind that, pretend that didn't happen, and 0:04:25.320 --> 0:04:26.160 we're going to take the ring. 0:04:26.360 --> 0:04:28.000 Can you go take no? Take two? 0:04:28.400 --> 0:04:29.320 Do better? 0:04:29.360 --> 0:04:30.880 I'd say do better, be better, but. 0:04:30.839 --> 0:04:33.080 Then that would always sit with me, Sally, like you're 0:04:33.279 --> 0:04:35.400 you're thinking, now I'm going to I'm going to get married, 0:04:35.440 --> 0:04:36.960 and now I know that this is how he thinks 0:04:36.960 --> 0:04:38.120 about it, does it kind of give you the. 0:04:38.080 --> 0:04:40.760 Each so true? So for me right now, it's made 0:04:40.800 --> 0:04:43.640 me not even want to question the actual marriage part 0:04:43.760 --> 0:04:46.599 and just try to be content with the proposal because 0:04:46.600 --> 0:04:48.200 it feels as though I don't even want to go 0:04:48.240 --> 0:04:49.960 to that level of conversation with him. 0:04:50.480 --> 0:04:52.880 You have to know, you have to because the thing 0:04:52.960 --> 0:04:54.960 is is I mean, I know there's part of you 0:04:55.000 --> 0:04:57.960 that's like probably grateful that you're finally engaged the thing 0:04:57.960 --> 0:04:59.720 that you wanted. But if he's doing it and a 0:04:59.800 --> 0:05:01.799 being pressured, or he's doing it because and he feels 0:05:01.839 --> 0:05:04.440 resentful for it, like, what's that foundation for a marriage anyway? 0:05:04.520 --> 0:05:05.080 That's true? 0:05:05.279 --> 0:05:08.320 True, Sally, Do you feel deep down answer this honestly 0:05:08.360 --> 0:05:09.240 that he's the one for you? 0:05:12.000 --> 0:05:14.080 I think I did, And I just feel like now 0:05:14.120 --> 0:05:17.680 I'm questioning it now it's making me rethink that. I mean, 0:05:17.720 --> 0:05:20.880 I truly believe I did, but now I'm just I 0:05:21.040 --> 0:05:21.760 don't know where I think. 0:05:22.400 --> 0:05:23.840 I Okay, this is my advice. 0:05:23.880 --> 0:05:25.000 I think you have to sit down and have a 0:05:25.040 --> 0:05:28.480 conversation with him about it and say, you know, obviously, 0:05:28.960 --> 0:05:31.159 as you know, I've made it no secret, I want 0:05:31.240 --> 0:05:33.680 to marry you, but I don't want it to be 0:05:33.680 --> 0:05:35.719 because you think that it's the only reason I'm going 0:05:35.720 --> 0:05:37.320 to stay in the relationship because you think it's the 0:05:37.360 --> 0:05:39.679 only thing I want. And if you are going to propose, 0:05:39.720 --> 0:05:41.159 I want it to feel like it's something that you 0:05:41.200 --> 0:05:42.680 want as well. And I think you have to kind 0:05:42.720 --> 0:05:45.279 of put that ball back in his court a little 0:05:45.279 --> 0:05:47.760 bit to make that next step and to show you 0:05:47.800 --> 0:05:49.560 that you are valued and loved and all of those 0:05:49.560 --> 0:05:52.400 things that reassurance that you crave when people are wanting 0:05:52.440 --> 0:05:55.680 to get engaged. It's not just always about the ring 0:05:55.920 --> 0:05:58.880 or about the wedding. It's about the relationship reassurance. So 0:05:58.920 --> 0:06:01.200 it's about the commitment knowing that they are meeting you 0:06:01.240 --> 0:06:03.280 where you need to be met in that relationship. 0:06:03.360 --> 0:06:06.040 Absolutely, Yeah, you're so right, and I think I need 0:06:06.080 --> 0:06:06.960 to go away and do that. 0:06:07.440 --> 0:06:12.320 Yeah, Charly keep the ring either way, good luck, but 0:06:12.360 --> 0:06:14.480 also please let us know how this all turns out 0:06:14.480 --> 0:06:14.960 for you as well. 0:06:15.040 --> 0:06:17.320 I will thanks, Thanks, Sally, No worries. 0:06:17.480 --> 0:06:18.560 If you want to get on for an ask gun 0:06:18.640 --> 0:06:21.040 cut the pickup, dot com dot A DMS. 0:06:21.080 --> 0:06:22.400 There yeah, I'll rain these two in. 0:06:22.640 --> 0:06:22.880 Hey. 0:06:22.920 --> 0:06:27.279 Next up we have a superstar supermodel, Australian Ellie Gonzalvez 0:06:27.360 --> 0:06:30.240 and the one hundred and seventeen reasons why you shouldn't 0:06:30.240 --> 0:06:30.719 have kids? 0:06:31.040 --> 0:06:34.680 Wow, yeah, no polarizing, yeah big, that's next. Ellie joins 0:06:34.720 --> 0:06:35.760 us on the pickup after this. 0:06:36.560 --> 0:06:37.719 I don't know if you guys have seen this. 0:06:37.839 --> 0:06:40.000 There's a list going viral at the moment, and an 0:06:40.040 --> 0:06:44.400 Australian woman going viral at the moment. Fourth said list. Now, 0:06:44.480 --> 0:06:48.320 her name is Ellie Gonzalvez, and she has decided to 0:06:48.440 --> 0:06:51.320 very kindly put a list together of all the reasons 0:06:51.440 --> 0:06:54.040 she does not want to have children. 0:06:54.480 --> 0:06:55.520 She shared this list. 0:06:55.600 --> 0:06:59.440 Now there is one hundred and seventeen hundred and eighteen reasons, 0:06:59.520 --> 0:07:02.480 some of very serious I shouldn't laugh, and some are 0:07:02.560 --> 0:07:04.880 very funny. But it's gone viral because some of them 0:07:04.880 --> 0:07:07.280 are like the baby could pooh inside you like, this 0:07:07.480 --> 0:07:09.000 is some of the reasons that, to. 0:07:09.000 --> 0:07:11.440 Be fair, the baby could pooh inside and that is 0:07:11.480 --> 0:07:12.200 a valid reason. 0:07:12.240 --> 0:07:14.240 Number thirty six children are noisy, Like, there's a lot 0:07:14.280 --> 0:07:16.200 going on in this in this list, So we've got 0:07:16.280 --> 0:07:17.520 her to join us on the show. 0:07:17.720 --> 0:07:19.680 Yeah, I wanted to ask you some questions, Ellie. 0:07:19.720 --> 0:07:20.560 Welcome to the picure. 0:07:20.640 --> 0:07:21.000 Ellie. 0:07:21.600 --> 0:07:23.200 Hey, guys, thanks for having me. 0:07:23.440 --> 0:07:23.800 Ellie. 0:07:23.800 --> 0:07:26.240 How did you get around to actually putting this list together? 0:07:26.360 --> 0:07:28.880 And why did you release it? Because I understand you know, 0:07:29.080 --> 0:07:31.040 I've always been on the cusp of do I don't 0:07:31.040 --> 0:07:32.840 I want kids? But I've never thought I'm going to 0:07:32.880 --> 0:07:34.760 write every single reason down and release it to the public. 0:07:35.880 --> 0:07:38.760 Well, I mean for years people asked me, They're like, 0:07:38.880 --> 0:07:41.000 you know, do you want kids? When are you having kids? 0:07:41.040 --> 0:07:43.640 Like literally since I was ten years old. So I 0:07:43.800 --> 0:07:47.239 just ended up writing a full list of all the stupid, 0:07:47.360 --> 0:07:50.680 ridiculous and also serious things down to just hand to 0:07:50.760 --> 0:07:53.240 people now to be like, this is why I'm not 0:07:53.320 --> 0:07:56.960 having kids, and it just seems to go over people's heads, 0:07:57.760 --> 0:07:59.760 and I'm just like, I'm so sick of the question, 0:08:00.320 --> 0:08:02.680 and I think there's such a double standard in terms 0:08:02.720 --> 0:08:06.600 of the response that I get back from people saying 0:08:06.600 --> 0:08:09.680 that I don't want kids instead of saying I do 0:08:09.720 --> 0:08:11.960 want kids, people who are very agreeable, but you know 0:08:12.000 --> 0:08:14.320 when I say that I don't want them, people are 0:08:14.360 --> 0:08:17.760 just like they're like the homophobic parents that the gay 0:08:17.800 --> 0:08:21.920 person comes out to that try to change you, like totally, 0:08:22.640 --> 0:08:25.960 it's very real. They try and convert you. And I 0:08:26.040 --> 0:08:28.240 have no interest in sitting at a barbecue for four 0:08:28.280 --> 0:08:31.480 hours talking to someone about having children. 0:08:31.800 --> 0:08:34.360 It's really funny because no one would ever say to 0:08:34.400 --> 0:08:37.079 someone who says they want kids, well you probably shouldn't. 0:08:37.120 --> 0:08:38.040 You probably should think. 0:08:37.880 --> 0:08:40.280 About that, and not having that, no one ever gets 0:08:40.320 --> 0:08:43.079 the criticism the opposite way. How has the response been 0:08:43.120 --> 0:08:45.000 to this list? I mean, you went very public with it. 0:08:45.000 --> 0:08:47.920 It's obviously gone viral. How like, what has been the feedback? 0:08:48.840 --> 0:08:51.720 Well, I mean like it was never intended to be posted. 0:08:51.760 --> 0:08:54.120 That's what I've said previously. Like a friend of mine 0:08:54.480 --> 0:08:56.800 took my list because he loves it and he doesn't 0:08:56.800 --> 0:08:59.240 want children, and he's like, oh, I got really clucky, 0:08:59.360 --> 0:09:01.800 reverted to the list, and now I don't want kids again. 0:09:02.800 --> 0:09:06.200 I not posting that on my stories like that screenshot, 0:09:06.720 --> 0:09:09.400 and he thought it was hilarious, and then everyone's like, 0:09:09.800 --> 0:09:11.720 can you send us, like we want to see the list. 0:09:11.840 --> 0:09:15.000 So I was like, Okay, well, like let's post it. 0:09:15.000 --> 0:09:15.480 It's real. 0:09:15.640 --> 0:09:17.800 It's like that's why there's just so many things in 0:09:17.840 --> 0:09:20.800 there that's wild. But I just wanted to be completely 0:09:20.800 --> 0:09:25.319 honest and transparent about like all of these actual facts. 0:09:25.600 --> 0:09:27.960 Some people say they're not facts, they're actual facts. 0:09:28.000 --> 0:09:29.199 Google them, look them up. 0:09:30.200 --> 0:09:32.160 But is you'll never have funny again for the rest 0:09:32.200 --> 0:09:36.199 of your existence. I don't know if that's the fact. 0:09:36.960 --> 0:09:40.040 Do you know what's subjective? That one's subjective? 0:09:40.520 --> 0:09:40.960 Right? 0:09:41.360 --> 0:09:43.360 Why Laura, can you connect to any of these? Because 0:09:43.360 --> 0:09:46.000 you're a mum, You've had two kids? I mean like, 0:09:46.040 --> 0:09:47.959 can you relate to any of money? Yeah? 0:09:48.000 --> 0:09:49.920 I read through the list and I was like, pretty 0:09:49.960 --> 0:09:52.559 much ninety nine percent of these I relate to. Still happy, 0:09:52.600 --> 0:09:55.400 I have my kids, love my kids to like so much, 0:09:55.400 --> 0:09:56.800 and I feel like you always have to kind of 0:09:57.000 --> 0:09:59.520 have that caveat, but I'm like, you have to hell, yeah, 0:10:00.120 --> 0:10:02.000 myself in front of people lost on my hair. 0:10:02.120 --> 0:10:04.040 Kids can be rude. I make food and they never 0:10:04.080 --> 0:10:04.360 eat it. 0:10:04.400 --> 0:10:06.600 I was like, I actually really relate face swell and 0:10:06.640 --> 0:10:11.200 body swelling. I was like cloged milk ducks, literally everything 0:10:11.240 --> 0:10:12.000 that's on this list. 0:10:12.040 --> 0:10:14.120 I'm like, I've lift this. How am I still here? 0:10:14.200 --> 0:10:15.200 Ellie, I'm not gonna lie. 0:10:15.240 --> 0:10:16.280 I just froze my eggs. 0:10:16.280 --> 0:10:17.839 And I saw this list and I was like, oh, 0:10:17.880 --> 0:10:20.040 maybe I should be defrustenosed, but check them in the bin. 0:10:20.160 --> 0:10:25.079 Yeah, maybe, Well, look at least at least you're well informed. 0:10:25.200 --> 0:10:27.079 But I mean, the response to. 0:10:27.040 --> 0:10:29.520 Everything was actually really wild. I was never expecting it 0:10:29.559 --> 0:10:31.760 to go as internationally viral as what it did. I thought, 0:10:31.800 --> 0:10:34.000 you know, a couple of hundred comments on my Instagram 0:10:34.040 --> 0:10:36.720 won't get picked up, but like literally went everywhere. I 0:10:36.760 --> 0:10:39.400 think the reason why people are so upset is because 0:10:39.440 --> 0:10:42.319 it's just so honest and real, and nobody is used 0:10:42.400 --> 0:10:46.160 to hearing real honesty these days, unfortunately, because everyone is 0:10:46.200 --> 0:10:48.520 so afraid of being canceled. And I think when it 0:10:48.520 --> 0:10:51.319 comes to this, like having a voice and being as 0:10:51.360 --> 0:10:55.120 confident about what I say and how it all comes across, 0:10:55.160 --> 0:10:58.480 because it's my like, my reason. It's not reasons to 0:10:58.520 --> 0:11:01.760 not have kids for other people. It's just generally my reason. 0:11:01.800 --> 0:11:04.520 Do you know what, You've got one point two million 0:11:04.520 --> 0:11:07.680 followers and so this obviously spreads so wildly because you 0:11:07.760 --> 0:11:10.880 have that engagement. But I also think, and I say 0:11:10.880 --> 0:11:13.360 this as a mum who's someone who I love being 0:11:13.400 --> 0:11:15.400 a mom. It was never something that I thought I 0:11:15.520 --> 0:11:17.600 wanted for myself, but now that I am a mum, 0:11:17.679 --> 0:11:19.079 I'm like, this is incredible. 0:11:19.720 --> 0:11:22.720 But I think that it makes a lot. 0:11:22.520 --> 0:11:25.520 Of people feel maybe a bit insecure about their choices. 0:11:25.559 --> 0:11:28.000 It makes people go like like, oh, well, you're saying 0:11:28.040 --> 0:11:30.120 my life is crap. You know, you're saying my life 0:11:30.160 --> 0:11:31.960 is not is not fun, or that I, you know, 0:11:32.080 --> 0:11:34.280 haven't made the right choices because you wouldn't. And it's like, 0:11:34.480 --> 0:11:36.920 we just need to stop taking things so personally, if 0:11:36.960 --> 0:11:38.960 you don't want to have kids, it doesn't in any 0:11:39.000 --> 0:11:40.680 way affect the fact that I've had them and I 0:11:40.720 --> 0:11:42.680 love it. Like we can all live very different lives 0:11:42.679 --> 0:11:44.679 and be respectful of each other. For me, being a 0:11:44.760 --> 0:11:46.680 mum's the best thing ever. But there's no part of 0:11:46.720 --> 0:11:49.400 me that wants me to go, you're making the bad decision. 0:11:49.440 --> 0:11:51.360 You're not making the right one for you because everyone's 0:11:51.360 --> 0:11:52.040 lives are different. 0:11:52.240 --> 0:11:53.559 Yeah, exactly. 0:11:53.600 --> 0:11:56.079 And I think people also forget it's always the people 0:11:56.080 --> 0:12:01.880 who have kids that say not to have kids. 0:11:59.240 --> 0:12:02.920 So true, honest with you. 0:12:03.520 --> 0:12:04.680 We love it all right, Ellie. 0:12:04.720 --> 0:12:06.839 Great to have you on and keep adding to that list. 0:12:06.920 --> 0:12:09.200 Post in another year and you've got another hundred points 0:12:09.200 --> 0:12:09.440 on it. 0:12:09.520 --> 0:12:10.800 Oh mate, it's already doubled. 0:12:13.960 --> 0:12:17.679 Yeah, imagine all right, I'm the pick up back after this. 0:12:18.920 --> 0:12:21.720 You guys know Britain, Laura, I live with my parents. 0:12:21.800 --> 0:12:23.400 Oh we know, balls full laughter. 0:12:23.640 --> 0:12:25.319 I'm twenty eight, I'm gorgeous. 0:12:25.360 --> 0:12:27.600 I'm six foot three and it's a travesy that I've 0:12:27.600 --> 0:12:28.720 got a full head of hair and I live with 0:12:28.720 --> 0:12:29.400 my p You know. 0:12:29.320 --> 0:12:30.600 What, You're saving a lot of money. 0:12:30.600 --> 0:12:32.200 I know why you did it because what is it 0:12:32.280 --> 0:12:34.560 Coz he live, he lives cos he lives are high. 0:12:34.679 --> 0:12:35.720 That means cost of living. 0:12:35.800 --> 0:12:37.600 Cost of living got me down. I went for a breakup. 0:12:37.640 --> 0:12:39.040 I thought I'm going to go back home. I've been 0:12:39.080 --> 0:12:40.160 home for four months. 0:12:40.240 --> 0:12:41.640 You were supposed to go home just for like a 0:12:41.679 --> 0:12:42.760 little snippet. 0:12:43.000 --> 0:12:44.839 Yeah, yeah, you did say, Mitch that you're going to 0:12:44.920 --> 0:12:47.320 go home until you started to feel mentally well enough. 0:12:47.320 --> 0:12:49.120 And to be fair, I think you'd be mentally well 0:12:49.160 --> 0:12:51.120 for a long time and you probably could move out, 0:12:51.120 --> 0:12:51.680 but you don't want to. 0:12:51.720 --> 0:12:51.880 Yeah. 0:12:51.880 --> 0:12:54.480 About three days in. I'm like, I'm pretty good. Yeah, 0:12:54.520 --> 0:12:56.800 but I've already unpacked my shoes, so I've stayed for 0:12:56.800 --> 0:12:59.600 four months. I'm really comfortable. I reckon I've got another 0:12:59.640 --> 0:13:02.840 two three months in me there. But Mum and Dad 0:13:03.000 --> 0:13:06.000 have started dropping like they think they're subtle, but they're 0:13:06.040 --> 0:13:07.840 not so subtle, hints that they want me out, Like 0:13:07.880 --> 0:13:10.679 you know how mums. Yeah, mums ask around Christmas, like 0:13:10.800 --> 0:13:12.200 to compile a Christmas list? 0:13:12.440 --> 0:13:15.079 Right, what do you want for Christmas? Yeah, Mum goes, 0:13:15.080 --> 0:13:16.400 what do you want for Christmas? Mitch? 0:13:16.600 --> 0:13:18.840 You know, I'm going to get one of those Therma mixes. 0:13:19.040 --> 0:13:20.760 You'd love it, one of those therm mix for your 0:13:20.840 --> 0:13:23.000 kitchen bench, for your tabletop. You just don't have to 0:13:23.000 --> 0:13:24.480 worry about cooking, do you not get you I'll get 0:13:24.480 --> 0:13:25.160 your Therma mixed. 0:13:25.160 --> 0:13:27.120 And you're like, for what tabletop? I'm like, what tabletop? 0:13:27.160 --> 0:13:29.880 What house? What your kitchen? Because I live at home, Mum. 0:13:29.720 --> 0:13:31.120 And you just think you're going to put it in 0:13:31.120 --> 0:13:33.160 your bedroom. You'll never have to come downstairs. 0:13:33.520 --> 0:13:35.559 Maybe she doesn't anyway, then she'll go, I'm going to 0:13:35.640 --> 0:13:37.480 get you a table runner. I saw a beautiful linen 0:13:37.480 --> 0:13:43.640 table runner for your dining table. I don't have a. 0:13:42.080 --> 0:13:44.880 She's prepping not for Armageddon, but for your big movie. 0:13:45.400 --> 0:13:47.000 No, see, I don't think she's trying to get rid 0:13:47.000 --> 0:13:47.200 of you. 0:13:47.360 --> 0:13:49.760 I think that she's just getting you the things like 0:13:50.000 --> 0:13:52.480 she's doing the thing that mums do. She's getting you ready. 0:13:52.520 --> 0:13:54.200 She wants you to be prepared for when you move 0:13:54.240 --> 0:13:54.840 out on your own. 0:13:55.880 --> 0:13:56.280 A box. 0:13:56.320 --> 0:13:58.280 There's like it's like a box, like a dowry box. 0:13:58.440 --> 0:14:00.120 Yeah. Yeah, it's usually full oft. 0:14:00.040 --> 0:14:02.000 In and it's usually what you get when you've gotten married. 0:14:02.040 --> 0:14:03.800 She's definitely trying to get ready of it. 0:14:03.840 --> 0:14:05.959 Well, then my little sister Rachel, who poor thing. I've 0:14:06.000 --> 0:14:08.880 invaded her space so our bedrooms we share a wall together. 0:14:09.040 --> 0:14:13.000 So I to be honest with you, but Rachel sends 0:14:13.040 --> 0:14:16.800 me domain listings. She'll go check out this property on domain. 0:14:16.920 --> 0:14:19.640 It's property for rent eight hundred per week. She sent 0:14:19.680 --> 0:14:20.880 me like three in the last week. 0:14:21.160 --> 0:14:23.200 Okay, take that back to me. She's definitely trying to 0:14:23.200 --> 0:14:24.840 get rid of you. Your mum maybe not so much. 0:14:25.000 --> 0:14:25.680 Oh what about Dad? 0:14:25.680 --> 0:14:28.520 Black Friday deal went to bing Lee, it came home 0:14:28.600 --> 0:14:29.400 and I'm not joking. 0:14:29.400 --> 0:14:31.640 I sent you a photo Britain Laura. Dad bought me 0:14:31.800 --> 0:14:38.320 a microwave. Everyone else sitting at you a fresh I 0:14:38.360 --> 0:14:43.720 brought your house worth the furniture. They're on your way, mate, Water. 0:14:43.840 --> 0:14:46.400 They've given you the listing, they've given you everything you 0:14:46.480 --> 0:14:48.800 need for it, and the only thing you won't do 0:14:48.920 --> 0:14:50.480 is actually go to any. 0:14:50.240 --> 0:14:52.240 Like I was on Domestic Blitz and Shelley Kraft was 0:14:52.240 --> 0:14:54.120 about to turn up and go, here's all your new 0:14:54.160 --> 0:14:55.280 belongings for your new hand. 0:14:55.360 --> 0:14:56.680 No, this is a good tactic. 0:14:56.720 --> 0:14:58.640 I feel like if you hold off long enough, Midge, 0:14:58.640 --> 0:15:01.360 if you just stay, be steadfast day and it has, 0:15:01.360 --> 0:15:02.480 they're going to buy you an apartment. 0:15:02.480 --> 0:15:05.000 Oh my god, it's actually genius. I'm going to get 0:15:05.000 --> 0:15:05.720 a car in a month. 0:15:05.920 --> 0:15:07.680 The longer you stay, the more things you're gonna get. 0:15:08.560 --> 0:15:09.320 Pull amount on it. 0:15:09.720 --> 0:15:12.000 No, I'm taking it all. Put the microwave on gum 0:15:12.000 --> 0:15:13.360 tree pocket of three hundred and fifty. 0:15:13.600 --> 0:15:13.880 You did. 0:15:13.920 --> 0:15:16.560 It's an LG. No, I wouldn't. I love my family, 0:15:16.760 --> 0:15:18.280 but if they're listening, I'm not going anywhere. 0:15:18.280 --> 0:15:19.360 When do you think you're going to move out? 0:15:19.560 --> 0:15:21.440 They don't want to talk about it. Okay, give us 0:15:21.440 --> 0:15:23.480 a bit of a it'll be a good solid three 0:15:23.680 --> 0:15:25.520 four like six months, Max. 0:15:25.320 --> 0:15:29.600 Thirty four six years, tive W thirty five give me 0:15:30.160 --> 0:15:32.360 all right, well you not only you are getting things 0:15:32.360 --> 0:15:34.440 given you at homage. Coming up after the break here 0:15:34.480 --> 0:15:36.480 at the pickup, we are going to give one lucky 0:15:36.480 --> 0:15:40.440 listener one thousand dollars. Yeah, we're going to play What's 0:15:40.480 --> 0:15:42.200 in your Bag? All thanks to Binge. 0:15:42.240 --> 0:15:45.080 That's next on the pickup. 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