Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome to Outspoken. It's your dose of the
Speaker 1: hottest influencer and pop culture news twice a week. I'm
Speaker 1: Kate Torba and we are not usually in your ears
Speaker 1: on a Wednesday, but we thought we would do two
Speaker 1: parts of our Q and A today. Now. I'm Amy Torburt.
Speaker 1: I'm pumped for this second round of the Q and A,
Speaker 1: and we're also joined by Sophie Torbert.
Speaker 2: Of course I'm here.
Speaker 1: I love the Q and as I know, I think
Speaker 1: we should kick it off. Now someone's asked, do you
Speaker 1: all live close to each other? You're my favorite podcast,
Speaker 1: by the way, Sorry, that's that one. I love that
Speaker 1: concluded that in it's not necessary, So no, we don't
Speaker 1: live close together. So basically, we all used to live
Speaker 1: in about five minutes of each other. We all used
Speaker 1: to live in the Western Suburbs when we were renting,
Speaker 1: so Sophie, you're still in the Western Suburbs. However, I
Speaker 1: moved to the Hills, which is about forty five minutes
Speaker 1: away from you, and then Amy bought a house basically
Speaker 1: in the middle of Sophie and I. So you and
Speaker 1: I are about twenty five minutes away from each other now, yeah,
Speaker 1: so we're really wanting Sophie to move more this side
Speaker 1: of town. Shafter with everything. Now everyone forgets that I
Speaker 1: live near the beach. Well, we grew up. We grew
Speaker 1: up in Canlake Gardens, which is just this beautiful in suburbs. No,
Speaker 1: but I said, we grew up there, and so we
Speaker 1: originally moved out of home and we went to live
Speaker 1: in Brighton, which was quite far away. Then we moved
Speaker 1: to Grain it's like twenty minutes away. It's just near
Speaker 1: the beach, so near the beach, and then we moved
Speaker 1: to Grange because we just loved being near the beach.
Speaker 1: Now I've moved, I'm probably like ten fifteen minutes away
Speaker 1: from Mum and Dad now and you're twenty minutes. So
Speaker 1: we're trying to get Sophie on the other side of town. Well,
Speaker 1: I'm looking if this bloody housing market would like to
Speaker 1: crash and Sophie, a couple of weeks ago, you were
Speaker 1: like excitedly announcing that you're basically buying a house on
Speaker 1: my street, and you didn't even go to the auction.
Speaker 1: This week, I see that price was actually not that
Speaker 1: bad either. I didn't because I'm still waiting for our
Speaker 1: pre approval to go through.
Speaker 2: I've just got some nitty gritty with the accountant.
Speaker 1: There's another one on sale near me, but it is
Speaker 1: five bedrooms. I've been pointing out houses around here. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's hard because both of you want me to live
Speaker 1: near you, just the wanted one. Well, let we'll see.
Speaker 1: We'll see what happens now. Someone asked us for some
Speaker 1: tips on what they should wear to the office. Some
Speaker 1: wardrobes stable timely because Amy and I and you, I
Speaker 1: hate all of my office clothes because we do work
Speaker 1: from home, but obviously when we go to meetings or shoots,
Speaker 1: we need to have nice, professional looking clothing on. And
Speaker 1: I freaked out last week and Amy and I ended
Speaker 1: up going to this shoot Inactive where it wasn't a
Speaker 1: footy club because we were filming. I see. I laughed
Speaker 1: at this question because I literally I work from home. Well,
Speaker 1: I meant to be in the office two days a week,
Speaker 1: but it's usually only one day. So when I do
Speaker 1: go into the office, I just have the same pair
Speaker 1: of black pants that I wear and change up the tops.
Speaker 1: I should not be providing any wardrobe advice to anyone
Speaker 1: because I need to do a complete overhaul I think
Speaker 1: I spoke on the podcast how I was looking into
Speaker 1: a capsual wardrobe. However, I bought my car and am
Speaker 1: saving for my wedding at the moment, so clothes have
Speaker 1: kind of dropped off my priority. Ortunately do you know
Speaker 1: what so IH and I are doing with our work clothes.
Speaker 1: We want to go and get some stuff made, like
Speaker 1: with our logo on it with so because you see
Speaker 1: all these people out and they look so much more professional.
Speaker 1: They've got like black pants and they've got like a
Speaker 1: button up top or something, and then they've got one
Speaker 1: of those vets over the top that's got their work logo.
Speaker 1: Because it is really difficult to dress for the office.
Speaker 1: So well, I want to give some people some actual
Speaker 1: good tips for those who actually do work in a
Speaker 1: proper office, because we did work in news for a
Speaker 1: number of years, so we have been you know, I
Speaker 1: do know what age that's right?
Speaker 2: Well, one person who.
Speaker 1: Probably gives way better advice than us, I followed this
Speaker 1: Instagram account called Mum's Style Diary, and she has all
Speaker 1: these great tips on how to actually wear clothes properly
Speaker 1: because feel like there's all these oversized shirts.
Speaker 2: So she doesn't you.
Speaker 1: Sent me once over and it was like, don't tuck
Speaker 1: your shirt into your jeans folded. I didn't see any difference.
Speaker 1: Are you serious?
Speaker 2: I sent this two as well.
Speaker 1: I didn't see it.
Speaker 2: Look.
Speaker 1: I think TikTok is a great wealth of information on
Speaker 1: wardrobes and staple pieces of clothing. I think I had
Speaker 1: to look at Henny. I loved the stuff on there.
Speaker 1: Like in terms of blazers, I think you need to
Speaker 1: think about like what you can wear over and over again.
Speaker 1: I keep saying A tip is, if you buy something,
Speaker 1: make sure it goes with like three different things in
Speaker 1: your wardrobe. Because I often buy, like if I'm with
Speaker 1: Mum shopping, she'll pressure me to buy this sale item
Speaker 1: thing that I never end up wearing because I have
Speaker 1: like it just goes with nothing in my wardrobe. I think,
Speaker 1: stay away from trends and stick to quite neutral, staple
Speaker 1: items of clothing that are going to last for a
Speaker 1: long time. I agree. I also think for work, get
Speaker 1: a really good comfortable pair of black pants because they
Speaker 1: look good all the time. So when I was at seven,
Speaker 1: we were lucky because the wardrobe department would buy stuff.
Speaker 1: But I actually ended up buying these pants off the
Speaker 1: wardrobe to plants because the pants, Yeah, it was so comfortable.
Speaker 1: I need to probably update them because they're looking a
Speaker 1: bit ratty now. Cook I also has some great pants
Speaker 1: for work. They've got the very wide leg and they're
Speaker 1: super comfortable high waist, and I love the camel pants.
Speaker 1: They've also got a beautiful, like peace color. What you
Speaker 1: laughing at the gisue with a cookie though, is that
Speaker 1: they're not very size inclusive. No, they're not. I think
Speaker 1: they're getting more sizes, but it's pretty backwards. Sorry, I'm
Speaker 1: just laughing because I always remember anytime we talk about
Speaker 1: fashion or style, everyone's like still talking about you don't
Speaker 1: know anything about it. Look, I'm putting out there I
Speaker 1: need some advice. If anyone wants to show more piece
Speaker 1: of advice, I think this prevenue and Jacuba also a
Speaker 1: good place to get sort of affordable Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: I swear. I am literally at the moment obsessed with
Speaker 1: cocoa and Lola. I stalk their page waiting for them
Speaker 1: to bring new stuff out. Have I purchased from that
Speaker 1: website ever? No, because it's really expensive. But I'm trying
Speaker 1: to find a hen's dress and also maybe like a
Speaker 1: dress to wear to Amy's engagement party that's coming up,
Speaker 1: and I'm just stressing because everything is either too expensive
Speaker 1: or not in my size. So anyway, that is my
Speaker 1: dream shop. I love that place so well, not really officewear,
Speaker 1: but just sort of Oh there's some nice office stuff
Speaker 1: there too. Hopefully one day I will actually purchase from there. Sorry,
Speaker 1: I love this question that's just popped up. If you
Speaker 1: were having a movie made about you, who would you
Speaker 1: want to play you? Oh see, I feel like we've
Speaker 1: spoken about this quite a bit. Min It sounds really
Speaker 1: arrogant when you're like, I think this is it's definitely
Speaker 1: Margot Rubbie. But it's not saying they look like you.
Speaker 1: It's saying, who would you want to play you? We'll
Speaker 1: just Margo Robbie just to boost my own e even
Speaker 1: though it looks anything like her, But I think it
Speaker 1: would be more Anna Kendrick that would play so well.
Speaker 1: Might not be Mena Savari, So I've got tickets in herself.
Speaker 1: But she has been told she looks like her by
Speaker 1: a couple of people. Did I tell you guys?
Speaker 3: How?
Speaker 1: I think I might have told this story, But how
Speaker 1: when I was in Amsterdam and Kendrick was there at
Speaker 1: the same time, and I was hoping to run into
Speaker 1: her because I ran into what's his name from Home
Speaker 1: and Away the alf Stewards our stewart. So I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: we're going to see Anna Kendrick as well. Do you
Speaker 1: know what's funny when you do listen to a podcast
Speaker 1: and don't really know what the people look like that well,
Speaker 1: and you do have an image of them in your head.
Speaker 1: I wonder if, because we've said that, we've been recognized
Speaker 1: as Anna Kendrick a few times where the people imagine
Speaker 1: us looking like her when they listened. Wait, okay, that's
Speaker 1: just well, no one can tell our voices. It passed.
Speaker 1: You know what. When I first started listening to Shameless,
Speaker 1: I used to imagine and I think I can't remember
Speaker 1: if it was Michelle or Zara. I think it was Michelle.
Speaker 1: I used to imagine her looking like Summer from Neighbors,
Speaker 1: Remember to the girl really the one with the fringe?
Speaker 1: Isn't that weird? Did you hear they were talking about
Speaker 1: how someone came up to Zara and was like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, it's Michelle Andrews and she's like, no, like
Speaker 1: you'd really look like her? And She's like nah, did
Speaker 1: you guys see that Zara got proposed to engage on
Speaker 1: the weekend? I did. That was very exciting and actually
Speaker 1: had a very unique ring and I was beautiful. But
Speaker 1: I'm thinking I hope she asked for that. I swear
Speaker 1: on the podcast, I heard her say that she loves opals. Look,
Speaker 1: I don't think her partner's going to go out and
Speaker 1: pick such a unique looking ring. It suits her style
Speaker 1: so well, so I think it's something she's clearly made
Speaker 1: some Pinterest bored and that's what she wanted. I wonder
Speaker 1: if she was involved in the designing process, because Michelle
Speaker 1: did joke that Zara is the Oracle, and then there
Speaker 1: were a few comments under the post where the like
Speaker 1: where Zara said, oh did the Oracle know about this,
Speaker 1: kind of referring that she knew, and then everyone's like,
Speaker 1: your fresh nails suggests that you did know. I feel
Speaker 1: like though in friendship groups once and it's kind of
Speaker 1: like with us, once one gets engaged, it's like a
Speaker 1: domino effect. I feel like they're in that stage of
Speaker 1: their life. There's a lot of influencer weddings and then
Speaker 1: also like podcaster weddings coming up, so like Victoria Devine's
Speaker 1: getting married soon. I think Michelle Andrews is as well.
Speaker 1: Jar Dae Tunci. I cannot wait for all the weddings there.
Speaker 1: It's so exciting. Now there's another question that I thought
Speaker 1: was quite interesting. It's do you girls tell each other everything?
Speaker 1: Or is there some things you keep priving? We should
Speaker 1: ask our partners this because like I remember, like Dale
Speaker 1: would get upset that you had told us something at
Speaker 1: family dinner and Reese's like, really, it's so obvious that
Speaker 1: they tell each other everything. Okay, hopefully Dale doesn't listen
Speaker 1: to this, But it's so funny because we've been spending
Speaker 1: the whole weekend just like cleaning up, as we said
Speaker 1: on Friday's episode, getting ready for the engagement party. And
Speaker 1: we have this spare room and it's just becoind of
Speaker 1: this like dumping ground, and to be fair, like I
Speaker 1: have stuff in there, but mostly it's Dale's close because
Speaker 1: we've got a built in wardrobe that's where he puts
Speaker 1: all his clothes. Well, they weren't in there there on
Speaker 1: the ground from the picture I got sent, So I
Speaker 1: took a photo because I'm like, I'm going to clean
Speaker 1: it up. Becausedale has been doing so much work outside.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'll clean up this room because his sister's
Speaker 1: coming over. So I took it before photo, and then
Speaker 1: I took it after. And I was telling Dale about
Speaker 1: it because he was thanking me so much for cleaning,
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, did you see the before photo?
Speaker 1: And he's like, why did you take it before photo?
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I just always take it before
Speaker 1: and after when I clean like things like this, and
Speaker 1: he's like, did you send it to your sisters? And
Speaker 1: I was like, I was like I did, and he's like,
Speaker 1: don't send that stuff. It makes me look like a pig. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I feel like we do tell each other most things.
Speaker 1: There are some boundaries like, I don't know, we're all
Speaker 1: a bit weird. I don't want to hear about your
Speaker 1: sex lives and such. Oh yeah, like some people do.
Speaker 1: Some sisters and friends do talk about that. But and
Speaker 1: it's sort of like, for instance, we will go to
Speaker 1: the toilet in front of each but I'd never shower
Speaker 1: and just have one if you stand there, you know, Yeah,
Speaker 1: we don't have to get in front of each time.
Speaker 1: I don't if i'd care as much anymore, because I
Speaker 1: feel like we just you know, I'm a cubity. That
Speaker 1: was embarrassing. Yeah, but I do know. It's just something
Speaker 1: that's like that's just private. Like there's some things that
Speaker 1: are private. But did go in with you to get
Speaker 1: a spray tan Kate? That was yeah, we're going to
Speaker 1: get one soon again together. Okay, well maybe we will
Speaker 1: see each other nude. Well, if you'd like to come,
Speaker 1: maybe there's a deal for Yeah, you're trying to get
Speaker 1: mone I just need a third person. Thirty five bucks,
Speaker 1: say five dollars, pretty cheap. Yeah, so it's originally it's
Speaker 1: always forty is well, there's there's a different deals available.
Speaker 1: Someone asked favorite episode you have recorded. This one's tricky
Speaker 1: because we've actually recorded over three hundred episodes now. I'm
Speaker 1: trying to think of one that stands out.
Speaker 2: There's definitely iconic ones.
Speaker 1: I remember when we recorded the Chloe Zepp canceled episode
Speaker 1: that one went off. There's one episode that I remember
Speaker 1: that we recorded about Sarah's days Moroccan pillows. And it's
Speaker 1: not so much it's not so much the episode itself.
Speaker 1: It was the arguing that went on before because there
Speaker 1: was some differing opinions about it and Basically I had
Speaker 1: a different opinion to everyone, and we ended up going
Speaker 1: more with my opinion after I had to persuade you
Speaker 1: guys that you guys were not on the money. Thought
Speaker 1: about every time we've done, like say, we've had an
Speaker 1: episode that's really controversial. So there was that one we
Speaker 1: did on Sophie Casia and then she put something up
Speaker 1: on Instagram and it was like totally incorrect what she said,
Speaker 1: and then we did a rebuttal to it. We had
Speaker 1: so many of those where like Kate will come and
Speaker 1: she was like, Okay, I've got some dog points here
Speaker 1: and she went off on this big tangent and it
Speaker 1: was like so like like just sounded so bitchy. Sophie.
Speaker 1: I was like, we cannot put this out to record record,
Speaker 1: so we so I just scrapped it, like we cannot,
Speaker 1: so we rect off your chest. To remember when the
Speaker 1: whole like Kyle sandal it, well, it wasn't actually Kyle
Speaker 1: that made the comment, Bruno, the whole shameless sort of debarcle.
Speaker 1: I remember we recorded this episode that went for ages
Speaker 1: where we really and we had unloaded it and everything,
Speaker 1: and I remember I listened and I was like, this
Speaker 1: cannot go there. Even Mum was like, my probably actually
Speaker 1: do you know what another old like another favorite of
Speaker 1: mine was remember that House of White Women? Olivia Olivia
Speaker 1: and she came out with those terrible those classes that
Speaker 1: were shaped like bodies. It was based on her mother,
Speaker 1: wasn't it. And she's had this big sob story.
Speaker 2: About her mum.
Speaker 1: Anyway, it ended up that they were from like Ali
Speaker 1: Barba that she was selling title of that. It was
Speaker 1: like it was like Olivia White's. So I've got a question,
Speaker 1: do you think you'll ever do this full time? Expand
Speaker 1: the business? So I this is okay. I would love
Speaker 1: to do this full time. It is my aim unless
Speaker 1: keates employers. If my employees are listening, no that's not correct,
Speaker 1: but yeah, no this it is my goal to make
Speaker 1: this a full time job. I'm a bit more of
Speaker 1: the hustler at the moment in terms of trying to
Speaker 1: secure ads. Well you've got the time, I've got yeah,
Speaker 1: well it's work well, so that we would love to
Speaker 1: sort of combine who media without spoken and then all
Speaker 1: be working together because I think like it would obviously
Speaker 1: be amazing to have a full time, full time podcast,
Speaker 1: but we have all these other interests as well. We
Speaker 1: love doing pr and we love videography work, and I
Speaker 1: feel like they all sort of flow into each other.
Speaker 1: And I personally would love to work on a few
Speaker 1: spinoff podcasts that aren't necessarily about influencers. We are journalists
Speaker 1: and I think we would like to. You know, there's
Speaker 1: a lot of different ideas that we've got. At the moment,
Speaker 1: we can only facilitate the two episodes a week, but
Speaker 1: we really would if we did make it full time,
Speaker 1: would like to go above and beyond and create more
Speaker 1: episodes for people. I mean, as you said, like we're
Speaker 1: journalists to our current affair types topics would interest us
Speaker 1: doing a little bit more of that sort of stuff too,
Speaker 1: And even it would be great to have more time
Speaker 1: because then we could film episodes and do more with
Speaker 1: our TikTok and have more fun with that. But as
Speaker 1: you said, it's hard because we all do have full
Speaker 1: time jobs. We did recently get signed with ARN and
Speaker 1: just to explain that, I think people don't really know
Speaker 1: we're still an independent podcast, but we have got them
Speaker 1: on board to help us secure ads. So basically what
Speaker 1: happens is we have their ads team essentially working for us.
Speaker 1: And then they take a cut of the profit, and
Speaker 1: so when you do hear ads on our podcast, essentially
Speaker 1: we're getting a very small amount of money for them
Speaker 1: per one thousand listens. So that's just a little bit
Speaker 1: of background of how that works. But it has to
Speaker 1: be listened to the full thing. So it's like if
Speaker 1: you if you could listen to it, that'd be great,
Speaker 1: but that's essentially how we are able to monetize the podcast.
Speaker 1: This one's quite funny. Have your fiances ever mistaken you
Speaker 1: for one of the other girls? I don't think that's
Speaker 1: actually happened, so I think we've spoken about this before.
Speaker 1: But for people that don't know Sophie's fiance, Brandon, he
Speaker 1: actually used to work with me. He was my intern
Speaker 1: at work, so he met me first, then he met Amy,
Speaker 1: and then he met Sophie. So I think he's always
Speaker 1: been able to tell who's who. I mean. At the time,
Speaker 1: Amy and I both had brown hair and Sophie had
Speaker 1: blonde hair, so it was pretty easy. With Reese again,
Speaker 1: I used to work with him and also with Brandon,
Speaker 1: so it's quite funny. And I don't I think because
Speaker 1: he met me first, I don't think they get as
Speaker 1: mixed up, like I think it's when you met us
Speaker 1: all in one go, but it's a bit confused. I
Speaker 1: think there was one time, wasn't it where Reese thought
Speaker 1: I was you because I had glasses. So we were
Speaker 1: driving home from family dinner and I had glasses on
Speaker 1: and he turned to me and for a second thought,
Speaker 1: I was Amy. Someone else has asked what's your advice
Speaker 1: to people in the early twenties. I was having think
Speaker 1: about this, and one big piece of advice would be,
Speaker 1: I know it sounds silly, but to wear sunscreen every day.
Speaker 1: So I mean, this is going to sound like a
Speaker 1: humble brag, but I went to the dermatologist and we
Speaker 1: often get told that we look a lot younger than
Speaker 1: we are, and I think it is down to actually
Speaker 1: wearing suncream. Like she was like, oh my god, I
Speaker 1: can't believe, like what good quality your skin is. And
Speaker 1: I've always won suncream. I mean it wasn't in my
Speaker 1: early twenties. I think I started when I was twenty five,
Speaker 1: but our mum was quite on it when it came
Speaker 1: to putting sun cream on. My piece of advice would
Speaker 1: be for someone in the early twenties is just to
Speaker 1: have fun because I feel like I just stressed about
Speaker 1: so many things, and now looking back, I wish that
Speaker 1: I just kind of taken a chance with things as well.
Speaker 1: We were talking to our little cousin about how he
Speaker 1: wants to go and work overseas and travel more, and
Speaker 1: I wish I did do more traveling and didn't get
Speaker 1: so caught up in you know, career, and like dickhead
Speaker 1: guys in saying that I wish we bought a house
Speaker 1: because when we first moved out of home, when we
Speaker 1: were like twenty four to twenty five, there was talk
Speaker 1: of buying a house. But then so if your stupid
Speaker 1: boyfriend at the time with.
Speaker 3: The earn eating bayah, I was going to say, my
Speaker 3: advice would be even like if you say you're at UNI,
Speaker 3: or if you've got a job having a side hustle
Speaker 3: and earning a little bit of extra income.
Speaker 1: That then you can save up to buy a house.
Speaker 1: I wish I worked more when I was at UNI, Yes,
Speaker 1: but then again, when I look back, it was such
Speaker 1: fun time, like we always used to go play tennis
Speaker 1: together and sleep in and you're never going to have
Speaker 1: time like that again. So I suppose you've got to
Speaker 1: enjoy it while you can. But even just being like clever,
Speaker 1: like it doesn't have to be something like your side hustle,
Speaker 1: doesn't have to be something that's boring. It could be
Speaker 1: like selling stuff on Facebook marketplace, like clipping stuff. Now
Speaker 1: I'm being serious because you can actually make some serious
Speaker 1: money and then you can invest it. And another tip
Speaker 1: is to be on top of your health, like even now.
Speaker 1: I mean I probably ten years ago got diagnosed I
Speaker 1: had like low iron and was iron de fishent and anemia,
Speaker 1: and I didn't really do anything about it until now
Speaker 1: that I'm thirty three. I'm getting an iron infusion next
Speaker 1: week because my iron is that bad. And I just
Speaker 1: think about, you know, my symptoms are obviously being in
Speaker 1: a bad mood, being irritable, like feeling weak great, and
Speaker 1: I just think I've wasted all this time where I
Speaker 1: could have just felt good if I got on top.
Speaker 1: I've wasted all this typing.
Speaker 2: A bitch.
Speaker 1: On the topic of skin. Another one is don't sleep
Speaker 1: in your makeup. I used to always do that because
Speaker 1: I'm not a makeup because I remember, like I wouldn't
Speaker 1: want to be seen in the morning with my dickhead
Speaker 1: ex boyfriend so I used to like sleep in making,
Speaker 1: but it's really bad for your skin. On the topic
Speaker 1: of dickhead boys, I think like if the guy isn't
Speaker 1: putting effort into set updates with you, to like stop
Speaker 1: stopping everything, you can know someone's interested that movie, he's
Speaker 1: just not that into you. It's so true, Like I'd
Speaker 1: always be like, why these why they suddenly don't care?
Speaker 1: As they don't, Can I.
Speaker 2: Somehow trick them into replying is they're away.
Speaker 1: It's also hard though, because you've got to remember when you,
Speaker 1: like when we were in our early twenties, boys don't
Speaker 1: really want a girlfriend, like they want to like play
Speaker 1: the field. And it's sort of it's like on Sex
Speaker 1: in the City when they say when their light is on,
Speaker 1: like when a guy wants to be in a relationship,
Speaker 1: you're going to know about it because he's going to
Speaker 1: make a lot of effort. My last sort of piece
Speaker 1: of wisdom for people in their twenties is also not
Speaker 1: to think that thirty is the end. I remember for
Speaker 1: so long being so scared of turning thirty, and it
Speaker 1: is really a privilege to age. And also you should
Speaker 1: have so much sage. I have to remind you of
Speaker 1: this all the time. So if you're so dooming gloms,
Speaker 1: like next year we're going to be thirty four, And
Speaker 1: I said, it's actually like you're so lucky to you know,
Speaker 1: potentially be though all thing that, like, there's so many
Speaker 1: older women who have such great advice. I mean, I
Speaker 1: love listening to mom you're out loud because you know,
Speaker 1: the women in their fifties have actually experienced a lot
Speaker 1: of stuff, and they have such a better view and
Speaker 1: there's so much more educated. I think it's the thing
Speaker 1: is when you get into the workplace and you're suddenly
Speaker 1: working with people in their fifties or sixties or forties
Speaker 1: or whatever, you realize that everyone's just the same shit together. Yeah,
Speaker 1: nobody does. I think also, you don't change, you don't
Speaker 1: become a different person just because your age is a
Speaker 1: different number. I think it's also I suppose when you
Speaker 1: get in your thirties, it's kind of a bit more
Speaker 1: scary as a woman because there's that like, you know,
Speaker 1: reminder of oh, I need to have kids if you
Speaker 1: want kids, or that kind of thing. So that bit
Speaker 1: can be scary, but you've got to realize that that's
Speaker 1: the next exciting stage of your life. Yeah, So the
Speaker 1: last question we're going to answer today is how does
Speaker 1: having a fiance who eats meat work for a vegetarian?
Speaker 1: So the three of us are vegetarian loosely a little
Speaker 1: bit pescatarian. I will eat some fish. I think, are
Speaker 1: you eating fish at the moment? So no, I do
Speaker 1: eat fish, but I've kind of been off it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't love but I will have salmon. I'm trying
Speaker 1: to eat a bit more salmon. So it's pretty good
Speaker 1: for me because Reese and I basically cook all our
Speaker 1: meals together, but we work out like a vegetarian version
Speaker 1: and a meat version. So like if we have, say
Speaker 1: a stir fry, Reese will cook his chicken separately and
Speaker 1: he'll add it in. Or I mean, Reese's pretty good.
Speaker 1: Like last night we just had roast veggies and he
Speaker 1: didn't have any meat, but he could have added a steak.
Speaker 1: So I think there's alternatives that you can just work
Speaker 1: with your partner and making meals and if they want
Speaker 1: to add meat in, it's pretty easy. See I'm different.
Speaker 1: Brandon is a country boy. He only eats meat. He
Speaker 1: hates vegetarian stuff. He has all these lists of vegetables.
Speaker 2: That he doesn't eat.
Speaker 1: So we just cook separately, as in we'd have separate dinners,
Speaker 1: but we'll cook together.
Speaker 2: But it is kind of shit because sometimes.
Speaker 1: You know, you want to night off from cooking, or
Speaker 1: it's you know, cheaper to cook together. So it is
Speaker 1: something that's frustrating and something that will potentially change when
Speaker 1: we do have kids, because you can't be running around
Speaker 1: cooking all these different meals. No, what about you, Amy,
Speaker 1: well Dale and I we generally cook separately. Well Dale's
Speaker 1: been pescatarian for most of your relationships. Sheat's chicken now.
Speaker 1: But like, for example, if we're having pastor, we'll probably
Speaker 1: like both cook different passes. I like to have that
Speaker 1: lentil pasta sometimes. But yeah, we just generally cook our
Speaker 1: own meals, but we probably need to get more into
Speaker 1: actually cooking meals to see. I would just find that
Speaker 1: so annoying because at least, as like with recent Eye,
Speaker 1: one will cook one night, one will cook the other night.
Speaker 1: And you can take it in terms because I just
Speaker 1: it's I love cooking, like I love baking and making desserts,
Speaker 1: but I'm not a massive fan of cooking like main meals. Well,
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