WEBVTT - The Pregnancy Announcement We Didn't See Coming

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, and welcome to Outspoken. It's your dose of the

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<v Speaker 1>hottest influencer and pop culture news twice a week. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>Sophie Torba and coming up on today's show, Abby Chatfield's

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<v Speaker 1>musician boyfriend runs into her ex Olivia Rodgers, reveals how

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<v Speaker 1>she met her new man, Shani grimmand is forced to

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<v Speaker 1>flee Bali, the Olympics, Anti sex Beds, and The Rise

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<v Speaker 1>of the Man Perm. But first, Pajama entrepreneur Sophie Kasha

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<v Speaker 1>has announced she's expecting her third child. And this definitely

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't on my twenty twenty four bingo card. I know

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<v Speaker 1>last year we did influencer predictions for twenty twenty four

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<v Speaker 1>and I would have never put this down. I had

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<v Speaker 1>to look back and quite a few of those predictions

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<v Speaker 1>have come true. We will revisit it at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the year. But getting into this announcement, Sophie uploaded

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<v Speaker 1>a carousel of images and in the photos, Sophie and

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<v Speaker 1>her two kids, Bobby and Florence, are all lying in

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<v Speaker 1>bed wearing matching leopard print pajamas from Sophie's brand of Course,

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<v Speaker 1>with Sophie's pregnant belly on display, and in one image,

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<v Speaker 1>we see a close up of her stomach with Kaisha

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<v Speaker 1>branding boldly below it. I couldn't believe the product placement here.

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<v Speaker 1>They say the devil works hard, but apparently Sophie Keisha

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<v Speaker 1>works harder now. In a couple of the photos, the

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<v Speaker 1>family is also enjoying a pizza together, which was really random,

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<v Speaker 1>and Sophie captioned the post mine now. This post led

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<v Speaker 1>to a lot of confusion because some followers weren't sure

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<v Speaker 1>if it was a pregnancy announcement and thought maybe she

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<v Speaker 1>was referencing that she had a food baby because of

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<v Speaker 1>the pizza. I couldn't help but notice that the kids

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<v Speaker 1>looked really miserable in the photos. It looked like they

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<v Speaker 1>really didn't want to be there, and I'm wondering whether

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<v Speaker 1>that's why the pizza was there, because she wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>bribe them to be in it. Well, that poor kid Bobby.

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<v Speaker 1>Last week, he was vomiting his guts up, so he's

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<v Speaker 1>probably still feeling sick. I hope these photos were taken

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<v Speaker 1>before that incident. Her bedroom helped a lot cleaner. I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't send any vomit marks on the floor. Doesn't this

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<v Speaker 1>add more to the story because poor Sophie Kesia. She

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<v Speaker 1>might be suffering from morning sickness and she's having to

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<v Speaker 1>or with everybody else's sick now. The Blue Tick Brigade

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<v Speaker 1>was our enforce with Steph Claire Smith as she Binds

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<v Speaker 1>and Abby Gilmour all congratulating her, and I was really

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<v Speaker 1>fascinated to see what sort of engagement this post was

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<v Speaker 1>going to get because Sophie's engagement rate has dramatically dropped

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<v Speaker 1>off over the past few years. So following her breakup

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<v Speaker 1>with ex fiance Maddi Garrick, she vowed to no longer

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<v Speaker 1>share private details about her life, which led to a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of her followers tapping out and losing interest. And

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<v Speaker 1>every time I seem to check in with her, it

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<v Speaker 1>feels like her Instagram is one big ad, either for

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<v Speaker 1>her pajama line Kasha or for hallow Fresh sponsorship deals.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't seem like you're getting the authentic her or

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<v Speaker 1>any insight into her family life or her relationships, which

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<v Speaker 1>is what we want to hear. I ended up taking

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<v Speaker 1>a look at social Blade, which is a platform that

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<v Speaker 1>shows you influencers analytics, and Sophie averages around one thousand

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<v Speaker 1>likes per post, which is fairly low for an influencer

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<v Speaker 1>with over two hundred and fifty six thousand and followers,

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<v Speaker 1>and her engagement rate is sitting at zero point six percent. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>that is really low, because if you look at someone

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<v Speaker 1>like Georgia Richards, she's around sixty seven thousand followers on Instagram,

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<v Speaker 1>yet her engagement is through the roof. It's around thirteen percent.

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<v Speaker 1>But she has a very engaged community, and Sophie used

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<v Speaker 1>to have an engaged community, but she's lost a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of those loyal followers. She has lost five hundred and

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<v Speaker 1>ten followers in the past thirty days. I mean, her

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<v Speaker 1>pregnancy posts did fare quite well in comparison to her

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<v Speaker 1>regular post, which is always the case with big life events.

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<v Speaker 1>She got over twenty two thousand likes and eight hundred

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<v Speaker 1>and thirty five comments. I'm sure she also got a

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<v Speaker 1>fuck ton of send ons because I think the announcement

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<v Speaker 1>blew everyone's minds. No one was expecting. Well, you said

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<v Speaker 1>it fed fairly well. It got twenty two times more

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<v Speaker 1>likes than she normally gets. Yeah, I get that, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying other influencer announcements like this probably get hundreds

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<v Speaker 1>of thousands of likes and she actually lost twenty six

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<v Speaker 1>followers that day. And usually when an influencer makes a

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<v Speaker 1>pregnancy announcement or an engagement announcement, they get more people

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<v Speaker 1>wanting to follow along with that life event because maybe

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<v Speaker 1>they're in the same life moment. I saw this TikTok

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<v Speaker 1>today that this guy put up, and he said that

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<v Speaker 1>anytime someone announces they're pregnant, or they're engaged, or they're

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<v Speaker 1>going to Europe with the love of their life, it's

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<v Speaker 1>an instant unfollowed. So maybe that's what's happened now. The

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<v Speaker 1>day before Sophie made this pregnancy announcement, she surprised her

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<v Speaker 1>followers by sharing that she's starting up a YouTube channel,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's all making a lot more sense. And so

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<v Speaker 1>far she has only eighty seven subscribers and she has

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<v Speaker 1>shared a two minute video. Wow. I'm not trying to

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<v Speaker 1>bash Sophie because I know it can be tough getting

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<v Speaker 1>YouTube subscribers, but you think if you've got two hundred

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<v Speaker 1>and forty six thousand people on Instagram, you might get

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<v Speaker 1>around ten thousand of those coming over to subscribe to

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<v Speaker 1>your YouTube channel. The video that she put up isn't

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<v Speaker 1>the great advert for wanting to subscribe because I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if it's a shorts, but when I clicked on it,

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<v Speaker 1>it came up as a regular YouTube video. It was

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<v Speaker 1>all shot on her phone in portrait mode. It was

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<v Speaker 1>her waking her kids up in the morning, cooking the breakfast,

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<v Speaker 1>and then driving them to school. It was a two

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<v Speaker 1>minute video. I would not tune in again. Maybe people

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<v Speaker 1>who concerned she was going to show her day from

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<v Speaker 1>last week which involved all that vomit, Well that video

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<v Speaker 1>ended up getting eight hundred views, so it's clear that

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<v Speaker 1>people wanted to check in see what it was about.

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<v Speaker 1>But then we're probably feeling pretty uninspired to them subscribe.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she made a rookie error and tried to upload

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<v Speaker 1>her YouTube short on her computer, because if you do

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<v Speaker 1>it that way and not through your phone, that's when

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<v Speaker 1>it uploads as a short video. Well, but then it

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<v Speaker 1>didn't make sense because the thumbnail was a landscape thumbnail,

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know what it was. She's going to

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<v Speaker 1>have to pick up a YouTube game if she wants

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<v Speaker 1>to attract subscribers. Yeah, it's clear though that she is

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<v Speaker 1>trying to launch a YouTube channel off the back of

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<v Speaker 1>this pregnancy announcement and reignite her former success as a

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<v Speaker 1>mummy blogger, because in recent years, as we've touched on,

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<v Speaker 1>she's been very reluctant to share about her private life

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<v Speaker 1>and it has made her content very irrelevant. I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>say that she's sort of in that influence of zeitgeist

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<v Speaker 1>at the moment. Well, she's smart enough to realize that

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<v Speaker 1>she needs to share aspects of her life again to

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<v Speaker 1>get her followers interested. Well, she originally built her core

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<v Speaker 1>following off a blog that she created called The Young Mummy,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's when she fell pregnant with Bobby a decade ago,

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<v Speaker 1>and followers really loved her no bullshit attitude and how

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<v Speaker 1>she would keep things very real. I just find it

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<v Speaker 1>weird that she was saying only a year ago that

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<v Speaker 1>she wants privacy, yet now she's having a baby. It's like,

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<v Speaker 1>let's put everything up there, let's invade this child's privacy.

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<v Speaker 1>Who can set in my head we want privacy, like

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<v Speaker 1>on that episode of South Park with Harry and Meggat.

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<v Speaker 1>I think her reluctance to share about her personal life

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<v Speaker 1>has resulted in a huge loss of brand deals and

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<v Speaker 1>also profits for her business Casha, And we've seen her

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<v Speaker 1>in recent times sharing on her Instagram story about the

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<v Speaker 1>huge water bills and electricity bills that she's been receiving,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's more been talking about her struggles financially. So

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<v Speaker 1>I do think that she is having to start this

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<v Speaker 1>YouTube channel up in a bid to make more money

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<v Speaker 1>and to stay relevant as an influencer. Well, followers have

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<v Speaker 1>noticed that Sophie has added the term single mum to

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<v Speaker 1>her caption on Instagram. It's an interesting way to brand

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<v Speaker 1>yourself because in the past she's been somewhat unrelatable because

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<v Speaker 1>she's made so much money off social media. But by

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<v Speaker 1>branding yourself as a single mum, you're sort of saying

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<v Speaker 1>I'm one of the people. Get behind me, support me,

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<v Speaker 1>as opposed to pajama mogul exactly. Well. In January twenty

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<v Speaker 1>twenty three, Sophie revealed that she was planning on having

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<v Speaker 1>a baby with her ex fiance Maddi Garrett before they split,

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<v Speaker 1>and she explained that they were on a waiting list

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<v Speaker 1>for a sperm donut for nine months and she was

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be getting pregnant in January. So perhaps it

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't be such a shock for us that she's gone

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<v Speaker 1>on and done it herself. She was very frustrated after

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<v Speaker 1>going through this whole experience and been put on this

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<v Speaker 1>waiting list only for her relationship to fall apart, and

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<v Speaker 1>she directed a lot of that anger at Maddie. I

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<v Speaker 1>can understand her feeling that way, and there were rumors

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<v Speaker 1>about infidelity which have not been confirmed. Well, she told

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<v Speaker 1>a reporter to get so close and then have that

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<v Speaker 1>split happen, it not only affects my relationship, but affects

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<v Speaker 1>my future of being a mum as well. It's such

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<v Speaker 1>a big process to go through now for it to

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<v Speaker 1>be taken away from me, so it is really lovely

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<v Speaker 1>news that she's able to do this on her own.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, I'm recording the podcast today. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what to wear, so let's figure it out together. Olivia

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<v Speaker 1>Rodgers has revealed how she met her new boyfriend Hugo. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>Whilst the two have so far kept their relationship very private,

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<v Speaker 1>she divulged how they met in an Instagram Q and A,

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<v Speaker 1>so she wrote, I love the story of how we met,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm happy to answer this one. She went on

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<v Speaker 1>to explain that she was out in a bar in

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<v Speaker 1>Melbourne when her best friend Paul Versaci spotted Hugo on

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<v Speaker 1>the dance. He is such a wingman for Olivia because

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<v Speaker 1>he was also friends with her ex Morgan Waterhouse. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a good point. I wonder if he's still friends with Morgan,

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<v Speaker 1>because it would be pretty awkward now that they've had

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<v Speaker 1>this very messy split. He would have had to take

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<v Speaker 1>sides with Olivia. I think he must have known that

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<v Speaker 1>Hugo was Olivia's type straight away because he has an

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<v Speaker 1>uncanny resemblance to her ex husband Justin mckahn. Yeah. So

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<v Speaker 1>he ended up approaching Hugo and went over and said,

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<v Speaker 1>you're handsome. Are you single? I have the perfect girl

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<v Speaker 1>for you. I wonder if he initially thought that Paul

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<v Speaker 1>was hitting on him, like I wonder how quickly he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I have the perfect girl for you. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not me that's interested in you. Can you a girl

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<v Speaker 1>over there? Can you imagine being this guy? Though most

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<v Speaker 1>of the time when someone says they've got a friend,

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, oh, okay, can I see a photo. It's

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<v Speaker 1>literally Miss Universe Australia. This guy has lucked out. So

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<v Speaker 1>Paul ended up going and grabbing Olivia, bringing her over

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<v Speaker 1>and just placing her in front of him. He would

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<v Speaker 1>have thought all of his Christmases had come at once.

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<v Speaker 1>Then Olivia said, the way Paul describes it is, there

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<v Speaker 1>would love hearts popping in the sky all around both

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<v Speaker 1>of us. Well. From the very few details I've heard

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<v Speaker 1>about Hugo, he and Olivia seemed really well suited because

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<v Speaker 1>both of them grew up in Adelaide. So Hugo attended

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<v Speaker 1>Scotch College, which is Adelaide's most prestigious school. When you

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<v Speaker 1>say most prestigious, it's the most expensive school in Adelaide

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<v Speaker 1>to attend. And a lot of people initially thought that

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<v Speaker 1>they were family friends and that's how they met. But

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<v Speaker 1>we've been told they met on the dance floor. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was guessing it was like a dating app thing

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<v Speaker 1>old school.

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<v Speaker 2>I would never have even been in this man's orbit

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<v Speaker 2>if it wasn't for matt ending it with me on

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<v Speaker 2>National TV and it being one of the most humiliating,

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<v Speaker 2>painful experiences that I've been through in my career.

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<v Speaker 1>Whilst in Melbourne working on his album Peaking, Duck's Adam

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<v Speaker 1>Hyde ran into his girlfriend Abby Chatfield's ex doctor Matt

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<v Speaker 1>Agnew at a pub and instead of ignoring each other

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<v Speaker 1>or being frosty. They sent Abby a photo together. I

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<v Speaker 1>love that Abby actually shared this photo on her Instagram

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<v Speaker 1>because it is such an iconic Risian. The first thing

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<v Speaker 1>I noticed was just how different Adam and Matt looked.

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<v Speaker 1>So you've got Adam the rocker with the big, curly hair,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you've got the clean cut scientist. Yeah. And

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we were talking about Olivia Rodgers before. She

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<v Speaker 1>has this cookie cutter type as she goes for, but

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<v Speaker 1>Abby seems to have a variety of types. I've been

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<v Speaker 1>saying that she was put on the Bachelor, where you know,

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<v Speaker 1>she kind of had to go for whoever was there.

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<v Speaker 1>It's maybe he wasn't her regular type. Now in the photo,

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<v Speaker 1>Adam is doing the peace sign and Matt is sticking

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<v Speaker 1>his tongue out. It looks like they're having a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of fun with the situation. And as you said, Abby

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<v Speaker 1>instantly uploaded this to social media and wrote, Ah, when

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<v Speaker 1>Adam sends me photos, it's usually either something horny or funny,

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<v Speaker 1>but I guess this is a combination of both two

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<v Speaker 1>of the loveliest men I know. If Matt Agnew had

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<v Speaker 1>chosen me, I wouldn't have met Adam. So grateful all round,

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<v Speaker 1>everything works out in the end. Now, for those who

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<v Speaker 1>don't have a good knowledge of Bachelor history, Abby came

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<v Speaker 1>second on Matt's season, and the pair generated headlines when

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<v Speaker 1>Abby and Matt were dry humping on the beach. And

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<v Speaker 1>this is where that whole narrative of Abby being slut

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<v Speaker 1>and being slut shamed came from. And this whole chance

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<v Speaker 1>meeting between Adam and Matt really made Abby reflect on

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<v Speaker 1>this whole butterfly effects situation. Here's what she said.

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<v Speaker 2>But here we are five years later and there's beautiful

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<v Speaker 2>Matt with beautiful Adam. Matt and I are friends now

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<v Speaker 2>and Adam I want to cry, and Adam is run

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<v Speaker 2>into him in a pub and thank you, Matt, because

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<v Speaker 2>you breaking up with me led me to Adam. After

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<v Speaker 2>my time on The Bachelor, I got slut shamed really badly.

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<v Speaker 2>I think my edit wouldn't have been the same if

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<v Speaker 2>Matt didn't not end up with me. I then started

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<v Speaker 2>writing articles about feminism, that a podcast about my opinions

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<v Speaker 2>on things. Then I got a radio show from that

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<v Speaker 2>podcast being so successful, and that I met Adam interviewing

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<v Speaker 2>him on my radio show.

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<v Speaker 1>Abby then went on to call Adam her soulmate, and

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<v Speaker 1>she said that he is really the love of her

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<v Speaker 1>life and they are just meant to be together. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a big statement. They have only been together, well publicly

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<v Speaker 1>for a couple of months, but they seem so cute together.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't often ship relationships, but I do for this one.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's because I love Coka Spaniels and they

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<v Speaker 1>shared two Cocka Spaniels together and they look like their

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<v Speaker 1>Cocka spaniels. They both got brown kelly hair. They're those

0:13:34.160 --> 0:13:37.200
<v Speaker 1>people who look like their dogs. Yeah. And also I

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<v Speaker 1>think it shows what a great guy Adam is because

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people's boyfriends wouldn't really want to hang

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<v Speaker 1>out with their girlfriend's ex. And the fact that he

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<v Speaker 1>had fun with it and took a photo, well, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to point out that Abby said that she

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<v Speaker 1>and Matt Agnew are really good friends now, which is

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<v Speaker 1>also quite rare. I'm going to Bali tomorrow and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not packed, and I do have a bit of work

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<v Speaker 1>Bernie to get done. Shanni Grimman has shared about the

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<v Speaker 1>scary moment she fainted in a nail salon in Ballei. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>We spoke last week about how Shanny was back vlogging

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<v Speaker 1>on TikTok, and in her most recent video, she showed

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<v Speaker 1>her followers her prep for Ballei, which included taking constipation medication. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>poor Shanny, she only lasted three days in Balley, so

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<v Speaker 1>she told her followers when she arrived on the island,

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<v Speaker 1>she was suffering from really bad PCOS symptoms, so she

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<v Speaker 1>was nearly a month late for her period and was

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<v Speaker 1>feeling quite dizzy and had a sore stomach. So while

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<v Speaker 1>getting her nails done in a local salon, Shanni remembered

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<v Speaker 1>telling her friend live she didn't feel well, and the

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<v Speaker 1>next minute Shanni fainted and it was very lucky her

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<v Speaker 1>friend was there because she ended up catching her before

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<v Speaker 1>she hit her head on the ground. This is why

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<v Speaker 1>Barley doesn't appeal to me. It's either so hot and

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<v Speaker 1>humid that you feel like you're gonna faint or you're

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<v Speaker 1>shitting yourself from barley belly. Like it's either one or

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<v Speaker 1>the two. And I think Barley is one of the

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<v Speaker 1>worst places that you can feel sick because there's just

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<v Speaker 1>it's such a chaotic place. Like you obviously you've got

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<v Speaker 1>these beautiful villas where that you can relax in, but

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<v Speaker 1>when you're feeling sick or you have diarrhea. There's no

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<v Speaker 1>place like home, on your own toilet. You don't really

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<v Speaker 1>want to be going to the hospital over there. Sharnie

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<v Speaker 1>said that her pcos cramps continued on for thirty to

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<v Speaker 1>forty five minutes while she was lying on the floor

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<v Speaker 1>at the nail salon, and she ended up sharing a

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<v Speaker 1>photo of her acrylics half done and also a photo

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<v Speaker 1>of her lying on the floor on her Instagram story.

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<v Speaker 1>In the Bali prep flog, she was showing her audience

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<v Speaker 1>the new camera that she picked up, and when she

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<v Speaker 1>picked up the box, that's when she broke her fingernails.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a butterfly effect, isn't it. We're seeing it seeming

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<v Speaker 1>to laugh. Because she ended up flying home straight away

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<v Speaker 1>to Queensland after this incident, I could just imagine her

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<v Speaker 1>sitting on the plane having to look at her half

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<v Speaker 1>done finger I hope she's had time to get them fixed.

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<v Speaker 1>For those wondering about the cardboard beds the village, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to show you what they look like now, Sophie.

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<v Speaker 1>The most talked about part of the Olympic Games so

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<v Speaker 1>far has been the cardboard beds. So they have been

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<v Speaker 1>dubbed the anti sex beds, and athletes aren't happy. This

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<v Speaker 1>is how night one went on the cardboard beds. It's

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<v Speaker 1>actually rock solid. We're trying that you can slip them over.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently there's a softer side, but that was the soft side.

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<v Speaker 1>So there's a misconception that this bed is just made

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<v Speaker 1>of cardboard. The actual structure is, but it does have

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<v Speaker 1>a mattress on top of it, which doesn't look particularly comfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>Why are they using cardboard? Like these poor people, they've

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<v Speaker 1>trained the whole fucking lives to be there. They need

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<v Speaker 1>to get a good night's sleep, and they're having to

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<v Speaker 1>sleep with a cardboard frame. Well, it's not the first

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<v Speaker 1>time this cardboard bed has been used. So it made

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<v Speaker 1>an appearance in the Tokyo twenty twenty one Olympics, and

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<v Speaker 1>at the time there were rumors swirling around that it

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<v Speaker 1>was brought into stop athletes having sex with each other

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<v Speaker 1>and potentially spreading COVID. Why would that stop them? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>these are athletic people. They're probably not even having sex

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<v Speaker 1>in a normal bed. There's plenty of places around the

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<v Speaker 1>village that they could have sex. Well, this whole idea

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<v Speaker 1>of this being an anti sex bed has already been

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<v Speaker 1>debunked thanks to TikTok. So multiple athletes, mainly divers, have

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<v Speaker 1>jumped onto the app and they've shared videos of themselves

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<v Speaker 1>jumping on the bed and some assaulting on it and

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<v Speaker 1>doing flips just to show that this cardboard bed is

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<v Speaker 1>actually very sturdy. It's so exciting that all of the

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<v Speaker 1>athletes have TikTok because we're going to be seeing such

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<v Speaker 1>a different side to the Olympic Games. We've already seen

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of the female athletes calling out their uniforms

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<v Speaker 1>that they're wearing to the ceremony. I'm going to touch

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<v Speaker 1>more on that on Tuesday's episode because it is fascinating.

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<v Speaker 1>We've put up a carousel going through some of the

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<v Speaker 1>outfits throughout the decades. Yeah, can't get over the nineteen

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<v Speaker 1>eighty four uniform the athletes wore to the la Olympics.

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<v Speaker 1>There is this yah dress which almost goes down to

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<v Speaker 1>your ankles and it has like koalas and kookabarras, all

0:18:05.720 --> 0:18:09.240
<v Speaker 1>the Aussie animals all over it. It is so garish.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually thought it was satire until I looked more

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<v Speaker 1>into it and saw them actually at the opening ceremony

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<v Speaker 1>wearing them. It happened Kim Vis. I disagree. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it was very patriotic. It was very patriotic, but it

0:18:21.520 --> 0:18:23.600
<v Speaker 1>looked like something that Kath and Kim would wear. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred percent. Well, just back to the beds. The

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<v Speaker 1>real reason behind the cardboard beds is actually due to sustainability,

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<v Speaker 1>so the organizers of the Paris Olympics have promised to

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<v Speaker 1>keep emissions for the games historically low, so that means

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<v Speaker 1>the poor athletes are stuck sleeping on these very uncomfortable beds.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't get that though, Why even bother to have

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<v Speaker 1>this POxy cardboard bed frame. Just put the mattresses on

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<v Speaker 1>the floor. If I was an athlete, I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to bring a blow up mattress. I think you get

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<v Speaker 1>a better night's sleep on that. But on the topic

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<v Speaker 1>of athletes hooking up at the Olympics, there's a photo

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<v Speaker 1>that has gone viral of tennis player Carlos Alcarez and

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<v Speaker 1>the women's hockey team. I don't know if you've seen

0:19:01.960 --> 0:19:04.720
<v Speaker 1>it floating around, but to set the scene, it shows

0:19:04.720 --> 0:19:08.520
<v Speaker 1>the twenty one year old tennis superstar surrounded by blonde

0:19:08.640 --> 0:19:12.000
<v Speaker 1>fit female hockey players and you can just imagine what

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<v Speaker 1>the comments section looks like. So former world number seven

0:19:15.119 --> 0:19:19.160
<v Speaker 1>tennis player Marty Fish wrote, you ain't sly Carlo Well.

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<v Speaker 1>Another follower added, cardboard beds, don't worry the young king.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm curious, do the athletes actually have to stay in

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<v Speaker 1>the village or can some of them try and get

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<v Speaker 1>an edge by booking out a really fancy hotel because

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't sound comfortable staying in these beds. Or you're

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<v Speaker 1>being kept awake because people are partying with girls. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>there are a lot of high profile players who choose

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<v Speaker 1>not to stay in the Olympic village. Novak Djokovic is

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<v Speaker 1>one of those, but our Karez said he wanted the

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<v Speaker 1>true Olympic village experience. But the Olympic Village has a

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<v Speaker 1>big reputation. So in twenty twelve, American olympian Ryan Lotch

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<v Speaker 1>told reporters that seventy to seventy five percent Olympians are

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<v Speaker 1>having sex in the Olympic village and as a result,

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<v Speaker 1>there have been two hundred thousand condoms brought in to

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<v Speaker 1>the Olympic Village in Paris for this year's Games, so

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<v Speaker 1>that equates to around twenty per athlete. That's why it

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<v Speaker 1>surprises me that Novak Djokovic doesn't want to stay in

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<v Speaker 1>the village because he broke up with his wife in March.

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<v Speaker 1>There were rumors that maybe there was some cheating involved,

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<v Speaker 1>who knows, but I thought he might be wanting that

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<v Speaker 1>experience to go and meet some new labels. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>think the issue with Novakis he has never won a

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<v Speaker 1>gold medal, so I think he's taking it pretty seriously

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<v Speaker 1>this year. You can imagine you'd have quite an edge

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<v Speaker 1>actually sleeping on a proper bed as opposed to the

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<v Speaker 1>cardboard ones. Just to put the condom's stat into perspective,

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<v Speaker 1>At the two thousand Sydney Olympic Games, they initially ran

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<v Speaker 1>out of condom, so they had seventy thousand to begin

0:20:51.440 --> 0:20:54.400
<v Speaker 1>with and they had to go and order another twenty thousand.

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<v Speaker 1>But the Olympic Games that had the most condoms available

0:20:58.160 --> 0:21:01.520
<v Speaker 1>was the twenty sixteen Riol They had four hundred and

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<v Speaker 1>fifty thousand. Surely there's a condom Brown that is getting

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<v Speaker 1>a sponsorship deal out of this, like the official provider

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<v Speaker 1>of the Olympic Games. I mean, you're going to be

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<v Speaker 1>having some pretty athletic children if one gets through.

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone in my comments is are asking you what kind

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<v Speaker 2>of perm I got this time? So here's what you

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<v Speaker 2>got to do to get your hair to look like

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<v Speaker 2>what mine does.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now, move over, mullets. There's a new gen z

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<v Speaker 1>hair trend taking over TikTok. It's called the man perm.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you seen this, Sophie. This hasn't infiltrated my TikTok

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<v Speaker 1>feed yet, but I always remember growing up, my nana

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<v Speaker 1>would say that she loved men with curly hair, so

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<v Speaker 1>she would be curly top, so she would be all

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<v Speaker 1>for this trend. Well, the best way to describe this

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<v Speaker 1>new look is the fuck boy broccoli cut or other

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<v Speaker 1>procoerly yeah or other people are calling it the zoomer perm.

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<v Speaker 1>So the best thing about this trend is seeing all

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<v Speaker 1>of the TikTok boys sitting at the hairdressers looking like

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<v Speaker 1>grannies with curlers in their hair. Why is it the

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<v Speaker 1>zoomer trend because they're gen zetters. Oh so what these

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<v Speaker 1>twenty year old guys are actually going to the hairdressers

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<v Speaker 1>and asking for perms. Yeah, so they're having to sit

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<v Speaker 1>there with all the chemicals in their hair. They've got

0:22:10.240 --> 0:22:14.399
<v Speaker 1>the full on curlers and the dry shame anyone, because

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<v Speaker 1>I think that it's great when people do take care

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<v Speaker 1>in their appearance. But I mean, I'm seeing everywhere. This

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<v Speaker 1>is what's infiltrating my TikTok feed is women with hair

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<v Speaker 1>rollers in, not men. But I mean, maybe I'm night

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<v Speaker 1>have to tell my husband about this because he has

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<v Speaker 1>pin straight hair. All of the hairdresses. He goes to

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<v Speaker 1>comment about how straight it is that they can't get

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<v Speaker 1>any sort of curl or he's not particularly lucky right

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<v Speaker 1>now because they're saying that the perm has hit fever pitch.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is because a photo showing the new Superman

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<v Speaker 1>David korn Sweat aka Clark Kent rocking a perm in

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<v Speaker 1>the movie. Are you a fan of the perm? Should

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<v Speaker 1>we get day or to get one done? Look, I

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<v Speaker 1>think some of the TikTok guys are definitely pulling it off,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm not really a huge fan of curls on guys.

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<v Speaker 1>A former colleague of mine actually used to get perms

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<v Speaker 1>all the time in the eighties and he said it's

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<v Speaker 1>the reason that he's gone thin on top. So I

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<v Speaker 1>wonder what effect this is going to have for the

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<v Speaker 1>gen Zettters. Now let's get into our best and worst

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<v Speaker 1>of the week now. To be honest, Sophie and I

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<v Speaker 1>were laughing before because we're struggling to come up with

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<v Speaker 1>the best because we feel like we've been working like

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<v Speaker 1>dogs very time at the very very burnt out, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think I need a holiday. Like I told everyone,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm planning my honeymoon. And thank you so much for

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<v Speaker 1>those who have sent in suggestions for Fiji. Fiji is

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<v Speaker 1>very expensive. Yeah, I'm looking around after my comments on Balley,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm probably not going to buy. Do you know what

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<v Speaker 1>it is we're saying we're burnt out? I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>this time of year I was talking about to some

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<v Speaker 1>friends of mine. Everyone was saying they just feel like

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<v Speaker 1>it's cold, it's miserable. I think this is a period

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<v Speaker 1>where you just put your head down and you get

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<v Speaker 1>into your work. I'm ready for daylight Savings. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>over it. Like my partner and I keep sending messages

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<v Speaker 1>being like over it. Can't stand this an There's only

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<v Speaker 1>one so many fires that you can have. No roast

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<v Speaker 1>marsh mellows and enjoy. Now I'm going to start with

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<v Speaker 1>my low of the week because that springs to mind

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<v Speaker 1>faster than my high. And my low of the week

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<v Speaker 1>was I was on a dog walk and I was

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone to you, actually Amy, and my dog Archie.

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<v Speaker 1>He pulled me to go onto this front verge and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm walking along. All of a sudden, I am hit

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<v Speaker 1>in the face by a tree stump, like a tree

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<v Speaker 1>branch stump me. It almost knocked me out. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>see it. It was this low hanging, very thick branch. I

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<v Speaker 1>have a bruise on my head. I almost saw stars like.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I need to get new reflex. We work

0:24:39.119 --> 0:24:41.680
<v Speaker 1>with a concussion management technology called new Reflex. I need

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<v Speaker 1>to get new Reflex because I don't know if I've

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<v Speaker 1>been concast or if that's adding to my woes of

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<v Speaker 1>this week. But that was definitely my low. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>help but laugh because when I was talking to you

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<v Speaker 1>like ow, and I was like, what has gone on?

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, I've just walked into a tree, And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>were you not looking for it? Was like, were you

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<v Speaker 1>so into the conversation? But he said, my husband, why

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<v Speaker 1>do these things always happen to me? Like this sort

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<v Speaker 1>of shit follows me around? That's definitely so what's your

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<v Speaker 1>high then my hive of the week is that my

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<v Speaker 1>new shower taps arrived. Is that what they're called? Without

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<v Speaker 1>telling me? So my husband organized them. We have the

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<v Speaker 1>most dodgy shower at the moment. He always knocks his

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<v Speaker 1>head on it. Look at us. We're just you know,

0:25:24.160 --> 0:25:27.720
<v Speaker 1>accident prone riveting. Yeah, so we've got this cool new

0:25:28.000 --> 0:25:30.320
<v Speaker 1>gold shower head and taps we've got to put into

0:25:30.359 --> 0:25:34.720
<v Speaker 1>the bathroom. We're trying to do slowly renovate. And also

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<v Speaker 1>my in laws, who are absolute legends, they have just

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<v Speaker 1>finished our second shed, which is in our outside area,

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<v Speaker 1>so we can finally move all of the crap that

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<v Speaker 1>is sitting in my office into the shed. You're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>have to share some of your transformations because you and

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<v Speaker 1>Brandon have done such a good job. Like you've got

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<v Speaker 1>this little outdoor area that you've managed to transform. It

0:25:54.040 --> 0:25:56.800
<v Speaker 1>looks very pinterest. Oh, you've given me an opportunity to

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<v Speaker 1>plug out. We're trying to start up on Instagram one

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<v Speaker 1>of those houses for no Instagram, so it's called our

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<v Speaker 1>Golden Hills House. We have one post currently on there

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<v Speaker 1>at the moment. But Brandon is a videographer, so he's

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<v Speaker 1>slowly working in the background, trying to do some before

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<v Speaker 1>and after stuff that we can share. But if you're

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<v Speaker 1>living in an old house and you're doing it up,

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<v Speaker 1>it might be fun to follow along. What's it called again,

0:26:18.520 --> 0:26:22.880
<v Speaker 1>It's called Golden Underscore Hills, Underscore House. Now, my love

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<v Speaker 1>of the week has just been how disgusting my bedtimes

0:26:25.720 --> 0:26:27.560
<v Speaker 1>have gotten, Like I am going to bed later and

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<v Speaker 1>later each week, and it's due to just staying up

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<v Speaker 1>late and doing work, which is so boring. We run

0:26:33.359 --> 0:26:35.680
<v Speaker 1>two businesses and it's been really hard because with Kate

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<v Speaker 1>on maternity leave, we're one person down for the podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, it's not been fun. Yeah, and Kate loves

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<v Speaker 1>to pay me out because I like to track my

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<v Speaker 1>sleep on my Apple Watch, and it has been quite

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<v Speaker 1>depressing to look at those figures. But my high would

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<v Speaker 1>be getting my wedding video back finally. It's been six months,

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<v Speaker 1>and it really portrayed the day well, like as in,

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<v Speaker 1>so if you were complaining, we're not complaining, but you

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<v Speaker 1>were saying how you were kind of embarrassed to show

0:27:01.160 --> 0:27:04.000
<v Speaker 1>people your wedding video because it just featured a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of brand and crying and it is like I have

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<v Speaker 1>to say the videographer, she's an absolute prob. Like it's stunning.

0:27:11.080 --> 0:27:15.280
<v Speaker 1>It's a stunning video, Like it's very like movie s.

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<v Speaker 1>I really wanted emotional, but I said, it's not like

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<v Speaker 1>a video that you can watch over and over again,

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<v Speaker 1>like it's sort of like it. You know, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>think that I'd be this person to have this emotional

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<v Speaker 1>video because I didn't show emotion, whereas brand And cried

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<v Speaker 1>the whole time. But with you, yours is like a

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<v Speaker 1>really nice, like eleven minute run through of all the

0:27:31.680 --> 0:27:34.200
<v Speaker 1>highs of the day. Yeah, he did a really good

0:27:34.240 --> 0:27:36.919
<v Speaker 1>job snapshotting that. Or one thing I've realized is how

0:27:36.920 --> 0:27:39.959
<v Speaker 1>embarrassing it is actually to show people your wedding videos.

0:27:40.000 --> 0:27:42.200
<v Speaker 1>So like for you guys, I didn't really care that much,

0:27:42.240 --> 0:27:46.000
<v Speaker 1>but we had Dale's poppy and also his mum over

0:27:46.080 --> 0:27:48.239
<v Speaker 1>to watch it, and you know, kind of you just

0:27:48.240 --> 0:27:51.359
<v Speaker 1>feel embarrassed, like you're, yeah, talking about your feelings on this.

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<v Speaker 1>You know it's been shown on the TV. It was

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<v Speaker 1>just a bit orkies. Yeah, because I'm waiting still to

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<v Speaker 1>get my full video back, so I've got a bit

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<v Speaker 1>of a highlight reel and I just came to the

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<v Speaker 1>decision that I felt like it was almost too intimate

0:28:05.800 --> 0:28:07.880
<v Speaker 1>to share on socials, Like, I mean I might put

0:28:07.880 --> 0:28:10.920
<v Speaker 1>it on Facebook or something, but yeah, I mean I

0:28:11.000 --> 0:28:13.040
<v Speaker 1>might get sent more of a like upbeat highlight reel.

0:28:13.160 --> 0:28:15.240
<v Speaker 1>But I think my partner was like, please don't share that.

0:28:15.440 --> 0:28:17.920
<v Speaker 1>It's so embarrassing. I'm crying. I want to hear about

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<v Speaker 1>other people's wedding videos, like did you share it on Facebook?

0:28:20.680 --> 0:28:23.040
<v Speaker 1>My cousin was asking me the other day, He's like, so,

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<v Speaker 1>what was the purpose of the video? Is it to share?

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, well, it's kind of to look back

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<v Speaker 1>on each year. Yeah, I'm so happy that we both

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<v Speaker 1>got a video because it's going to be amazing to

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<v Speaker 1>look back on and be able to show your kids. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that is all we have time for today.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much for joining us. Apologies our subs

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<v Speaker 1>episode has been pulled out a little bit later, but

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<v Speaker 1>go and check it out. It is in the feed now.

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<v Speaker 1>It's all about Hen's parties and a big thank you

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<v Speaker 1>to everyone who joined in on Instagram. We put up

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<v Speaker 1>a few polls. We got a few opinions on different

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<v Speaker 1>Hens related topics. I feel like I've been a bit

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<v Speaker 1>of a counselor for some people who I've responded to

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm feeling for that. It is really tough when

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<v Speaker 1>you're dealing with a bridezilla and it's not a fun

0:29:04.800 --> 0:29:07.120
<v Speaker 1>time being a bridesmaid or a maid of honor. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>no it's not. But don't forget. You can follow us

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<v Speaker 1>on Instagram and TikTok, and also on Facebook at Outspoken Underscore,

0:29:14.280 --> 0:29:17.320
<v Speaker 1>the Underscore podcast Don't Forget to Go and follow Sophie's

0:29:17.360 --> 0:29:20.239
<v Speaker 1>house page that she's subtly dropped before, and you can

0:29:20.240 --> 0:29:24.040
<v Speaker 1>also follow Sophie and I on Instagram as well. This

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<v Speaker 1>episode was recorded on the traditional land of the Ghana

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<v Speaker 1>people of the Adelaide Planes. We pay respect to elders

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<v Speaker 1>past and present.