WEBVTT - Being Successful Led To My Divorce - Uncut with Mark Bouris 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.400 Life on Cut acknowledges the traditional custodians of country whose 0:00:03.480 --> 0:00:06.160 lands were never seated. We pay our respects to their 0:00:06.200 --> 0:00:07.600 elders past and present. 0:00:07.560 --> 0:00:11.399 Always was, always will be Aboriginal Land. This episode was 0:00:11.440 --> 0:00:24.520 recorded on Drug Wallamuta Land. Hi guys, and welcome back 0:00:24.520 --> 0:00:26.120 to another episode of Life on Cut. 0:00:26.200 --> 0:00:29.800 I'm Laura, I'm Brittany, and it's a what was that? 0:00:32.320 --> 0:00:34.400 Okay, I was just going to start this intro again 0:00:34.400 --> 0:00:36.160 because I just made a mistake. But let's just cause 0:00:36.200 --> 0:00:38.760 betas bade, none of us have really slept because we 0:00:38.800 --> 0:00:41.920 went to a performance last night, a concert of sorts. 0:00:42.280 --> 0:00:48.440 Da da no No. We are running on about four 0:00:48.560 --> 0:00:50.640 or five hours sleep today. And the reason for that is, 0:00:51.200 --> 0:00:53.479 I know, I said on the other week that it 0:00:53.560 --> 0:00:55.600 was going to be my first confide dancing with the stars, 0:00:55.640 --> 0:00:58.040 but then there was some like crazy ass production issues 0:00:58.080 --> 0:00:58.600 that happened. 0:00:59.080 --> 0:01:01.120 So last night was the night. 0:01:01.360 --> 0:01:04.960 Sunday night was the night I gived my little lass off. 0:01:05.000 --> 0:01:07.800 You really did, So it's a I don't know, Laura. 0:01:08.200 --> 0:01:09.840 Can we say where it is? Can we say where 0:01:09.840 --> 0:01:11.679 it's filmed? Can we say what we did last night? 0:01:11.800 --> 0:01:13.760 Or to be honest, I'm actually not even sure how 0:01:13.840 --> 0:01:15.920 much of it I'm allowed to tell you yet because 0:01:15.959 --> 0:01:18.480 obviously so the show Dancing with the Stars is pre 0:01:18.600 --> 0:01:21.640 recorded and we are competing now, and then it comes 0:01:21.640 --> 0:01:23.600 out I don't know a couple weeks, maybe a month weeks, 0:01:23.640 --> 0:01:25.800 who knows, who knows exactly when it comes out. But 0:01:26.720 --> 0:01:30.560 basically the competition has now started and I don't know 0:01:30.600 --> 0:01:32.120 how much I can tell you or can't tell you. 0:01:32.160 --> 0:01:35.120 But Britain Keisha were both there. My mother in law came, 0:01:35.360 --> 0:01:36.880 Matt came, my sister came with. 0:01:37.000 --> 0:01:37.880 It was a whole thing. 0:01:37.959 --> 0:01:41.640 It was a whole thing, and I embarrassingly threw my 0:01:41.680 --> 0:01:43.480 body around a dance floor in front of a lot 0:01:43.520 --> 0:01:44.000 of people. 0:01:44.200 --> 0:01:46.640 No, so it's out at a Sydney Olympic Park, which 0:01:46.680 --> 0:01:48.040 is like Homebush Stadium. 0:01:48.080 --> 0:01:49.640 Will you tell the details? And then I can't go 0:01:49.800 --> 0:01:50.920 in trouble the. 0:01:52.120 --> 0:01:56.920 Sign nothing you keep me on the show. It's out 0:01:56.720 --> 0:01:59.480 at Olympic Park, which is a great facility, but it's 0:01:59.480 --> 0:02:01.360 also an hour drive from us, and it was quite 0:02:01.440 --> 0:02:02.920 late at night, so we all went out there. We 0:02:02.960 --> 0:02:06.840 piled in and TV takes a long time to film 0:02:06.880 --> 0:02:08.560 like it does. There's a lot of setting up and 0:02:08.600 --> 0:02:10.000 a lot of redoing the set. 0:02:10.080 --> 0:02:12.839 There's a lot of time in between performances as well, 0:02:12.840 --> 0:02:14.680 Like everything when you watch on TV is like it's 0:02:14.720 --> 0:02:17.320 really snappy, it's really I mean, obviously they're making a 0:02:17.320 --> 0:02:19.400 TV show, but there's a lot of stopdowns in between 0:02:19.400 --> 0:02:22.360 each dance. And when there's a stop down between each dance, 0:02:22.520 --> 0:02:24.560 there's some poor guy in the crowd, which is like 0:02:25.040 --> 0:02:28.840 everybody gem and then everyone in the crowd has to go. 0:02:29.360 --> 0:02:31.239 Yeah, we woo girled. 0:02:31.280 --> 0:02:35.400 We were woo girls for six hours, six hours, six 0:02:35.440 --> 0:02:36.040 hours of wooing. 0:02:36.280 --> 0:02:37.919 Yeah, Kish and I were worked it out. We left 0:02:37.919 --> 0:02:40.240 the house for seven and a half hours. But to 0:02:40.280 --> 0:02:43.200 watch your one minute, isn't that crazy? 0:02:43.240 --> 0:02:46.280 There's what like seven couples dancing and you get one 0:02:46.280 --> 0:02:48.120 and a half minutes out of each of them, so 0:02:48.280 --> 0:02:51.120 it's pretty much an hour. It was one and a 0:02:51.160 --> 0:02:53.639 half minute throwing bodies around a dance floor. 0:02:53.639 --> 0:02:56.320 Actually, when you do the math like that, that's crazy. Yeah, yeah, 0:02:56.440 --> 0:03:00.840 but it was worth It's that's seven hours no sleep 0:03:00.919 --> 0:03:02.720 was worth watching your one and a half minutes because 0:03:02.760 --> 0:03:06.639 there's nothing there's actually, you know, there's so much prep work, right, 0:03:06.720 --> 0:03:08.320 like we don't see you, we don't see the dances 0:03:08.320 --> 0:03:10.200 for a long time. You're in the audience for literally 0:03:10.240 --> 0:03:12.000 hours as they're going through what the night's going to 0:03:12.040 --> 0:03:14.000 be and prepping and showing you where people gonna come. 0:03:14.160 --> 0:03:16.240 If there's a fire, exit over here, and I'm like, 0:03:16.280 --> 0:03:19.120 we will run, don't worry, were out, It's okay. But 0:03:19.160 --> 0:03:22.520 then when the dancers start coming on, nothing makes you 0:03:22.600 --> 0:03:25.600 happier than like hearing the music, seeing people moving, seeing 0:03:25.600 --> 0:03:28.440 people have fun, and it like reinvigorates you with the energy. 0:03:28.440 --> 0:03:30.240 And then when you came out and did your thing, 0:03:30.400 --> 0:03:32.919 it was like we were just like screaming the whole time. 0:03:33.280 --> 0:03:36.080 You looked amazing. Okay, I know we can't. 0:03:36.080 --> 0:03:38.440 It's so shit because I want to tell you everything now, 0:03:38.680 --> 0:03:40.560 and as soon as I get fired, yeah. 0:03:40.320 --> 0:03:42.080 But I will get into a lot of travel from 0:03:42.160 --> 0:03:42.760 Channel seven. 0:03:42.960 --> 0:03:44.760 But as soon as I can tell you exactly what's 0:03:44.800 --> 0:03:46.400 going on, of course you will all be the first 0:03:46.400 --> 0:03:49.520 to know. But look, there is a real variation in 0:03:49.560 --> 0:03:51.960 skill set. Let's just say that there's some very very 0:03:52.040 --> 0:03:55.480 very good dances and then some very very not good dances. 0:03:55.760 --> 0:03:59.720 And I'm definitely on the not good side. No you are. 0:04:00.320 --> 0:04:02.520 I think you're sitting somewhere happy in the middle at 0:04:02.520 --> 0:04:04.720 the moment, there's room for improvement, but it could be 0:04:04.760 --> 0:04:05.240 way worse. 0:04:05.840 --> 0:04:06.000 Though. 0:04:06.800 --> 0:04:08.720 Yes, there was poor I'm not gonna name anyone, but 0:04:08.720 --> 0:04:12.680 there's one couple that were to stand out for being terrible, 0:04:15.560 --> 0:04:17.600 but everyone loved them. I'm not evenna say if it 0:04:17.680 --> 0:04:19.760 was a man and a woman, everybody loved them. 0:04:19.800 --> 0:04:20.880 It was so endearing. 0:04:21.080 --> 0:04:23.760 There was just an unfortunate mishap in the dance, but 0:04:23.760 --> 0:04:27.240 there's always that. There's always somebody that is really no good. 0:04:27.279 --> 0:04:29.360 That's why they cast, Like when they cast the Bachelor, 0:04:29.400 --> 0:04:30.880 they cast the people that are gonna find love. They 0:04:30.880 --> 0:04:33.120 cast the people that are gonna be ridiculous and cause drama. 0:04:33.200 --> 0:04:35.320 Same with dancing with the stuff. It's definitely one thing 0:04:35.360 --> 0:04:35.880 I realized. 0:04:35.920 --> 0:04:37.919 So you train so hard for so long that you 0:04:38.000 --> 0:04:42.279 feel like if you're terrible, the whole of Australia is 0:04:42.279 --> 0:04:43.719 gonna look at you and be like, oh my god, 0:04:43.720 --> 0:04:44.640 this is so cringe. 0:04:44.680 --> 0:04:48.360 I'm so embarrassed for her or him when you like that. 0:04:48.680 --> 0:04:53.200 But watching everybody, the people who were genuinely terrible are 0:04:53.240 --> 0:04:56.480 probably my favorite dancers to watch because they're so cute, Like. 0:04:56.440 --> 0:04:58.520 It's I don't know, I don't say that a patronizing way. 0:04:58.560 --> 0:05:00.960 I just mean, like I will if you give them 0:05:01.000 --> 0:05:03.000 a bad score, I will protect them with all my 0:05:03.080 --> 0:05:04.240 heart because they're so. 0:05:04.160 --> 0:05:05.039 Happy to be there. 0:05:05.200 --> 0:05:07.920 Well, so you know when you're shit right, like oh yeah, yeah, 0:05:07.920 --> 0:05:10.640 it's really you do hurting me fucking clue, let me 0:05:10.680 --> 0:05:11.039 tell you that. 0:05:11.240 --> 0:05:13.240 But you know when you're bad, so you know what 0:05:13.279 --> 0:05:14.080 the score is going to be. 0:05:14.120 --> 0:05:15.360 And I think that at the end of the day, 0:05:15.400 --> 0:05:18.520 they're just I imagine you're just happy to be there and 0:05:18.520 --> 0:05:21.480 you've had fun. It's not like a legitimate competition that 0:05:21.520 --> 0:05:23.120 you haven't trained your whole life for it and you 0:05:23.160 --> 0:05:25.240 don't make the final like this is you, guys. 0:05:25.720 --> 0:05:27.719 Let me tell you, there's nothing more clear than moving 0:05:27.760 --> 0:05:30.600 your body and realizing that the beat is not when 0:05:30.640 --> 0:05:32.800 you're moving it like halfway through and you're like, this 0:05:32.880 --> 0:05:36.719 is not in time, nothing about this is your fucking time. 0:05:37.000 --> 0:05:39.640 But I think also, you guys probably are all a 0:05:39.640 --> 0:05:42.479 lot harder on yourselves than what the audience sees. So 0:05:42.680 --> 0:05:46.040 in your head, not you, but like dancers, because there 0:05:46.040 --> 0:05:48.919 were a few people that made a couple of little mistakes, 0:05:49.040 --> 0:05:50.880 and then the way that they described it was that 0:05:50.880 --> 0:05:53.039 the mistakes were bigger than we saw. So you guys 0:05:53.160 --> 0:05:55.760 know you're making mistakes because you know the dance. The 0:05:55.839 --> 0:05:59.400 audience doesn't necessarily know that unless you've someone's dropped someone. 0:05:59.760 --> 0:06:01.520 A lot of the time we don't know just how 0:06:01.560 --> 0:06:03.800 big the mistake is. So I think I don't know. 0:06:03.880 --> 0:06:05.680 I think I had fun. I had a great time. 0:06:05.720 --> 0:06:07.479 I can't wait to see more dances. 0:06:07.839 --> 0:06:10.039 Well it's not very long away, okay, so it will 0:06:10.080 --> 0:06:11.680 be on TV in a couple of weeks time. You 0:06:11.680 --> 0:06:13.960 can all laugh at me together, or don't laugh at me, like, 0:06:13.960 --> 0:06:14.840 please get behind me. 0:06:14.880 --> 0:06:17.320 I need the sport. It's really really tomoralizing. 0:06:17.720 --> 0:06:20.440 But I'm doing my absolute fucking best, guys, and I honestly, 0:06:21.120 --> 0:06:23.440 as much as I've loved it, I cannot wait to 0:06:23.600 --> 0:06:26.279 never do a jive kick ever again in my entire life. 0:06:26.400 --> 0:06:28.920 My favorite thing, and I cannot wait for you to 0:06:28.960 --> 0:06:31.600 watch back, is to see your face, your facials. 0:06:31.800 --> 0:06:35.120 Your facials will liver and free in my mind for 0:06:35.160 --> 0:06:39.120 the rest of my life, and I cannot wait. It 0:06:39.240 --> 0:06:43.000 sounds like is this chicken tracks like this happening? Is 0:06:43.040 --> 0:06:46.400 this adrenaline? Why she just sculled five v's at the back? 0:06:46.560 --> 0:06:49.000 I was baked in adrenaline, fear and faked hand, just 0:06:49.040 --> 0:06:53.720 fucking all over that, Dancel. I would make sure we 0:06:53.800 --> 0:06:54.760 get some precious schedule. 0:06:54.800 --> 0:06:57.200 Let's get some freeze frames. When it happens, we can 0:06:57.560 --> 0:06:59.960 just do a series of my face. I know everyone listen, 0:07:00.200 --> 0:07:02.320 this is like, what are you talking about? But look 0:07:02.680 --> 0:07:04.960 it's coming and it's joyful. It's worth the way. Okay, 0:07:05.680 --> 0:07:07.080 there's a few things we want to talk about. On 0:07:07.120 --> 0:07:10.040 today's episode. We are interviewing Mark Borris, who do you 0:07:10.080 --> 0:07:12.880 know what. I loved this interview and for anybody who 0:07:13.120 --> 0:07:15.560 doesn't know who he is, he's literally like a business superstar. 0:07:15.880 --> 0:07:18.400 He's easily one of the most successful businessmen in Australia. 0:07:18.480 --> 0:07:21.480 He was the host of Celebrity Apprentice for a long time. 0:07:21.600 --> 0:07:23.960 You know, love our reality TV shows. 0:07:23.640 --> 0:07:25.880 And The Apprentice, The Apprentice and the Celebrity Prentice. Yeah 0:07:25.880 --> 0:07:26.560 he did both. Yeah. 0:07:26.600 --> 0:07:28.400 He told everyone that they're fired, you're fined. 0:07:28.440 --> 0:07:28.640 Yeah. 0:07:28.640 --> 0:07:30.080 He was the one that had to point and be like, 0:07:30.080 --> 0:07:31.720 you're fired, you're fired now. 0:07:31.840 --> 0:07:33.920 One of the reasons why I loved this chat is 0:07:33.960 --> 0:07:36.680 because you know, we do love our relationships. Here is 0:07:36.720 --> 0:07:41.200 the way he spoke about his business successes, but alongside 0:07:41.280 --> 0:07:44.600 his life challenges. And I say that because Mark himself 0:07:44.600 --> 0:07:48.400 has had three separate divorces, and I think from the outset, 0:07:48.560 --> 0:07:50.640 you can look at his life and think he has 0:07:50.680 --> 0:07:54.200 been so incredibly successful, which he has been, but he 0:07:54.280 --> 0:07:56.840 really talks about this concept of not being able to 0:07:56.880 --> 0:07:59.720 have it all and the priorities and where things sat 0:07:59.720 --> 0:08:03.320 in him life in terms of priorities, and how him 0:08:03.440 --> 0:08:06.800 selling his very first business for literally hundreds of millions 0:08:06.840 --> 0:08:10.280 of dollars half a billion dollars, half a billion dollars 0:08:10.760 --> 0:08:14.480 is what also cost him his long term marriage and relationship. 0:08:14.560 --> 0:08:18.280 And so it is a great conversation around not just success, 0:08:18.320 --> 0:08:22.520 but around divorce and around how priorities sit in life, 0:08:22.560 --> 0:08:25.280 whether that be your focus on work or your focus 0:08:25.320 --> 0:08:26.679 on relationships and connection. 0:08:27.280 --> 0:08:28.360 Yeah, it's nice to hear. 0:08:28.440 --> 0:08:31.040 It's actually quite refreshing to hear someone say the truth. 0:08:31.080 --> 0:08:33.720 I don't want to say that as in other people don't, 0:08:33.920 --> 0:08:35.640 but you constantly hear this, you know, it's like the 0:08:35.679 --> 0:08:37.480 live Luf love thing, all the memes that go around. 0:08:37.559 --> 0:08:39.719 You do hear people say you can have it all. 0:08:39.800 --> 0:08:41.959 You fucking can't you if you work your ass off? 0:08:42.000 --> 0:08:43.320 You know, we all have the same hours in the 0:08:43.400 --> 0:08:46.160 day as Oprah whatever, if all of these things, like, yes, 0:08:46.200 --> 0:08:47.720 it's true, we do all have the same hours, but 0:08:47.720 --> 0:08:50.720 we know that this, you know, is surface level. The 0:08:50.760 --> 0:08:53.080 fact that he was like, you really can't have it all. 0:08:53.200 --> 0:08:55.079 You can have aspects of all of it. You can 0:08:55.160 --> 0:08:57.560 have a relationship and be really successful, but one of 0:08:57.559 --> 0:08:59.320 them is going to take precedence, and one of them 0:08:59.400 --> 0:09:03.000 is going to suffer. For Mark, his drive in life 0:09:03.120 --> 0:09:05.720 and what he lives for is work. 0:09:05.800 --> 0:09:06.520 It is business. 0:09:06.600 --> 0:09:09.360 He sold one business for five hundred million dollars. He 0:09:09.440 --> 0:09:12.360 still works constantly. He's constantly still doing things because it's 0:09:12.360 --> 0:09:15.120 his drive. It's what fills his coupets, what fulfills him. 0:09:15.360 --> 0:09:18.640 And he'll honestly say, I know my relationship suffer. And 0:09:18.720 --> 0:09:22.760 now moving forward in his relationships, he'll say, my partner 0:09:22.960 --> 0:09:26.040 now or whatever, whoever he will be with, has to 0:09:26.440 --> 0:09:28.839 understand that that is going to be a big part 0:09:28.840 --> 0:09:30.760 of his life. And they're going to have that conversation 0:09:30.840 --> 0:09:33.599 early on. And I think that that's probably something a 0:09:33.640 --> 0:09:35.640 lot of people don't want to hear, but it's the 0:09:35.720 --> 0:09:37.960 truth for him and for his life, and he knows 0:09:38.000 --> 0:09:39.560 now to move forward, if he's going to make a 0:09:39.600 --> 0:09:41.800 relationship work. He has to be really honest and say 0:09:41.920 --> 0:09:44.360 this is probably going to, you know, be more important 0:09:44.360 --> 0:09:44.600 than you. 0:09:44.800 --> 0:09:46.880 I think it's interesting as well because we see this 0:09:47.040 --> 0:09:49.319 not just with people who are business people, but something 0:09:49.320 --> 0:09:51.240 that you've experienced for it as well. We see with 0:09:51.240 --> 0:09:54.800 professional sports people when somebody has something in life, whether 0:09:54.840 --> 0:09:57.800 it's their career, whether it is their sporting challenges, whatever 0:09:57.800 --> 0:10:00.439 it is that takes main priority, we can think that 0:10:00.440 --> 0:10:03.319 they're being selfish in their relationships. But something that Mark 0:10:03.360 --> 0:10:06.240 spoke about was it's not about being selfish. It's about 0:10:06.480 --> 0:10:09.880 talking and being honest about what is a priority to you, 0:10:10.200 --> 0:10:12.720 and then people can choose how they want to be 0:10:12.800 --> 0:10:15.080 a part of your life. In response to that, and 0:10:15.120 --> 0:10:16.520 I think one of the things I mean when you 0:10:16.600 --> 0:10:19.679 just said this whole conversation about having it all Michelle Obama, 0:10:19.720 --> 0:10:21.760 I love the quote which she said, which was you 0:10:21.840 --> 0:10:23.520 can have it all, just not at the same time. 0:10:23.800 --> 0:10:25.800 And I think Mark is the perfect example of that. 0:10:26.000 --> 0:10:28.520 So that is all coming up now before we get 0:10:28.559 --> 0:10:31.080 into speaking to Mark. Something we did want to talk about. 0:10:31.360 --> 0:10:35.200 We on Thursday's episode were talking about Carolina Santos. If 0:10:35.240 --> 0:10:37.959 you listen to ask Gunkut, we were talking about how 0:10:38.120 --> 0:10:40.880 she had slid into Michael Disorto, which is the Australian 0:10:40.880 --> 0:10:44.520 fashion label, to get herself some free tickets to Australian 0:10:44.559 --> 0:10:48.640 Fashion Week. Now, there was a DM exchange. That exchange 0:10:48.760 --> 0:10:51.559 was shared across a few news outlets. It was doing 0:10:51.600 --> 0:10:54.199 the reund it was doing the rounds, and she was 0:10:54.240 --> 0:10:57.480 shut down by the fashion label. But the thing that 0:10:57.520 --> 0:11:01.160 we discussed was how it is more problematic when a 0:11:01.200 --> 0:11:04.679 brand or a restaurant or something shares dms from an 0:11:04.679 --> 0:11:07.240 influencer to try and shame them. The reason why we 0:11:07.280 --> 0:11:09.120 wanted to bring this up is because there has been 0:11:09.160 --> 0:11:12.160 more revelations that have come to light, and also some 0:11:12.240 --> 0:11:14.200 of you guys slid into our dms and we always 0:11:14.240 --> 0:11:16.800 want to make sure that we are giving you the 0:11:16.880 --> 0:11:19.240 right information and we're discussing things in the right way, 0:11:19.280 --> 0:11:21.360 and when we do make an error or don't have 0:11:21.400 --> 0:11:21.840 the right. 0:11:21.720 --> 0:11:23.400 Information at hand, we want to address that. 0:11:23.520 --> 0:11:26.040 So we assumed that the brand were the ones to 0:11:26.080 --> 0:11:29.000 release those dms, which was kind of what was implied 0:11:29.040 --> 0:11:30.960 at the time by the articles that had come out 0:11:31.000 --> 0:11:33.240 at the time when we'd done the recordings. But since 0:11:33.280 --> 0:11:35.680 then there has been more information and it wasn't the 0:11:35.760 --> 0:11:38.719 brand who leaked the DMS in the first place. It 0:11:38.800 --> 0:11:42.760 was one of Carolina's friends. So basically, Carolina apparently put 0:11:42.800 --> 0:11:45.760 it on her stories on her close friends Instagram story 0:11:45.840 --> 0:11:46.439 here where you have. 0:11:46.400 --> 0:11:47.960 Like ten of your friends and that's all that the 0:11:48.000 --> 0:11:49.000 only people that see it. 0:11:48.920 --> 0:11:53.080 And one of her fucking friends screenshot it and sent 0:11:53.160 --> 0:11:54.920 it to the news outlets. 0:11:55.120 --> 0:11:58.679 Yeah, like a dog, yeap, good friend. You want to 0:11:58.720 --> 0:12:01.440 keep those friends around. I think people were us included, 0:12:01.480 --> 0:12:03.880 but everyone was making the assumption that it was the brand, 0:12:03.920 --> 0:12:07.120 because who in their right mind would release their own 0:12:08.200 --> 0:12:11.679 humiliating dissing Yeah, so that's why the assumption was made 0:12:11.720 --> 0:12:13.400 that it was obviously the brand, because everyone's like, who 0:12:13.440 --> 0:12:15.840 would possibly do it? But to hear that it was, 0:12:16.280 --> 0:12:18.880 I mean, and this is all assumptions again, Like I 0:12:18.880 --> 0:12:20.560 don't know if the friend has come out and confirmed us, 0:12:20.520 --> 0:12:22.800 so we're going to say that. But now the story 0:12:22.920 --> 0:12:25.520 is that, yeah, it's a friend that leaked the DMS, 0:12:25.520 --> 0:12:27.520 which I think is wild. Who is doing this to 0:12:27.559 --> 0:12:28.480 their friends totally? 0:12:28.559 --> 0:12:30.160 I mean, like it's probably time to have a bit 0:12:30.160 --> 0:12:32.319 of a reassessment of who's in your close friends group. 0:12:32.600 --> 0:12:36.040 It's literally like the very smaller Australian version of the 0:12:36.040 --> 0:12:38.200 Wagatha Christie shit that went down in the UK. 0:12:38.320 --> 0:12:40.360 And I think most people would have heard of the 0:12:40.400 --> 0:12:42.360 wagon Wagath. Why do I have a lot of troules 0:12:42.360 --> 0:12:43.160 saying Wagatha. 0:12:43.240 --> 0:12:45.120 I think most people would have heard of the Wagatha 0:12:45.200 --> 0:12:48.960 Christie situation that went down. But Rebecca Vardy is basically 0:12:49.040 --> 0:12:51.920 these wags And I don't like the term obviously because 0:12:51.960 --> 0:12:53.439 people call me one, but I'm going to call other 0:12:53.480 --> 0:12:55.199 people for the sake of it, because it's obviously a 0:12:55.240 --> 0:12:58.000 play on words. It was this fight between some wags 0:12:58.040 --> 0:12:59.800 and it's they're obviously like, I get the Christie. 0:12:59.800 --> 0:13:02.000 Who you know? Okay? Can you guys get it? I 0:13:01.360 --> 0:13:03.800 don't look. If you don't, you can google it. It's 0:13:03.840 --> 0:13:05.880 fucking fascinating as what it is, but it's the same 0:13:05.880 --> 0:13:06.400 sort of a thing. 0:13:06.880 --> 0:13:09.720 It was like one woman's life like being ruined by 0:13:09.760 --> 0:13:11.680 all these leaks that were happening, and she couldn't figure 0:13:11.720 --> 0:13:13.640 out what it was and ended up being one of 0:13:13.679 --> 0:13:15.520 her close friends that was leaking it. 0:13:15.559 --> 0:13:16.000 And it was this. 0:13:16.040 --> 0:13:19.319 Big like investigation that they did internally on their Instagram 0:13:19.400 --> 0:13:21.400 to figure out who the friend was. It went to court, 0:13:21.480 --> 0:13:24.160 they got sued, like huge, huge drama in the UK. 0:13:24.280 --> 0:13:27.440 I mean, here's another like thought, just don't use close 0:13:27.480 --> 0:13:28.439 friends on Instagram. 0:13:28.520 --> 0:13:30.560 I do not use that. I do not trust close friends. 0:13:30.600 --> 0:13:32.160 I mean I trust my close friends, but I don't 0:13:32.200 --> 0:13:34.280 trust the people I put in close friends on Instagram. 0:13:34.320 --> 0:13:36.559 One close friend on mine, and it was an accident. 0:13:36.640 --> 0:13:38.760 I accidentally starred them one day. I don't even know 0:13:38.840 --> 0:13:40.680 how to do it. And it's just my sister Sherry, 0:13:40.760 --> 0:13:42.920 So like I feel like if anything got leaked on. 0:13:42.840 --> 0:13:45.640 My page, I know what it is. Well, look, coming 0:13:45.679 --> 0:13:47.440 back to this for one quick second. 0:13:47.720 --> 0:13:50.839 We spoke about it obviously on Thursday's episode, and in 0:13:50.880 --> 0:13:53.760 this instance, like Michael Disorto, they did not release the 0:13:53.800 --> 0:13:57.000 private dms. But we have seen it happen in the past. 0:13:57.040 --> 0:13:59.200 We have seen restaurants do it to influencers. We have 0:13:59.280 --> 0:14:02.520 seen it happened on many occasions. I do think that 0:14:02.559 --> 0:14:05.640 there is still a conversation there around why it is 0:14:05.840 --> 0:14:09.160 kind of fun. I guess to humiliate influences when they 0:14:09.160 --> 0:14:11.520 have asked for something or they have kind of slid 0:14:11.559 --> 0:14:14.880 into a brand or company's DMS. But ultimately I wanted 0:14:14.880 --> 0:14:16.800 to say to the few people who did message and 0:14:16.960 --> 0:14:20.120 sent us the update on that information. Thank you, and also, 0:14:20.200 --> 0:14:22.160 I hope Carolina had a fucking great time of fashion 0:14:22.200 --> 0:14:23.640 Week because it looks like she's still well. She did 0:14:23.680 --> 0:14:26.360 make it looks like one of those dms actually worked, 0:14:26.400 --> 0:14:29.280 if not to the microshow. Anyway, there is one more 0:14:29.320 --> 0:14:30.920 thing I wanted to talk about before we get into 0:14:31.000 --> 0:14:34.640 interviewing Mark. There was a research study that came out 0:14:34.720 --> 0:14:37.000 recently in the States. Now, look, it is a United 0:14:37.040 --> 0:14:41.640 States based research study. Maybe the answers are not applicable 0:14:41.640 --> 0:14:43.840 to Australia, but I would go so far as to 0:14:43.880 --> 0:14:47.440 say that maybe there's some correlation that could apply here. 0:14:47.520 --> 0:14:49.880 Probably a pretty good sample, a pretty good sample, and 0:14:49.920 --> 0:14:53.440 a pretty good example. So six thousand people were surveyed 0:14:53.480 --> 0:14:55.400 on a website called bonusfinder dot com. 0:14:55.560 --> 0:14:59.240 Sounds super fucking legit, bonus find out at Oxford dot com. 0:15:00.280 --> 0:15:02.400 A dot com survey. Six thousand people is not a 0:15:02.400 --> 0:15:06.360 small sample size. The survey was about bachelor and bachelorette 0:15:06.360 --> 0:15:11.040 parties and cheating. And this is a pretty fucking alarming statistic. 0:15:11.640 --> 0:15:15.080 More than seventy percent of Americans cheat at bachelor or 0:15:15.120 --> 0:15:18.600 bachelorette parties. So the survey found that of six thousand people, 0:15:18.680 --> 0:15:22.360 including the soon to be betrothed and their guests, more 0:15:22.440 --> 0:15:26.040 than seventy percent admitted that they have cheated on their 0:15:26.080 --> 0:15:28.800 partners at bachelor or bachelorette parties. 0:15:29.160 --> 0:15:31.200 That is a huge statistic. 0:15:31.400 --> 0:15:33.840 I think it's probably important though, to keep in mind 0:15:33.880 --> 0:15:35.880 when we talk about this, like, cheating is a pretty 0:15:35.920 --> 0:15:39.200 massive range of a spectrum, right. Everybody has very different 0:15:39.240 --> 0:15:41.960 ideas as to what constitutes cheating, and I think in 0:15:42.040 --> 0:15:44.920 order for the survey to kind of be correct or 0:15:44.960 --> 0:15:47.200 to have some sort of validity to it, this was 0:15:47.240 --> 0:15:50.120 the range. So it was ranging from anything from flirting, 0:15:50.440 --> 0:15:53.520 downloading a dating app during the parties to sexting or 0:15:53.560 --> 0:15:56.320 sleeping with someone, whether it's an escort, someone at the party, 0:15:56.400 --> 0:15:57.880 or somebody from the night. 0:15:58.160 --> 0:16:00.360 But the thing is what the study clarifies is really important. 0:16:00.360 --> 0:16:02.760 The cheating is a spectrum, right, So for some people 0:16:03.000 --> 0:16:06.000 what constitution cheating does not constitutionting for somebody else. So 0:16:06.600 --> 0:16:09.240 some people are okay with flirting, some people are okay 0:16:09.400 --> 0:16:12.760 with messages, some people are okay with a lap dance. 0:16:12.920 --> 0:16:15.440 So these statistics have to take that into account. And 0:16:15.560 --> 0:16:16.480 they did break these. 0:16:16.400 --> 0:16:19.720 Statistics down even further now Thirty three point one percent 0:16:19.760 --> 0:16:21.800 said they had a lap dance, Twenty one point three 0:16:21.880 --> 0:16:26.800 percent said kissing. Eleven point two percent admitted to sleeping 0:16:26.840 --> 0:16:29.560 with someone eleven point two that's still pretty fucking hard, 0:16:29.680 --> 0:16:32.840 getting freaky yeah. Nine percent said they got hot and 0:16:33.000 --> 0:16:35.360 heavy in the sheets as a threesome. 0:16:35.840 --> 0:16:38.760 Also a huge nine percent is huge? Why is everyone 0:16:38.840 --> 0:16:39.840 having three sims? 0:16:40.880 --> 0:16:41.000 Am? 0:16:41.040 --> 0:16:42.600 I the only person in this room who hasn't had 0:16:42.600 --> 0:16:44.440 a three ReSm? I haven't. But have you had a threesome? 0:16:44.720 --> 0:16:46.000 Oh my god? We all have vanilla? 0:16:46.120 --> 0:16:50.440 None of us? Oh my god, how Keisha you've got okay? 0:16:50.600 --> 0:16:52.640 I know last week we were hiring because Keisha's now 0:16:52.680 --> 0:16:54.400 got a boyfriend. We're also hiring if you've had a 0:16:54.400 --> 0:16:56.360 threesome out there. We need someone in this group. 0:16:56.160 --> 0:16:58.560 Who's a bit more fucking like risque. 0:16:58.800 --> 0:17:01.480 Tell me what you like the kink here, the fucking better. 0:17:01.560 --> 0:17:02.400 We've got an opening. 0:17:02.560 --> 0:17:05.119 So this is interesting because I think for me, I 0:17:05.119 --> 0:17:06.879 wouldn't want my partner to be going and having a 0:17:06.920 --> 0:17:09.520