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Speaker 1: Who's just have an ego?

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Speaker 2: And like because there has been situations where you know,

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to the Rise and Conquer Podcast. I'm your

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Speaker 1: host Georgie Stevenson, former lawyer turned entrepreneur, social media personality

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Speaker 1: and personal development junkie. This podcast is for my girl

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Speaker 1: gang who want to feed their mind with positive and

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Speaker 1: expansive thoughts to help them step into their power and

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Speaker 1: you feel inspired and empowered to rise up and conquer

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Speaker 1: your ex bold move. I know that's going to look

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Speaker 1: behind you. Let's do this, Timothy, welcome back to the

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Speaker 2: Is good to be here, babe. All right.

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Speaker 1: Always, before we get into our Valentine's Day special, let's

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Speaker 1: So for those who don't know, Timothy is my husband.

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Speaker 1: Sure, what do you admire and love mostly about me?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but like a nice early dinner like we're doing tonight.

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Speaker 3: On to you the truth.

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Speaker 1: I think in regards to knowing you, the one in

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Speaker 1: A just a there's a question about communication, and I

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Speaker 1: It's very small minded to think, oh, manifesting is just wishing.

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Speaker 3: I think so Tim has seen me.

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Speaker 1: And then I explain to him you know how I

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Speaker 1: That's why I have a whole course on it. But

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And even recently we have had discussions like remember

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Speaker 1: So my advice if your partner isn't interested. And in

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Speaker 1: I've never pushed anything on you. It's just kind of

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Speaker 3: I've been like, oh shit, that's pretty cool.

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Speaker 1: So going back to it, my advice would be, if

438
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Speaker 1: you're with someone who doesn't believe in that stuff, I'm

439
00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:14,440
Speaker 1: a big person on not pushing it. On anyone. I

440
00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:18,399
Speaker 1: don't think you should be pushing your spiritual, religious, any

441
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:21,440
Speaker 1: beliefs on anyone. And I know when you're doing personal

442
00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:24,680
Speaker 1: development and it's really working for you, all you want

443
00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:26,560
Speaker 1: to do is tell other people about it because you're

444
00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:29,639
Speaker 1: like it's going to help you. But if they're not

445
00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:33,200
Speaker 1: in a state where they're ready to accept that information,

446
00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:37,840
Speaker 1: like Tim nine years ago, they can.

447
00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:39,760
Speaker 2: Like three years ago, they.

448
00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:43,040
Speaker 1: Can almost like go against it and like really kind

449
00:22:43,040 --> 00:22:44,960
Speaker 1: of like there's a couple of people I can think

450
00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 1: of of just who would not have bar of it would.

451
00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:49,520
Speaker 3: Too close.

452
00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:52,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, And so I think with that sort of stuff,

453
00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:56,520
Speaker 1: you just need to continue your practices and like they

454
00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:59,640
Speaker 1: will see, they will see how your life goes, how

455
00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:02,400
Speaker 1: you're mental state is and everything like that. And it's

456
00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:04,399
Speaker 1: it's like the whole saying of like the proof is

457
00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:04,919
Speaker 1: in the pudding.

458
00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:06,480
Speaker 2: Couldn't agree more?

459
00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:09,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, And then just quickly on meditation, tim meditates.

460
00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:13,280
Speaker 2: Don't you big on the meditation? Probably I'm probably a

461
00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:17,480
Speaker 2: little bit more bigger on the meditation than the manifestation moment.

462
00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:23,280
Speaker 2: But it just really relaxes me because I can be

463
00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:26,960
Speaker 2: a bit snappy sometimes and really can feel.

464
00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:33,600
Speaker 1: Snappy and also, I think, like that's a big thing

465
00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:38,240
Speaker 1: of why our relationship has lasted is because Tim is

466
00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:39,200
Speaker 1: so open minded.

467
00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:41,359
Speaker 3: I think if it had gotten to this.

468
00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:43,280
Speaker 1: Point and I'm like, you know, living my life and

469
00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:45,560
Speaker 1: I've manifested what I have and I did have a

470
00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:48,320
Speaker 1: partner who still was like, oh no, that's bullshit, I

471
00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:51,359
Speaker 1: honestly don't think I'd be with them. So this is interesting.

472
00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:56,720
Speaker 1: I'm actually very interested to see what you say. Question

473
00:23:57,359 --> 00:24:02,320
Speaker 1: It says maybe t M I, but has the explant

474
00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:06,439
Speaker 1: breast ex plant affected your intimate life?

475
00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:10,200
Speaker 2: Oh, what's an interesting question, isn't it? I wonder who

476
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:15,280
Speaker 2: would question to answer it anyway? And all honestly no,

477
00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:19,359
Speaker 2: because like before Georgia got them like it was like

478
00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:21,840
Speaker 2: it was like normal, Like they've literally gone back to

479
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:23,560
Speaker 2: what they were normally.

480
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:24,680
Speaker 3: When I was seventeen.

481
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:27,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, they going back in time.

482
00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:31,960
Speaker 1: Guys who don't know I had implants when I was nineteen.

483
00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:33,680
Speaker 2: I got you got to put in and I had

484
00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:35,359
Speaker 2: literally nothing to do it. I didn't want her to

485
00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:38,360
Speaker 2: get them done. She wanted she did. That was your choice.

486
00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:41,159
Speaker 2: I just gave you some money towards them, Thanks for that.

487
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:49,000
Speaker 2: Haven't got that money back. Interesting, but yeah, like honestly,

488
00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:52,080
Speaker 2: like I just love it her who she is. It's

489
00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:55,479
Speaker 2: like visually like yeah, faked it to mad, but like

490
00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:58,400
Speaker 2: your natural body is just as beautiful as it is

491
00:24:58,480 --> 00:25:02,720
Speaker 2: as it was, you know what I'm trying to say.

492
00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:03,840
Speaker 3: Like answers.

493
00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 1: Also, I think it's there's a lot to do like

494
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:11,320
Speaker 1: intimacy and like in the bedroom and stuff like that.

495
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:13,720
Speaker 1: It's a lot to do with how the person feels

496
00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:17,679
Speaker 1: about themselves. Like I personally feel so much fucking better

497
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:21,320
Speaker 1: physically and mentally, and like when I look at myself,

498
00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, small.

499
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 2: Is sick, But do you I think, and all long,

500
00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:27,119
Speaker 2: you probably just look a bit more fitter and just

501
00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:30,520
Speaker 2: a bit more like vibrant, like with your smaller boobs.

502
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:33,679
Speaker 1: Now, Tim likes to tell me that, like the smaller

503
00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:37,400
Speaker 1: boobs make me look fitter, like a smaller human.

504
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:38,680
Speaker 3: We all get what you trying.

505
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:42,680
Speaker 2: To say, No, but like yeah, yeah, yes obviously, because

506
00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:46,840
Speaker 2: they are making you sick, like you're all swollen. It's like,

507
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:49,080
Speaker 2: you know, yeah, so.

508
00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 1: I did, Like people ask this, I did. I didn't

509
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:55,879
Speaker 1: technically like lose weight, but because I was unwell with

510
00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 1: my implants, I was holding a lot of water weight.

511
00:25:58,280 --> 00:25:59,679
Speaker 3: Hey, and so.

512
00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:03,400
Speaker 1: Then my plants left and I like almost got look so.

513
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:06,680
Speaker 2: Much healthier now and like everyone has said that, hey I.

514
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:07,480
Speaker 3: Got my start back.

515
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:11,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, good answer. Oh this is an interesting one.

516
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:13,600
Speaker 1: So this is actually I was supposed to ask this

517
00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 1: at the start. That's where I asked all my guests.

518
00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:20,119
Speaker 1: But what are you currently rising and conquering? As it

519
00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:22,320
Speaker 1: is the Rise and Conquered podcast?

520
00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:25,119
Speaker 2: Are we like to say it on the podcast that

521
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:28,960
Speaker 2: I just want to be a dad. That's my goal

522
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 2: this year, guys, to be a dad.

523
00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, we can say it.

524
00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:35,560
Speaker 2: I'm really trying wink.

525
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:39,679
Speaker 1: No.

526
00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:43,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, so that would probably be my goal for this year.

527
00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:46,840
Speaker 1: No, let me so if you guys don't know, we

528
00:26:46,880 --> 00:26:49,920
Speaker 1: had a miscarriage last year, which I was very open

529
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:55,359
Speaker 1: about and at the moment, we're not trying. So at

530
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:59,239
Speaker 1: the moment, I'm focusing on my health and you know,

531
00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:02,240
Speaker 1: some stuff would doing with naked harvest, my business and stuff,

532
00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:06,760
Speaker 1: but definitely this year weird. Yeah, I love to feel pregnant.

533
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:09,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, so that would be would that be my conquer?

534
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:10,439
Speaker 2: I guess?

535
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:10,800
Speaker 3: Yeah?

536
00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:13,480
Speaker 1: Like yeah, Rise and Concrete just means like your goal.

537
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:16,439
Speaker 2: Well, that's my rise and conquer. Yeah. Basically, that's what

538
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:19,399
Speaker 2: I'm working. That's what I'm working towards anything, because I

539
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:21,159
Speaker 2: feel like that's the next step in my life. Like

540
00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:24,240
Speaker 2: I've given everything until now, and it's sort of like, well,

541
00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:26,119
Speaker 2: what do you do next in life?

542
00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 1: And a relationship nothing to do with kids, nothing to

543
00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 1: do with work or anything.

544
00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:37,240
Speaker 3: Size No, all right, good to know.

545
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:39,159
Speaker 2: Well, it's like it works work. But this is like

546
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:45,760
Speaker 2: my real passion, mesion and child.

547
00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:46,160
Speaker 3: I love that.

548
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so interesting is working to is working together.

549
00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 3: And with This is funny.

550
00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:57,080
Speaker 1: You'll love this is working together and with you as

551
00:27:57,160 --> 00:28:01,840
Speaker 1: the boss. Any pressure on your relationship, like nothing changes.

552
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:05,640
Speaker 2: Tells me what to do around the houses, get to work,

553
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 2: tells me what to do around the fucking workshop.

554
00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:16,359
Speaker 1: No, So Tim, we kind of we're very separate in

555
00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:21,919
Speaker 1: Naked Harvest in the company, so I am head of marketing,

556
00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:26,160
Speaker 1: social media and kind of the face of the business,

557
00:28:26,320 --> 00:28:30,320
Speaker 1: and then Cooper does more the logistics and the warehouse.

558
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:34,159
Speaker 1: So Tim more liaises and does stuff with Cooper and

559
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:36,040
Speaker 1: I don't actually have much to do.

560
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 2: I will see each other at the warehouse. Yeah, and

561
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 2: it's but then we just go boom separate because it's

562
00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:43,680
Speaker 2: very muchly like I have nothing because we know that

563
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 2: where we need to get our jobs one, because we're

564
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 2: both very important innke harvest. We can't like muck around

565
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 2: really during the day, can we. So it's like we

566
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:55,760
Speaker 2: know we go business booms during the day and then

567
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 2: we don't really see each other all bother each other.

568
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:00,480
Speaker 2: It's good.

569
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:03,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, So it's good. Yeah.

570
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:05,240
Speaker 1: And that's another thing too, it's not like we're working

571
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:08,360
Speaker 1: together in the same space. I haveten work from home

572
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 1: or I'm upstairs and Tim is downstairs in the warehouse,

573
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:16,640
Speaker 1: so it's like very separate. There's like, honestly, if anything,

574
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:18,560
Speaker 1: it's just kind of cool because we get to see

575
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:21,640
Speaker 1: each other a bit more, and it's like nice because

576
00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 1: I'll like pop in and I'll be like hey, babe, and.

577
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:27,040
Speaker 2: We'll have lunch together and chat and have a bit

578
00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:27,880
Speaker 2: of a coffee together.

579
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:32,960
Speaker 1: Like there's no kind of difficult teenness and.

580
00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:35,920
Speaker 2: There's no like getting sick of each other, if you will,

581
00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:36,920
Speaker 2: like at.

582
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:39,840
Speaker 1: All, it's honestly such a win win like working together

583
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:42,640
Speaker 1: having that lifestyle, but none of like kind of the

584
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 1: crap part.

585
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 3: I guess amazing.

586
00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:49,720
Speaker 1: We're going We're getting straight into the fun questions.

587
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:53,240
Speaker 2: Yes, you're going to do the fun ones and you

588
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:54,920
Speaker 2: have a couple of drinks, you're a bit more chilled.

589
00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:55,960
Speaker 3: It's not that fun.

590
00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 1: Okay, this is a hard putting question, but I would

591
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:01,560
Speaker 1: love to know how you feel, because I reckon you're

592
00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:06,960
Speaker 1: gonna answer it pretty well. Question, how does Tim feel

593
00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:08,680
Speaker 1: about you being the breadwinner?

594
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:10,320
Speaker 2: It's awesome.

595
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:16,000
Speaker 3: I've got something to say about it. What you thought?

596
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:19,040
Speaker 2: I don't care. But because I'm so easy, I'm just like,

597
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 2: who cares?

598
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:27,040
Speaker 1: Who's an ego? The best partout me your partner cares

599
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:30,800
Speaker 1: about you making more money than him. He has an

600
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:35,480
Speaker 1: ego that's probably from growing up or something. And he

601
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:40,960
Speaker 1: is insecure. Tim is the most secure person I have

602
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:43,240
Speaker 1: ever met, where like he knows who he is, he

603
00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 1: knows like what he brings to the table, and like

604
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 1: he's so secure in himself that something like that like

605
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:51,960
Speaker 1: wouldn't rock him.

606
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:52,840
Speaker 3: If that makes sense.

607
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:55,479
Speaker 2: And like, because there has been situations where you know,

608
00:30:55,600 --> 00:31:00,160
Speaker 2: like some blokes or whatever will say, you know, like

609
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 2: not have a gay but like you know, like George

610
00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 2: makes money than you, and yeah, this and that, and

611
00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 2: I'll be like, oh, it doesn't really bother mew yeah,

612
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:14,800
Speaker 2: but it's not. It's not. It's to do with like

613
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:17,720
Speaker 2: me supporting you. Really what I see it as well.

614
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 1: I think it's a big thing to realize too. Like

615
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:22,400
Speaker 1: when we first got together, when I was younger and

616
00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:24,840
Speaker 1: I was in Uni, had no money, You were the

617
00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 1: one who supported us and Tim. I remember literally having

618
00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:31,440
Speaker 1: conversation with Tim me kind of winging about money and

619
00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 1: him going and him being just you know, on a

620
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:37,840
Speaker 1: normal traady wage and me winging about money and him going, oh, babe,

621
00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:39,480
Speaker 1: do you want me to give you like an allowance

622
00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 1: or something so you're not stressed about money, do anything

623
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 1: like so generous, so like And this was like at

624
00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 1: the start of our relationship to like not weird about it,

625
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,320
Speaker 1: if that makes sense, and kind of just like whatever

626
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 1: needs to happen has happened. And obviously, you know, as

627
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:57,920
Speaker 1: we have progress and different stuff has happened. But I

628
00:31:57,920 --> 00:32:01,040
Speaker 1: think that's honestly, something I love most about you is

629
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:05,280
Speaker 1: there is no nothing about that. There's no tension, there's

630
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 1: no resentment or anything like that, which honestly I think

631
00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 1: takes like a big man, if that makes sense, like

632
00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 1: to be completely honest, like my brothers, for instance, they

633
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 1: wouldn't be able to deal with that if their wife

634
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:25,840
Speaker 1: made more than them because of like ego and being like,

635
00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:27,600
Speaker 1: oh well, you know that.

636
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 3: Sort of thing.

637
00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 1: And I think even you know, what we should be

638
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 1: teaching our children too, is we're equals. If you know,

639
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:38,320
Speaker 1: the wife makes more money than like, amazing, it doesn't

640
00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 1: mean anything about worth or man, doesn't anything like that.

641
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:45,480
Speaker 1: And also, I think what I love about Tim too

642
00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 1: is there was never this whole oh well, you have

643
00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:50,920
Speaker 1: to you know, be a mom at stay at home

644
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:54,040
Speaker 1: and you can't have your own ambitions and stuff like that.

645
00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 1: Like I remember when I was very set on being

646
00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:59,240
Speaker 1: a lawyer and we knew I was going to have to,

647
00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:02,360
Speaker 1: you know, work late hours and stuff like that. Tim's like, oh, well,

648
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:04,120
Speaker 1: you know, I would be the same home dad for

649
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:06,120
Speaker 1: a bit and then maybe we can swap. Like he's

650
00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 1: so kind of giving in that way. And yeah, and

651
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 1: I'd like to think I'm also the same.

652
00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:14,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I think you're the same. Just like the

653
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 2: whole staying at home being a stay home dad thing,

654
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:20,040
Speaker 2: like I think that's awesome. Yeah, Like the majority of dads,

655
00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:21,640
Speaker 2: like they don't get to see their kids. They get

656
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:23,000
Speaker 2: to see their kids at night, and their kids go

657
00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:25,240
Speaker 2: to bed for like they work like two or five

658
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:27,360
Speaker 2: o'clock and get their kids go to bed at seven o'clock.

659
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:29,200
Speaker 2: There's two hours with their kids. Like I want to

660
00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:30,840
Speaker 2: spend time with my kids, you know what I mean?

661
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, and it's so it's so lovely you

662
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:36,960
Speaker 1: like that. And also I think a big thing as

663
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:39,480
Speaker 1: a society we need to realize is this whole thing

664
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 1: of like people think you pick your career, you pick

665
00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:46,240
Speaker 1: your status in life, and that's it forever. But it's

666
00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 1: like no, like maybe Tim's they stay at home dad

667
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:51,440
Speaker 1: for a bit, but maybe it swaps around and he

668
00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 1: has something he does and then I take more of

669
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:56,959
Speaker 1: the back seat back seat, sorry, and stuff like that.

670
00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 1: I think it's important to be like open.

671
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 2: To stuff like that, open not like said it and

672
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 2: be like this is it, this is how it's going

673
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:07,160
Speaker 2: to be. Nah, but like that's not the way it

674
00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:09,560
Speaker 2: has to be. Basically, nothing said in the stone, anything

675
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:10,040
Speaker 2: can happen.

676
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:14,279
Speaker 1: And also I think if you, for instance, you know

677
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:16,520
Speaker 1: there's a sho and because I know there's so many

678
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 1: online like boss babes fucking making so much money, and

679
00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:24,000
Speaker 1: if you did have a husband who didn't like that,

680
00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:27,239
Speaker 1: imagine you know that would almost be like that, if

681
00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:31,520
Speaker 1: we're talking manifestation, that would almost be a repellent because

682
00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:34,439
Speaker 1: you would be scared of making more money than him,

683
00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 1: of what he would think and that sort of thing.

684
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:38,879
Speaker 1: And honestly, this is going to be a bold thing

685
00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:41,960
Speaker 1: to say, but I honestly think that's why I have

686
00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:45,759
Speaker 1: achieved so much and like you know, always kind of

687
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:48,480
Speaker 1: done that. Next step is because Tim is so supportive

688
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:49,920
Speaker 1: and I've always been like.

689
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:51,920
Speaker 2: That's never even I've always worked in each other.

690
00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:54,399
Speaker 1: Yes, never even been a thought to my head of

691
00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:56,960
Speaker 1: oh am I gonna, you know, make him feel like

692
00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:59,120
Speaker 1: shit or you know, anything like that. It's always just

693
00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:01,400
Speaker 1: go after you your dreams and I'll support you.

694
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:05,239
Speaker 2: How isy is it? People like it? It's so complicated,

695
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:07,080
Speaker 2: like fucking not really.

696
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:12,239
Speaker 1: Support your partner with anything. Next one, this is a

697
00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:12,759
Speaker 1: fun one.

698
00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:16,439
Speaker 2: Finally, sorry question like a six pack.

699
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:20,000
Speaker 3: I've only had one star signs.

700
00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:23,400
Speaker 1: What is your star sign? And are you guys compatible?

701
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:31,560
Speaker 1: All right, guys, so star signs. I'm a Leo Tim

702
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:32,240
Speaker 1: and I'm.

703
00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:32,960
Speaker 2: A bit of a funny one.

704
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:33,920
Speaker 1: Tell us.

705
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:37,360
Speaker 2: So I'm born on the twenty first of May, which

706
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:42,040
Speaker 2: is the changeover dates of tourists to Gemini. So I'm

707
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:43,840
Speaker 2: actually half half.

708
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:48,239
Speaker 1: And that's interesting because my I think it's the moon

709
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:49,880
Speaker 1: rising is Gemini.

710
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:52,920
Speaker 2: But towards the ball, and I can be a bit

711
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:55,759
Speaker 2: very stubborn, bit of a bully.

712
00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:56,880
Speaker 3: Sometimes a bully.

713
00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 2: Well no, I just like you.

714
00:35:57,920 --> 00:35:58,959
Speaker 3: Know, aren't.

715
00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:02,120
Speaker 1: Taurus is like losts easy going.

716
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 2: Taurus is like the bull, is like the raging bull.

717
00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:13,960
Speaker 2: Very maybe stubborn, definitely stubborn, and Gemini is the chill

718
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:14,640
Speaker 2: one baby.

719
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure it says Tauruses are stead fast. I

720
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:23,600
Speaker 1: don't know what that means. Loyal nature signs are excellent

721
00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 1: at maintaining systems and prioritizing consistency and reliability in all

722
00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:30,760
Speaker 1: areas of their life.

723
00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:34,839
Speaker 2: I do love consistency. And then what about Gemini type

724
00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:38,920
Speaker 2: and Gemini all the people who starts on nerds on

725
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:40,200
Speaker 2: here and be like, what do you mean?

726
00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 1: Gemini is the two phase that's playful and intellectually curious.

727
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:51,520
Speaker 1: I don't know if that's you playful.

728
00:36:52,160 --> 00:36:52,840
Speaker 3: True playful.

729
00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 1: Gemini is constantly juggling a variety of passions. That's the

730
00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:59,839
Speaker 1: Gemini me hobbies, careers, and friend group.

731
00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:05,560
Speaker 2: I'm very social though, so maybe Butterfly, yeah, yeah.

732
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:07,240
Speaker 1: Quick witted twins.

733
00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 3: You're not that quick.

734
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:11,080
Speaker 1: I can talk to anyone about anything.

735
00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:15,759
Speaker 2: I'm literally pretty quick witted. And when I get put

736
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 2: on the spot with a random person, I'm so quick witted.

737
00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:22,120
Speaker 1: You're pretty spot on half tourists, half gemini.

738
00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:22,319
Speaker 2: I reckon.

739
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, so let's see.

740
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:26,800
Speaker 1: Because the person asked if we're compatible, and we're doing.

741
00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:29,040
Speaker 2: A live search, I never knows what George's She is

742
00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:30,040
Speaker 2: a Leo.

743
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:34,600
Speaker 1: Fiery dominant Leo. Love that for me, and I'm very

744
00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:35,200
Speaker 1: much a Leo.

745
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:39,239
Speaker 2: Tou t like a big cat. I'll call you kitty cat,

746
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:41,960
Speaker 2: right all right?

747
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:51,359
Speaker 3: So I'm literally just I looked up. It says, oh

748
00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 3: my god, this is hilarious.

749
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:55,680
Speaker 1: Oh this is I don't know, I didn't even mean

750
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 1: to do this, but this is sexual and intimacy compatibility.

751
00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:03,279
Speaker 1: It says the sexual relationship between a Taurus and a

752
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:10,920
Speaker 1: Leo can be in a way exhausting. I know it

753
00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:13,680
Speaker 1: for both of them. This is mostly due to the

754
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:19,680
Speaker 1: fact that they can both be lazy. Says, while Tauruses

755
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:24,560
Speaker 1: like to lie down and enjoy me, tim is an

756
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 1: actual slough so likes to be enjoyed being loved. Leos

757
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:33,240
Speaker 1: like to lay down and be served.

758
00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:36,560
Speaker 2: That is fucking so true.

759
00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:40,800
Speaker 1: It says it is in the nature of both signs

760
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:44,480
Speaker 1: to spend time in a horizontal position, and it might

761
00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:45,439
Speaker 1: be harder.

762
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:47,880
Speaker 3: For them to agree on who is on top?

763
00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:51,120
Speaker 1: Do you agree with that?

764
00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:56,560
Speaker 2: I agree with, I'm always on top. I agree with listen, listen, listen.

765
00:38:56,760 --> 00:38:59,959
Speaker 2: I agree with basically, when the job needs to get done,

766
00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 2: we fucking get it done.

767
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:05,840
Speaker 3: I know, what does it even mean?

768
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:09,040
Speaker 1: It says, when motivated, they can both be excellent lovers

769
00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:11,920
Speaker 1: that put a lot of energy into sexual activities.

770
00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:13,120
Speaker 3: There you go.

771
00:39:14,120 --> 00:39:16,680
Speaker 1: Look, I want to just look at it in general, like.

772
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:20,160
Speaker 2: What we're talking about, not just there's.

773
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 1: Okay, No, I want like you're too much.

774
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:25,640
Speaker 3: You need to start.

775
00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:28,200
Speaker 2: Everyone's like, it's yeah, that's enough.

776
00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:31,480
Speaker 3: People listening to this on like a Monday morning. This

777
00:39:31,640 --> 00:39:32,279
Speaker 3: is too much.

778
00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:35,359
Speaker 1: So it says Taurus and Leo can't seem to keep

779
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 1: their hands off each other. True, at the beginning, as

780
00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 1: fixed signs, they are sure and urge for loyalty and

781
00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:50,520
Speaker 1: stable affection. However, that doesn't mean that you always have

782
00:39:50,600 --> 00:39:58,000
Speaker 1: an easy relationship because this creates friction. That's true. Yeah, okay,

783
00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:02,080
Speaker 1: So like it says, yeah, have a very leg fiery

784
00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:05,760
Speaker 1: passion relationship. But it can create friction because we're both

785
00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:07,680
Speaker 1: very leg dominant.

786
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:11,000
Speaker 2: But I would say, but I would say that's we're

787
00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:14,960
Speaker 2: pretty compatible. Like to answer that question, like the friction

788
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:19,359
Speaker 2: can be worked out, you know what I mean.

789
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Speaker 1: let's get back into the episode. Oh okay, So I've

821
00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:29,960
Speaker 1: just looked out Gemini and Leo compatibility. So's Gemini and

822
00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:36,400
Speaker 1: Leo compatibility is naturally strong. These two signs have multiple

823
00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:40,560
Speaker 1: similarities such as their passion and love of being social,

824
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:47,040
Speaker 1: their difference also compliments each other well. Confident Leo helps

825
00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:53,360
Speaker 1: in decisive geminis and intelligent geminis can steady naive Leoso.

826
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 1: Don't fucking agree with it, but.

827
00:42:57,080 --> 00:42:58,040
Speaker 2: That is true.

828
00:42:58,400 --> 00:42:59,400
Speaker 1: I'm not unsteady.

829
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 2: He can be a bit sometimes and that's where I

830
00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:07,960
Speaker 2: come into it. Calm you down, you do get a

831
00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:09,360
Speaker 2: bit unseated. You gotta admit.

832
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:13,200
Speaker 1: Okay, So I'm a Leo, Tim's a bloody tourist slash Gemini,

833
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 1: and we're pretty on point with it. You're very much

834
00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 1: a very mixed star sign, so it makes sense you're

835
00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:21,959
Speaker 1: born on there that on that day. Okay, interesting question.

836
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:23,920
Speaker 3: We're getting a bit more serious.

837
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:28,520
Speaker 1: How do you grow together? But not a part all

838
00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:31,000
Speaker 1: I can say, guys, fims fucking rolling his eyes.

839
00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:35,640
Speaker 3: Communication, Yeah, it's a big one.

840
00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:39,279
Speaker 1: We literally make time to chat to each other. We've

841
00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:43,000
Speaker 1: had some like do you remember last year, No, not

842
00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:45,480
Speaker 1: last year, maybe the year before twenty nineteen when I

843
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 1: started seeing my solo psychologists and I was going through

844
00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:52,000
Speaker 1: a bit of a transition mentally, and there were a

845
00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:53,759
Speaker 1: couple of times where I had to like sit you

846
00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 1: down and be like, look here's where I'm at. I

847
00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:56,960
Speaker 1: am growing.

848
00:43:57,080 --> 00:44:00,200
Speaker 3: I am moving into this person? Are you with me?

849
00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:01,799
Speaker 2: And I said.

850
00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:06,359
Speaker 1: No, But Tim was very open and he's like, yeah,

851
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:11,480
Speaker 1: like I'm happy to meet your needs. I think that's

852
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:15,320
Speaker 1: huge of when you're growing, even if the other person

853
00:44:15,560 --> 00:44:19,319
Speaker 1: isn't into the exact same thing, can they still meet

854
00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:20,040
Speaker 1: your needs?

855
00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:22,279
Speaker 2: And Tim could with support Yeah yeah.

856
00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:24,920
Speaker 1: And I definitely feel like in a relationship it's me

857
00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 1: always growing and you're going okay.

858
00:44:27,480 --> 00:44:32,000
Speaker 2: Otherwise I'm pretty much a chiller. Yeah, Like I'm like

859
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:34,920
Speaker 2: a happy chill, you know what I am. I'm a

860
00:44:34,960 --> 00:44:35,880
Speaker 2: supportive chiller.

861
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:36,319
Speaker 3: Yeah.

862
00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:39,279
Speaker 1: But we always joke that if Tim was with someone else,

863
00:44:39,360 --> 00:44:42,480
Speaker 1: like he just would not do anything like not growing.

864
00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:47,000
Speaker 2: So happy, I would be such a different person.

865
00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:47,760
Speaker 1: So different.

866
00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:53,640
Speaker 3: I'm getting a bit saucy. Tim doesn't like to get.

867
00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:56,440
Speaker 2: Saucy on it, and am I getting saucy on there?

868
00:44:56,600 --> 00:44:58,120
Speaker 3: At me? Married?

869
00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:03,520
Speaker 1: Sex life tips, so sex life when you're married tips, Just.

870
00:45:03,520 --> 00:45:06,160
Speaker 2: Do the same as before you're married. It's literally it's

871
00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:07,680
Speaker 2: just a day that you're sign a piece of paper

872
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:10,799
Speaker 2: and nothing changes before that day or after that day.

873
00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:14,279
Speaker 1: They're saying, you know, if things are maybe getting a

874
00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:17,640
Speaker 1: bit stale, things are you know, maybe the guy's not

875
00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:19,000
Speaker 1: making much effort.

876
00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:20,000
Speaker 3: Or the girl.

877
00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:22,360
Speaker 1: What are your sort of tips in spicing up the

878
00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:23,000
Speaker 1: sex life.

879
00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:27,480
Speaker 2: I don't know, I've really had to worry about that

880
00:45:27,520 --> 00:45:28,280
Speaker 2: sort of situation.

881
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 3: What are you whispering?

882
00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:30,800
Speaker 2: I don't know.

883
00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:33,479
Speaker 3: I feel a bit funny talking about it, But let's

884
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:34,080
Speaker 3: talk about it.

885
00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:37,960
Speaker 1: Because we've been together for nine years, like a long

886
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:41,000
Speaker 1: amount of time, and I think also this is going

887
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:45,360
Speaker 1: back to the seasons thing. Sometimes we go through seasons

888
00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:49,000
Speaker 1: where can't keep our hands off each other, doing it

889
00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:53,520
Speaker 1: all the time and wanting to and it just being like, yes,

890
00:45:54,040 --> 00:45:56,839
Speaker 1: honestly that when we're on holidays, don't you reckon?

891
00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:58,959
Speaker 2: Well yeah, but that's everyone pretty sure, it's everyone. Everyone

892
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:02,200
Speaker 2: holidays and does that. But even we'll go through stages,

893
00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:03,240
Speaker 2: you know, Yeah.

894
00:46:03,120 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 1: We'll go through stages where it's like, yeah, it's on,

895
00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:09,759
Speaker 1: it's a bit fun, and like I guess, like, yeah,

896
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:12,160
Speaker 1: just making a bit more fun. So like you know,

897
00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:14,520
Speaker 1: doing it in different places.

898
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:16,919
Speaker 2: That's actually a big thing for me. Yeah, Like I said,

899
00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:18,960
Speaker 2: just on the George always says let's just do it.

900
00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:22,120
Speaker 2: I'm like, fucking hell, how fucking born does that sound.

901
00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:25,080
Speaker 2: Let's go do it in the pool. That would be fun.

902
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:29,920
Speaker 2: I don't know that. I think I'll get nervous or turn.

903
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:33,360
Speaker 3: Into let's be real and I hope you know, I.

904
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:35,920
Speaker 2: Mean like spoices it up a bit, mix it up,

905
00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:36,960
Speaker 2: make it a bit fun.

906
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 1: That I do want to say too. Also, there's seasons

907
00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:42,279
Speaker 1: where it's just like not a priority if I'm really

908
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:43,480
Speaker 1: busy with work and stuff.

909
00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:45,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, a bit bland. You're not even thinking about it,

910
00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:47,840
Speaker 2: are you? And you think when's the last time we

911
00:46:47,880 --> 00:46:48,360
Speaker 2: had sex?

912
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:49,040
Speaker 3: Yeah?

913
00:46:49,239 --> 00:46:51,840
Speaker 1: In saying that though, good stress relief when I am busy.

914
00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:56,040
Speaker 1: So sometimes it's just like teer, I need a stress relief.

915
00:46:57,560 --> 00:46:58,239
Speaker 2: I'll just go on.

916
00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:01,920
Speaker 3: But in regards to tips.

917
00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:05,360
Speaker 1: I think it's like like I said before, I honestly

918
00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:07,839
Speaker 1: think a big thing of like in the bedroom is

919
00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:11,360
Speaker 1: like you feeling confident and actually playing on this. Tim.

920
00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:13,600
Speaker 1: Remember at the start of the year when you got

921
00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:17,319
Speaker 1: back into Jim. So, Tim, Tim has always been like,

922
00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:19,480
Speaker 1: you know, into Jim and stuff. And then towards the

923
00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:21,279
Speaker 1: end of last year wasn't going as.

924
00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:23,279
Speaker 2: Much six months, wasn't it.

925
00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:25,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, And then he got back into Jim again, and

926
00:47:25,640 --> 00:47:29,120
Speaker 1: he was saying how he felt more interested in, you know,

927
00:47:29,360 --> 00:47:31,600
Speaker 1: having sex and that sort of thing because he felt

928
00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:35,640
Speaker 1: better in himself. So it's kind of like, can you

929
00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:39,080
Speaker 1: if you already feel good within yourself? Amazing? If you don't,

930
00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:41,440
Speaker 1: it's like, can you feel better in yourself?

931
00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:42,000
Speaker 3: First?

932
00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:46,920
Speaker 1: That might then encourage your partner or if your partner

933
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:49,000
Speaker 1: doesn't feel good in themselves, how can you make them?

934
00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:53,680
Speaker 2: Yeah? Also like making like knowing what your partner wants

935
00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:56,680
Speaker 2: and like giving that to your partner.

936
00:47:56,760 --> 00:47:59,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, So for example, if I'm really stressed and stuff,

937
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:03,880
Speaker 1: Tim's like, let's go for a weekend away and knows that.

938
00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:07,520
Speaker 3: Tims like, when have I ever do that?

939
00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:11,520
Speaker 2: Well, it'd be more like us going to beach model

940
00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:12,239
Speaker 2: or something like that.

941
00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:14,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I guess I mean like making more time

942
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:18,360
Speaker 1: for each other. Yeah, okay, but also yeah, like I

943
00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:22,040
Speaker 1: think it's just depends on the person and the stage

944
00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:24,960
Speaker 1: of your life. But honestly, I think the huge, like

945
00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:28,399
Speaker 1: the biggest thing is like starts within yourself, because if

946
00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:32,239
Speaker 1: you're feeling yourself and you're feeling confident, your partner will

947
00:48:32,239 --> 00:48:34,319
Speaker 1: see that and being like it will make them want

948
00:48:34,360 --> 00:48:34,839
Speaker 1: to do it.

949
00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:37,360
Speaker 2: If that makes sense, And I also I'll chuck it

950
00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:39,880
Speaker 2: in there. Also, just making time for your partner and

951
00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:43,000
Speaker 2: getting that just just like just a good solid connection

952
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:45,600
Speaker 2: because you can just be so separate sometimes, like you said,

953
00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:47,279
Speaker 2: on your phone at night and then it's just like

954
00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:50,400
Speaker 2: go to bed and it's just like you're not stimulated.

955
00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:53,879
Speaker 2: You're not really you're like sexually, Yeah, well you're not.

956
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:56,319
Speaker 2: You know how like what you do on your phone,

957
00:48:56,360 --> 00:48:58,839
Speaker 2: it's on your phone and you're not really thinking about anything. No,

958
00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:01,000
Speaker 2: when you like sit down, put your phone and have

959
00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:03,640
Speaker 2: a conversation with that person, you have like you feel

960
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:05,600
Speaker 2: you feel more intimate with that person.

961
00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:06,160
Speaker 3: Yeah.

962
00:49:06,239 --> 00:49:09,400
Speaker 1: Well that's actually a big thing with me personally, I'm

963
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:12,160
Speaker 1: someone and it's probably not me personally. I think it's women.

964
00:49:12,640 --> 00:49:15,760
Speaker 1: But it's like, for example, it's very different with males.

965
00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:17,440
Speaker 1: Like Tim would just like want to puts it in

966
00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:20,719
Speaker 1: like let's just do it ready, But me, I'm like,

967
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:24,720
Speaker 1: let's have a conbo let's have a DM. Like literally,

968
00:49:24,800 --> 00:49:28,400
Speaker 1: I'll say to Tim, if you like, if you know,

969
00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:30,799
Speaker 1: I can't believe we're saying this on air, but like

970
00:49:31,200 --> 00:49:35,040
Speaker 1: if you're keen, like literally, sit down with me, have

971
00:49:35,120 --> 00:49:38,239
Speaker 1: a DM. DM with me, give me some of your

972
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:41,400
Speaker 1: time and attention, Let's have a conversation and I'll be

973
00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:41,960
Speaker 1: ready to go.

974
00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:45,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, you do say that, and then I'll just go

975
00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:51,720
Speaker 2: come on it, just put it in, get on topic.

976
00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:56,240
Speaker 2: So yeah, big communication, making tom for your partner and.

977
00:49:56,400 --> 00:49:57,760
Speaker 3: Feeling confident within yourself.

978
00:49:57,840 --> 00:50:01,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, cool, okay. Question do we get on with

979
00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:05,680
Speaker 1: each other's like parents, like your in laws and my

980
00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:06,360
Speaker 1: in laws?

981
00:50:06,640 --> 00:50:08,359
Speaker 2: Do you want me to go first first?

982
00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:09,239
Speaker 3: Yes?

983
00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:12,480
Speaker 1: So I like we are so I was singing this

984
00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:14,960
Speaker 1: the other day. We are so lucky with both like

985
00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:19,000
Speaker 1: my parents and your parents, because they're so easy to

986
00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:21,799
Speaker 1: get on with, Like they both you know, like each

987
00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:26,120
Speaker 1: other and very easy, you know, easy going and like,

988
00:50:26,320 --> 00:50:28,480
Speaker 1: you know, I love Tim's parents and his mom and

989
00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:31,520
Speaker 1: dad and I'll have a drink with his mom and

990
00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:33,719
Speaker 1: a laugh and all that sort of things. So very

991
00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:37,080
Speaker 1: lucky that it's like easy and just you know good.

992
00:50:38,120 --> 00:50:43,520
Speaker 2: And then like with your mom and dad will but no,

993
00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:46,160
Speaker 2: it's like on the next level.

994
00:50:47,480 --> 00:50:49,720
Speaker 1: But now it's my parents more.

995
00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 2: Than I literally do. But no, they're they're awesome. I'm

996
00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:58,640
Speaker 2: basically they said, I'm like the full son. Now they're

997
00:50:58,719 --> 00:51:02,279
Speaker 2: super loving, just easy going.

998
00:51:02,320 --> 00:51:05,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're both very like love the in laws and

999
00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:06,759
Speaker 1: so easy.

1000
00:51:06,520 --> 00:51:08,719
Speaker 2: So very really they do help us out a lot,

1001
00:51:08,800 --> 00:51:10,839
Speaker 2: you know, yeah, with a lot of things.

1002
00:51:10,840 --> 00:51:16,840
Speaker 1: So yeah, very very lucky to have those relationships. Interesting, Tim,

1003
00:51:17,400 --> 00:51:20,600
Speaker 1: what advice would you give someone who hasn't found their

1004
00:51:20,600 --> 00:51:23,919
Speaker 1: person yet? I would say, and I was actually having

1005
00:51:23,920 --> 00:51:28,120
Speaker 1: conversation with someone about this this weekend, but I would say,

1006
00:51:28,440 --> 00:51:33,360
Speaker 1: you need to work on yourself and love yourself first

1007
00:51:33,600 --> 00:51:37,200
Speaker 1: and be so okay with yourself and everything about your

1008
00:51:37,239 --> 00:51:42,120
Speaker 1: life before you want someone else, because it's not like

1009
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:46,560
Speaker 1: it's not like someone you're wanting someone to complete you

1010
00:51:46,640 --> 00:51:49,239
Speaker 1: and it's all just like rainbows and sunshines when you

1011
00:51:49,280 --> 00:51:51,480
Speaker 1: meet someone and you know they're the one and whatnot.

1012
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:53,920
Speaker 1: It's like if you can love yourself and work on

1013
00:51:53,960 --> 00:51:57,759
Speaker 1: yourself and be okay with your own company and all

1014
00:51:57,800 --> 00:51:59,839
Speaker 1: that sort of thing, I think that is actually so

1015
00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:03,720
Speaker 1: important and almost like they all say, like when you're

1016
00:52:04,000 --> 00:52:07,360
Speaker 1: having fun working on yourself and not even like searching,

1017
00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:10,439
Speaker 1: you find the perfect one, compared to if you're very

1018
00:52:10,520 --> 00:52:13,239
Speaker 1: like clingy to the idea of I just.

1019
00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:15,960
Speaker 2: Want to you need someone, I just want company.

1020
00:52:16,360 --> 00:52:20,480
Speaker 1: I honestly think that's when toxic relationships can begin, because

1021
00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 1: you're almost just with that person for company, not because

1022
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:26,640
Speaker 1: you know it actually works, and you ignore red flat like.

1023
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:28,279
Speaker 2: I know we were quite young we met, but that

1024
00:52:28,440 --> 00:52:31,000
Speaker 2: was basically our Like I sort of broke up with

1025
00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:33,399
Speaker 2: my ex and I was like, oh, listen, I don't

1026
00:52:33,400 --> 00:52:35,280
Speaker 2: want to have a missus until I'm like twenty five,

1027
00:52:35,600 --> 00:52:37,160
Speaker 2: and you were just sort of the same, and then

1028
00:52:38,360 --> 00:52:39,160
Speaker 2: it just happened.

1029
00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:41,920
Speaker 3: So yeah, it does.

1030
00:52:41,960 --> 00:52:44,040
Speaker 1: It kind of happens when you're least excecting.

1031
00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:44,520
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1032
00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:47,400
Speaker 1: I remember, like like three months before I met you.

1033
00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:49,600
Speaker 1: I remember saying I don't want a boyfriend. I want

1034
00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:51,839
Speaker 1: to go through my eighteen stage and all that sort

1035
00:52:51,840 --> 00:52:52,200
Speaker 1: of stuff.

1036
00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:53,120
Speaker 3: And then we met and I was like.

1037
00:52:53,040 --> 00:52:55,920
Speaker 2: Oh, I know, but yeah, I'll probably just go on

1038
00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:56,720
Speaker 2: what do you said, babe?

1039
00:52:56,880 --> 00:53:03,240
Speaker 1: Honestly, Tim, why do you think our relationship works so well?

1040
00:53:07,200 --> 00:53:09,320
Speaker 3: Because we're ying, We're yin and yang.

1041
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 1: We're literally opposite. We're literally opposite, and you know, we

1042
00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:20,120
Speaker 1: complete each other. And also, I think, honestly, the reason

1043
00:53:20,160 --> 00:53:24,800
Speaker 1: why our relationship does work so well is because we

1044
00:53:24,880 --> 00:53:28,279
Speaker 1: both consistently and constantly work on it.

1045
00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:31,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, like it's not easy. Well, not that it's not easy,

1046
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:34,920
Speaker 2: but it's like it is definitely other people's relationships. And

1047
00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:37,200
Speaker 2: I look at and I go, many, they got some

1048
00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:38,719
Speaker 2: work to do, you know, what I mean, Like it's

1049
00:53:38,840 --> 00:53:41,799
Speaker 2: like they don't have the sort of connectional communication that

1050
00:53:41,840 --> 00:53:44,719
Speaker 2: you or I have, And it's sort of like it's

1051
00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:48,640
Speaker 2: really a bit of an eye opener, how like advanced

1052
00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:50,239
Speaker 2: we own our relationships, but.

1053
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:53,279
Speaker 1: I think it's like you know that initial of that

1054
00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:57,839
Speaker 1: initial attraction and love and you know with each other,

1055
00:53:57,880 --> 00:54:00,880
Speaker 1: like I honestly believe we are soul men. It's in

1056
00:54:00,920 --> 00:54:03,640
Speaker 1: that way. But on top of that, we do do

1057
00:54:03,719 --> 00:54:06,680
Speaker 1: a lot of work, Like in regards to having that

1058
00:54:06,800 --> 00:54:09,520
Speaker 1: every Sunday morning we must do this, and knowing that

1059
00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:11,600
Speaker 1: every Friday night we spend time together. There's a lot

1060
00:54:11,600 --> 00:54:15,160
Speaker 1: of relationships they kind of maybe don't have that set

1061
00:54:15,239 --> 00:54:18,719
Speaker 1: time and set time they work on each other. So

1062
00:54:18,920 --> 00:54:21,759
Speaker 1: it's kind of like that whole it's like so that

1063
00:54:21,840 --> 00:54:25,120
Speaker 1: whole quote of like when it's not even a quote,

1064
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:27,600
Speaker 1: but it's like where you put in work, that's where

1065
00:54:27,840 --> 00:54:31,120
Speaker 1: you know you'll thrive and flourish. And we just I

1066
00:54:31,120 --> 00:54:35,000
Speaker 1: feel like we always have made our relationship a priority.

1067
00:54:37,280 --> 00:54:40,320
Speaker 3: Oh got to ah, we gonna get a third puppy.

1068
00:54:41,920 --> 00:54:44,240
Speaker 3: Negative guys.

1069
00:54:44,800 --> 00:54:46,839
Speaker 2: Puppies are like crazy, Like we had Bear and then

1070
00:54:46,920 --> 00:54:49,560
Speaker 2: like bears are good and then Bear such a chiller.

1071
00:54:49,560 --> 00:54:52,719
Speaker 2: I'm like, man, like, these dogs are so easy. And

1072
00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:56,239
Speaker 2: then like you know, like it's such a chiller. And

1073
00:54:56,280 --> 00:54:57,880
Speaker 2: then little Billy come along.

1074
00:54:58,320 --> 00:54:58,760
Speaker 3: Wolf.

1075
00:54:59,040 --> 00:54:59,920
Speaker 2: Little wolf came.

1076
00:54:59,760 --> 00:55:01,839
Speaker 3: Along a bit of a psycho, a little bit.

1077
00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:04,919
Speaker 2: Different than there. And now because they're two males, they

1078
00:55:05,080 --> 00:55:09,759
Speaker 2: like to have wing contests, on competitions, anything and everything.

1079
00:55:10,200 --> 00:55:13,760
Speaker 2: They can live their leg on. We got a little girl, babe.

1080
00:55:14,280 --> 00:55:18,160
Speaker 1: A little Yorky girl. I would die. I always say

1081
00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:19,680
Speaker 1: to him for my birthday. I'm like, oh my god,

1082
00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:22,520
Speaker 1: if you surprise me little Yorky girl. And he's always like,

1083
00:55:22,600 --> 00:55:23,840
Speaker 1: it's not going to happen.

1084
00:55:23,920 --> 00:55:26,520
Speaker 2: It's not going to happen. No, two dogs is enough, baby,

1085
00:55:26,520 --> 00:55:30,640
Speaker 2: like a lot like you would you want another third door? Yes, no,

1086
00:55:30,680 --> 00:55:33,040
Speaker 2: but we be honest with it.

1087
00:55:34,719 --> 00:55:37,759
Speaker 3: I know what you mean. Puppies. Puppies are also hard work.

1088
00:55:37,840 --> 00:55:39,479
Speaker 2: Like even when we take our two dogs of the beach,

1089
00:55:39,480 --> 00:55:41,399
Speaker 2: it's like I can take them two kids to the beach.

1090
00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:41,880
Speaker 2: It's hectic.

1091
00:55:42,360 --> 00:55:45,560
Speaker 1: Yeah I know, and except yeah, I agree, Okay, I'm

1092
00:55:45,560 --> 00:55:51,600
Speaker 1: with you, but still love. How do we handle arguments

1093
00:55:52,200 --> 00:55:55,160
Speaker 1: and who apologizes first?

1094
00:55:56,360 --> 00:56:04,279
Speaker 2: What we do is we'll have a much joke. We'll

1095
00:56:04,360 --> 00:56:07,120
Speaker 2: get the Adelaio system probably have about a ten to

1096
00:56:07,160 --> 00:56:09,719
Speaker 2: fifteen minute break without saying anything to anybody, and then

1097
00:56:10,440 --> 00:56:13,160
Speaker 2: while myself or George will come in to the other

1098
00:56:13,160 --> 00:56:17,120
Speaker 2: person and say, I'm sorry, no joke.

1099
00:56:17,360 --> 00:56:20,480
Speaker 1: So that's even like this morning, like had a yelling break,

1100
00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:22,759
Speaker 1: didn't talk, and then we got on the beach and

1101
00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:28,239
Speaker 1: Tim goes, are you finished being grumpy? And I was like,

1102
00:56:28,480 --> 00:56:29,840
Speaker 1: have you finished being crumpy?

1103
00:56:30,239 --> 00:56:31,960
Speaker 2: But in all, honestly, like, what's the point in like

1104
00:56:32,040 --> 00:56:36,560
Speaker 2: holding a It's just like it's wasted time and it

1105
00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:37,840
Speaker 2: doesn't fix anything.

1106
00:56:38,000 --> 00:56:40,560
Speaker 1: Me and Tim can be very feisty and spicy. That's

1107
00:56:40,600 --> 00:56:43,520
Speaker 1: even like something our family says about us, like we

1108
00:56:43,560 --> 00:56:46,640
Speaker 1: can be so spicy towards each other, but it's just.

1109
00:56:46,640 --> 00:56:49,040
Speaker 3: More we like what you see is what you get.

1110
00:56:49,200 --> 00:56:51,920
Speaker 1: Like if we're at a family event, I won't like

1111
00:56:52,120 --> 00:56:55,759
Speaker 1: not argue with Tim, if that makes sense. Where's like

1112
00:56:55,840 --> 00:56:57,719
Speaker 1: my mum and dad the would never argue in front

1113
00:56:57,719 --> 00:57:00,759
Speaker 1: of someone so very much. We'll just show our emotions,

1114
00:57:00,840 --> 00:57:04,360
Speaker 1: but it's the whole We get over it so quick

1115
00:57:04,719 --> 00:57:07,840
Speaker 1: and someone will apologize whoever's you know, usually in the

1116
00:57:07,880 --> 00:57:14,439
Speaker 1: wrong or Tim and interesting interesting and get over it.

1117
00:57:14,680 --> 00:57:18,680
Speaker 1: And I think it is it's even if like someone,

1118
00:57:19,400 --> 00:57:22,400
Speaker 1: even if I'm pretty off, Tim, sometimes I will just

1119
00:57:22,440 --> 00:57:24,480
Speaker 1: apologize just to get it over with because I know

1120
00:57:24,520 --> 00:57:26,840
Speaker 1: it's not worth it. All right, two more questions, one

1121
00:57:26,920 --> 00:57:29,880
Speaker 1: serious and then one we'very cute and then we'll finish right,

1122
00:57:30,040 --> 00:57:34,080
Speaker 1: all right, So Tim, this actually got answered quite a bit,

1123
00:57:34,080 --> 00:57:36,320
Speaker 1: so I did want to ask it. So we do

1124
00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:40,360
Speaker 1: have people wondering how did you feel Slash handle the

1125
00:57:40,440 --> 00:57:43,000
Speaker 1: miscarriage asking for my husband.

1126
00:57:45,160 --> 00:57:48,840
Speaker 2: Listen, it was a bit tough, obviously. It's pretty bit

1127
00:57:48,840 --> 00:57:50,600
Speaker 2: of a slap in the face, like when I was

1128
00:57:50,640 --> 00:57:53,880
Speaker 2: pretty hopeful that when your brain was like holy moly,

1129
00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:54,640
Speaker 2: like it's happening.

1130
00:57:54,800 --> 00:57:59,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, especially because literally weeks beforehand, I was told I

1131
00:57:59,160 --> 00:58:00,280
Speaker 1: was infertile hmm.

1132
00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:02,120
Speaker 2: And so it was like such a shock for both

1133
00:58:02,120 --> 00:58:04,840
Speaker 2: her systems, and I was like so excited.

1134
00:58:05,200 --> 00:58:07,760
Speaker 1: Can we quickly can I quickly say about like when

1135
00:58:07,760 --> 00:58:09,080
Speaker 1: I told you about being pregnant?

1136
00:58:09,160 --> 00:58:10,040
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah.

1137
00:58:10,080 --> 00:58:15,080
Speaker 1: So I literally had booked in my boobs. I had

1138
00:58:15,120 --> 00:58:17,280
Speaker 1: literally had booked in my boobs, and a couple of

1139
00:58:17,320 --> 00:58:21,200
Speaker 1: weeks later told I was infertile, infertile and if I

1140
00:58:21,520 --> 00:58:25,200
Speaker 1: was to get pregnant, it was like not good basically

1141
00:58:25,240 --> 00:58:29,360
Speaker 1: like the baby might have deformities because of my thyroid issues.

1142
00:58:29,880 --> 00:58:33,320
Speaker 1: So that happened. Literally found out I was pregnant the

1143
00:58:33,360 --> 00:58:37,080
Speaker 1: week later and was like did the pregnancy test, almost

1144
00:58:37,120 --> 00:58:40,560
Speaker 1: as a joke because I was talking to another girlfriend. Anyway,

1145
00:58:40,560 --> 00:58:43,360
Speaker 1: long story shot, called Tim was like you have to

1146
00:58:43,360 --> 00:58:46,600
Speaker 1: come home right now. I was like sobbing, and he

1147
00:58:46,640 --> 00:58:49,240
Speaker 1: came home. I like showed him the pregnancy test and

1148
00:58:49,280 --> 00:58:53,160
Speaker 1: I was like hysterically crying, and he you were like

1149
00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:55,600
Speaker 1: this is the best thing about like this is a miracle.

1150
00:58:55,680 --> 00:58:57,440
Speaker 3: Like tell them how excited you are?

1151
00:58:57,480 --> 00:58:59,240
Speaker 2: Oh? I mean, I was like so excited. I was

1152
00:58:59,280 --> 00:59:03,280
Speaker 2: like because George, she basically called me I had to

1153
00:59:03,320 --> 00:59:04,720
Speaker 2: come home from work because she was like, babe, you

1154
00:59:04,720 --> 00:59:06,480
Speaker 2: need to come over, and I'm like fuck. I was

1155
00:59:06,480 --> 00:59:08,920
Speaker 2: like thinking, funk, what have I done? That was like

1156
00:59:08,960 --> 00:59:10,400
Speaker 2: the way you said it. And then you come home

1157
00:59:10,640 --> 00:59:12,280
Speaker 2: and then you put the pregnancy thing in my face

1158
00:59:12,320 --> 00:59:15,560
Speaker 2: and I was like, oh shit, like I'm so excited.

1159
00:59:15,600 --> 00:59:17,120
Speaker 2: And then you're like crying and you're like what am

1160
00:59:17,120 --> 00:59:18,120
Speaker 2: I meant to do it? I was like this is

1161
00:59:18,120 --> 00:59:20,000
Speaker 2: the best thing ever, Like just we're just going to

1162
00:59:20,080 --> 00:59:22,440
Speaker 2: do it, Like, yeah, don't worry about it like.

1163
00:59:22,560 --> 00:59:24,320
Speaker 1: And then well, that's I think that's a very typical

1164
00:59:24,400 --> 00:59:27,160
Speaker 1: thing of our relationship is me being like holy, like

1165
00:59:27,200 --> 00:59:30,560
Speaker 1: in my head, like freaking freaking out, and then Tim

1166
00:59:30,600 --> 00:59:33,120
Speaker 1: coming and being like it's all good, babe.

1167
00:59:32,800 --> 00:59:35,440
Speaker 3: We will we'll just work it out and work out, we'll.

1168
00:59:35,280 --> 00:59:37,480
Speaker 1: Get through this, and then him also I remember you

1169
00:59:37,560 --> 00:59:41,120
Speaker 1: saying babe, this is amazing, like this is good news,

1170
00:59:41,400 --> 00:59:45,520
Speaker 1: this is so exciting, and almost having to reframe my

1171
00:59:45,680 --> 00:59:49,560
Speaker 1: brain and then I was like like this is what

1172
00:59:49,600 --> 00:59:51,440
Speaker 1: we want blah blah blah.

1173
00:59:52,280 --> 00:59:56,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, so sweet, but like getting back to like dealing

1174
00:59:56,360 --> 01:00:03,080
Speaker 2: with it. I mean, guys don't really share their emotions.

1175
01:00:03,280 --> 01:00:05,320
Speaker 2: They sort of hold it in, and then you know,

1176
01:00:07,240 --> 01:00:11,080
Speaker 2: I think a big thing would be let your emotions out,

1177
01:00:11,400 --> 01:00:14,640
Speaker 2: like talk to your partner, really communicate with them, tell

1178
01:00:14,680 --> 01:00:18,720
Speaker 2: them how you feel. And then I think that's that's

1179
01:00:18,840 --> 01:00:21,040
Speaker 2: that's like a way of not like grieving, but like

1180
01:00:21,240 --> 01:00:24,640
Speaker 2: definitely trying to get over such a bad situation just

1181
01:00:24,680 --> 01:00:28,280
Speaker 2: talking it out and yeah, I guess just being there

1182
01:00:28,320 --> 01:00:30,360
Speaker 2: for each other in the bit of a time of

1183
01:00:30,440 --> 01:00:33,800
Speaker 2: grieving and that's yeah, that's probably the best thing you

1184
01:00:33,800 --> 01:00:34,480
Speaker 2: can do. Really.

1185
01:00:34,720 --> 01:00:36,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you were very supportive to me because

1186
01:00:36,800 --> 01:00:37,520
Speaker 1: remember I was like.

1187
01:00:37,520 --> 01:00:38,520
Speaker 3: A bit of a fucking mess.

1188
01:00:38,840 --> 01:00:40,400
Speaker 2: You were a mess I was.

1189
01:00:40,640 --> 01:00:42,800
Speaker 1: And that's another thing too. I'm such a like all

1190
01:00:42,840 --> 01:00:46,040
Speaker 1: in person, So after the initial shock, I was like

1191
01:00:46,520 --> 01:00:49,840
Speaker 1: all in, this was happening, And then to find out

1192
01:00:49,880 --> 01:00:52,280
Speaker 1: that news, like I just couldn't really deal with.

1193
01:00:52,200 --> 01:00:52,960
Speaker 3: Life for a while.

1194
01:00:53,280 --> 01:00:56,880
Speaker 1: And Tim was so supportive and like, yeah, just I

1195
01:00:56,920 --> 01:00:59,480
Speaker 1: think like supportive for each other too. And you're such

1196
01:00:59,560 --> 01:01:01,960
Speaker 1: like a adaptive, go with the flow.

1197
01:01:02,080 --> 01:01:02,880
Speaker 3: What is happening?

1198
01:01:02,920 --> 01:01:05,160
Speaker 2: Would you deal with that person supportive in Yeah, but

1199
01:01:05,240 --> 01:01:07,880
Speaker 2: definitely talk out your emotions and feelings because that's the

1200
01:01:07,920 --> 01:01:10,360
Speaker 2: only way to get them out of your system. If

1201
01:01:10,400 --> 01:01:12,360
Speaker 2: you just hold them in, just keep thinking about them,

1202
01:01:12,480 --> 01:01:15,360
Speaker 2: not talk to anyone about them. That's when it gets harder.

1203
01:01:15,400 --> 01:01:17,320
Speaker 2: You just you just dwell on them. Yeah.

1204
01:01:17,480 --> 01:01:20,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, and also Tim, just let me be like super

1205
01:01:20,120 --> 01:01:20,960
Speaker 1: upset for a while.

1206
01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:26,560
Speaker 2: Yeah. It's just time. And honestly, it's just time, isn't

1207
01:01:26,560 --> 01:01:28,560
Speaker 2: it time here? Yeah? It's just time.

1208
01:01:28,840 --> 01:01:29,800
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1209
01:01:29,920 --> 01:01:33,960
Speaker 1: Okay, So talking about communication too, someone asks, well, you

1210
01:01:33,960 --> 01:01:36,960
Speaker 1: guys are always good at communicating and sharing thoughts.

1211
01:01:36,640 --> 01:01:40,760
Speaker 3: With each other. No, So literally, when I met.

1212
01:01:40,560 --> 01:01:45,040
Speaker 1: Tim, he was like a brass he was like, yeah,

1213
01:01:45,120 --> 01:01:48,280
Speaker 1: there was no communication. And I also think kind of

1214
01:01:48,440 --> 01:01:51,880
Speaker 1: from your childhood too, like you kind of just didn't

1215
01:01:51,920 --> 01:01:53,040
Speaker 1: I think a typical boy.

1216
01:01:53,400 --> 01:01:55,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, a typical boy, and probably like more of a

1217
01:01:55,440 --> 01:01:57,960
Speaker 2: typical trady, you know, like a real blow.

1218
01:01:58,640 --> 01:02:02,320
Speaker 1: Blow didn't really himself, didn't really talk too much. And

1219
01:02:02,360 --> 01:02:04,520
Speaker 1: I remember even like, because you came over to my

1220
01:02:04,680 --> 01:02:07,800
Speaker 1: house and my family are like talkers, and I remember

1221
01:02:07,800 --> 01:02:09,240
Speaker 1: you being like, holy fuck.

1222
01:02:09,080 --> 01:02:11,760
Speaker 3: You really took soft and me being like, yeah, this

1223
01:02:11,840 --> 01:02:14,360
Speaker 3: is normal. So me personally growing up, it was.

1224
01:02:14,360 --> 01:02:17,000
Speaker 1: Like you ate at the dinner and you spoke about

1225
01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:20,320
Speaker 1: your day and it's like very expressive, and me being

1226
01:02:20,400 --> 01:02:22,720
Speaker 1: the way I am, and so at the start, Tim

1227
01:02:22,760 --> 01:02:25,440
Speaker 1: actually was. And I remember having conversations with him in

1228
01:02:25,480 --> 01:02:28,600
Speaker 1: the car, going can we not just sit here in silence?

1229
01:02:28,640 --> 01:02:34,000
Speaker 1: Can we talk about something? And him being like, oh.

1230
01:02:33,120 --> 01:02:34,560
Speaker 2: Like I literally wouldn't know what to talk about. But

1231
01:02:34,560 --> 01:02:36,560
Speaker 2: then there's like so much to talk about. Yeah, but

1232
01:02:36,600 --> 01:02:37,880
Speaker 2: it was just always all in my head. I was

1233
01:02:37,960 --> 01:02:40,000
Speaker 2: very closed minded, so close minded.

1234
01:02:40,040 --> 01:02:42,880
Speaker 1: Oh my god, And this is I'm honestly so happy

1235
01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:46,200
Speaker 1: that we met when we were younger, because if I

1236
01:02:46,440 --> 01:02:49,520
Speaker 1: had met you when you were younger, but I was like,

1237
01:02:49,680 --> 01:02:54,160
Speaker 1: you know, at you know, similar well similar to now

1238
01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:57,720
Speaker 1: in regards to what I'm like, I wouldn't have even

1239
01:02:57,760 --> 01:03:01,440
Speaker 1: given you a chance because I cannot deal with people

1240
01:03:01,480 --> 01:03:04,800
Speaker 1: who don't communicate, who don't express themselves. But that was

1241
01:03:04,840 --> 01:03:07,840
Speaker 1: you at the start, and I remember having quite a

1242
01:03:07,880 --> 01:03:11,040
Speaker 1: few conversations with you being like, Babe, we need to

1243
01:03:11,080 --> 01:03:14,560
Speaker 1: talk about this, like in communication and whatnot. But you've

1244
01:03:14,560 --> 01:03:17,360
Speaker 1: gotten so much better and I almost feel like, yeah,

1245
01:03:17,480 --> 01:03:20,080
Speaker 1: we're very on the same page with the communication now, ye,

1246
01:03:20,600 --> 01:03:23,840
Speaker 1: was there anything in particular that helped you in regards

1247
01:03:23,840 --> 01:03:25,560
Speaker 1: to getting better at communication?

1248
01:03:26,320 --> 01:03:31,280
Speaker 2: Not really, I guess, just like consistently talking. I guess

1249
01:03:31,600 --> 01:03:34,680
Speaker 2: it's almost like a habit, isn't it, talking, like if

1250
01:03:34,720 --> 01:03:35,880
Speaker 2: you just really work on it.

1251
01:03:36,160 --> 01:03:39,760
Speaker 1: Maybe the intentional time we do, like with beach coffee

1252
01:03:39,760 --> 01:03:42,520
Speaker 1: and whatnot. Because I think the communication thing with you

1253
01:03:42,800 --> 01:03:45,720
Speaker 1: is tim And this might be like a generalization, but

1254
01:03:45,800 --> 01:03:48,959
Speaker 1: maybe more for males like Tim almost finds it hard

1255
01:03:49,000 --> 01:03:52,000
Speaker 1: to hold a conversation and get quite deep. And I

1256
01:03:52,040 --> 01:03:55,480
Speaker 1: think going back, I'm more talking about deep conversations. Oh,

1257
01:03:56,080 --> 01:03:58,840
Speaker 1: I'm someone who needs to have a deep conversation, and

1258
01:03:58,880 --> 01:04:03,000
Speaker 1: I meaned him we'll have conversations about this where sometimes

1259
01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:06,000
Speaker 1: I maybe don't seem that friendly because if we're not

1260
01:04:06,040 --> 01:04:09,840
Speaker 1: having a conversation that I'm not interested with. Tim loves

1261
01:04:09,840 --> 01:04:11,960
Speaker 1: a surface level hello conversation.

1262
01:04:12,280 --> 01:04:15,160
Speaker 2: Hey, yeah I do. I'm a bit of a sucker

1263
01:04:15,200 --> 01:04:15,720
Speaker 2: for him.

1264
01:04:15,800 --> 01:04:17,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, like loves a surface level and I'm like, no,

1265
01:04:17,840 --> 01:04:20,160
Speaker 1: if we're not bloody, you know, talking about manifestation our

1266
01:04:20,200 --> 01:04:21,720
Speaker 1: star signs and what's the point.

1267
01:04:22,400 --> 01:04:25,880
Speaker 2: But I've definitely gotten better, though, so much better in

1268
01:04:25,880 --> 01:04:27,400
Speaker 2: saying that, baby, you can we can still have a

1269
01:04:27,440 --> 01:04:30,560
Speaker 2: pretty good surface level conversation about random stuff. Oh, it

1270
01:04:30,640 --> 01:04:32,240
Speaker 2: doesn't have to be a surface level.

1271
01:04:32,320 --> 01:04:34,160
Speaker 3: It's because we knew how to talk to each other.

1272
01:04:34,200 --> 01:04:35,560
Speaker 2: Now, that's true.

1273
01:04:35,720 --> 01:04:37,959
Speaker 1: It doesn't have to always be about something super deep.

1274
01:04:37,960 --> 01:04:40,440
Speaker 1: But I mean in regards to holding a conversation and

1275
01:04:40,480 --> 01:04:43,360
Speaker 1: being able to communicate, which is something you never used

1276
01:04:43,360 --> 01:04:43,960
Speaker 1: to be able to do.

1277
01:04:44,040 --> 01:04:46,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's be honest, like just being in like interested

1278
01:04:46,920 --> 01:04:49,480
Speaker 2: in that conversation, you know, like and just just asking

1279
01:04:49,600 --> 01:04:51,480
Speaker 2: questions back, not just getting a question asked you and

1280
01:04:51,520 --> 01:04:52,280
Speaker 2: just going oh yeah.

1281
01:04:52,680 --> 01:04:54,320
Speaker 1: I used to say to Tim, I was like, it

1282
01:04:54,320 --> 01:04:56,840
Speaker 1: feels like I'm doing twenty one questions with you. Because

1283
01:04:56,840 --> 01:04:59,080
Speaker 1: we'd be asking, Like we'd be talking about a topic

1284
01:04:59,160 --> 01:05:01,480
Speaker 1: and it would just be me asking questions and Tim

1285
01:05:01,480 --> 01:05:04,280
Speaker 1: would just answer. And I'm like, this isn't a conversation,

1286
01:05:04,480 --> 01:05:06,760
Speaker 1: Like you need to think of your own answers and

1287
01:05:06,800 --> 01:05:09,840
Speaker 1: your own replies and whatnot. And I think going back

1288
01:05:09,880 --> 01:05:12,840
Speaker 1: to what helped is, I think it is that intentional

1289
01:05:12,880 --> 01:05:15,560
Speaker 1: time where it's like we're sitting here, we're having a conversation.

1290
01:05:15,880 --> 01:05:18,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, because if you've got other stuff gone on, you're

1291
01:05:18,240 --> 01:05:20,640
Speaker 2: just going to get distracted and it's just not gonna happen. Yeah,

1292
01:05:20,760 --> 01:05:23,480
Speaker 2: we've even tried it so many times. Well not you know, Yeah,

1293
01:05:23,560 --> 01:05:24,439
Speaker 2: it's just not gonna happen.

1294
01:05:24,440 --> 01:05:26,479
Speaker 1: But that's it's not even a youth thing too, because

1295
01:05:26,520 --> 01:05:28,960
Speaker 1: I'm the exact same, like if I'm stressed with work

1296
01:05:29,120 --> 01:05:32,040
Speaker 1: or something like that, like you'll be like, babe, you're like,

1297
01:05:32,240 --> 01:05:33,680
Speaker 1: head's not here are sort of thing?

1298
01:05:33,840 --> 01:05:34,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true.

1299
01:05:35,120 --> 01:05:38,040
Speaker 1: Last question, guys, and then we will wrap this up

1300
01:05:38,120 --> 01:05:40,720
Speaker 1: because we've got to go to our Valentine's date dinner.

1301
01:05:40,800 --> 01:05:42,959
Speaker 2: Yeah I'm so hungry, babe.

1302
01:05:43,000 --> 01:05:44,720
Speaker 1: Do you want to tell the audience where you're taking me?

1303
01:05:44,840 --> 01:05:45,040
Speaker 3: And what?

1304
01:05:45,480 --> 01:05:48,520
Speaker 2: So I've booked hate surprised and.

1305
01:05:48,560 --> 01:05:52,320
Speaker 1: I fucking hate surprises, but not if it's like an

1306
01:05:52,320 --> 01:05:54,200
Speaker 1: engagement ring or a cardioer bracelet.

1307
01:05:55,160 --> 01:05:59,240
Speaker 2: Interesting, but I hate You're only getting those things once,

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Speaker 2: So that's it. Just surprise us.

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Speaker 3: True.

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Speaker 2: Now we're going to this cool modern Mediterranean cuisine place.

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Speaker 1: What's it's called.

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Speaker 2: It's called Miss Money Pennies in Broadbeach. So we haven't

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Speaker 2: been there, but lately we've been doing like the Tapper's meals,

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Speaker 2: haven't we, And we've been really getting into it, like

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Speaker 2: not just having sitting down, just having one big meal

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Speaker 2: and then getting up and leaving, like having a bit

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Speaker 2: of finger food, trying out a few different tastes. I'm

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Speaker 2: into it now.

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Speaker 1: Which is a Japanese place in the cost Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: it's ridic it's a bit pricey, but it's fucking amazing.

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Speaker 2: It's delicious.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So we're doing that, so we'll wrap it up.

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Speaker 1: So last question, Tim, what is your best memory that

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Speaker 1: you have of us together? I bet you're going to

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01:06:44,080 --> 01:06:46,880
Speaker 1: take mine, but sure do you reckon.

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Speaker 2: Which was my favorite memory and best memory of us

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01:06:52,200 --> 01:06:57,160
Speaker 2: together probably would be our first stance at our wedding.

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Speaker 2: Is that what you were going to say? You really?

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Speaker 3: I was literally no fucking dog. Well, actually, like we

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01:07:08,120 --> 01:07:09,880
Speaker 3: just we just connected, which is.

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Speaker 1: Bloody connected, but broadly like our wedding, Like I know,

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Speaker 1: a lot of people are like, oh, so much money

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Speaker 1: to spend them one day and it's you know, and yeah,

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Speaker 1: it fucking is a lot.

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Speaker 2: Of money, and yeah it is fucking stressful. Yeah, but

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Speaker 2: it is what you make of it.

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Speaker 1: It was literally the best day of our lives. Don't reckon.

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Speaker 1: Everything went to plan. It did rain a little bit,

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01:07:31,560 --> 01:07:35,240
Speaker 1: but it was fine. It stopped raining for photos and.

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Speaker 2: Everyone was in such a I feel like everyone's in

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01:07:37,440 --> 01:07:38,840
Speaker 2: such a good vibe at the wedding. It was just

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Speaker 2: celebrating love.

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01:07:39,760 --> 01:07:41,080
Speaker 3: And everyone was in a good mood.

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Speaker 1: And like I remember the wedding, people literally saying this

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01:07:44,240 --> 01:07:46,040
Speaker 1: is one of the best weddings had.

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Speaker 2: At the end of the night, they pulled us up

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01:07:47,560 --> 01:07:47,919
Speaker 2: and they.

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Speaker 3: And we got married at Millennial.

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01:07:50,000 --> 01:07:53,520
Speaker 2: Money and the Millenni manner, Millenniy.

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Speaker 1: Money, a Milanny manner, and lots of people get married

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01:07:56,760 --> 01:07:59,120
Speaker 1: in there and yeah, the weight stuff pulled us up

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01:07:59,160 --> 01:08:01,240
Speaker 1: and we're like, holy crap, this is one of the

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01:08:01,360 --> 01:08:02,080
Speaker 1: best wedding.

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01:08:02,160 --> 01:08:04,360
Speaker 2: I think it's more the fact that there's you know,

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01:08:04,520 --> 01:08:06,960
Speaker 2: quite upper class people that get married there. We were

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01:08:07,040 --> 01:08:07,720
Speaker 2: fucking loose.

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01:08:07,920 --> 01:08:12,400
Speaker 1: We were literally because our friends like are young, We're loose,

1358
01:08:12,520 --> 01:08:15,640
Speaker 1: like not even like our friends like my family is

1359
01:08:15,680 --> 01:08:21,040
Speaker 1: pretty loose. My side of the family was c like

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01:08:21,120 --> 01:08:22,880
Speaker 1: my mom's auntie is a thorn.

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01:08:23,479 --> 01:08:25,760
Speaker 2: And it was just fun. Everyone was just saying it

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01:08:25,840 --> 01:08:27,040
Speaker 2: was just perfect bests.

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01:08:27,080 --> 01:08:29,960
Speaker 1: But yeah, like our first dance, the guy playing guitar

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01:08:30,920 --> 01:08:33,439
Speaker 1: and Ed Sheeran song. I can't even remember the song

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01:08:33,560 --> 01:08:36,120
Speaker 1: is now, but I not if I heard it.

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01:08:36,120 --> 01:08:37,280
Speaker 3: It was like box or something.

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01:08:38,960 --> 01:08:43,919
Speaker 1: Anyway, beautiful, best bloody mems about just yet wedding was best.

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01:08:43,720 --> 01:08:45,320
Speaker 2: Mems The Green War bad.

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, we're going to wrap up this episode.

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01:08:51,040 --> 01:08:54,519
Speaker 1: This is like a yearly thing where Tim graces us

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Speaker 1: with his presence podcast.

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Speaker 2: I'm not fun. I think I did almost I think

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01:08:59,800 --> 01:09:01,599
Speaker 2: I did a bit of a better job than last year.

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01:09:01,840 --> 01:09:04,439
Speaker 2: I think he's just last year. Yeah, you were just

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01:09:04,439 --> 01:09:05,440
Speaker 2: like nervous.

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01:09:06,760 --> 01:09:08,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I didn't even have to like bribe you

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01:09:08,400 --> 01:09:10,920
Speaker 1: or anything this time. Tim didn't want to do it

1378
01:09:11,080 --> 01:09:16,040
Speaker 1: as per usual, but I, you know, put my foot down.

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01:09:18,880 --> 01:09:19,880
Speaker 3: And we got it done.

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01:09:19,920 --> 01:09:23,479
Speaker 1: But I love it, And I also think it's important

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01:09:23,520 --> 01:09:26,320
Speaker 1: to to just be very like raw real, this is.

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01:09:26,280 --> 01:09:30,439
Speaker 3: How it is, and I'm glad. Also, yeah, we just chatted.

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01:09:30,800 --> 01:09:34,800
Speaker 2: Love chatting with you, all right.

1384
01:09:34,920 --> 01:09:37,559
Speaker 3: We love you guys. Tell the pod how much you

1385
01:09:37,600 --> 01:09:37,960
Speaker 3: love them.

1386
01:09:38,520 --> 01:09:40,519
Speaker 2: The RNC fan guys, we love you.

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01:09:40,560 --> 01:09:41,320
Speaker 3: Well.

1388
01:09:41,400 --> 01:09:44,040
Speaker 2: I just so much love going around.

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01:09:44,160 --> 01:09:46,880
Speaker 1: I always like comment to Tim and like tell you guys,

1390
01:09:47,160 --> 01:09:49,479
Speaker 1: tell him sorry about you guys, whether it's like, you know,

1391
01:09:49,560 --> 01:09:52,320
Speaker 1: a review or just like a nice comment or something

1392
01:09:52,320 --> 01:09:55,160
Speaker 1: in the Facebook group or my Rise and Conker Project.

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01:09:54,840 --> 01:09:57,200
Speaker 2: Girls, and so yeah, you are. You are like so

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01:09:57,439 --> 01:10:00,120
Speaker 2: proud of like everybody in your little community. And it's

1395
01:10:00,120 --> 01:10:01,519
Speaker 2: so nice to see that with.

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01:10:01,439 --> 01:10:04,200
Speaker 1: You, baby, because because it's like it's hard. It's not

1397
01:10:04,280 --> 01:10:06,760
Speaker 1: hard to have a community, but yeah, when you have

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01:10:06,920 --> 01:10:09,960
Speaker 1: people like we're talking about on the same way length

1399
01:10:10,040 --> 01:10:12,920
Speaker 1: who get the same things as you, who are interested

1400
01:10:13,000 --> 01:10:15,559
Speaker 1: in the same things, it's honestly it can be quite rare.

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01:10:15,680 --> 01:10:18,120
Speaker 1: And so for me to have, you know, quite a

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01:10:18,120 --> 01:10:21,560
Speaker 1: big community of people who are interested, I'm just very grateful.

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01:10:21,240 --> 01:10:24,479
Speaker 2: And I love it. Yeah, perfect, Well, thank.

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01:10:24,280 --> 01:10:25,320
Speaker 3: You so much for listening.

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01:10:25,360 --> 01:10:27,840
Speaker 1: I hope you enjoyed this Valentine's Day special and I

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01:10:27,880 --> 01:10:30,559
Speaker 1: hope you guys you know, got treated by your partner

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01:10:30,960 --> 01:10:34,600
Speaker 1: or if you're single. I really hope you treated yourself

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01:10:35,160 --> 01:10:37,200
Speaker 1: and you know, really loved yourself.

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01:10:37,240 --> 01:10:37,479
Speaker 2: First.

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01:10:37,560 --> 01:10:40,679
Speaker 1: I actually had a self love bath last night. Tonight,

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01:10:40,840 --> 01:10:43,559
Speaker 1: it did and I actually told him not to disturb me.

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01:10:43,880 --> 01:10:46,599
Speaker 2: And then she goes she had she goes, team moneyed

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01:10:46,640 --> 01:10:49,000
Speaker 2: you in here quickly. I kind of came in. I

1414
01:10:49,040 --> 01:10:51,479
Speaker 2: was like, babe, what she had all these fucking rose

1415
01:10:51,520 --> 01:10:53,360
Speaker 2: petals in the bath, and She's like, I needed to

1416
01:10:53,360 --> 01:10:55,599
Speaker 2: take the plug out really quickly and then get out.

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01:10:55,720 --> 01:10:58,200
Speaker 2: So we took a bug like quickly get out, and

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01:10:58,240 --> 01:11:01,160
Speaker 2: I was like, what the fuck is going on in here?

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01:11:01,280 --> 01:11:02,759
Speaker 2: Some sort of fucking ritual.

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01:11:03,439 --> 01:11:07,280
Speaker 1: I'm not even fucking joking. I did a ritual and

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01:11:07,320 --> 01:11:08,880
Speaker 1: I'll have to tell you about it off air, but

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01:11:08,920 --> 01:11:12,680
Speaker 1: I fully did a self love like manifestation ritual with

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01:11:12,800 --> 01:11:13,200
Speaker 1: the bath.

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01:11:13,560 --> 01:11:16,920
Speaker 2: Okay, maybe something you could share on the.

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01:11:18,520 --> 01:11:18,840
Speaker 3: Guys.

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01:11:18,960 --> 01:11:21,519
Speaker 1: It's something new I'm trying, but look it's a bit crazy.

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01:11:21,560 --> 01:11:23,559
Speaker 1: But yes, had a self love barth really get back

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01:11:23,600 --> 01:11:25,479
Speaker 1: to myself, did a bit of journaling. Loved it, and

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01:11:25,479 --> 01:11:29,280
Speaker 1: I hope you did the same. Thank you for listening

1430
01:11:29,320 --> 01:11:33,360
Speaker 1: for another RNC episode. I really appreciate taking the time

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01:11:33,760 --> 01:11:36,200
Speaker 1: to be here with me, and also for taking the

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01:11:36,280 --> 01:11:40,240
Speaker 1: time for yourself. If you found this episode helpful, it

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01:11:40,280 --> 01:11:42,880
Speaker 1: would be so amazing if you shared it on your

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01:11:42,960 --> 01:11:45,840
Speaker 1: stories and tagged us, or simply just send it on

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01:11:45,920 --> 01:11:46,200
Speaker 1: to a.

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01:11:46,200 --> 01:11:49,719
Speaker 3: Girlfriend or family member who would benefit from listening.

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01:11:50,400 --> 01:11:53,360
Speaker 1: We are an independent podcast run by me and my

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01:11:53,400 --> 01:11:56,400
Speaker 1: amazing podcast manager, so it would mean the world to

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01:11:56,520 --> 01:12:00,639
Speaker 1: us if you left a review on the Apple podcast app. Also,

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01:12:00,760 --> 01:12:04,160
Speaker 1: if you're vibing this podcast and the concepts we're chatting about,

1441
01:12:04,560 --> 01:12:08,439
Speaker 1: and your craving community, please come and join us over

1442
01:12:08,520 --> 01:12:12,840
Speaker 1: at the RNC podcast community Facebook group. Just search Rise

1443
01:12:12,920 --> 01:12:17,160
Speaker 1: and Conquer Podcast community on Facebook and I will be

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Speaker 1: in there to chat to you until next time.