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Speaker 2: Hey guys, then, welcome back to another episode of Live Uncut.
Speaker 2: I'm Brittany and I'm Laura, and this is our Thursday episode,
Speaker 2: our down and dirty, sexy Little Lumber where we answer
Speaker 2: your deck, dark and burning questions.
Speaker 1: Now, if Laura sounds a little bit sexy.
Speaker 2: I've still lost my voice.
Speaker 1: My voice is still gone, but that's because we don't
Speaker 1: stop talking.
Speaker 2: No, it's because Britney's been working me into the ground
Speaker 2: and won't let me take any records off. So that's why.
Speaker 2: So eventually we're going to be doing records and I'm
Speaker 2: going I'm gonna smell it has sound like I'm a
Speaker 2: ten packa day.
Speaker 1: Gal. Are you waving these two figures around?
Speaker 2: We are turn you on, Britney. No smell my fingers.
Speaker 1: I wish this was recorded her now.
Speaker 2: Also, I just want to tell you. Speaking of smell
Speaker 2: my fingers, let me tell you. Let me tell you
Speaker 2: how my day started. So I'm laying in bed this morning.
Speaker 2: It's five thirty and Lola, Lola, my beautiful little melon
Speaker 2: has she's really gotten to this new routine where she
Speaker 2: wakes up so freaking early, but she lies in her
Speaker 2: cot and then she talks to herself. So she's like
Speaker 2: laying It's cute. It's annoying because it's early, but it's cute.
Speaker 1: At least she's not in the hallway now.
Speaker 2: She's not screaming like she just wakes up and she's
Speaker 2: like la la lah, like smack it like she's it's
Speaker 2: like she's in jail where they go dig. She like
Speaker 2: gets her dummy and runs it along the rails of her.
Speaker 1: Cot waiting to be fed.
Speaker 2: So this morning she's in her cot, it's five thirty.
Speaker 2: She's chatting to herself until six am. And at six a'
Speaker 2: her I was like, okay, I'll get up, I'll go
Speaker 2: get her. So I get up. I opened the door.
Speaker 2: Let me tell you, had I had a match on me,
Speaker 2: I would have blown the fucking.
Speaker 1: Rum up and diary explode.
Speaker 2: She was like she had done it. This is a
Speaker 2: lot for the being of the episode. I'm gonna tell you,
Speaker 2: the mom's gonna enjoy this. She had done a pooh
Speaker 2: in her nappy, but not just in her nappy. She
Speaker 2: had somehow taken her nappy off inside her bond's onesie
Speaker 2: and she was just ruminating in it. Imagine doing a
Speaker 2: poo in a wet suit. It was like that.
Speaker 1: She was just rolling around in her No, I just
Speaker 1: can't this is that's not for me.
Speaker 2: You just have to put the whole baby in the bin.
Speaker 1: You do, hey, you start it all out?
Speaker 2: Go on?
Speaker 1: How does she not scream and cry rolling around in poop?
Speaker 2: Loved it? It was warm, Maybe it was soft, and
Speaker 2: that's what she was talking about.
Speaker 1: Maybe this sense of smell isn't what else Istlane.
Speaker 2: Would assume that they're not repulsed by their own stand Yeah,
Speaker 2: I would say that that's probably fine.
Speaker 1: I was rolling around in my own ship.
Speaker 2: I could tell you it's actually lucky that we don't
Speaker 2: have a bath where we I mean, not having a
Speaker 2: bath is a bit annoying when you've got kids. But
Speaker 2: we do have one of those showers now that have
Speaker 2: got like the handheld hose so I just have to
Speaker 2: get in there and hose it down like you would
Speaker 2: a car or something like you would on a farm
Speaker 2: or something. Yeah, like exactly, okay, would to a dog.
Speaker 1: I just threw that out because it's a segue into
Speaker 1: what I want to talk about.
Speaker 2: Well, I was going to say, what do you want
Speaker 2: to talk about?
Speaker 1: I talk about a farm in a really loose way.
Speaker 1: Bear with me, Laura, Laura. The look on Laura's face.
Speaker 2: Well, I was going to go into met galla because
Speaker 2: I was like, on one hand, I'm here ruminating in
Speaker 2: my child's pooh, and on the other hand, the most expensive,
Speaker 2: extravagant people in all of the US are going to
Speaker 2: the met galla.
Speaker 1: All right, Well we segued to the farm first.
Speaker 2: Okay, farm me, let's go cowgirl.
Speaker 1: You have to bear with me because I am just
Speaker 1: so shook at what I have read and how with
Speaker 1: everything that has ever happened in parliament around the world,
Speaker 1: how in twenty twenty two this is happening now. The
Speaker 1: reason you're probably thinking, how am I linking a farm,
Speaker 1: farmer and parliament?
Speaker 2: Do my child in the court doing a poo?
Speaker 1: Okay? Well, to talk about a British mp.
Speaker 2: One would call this a punundrum.
Speaker 1: This is a pnundrum.
Speaker 2: That was a good one, thank you. There's a British MP.
Speaker 1: That's in Boris Johnson's party and is this the UK? Yeah,
Speaker 1: in the UK, that's where British is. That's why I
Speaker 1: say miss that.
Speaker 2: I just heard you say, Boris Johnson. It's a British MP.
Speaker 1: Oh my god? Is this in England?
Speaker 2: Nothing gets past me?
Speaker 1: You're on fire today. There's a British MP in Boris
Speaker 1: Johnson's party and he's he's also a farmer, but he's
Speaker 1: an MP. So that that's the correlation here. He has
Speaker 1: just been caught. He's resigned because not once but twice
Speaker 1: in parliament he has been caught while they're waiting to
Speaker 1: vote watching porn in parliament. So like surrounded by people,
Speaker 1: the news would probably be there, like it's always, this
Speaker 1: is always televised. And he's sitting there watching porn. And
Speaker 1: another female parliament member was next to him. She's looking
Speaker 1: at him, She's like, I'm literally and you watch porn,
Speaker 1: Like what are you doing?
Speaker 2: I might I understand once, I can, I can forgive once.
Speaker 2: Maybe he accidentally got there from like a rogue link
Speaker 2: or something. But how does it happen twice?
Speaker 1: Okay, well, I can tell you the first time, mister Parrish,
Speaker 1: a farmer, said the first time he had viewed the
Speaker 1: explicit material, it was when he had accidentally stumbled across it.
Speaker 2: All the time. I accidentally watched porn.
Speaker 1: Too whilst looking for tractors on a website with a
Speaker 1: similar name. And then he had watched it for a
Speaker 1: bit when I shouldn't have done that. Okay, so honest mistake.
Speaker 1: Pretend it was an honest mistake. You probably when you
Speaker 1: are making decisions for your country, you probably shouldn't be
Speaker 1: looking to buy a tractor.
Speaker 2: He was looking for a big digger, not what else
Speaker 2: you found.
Speaker 1: The second time, he just said, look I did on purpose.
Speaker 1: I shouldn't have done it. I got sprung. At the
Speaker 1: end of the day he's like, I did it deliberately.
Speaker 1: I'm embarrassed, and he's had to resign.
Speaker 2: For somebody to watch porn in parliament, they must really
Speaker 2: be watching it all the time.
Speaker 1: Can I tell you about the funniest part of this.
Speaker 1: He works for the conserv Party.
Speaker 2: Were shot five.
Speaker 1: The funniest part about the whole thing not that he's
Speaker 1: looking for a tractor, not that he accidentally watched porn,
Speaker 1: not that he deliberately watched porn, not that he did
Speaker 1: it next to a female parliament member, but that he
Speaker 1: was in the Conservative Party doing all this?
Speaker 2: Can I also say something I've always wondered. This is
Speaker 2: a bit off track, but it does have to do
Speaker 2: with porn. Whenever I've watched porn, I've always thought, why
Speaker 2: the fuck is there a share button at the bottom? Like,
Speaker 2: who am I going to share this? To share it
Speaker 2: on Facebook? Who is sharing porn with their friends and
Speaker 2: family on social media?
Speaker 1: But it's probably not okay, I'm gonna go as far
Speaker 1: as to say, it's probably not to share to your story.
Speaker 2: Well, it's like copy link share, Yeah, copy share now
Speaker 2: like you would a daily mail arted.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it could be like, long, this is relationship.
Speaker 1: You both like masturbating and you want to watch the
Speaker 1: same porn. Or you're like, hey, jump on and watch this,
Speaker 1: so I watch it the same time. I mean, like,
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to give everyone the benefit of doubt.
Speaker 1: I don't think people are putting it to their stories
Speaker 1: and tweeting it.
Speaker 2: Well, I have to say that every single time I
Speaker 2: have watched porn, that is the thought that I have.
Speaker 2: I'm like, who would I share this?
Speaker 1: He can share with me next time.
Speaker 2: Have you ever sent me a fire nude? I think
Speaker 2: you have sent me a nude. You've sent me a
Speaker 2: nude and then asked me if it was a good
Speaker 2: nude for you to then send it to a guy.
Speaker 1: Actually, no, I remember one time. I wasn't sending it anywhere.
Speaker 1: I think I just took it because I thought I
Speaker 1: looked hot. And then I was like, hey, I looked
Speaker 1: I took a fie nude. Can I show you? And
Speaker 1: you were like, yeah, you look good.
Speaker 2: Hu, I don't know where to send it.
Speaker 1: I remember I was like, I.
Speaker 2: Wish I had someone to show. Are you even friends
Speaker 2: if you can't send your best friend a nude? Okay?
Speaker 2: The thing I wanted to talk to you guys about
Speaker 2: before we get into answering all your deep, dark and
Speaker 2: burning questions, is certainly not pornography. What I wanted to
Speaker 2: talk about is what everyone's talking about at the moment.
Speaker 2: It is what has absolutely clogged up your Instagram feed
Speaker 2: over the last couple of days, and that is the
Speaker 2: Met Gala. Now, the reason why I wanted to talk
Speaker 2: about the Met Gala isn't because I wanted to talk
Speaker 2: about the ridiculous clothes, but it's because I realized on Tuesday,
Speaker 2: when I was looking at Instagram, I realized, I don't
Speaker 2: know what the fuck the MET Gala actually is for.
Speaker 1: I don't think you're alone.
Speaker 2: I don't think anyone knows what it's for. I think
Speaker 2: everyone knows it's for a charity some sorts, but nobody
Speaker 2: can actually tell you what is the purpose of it,
Speaker 2: apart from the fact that we all like, on one hand,
Speaker 2: we like to watch the fashion and on the second hand,
Speaker 2: we all like to get real dodgy and be like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, did you see what she was wearing.
Speaker 2: She looked ridiculous. So for anybody who doesn't know what
Speaker 2: the MET Gala actually is, this is your little life lesson.
Speaker 2: Here we go. The MET Gala is held at the
Speaker 2: Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York, and the main
Speaker 2: purpose of the MET Gala is to raise funds for
Speaker 2: a charity however.
Speaker 1: That we love that we love a charity.
Speaker 2: When I thought it was a charity, I was like, Oh, cute,
Speaker 2: they're helping the homeless or maybe like their contu World.
Speaker 1: Famine, Yeah, world hunger.
Speaker 2: But no, the money that is raised from the Met
Speaker 2: Gala goes towards the museum's costume institution.
Speaker 1: So basically, yes, you heard that right.
Speaker 2: The museum has a huge collection of costumes, and the
Speaker 2: money that's raised via the Met Gala goes towards acquiring
Speaker 2: more costumes to go into the range. Which just so
Speaker 2: you know how this kind of works. You can buy
Speaker 2: a ticket to go to the Metcala, or you can't.
Speaker 2: I can't, we can't, but very very wealthy people from
Speaker 2: very expensive brands can.
Speaker 1: Well, even Chloe and Courtney Karashian have never been invited
Speaker 1: before this.
Speaker 2: Year, so you have to be invited to come first,
Speaker 2: and then you have to purchase the ticket. So the
Speaker 2: tickets are around forty four thousand dollars, that's forty four
Speaker 2: thousand US dollars. And often what will happen is that
Speaker 2: celebrities they don't actually have to buy the tickets at
Speaker 2: all because brands, big brands, will buy the tickets on
Speaker 2: their behalf and then they will dress them and that's
Speaker 2: how it works. But basically, an a Winter who is
Speaker 2: the editor in chief in Vogue. She is seventy two
Speaker 2: years old, and a Winter is basically queen costume. She
Speaker 2: sits there and individually picks every single one of the
Speaker 2: five hundred people who goes to the metgala. She goes
Speaker 2: through and says, yes, this brand is allowed to dress
Speaker 2: this celebrity, and yes this celebrity is allowed to attend,
Speaker 2: and that is it. And it's raised over twenty million
Speaker 2: dollars for co costumes for the best costume box in
Speaker 2: the world.
Speaker 1: I mean, that's all well and good. It's like and
Speaker 1: a Winter. I just imagine her. She's like from the
Speaker 1: Hunger Games, like you get to live, you get to live,
Speaker 1: That's what it's like.
Speaker 2: Or she's the Oprah of fashion. I feel like you
Speaker 2: just merged Oprah and the Hunger Games together there and
Speaker 2: it got real weird. I did you get a cut?
Speaker 1: You get a cut, you get to live, you get
Speaker 1: to come, you get to dress up in stress of
Speaker 1: every and this is the thing, right. I think a
Speaker 1: lot of people don't know that, Like I know, I
Speaker 1: definitely didn't. I just used to always think, oh my god,
Speaker 1: they're raising so much money for something, it must be good,
Speaker 1: because there's no there's no way that we could fathom
Speaker 1: that they could be raising this much money. When the
Speaker 1: world is in a crisis right now. We have to
Speaker 1: just think about what's happening in the Ukraine right now.
Speaker 1: Hunger that has been happening. This is not a new
Speaker 1: thing around the world. This has been happening for a
Speaker 1: very long time.
Speaker 2: Hunger is definitely not a new thing.
Speaker 1: No, it's not like we have been working. The world
Speaker 1: has been working towards trying to eradicate world hunger for
Speaker 1: a long time. But we're dropping off twenty million dollars
Speaker 1: and that's us. Let's just say that's you know, twenty
Speaker 1: five to thirty million dollars.
Speaker 2: Thirty million, it's straight.
Speaker 1: That is ludicrous. On costumes, no one's ever going to
Speaker 1: see them. The celebrities pretend to look at them. They
Speaker 1: walk inside and they pretend to look at them quickly,
Speaker 1: but they're there for their photo op.
Speaker 2: That's the thing. The clothes, the costumes then go into
Speaker 2: the museum, and then the general public pay money to
Speaker 2: go and see the costumes. So I think that there
Speaker 2: might be some money going into someone's pocket. That's just
Speaker 2: my speculation. No one see me. I'm just guessing. I
Speaker 2: really enjoyed this year's fashion because I'm a sucker for it,
Speaker 2: and also, can we just take a moment. Blake Lively
Speaker 2: and Ryan Reynolds are my favorite couple in the entire.
Speaker 1: They're up on my screen now, she's by bar. She's
Speaker 1: exquisite and I don't use that word loosely or lightly.
Speaker 1: She is an exquisite human being. Her dress is exquisite.
Speaker 1: He is even more exquisite.
Speaker 2: I mean the men don't get a look in at
Speaker 2: the Met Gala, let's be fair.
Speaker 1: I mean, Ryan Reynolds always gets a look in. He's
Speaker 1: so beautiful. Though next to Blake Lively you don't get
Speaker 1: a look in.
Speaker 2: But anyway, guys, that is enough about the Met Gala.
Speaker 2: We hope that you learned something, because I certainly did.
Speaker 2: Let's get into the purpose of this episode, which is
Speaker 2: answering all of your You're deep, you dark, your burning questions.
Speaker 2: Question number one, Hey, girls, So I have a bit
Speaker 2: of a long standing question. Do you guys think that
Speaker 2: every sexual act with a partner should be reciprocated? For context,
Speaker 2: I caught up with this guy over the weekend and
Speaker 2: he got really mad that after he went down on me,
Speaker 2: I didn't return the favor. I wasn't really into it,
Speaker 2: and him going down on me was spontaneous. I didn't
Speaker 2: ask him to do it. Now this has sparked a
Speaker 2: bit of an ethical debate amongst my friendship group, and
Speaker 2: I love your take on it. Oh fuck you, mad boy,
Speaker 2: go to anger management to go Oh, I mean my
Speaker 2: joy is on the ground.
Speaker 1: No, there is absolutely zero expectation that you have to
Speaker 1: do something ever, or that you have to do something
Speaker 1: because someone did it for you. So there should be
Speaker 1: no expectations here.
Speaker 2: I mean like it give generously in a relationship, but
Speaker 2: that doesn't mean that you have to give every It's
Speaker 2: not like for life. It's not if you scratch my back,
Speaker 2: I'll scratch yours.
Speaker 1: I actually that is such a big turn off for me.
Speaker 1: So when somebody says to me, like if I say
Speaker 1: to somebody if I'm dating them, if I was like,
Speaker 1: oh do you mind like rubbing my shoulder or something,
Speaker 1: got a really bad headache? Well, if you are, you gonna
Speaker 1: give me one back. If somebody says that to me,
Speaker 1: I'm out. I'm done. I people saying that they'll only
Speaker 1: do something if you do it in return. For me,
Speaker 1: there's like no big eternal I think.
Speaker 2: The next time that he says, well, if you're not
Speaker 2: going to do it for me, then I won't do
Speaker 2: it for you. Like the next time you have penetrative sex,
Speaker 2: tell him, well, I now have to do it to you.
Speaker 2: So here's my vibrator. Bendover and I'll stick this in
Speaker 2: your backside, Because if it's good for me and you're
Speaker 2: gonna do it to me, then I'm gonna do it
Speaker 2: to you.
Speaker 1: I think that's a bit extreme, but I also love
Speaker 1: that you the writer. I love that you've said it's
Speaker 1: not like I asked for it. He did it on
Speaker 1: his own accord, and that's absolutely true.
Speaker 2: But in all seriousness, even if you did ask for it,
Speaker 2: even if you did say, hey, go down on me
Speaker 2: whilst you're in the middle of a like a hot
Speaker 2: sexy makeout session and he does it, that is still
Speaker 2: not you consenting to saying yes. It means I'm going
Speaker 2: to do it back like you can. You can do
Speaker 2: whatever the fuck you want to. And also the part
Speaker 2: of this that makes me quite annoyed, And when I
Speaker 2: read this it was the reason why I wanted to
Speaker 2: do this question. Nobody should ever get mad at you
Speaker 2: for not doing something when it comes to sex, and.
Speaker 1: If they do, just doing Finicia.
Speaker 2: It just reinforces that they are an absolute child in
Speaker 2: their views around sex, that the fact that he feels
Speaker 2: entitled to anything is problematic. And if this is a
Speaker 2: guy that you've just had a one night stand with,
Speaker 2: if this is a casual relationship, I would really be
Speaker 2: considering as to whether you would want to go and
Speaker 2: do anything with him again.
Speaker 1: Do you know what I remember? This has just sparked
Speaker 1: this memory right now.
Speaker 2: Oh glad, glad to bring up from the past.
Speaker 1: You bury your trauma and then this brings it up.
Speaker 2: He's Brittany going to the cupboard, taking that box of
Speaker 2: memories down, were filing through.
Speaker 1: It was a few years ago, like obviously, well before
Speaker 1: I was dating Jordan, when I was just on the
Speaker 1: dating scene, and I remember I had been seeing this
Speaker 1: guy and I hadn't slept with him, and he took
Speaker 1: me to dinner one night and we've been seeing each
Speaker 1: other for a little bit. But I you know, sometimes
Speaker 1: I don't want to sleep with people's that's what it is.
Speaker 1: I can date you, I.
Speaker 2: Mean it's rare, but every so often I don't want
Speaker 2: to do it.
Speaker 1: I can't date you for six months if I don't
Speaker 1: want to sleep with you. I'm not going to sleep
Speaker 1: with you good And I remember we'd been seeing each
Speaker 1: other for a couple of weeks, hadn't slept together, and
Speaker 1: then he took me to a nice dinner. He asked
Speaker 1: me to dinner. He paid because he asked me. I
Speaker 1: did my standard like oh, you know, like let's go
Speaker 1: hums and he's like, no, no, I'll get it. Fine, ticktoll
Speaker 1: the boxes. And then we went going home to watch
Speaker 1: a movie. He was like, do you want to watch
Speaker 1: a movie? And I was like, not really a butt, Fine, whatever,
Speaker 1: watch movie.
Speaker 2: He tried to will Netflix, but there's gonna be zero chill, buddy.
Speaker 1: He tried to sleep with me and I said no,
Speaker 1: I said no, I don't want that. Like when he'd
Speaker 1: watch a movie, put my feet up on the ottoman,
Speaker 1: I'm like, don't touch me, like, let's just watch the movie.
Speaker 1: So he was like, oh, I thought that was cute.
Speaker 1: You know, He's like oh, he must have been like, oh,
Speaker 1: she's playing hard to get, but I was like fuck off.
Speaker 1: So he did. He stopped, and then he tried to
Speaker 1: sleep with me again, and I said, I already said
Speaker 1: I'm not going to sleep with you. This is a
Speaker 1: hard no, and he said you owe me. That was
Speaker 1: his words, I quote you owe me? And I said,
Speaker 1: excuse me. I said what exactly do I owe you?
Speaker 1: And owe you for? And he said, we've been seeing
Speaker 1: each other for weeks and I just took you to
Speaker 1: a really nice dinner.
Speaker 2: You owe me.
Speaker 1: And I said, get the fuck out of my house.
Speaker 2: I'm not a fuck sex worker, which okay, no is
Speaker 2: zero judgment towards sex workers. But that's like a transactional
Speaker 2: that's a transactional relationship.
Speaker 1: He was trying to make it transactional. Yeah, and my.
Speaker 2: Jaw is on the fucking floor. Did you ever see
Speaker 2: him again?
Speaker 1: It was a guy from years ago, Meet Raffle the
Speaker 1: og life as will know Meet Raffle. No one knows
Speaker 1: Meat Raffle, but they'll know Meeat Raffle.
Speaker 2: There was okay, like Britt was dating this guy named
Speaker 2: Meet Raffle in the very beginning of this podcast, and
Speaker 2: then all of a sudden she was off Meat Raffle,
Speaker 2: And now we know where she was off Meet Raffle.
Speaker 1: But I just couldn't believe it, okay, And I mean
Speaker 1: this just comes full circle, right, long story shure as
Speaker 1: to get the fuck out. I'm not going to see
Speaker 1: you again because as I grow up, the fact that
Speaker 1: you think that this is a thing, no one ever
Speaker 1: owes you a thing. We had a full on fight
Speaker 1: and I kicked him out standard standard.
Speaker 2: Like it happens all the time. I kicked him out
Speaker 2: standard classic Brittay maneuver.
Speaker 1: No. But I just want to bring this back full
Speaker 1: circle because my point is the circumstances. The circumstances do
Speaker 1: not matter under no circumstances ever, whether you are in
Speaker 1: a long term relationship, whether you're new to dating, whether
Speaker 1: you really like someone, whether someone's done something to you.
Speaker 1: If you don't want to do something, you don't have
Speaker 1: to do it. Don't let anyone guilt you into feeling
Speaker 1: like you do.
Speaker 2: Amen, Amen's sister. Okay. The only extra thing I want
Speaker 2: to add to this is that there are loads of
Speaker 2: people in relationships who don't really like giving head, but
Speaker 2: they like getting head and their partners are fine with that.
Speaker 2: Like you, just because you don't like doing something doesn't
Speaker 2: mean that you don't like receiving it, and it does
Speaker 2: not make you selfish. It doesn't make you a selfish
Speaker 2: lover so long as you are being generous in other ways,
Speaker 2: and you are, like, you know, exploring and being whatever
Speaker 2: it is in different ways satisfying your partner. Then I
Speaker 2: think it's absolutely fine. There are girls out there who
Speaker 2: do not like giving head. There are girls out there
Speaker 2: who like guys going down on them. And I don't
Speaker 2: think that anybody can sit here and say that just
Speaker 2: because something's done to you, you have to be okay
Speaker 2: with giving it back. And it makes me angry.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So anyway, the answer to that is no, don't
Speaker 1: feel bad, and you absolutely don't have to do anything,
Speaker 1: all right.
Speaker 2: Question number two, how do you deal with triggers from
Speaker 2: an old relationship in your new relationship? I was badly
Speaker 2: cheated on by an ex boyfriend girl same however, but
Speaker 2: I did the healing and I have had it in life.
Speaker 2: I have had an emotional growth from that relationship. I'm
Speaker 2: now in a new relationship and he is wonderful. He's kind, caring, smart,
Speaker 2: emotionally mature, and it's the easiest relationship I've ever been in.
Speaker 2: We had our first sort of argument recently, and I
Speaker 2: realized that it mostly had to do with the trigger
Speaker 2: for me that I had for my past relationship. The
Speaker 2: trigger is canceled plans at the very last minute. Oh
Speaker 2: and that is because my ex did that whenever he
Speaker 2: was cheating on me. I completely lost it and got
Speaker 2: myself really anxious and worked up over a very very
Speaker 2: trivial thing because I know my new partner didn't mean
Speaker 2: to do it, and he apologized and said he would
Speaker 2: do better next time. Now, my question is this, is
Speaker 2: there a way to deal with triggers from old relationships
Speaker 2: in your new relationships. I'm finding that my mind is
Speaker 2: my worst enemy at the moment.
Speaker 1: Feels girl feels. This is tough because it's so easy
Speaker 1: for somebody to sit back and say.
Speaker 2: Don't worry about it.
Speaker 1: Don't you can't take that shit into your relationship, leave
Speaker 1: it behind. But it's a whole the kettle of fish
Speaker 1: to actually leave that stuff behind. And you don't necessarily
Speaker 1: need to leave it behind, but you do need to
Speaker 1: find a way to move forward with it. And the
Speaker 1: reason I'm saying this is this question. The way you
Speaker 1: wrote that is like a trigger for me because that
Speaker 1: was my two year relationship with that sociopath. Episode three
Speaker 1: I did a sociopath for the new listeners.
Speaker 2: Very this is like we're going back Episode three, original
Speaker 2: of the first season. It's the og lefe one cutting. Yeah,
Speaker 2: haven't listened to it. We haven't recommended it for a while.
Speaker 1: Explains a lot about who I am and why I
Speaker 1: am what I am. But the big part of that
Speaker 1: relationship and I can't tell you how many times our
Speaker 1: plans were canceled last minute. And Laura, I don't even
Speaker 1: know if I've told you some of this, but I'm
Speaker 1: talking like I'm talking. I went to Hawaii alone because
Speaker 1: he canceled a trip to Hawaii last minute. I went
Speaker 1: to this is before I lived in Sydney. I came
Speaker 1: down to Sydney and climbed the fucking Harbor Bridge alone
Speaker 1: because he canceled the trip last minute. I have gone
Speaker 1: and had to find an emergencyccommodation because he canceled stuff
Speaker 1: last minute. And he always said he always had very
Speaker 1: good excuse for it, but he was cheating. But now
Speaker 1: that once it all came out and I knew his
Speaker 1: partner because he had another partner that we connected. Once
Speaker 1: I found out, we put all the timelines together. It
Speaker 1: was always things like we had a weekend planned, were
Speaker 1: on the way to meet each other, and she would
Speaker 1: surprise him last minute, so he would have to call
Speaker 1: me and say that this big traumatic event had happened
Speaker 1: and he can't make it. I'll pay for everything, I'll
Speaker 1: give you a really good time. I still go to
Speaker 1: this dinner, I'll audio room service whatever. He always made
Speaker 1: sure I was looked after, But the number of times
Speaker 1: that happened, I can't tell you, Like I literally went
Speaker 1: on a romantic trip to Hawaii by myself, So this
Speaker 1: is very triggering for me. But moving into a new relationship,
Speaker 1: I mean, obviously we know that I battled that for
Speaker 1: a while. I was single for a while, But what
Speaker 1: I had to end up doing is just telling myself.
Speaker 1: I mean, besides a lot of therapy, you should definitely
Speaker 1: speak to someone professional if you're struggling. But I just
Speaker 1: had to tell myself that my ex had already taken
Speaker 1: so much from me. He took so much of those
Speaker 1: years that I can't get back, and I don't regret
Speaker 1: them because I always take something from a situation. But
Speaker 1: I just say he took those years from me. He
Speaker 1: took the following few years as I was trying to
Speaker 1: learn to deal with that and get over that. I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna let him take my future happiness or the
Speaker 1: possibility of future happiness if you can't trust, Like, trust
Speaker 1: is the basis of a relationship, so you have to
Speaker 1: be able to trust the person you're with. And at
Speaker 1: the end of the day, I just told myself that, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm going to give this person the benefit of the doubt.
Speaker 1: I can't think that every person is like my ex.
Speaker 1: If they do the wrong thing, that's on them, and
Speaker 1: I'll be okay, and I'll just move forward knowing that
Speaker 1: they're not the right person. But if you can't go
Speaker 1: into a relationship trusting that your partner is going to
Speaker 1: do the right thing, I just think you're probably in
Speaker 1: the wrong relationship and you need to do a little
Speaker 1: bit more work on yourself. It's okay to have insecurities
Speaker 1: and things like that. Have you communicated that to him?
Speaker 1: Does he know why you feel upset at a last
Speaker 1: minute cancelation, because if he doesn't know, he probably doesn't
Speaker 1: even know he's triggering you.
Speaker 2: Yeah. And I guess on all of what brit said,
Speaker 2: I mean, I.
Speaker 1: Think very I did words like.
Speaker 2: The thing I think is a bit different is that
Speaker 2: I think it's okay that we take triggers from our
Speaker 2: past relationships. I think that it's probably unrealistic to think
Speaker 2: that nothing, that you're going to be this completely healed
Speaker 2: version of yourself and you're never going to get triggered.
Speaker 2: So I think have some compassion for yourself and just like,
Speaker 2: don't be so hard on yourself that yes, on this instant,
Speaker 2: you acted a little bit crazy. But the thing is,
Speaker 2: and the thing that I think is the big takeoat
Speaker 2: message from this is be proud that you can identify
Speaker 2: that was a trigger. Be proud that you are saying, hey,
Speaker 2: I did something wrong here. It actually wasn't him, it
Speaker 2: was me. It takes a really big person to admit
Speaker 2: that you're wrong and to be able to say to
Speaker 2: your partner, I overreacted. It's an embarrassing thing to admit
Speaker 2: that when you've overreacted. So I think, don't be so
Speaker 2: hard on yourself. And if you are listening to this,
Speaker 2: like anyone who's been in this situation who's kind of
Speaker 2: gone eight shit of their partner and then realized actually
Speaker 2: it was more on them than what it was on
Speaker 2: their actual partner. Acknowledging that is a very very big step. Secondly,
Speaker 2: and I think it's what you said, Britt, just to
Speaker 2: kind of like elaborate on that little bit, being really
Speaker 2: open and honest with your partner, talking about what your
Speaker 2: insecurities are, why you have those insecurities, and just showing
Speaker 2: a level of vulnerability explaining where that comes from with
Speaker 2: your past relationship. Giving your partner that understanding will mean
Speaker 2: that they will be more aware. I'd be more conscious
Speaker 2: because something that they he probably just thought, oh fuck,
Speaker 2: she's not gonna care. But now he understands that that
Speaker 2: sort of situation is something that you care a lot about.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you don't want him walking away and being like, wow,
Speaker 1: well that was unnecessary.
Speaker 2: And it's managing his expectations and giving him an insight
Speaker 2: into what makes you tick. So I think that open channels,
Speaker 2: a conversation and just being kind to yourself that we
Speaker 2: aren't perfect. We aren't perfect people. We come to relationships
Speaker 2: with a bit of baggage sometimes from our past experiences,
Speaker 2: and that is okay, totally.
Speaker 1: I love that you said that it is one hundred
Speaker 1: percent okay because you're never going to walk away from
Speaker 1: a relationship no matter what happens. You might have an
Speaker 1: amazing relationship, you don't walk away the same person as
Speaker 1: when you entered that relationship, and that's just growth, evolution,
Speaker 1: human growth, like, it's part of growing up and living.
Speaker 2: Another thing I want to add always like and then
Speaker 2: one more there because.
Speaker 1: I think it's I think it's really important. But what
Speaker 1: I do want to add is just something to have
Speaker 1: a think about that you may or may not be doing.
Speaker 1: But a lot of people do. I know Laura's done it.
Speaker 1: I know I've done it. It's self sabotage when you
Speaker 1: don't think when you've been hurt in the past. Maybe
Speaker 1: you don't even know this. Maybe it's subconscious, but maybe
Speaker 1: you think that you're not worth love or the same
Speaker 1: you're telling yourself the same thing's going to happen again.
Speaker 1: We have a really bad habit of sabotaging our own
Speaker 1: relationships before they can take off, because you're like, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna end this before you even have the chance to
Speaker 1: cheat on me. I did that multiple times because I thought,
Speaker 1: you know, it's safer, Oh, I think it's getting too close.
Speaker 1: It's safer for me to run now before anything can happen.
Speaker 1: And it wasn't until I recognized I was doing that
Speaker 1: because everyone in my life pointed out I wasn't like
Speaker 1: recognized that with myself that I found any any way
Speaker 1: possible to move forward, And that was when I started
Speaker 1: to accept that we do change. Not everyone's the same,
Speaker 1: but I did have to have a very very deep
Speaker 1: level of self reflection there. So it's just something to
Speaker 1: quit yourself. Question number three, lot of like sexy questions
Speaker 1: to this.
Speaker 2: One has to do with the vagina, the vijajo. Actually
Speaker 2: it's not to do with the volva actually, and we
Speaker 2: did a bit of both.
Speaker 1: We did an episode on that. How many women experience
Speaker 1: some discomfort in the JJ after having sex regularly, like
Speaker 1: with a partner just say X number of times a week.
Speaker 1: I'm unsure if this is just me, if I'm very sensitive,
Speaker 1: or if me and my partner are just not sexually
Speaker 1: compatible normally. If we have sex several days in a row,
Speaker 1: I get very sensitive and very unbalanced, slash itchy. It's
Speaker 1: like I need a couple of days break every now
Speaker 1: and then. Anyway, hopefully get some answers to what other
Speaker 1: people are experiencing. He he, he should put a laugh
Speaker 1: at the end.
Speaker 2: Okay, I read this and I was like, girlfriend, me too,
Speaker 2: and do you know what this is? And look, I
Speaker 2: could be wrong, but this is what I think it is.
Speaker 2: I think you got thrush. It's like super super super mild,
Speaker 2: Like there's no weird discharge, there's none of the things
Speaker 2: that like when you've got to all blown because everyone
Speaker 2: knows where they got full blown thrush. This is just
Speaker 2: like there's an imbalance there. And then every time you're
Speaker 2: getting down and dirty with a pin, it comes back
Speaker 2: with a vengeance because you're adding more of that. You're
Speaker 2: adding all of his microflora to your microflora, and it's
Speaker 2: messing up the balance.
Speaker 1: And that's exactly what you've said. You said you feel
Speaker 1: unbalanced and itchy. That is I mean, like, we are
Speaker 1: not doctors, so put pop that in there.
Speaker 2: I was gonna say thank you for saying that, because
Speaker 2: I think that was an absolutely imperative fucking disclaimer.
Speaker 1: But it does sound very much like thrush, which, let
Speaker 1: me tell you, I don't think there's a woman in
Speaker 1: her life that gets through life unscathed. Everyone has thrush
Speaker 1: at some point, but some people get recurrent thrush. Some
Speaker 1: people are way more open to thrush, and they I
Speaker 1: have friends that get thrush every time they have Oh
Speaker 1: my god, they're constantly taking thrush. Travelers thresh cream they've
Speaker 1: got on hand.
Speaker 2: I think it depends on the period as well. I
Speaker 2: literally I went through a massive chunk of time there
Speaker 2: where literally anytime Matt even looked at me, I got
Speaker 2: thrushed and I was like, could you just stop get
Speaker 2: it away from me? But I think so for me
Speaker 2: when I went through this period, I think sometimes you
Speaker 2: think you've treated it and then it goes to being
Speaker 2: like very very bearable, like you can't notice it, but
Speaker 2: the imbalance is still there. So I think, like, go
Speaker 2: and see a doctor, explain what your symptoms are, and
Speaker 2: then go and do a really thorough course of not
Speaker 2: just thrush treatment but also probiotics as well, just so
Speaker 2: that you can get back on top of things.
Speaker 1: Also, some people get it. Some people get it at
Speaker 1: your level, and they don't treat it because it's not
Speaker 1: bad enough. It's just like the smallest level of discomfort
Speaker 1: and they don't know what it is, so it's like bitchy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so they're like a bitchy it'll go in a few days,
Speaker 1: so they don't actually treat it. So maybe you've been
Speaker 1: having this really low level but you've just never I mean,
Speaker 1: obviously you haven't been able to put a name to
Speaker 1: it because you're not sure and you're running to us.
Speaker 1: It sounds very very much like thrush. Now, in case
Speaker 1: you don't know, it's really as simple as going if
Speaker 1: this is what it is, you can just go to
Speaker 1: your pharmacy and you can just say, hey, you need
Speaker 1: a thrush tablet, or you can get a cream for it.
Speaker 1: There's a lot of things you can do for it.
Speaker 2: But I would recommend that if you are, if you've
Speaker 2: had this for a long period of time at this level,
Speaker 2: go and speak to the pharmacists so that you're and
Speaker 2: you're not just trying to treat it yourself. Go and
Speaker 2: speak to the pharmacists for what the best option would
Speaker 2: be for something that's been a bit more long term. Also,
Speaker 2: why is it that we're so frightened to talk about thrush?
Speaker 2: Like no woman wants to have a conversation about it.
Speaker 2: We all think it's embarrassing. Every single one of us
Speaker 2: gets it, like it is so freaking common. We'll talk
Speaker 2: about having a cold, but we won't talk about having thrush.
Speaker 2: And un seriously, I just think we've all been there.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I do want to tell you about one
Speaker 1: other thing. This is not what I mean. I don't
Speaker 1: think this is what you have. I'm just saying this
Speaker 1: because I think it's interesting. Did you know you can
Speaker 1: actually be allergic to a penis like a vagina can
Speaker 1: be allergic to a penis.
Speaker 2: Just any like all penises or just one penis.
Speaker 1: It's called it's just called genital allergy. It's not common.
Speaker 1: But what they say is like this sort of thing
Speaker 1: should be considered if you are having like a soreness
Speaker 1: or sort of other symptoms, irritation, but there's nothing really
Speaker 1: else presenting. Some people can be allergic to that person's penis.
Speaker 1: I don't think it's every dick. Oh my god.
Speaker 2: Imagine if you were in love with someone and you
Speaker 2: are sorry, my allergy to your penis is keeping us
Speaker 2: a bart.
Speaker 1: I know someone that was allergic to their partners in
Speaker 1: my husband semen semen. You can be allergic to semen. Yeah,
Speaker 1: a techtic.
Speaker 2: He's definitely not gonna do that.
Speaker 1: You don't have those. But also, if you've never been
Speaker 1: to a doctor before, go get it checked out, get
Speaker 1: some blood tests, ask him some questions, because you just
Speaker 1: never know.
Speaker 2: And the other thing as well as it could just
Speaker 2: be that you're having super vigorous sex, and you know
Speaker 2: there's too much chafing, not enough lube. All of those
Speaker 2: things can be contributing factors. But I think we need
Speaker 2: to have more conversations about the rush.
Speaker 1: But on a very serious note, I do want to
Speaker 1: be serious for a second. It's very important for every woman.
Speaker 1: This is your reminder too. If you haven't gone and
Speaker 1: had a sexual health check, or you haven't had your
Speaker 1: PAP smear, you haven't had all of these things in
Speaker 1: a little while. This is your reminder just to go
Speaker 1: and get it done. Because there are some things that
Speaker 1: happen that we don't know are happening to our body.
Speaker 1: We know that sometimes we get lazy. Sometimes we're like,
Speaker 1: we forget that it's been two, three, four years since
Speaker 1: we've gone and had a check. So this is your reminder,
Speaker 1: all right.
Speaker 2: I have one more ask gun cut. I was talking
Speaker 2: to this guy for a month and then he decided
Speaker 2: to take me out on a date and we went
Speaker 2: for some drinks. It was a really nice time and
Speaker 2: I really enjoyed it. However, I felt a little bit
Speaker 2: confused and annoyed as afterwards I just didn't hear from him.
Speaker 1: Like at all.
Speaker 2: Now A whole month later on, he has messaged me
Speaker 2: like no time has passed at all. He just messaged
Speaker 2: me out of the blue and asked me if I
Speaker 2: wanted to have drinks. The thing is, I really did
Speaker 2: like him on this date and had a really great time.
Speaker 2: Do you think he actually likes me? Or do you
Speaker 2: think he's just interested in sleeping with me. I don't
Speaker 2: want to come off as easy or that i'd be
Speaker 2: the person to just stop everything at the drop of
Speaker 2: the hat and run back to going on a second
Speaker 2: date with him. What should I do? Oh?
Speaker 1: Okay, this sounds like a classic case of tinder ironis.
Speaker 2: I think this is the ghost. This is the ghost
Speaker 2: that's been resurrected as a zombie and has come back
Speaker 2: to fucking haunt you.
Speaker 1: This just sounds all too familiar, and unfortunately there are
Speaker 1: a lot of people, women and men that this happens to.
Speaker 1: To get to the end quickly and answer your question,
Speaker 1: I think that yes, he is probably and I want
Speaker 1: to say this in the nicest way, but this is
Speaker 1: the impression of it. I think he's probably got nothing
Speaker 1: else going on. He's probably bored. Obviously, you had a
Speaker 1: good time. If he didn't go and call you. You said,
Speaker 1: you know, you didn't hear anything from him. That's because
Speaker 1: he's not interested in anything more. A month later, he's
Speaker 1: got nothing going on. He's probably horny. He's like, well,
Speaker 1: we did have a good time. Maybe i'll hit her up.
Speaker 1: I'll see if she's around. I think that's what this is. Now.
Speaker 1: There's obviously no foolproof way to say it, but in
Speaker 1: my experience, which is pretty broad, but I think that
Speaker 1: that's what he's done. And I mean, like, we've all
Speaker 1: been there. I've been on that side too. I've been like, oh,
Speaker 1: this person.
Speaker 2: From you know, Britty there on a Saturday night, firing
Speaker 2: off a few fucking messages to guys from three years ago.
Speaker 2: I'm like, hey, remember have you been up to Betty?
Speaker 2: It's been three years. Ah, yeah, so it was stuff.
Speaker 1: Well your point is what so? But I think, seriously,
Speaker 1: I think that there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 1: If you are also okay with that, if you are
Speaker 1: happy to go out and have some fun, you don't
Speaker 1: have to sleep with him. You can go and have
Speaker 1: another dinner with him for sure, maybe see if there
Speaker 1: is anything there. That's the way you're seen. If he's
Speaker 1: serious to date, you. If you do feel like you
Speaker 1: just want to have sex and sleep with someone, then
Speaker 1: that's also okay. But it's got to be okay with you.
Speaker 1: So if you feel deep down like he has done
Speaker 1: the wrong thing and he's after one thing that you're
Speaker 1: not after, I wouldn't waste my time. If you know
Speaker 1: you're on different paths, don't go there. If you're like, fuck,
Speaker 1: I couldn't care less about this guy. Now, that would
Speaker 1: like here's what.
Speaker 2: Yeah, You've just got to ask.
Speaker 1: Yourself what you want and are you The biggest question
Speaker 1: is are you going to if you go and sleep
Speaker 1: with him? Are you going to feel bad the next day?
Speaker 1: Are you going to feel guilty like he's used you
Speaker 1: because you want more? Then don't do it totally.
Speaker 2: And if you think that you will feel bad if
Speaker 2: you never hear from him again, then I think you
Speaker 2: have to expect the worst because he's already proven that
Speaker 2: he is somebody who who doesn't feel it necessary to
Speaker 2: message after a date if it's not going the way
Speaker 2: that he expects it to go. Now, I think this
Speaker 2: is a really interesting one because we have spoken or
Speaker 2: I have spoken about my feelings around what constitutes ghosting. Right,
Speaker 2: I think if you've gone on one date with someone
Speaker 2: and had a drink with them and there's been no
Speaker 2: spark and you've given no intention that you want to
Speaker 2: see them again. Like if you've said, oh I can't
Speaker 2: wait to take you out on a second date, then
Speaker 2: yes you should fucking text them. But if you've just
Speaker 2: been like this totally wasn't for me, and you've given
Speaker 2: them no intention, you don't have to send a follow
Speaker 2: up or anything. I think you can just disappear into
Speaker 2: the never However, you can't then reappear a month later.
Speaker 2: Well you can, you can't got to know what it
Speaker 2: is you can. But the thing is, I feel like
Speaker 2: with this question, it would be so easy for Britain
Speaker 2: and I to take the high road and be like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, you deserve got a girlfriend. Do not
Speaker 2: write back to him. I think at this early stage, yeah,
Speaker 2: there's a good chance that he's a player. But whatever,
Speaker 2: if you are just after something casual and you want
Speaker 2: to have fun, go do whatever it is that you
Speaker 2: want to do, but also be very very conscious that
Speaker 2: he is the guy who doesn't text back, So if you.
Speaker 1: Want him very well could disappear totally.
Speaker 2: He's a fucking castpar He's a zombie reincarnated. So if
Speaker 2: you want something that's more serious, if you're at that
Speaker 2: point in your life, then maybe he isn't the person
Speaker 2: to be investing time with. However, if you're after casual,
Speaker 2: if you're after fun, if you just want to go
Speaker 2: out and spend some good old time on a Saturday night,
Speaker 2: then mister zombie is your man.
Speaker 1: You can for sure use him for sex to It
Speaker 1: works two ways totally. I agree with what you said,
Speaker 1: Laura in terms of like, if you've gone on a
Speaker 1: date you don't and you don't like them, you don't
Speaker 1: necessarily have to text them. But where I disagree is
Speaker 1: if she has met, if they've been on one day
Speaker 1: and she's messaged him and he just didn't respond, that's
Speaker 1: fucking yeah. It's like that's where they should have written
Speaker 1: back and said, had oh you know, I did have fun,
Speaker 1: but I don't see it going anywhere. Not this like
Speaker 1: complete disappearance and then reappearance when he's horning well.
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess it's that thing that we all,
Speaker 2: no matter what happens in life, we all seek some
Speaker 2: sort of closure, you know, we all want to kind
Speaker 2: of be able to go, Okay, cool, I'm gonna I'm
Speaker 2: gonna shut that book and I'm gonna go out and
Speaker 2: look for somebody else. I'm not going to kind of
Speaker 2: keep my options open there. And when you go someone
Speaker 2: or when someone goes to you, they're denying you of
Speaker 2: that closure. Regardless of how insignificant the meet up or
Speaker 2: the relationship was. You're kind of are left trying to
Speaker 2: figure out, oh, did I say something wrong? Do they
Speaker 2: just not like me because I'm to this, this and this,
Speaker 2: Maybe they're seeing somebody else and that somebody else is better.
Speaker 2: Like you were, then left to kind of figure it
Speaker 2: out yourself. The answer we come up with that gives
Speaker 2: us closure isn't always the kindest answer to ourselves.
Speaker 1: Deep I like that.
Speaker 2: There we go.
Speaker 1: That's a good finish anyway.
Speaker 2: That is it from us, guys. I need to stop
Speaker 2: fucking recording so I can get my voice bat. We've
Speaker 2: just got so many interviews banked, and it was really
Speaker 2: unfortunate timing, Like We've got a lot of people lined
Speaker 2: up to talk to you, great people, and Laura's lost
Speaker 2: her voice at like a crucial time. But I hate it,
Speaker 2: I said, all my time, we do I sound like
Speaker 2: I've been deep throating some sand paper.
Speaker 1: Why would you ever do that?
Speaker 2: I think it was it the best night I had
Speaker 2: on Saturday night.
Speaker 1: I think he's sort of sexy.
Speaker 2: But that's it.
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