1 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:07,080 Speaker 1: It's the Happy Families podcast. It's the podcast for the 2 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:10,119 Speaker 1: time poor parent who just wants answers. 3 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 2: Now, kids need to have a radar, they need to 4 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:19,000 Speaker 2: understand what's going on online and that not everybody is 5 00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:21,080 Speaker 2: who they say they are when they're online. 6 00:00:21,200 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 1: And now here's the scars of our show, My Mum 7 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:24,960 Speaker 1: and Dad. 8 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:27,320 Speaker 3: A quick content warning for today's podcast. 9 00:00:27,720 --> 00:00:31,640 Speaker 4: While not explicit, the material that we're sharing today may 10 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 4: not be suitable for younger listeners. Parental discretion is advised. 11 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 4: We're having a conversation today with Detective Superintendent Jane Crossling. 12 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:45,120 Speaker 4: Jane is from the Australian Center to Counter Child Exploitation 13 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:49,200 Speaker 4: also known as ACE, essentially Australian Federal Police looking after 14 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:52,920 Speaker 4: our kids online. Jane, really an absolute delight to be 15 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 4: able to speak with you on the Happy Families podcast today. 16 00:00:54,840 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 3: Thank you for joining me. 17 00:00:56,120 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 5: Thank you Justin. 18 00:00:57,160 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 4: Can you tell us a bit about what ACE does, 19 00:00:59,160 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 4: the A triples EACE, What do you guys do with 20 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:02,640 Speaker 4: the AFP. 21 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:06,199 Speaker 2: So, it's a center, it's based in Brisbane and it 22 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 2: is led by the Australian Federal Police and it is 23 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 2: essentially the front door for reporting of crimes associated with 24 00:01:14,440 --> 00:01:17,840 Speaker 2: children being exploited online. So we take all of the 25 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:21,480 Speaker 2: reports that have an Australian nexus from all the social 26 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:26,240 Speaker 2: media services, and really importantly we take reports where someone 27 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:29,399 Speaker 2: under the age of eighteen has been exploited online where 28 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 2: either the offender or the victim is Australian. 29 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 4: Okay, I want to just differentiate between what you do 30 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 4: and what the E Safety Commissioner does, because they look 31 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 4: after a whole lot of bullying stuff online. They look 32 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 4: after all sorts of sordid and challenging things that are 33 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 4: occurring online. How is ACE with the AFP different to 34 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:50,560 Speaker 4: the Australian Government's E Safety Commissioner. 35 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 2: So we very much work closely with the a Safety 36 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 2: Commissioner and we have an excellent partnership. 37 00:01:57,400 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 5: The E Safety Commissioner. 38 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:03,960 Speaker 2: Is responsible definitely for cyberbullying in the child context, image 39 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:07,240 Speaker 2: based abuse where it relates to an adult, and they 40 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 2: are also responsible as the regulator for content that any 41 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:15,160 Speaker 2: Australians have access to. They have tremendous powers to be 42 00:02:15,200 --> 00:02:19,240 Speaker 2: able to remove content if it is harmful, of horrent 43 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 2: or essentially illegal. We in the Australia, for the police 44 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:28,600 Speaker 2: and certainly the ACE, are responsible for investigating crimes associated 45 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:31,240 Speaker 2: with children being abused online. 46 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 4: Okay, so I have an example that I want to share. 47 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 4: It is quite sensitive, and, as I shared at the 48 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:39,640 Speaker 4: start of the podcast, listener discretion is advised, but if 49 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 4: you've got tweens or teens, it's probably worth hearing this 50 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 4: story and being aware that this stuff happens. So a 51 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 4: mum contacted me maybe four or five weeks ago. She 52 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:49,239 Speaker 4: said that her teenage son came into the bedroom crying. 53 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 4: He was really distressed. She managed to help him to 54 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 4: be calm, said what's going on? He said, Mom, I 55 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:58,519 Speaker 4: just I need to borrow five hundred dollars And she said, sweetheart, 56 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 4: what do you need five hundred dollars? You've never asked 57 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 4: for money before. What's going on? He said, I can't 58 00:03:03,560 --> 00:03:06,240 Speaker 4: tell you. I just need the five hundred dollars. She said, kiddo, 59 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 4: I love you and I will give you the five 60 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 4: hundred bucks if it's appropriate, but I need to know 61 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 4: why you need five hundred dollars and why. 62 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 3: You're so distressed about it. What trouble are you in. 63 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:18,079 Speaker 4: Eventually he calmed down enough to tell her that he'd 64 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 4: met this really, really gorgeous girl online. She was from overseas. 65 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 4: She'd been snapchatting with him. She was a friend of 66 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:26,560 Speaker 4: a friend of a friend. They'd gotten a little bit 67 00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 4: intimate in their snapchat messaging. Then after a couple of 68 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:33,360 Speaker 4: weeks of this, she had sent him an image. 69 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:36,200 Speaker 3: Of herself completely naked, send a nude image. 70 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 4: Via Snapchat, which he was obviously enticed and aroused by, 71 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 4: And then she sent another one and said, now it's 72 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 4: your turn. You need to send me one. He did that, 73 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 4: and then she disclosed to him that she wasn't actually 74 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 4: who she said she was, and she was I don't 75 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 4: know some middle aged men overseas and unless he could 76 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 4: send a couple hundred dollars in bitcoin immediately, that image 77 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 4: that he had sent, the nude image of himself to 78 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 4: her was going to be shared with every everybody in 79 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:04,120 Speaker 4: his online directory, on his Facebook, on his Snapchat, on 80 00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 4: his TikTok, but the whole lot was going to go 81 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 4: out to everyone parents' grandparents of the lot. He actually 82 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 4: made a transfer of a couple of hundred dollars in bitcoin. 83 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 4: Then she said, or he said, or the offender said, 84 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 4: actually that's not quite enough. 85 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:17,040 Speaker 3: Now I need five hundred. 86 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 4: And at that point he realized he was out of money, 87 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:20,919 Speaker 4: he didn't have any options, and he went to his 88 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:23,560 Speaker 4: mum and said, I really need help. This is I 89 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 4: guess the kind of work that you're dealing with regularly. 90 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 4: This is that exploitation online that you're describing. 91 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:34,440 Speaker 2: Yes, you have provided what is precisely the scenario that 92 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 2: we are seeing play out across Australia. 93 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:40,279 Speaker 3: Jane, how much happened? Like? How much is this happening? 94 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 4: Because we're hearing about online fraud and online hacking and 95 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:44,159 Speaker 4: online scams more. 96 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 3: Than we've ever heard before. 97 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:51,480 Speaker 4: How much is this child tweeneen online sexual exploitation happening? 98 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 2: Okay, So these groups that are behind it definitely predominantly offshore. 99 00:04:57,600 --> 00:05:00,480 Speaker 2: So these are the same groups that have been scamming 100 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 2: us through a variety of different types of scams for decades, 101 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 2: and they have evolved so now they are seeing young 102 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 2: people as targets, particularly westernized countries. So Australia in that regard. 103 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:15,480 Speaker 5: Is not immune. 104 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:20,360 Speaker 2: So the reports that we are getting, we're averaging about 105 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:25,080 Speaker 2: one hundred children and all their families coming forward to 106 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 2: various Australian authorities each month in Australia right now, and 107 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 2: that is trending upwards. The way that you describe that 108 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 2: scenario is precisely how it does tend to play out 109 00:05:37,600 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 2: so a young person, and it's predominantly boys at the moment. 110 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:46,800 Speaker 2: Our data shows it's ninety two percent of boys are 111 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 2: actually being victimized with this particular type of scam, and 112 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 2: it plays out differently between girls and boys. But what 113 00:05:55,520 --> 00:06:00,160 Speaker 2: generally happens is that they're friended on a party, get 114 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 2: a platform, and then moved very rapidly to a different 115 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:09,960 Speaker 2: platform where they can chat in more relative privacy, so 116 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:12,240 Speaker 2: it might be some sort of encrypto chat platform. 117 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:15,720 Speaker 5: The conversations frequently turn. 118 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 2: Very sexualized, and there is, as you describe, that sharing 119 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:24,480 Speaker 2: of sexualized image read by the offender who is often 120 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:28,640 Speaker 2: purporting to be a very attractive female in the boys scenario, 121 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:33,120 Speaker 2: and then the request comes out for the boy to 122 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 2: produce self produced imagery of himself and then share it, 123 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:42,560 Speaker 2: and then that extortion or sextortion that we've referred to, 124 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:44,159 Speaker 2: then that takes place. 125 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:47,159 Speaker 5: They frequently ask for a very very high amount of 126 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 5: money that is inconceivable for a young person, and they 127 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 5: at times enter into negotiations, and just like in. 128 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 2: Your scenario, sometimes payment does not make the problem go away. 129 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:03,599 Speaker 2: Sometimes that just is the start of it. They will 130 00:07:03,640 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 2: continue to demand payment over a period of time. So 131 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 2: this is really worrying us. We believe that it's severely underreported. 132 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 2: So I said that we're getting about one hundred reports 133 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 2: a month. We believe that it is far more prevalent 134 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 2: than we're aware of. We are hoping that we do 135 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 2: two key things right now, two things driving and reporting. 136 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:32,320 Speaker 2: So reporting really needs to come into the ace predominantly. 137 00:07:32,360 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 5: We need to have those reports, and then also prevention. 138 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 2: We need to find ways to reach into the hearts 139 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:44,400 Speaker 2: and minds of young people so that they know the signs, 140 00:07:44,960 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 2: they know how to detect when the scam might be 141 00:07:48,520 --> 00:07:50,520 Speaker 2: playing out right in front of their eyes. 142 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 4: Don't know if you can answer this one or not, Jane, 143 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 4: but are there any specific platforms that parents should be 144 00:07:56,360 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 4: particularly mindful of where this kind of exploitation occurs more 145 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 4: than perhaps other platforms? Is there any is there anywhere 146 00:08:03,280 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 4: that's safer? Is there anywhere that's less safe? 147 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 3: Statistically, we get this. 148 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:12,240 Speaker 2: Question a lot justin and we do try to not 149 00:08:12,360 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 2: demonize particular platforms, particularly if they can be used in 150 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 2: a relatively safe manner. So Essentially, the platforms are the 151 00:08:24,240 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 2: types of platforms that young people typically congregate on. They're 152 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 2: the ones these scammers. They are essentially about making money. 153 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:34,880 Speaker 2: This is a whole new type of offending that we 154 00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:37,840 Speaker 2: haven't necessarily had to deal with in the past. When 155 00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:41,480 Speaker 2: we've dealt with offenders, it's because they have a sexual 156 00:08:41,520 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 2: interest in children. This is not the case with this 157 00:08:44,840 --> 00:08:49,079 Speaker 2: particular cohort. This is organized crime based offshore who are 158 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 2: seeing these children as a money making opportunity and they're 159 00:08:53,040 --> 00:08:58,200 Speaker 2: being completely exploded financially and do not care about the 160 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 2: impact on young people and the effects across the community. 161 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:06,080 Speaker 2: So the platform will be something that is attractive to 162 00:09:06,120 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 2: young people generally, but it doesn't. 163 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 5: Really matter what that platform is. 164 00:09:10,720 --> 00:09:14,880 Speaker 2: They're moved off that platform so rapidly onto encrypt chat. 165 00:09:18,520 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 4: Jane, I want to highlight something that I think is 166 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:25,320 Speaker 4: critical here, and that is how few parents are really 167 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:27,840 Speaker 4: engaging with what their children are doing online. 168 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:30,079 Speaker 3: So, as you're aware, I travel around the country. 169 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:32,120 Speaker 4: I give lots and lots of talks all over the 170 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 4: place in schools, in corporates and all sorts of organizations, 171 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:38,640 Speaker 4: and whenever the topic moves to the digital space, we 172 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 4: see a massive decline in parents showing up for these 173 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:44,960 Speaker 4: parent evenings or showing up for the toolbox talks at 174 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 4: lunch time. It's almost like there's this passive disinterest. It's 175 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:50,599 Speaker 4: kind of like, oh, look, the kids are going to 176 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:52,960 Speaker 4: be on the screens and they'll be fine. Why is 177 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:55,240 Speaker 4: it do you think that parents are less likely to 178 00:09:55,240 --> 00:09:58,280 Speaker 4: be engaged and what can we do to help parents 179 00:09:58,280 --> 00:10:01,079 Speaker 4: to be more in on this suff because clearly it's 180 00:10:01,080 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 4: affecting their children in significant and concerning ways. 181 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:08,560 Speaker 2: Yes, until it actually happens to a child or someone 182 00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 2: close to a family group, yeah, I don't think they 183 00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:15,280 Speaker 2: fully appreciate the impact of when things go wrong online. 184 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:17,559 Speaker 2: So this is a problem that the strength of the 185 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:19,839 Speaker 2: police has grappled with for a while now. We do 186 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:23,240 Speaker 2: have an online safety program, could think you know, and 187 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:27,320 Speaker 2: that is an opportunity to have people come and speak 188 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:31,680 Speaker 2: to parents, teachers and carers, and yeah, we get mixed 189 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:34,840 Speaker 2: face to face attendance at these sorts of events. We've 190 00:10:35,000 --> 00:10:38,520 Speaker 2: grappled with that challenge of how to engage the potentially 191 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:42,800 Speaker 2: disengaged parents, and we've also done some market research to 192 00:10:42,840 --> 00:10:46,360 Speaker 2: show and it confirms exactly what you're seeing anecdotally it 193 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:51,600 Speaker 2: confirms that only about half of parents know what their 194 00:10:51,679 --> 00:10:54,160 Speaker 2: children are doing online and would know how to have 195 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 2: a conversation about what their child is doing. The really 196 00:10:57,800 --> 00:11:01,840 Speaker 2: critical message that if we only have one key message, 197 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:06,000 Speaker 2: is that parents need to talk to their children. Parents 198 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:07,720 Speaker 2: need to understand. 199 00:11:07,520 --> 00:11:11,480 Speaker 5: How much of a part online. 200 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:14,679 Speaker 2: Behavior is of a young person's life, and they need 201 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:17,520 Speaker 2: to talk to their children about what they're doing and 202 00:11:17,720 --> 00:11:24,240 Speaker 2: help them understand to recognize that there is sometimes suspicious behavior. 203 00:11:23,880 --> 00:11:24,880 Speaker 5: Going on online. 204 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:27,200 Speaker 4: Okay, So there are two questions that come out of 205 00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:29,880 Speaker 4: this conversation that we're having here. The first one is 206 00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 4: how do we prevent a scenario like I shared and 207 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 4: like you've described from occurring in the first place. The 208 00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:40,680 Speaker 4: second question is what do we do if it happens? 209 00:11:40,920 --> 00:11:42,760 Speaker 4: So can we just go to question one? This is 210 00:11:42,800 --> 00:11:44,560 Speaker 4: the thing, you know, kind of content, This is the 211 00:11:44,600 --> 00:11:47,920 Speaker 4: idea where we're saying parents just be involved. But what's 212 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:50,320 Speaker 4: the central message that you would give to parents to 213 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 4: help their kids to make safe, healthy decisions online. 214 00:11:53,280 --> 00:11:57,000 Speaker 5: So I would absolutely say from a prevention standpoint, kids 215 00:11:57,120 --> 00:11:59,560 Speaker 5: need to have a radar. 216 00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:03,040 Speaker 2: They need to understand what's going on online and that 217 00:12:03,200 --> 00:12:06,840 Speaker 2: not everybody is who they say they are when they're online, 218 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 2: and I believe that these sorts of messages are caught 219 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 2: throughout all the stages of the young person's development. But 220 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 2: I think the key thing that a parent or a 221 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:18,359 Speaker 2: care can do in the home environment is to reinforce 222 00:12:18,400 --> 00:12:19,120 Speaker 2: those messages. 223 00:12:19,880 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 5: So kids need to have. 224 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:25,440 Speaker 2: An appreciation that they needed a little bit of sense 225 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:28,199 Speaker 2: checking when someone wants to friend them, and then they 226 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:33,240 Speaker 2: need to also understand when a conversation might turn very 227 00:12:33,360 --> 00:12:37,199 Speaker 2: very sexual, very rapidly, what's behind that, what's going on there? 228 00:12:37,760 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 5: And is there an opportunity to. 229 00:12:42,800 --> 00:12:46,800 Speaker 2: Educate the kids to have better judgment when it comes 230 00:12:46,840 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 2: to having these conversations in a highly sexualized way with 231 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:53,400 Speaker 2: someone that they genuinely don't know. 232 00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:56,720 Speaker 3: Follow up question number one, how do you help kids 233 00:12:56,720 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 3: to recognize that friends of friends of friends aren't really friends? 234 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's a challenge. 235 00:13:02,800 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 2: I think they need to be just a little bit 236 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:12,160 Speaker 2: more circumspect in their decision making online and I agree 237 00:13:12,160 --> 00:13:14,560 Speaker 2: it is an absolute challenge, and it means that we 238 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:17,160 Speaker 2: have to keep being consistent with our messaging. 239 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:19,880 Speaker 5: Having law enforcement come into the school environment, and we 240 00:13:19,920 --> 00:13:21,640 Speaker 5: certainly do that. 241 00:13:21,679 --> 00:13:24,600 Speaker 2: The program that the AFP runs trains all the state 242 00:13:24,640 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 2: and teratorary police, and then they go into the school 243 00:13:26,920 --> 00:13:30,240 Speaker 2: environment to deliver directly to the young people in an 244 00:13:30,320 --> 00:13:35,000 Speaker 2: age appropriate and segmented way. But it's going to have 245 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:37,640 Speaker 2: to be a consistent effort and everyone's going to have 246 00:13:37,679 --> 00:13:41,920 Speaker 2: to be united in their messaging so that young people 247 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 2: learn that discretion and learn to make some really safe 248 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:49,200 Speaker 2: choices when they're operating online. 249 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:53,920 Speaker 4: Okay, follow up question number two. How quickly do these 250 00:13:54,120 --> 00:13:57,760 Speaker 4: sex storders, these groomers, how quickly do they step into 251 00:13:58,040 --> 00:14:00,680 Speaker 4: sexualized conversation and start to make demand. I mean, in 252 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:02,800 Speaker 4: the example that was shared by the mom that spoke 253 00:14:02,840 --> 00:14:05,240 Speaker 4: with me, this occurred over a couple of weeks. Is 254 00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 4: that standard? Does it happen faster? Is that particularly quick? 255 00:14:08,559 --> 00:14:11,600 Speaker 4: What's the typical time frame that you're seeing this kind 256 00:14:11,640 --> 00:14:12,319 Speaker 4: of thing happen. 257 00:14:13,240 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 2: We are seeing a slight variation, but it can be 258 00:14:17,200 --> 00:14:21,200 Speaker 2: very very rapid. We're seeing it, particularly for some of 259 00:14:21,240 --> 00:14:24,760 Speaker 2: the younger victims. We're seeing that it's been very rapid 260 00:14:25,200 --> 00:14:30,320 Speaker 2: in terms of turning towards being sexual. So you know, 261 00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:35,760 Speaker 2: the friending happens very rapidly, then very very rapidly being 262 00:14:36,120 --> 00:14:37,720 Speaker 2: moved to a different platform. 263 00:14:37,840 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 5: That's an indicator. 264 00:14:39,880 --> 00:14:42,560 Speaker 2: So this is something that we could highlight to young 265 00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:46,800 Speaker 2: people to say, you know, there should be some suspicion 266 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:51,240 Speaker 2: there where you've been friended rapidly and then very rapidly 267 00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:56,200 Speaker 2: moved off that platform to another platform. And there are 268 00:14:56,200 --> 00:14:58,600 Speaker 2: other clues that a young person may not be all 269 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:01,080 Speaker 2: that sophisticated in picking up. But these are the sorts 270 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:03,240 Speaker 2: of clues that we've had to determine over the years 271 00:15:03,760 --> 00:15:06,880 Speaker 2: so that we as adults are able to avoid scams. 272 00:15:06,960 --> 00:15:11,560 Speaker 2: And that could be signs that there are inconsistencies, and 273 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:14,760 Speaker 2: there are may be signs that they don't have English 274 00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:15,840 Speaker 2: as a first language. 275 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:18,080 Speaker 5: That's another sign. 276 00:15:18,720 --> 00:15:23,800 Speaker 2: And they may make excuses to say, oh no, I 277 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:26,440 Speaker 2: actually can't turn on my webcam or my microphone's not 278 00:15:26,520 --> 00:15:29,920 Speaker 2: working so that they can stick to chat. Because the 279 00:15:30,120 --> 00:15:33,600 Speaker 2: organized crime syndicate behind all of this have only instructed 280 00:15:33,800 --> 00:15:38,400 Speaker 2: all of their workers who are just operating, probably out 281 00:15:38,400 --> 00:15:42,000 Speaker 2: of some sort of call center overseas, and they're told 282 00:15:42,120 --> 00:15:45,200 Speaker 2: that the crime is facility had better if they just 283 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:47,680 Speaker 2: stick to the chat rather than dealing with microphones and 284 00:15:47,720 --> 00:15:52,120 Speaker 2: obviously exposing themselves via a video to not being an 285 00:15:52,160 --> 00:15:53,280 Speaker 2: attractive female. 286 00:15:53,880 --> 00:15:57,560 Speaker 5: But these are all nuanced and sophisticated. So I think 287 00:15:57,720 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 5: it all is necessary that parent. 288 00:16:00,880 --> 00:16:04,840 Speaker 2: Help have that conversation based on their understanding of their 289 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:10,040 Speaker 2: own child and their understanding of you know, scams more 290 00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 2: broadly as well, and I think that can help alleviate 291 00:16:14,560 --> 00:16:16,360 Speaker 2: and work towards our prevention goal. 292 00:16:16,880 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 3: Okay, so that's prevention. What about when it's happened? 293 00:16:20,840 --> 00:16:23,040 Speaker 4: What about when you have to be the ambulance at 294 00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:24,760 Speaker 4: the bottom of the cliff rather than the fence at 295 00:16:24,760 --> 00:16:25,080 Speaker 4: the top. 296 00:16:25,400 --> 00:16:29,160 Speaker 3: This mum, she's had her son make a fairly substantial 297 00:16:29,960 --> 00:16:30,720 Speaker 3: error of judgment. 298 00:16:31,400 --> 00:16:35,120 Speaker 4: Now he's distressed, his sexual imagery is going to be 299 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:37,800 Speaker 4: potentially in fact, in this case, it was sent to 300 00:16:38,600 --> 00:16:41,560 Speaker 4: grandparents and unties and uncles. It was sent to everybody 301 00:16:41,640 --> 00:16:46,480 Speaker 4: in his friend's list, which caused considerable distress. How how 302 00:16:46,480 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 4: do parents deal with that scenario? What happens when it's 303 00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:50,480 Speaker 4: too late? 304 00:16:51,040 --> 00:16:55,040 Speaker 5: Firstly, reporting very important, So we're. 305 00:16:54,960 --> 00:16:56,560 Speaker 4: Going to link to We're going to link to the 306 00:16:56,600 --> 00:16:59,800 Speaker 4: ACE website for reporting, But could you just share with 307 00:16:59,840 --> 00:17:00,440 Speaker 4: a now as well? 308 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:03,040 Speaker 3: What's the website and how do people make this report? 309 00:17:03,400 --> 00:17:06,920 Speaker 2: So there's a web form on the ACE website which 310 00:17:06,960 --> 00:17:11,399 Speaker 2: is a triple C dot CoV dot au and we 311 00:17:11,440 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 2: can absolutely provide a link that will take the listening 312 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 2: community straight to that particular form, plus other resources more 313 00:17:19,800 --> 00:17:23,280 Speaker 2: broadly as well. So just to answer your question, we 314 00:17:23,280 --> 00:17:25,960 Speaker 2: can come autt this from two angles. One is the 315 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:29,560 Speaker 2: messages for the parents themselves and then also ways in 316 00:17:29,600 --> 00:17:34,639 Speaker 2: which we can support the victim as well. So for 317 00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:39,000 Speaker 2: parents and carers, we obviously want them to talk to 318 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:43,720 Speaker 2: their children already, we really advocate for a very open 319 00:17:43,800 --> 00:17:49,160 Speaker 2: relationship when it comes to online behavior, and we believe 320 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:52,720 Speaker 2: that if you can find an opportunity to set the 321 00:17:52,760 --> 00:17:56,199 Speaker 2: groundwork there as a young person moves to the different 322 00:17:56,240 --> 00:18:01,000 Speaker 2: phases of their online behavior, that should something wrong, they're 323 00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:04,200 Speaker 2: more likely to take a problem to the parent. So 324 00:18:04,440 --> 00:18:09,840 Speaker 2: some parents express reluctance, and you know, they're claiming that 325 00:18:09,840 --> 00:18:12,160 Speaker 2: they're too ignorant to understand what's going on. 326 00:18:12,400 --> 00:18:15,880 Speaker 5: We say to parents, push past all of that. Don't 327 00:18:15,880 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 5: be hung up. 328 00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:19,080 Speaker 2: On the platform or the technology or anything like that. 329 00:18:19,359 --> 00:18:21,239 Speaker 2: Get to the heart of what the problem is and 330 00:18:21,280 --> 00:18:24,440 Speaker 2: get to the heart of you know, what's gone wrong online. 331 00:18:25,160 --> 00:18:32,000 Speaker 2: So we know that teenage particularly males, are coming forward 332 00:18:32,080 --> 00:18:35,280 Speaker 2: to parents in the event that they do, and even 333 00:18:35,359 --> 00:18:39,320 Speaker 2: if that is after the a sextortion threat has actually 334 00:18:39,320 --> 00:18:44,800 Speaker 2: played out. We really hope that parents can be understanding 335 00:18:44,880 --> 00:18:50,159 Speaker 2: in that very first disclosure, that they understand the problem 336 00:18:50,240 --> 00:18:53,680 Speaker 2: for what it is and understand that the child here 337 00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:59,440 Speaker 2: in this scenario is a victim and that they need support. 338 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:02,879 Speaker 4: So don't add to their suffering. Don't rip into them 339 00:19:02,880 --> 00:19:04,919 Speaker 4: and say what were you thinking? Because now's not the 340 00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:07,120 Speaker 4: time talk to them about that stuff later. 341 00:19:08,200 --> 00:19:12,440 Speaker 2: That's exactly right. So I think for many parents it 342 00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:15,480 Speaker 2: will be very hard to not have that immediate impulse 343 00:19:15,640 --> 00:19:18,080 Speaker 2: to sort of say, im a goodness, what have you done? 344 00:19:18,480 --> 00:19:24,000 Speaker 2: And it's very challenging as a parent to hear that. 345 00:19:24,560 --> 00:19:27,359 Speaker 2: But you'd have to stay very very calm, I think, 346 00:19:27,920 --> 00:19:33,400 Speaker 2: and we absolutely understand that it can be very distressing 347 00:19:33,480 --> 00:19:35,280 Speaker 2: not only for the job, but for the parent community 348 00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:37,680 Speaker 2: as well to know that this has happened to your child. 349 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:41,000 Speaker 2: And I think parents have to acknowledge too that this 350 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:45,080 Speaker 2: could actually have long term impacts. So regardless of whether 351 00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:48,320 Speaker 2: or not there was payment, regardless of whether or not 352 00:19:48,359 --> 00:19:49,200 Speaker 2: the images. 353 00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:50,920 Speaker 5: Were ultimately shared, this. 354 00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:53,280 Speaker 2: Could still have long term impacts on a young person. 355 00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:58,640 Speaker 2: So that's where we moved to the victim support. We 356 00:19:58,760 --> 00:20:01,680 Speaker 2: absolutely appreciate from a young person's perspective why they would 357 00:20:01,680 --> 00:20:04,280 Speaker 2: want to hide this behavior and think that they have 358 00:20:05,119 --> 00:20:07,680 Speaker 2: enough in their toolkit to fix the problem themselves. 359 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:10,000 Speaker 5: But as we know, that's absolutely not true. 360 00:20:10,520 --> 00:20:14,800 Speaker 2: So we're trying to encourage young people to step forward 361 00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:17,399 Speaker 2: and tell a parent. It's so important that if a 362 00:20:17,400 --> 00:20:20,080 Speaker 2: young person does do that, that the parent then actually 363 00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:21,200 Speaker 2: listens and takes action. 364 00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:24,199 Speaker 5: So part of it is listening and part of it 365 00:20:24,240 --> 00:20:25,880 Speaker 5: is actually following up and taking action. 366 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:31,000 Speaker 2: What's usually happened as well, as you know, the behavior 367 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:33,840 Speaker 2: that we've already described is that the offender will tell 368 00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:37,240 Speaker 2: the young person that what they've done is actually a crime, 369 00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:41,359 Speaker 2: and that serves as a further way to manipulate the 370 00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:44,560 Speaker 2: young person to not report, to not tell parents or 371 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:45,440 Speaker 2: law enforcement. 372 00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:46,720 Speaker 5: So we really want to. 373 00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:51,440 Speaker 2: Emphasize the fact that do not buy into that they 374 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:54,040 Speaker 2: have to report it and the young person will not 375 00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:57,919 Speaker 2: be treated as a criminal, because of course that's a 376 00:20:57,960 --> 00:21:00,680 Speaker 2: barrier for a young person coming forward if they thought 377 00:21:00,680 --> 00:21:02,280 Speaker 2: that they would be treated as a criminal. 378 00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:05,840 Speaker 5: So the offenders will use a range of tactics. 379 00:21:05,880 --> 00:21:09,640 Speaker 2: They'll use fear, they'll use shame, they'll manipulate a young 380 00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:14,639 Speaker 2: person they'll make them feel alienated or trapped. So the 381 00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:16,760 Speaker 2: only way to break that cycle is by getting a 382 00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:19,000 Speaker 2: parent or an adult some sort involved. 383 00:21:19,400 --> 00:21:21,600 Speaker 5: Until law enforcement can get. 384 00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:24,359 Speaker 2: Involved, we don't know whether or not we have to 385 00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:27,800 Speaker 2: intervene in other legal ways as well, so that's why 386 00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:28,480 Speaker 2: it's critical. 387 00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:31,920 Speaker 5: Additionally, as soon as law enforcement can know. 388 00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:33,800 Speaker 2: The size and shape of the problem, we can actually 389 00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:36,879 Speaker 2: take action from an investigative standpoint, and this is what 390 00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:37,399 Speaker 2: we're doing. 391 00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:39,000 Speaker 5: We're finding ways. 392 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:41,359 Speaker 2: To disrupt this behavior at a very high level, and 393 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:45,600 Speaker 2: that's all playing out right now, but only because reporting's 394 00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:48,919 Speaker 2: being driven into us, so that's the criticality of it. 395 00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:53,400 Speaker 5: But in order for us to actually wrap the support 396 00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:54,680 Speaker 5: around the victim. 397 00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:58,320 Speaker 2: And get them access to the support services that they need, 398 00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:01,360 Speaker 2: and we can't do that without the victim actually revealing 399 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:05,120 Speaker 2: this initially to family and then ideally to law enforcement. 400 00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:12,119 Speaker 2: So from a parent perspective, avoiding blame is so incredibly important, 401 00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:18,240 Speaker 2: and then working out what more help does that child need. 402 00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:22,560 Speaker 2: Do they actually need to engage with professional support services 403 00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:23,000 Speaker 2: as well? 404 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:26,440 Speaker 4: My guess is that they shouldn't pay any money. What's 405 00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:28,680 Speaker 4: your advice around this from what we're. 406 00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:32,600 Speaker 2: Seeing with this particular crime, we would recommend not paying. 407 00:22:33,320 --> 00:22:36,679 Speaker 2: We think that's really important because in the scenario you described, 408 00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:41,320 Speaker 2: even though payment had been made, they demanded more. We believe, 409 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:44,480 Speaker 2: and this is consistent with other types of scams as well, 410 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:48,480 Speaker 2: that don't send any more money, certainly, don't send any 411 00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:51,320 Speaker 2: more images or video, even if they continue to threaten, 412 00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:55,800 Speaker 2: and even if they eventually share it. So essentially that's 413 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:58,119 Speaker 2: the worst thing that could have happened, and it did happen, 414 00:22:58,280 --> 00:22:59,280 Speaker 2: and then you. 415 00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:00,880 Speaker 5: Deal with that particular problem. 416 00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:04,199 Speaker 2: But there's no guarantee that if you pay that that 417 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:06,840 Speaker 2: wouldn't have happened as you saw in that scenario. 418 00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:08,600 Speaker 5: So even if. 419 00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:13,320 Speaker 2: We are complying with demands, there's no impetus or that 420 00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:15,320 Speaker 2: particular organized crime group to stop. 421 00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:17,640 Speaker 5: So we would say do not pay. 422 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:20,439 Speaker 4: When I hear you say that, Jane, it's fascinating to 423 00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:23,120 Speaker 4: me because it aligns with a story that I heard 424 00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:25,399 Speaker 4: just a couple of years ago from a mum of 425 00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:28,679 Speaker 4: a young lady who was approached online. She was sex staughted, 426 00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:31,679 Speaker 4: she was threatened once she had shared the image if 427 00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 4: she didn't pay, that those images were going to be shared. 428 00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:36,840 Speaker 4: She went to her mum and said, here's what's happened. 429 00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:39,359 Speaker 4: I've sent a topless image of myself to somebody who's 430 00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:42,040 Speaker 4: not who they said that they were. She was in tears, devastated, 431 00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:43,720 Speaker 4: thought it was the end of her life. She also 432 00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:48,920 Speaker 4: came from an Islamic family from overseas, very very strict family, 433 00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:52,239 Speaker 4: and she was terrified that the shame that she had 434 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:55,119 Speaker 4: brought on to her family was going to literally cause 435 00:23:55,920 --> 00:24:01,119 Speaker 4: horrendous problems, massive overstated enormous problems. Her mum gave her 436 00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:04,639 Speaker 4: a big huggen said, we will let everybody know and 437 00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:07,280 Speaker 4: we will tell them that it wasn't you, that somebody 438 00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:09,960 Speaker 4: has done some fancy photoshopping and it's not actually you, 439 00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:13,560 Speaker 4: but we have been targeted. So this mum essentially said, 440 00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:15,560 Speaker 4: we're gonna lie to the whole family, say that you 441 00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:16,280 Speaker 4: were targeted. 442 00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:17,880 Speaker 3: You didn't do it, but they're pretended that. 443 00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:20,960 Speaker 4: You have, and that will pacify all of the family 444 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:22,560 Speaker 4: members who are going to be up in arms. But 445 00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:24,960 Speaker 4: I thought, what a wise way to respond if the 446 00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:26,920 Speaker 4: photo gets out there, If the image is out there, 447 00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:28,280 Speaker 4: just say guess. 448 00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:29,440 Speaker 3: What it was photoshopped? 449 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:32,600 Speaker 4: Or so we have a teenager who did something dumb, 450 00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:35,840 Speaker 4: and we're going to love our teenager in spite of 451 00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:38,639 Speaker 4: the dumb thing, It's been a really profound lesson for everybody. 452 00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:40,080 Speaker 4: And I'm so sorry that you had to see that 453 00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:42,200 Speaker 4: image and just let it go, don't make a big 454 00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:42,639 Speaker 4: deal about it. 455 00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:43,640 Speaker 3: I thought it was great advice. 456 00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:47,440 Speaker 2: I do think that as well, because basically, the worst 457 00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:49,640 Speaker 2: thing that you thought was going to happen has happened. 458 00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:52,240 Speaker 5: Then you stepped through with your parents' support. 459 00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:54,480 Speaker 2: I just think that's that's the only way to deal 460 00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:58,960 Speaker 2: with it properly and minimize it's not eliminate, but minimize 461 00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:00,120 Speaker 2: the harm. 462 00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:03,360 Speaker 4: I'm listening to everything that you're saying, Jane, and I'm 463 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:06,719 Speaker 4: thinking to myself, who does this? Like what kind of 464 00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:09,840 Speaker 4: what kind of a person actually gets online and does 465 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:13,720 Speaker 4: this and tries to cause this level of pain and 466 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:16,720 Speaker 4: challenge in a young person's life. It's just it's staggering. 467 00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:20,200 Speaker 4: Such an important conversation. So for people who want more information, 468 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:22,760 Speaker 4: more resources around the things that we've discussed today, because 469 00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:26,679 Speaker 4: we've really only scratched the surface, whereabouts would you send them? 470 00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:28,320 Speaker 4: We'll obviously link to it in the show notes, but 471 00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:29,800 Speaker 4: where would you have them go? 472 00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:35,359 Speaker 2: We have a response kit that describes the problem and 473 00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:39,879 Speaker 2: describes how to address it, So we'll absolutely provide you 474 00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:43,359 Speaker 2: the link to that. That's a really handy document also 475 00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:48,160 Speaker 2: available online. And you know, there's an opportunity there for 476 00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:50,640 Speaker 2: parents to educate them more broadly as well about other 477 00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:53,080 Speaker 2: things that we're seeing. So right now, for us, this 478 00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:56,120 Speaker 2: is one of the most critical issues that we're facing. 479 00:25:57,480 --> 00:26:00,679 Speaker 2: We don't have a full picture, but this could actually 480 00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:04,439 Speaker 2: be linked to youth suicide. That's how seriously we are 481 00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:08,200 Speaker 2: taking this particular problem right now, and we may never 482 00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:11,440 Speaker 2: know whether or not this has actually had that type 483 00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:13,400 Speaker 2: of impact on a young person. So this is why 484 00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:15,879 Speaker 2: right now, this is where so much of our effort 485 00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:18,440 Speaker 2: is being placed. But that's not to say there aren't 486 00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:22,280 Speaker 2: other really serious crimes playing out impacting on young people 487 00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:26,919 Speaker 2: all the time. So for parents, there's going to be 488 00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:29,720 Speaker 2: those resources there, there's the ability to report, there's the 489 00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:33,520 Speaker 2: ability to also protect and prevent as well through this 490 00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:34,360 Speaker 2: response kit. 491 00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:40,160 Speaker 4: Okay, Detective Superintendent Jane crossling such an important conversation. Jane 492 00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:43,800 Speaker 4: is from the Australian Center to Counter Child Exploitation h 493 00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:46,439 Speaker 4: l CE known as ACE, with THISTRAI and Federal Police. 494 00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:50,679 Speaker 4: Fascinating conversation, devastating conversation. Really grateful for the work that 495 00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:52,520 Speaker 4: you do and for the things that you shared with 496 00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:56,360 Speaker 4: the state to help parents to navigate an increasingly complex 497 00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:57,040 Speaker 4: parenting world. 498 00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:59,960 Speaker 3: Thank you so much. Detective Superintendent Jane Crossling. 499 00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:00,920 Speaker 5: Thank you, Justin. 500 00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:04,920 Speaker 4: Detective Superintendent Jane Crossling from the Australian Center to Counter 501 00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:08,400 Speaker 4: Child Exploitation with the Australian Federal Police has been our guests. 502 00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:10,280 Speaker 3: All of the resources, all of the places you. 503 00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:13,000 Speaker 4: Can go to get support are available in the podcast 504 00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:15,320 Speaker 4: show notes today. Thank you so much for listening. 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