1 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:06,000 Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome to Outspoken. It's your dose of the 2 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:09,799 Speaker 1: hottest influencer and pop culture news twice a week. I'm 3 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:13,960 Speaker 1: Sophie Torba and coming up on today's show, Abby Chatfield's 4 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:18,799 Speaker 1: musician boyfriend runs into her ex Olivia Rodgers, reveals how 5 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:22,040 Speaker 1: she met her new man, Shani grimmand is forced to 6 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:26,480 Speaker 1: flee Bali, the Olympics, Anti sex Beds, and The Rise 7 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:31,200 Speaker 1: of the Man Perm. But first, Pajama entrepreneur Sophie Kasha 8 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:35,080 Speaker 1: has announced she's expecting her third child. And this definitely 9 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:37,839 Speaker 1: wasn't on my twenty twenty four bingo card. I know 10 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:40,960 Speaker 1: last year we did influencer predictions for twenty twenty four 11 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:43,199 Speaker 1: and I would have never put this down. I had 12 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:46,479 Speaker 1: to look back and quite a few of those predictions 13 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:48,640 Speaker 1: have come true. We will revisit it at the end 14 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:51,760 Speaker 1: of the year. But getting into this announcement, Sophie uploaded 15 00:00:51,760 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 1: a carousel of images and in the photos, Sophie and 16 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 1: her two kids, Bobby and Florence, are all lying in 17 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 1: bed wearing matching leopard print pajamas from Sophie's brand of Course, 18 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:06,000 Speaker 1: with Sophie's pregnant belly on display, and in one image, 19 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 1: we see a close up of her stomach with Kaisha 20 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 1: branding boldly below it. I couldn't believe the product placement here. 21 00:01:12,280 --> 00:01:15,039 Speaker 1: They say the devil works hard, but apparently Sophie Keisha 22 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:17,520 Speaker 1: works harder now. In a couple of the photos, the 23 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 1: family is also enjoying a pizza together, which was really random, 24 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 1: and Sophie captioned the post mine now. This post led 25 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 1: to a lot of confusion because some followers weren't sure 26 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:31,160 Speaker 1: if it was a pregnancy announcement and thought maybe she 27 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 1: was referencing that she had a food baby because of 28 00:01:33,880 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 1: the pizza. I couldn't help but notice that the kids 29 00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 1: looked really miserable in the photos. It looked like they 30 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 1: really didn't want to be there, and I'm wondering whether 31 00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:43,679 Speaker 1: that's why the pizza was there, because she wanted to 32 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 1: bribe them to be in it. Well, that poor kid Bobby. 33 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 1: Last week, he was vomiting his guts up, so he's 34 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 1: probably still feeling sick. I hope these photos were taken 35 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:52,920 Speaker 1: before that incident. Her bedroom helped a lot cleaner. I 36 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 1: couldn't send any vomit marks on the floor. Doesn't this 37 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 1: add more to the story because poor Sophie Kesia. She 38 00:01:57,480 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 1: might be suffering from morning sickness and she's having to 39 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 1: or with everybody else's sick now. The Blue Tick Brigade 40 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 1: was our enforce with Steph Claire Smith as she Binds 41 00:02:06,080 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 1: and Abby Gilmour all congratulating her, and I was really 42 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 1: fascinated to see what sort of engagement this post was 43 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:17,480 Speaker 1: going to get because Sophie's engagement rate has dramatically dropped 44 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 1: off over the past few years. So following her breakup 45 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 1: with ex fiance Maddi Garrick, she vowed to no longer 46 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:26,840 Speaker 1: share private details about her life, which led to a 47 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 1: lot of her followers tapping out and losing interest. And 48 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 1: every time I seem to check in with her, it 49 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 1: feels like her Instagram is one big ad, either for 50 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:38,520 Speaker 1: her pajama line Kasha or for hallow Fresh sponsorship deals. 51 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:41,639 Speaker 1: It doesn't seem like you're getting the authentic her or 52 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:44,679 Speaker 1: any insight into her family life or her relationships, which 53 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 1: is what we want to hear. I ended up taking 54 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 1: a look at social Blade, which is a platform that 55 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:54,640 Speaker 1: shows you influencers analytics, and Sophie averages around one thousand 56 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 1: likes per post, which is fairly low for an influencer 57 00:02:58,160 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 1: with over two hundred and fifty six thousand and followers, 58 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:04,800 Speaker 1: and her engagement rate is sitting at zero point six percent. Wow, 59 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:07,640 Speaker 1: that is really low, because if you look at someone 60 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:11,800 Speaker 1: like Georgia Richards, she's around sixty seven thousand followers on Instagram, 61 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:15,680 Speaker 1: yet her engagement is through the roof. It's around thirteen percent. 62 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 1: But she has a very engaged community, and Sophie used 63 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:20,799 Speaker 1: to have an engaged community, but she's lost a lot 64 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 1: of those loyal followers. She has lost five hundred and 65 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 1: ten followers in the past thirty days. I mean, her 66 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:30,640 Speaker 1: pregnancy posts did fare quite well in comparison to her 67 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:33,680 Speaker 1: regular post, which is always the case with big life events. 68 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 1: She got over twenty two thousand likes and eight hundred 69 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 1: and thirty five comments. I'm sure she also got a 70 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 1: fuck ton of send ons because I think the announcement 71 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 1: blew everyone's minds. No one was expecting. Well, you said 72 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 1: it fed fairly well. It got twenty two times more 73 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 1: likes than she normally gets. Yeah, I get that, but 74 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 1: I'm saying other influencer announcements like this probably get hundreds 75 00:03:53,960 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 1: of thousands of likes and she actually lost twenty six 76 00:03:56,840 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 1: followers that day. And usually when an influencer makes a 77 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 1: pregnancy announcement or an engagement announcement, they get more people 78 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 1: wanting to follow along with that life event because maybe 79 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 1: they're in the same life moment. I saw this TikTok 80 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 1: today that this guy put up, and he said that 81 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:15,280 Speaker 1: anytime someone announces they're pregnant, or they're engaged, or they're 82 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:17,360 Speaker 1: going to Europe with the love of their life, it's 83 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 1: an instant unfollowed. So maybe that's what's happened now. The 84 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:25,280 Speaker 1: day before Sophie made this pregnancy announcement, she surprised her 85 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:28,239 Speaker 1: followers by sharing that she's starting up a YouTube channel, 86 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:31,120 Speaker 1: so it's all making a lot more sense. And so 87 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:35,360 Speaker 1: far she has only eighty seven subscribers and she has 88 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:38,919 Speaker 1: shared a two minute video. Wow. I'm not trying to 89 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:41,279 Speaker 1: bash Sophie because I know it can be tough getting 90 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:44,839 Speaker 1: YouTube subscribers, but you think if you've got two hundred 91 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 1: and forty six thousand people on Instagram, you might get 92 00:04:48,160 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 1: around ten thousand of those coming over to subscribe to 93 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:53,799 Speaker 1: your YouTube channel. The video that she put up isn't 94 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 1: the great advert for wanting to subscribe because I don't 95 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:58,720 Speaker 1: know if it's a shorts, but when I clicked on it, 96 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:01,839 Speaker 1: it came up as a regular YouTube video. It was 97 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 1: all shot on her phone in portrait mode. It was 98 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:07,800 Speaker 1: her waking her kids up in the morning, cooking the breakfast, 99 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 1: and then driving them to school. It was a two 100 00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:13,160 Speaker 1: minute video. I would not tune in again. Maybe people 101 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:15,040 Speaker 1: who concerned she was going to show her day from 102 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:17,640 Speaker 1: last week which involved all that vomit, Well that video 103 00:05:17,839 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 1: ended up getting eight hundred views, so it's clear that 104 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 1: people wanted to check in see what it was about. 105 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 1: But then we're probably feeling pretty uninspired to them subscribe. 106 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:27,839 Speaker 1: Maybe she made a rookie error and tried to upload 107 00:05:27,880 --> 00:05:31,159 Speaker 1: her YouTube short on her computer, because if you do 108 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:33,720 Speaker 1: it that way and not through your phone, that's when 109 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:36,240 Speaker 1: it uploads as a short video. Well, but then it 110 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 1: didn't make sense because the thumbnail was a landscape thumbnail, 111 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 1: So I don't know what it was. She's going to 112 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:43,479 Speaker 1: have to pick up a YouTube game if she wants 113 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:47,159 Speaker 1: to attract subscribers. Yeah, it's clear though that she is 114 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 1: trying to launch a YouTube channel off the back of 115 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:53,919 Speaker 1: this pregnancy announcement and reignite her former success as a 116 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 1: mummy blogger, because in recent years, as we've touched on, 117 00:05:57,040 --> 00:05:59,839 Speaker 1: she's been very reluctant to share about her private life 118 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:03,280 Speaker 1: and it has made her content very irrelevant. I wouldn't 119 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 1: say that she's sort of in that influence of zeitgeist 120 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:08,160 Speaker 1: at the moment. Well, she's smart enough to realize that 121 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 1: she needs to share aspects of her life again to 122 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:14,080 Speaker 1: get her followers interested. Well, she originally built her core 123 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 1: following off a blog that she created called The Young Mummy, 124 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 1: and that's when she fell pregnant with Bobby a decade ago, 125 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 1: and followers really loved her no bullshit attitude and how 126 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 1: she would keep things very real. I just find it 127 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:31,159 Speaker 1: weird that she was saying only a year ago that 128 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:34,080 Speaker 1: she wants privacy, yet now she's having a baby. It's like, 129 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:36,920 Speaker 1: let's put everything up there, let's invade this child's privacy. 130 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:39,719 Speaker 1: Who can set in my head we want privacy, like 131 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:42,240 Speaker 1: on that episode of South Park with Harry and Meggat. 132 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 1: I think her reluctance to share about her personal life 133 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 1: has resulted in a huge loss of brand deals and 134 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 1: also profits for her business Casha, And we've seen her 135 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:55,279 Speaker 1: in recent times sharing on her Instagram story about the 136 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:58,839 Speaker 1: huge water bills and electricity bills that she's been receiving, 137 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 1: and she's more been talking about her struggles financially. So 138 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:05,159 Speaker 1: I do think that she is having to start this 139 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:08,159 Speaker 1: YouTube channel up in a bid to make more money 140 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 1: and to stay relevant as an influencer. Well, followers have 141 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 1: noticed that Sophie has added the term single mum to 142 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:17,360 Speaker 1: her caption on Instagram. It's an interesting way to brand 143 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 1: yourself because in the past she's been somewhat unrelatable because 144 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 1: she's made so much money off social media. But by 145 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:26,120 Speaker 1: branding yourself as a single mum, you're sort of saying 146 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 1: I'm one of the people. Get behind me, support me, 147 00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 1: as opposed to pajama mogul exactly. Well. In January twenty 148 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 1: twenty three, Sophie revealed that she was planning on having 149 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:40,560 Speaker 1: a baby with her ex fiance Maddi Garrett before they split, 150 00:07:40,920 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 1: and she explained that they were on a waiting list 151 00:07:43,520 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 1: for a sperm donut for nine months and she was 152 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 1: supposed to be getting pregnant in January. So perhaps it 153 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:50,800 Speaker 1: shouldn't be such a shock for us that she's gone 154 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 1: on and done it herself. She was very frustrated after 155 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 1: going through this whole experience and been put on this 156 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:59,000 Speaker 1: waiting list only for her relationship to fall apart, and 157 00:07:59,040 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 1: she directed a lot of that anger at Maddie. I 158 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 1: can understand her feeling that way, and there were rumors 159 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 1: about infidelity which have not been confirmed. Well, she told 160 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:10,920 Speaker 1: a reporter to get so close and then have that 161 00:08:10,960 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 1: split happen, it not only affects my relationship, but affects 162 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 1: my future of being a mum as well. It's such 163 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:18,960 Speaker 1: a big process to go through now for it to 164 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:21,360 Speaker 1: be taken away from me, so it is really lovely 165 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 1: news that she's able to do this on her own. 166 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:28,440 Speaker 1: Good morning, I'm recording the podcast today. I don't know 167 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 1: what to wear, so let's figure it out together. Olivia 168 00:08:32,040 --> 00:08:35,839 Speaker 1: Rodgers has revealed how she met her new boyfriend Hugo. Now. 169 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 1: Whilst the two have so far kept their relationship very private, 170 00:08:39,840 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 1: she divulged how they met in an Instagram Q and A, 171 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:45,400 Speaker 1: so she wrote, I love the story of how we met, 172 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:48,200 Speaker 1: so I'm happy to answer this one. She went on 173 00:08:48,280 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 1: to explain that she was out in a bar in 174 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:53,640 Speaker 1: Melbourne when her best friend Paul Versaci spotted Hugo on 175 00:08:53,679 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 1: the dance. He is such a wingman for Olivia because 176 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:59,000 Speaker 1: he was also friends with her ex Morgan Waterhouse. That's 177 00:08:59,040 --> 00:09:01,680 Speaker 1: a good point. I wonder if he's still friends with Morgan, 178 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:04,079 Speaker 1: because it would be pretty awkward now that they've had 179 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:06,280 Speaker 1: this very messy split. He would have had to take 180 00:09:06,320 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 1: sides with Olivia. I think he must have known that 181 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 1: Hugo was Olivia's type straight away because he has an 182 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:16,199 Speaker 1: uncanny resemblance to her ex husband Justin mckahn. Yeah. So 183 00:09:16,280 --> 00:09:19,199 Speaker 1: he ended up approaching Hugo and went over and said, 184 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 1: you're handsome. Are you single? I have the perfect girl 185 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:25,679 Speaker 1: for you. I wonder if he initially thought that Paul 186 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:27,600 Speaker 1: was hitting on him, like I wonder how quickly he 187 00:09:27,640 --> 00:09:29,520 Speaker 1: was like, I have the perfect girl for you. It's 188 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:31,440 Speaker 1: not me that's interested in you. Can you a girl 189 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:33,800 Speaker 1: over there? Can you imagine being this guy? Though most 190 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 1: of the time when someone says they've got a friend, 191 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:38,320 Speaker 1: you're like, oh, okay, can I see a photo. It's 192 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:42,280 Speaker 1: literally Miss Universe Australia. This guy has lucked out. So 193 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:45,560 Speaker 1: Paul ended up going and grabbing Olivia, bringing her over 194 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:48,200 Speaker 1: and just placing her in front of him. He would 195 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:50,000 Speaker 1: have thought all of his Christmases had come at once. 196 00:09:50,559 --> 00:09:53,360 Speaker 1: Then Olivia said, the way Paul describes it is, there 197 00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:56,320 Speaker 1: would love hearts popping in the sky all around both 198 00:09:56,360 --> 00:09:59,120 Speaker 1: of us. Well. From the very few details I've heard 199 00:09:59,160 --> 00:10:02,480 Speaker 1: about Hugo, he and Olivia seemed really well suited because 200 00:10:02,480 --> 00:10:05,120 Speaker 1: both of them grew up in Adelaide. So Hugo attended 201 00:10:05,160 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 1: Scotch College, which is Adelaide's most prestigious school. When you 202 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 1: say most prestigious, it's the most expensive school in Adelaide 203 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:16,120 Speaker 1: to attend. And a lot of people initially thought that 204 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:19,000 Speaker 1: they were family friends and that's how they met. But 205 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 1: we've been told they met on the dance floor. Yeah, 206 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:23,960 Speaker 1: I was guessing it was like a dating app thing 207 00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:25,440 Speaker 1: old school. 208 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:30,360 Speaker 2: I would never have even been in this man's orbit 209 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 2: if it wasn't for matt ending it with me on 210 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:38,240 Speaker 2: National TV and it being one of the most humiliating, 211 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:42,840 Speaker 2: painful experiences that I've been through in my career. 212 00:10:43,840 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 1: Whilst in Melbourne working on his album Peaking, Duck's Adam 213 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:50,760 Speaker 1: Hyde ran into his girlfriend Abby Chatfield's ex doctor Matt 214 00:10:50,760 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 1: Agnew at a pub and instead of ignoring each other 215 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:56,720 Speaker 1: or being frosty. They sent Abby a photo together. I 216 00:10:56,760 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 1: love that Abby actually shared this photo on her Instagram 217 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 1: because it is such an iconic Risian. The first thing 218 00:11:02,840 --> 00:11:06,720 Speaker 1: I noticed was just how different Adam and Matt looked. 219 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:09,720 Speaker 1: So you've got Adam the rocker with the big, curly hair, 220 00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 1: and then you've got the clean cut scientist. Yeah. And 221 00:11:13,679 --> 00:11:16,080 Speaker 1: I mean we were talking about Olivia Rodgers before. She 222 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 1: has this cookie cutter type as she goes for, but 223 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:21,360 Speaker 1: Abby seems to have a variety of types. I've been 224 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 1: saying that she was put on the Bachelor, where you know, 225 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:26,520 Speaker 1: she kind of had to go for whoever was there. 226 00:11:26,559 --> 00:11:30,360 Speaker 1: It's maybe he wasn't her regular type. Now in the photo, 227 00:11:30,520 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 1: Adam is doing the peace sign and Matt is sticking 228 00:11:32,880 --> 00:11:34,559 Speaker 1: his tongue out. It looks like they're having a lot 229 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 1: of fun with the situation. And as you said, Abby 230 00:11:37,320 --> 00:11:40,680 Speaker 1: instantly uploaded this to social media and wrote, Ah, when 231 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 1: Adam sends me photos, it's usually either something horny or funny, 232 00:11:44,400 --> 00:11:46,920 Speaker 1: but I guess this is a combination of both two 233 00:11:47,000 --> 00:11:49,480 Speaker 1: of the loveliest men I know. If Matt Agnew had 234 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:53,080 Speaker 1: chosen me, I wouldn't have met Adam. So grateful all round, 235 00:11:53,160 --> 00:11:56,160 Speaker 1: everything works out in the end. Now, for those who 236 00:11:56,240 --> 00:11:59,319 Speaker 1: don't have a good knowledge of Bachelor history, Abby came 237 00:11:59,559 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 1: second on Matt's season, and the pair generated headlines when 238 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:06,040 Speaker 1: Abby and Matt were dry humping on the beach. And 239 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:10,079 Speaker 1: this is where that whole narrative of Abby being slut 240 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:13,720 Speaker 1: and being slut shamed came from. And this whole chance 241 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:18,280 Speaker 1: meeting between Adam and Matt really made Abby reflect on 242 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:21,959 Speaker 1: this whole butterfly effects situation. Here's what she said. 243 00:12:22,880 --> 00:12:25,439 Speaker 2: But here we are five years later and there's beautiful 244 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:29,280 Speaker 2: Matt with beautiful Adam. Matt and I are friends now 245 00:12:29,840 --> 00:12:34,000 Speaker 2: and Adam I want to cry, and Adam is run 246 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:38,560 Speaker 2: into him in a pub and thank you, Matt, because 247 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 2: you breaking up with me led me to Adam. After 248 00:12:43,240 --> 00:12:46,120 Speaker 2: my time on The Bachelor, I got slut shamed really badly. 249 00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:48,920 Speaker 2: I think my edit wouldn't have been the same if 250 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 2: Matt didn't not end up with me. I then started 251 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:58,000 Speaker 2: writing articles about feminism, that a podcast about my opinions 252 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:00,080 Speaker 2: on things. Then I got a radio show from that 253 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:04,760 Speaker 2: podcast being so successful, and that I met Adam interviewing 254 00:13:04,880 --> 00:13:06,079 Speaker 2: him on my radio show. 255 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:09,240 Speaker 1: Abby then went on to call Adam her soulmate, and 256 00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:11,319 Speaker 1: she said that he is really the love of her 257 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 1: life and they are just meant to be together. That's 258 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:17,000 Speaker 1: a big statement. They have only been together, well publicly 259 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 1: for a couple of months, but they seem so cute together. 260 00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:25,720 Speaker 1: I don't often ship relationships, but I do for this one. 261 00:13:25,800 --> 00:13:28,959 Speaker 1: I think it's because I love Coka Spaniels and they 262 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:31,800 Speaker 1: shared two Cocka Spaniels together and they look like their 263 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 1: Cocka spaniels. They both got brown kelly hair. They're those 264 00:13:34,160 --> 00:13:37,200 Speaker 1: people who look like their dogs. Yeah. And also I 265 00:13:37,200 --> 00:13:39,680 Speaker 1: think it shows what a great guy Adam is because 266 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 1: a lot of people's boyfriends wouldn't really want to hang 267 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 1: out with their girlfriend's ex. And the fact that he 268 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:48,560 Speaker 1: had fun with it and took a photo, well, yeah. 269 00:13:48,559 --> 00:13:50,640 Speaker 1: I want to point out that Abby said that she 270 00:13:50,840 --> 00:13:53,440 Speaker 1: and Matt Agnew are really good friends now, which is 271 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 1: also quite rare. I'm going to Bali tomorrow and I'm 272 00:13:57,679 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 1: not packed, and I do have a bit of work 273 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:03,960 Speaker 1: Bernie to get done. Shanni Grimman has shared about the 274 00:14:04,000 --> 00:14:07,840 Speaker 1: scary moment she fainted in a nail salon in Ballei. Now. 275 00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 1: We spoke last week about how Shanny was back vlogging 276 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:14,199 Speaker 1: on TikTok, and in her most recent video, she showed 277 00:14:14,200 --> 00:14:19,440 Speaker 1: her followers her prep for Ballei, which included taking constipation medication. Now, 278 00:14:19,440 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 1: poor Shanny, she only lasted three days in Balley, so 279 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 1: she told her followers when she arrived on the island, 280 00:14:25,920 --> 00:14:29,160 Speaker 1: she was suffering from really bad PCOS symptoms, so she 281 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:31,480 Speaker 1: was nearly a month late for her period and was 282 00:14:31,520 --> 00:14:34,560 Speaker 1: feeling quite dizzy and had a sore stomach. So while 283 00:14:34,560 --> 00:14:38,120 Speaker 1: getting her nails done in a local salon, Shanni remembered 284 00:14:38,160 --> 00:14:41,440 Speaker 1: telling her friend live she didn't feel well, and the 285 00:14:41,480 --> 00:14:44,560 Speaker 1: next minute Shanni fainted and it was very lucky her 286 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 1: friend was there because she ended up catching her before 287 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:49,480 Speaker 1: she hit her head on the ground. This is why 288 00:14:49,520 --> 00:14:52,120 Speaker 1: Barley doesn't appeal to me. It's either so hot and 289 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 1: humid that you feel like you're gonna faint or you're 290 00:14:54,680 --> 00:14:58,160 Speaker 1: shitting yourself from barley belly. Like it's either one or 291 00:14:58,160 --> 00:15:00,040 Speaker 1: the two. And I think Barley is one of the 292 00:15:00,200 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 1: worst places that you can feel sick because there's just 293 00:15:03,240 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 1: it's such a chaotic place. Like you obviously you've got 294 00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 1: these beautiful villas where that you can relax in, but 295 00:15:08,840 --> 00:15:12,000 Speaker 1: when you're feeling sick or you have diarrhea. There's no 296 00:15:12,120 --> 00:15:14,360 Speaker 1: place like home, on your own toilet. You don't really 297 00:15:14,400 --> 00:15:17,160 Speaker 1: want to be going to the hospital over there. Sharnie 298 00:15:17,200 --> 00:15:20,600 Speaker 1: said that her pcos cramps continued on for thirty to 299 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:23,360 Speaker 1: forty five minutes while she was lying on the floor 300 00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:25,920 Speaker 1: at the nail salon, and she ended up sharing a 301 00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:29,560 Speaker 1: photo of her acrylics half done and also a photo 302 00:15:29,560 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 1: of her lying on the floor on her Instagram story. 303 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:36,760 Speaker 1: In the Bali prep flog, she was showing her audience 304 00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 1: the new camera that she picked up, and when she 305 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:41,440 Speaker 1: picked up the box, that's when she broke her fingernails. 306 00:15:41,280 --> 00:15:45,680 Speaker 1: It's a butterfly effect, isn't it. We're seeing it seeming 307 00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:48,960 Speaker 1: to laugh. Because she ended up flying home straight away 308 00:15:49,000 --> 00:15:51,720 Speaker 1: to Queensland after this incident, I could just imagine her 309 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:53,640 Speaker 1: sitting on the plane having to look at her half 310 00:15:53,680 --> 00:15:56,280 Speaker 1: done finger I hope she's had time to get them fixed. 311 00:15:56,960 --> 00:16:01,440 Speaker 1: For those wondering about the cardboard beds the village, I'm 312 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:05,000 Speaker 1: going to show you what they look like now, Sophie. 313 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:07,720 Speaker 1: The most talked about part of the Olympic Games so 314 00:16:07,880 --> 00:16:11,320 Speaker 1: far has been the cardboard beds. So they have been 315 00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:16,280 Speaker 1: dubbed the anti sex beds, and athletes aren't happy. This 316 00:16:16,320 --> 00:16:21,160 Speaker 1: is how night one went on the cardboard beds. It's 317 00:16:21,200 --> 00:16:23,760 Speaker 1: actually rock solid. We're trying that you can slip them over. 318 00:16:23,840 --> 00:16:27,600 Speaker 1: Apparently there's a softer side, but that was the soft side. 319 00:16:28,600 --> 00:16:31,360 Speaker 1: So there's a misconception that this bed is just made 320 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:34,000 Speaker 1: of cardboard. The actual structure is, but it does have 321 00:16:34,040 --> 00:16:37,760 Speaker 1: a mattress on top of it, which doesn't look particularly comfortable. 322 00:16:37,960 --> 00:16:41,840 Speaker 1: Why are they using cardboard? Like these poor people, they've 323 00:16:41,880 --> 00:16:45,040 Speaker 1: trained the whole fucking lives to be there. They need 324 00:16:45,080 --> 00:16:47,520 Speaker 1: to get a good night's sleep, and they're having to 325 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:50,240 Speaker 1: sleep with a cardboard frame. Well, it's not the first 326 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:53,080 Speaker 1: time this cardboard bed has been used. So it made 327 00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:56,160 Speaker 1: an appearance in the Tokyo twenty twenty one Olympics, and 328 00:16:56,400 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 1: at the time there were rumors swirling around that it 329 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:02,320 Speaker 1: was brought into stop athletes having sex with each other 330 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:05,560 Speaker 1: and potentially spreading COVID. Why would that stop them? I mean, 331 00:17:05,600 --> 00:17:09,000 Speaker 1: these are athletic people. They're probably not even having sex 332 00:17:09,000 --> 00:17:11,159 Speaker 1: in a normal bed. There's plenty of places around the 333 00:17:11,240 --> 00:17:13,359 Speaker 1: village that they could have sex. Well, this whole idea 334 00:17:13,359 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 1: of this being an anti sex bed has already been 335 00:17:15,640 --> 00:17:19,560 Speaker 1: debunked thanks to TikTok. So multiple athletes, mainly divers, have 336 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:22,560 Speaker 1: jumped onto the app and they've shared videos of themselves 337 00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:25,280 Speaker 1: jumping on the bed and some assaulting on it and 338 00:17:25,280 --> 00:17:28,159 Speaker 1: doing flips just to show that this cardboard bed is 339 00:17:28,240 --> 00:17:31,480 Speaker 1: actually very sturdy. It's so exciting that all of the 340 00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:34,320 Speaker 1: athletes have TikTok because we're going to be seeing such 341 00:17:34,359 --> 00:17:37,000 Speaker 1: a different side to the Olympic Games. We've already seen 342 00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:40,840 Speaker 1: a couple of the female athletes calling out their uniforms 343 00:17:40,840 --> 00:17:42,680 Speaker 1: that they're wearing to the ceremony. I'm going to touch 344 00:17:42,720 --> 00:17:46,480 Speaker 1: more on that on Tuesday's episode because it is fascinating. 345 00:17:46,680 --> 00:17:49,639 Speaker 1: We've put up a carousel going through some of the 346 00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:53,920 Speaker 1: outfits throughout the decades. Yeah, can't get over the nineteen 347 00:17:54,080 --> 00:17:58,480 Speaker 1: eighty four uniform the athletes wore to the la Olympics. 348 00:17:59,040 --> 00:18:02,080 Speaker 1: There is this yah dress which almost goes down to 349 00:18:02,359 --> 00:18:05,679 Speaker 1: your ankles and it has like koalas and kookabarras, all 350 00:18:05,720 --> 00:18:09,240 Speaker 1: the Aussie animals all over it. It is so garish. 351 00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:12,000 Speaker 1: I actually thought it was satire until I looked more 352 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:15,119 Speaker 1: into it and saw them actually at the opening ceremony 353 00:18:15,160 --> 00:18:18,160 Speaker 1: wearing them. It happened Kim Vis. I disagree. I think 354 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:21,000 Speaker 1: it was very patriotic. It was very patriotic, but it 355 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:23,600 Speaker 1: looked like something that Kath and Kim would wear. Yeah, 356 00:18:23,640 --> 00:18:26,440 Speaker 1: one hundred percent. Well, just back to the beds. The 357 00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:30,840 Speaker 1: real reason behind the cardboard beds is actually due to sustainability, 358 00:18:30,960 --> 00:18:33,960 Speaker 1: so the organizers of the Paris Olympics have promised to 359 00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:37,120 Speaker 1: keep emissions for the games historically low, so that means 360 00:18:37,119 --> 00:18:40,159 Speaker 1: the poor athletes are stuck sleeping on these very uncomfortable beds. 361 00:18:40,200 --> 00:18:42,920 Speaker 1: I don't get that though, Why even bother to have 362 00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:46,439 Speaker 1: this POxy cardboard bed frame. Just put the mattresses on 363 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:48,240 Speaker 1: the floor. If I was an athlete, I just want 364 00:18:48,280 --> 00:18:49,840 Speaker 1: to bring a blow up mattress. I think you get 365 00:18:49,840 --> 00:18:52,240 Speaker 1: a better night's sleep on that. But on the topic 366 00:18:52,440 --> 00:18:55,680 Speaker 1: of athletes hooking up at the Olympics, there's a photo 367 00:18:55,720 --> 00:18:59,320 Speaker 1: that has gone viral of tennis player Carlos Alcarez and 368 00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:01,960 Speaker 1: the women's hockey team. I don't know if you've seen 369 00:19:01,960 --> 00:19:04,720 Speaker 1: it floating around, but to set the scene, it shows 370 00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:08,520 Speaker 1: the twenty one year old tennis superstar surrounded by blonde 371 00:19:08,640 --> 00:19:12,000 Speaker 1: fit female hockey players and you can just imagine what 372 00:19:12,080 --> 00:19:15,080 Speaker 1: the comments section looks like. So former world number seven 373 00:19:15,119 --> 00:19:19,160 Speaker 1: tennis player Marty Fish wrote, you ain't sly Carlo Well. 374 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:22,400 Speaker 1: Another follower added, cardboard beds, don't worry the young king. 375 00:19:23,080 --> 00:19:26,800 Speaker 1: I'm curious, do the athletes actually have to stay in 376 00:19:26,840 --> 00:19:29,280 Speaker 1: the village or can some of them try and get 377 00:19:29,280 --> 00:19:32,480 Speaker 1: an edge by booking out a really fancy hotel because 378 00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:36,680 Speaker 1: it doesn't sound comfortable staying in these beds. Or you're 379 00:19:36,680 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 1: being kept awake because people are partying with girls. Yeah, well, 380 00:19:40,920 --> 00:19:43,200 Speaker 1: there are a lot of high profile players who choose 381 00:19:43,240 --> 00:19:45,480 Speaker 1: not to stay in the Olympic village. Novak Djokovic is 382 00:19:45,520 --> 00:19:48,040 Speaker 1: one of those, but our Karez said he wanted the 383 00:19:48,200 --> 00:19:52,040 Speaker 1: true Olympic village experience. But the Olympic Village has a 384 00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:56,560 Speaker 1: big reputation. So in twenty twelve, American olympian Ryan Lotch 385 00:19:56,880 --> 00:20:01,000 Speaker 1: told reporters that seventy to seventy five percent Olympians are 386 00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:04,360 Speaker 1: having sex in the Olympic village and as a result, 387 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:08,280 Speaker 1: there have been two hundred thousand condoms brought in to 388 00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:11,239 Speaker 1: the Olympic Village in Paris for this year's Games, so 389 00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:15,080 Speaker 1: that equates to around twenty per athlete. That's why it 390 00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:18,040 Speaker 1: surprises me that Novak Djokovic doesn't want to stay in 391 00:20:18,080 --> 00:20:20,760 Speaker 1: the village because he broke up with his wife in March. 392 00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:25,240 Speaker 1: There were rumors that maybe there was some cheating involved, 393 00:20:25,280 --> 00:20:27,520 Speaker 1: who knows, but I thought he might be wanting that 394 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:29,840 Speaker 1: experience to go and meet some new labels. Well, I 395 00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:32,639 Speaker 1: think the issue with Novakis he has never won a 396 00:20:32,680 --> 00:20:34,760 Speaker 1: gold medal, so I think he's taking it pretty seriously 397 00:20:34,800 --> 00:20:36,760 Speaker 1: this year. You can imagine you'd have quite an edge 398 00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:39,320 Speaker 1: actually sleeping on a proper bed as opposed to the 399 00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:44,000 Speaker 1: cardboard ones. Just to put the condom's stat into perspective, 400 00:20:44,359 --> 00:20:48,720 Speaker 1: At the two thousand Sydney Olympic Games, they initially ran 401 00:20:48,800 --> 00:20:51,359 Speaker 1: out of condom, so they had seventy thousand to begin 402 00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:54,400 Speaker 1: with and they had to go and order another twenty thousand. 403 00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:57,840 Speaker 1: But the Olympic Games that had the most condoms available 404 00:20:58,160 --> 00:21:01,520 Speaker 1: was the twenty sixteen Riol They had four hundred and 405 00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:05,520 Speaker 1: fifty thousand. Surely there's a condom Brown that is getting 406 00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:08,360 Speaker 1: a sponsorship deal out of this, like the official provider 407 00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:10,879 Speaker 1: of the Olympic Games. I mean, you're going to be 408 00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:14,160 Speaker 1: having some pretty athletic children if one gets through. 409 00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:17,000 Speaker 2: Everyone in my comments is are asking you what kind 410 00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:18,359 Speaker 2: of perm I got this time? So here's what you 411 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:19,560 Speaker 2: got to do to get your hair to look like 412 00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:20,160 Speaker 2: what mine does. 413 00:21:20,240 --> 00:21:23,439 Speaker 1: Right now, move over, mullets. There's a new gen z 414 00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:28,159 Speaker 1: hair trend taking over TikTok. It's called the man perm. 415 00:21:28,200 --> 00:21:31,680 Speaker 1: Have you seen this, Sophie. This hasn't infiltrated my TikTok 416 00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:35,080 Speaker 1: feed yet, but I always remember growing up, my nana 417 00:21:35,119 --> 00:21:37,880 Speaker 1: would say that she loved men with curly hair, so 418 00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:40,000 Speaker 1: she would be curly top, so she would be all 419 00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:41,960 Speaker 1: for this trend. Well, the best way to describe this 420 00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:45,480 Speaker 1: new look is the fuck boy broccoli cut or other 421 00:21:45,560 --> 00:21:49,080 Speaker 1: procoerly yeah or other people are calling it the zoomer perm. 422 00:21:49,359 --> 00:21:52,800 Speaker 1: So the best thing about this trend is seeing all 423 00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:55,720 Speaker 1: of the TikTok boys sitting at the hairdressers looking like 424 00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:57,960 Speaker 1: grannies with curlers in their hair. Why is it the 425 00:21:58,080 --> 00:22:02,880 Speaker 1: zoomer trend because they're gen zetters. Oh so what these 426 00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:05,760 Speaker 1: twenty year old guys are actually going to the hairdressers 427 00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:08,080 Speaker 1: and asking for perms. Yeah, so they're having to sit 428 00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:10,240 Speaker 1: there with all the chemicals in their hair. They've got 429 00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:14,399 Speaker 1: the full on curlers and the dry shame anyone, because 430 00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:16,800 Speaker 1: I think that it's great when people do take care 431 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:20,199 Speaker 1: in their appearance. But I mean, I'm seeing everywhere. This 432 00:22:20,240 --> 00:22:23,680 Speaker 1: is what's infiltrating my TikTok feed is women with hair 433 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:26,280 Speaker 1: rollers in, not men. But I mean, maybe I'm night 434 00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:28,760 Speaker 1: have to tell my husband about this because he has 435 00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:31,920 Speaker 1: pin straight hair. All of the hairdresses. He goes to 436 00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:34,680 Speaker 1: comment about how straight it is that they can't get 437 00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:37,520 Speaker 1: any sort of curl or he's not particularly lucky right 438 00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:41,399 Speaker 1: now because they're saying that the perm has hit fever pitch. 439 00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:45,040 Speaker 1: And this is because a photo showing the new Superman 440 00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:49,439 Speaker 1: David korn Sweat aka Clark Kent rocking a perm in 441 00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:51,720 Speaker 1: the movie. Are you a fan of the perm? Should 442 00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:53,720 Speaker 1: we get day or to get one done? Look, I 443 00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:56,200 Speaker 1: think some of the TikTok guys are definitely pulling it off, 444 00:22:56,280 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 1: but I'm not really a huge fan of curls on guys. 445 00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:02,560 Speaker 1: A former colleague of mine actually used to get perms 446 00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:05,080 Speaker 1: all the time in the eighties and he said it's 447 00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:07,119 Speaker 1: the reason that he's gone thin on top. So I 448 00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:09,679 Speaker 1: wonder what effect this is going to have for the 449 00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:13,760 Speaker 1: gen Zettters. Now let's get into our best and worst 450 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:15,960 Speaker 1: of the week now. To be honest, Sophie and I 451 00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:18,320 Speaker 1: were laughing before because we're struggling to come up with 452 00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:20,679 Speaker 1: the best because we feel like we've been working like 453 00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:26,040 Speaker 1: dogs very time at the very very burnt out, and 454 00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:28,359 Speaker 1: I think I need a holiday. Like I told everyone, 455 00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:31,359 Speaker 1: I'm planning my honeymoon. And thank you so much for 456 00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:35,040 Speaker 1: those who have sent in suggestions for Fiji. Fiji is 457 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:39,600 Speaker 1: very expensive. Yeah, I'm looking around after my comments on Balley, 458 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:41,040 Speaker 1: I'm probably not going to buy. Do you know what 459 00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:42,880 Speaker 1: it is we're saying we're burnt out? I think it's 460 00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:45,199 Speaker 1: this time of year I was talking about to some 461 00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:47,760 Speaker 1: friends of mine. Everyone was saying they just feel like 462 00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:50,960 Speaker 1: it's cold, it's miserable. I think this is a period 463 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:52,800 Speaker 1: where you just put your head down and you get 464 00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:55,960 Speaker 1: into your work. I'm ready for daylight Savings. I'm just 465 00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:58,040 Speaker 1: over it. Like my partner and I keep sending messages 466 00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:01,280 Speaker 1: being like over it. Can't stand this an There's only 467 00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:03,480 Speaker 1: one so many fires that you can have. No roast 468 00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:05,320 Speaker 1: marsh mellows and enjoy. Now I'm going to start with 469 00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:07,359 Speaker 1: my low of the week because that springs to mind 470 00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:10,160 Speaker 1: faster than my high. And my low of the week 471 00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:12,440 Speaker 1: was I was on a dog walk and I was 472 00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:15,000 Speaker 1: on the phone to you, actually Amy, and my dog Archie. 473 00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:17,639 Speaker 1: He pulled me to go onto this front verge and 474 00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:21,120 Speaker 1: I'm walking along. All of a sudden, I am hit 475 00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:23,800 Speaker 1: in the face by a tree stump, like a tree 476 00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:29,240 Speaker 1: branch stump me. It almost knocked me out. I didn't 477 00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:32,960 Speaker 1: see it. It was this low hanging, very thick branch. I 478 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:36,480 Speaker 1: have a bruise on my head. I almost saw stars like. 479 00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:39,120 Speaker 1: I'm like, I need to get new reflex. We work 480 00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:41,680 Speaker 1: with a concussion management technology called new Reflex. I need 481 00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:43,840 Speaker 1: to get new Reflex because I don't know if I've 482 00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:46,040 Speaker 1: been concast or if that's adding to my woes of 483 00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:48,240 Speaker 1: this week. But that was definitely my low. I can't 484 00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:50,439 Speaker 1: help but laugh because when I was talking to you 485 00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:53,040 Speaker 1: like ow, and I was like, what has gone on? 486 00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:55,439 Speaker 1: You're like, I've just walked into a tree, And I'm like, 487 00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:57,760 Speaker 1: were you not looking for it? Was like, were you 488 00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:00,680 Speaker 1: so into the conversation? But he said, my husband, why 489 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:03,080 Speaker 1: do these things always happen to me? Like this sort 490 00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:06,520 Speaker 1: of shit follows me around? That's definitely so what's your 491 00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:11,359 Speaker 1: high then my hive of the week is that my 492 00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:16,359 Speaker 1: new shower taps arrived. Is that what they're called? Without 493 00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:19,760 Speaker 1: telling me? So my husband organized them. We have the 494 00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:22,199 Speaker 1: most dodgy shower at the moment. He always knocks his 495 00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:23,760 Speaker 1: head on it. Look at us. We're just you know, 496 00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:27,720 Speaker 1: accident prone riveting. Yeah, so we've got this cool new 497 00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:30,320 Speaker 1: gold shower head and taps we've got to put into 498 00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:34,720 Speaker 1: the bathroom. We're trying to do slowly renovate. And also 499 00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:38,119 Speaker 1: my in laws, who are absolute legends, they have just 500 00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:41,639 Speaker 1: finished our second shed, which is in our outside area, 501 00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:44,159 Speaker 1: so we can finally move all of the crap that 502 00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:47,120 Speaker 1: is sitting in my office into the shed. You're gonna 503 00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:49,000 Speaker 1: have to share some of your transformations because you and 504 00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:51,120 Speaker 1: Brandon have done such a good job. Like you've got 505 00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:54,040 Speaker 1: this little outdoor area that you've managed to transform. It 506 00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:56,800 Speaker 1: looks very pinterest. Oh, you've given me an opportunity to 507 00:25:56,880 --> 00:26:00,119 Speaker 1: plug out. We're trying to start up on Instagram one 508 00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:03,160 Speaker 1: of those houses for no Instagram, so it's called our 509 00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:05,800 Speaker 1: Golden Hills House. We have one post currently on there 510 00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:08,640 Speaker 1: at the moment. But Brandon is a videographer, so he's 511 00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:11,000 Speaker 1: slowly working in the background, trying to do some before 512 00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:13,040 Speaker 1: and after stuff that we can share. But if you're 513 00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,080 Speaker 1: living in an old house and you're doing it up, 514 00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:18,240 Speaker 1: it might be fun to follow along. What's it called again, 515 00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:22,880 Speaker 1: It's called Golden Underscore Hills, Underscore House. Now, my love 516 00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:25,679 Speaker 1: of the week has just been how disgusting my bedtimes 517 00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:27,560 Speaker 1: have gotten, Like I am going to bed later and 518 00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:30,359 Speaker 1: later each week, and it's due to just staying up 519 00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:33,320 Speaker 1: late and doing work, which is so boring. We run 520 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:35,680 Speaker 1: two businesses and it's been really hard because with Kate 521 00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:38,920 Speaker 1: on maternity leave, we're one person down for the podcast. 522 00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:42,680 Speaker 1: And yeah, it's not been fun. Yeah, and Kate loves 523 00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:44,199 Speaker 1: to pay me out because I like to track my 524 00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:47,000 Speaker 1: sleep on my Apple Watch, and it has been quite 525 00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:49,960 Speaker 1: depressing to look at those figures. But my high would 526 00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:53,600 Speaker 1: be getting my wedding video back finally. It's been six months, 527 00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:57,359 Speaker 1: and it really portrayed the day well, like as in, 528 00:26:57,480 --> 00:26:59,439 Speaker 1: so if you were complaining, we're not complaining, but you 529 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:01,160 Speaker 1: were saying how you were kind of embarrassed to show 530 00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:04,000 Speaker 1: people your wedding video because it just featured a lot 531 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:06,800 Speaker 1: of brand and crying and it is like I have 532 00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:11,000 Speaker 1: to say the videographer, she's an absolute prob. Like it's stunning. 533 00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:15,280 Speaker 1: It's a stunning video, Like it's very like movie s. 534 00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:18,480 Speaker 1: I really wanted emotional, but I said, it's not like 535 00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:20,320 Speaker 1: a video that you can watch over and over again, 536 00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:22,640 Speaker 1: like it's sort of like it. You know, I didn't 537 00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:24,560 Speaker 1: think that I'd be this person to have this emotional 538 00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:27,240 Speaker 1: video because I didn't show emotion, whereas brand And cried 539 00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:29,280 Speaker 1: the whole time. But with you, yours is like a 540 00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:31,600 Speaker 1: really nice, like eleven minute run through of all the 541 00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:34,200 Speaker 1: highs of the day. Yeah, he did a really good 542 00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:36,919 Speaker 1: job snapshotting that. Or one thing I've realized is how 543 00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:39,959 Speaker 1: embarrassing it is actually to show people your wedding videos. 544 00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:42,200 Speaker 1: So like for you guys, I didn't really care that much, 545 00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:46,000 Speaker 1: but we had Dale's poppy and also his mum over 546 00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:48,239 Speaker 1: to watch it, and you know, kind of you just 547 00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:51,359 Speaker 1: feel embarrassed, like you're, yeah, talking about your feelings on this. 548 00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:53,480 Speaker 1: You know it's been shown on the TV. It was 549 00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:57,000 Speaker 1: just a bit orkies. Yeah, because I'm waiting still to 550 00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:59,000 Speaker 1: get my full video back, so I've got a bit 551 00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:02,399 Speaker 1: of a highlight reel and I just came to the 552 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:05,760 Speaker 1: decision that I felt like it was almost too intimate 553 00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:07,880 Speaker 1: to share on socials, Like, I mean I might put 554 00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:10,920 Speaker 1: it on Facebook or something, but yeah, I mean I 555 00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:13,040 Speaker 1: might get sent more of a like upbeat highlight reel. 556 00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:15,240 Speaker 1: But I think my partner was like, please don't share that. 557 00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:17,920 Speaker 1: It's so embarrassing. I'm crying. I want to hear about 558 00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:20,640 Speaker 1: other people's wedding videos, like did you share it on Facebook? 559 00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:23,040 Speaker 1: My cousin was asking me the other day, He's like, so, 560 00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 1: what was the purpose of the video? Is it to share? 561 00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:27,240 Speaker 1: And I'm like, well, it's kind of to look back 562 00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:29,720 Speaker 1: on each year. Yeah, I'm so happy that we both 563 00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:32,520 Speaker 1: got a video because it's going to be amazing to 564 00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:34,800 Speaker 1: look back on and be able to show your kids. Well, 565 00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:36,760 Speaker 1: I think that is all we have time for today. 566 00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:40,160 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for joining us. Apologies our subs 567 00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:42,840 Speaker 1: episode has been pulled out a little bit later, but 568 00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:45,000 Speaker 1: go and check it out. It is in the feed now. 569 00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:48,720 Speaker 1: It's all about Hen's parties and a big thank you 570 00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:51,560 Speaker 1: to everyone who joined in on Instagram. We put up 571 00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:54,160 Speaker 1: a few polls. We got a few opinions on different 572 00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:56,719 Speaker 1: Hens related topics. I feel like I've been a bit 573 00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:59,080 Speaker 1: of a counselor for some people who I've responded to 574 00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:01,280 Speaker 1: because I'm feeling for that. It is really tough when 575 00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:04,760 Speaker 1: you're dealing with a bridezilla and it's not a fun 576 00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:07,120 Speaker 1: time being a bridesmaid or a maid of honor. Sometimes 577 00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:10,120 Speaker 1: no it's not. But don't forget. You can follow us 578 00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:14,160 Speaker 1: on Instagram and TikTok, and also on Facebook at Outspoken Underscore, 579 00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:17,320 Speaker 1: the Underscore podcast Don't Forget to Go and follow Sophie's 580 00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:20,239 Speaker 1: house page that she's subtly dropped before, and you can 581 00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:24,040 Speaker 1: also follow Sophie and I on Instagram as well. This 582 00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:26,920 Speaker 1: episode was recorded on the traditional land of the Ghana 583 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:29,680 Speaker 1: people of the Adelaide Planes. We pay respect to elders 584 00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:30,440 Speaker 1: past and present.