WEBVTT - Stop letting people taint your dreams ⚡️ 0:00:00.240 --> 0:00:02.400 Like, I think we've all had that feeling where we're 0:00:02.520 --> 0:00:05.640 really excited about something and then we talk to someone 0:00:06.200 --> 0:00:08.959 and it like they kind of burst our bubble or 0:00:09.000 --> 0:00:14.040 they say something negative and it completely deflates us and 0:00:14.080 --> 0:00:17.640 we're like, oh, yeah, you're right, Like, you know, that's 0:00:17.840 --> 0:00:20.800 it's a bit ridiculous to want to do that or 0:00:21.280 --> 0:00:24.800 have that goal. And so that's why a huge thing 0:00:25.000 --> 0:00:28.640 I say to my group in the project is we 0:00:28.800 --> 0:00:47.800 need to be protecting our energy. Finally, make hello and 0:00:47.880 --> 0:00:50.839 welcome back to the Rise and Conquered Podcast. This is 0:00:50.880 --> 0:00:53.159 the podcast for my girl gang who are ready to 0:00:53.320 --> 0:00:57.240 rise and conquer their biggest dreams and live their most 0:00:57.280 --> 0:01:01.920 authentic life. I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson, former lawyer turned entrepreneur. 0:01:02.400 --> 0:01:05.600 Today I have a solo pep talk for you guys. 0:01:05.680 --> 0:01:08.080 It is going to be a quickie, but it's going 0:01:08.120 --> 0:01:11.280 to be a goodie, let me tell you. So. This 0:01:11.360 --> 0:01:14.160 has come up from a bit of inspiration from my 0:01:14.319 --> 0:01:19.520 Rise and concer Project group Round two that I'm currently doing. 0:01:20.000 --> 0:01:23.360 I'm currently doing the course with the group. So that's 0:01:23.400 --> 0:01:26.320 why a lot of my podcasts right now, my solo 0:01:26.400 --> 0:01:30.880 podcasts are about manifesting and these concepts that we do 0:01:30.959 --> 0:01:35.120 get into within the project. It's just because like I'm 0:01:35.160 --> 0:01:38.920 you know, living and breathing it. And so what we 0:01:39.000 --> 0:01:42.440 do is we do have three live calls in the project, 0:01:42.880 --> 0:01:46.360 and so this week I did our second life call 0:01:46.560 --> 0:01:51.560 and something that came up even in round one, and 0:01:52.040 --> 0:01:56.080 it's coming up again in round two, and I completely 0:01:56.120 --> 0:01:59.520 get it because I have been there. And the question 0:01:59.600 --> 0:02:04.640 that keeps coming up is, you know, this person has 0:02:05.160 --> 0:02:09.680 started the project, They're starting to learn about these manifesting principles. 0:02:10.000 --> 0:02:14.079 They're starting to change the way they think about things, 0:02:14.160 --> 0:02:18.080 They're starting to change their mindset. They're starting to you know, 0:02:18.320 --> 0:02:22.200 set these big goals and be like, wow, I actually 0:02:22.320 --> 0:02:25.800 can dream bigger and do more and those you know, 0:02:26.160 --> 0:02:29.160 huge shiny, shiny things that I was just wishing for 0:02:29.200 --> 0:02:31.760 before I actually can do. And they've you know, they've 0:02:31.760 --> 0:02:36.160 got this new sense of motivation, and especially in the 0:02:36.200 --> 0:02:40.359 container of the project, like it's it is so potent, 0:02:40.600 --> 0:02:42.840 and when you're in it and you're doing the videos 0:02:43.200 --> 0:02:45.480 and you're in the Facebook group and everyone is feeling 0:02:45.520 --> 0:02:48.200 it like it is it's like being on a high. Guys, 0:02:48.280 --> 0:02:51.280 It's like it's amazing. But what kind of happens is 0:02:51.320 --> 0:02:53.880 you're kind of in this bubble and you're learning these 0:02:53.960 --> 0:02:56.120 new things and you're like, yes, I can dream bigger 0:02:56.160 --> 0:02:59.000 and I can have what I want and you're believing 0:02:59.040 --> 0:03:02.960 in it. And then because you're so excited, do you 0:03:03.040 --> 0:03:06.200 want to share these new concepts or you want to 0:03:06.240 --> 0:03:10.160 share your goal or what you're going after to you know, 0:03:10.400 --> 0:03:14.280 a loved one, your partner, your boyfriend, your husband, a 0:03:14.320 --> 0:03:20.080 best friend, a parent, And what is happening is the 0:03:20.160 --> 0:03:23.880 bubble is getting burse and they're like, the question that 0:03:23.919 --> 0:03:29.720 I'm getting is, you know, how do I keep my 0:03:30.120 --> 0:03:33.840 you know, dreams from getting crushed or my family members 0:03:33.880 --> 0:03:37.720 to understand what I'm going through or you know, my 0:03:37.840 --> 0:03:41.960 partner to not dismiss my my goals and my dreams, 0:03:42.000 --> 0:03:45.840 to want more and to do more. And I, like 0:03:45.880 --> 0:03:49.600 I said, I completely get that. I have completely been there. 0:03:50.000 --> 0:03:54.560 And I think the biggest concept for me because especially 0:03:54.600 --> 0:03:58.000 with manifesting, I know, I've heard a lot of content 0:03:58.120 --> 0:04:01.320 that says, like, you know, when you are manifesting or 0:04:01.320 --> 0:04:04.080 going after a goal, to tell people about it because 0:04:04.120 --> 0:04:07.120 it gives you more accountability and it can bring it 0:04:07.160 --> 0:04:15.600 into fruition. Wow. But to be completely honest, I'm not 0:04:15.840 --> 0:04:21.040 someone who does that. I actually like especially when I 0:04:21.839 --> 0:04:26.200 myself am trying to get on board with a new 0:04:26.839 --> 0:04:30.360 goal or concept and trying to get on the vibe 0:04:30.440 --> 0:04:35.720 of attracting that. Like it's hard enough getting your own 0:04:35.839 --> 0:04:40.720 energy on that level, let alone trying to convince everything else. 0:04:41.080 --> 0:04:43.280 Like I think we've all had that feeling where we're 0:04:43.400 --> 0:04:46.520 really excited about something and then we talk to someone 0:04:47.080 --> 0:04:49.800 and it like they kind of burst our bubble or 0:04:49.839 --> 0:04:54.880 they say something negative and it completely deflates us and 0:04:54.960 --> 0:04:58.520 we're like, oh, yeah, you're right, Like, you know, that's 0:04:58.680 --> 0:05:01.680 it's a bit ridiculous to want to do that or 0:05:02.160 --> 0:05:05.680 have that goal. And so that's why a huge thing 0:05:05.880 --> 0:05:09.480 I say to my group in the project is we 0:05:09.680 --> 0:05:14.200 need to be protecting our energy and we need to 0:05:14.240 --> 0:05:20.000 be protecting our goals and our visions because honestly, guys, 0:05:20.040 --> 0:05:24.080 like it's just when we are dreaming big and going 0:05:24.240 --> 0:05:28.360 after big exciting stuff, a lot of the time people 0:05:28.440 --> 0:05:31.160 around us who are not on the level, who are 0:05:31.200 --> 0:05:34.760 not dreaming big, who maybe don't love, you know, their 0:05:34.880 --> 0:05:39.000 job and whatnot, it's it's probably going to be hard 0:05:39.160 --> 0:05:42.159 for them to get on board. And it is not 0:05:42.640 --> 0:05:47.960 up to you to then convince that person that you know, no, 0:05:48.279 --> 0:05:50.200 this is a dream you want. Like trust me when 0:05:50.240 --> 0:05:52.680 I say it is not up to you. And I 0:05:53.400 --> 0:05:57.640 experienced this like when I first started getting into manifesting 0:05:57.800 --> 0:06:00.839 and these like energetic principles and like, you know, it's 0:06:00.920 --> 0:06:03.960 very typical for a male to be like, oh, manifesting, 0:06:04.080 --> 0:06:06.000 Like what are you talking about? And I had that 0:06:06.480 --> 0:06:11.040 experience with my husband Tim, and to be honest, like 0:06:11.080 --> 0:06:14.520 I maybe had a couple of conversations, but quickly I 0:06:14.640 --> 0:06:17.960 was either shut down or he just wasn't interested. And 0:06:18.040 --> 0:06:21.120 my advice to you is like, do not push it 0:06:21.240 --> 0:06:24.840 on people who are interested, like they are very much 0:06:24.880 --> 0:06:27.279 set in their ways and they're doing their own things. 0:06:27.320 --> 0:06:31.320 And I also experienced this with my parents and it's 0:06:31.400 --> 0:06:33.920 it is not up to you to convince them. 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And what I have seen is when 0:08:54.400 --> 0:08:58.360 you like put your head down, you believe in what 0:08:58.440 --> 0:09:00.640 you want to believe in, you do your own thing, 0:09:01.200 --> 0:09:04.800 and you work on your goals, like don't be worried 0:09:04.920 --> 0:09:08.760 about proving something to someone or trying to get them 0:09:08.840 --> 0:09:11.960 on board, because like I said, it's honestly wasted energy 0:09:12.000 --> 0:09:15.760 where you need that energy for your like yourself to 0:09:15.800 --> 0:09:19.640 get on board. And so, for example, with Tim, like 0:09:19.720 --> 0:09:22.320 for a long time, I didn't really talk about you know, 0:09:22.440 --> 0:09:28.960 manifesting or anything like that, but when things started to happen, 0:09:29.040 --> 0:09:31.280 and you know, like he saw my vision board with 0:09:31.960 --> 0:09:34.760 my dream house and then a couple of years later, 0:09:35.400 --> 0:09:38.320 our house that we currently live in literally looks like that. 0:09:38.520 --> 0:09:40.959 And so you know, things start to click, and then 0:09:41.280 --> 0:09:45.280 you know, I'll explain, like when I reach a certain goal, 0:09:45.480 --> 0:09:49.280 how the beforehand of that and what went into that 0:09:49.440 --> 0:09:53.800 was me visualize visualizing that goal or you know, different 0:09:53.960 --> 0:09:58.600 aspects that I use to achieve things. Basically, I've done 0:09:58.679 --> 0:10:01.160 this for the last couple of year years and Tim 0:10:01.240 --> 0:10:04.679 has seen that, you know, it's come into fruition and 0:10:04.720 --> 0:10:08.720 he's like, oh, wow, this shit actually works. And so 0:10:09.600 --> 0:10:12.160 I guess I just wanted to pop in here just 0:10:12.200 --> 0:10:16.080 because this question was asked quite a bit and people 0:10:16.120 --> 0:10:19.960 were like, oh, you know, my husband doesn't understand. Or 0:10:21.120 --> 0:10:24.080 if you have got this, like you know, this new 0:10:24.160 --> 0:10:27.800 goal of starting a business or you know, earning a 0:10:27.880 --> 0:10:30.880 certain amount of money or buying a new house, and 0:10:30.920 --> 0:10:34.040 then you have a partner or parents who kind of 0:10:34.080 --> 0:10:36.520 bring you down and make you feel like crap about it. 0:10:37.080 --> 0:10:40.160 My advice is just not to talk to them about it. 0:10:40.520 --> 0:10:43.960 And I know that is so hard when these are 0:10:44.000 --> 0:10:46.840 people that you obviously love and you want to be 0:10:46.920 --> 0:10:50.439 able to discuss. But you know, for a very long time, 0:10:50.600 --> 0:10:53.760 like I said, I didn't discuss a lot of principles 0:10:53.800 --> 0:10:56.640 and a lot of goals and the concepts that I 0:10:56.800 --> 0:11:01.679 believe because I knew that, I guess I didn't want 0:11:01.800 --> 0:11:05.880 my beliefs and my goals and that energy I had 0:11:05.960 --> 0:11:08.320 for that thing. I didn't want it to be tainted. 0:11:08.960 --> 0:11:11.320 And like I said, like we've all experienced that when 0:11:11.360 --> 0:11:15.319 we've got like lots of inspiration and motivation and excitement 0:11:15.360 --> 0:11:18.679 for something and then we tell someone and it like 0:11:18.880 --> 0:11:21.840 really drains our energy and it's almost like a bit toxic, 0:11:22.240 --> 0:11:25.360 and so it's really up to you to protect your energy. 0:11:25.400 --> 0:11:27.880 And so that's like, you know, if there's a certain 0:11:27.960 --> 0:11:31.360 person where when you talk about your goals and these 0:11:31.440 --> 0:11:35.640 like exciting things happening, and they're quite negative, like just 0:11:35.720 --> 0:11:39.439 don't talk to them about it. Like that's actually you know, 0:11:39.520 --> 0:11:43.400 like these concepts of like manifesting and these different principles, 0:11:43.440 --> 0:11:47.680 Like it's not like when I see my closest girlfriends, 0:11:47.720 --> 0:11:50.640 I sit there and I'm like, well, manifesting is real 0:11:50.720 --> 0:11:53.800 and blah blah blah. Like I don't even talk about 0:11:54.000 --> 0:11:56.760 half of the concepts I talk about on the podcast, 0:11:56.880 --> 0:12:01.040 or really even half of my goals unless it's kind 0:12:01.080 --> 0:12:04.520 of brought up and someone wants to know. Because I'm 0:12:04.559 --> 0:12:07.640 a big believer in this, this saying I heard it once. 0:12:07.679 --> 0:12:11.080 It's called like, you know, keep your side of the 0:12:11.120 --> 0:12:15.480 street clean, and people kind of will see and they 0:12:15.520 --> 0:12:18.200 will follow because it's kind of like, you know, just 0:12:18.280 --> 0:12:21.319 keep your head down and do your own thing, and 0:12:21.360 --> 0:12:24.400 your dreams and what you believe will come into fruition 0:12:24.880 --> 0:12:28.840 and then it's like it's undeniable. And so I guess 0:12:29.160 --> 0:12:32.440 what I'm trying to get out is there's people out 0:12:32.480 --> 0:12:35.680 there who, you know, they don't understand us, and they're 0:12:35.679 --> 0:12:38.880 not on the same level, and then they're not into 0:12:38.880 --> 0:12:42.160 the same things as you are. But that is okay 0:12:42.280 --> 0:12:45.840 because you're allowed to do your own thing and have 0:12:45.920 --> 0:12:48.599 your own beliefs, and like I said, it is a 0:12:48.640 --> 0:12:52.440 little bit sad when sometimes these people are you know, 0:12:52.480 --> 0:12:56.000 your partner, your parents or close friends. But in saying that, 0:12:56.240 --> 0:12:59.880 it's not forever. Like I said, my example with T 0:13:00.280 --> 0:13:03.440 like I never would have really do that like a 0:13:03.480 --> 0:13:06.760 couple of years ago, whereas now I'm so open and 0:13:06.800 --> 0:13:10.520 I'm I'm so on board because he's also very on board. 0:13:10.720 --> 0:13:13.600 And it took time, but I kind of just like 0:13:13.600 --> 0:13:16.000 like I said, kept my head down, did my thing, 0:13:16.120 --> 0:13:19.320 and he was like, ah, okay, yeah, wow, these concepts 0:13:19.360 --> 0:13:23.240 actually work and he kind of needed to come to 0:13:23.440 --> 0:13:26.760 that decision on his own, if that makes sense. Like 0:13:27.120 --> 0:13:30.680 I couldn't be down, I couldn't be there like ramming 0:13:30.840 --> 0:13:34.880 different things down his throat or being very like forceful. 0:13:35.640 --> 0:13:38.080 It just wouldn't work. And that's also another thing is 0:13:38.120 --> 0:13:42.240 like you know, sometimes with if you're learning something new 0:13:42.480 --> 0:13:45.560 or if you do have a new goal, like someone 0:13:45.640 --> 0:13:49.520 like it's just not their time to be into that thing, 0:13:49.679 --> 0:13:52.920 to believe it, or to be on that level. And 0:13:53.040 --> 0:13:57.079 that's okay because we are all on our own journey. 0:13:57.120 --> 0:14:01.240 We are all doing our you know best with what 0:14:01.280 --> 0:14:04.880 we have, and it's okay. So I'm gonna wrap up 0:14:04.920 --> 0:14:08.120 this solo pep talk. Like I said, it is a quickie, 0:14:08.120 --> 0:14:10.520 but a goodie. And all I want to say guys 0:14:10.760 --> 0:14:16.640 is protect your energy, protect your dreams, especially especially if 0:14:16.679 --> 0:14:20.760 you have a new and exciting goal or something you 0:14:20.800 --> 0:14:23.400 want to go after and it is like you know, 0:14:23.520 --> 0:14:26.840 it's big and it's daunting, and it's going to take 0:14:27.400 --> 0:14:34.000 courage and confidence and you know, boldness, then make sure 0:14:34.280 --> 0:14:38.080 you're talking about it to the right people. Make sure 0:14:38.400 --> 0:14:43.560 you're being very conscious you know, about it, because like 0:14:43.640 --> 0:14:46.440 I said, you want to protect that and I think 0:14:46.480 --> 0:14:48.320 it's also like I was saying, like when you do 0:14:48.480 --> 0:14:51.600 have big goals, and it's like it takes a lot 0:14:51.640 --> 0:14:54.840 of energy. And you know, what I believe in is 0:14:55.040 --> 0:14:58.280 getting on the same vibration as what you want to achieve, 0:14:58.760 --> 0:15:01.680 and usually what you want to achieve is a high vibration. 0:15:01.920 --> 0:15:04.800 And it's like it's work like every single day, Like 0:15:04.840 --> 0:15:07.640 if I am, you know, manifesting something, I will sit 0:15:07.680 --> 0:15:10.160 there and meditate and get onto that vibration. It's not 0:15:10.240 --> 0:15:13.680 like super easy. It's like a conscious thing that I 0:15:13.800 --> 0:15:17.560 have to do every single day. But then on top 0:15:17.600 --> 0:15:20.120 of that, I don't want to then convince other people 0:15:20.160 --> 0:15:22.560 why I should be going after this thing, if that 0:15:22.680 --> 0:15:25.520 makes sense, and I also I think it it just 0:15:25.600 --> 0:15:29.240 comes to a point where I've realized that, like I 0:15:29.280 --> 0:15:34.320 don't need validation from someone else to be like, oh, yes, Georgia, 0:15:34.480 --> 0:15:37.160 I agree, or yes you should go after that thing. 0:15:37.400 --> 0:15:42.840 Like I'm such a big believer in I already have 0:15:43.360 --> 0:15:48.320 exactly what I need and know exactly you know, like 0:15:48.520 --> 0:15:52.000 I already have everything I need inside me, was with 0:15:52.080 --> 0:15:56.600 my intuition, which I have been strength strengthening over the years, 0:15:57.120 --> 0:16:00.520 and so I don't need outside validation and I don't 0:16:00.640 --> 0:16:03.320 need people to agree with me and encourage me, Like, 0:16:03.360 --> 0:16:06.400 don't get me wrong. Support is amazing and I am 0:16:06.480 --> 0:16:09.320 very lucky to have, you know, like Tim who supports 0:16:09.360 --> 0:16:12.800 me and friends who support me. But in saying that, 0:16:13.200 --> 0:16:17.640 I don't, yeah, like need that as a crutch because 0:16:17.840 --> 0:16:22.520 I am very solidified in my core beliefs and how 0:16:22.640 --> 0:16:25.000 I want to live my life and how I want 0:16:25.040 --> 0:16:28.600 to feel. And like I said, like, well, one of 0:16:28.640 --> 0:16:30.680 the sayings I like to say is like, no one 0:16:30.760 --> 0:16:33.800 can make you feel a certain way. Only you can 0:16:33.880 --> 0:16:36.280 let people make you feel a certain way. And so 0:16:36.320 --> 0:16:38.840 it's just really important for me to like really protect 0:16:38.840 --> 0:16:41.200 my energy and you know, make sure I'm doing that. 0:16:41.360 --> 0:16:43.600 So I hope that wasn't too much of a ramble. 0:16:43.760 --> 0:16:47.000 I hope that little so solo pet talk was helpful. 0:16:47.080 --> 0:16:50.280 But I am going to love and leave you oh 0:16:50.320 --> 0:16:52.480 before I go. I know I say this in every 0:16:52.520 --> 0:16:57.280 Manifesting episode. But guys, if you are interested in joining 0:16:57.320 --> 0:16:59.600 the project for the next round, which will not be 0:16:59.720 --> 0:17:02.440 this year, yeah, it will be twenty twenty one. But 0:17:02.520 --> 0:17:05.920 if you are interested, I will put a link in 0:17:06.000 --> 0:17:08.119 the show notes. Otherwise you can go direct to my 0:17:08.200 --> 0:17:12.439 website where the Rise and Conker Project is. And just 0:17:12.560 --> 0:17:16.320 press that button that says notify me when available, and 0:17:16.359 --> 0:17:20.720 that is just super helpful for me to know when 0:17:20.800 --> 0:17:23.680 to put enrollment life and how many people are interested 0:17:23.760 --> 0:17:26.879 and that sort of stuff. But yeah, I'm going to 0:17:26.920 --> 0:17:29.680 love and leave you. Thank you so much for listening, 0:17:30.080 --> 0:17:33.280 and I will catch you in my next episode. Bye 0:17:33.280 --> 0:17:34.840 for now.