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Speaker 1: It's a woman Woody podcast Mini. So when you're in

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Speaker 1: blather on for half an hour. There's been allegedly some

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Speaker 1: nudes leaked of Western Bulldogs AFL football heart throb Bailey Smith.

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Speaker 1: Here he is in action playing foot. He probably final.

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Speaker 2: Young man could run on and kick a goal. Only Smith.

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Speaker 2: He's crops that kicking on the thruse.

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Speaker 1: It sounds on through. So he played in the AFL

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Speaker 1: Grand Final on Saturday night, in the losing team. And

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Speaker 1: I think it was during the Grand Final all of

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Speaker 1: a sudden just beforehand. Well, you were, scoops McMahon over there.

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Speaker 1: You were on it, no doubt he was.

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Speaker 2: It was flying about pretty early. When I say it,

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Speaker 2: he's doodle.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well it was out there, wasn't it.

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Speaker 1: Well, so, yeah, there was a there was a photo

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Speaker 1: that was going around with him lying down in the

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Speaker 2: I think a huge looked like a bit of a limo.

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Speaker 2: I couldn't really inspected that photo quite a bit. I

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Speaker 2: thought it was a but anyway, carry on, really, well,

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Speaker 2: it's hard to know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well he's in some sort of capsule, whether it's

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Speaker 1: a limo or the back of a ute and it

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Speaker 1: was him lying and who knows, well done, thank you,

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Speaker 1: him lying back completely naked, and this just went absolutely

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Speaker 1: bunter online. But today, or it might have been yesterday.

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Speaker 2: He's pretty by the way, they don't know what he

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Speaker 2: looks like, baalim like, he's pretty gorgeous.

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Speaker 1: Look him up. He's got about two hundred and ninety

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Speaker 1: five thousand followers on Instagram, and even if you're not

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Speaker 2: Is football, pretty much point to the.

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Speaker 1: Unfortunately, I've frequented his instagram a few times now because

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Speaker 1: my girlfriend finds him.

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Speaker 2: He's very He's very pretty attractive. You'd smear him on

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Speaker 1: Blood, you'd shmear him on anything. He has one of

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Speaker 1: the most gorgeous bodies.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, he looks like his super.

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Speaker 1: Taste like a Greek god killes himself. Yeah, I mean

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Speaker 1: I could go on for days. Yeah, absolutely everything about

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Speaker 1: him anyway. Yeah, I think it was yesterday. Footballer as well.

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Speaker 1: He's playing good football only twenty years off. He posted

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Speaker 1: another photo yesterday. It's the same photo except as him

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Speaker 1: with shorts on, which would suggest that someone has photoshopped

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Speaker 1: it to be a nude, So it's not actually a nude,

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Speaker 1: just why you deny it.

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Speaker 2: By the way, it looked good, I'd be happy with

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Speaker 1: Bloody oath would be anyway. Despite the fact that it

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Speaker 1: probably wasn't a leaked nude. It just got me thinking

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Speaker 1: about something that you and I are going to be

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Speaker 1: doing shortly. We can't say why, but we're going to

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Speaker 1: going to be We're going to be doing a long

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Speaker 1: distance thing with both of our partners. And I mean

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Speaker 1: or do like a nude video thing? And the reason

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Speaker 1: I'm relating to this story is because clearly nudes get

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Speaker 1: leaked all the time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think anyone's going to leak my news.

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Speaker 2: By the way, none knows they want to crack screen. No, no, no,

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Speaker 2: that's not something that I trusually don't send nerds. You

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Speaker 2: know that I haven't ever sent a nerd.

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Speaker 1: You are very different to me in that respect. Absolutely,

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Speaker 1: you show maturity beyond your years.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: When I got a picture phone. Hell, but so how

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Speaker 1: will you maintain intimacy though.

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Speaker 2: Like we we actually go the other way, We actually

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but we could be away for quite again,

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Speaker 1: I can't say why we're going to be away, but

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Speaker 2: You never know how long a trek to the Arctic text.

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Speaker 1: Woods, that's true, that's good cover.

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Speaker 2: We could be away for months.

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Speaker 1: No, we might beam.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like we're going to war. It's not that bad.

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Speaker 2: It's a good thing we're doing. No, No, yeah, we don't.

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Speaker 2: then we just send things searching for action from one another,

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Speaker 2: The back and forth texting just it just becomes exhausting.

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Speaker 2: Anyone that's been a long distant relationship, you know that

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Speaker 2: you're sending it with no strings attached, Like I don't

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Speaker 2: expect anything back. This is just for you.

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Speaker 1: You want to send it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, as soon as you start going like, oh, how

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Speaker 1: Interesting thirty one oh six fives and number. I'd actually

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Speaker 1: love to speak to people who have experienced long distance.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure a whole bunch of people through COVID and

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Speaker 1: you're maintaining the intimacy with your partner over that period.

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Speaker 1: It's something that me and mem are talking about. We're

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Speaker 1: on the precipice of are we going to do the

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Speaker 1: sending the nerds thing?

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Speaker 2: Come on as a bare poop in the woods. I mean, Jesus,

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Speaker 2: we're not sure we're on the phone's going to look

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Speaker 2: like it's like as calendar.

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Speaker 1: I'm actually not sure because I would be concerned about

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Speaker 2: The people so years honestly, Like, you're so ubiquitous on

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Speaker 2: the internet, and I think you need to worry about

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Speaker 2: it being leaked anymore. I'm pretty sure i'd be able

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Speaker 1: They were there are no full nerds though.

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Speaker 2: Oh I don't know about that either.

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Speaker 1: Thirteen one oh six five. Give us a call right now.

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Speaker 1: If you've done long distance, if you're doing long distance,

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Speaker 1: how do you maintain the intimacy, give us a call

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Speaker 1: up next. We'll keep talking about it.

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Speaker 2: But we got here. Woods woven in a couple of topics.

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Speaker 2: Here Bailey Smith's chopped from the AFL the Golden Shop,

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Speaker 2: as I was referring to over the weekend, not his,

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Speaker 2: not his.

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Speaker 1: He's it's not his because he's posted another photo which

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Speaker 1: been photoshopped. But it got me thinking about the long distance.

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Speaker 1: I'm about to engage in with my partner. We're going

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Speaker 1: to be long distance for.

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Speaker 2: A while and another man's penis sorry.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, naturally she's worried that. I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: we're going to want to maintain some sort of intimacies

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Speaker 1: the word and we started saying, are we going to

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Speaker 1: send each other nude photos? Nude videos? And you just

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Speaker 1: it feels like every day there's a new person who's

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Speaker 1: had their nudes leaked online. You can't you just can't

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Speaker 2: Will No, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I think they're getting it from the cloud, from what

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Speaker 2: Just sharing it with their friends.

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Speaker 1: If there's photos of me nude in a cloud.

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Speaker 2: I don't think you understand the cloud, not at all.

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Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is they can somehow get access

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Speaker 1: to my nerds photos, So I don't know where.

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Speaker 2: That's not a reason not to send nerds?

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Speaker 1: Oh is it not a reason to send No? Why

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Speaker 1: why would you not send neudes? For example, we're going

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Speaker 1: to be you're going to be separated, yeah, from your

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Speaker 2: I don't send nerds because I don't have a high

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Speaker 2: enough opinion of myself to send nerds. Yes, sorry about that.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure you could work an angle or something.

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Speaker 2: Like, oh, you're not going to be living together for

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Speaker 1: Set up, we'll get one of those the ring lines

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Speaker 1: that the influencers have. I light up the right areas,

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Speaker 1: I can wax you down a little bit, appreciate. I

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Speaker 2: But I also don't send nerds because I look, I

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Speaker 2: don't know. I feel like it's that there's a really

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Speaker 2: I send nerds. Get around it.

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Speaker 1: Because so me and my partner we're at eight months.

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Speaker 2: But you've but you've been through that. Yeah, but you've

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Speaker 1: To each other. No, No, we haven't. We never have

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Speaker 1: because we've never been separate. We've been during COVID. It'd

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Speaker 1: be weird if I was sending our nerdes from the

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Speaker 1: living from saying, I guess what's in the living road. No,

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Speaker 1: we to see each other in person. Yeah, so we

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Speaker 2: Kind of my point a little bit. I think that,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, it's kind of nice to know that

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Speaker 2: it's something that you can share one on one without

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Speaker 2: having on your phone just a photo of the person.

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Speaker 2: It almost like demystifies it.

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Speaker 1: A bit by having the photo.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's almost like when you see your partner naked,

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Speaker 2: when you know you're going to see the naked, which

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Speaker 2: and I are only going to be away for a

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Speaker 2: couple of months, I don't know. I would suggest that,

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Speaker 2: as I said, distance makes the heart grow stronger and

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Speaker 2: potentially other things harder as well. But the point is,

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Speaker 2: you don't get to see them, then you like, the

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Speaker 2: longer you wait, the better it is at the end.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so for two months you won't do any form

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Speaker 1: of like I know, for example, sexty is a thing

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Speaker 1: I think I've got a bo Burnham wrote a song

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Speaker 1: about sexting which I've got right here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well organized, thank you.

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Speaker 1: The next two months, so I know, and I know

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Speaker 1: that you're saying it's only two months. I don't want

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Speaker 1: to sound like an animal here, but I think intimacy

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Speaker 2: Might give that a crack, this bit of sexting.

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Speaker 1: Now we're living together, and the only thing I haven't

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Speaker 1: headphones on woody situation? Oh my god, Natalie, Hi guys, hih,

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Speaker 1: so good Natalie, thank you for calling Natalie. Your your

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Speaker 1: husband's in the military, so you're always doing long distance? Yes? Sorry, no, no, no.

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Speaker 1: How do you maintain the intimacy?

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Speaker 3: Well, look, in our situations that it's a bit difficult.

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Speaker 3: I guess because there are stints where I may not

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Speaker 3: hear from him for two weeks at a time, and

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Speaker 3: or the phone call I get is a five minute one.

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Speaker 3: I guess in this situation, when it comes to intimacy,

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Speaker 3: I guess it's just a being conscious that you're both

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Speaker 3: living your own life, even if it's separately, and you

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Speaker 3: have to respect that. And I guess when you do

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Speaker 3: have those moments, it's just about checking in with each other,

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Speaker 3: feeling how each other are vibing, like even if it's

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Speaker 3: not the best day, like just being there for each other.

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Speaker 3: So it may not be the sexiest of intimacy, but

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Speaker 3: I guess checking in with each other as making sure

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Speaker 3: they know you're there for them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I think it's a really good point

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Speaker 2: in that, And I know that's I mean, I think

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Speaker 2: I've only probably had about a month apart with my

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Speaker 2: current girlfriend my first move to Melbourne, but I know

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Speaker 2: the I almost felt like sacrific I don't know, if

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Speaker 2: you're capable of this, woody you have tot horn dog

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Speaker 2: feel like putting the like that that level of intimacy

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Speaker 2: to one side is almost like a really cool thing

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Speaker 2: to do. I don't know, it's just like you almost

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Speaker 2: don't like, you know the way that desire works, Like

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Speaker 2: the more that you feed desire, the more that you want.

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Speaker 2: And you're really cool, like you know, like the restraint

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Speaker 2: is the freedom, and you almost get like a great

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Speaker 2: sense of satisfaction out of the fact that you can

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Speaker 2: have a relationship with someone without it needing to be

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Speaker 2: overly intimate.

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Speaker 1: So when it's going to live like a couple of

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Speaker 1: months for a couple of months.

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Speaker 2: Well you don't have to do that either, But the

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Speaker 2: point is you don't have to desire that part of

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Speaker 2: each other. I don't know, I I that's just as

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Speaker 2: I was saying to you before. I think the more

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Speaker 2: that you communicate, the more that you contact, the more

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Speaker 2: that you try and get out of a long distance relationship,

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Speaker 2: the worse it often goes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, it's just too much.

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Speaker 2: It's like we actually can't physically be together. So I

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Speaker 2: love what Nat said. You almost have topet that you

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Speaker 2: always have to respect the fact that the other that

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Speaker 2: you're both doing your own thing for a little while,

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Speaker 2: and just enjoy that. Like loving them is to be

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Speaker 2: detached from them. Yeah, that makes any sense. Quick question

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Speaker 2: and be honest with me if we're back at headphones, No, no, no, no,

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Speaker 2: it's quick question, just really quick question.

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Speaker 1: Then we'll go to the traffic, just like, will you

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Speaker 1: spoon me? Absolutely not? God, hear more of the boys

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Speaker 1: on the Full Show podcast. You know you want to