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Speaker 1: Time for Barry's bits.

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Speaker 2: Have you guys been outside? It's such a nowhere in here?

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Speaker 2: I know, this is amazing, amazing, But.

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Speaker 1: It rained overnight, yeah quite.

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Speaker 2: A bit, so it's made it actually spectacular morning. So

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Speaker 2: enjoy your morning. Obviously, the year twelves have got through

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Speaker 2: a tar and they're are now on levers. I just

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Speaker 2: wanted to say something off the top about the year twelve.

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Speaker 2: I reckon, it's a crazy system. They're finishing exams, big

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Speaker 2: scary etar ones which they tell you your whole future

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Speaker 2: hangs on the in the balance. Yes, And at the

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Speaker 2: exact same time they hand you the keys to a

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Speaker 2: car and the.

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Speaker 1: Right and the right to drink.

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Speaker 3: I always thought that the keys to a car and

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Speaker 3: the right to drink maybe should be space.

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Speaker 4: Well I mean well, I mean we.

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Speaker 1: Used a little bit earlier or something.

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Speaker 4: We always finished with seventeen. I actually only just turned

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Speaker 4: seventeen when I finished school, whereas now it's eighteen.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well apends, But congratulations, you're now officially stressed, tired, emotional, confused.

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Speaker 2: So here's a license for more horsepower and alcohol. Off

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Speaker 2: you go. Good luck out there. It's crazy, I reckon,

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Speaker 2: that's something that needs to be looked at. Politics, That's

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Speaker 2: what I'll be looking at. And then, of course ten

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Speaker 2: thousand youngsters go down south, don't they. Mostly that's where

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Speaker 2: levers go right, and Dunsburg goes from being this peaceful

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Speaker 2: little seesow side village to something out of a David

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Speaker 2: Attenbrown documentary and none of.

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Speaker 3: My life actually very rarely a peaceful little seaside village

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Speaker 3: these days.

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Speaker 1: Every weekend is madness with us grown up.

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Speaker 4: You know, it just gets a little worse this week.

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Speaker 5: Everyone's got armbands on.

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Speaker 2: So I've got Barrow's advice. Actually, this would be for you.

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Speaker 2: Have you had a pen there us?

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Speaker 4: I have got a pen because because you're this next year,

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Speaker 4: I've been through it twice and you're going into it.

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Speaker 2: So here's my advice. Firstly, for your kids number one kids.

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Speaker 2: If you're listening and Russ, tell your kids pace yourself. People,

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Speaker 2: pace yourself. Treat levers like a marathon. It's not a sprint.

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Speaker 2: It's not like the bloke's going on a men's golf trip.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever been on one of those where you

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Speaker 2: go in, let's go to bed early today boys, first night, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: at ten o'clock, we got an early.

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Speaker 4: The second time we did the trip, we did it

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Speaker 4: very differently.

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Speaker 2: And at two am, everyone's on the dance floor dancing

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Speaker 2: like no one's looking, you know what I mean. So, kids,

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Speaker 2: you've got at least four days, so don't hit MAC

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Speaker 2: four our night one. That's that's the otherwise it'll wreck

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Speaker 2: your four days.

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Speaker 5: Number two, cash is king.

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Speaker 2: If your parents can spare it, ask them to slip

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Speaker 2: you one hundred bucks, maybe even two hundred if they

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Speaker 2: can afford it.

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Speaker 5: You know, I mean for emergencies.

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Speaker 2: Because down south, guess what, no ubers none zero, and

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Speaker 2: the taxis mate levers surge pricing.

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Speaker 5: Some of the trips two hundred bucks. They gouge them

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Speaker 5: for two hundreds.

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Speaker 2: I mean some of the trips along right, So ten

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Speaker 2: kilo twenty two but two hundred bucks. And you don't

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Speaker 2: want your kid walking home its twenty k is half asleep,

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Speaker 2: half drunk, if you know what I mean. So no, no,

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Speaker 2: let's advice number three. The accommodation rules are real. Most

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Speaker 2: of the popular resorts won't allow it comedat alcohol at all. Okay,

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Speaker 2: so you're not allowed to bring alcohol. Doesn't matter if

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Speaker 2: you're an adult, a kid, a grandparent. If you're the premiere.

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Speaker 2: You ain't getting alcohol in they'll search your bags and

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Speaker 2: they will confiscate it.

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Speaker 5: They actually take it off you. They say they give

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Speaker 5: it back, but they never do.

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Speaker 4: A week after.

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Speaker 2: And I heard his story last year when I was

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Speaker 2: down there with my son when at one of the

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Speaker 2: popular places, this group of boys they booked accommodation a

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Speaker 2: week before, went down and buried some alcohol. Guess what

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Speaker 2: they have CCTV down there, so the booty was gone.

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Speaker 2: When they goes like buried treasure, they got busted.

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Speaker 5: And now are you ready?

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Speaker 2: Rusk Advice for parents Number one, keep your phone on. Yes,

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Speaker 2: yes they're aideen, Yes they're adults. But trust me, there'll

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Speaker 2: be one night were your little loved one at one

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Speaker 2: am absolutely cooked.

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Speaker 5: We'll call you up and Dad, I love you so much,

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Speaker 5: but I don't know where I am.

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Speaker 4: Lisa just had to know where the nearest telecom phone

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Speaker 4: box was.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, we were safe on the island.

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Speaker 2: I think take the call. That's your moment, Russ the

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Speaker 2: parenting Olympics.

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Speaker 5: Mate. You know what.

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Speaker 2: Number two, resist the urge to have your little old

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Speaker 2: mum's weekend down south at the same time. So don't

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Speaker 2: let your wife go down there. You know, they try

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Speaker 2: to book the chalet nearby.

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Speaker 4: Not cool, It can happen.

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Speaker 5: It does help you drive them around.

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Speaker 2: But finally, year twelves, if you're listening, you survived a

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Speaker 2: massive year. Be proud of yourselves, celebrate, look after each

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Speaker 2: other and remember the choices you make.

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Speaker 5: At one am there'll be the family stories for the

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Speaker 5: next twenty years. I guess what we did.

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Speaker 2: And for you, mate, deep breath, you've raised them well,

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Speaker 2: my faith in yourself.

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Speaker 4: Got a year to prepare.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is the final boss level of parenting. Letting go,

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Speaker 2: let him go, buddy.

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Speaker 4: Well that is great advice and like most people who

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Speaker 4: have just finished year twelve, they will completely ignore it. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: we are getting deep into dad stuff. Dad chat with

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Speaker 4: Russell and Barral.

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Speaker 3: Okay, we have a question for you dads from Cat

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Speaker 3: and Stratton says, with things like underage drinking and the

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Speaker 3: X being likely slash maybe inevitable, things like leavers, how

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Speaker 3: have you approached those subjects?

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Speaker 4: Did you see grimace as you said sex grimace?

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Speaker 2: I just know my wife actually had the more or

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Speaker 2: less had the chat with my son about protection and

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Speaker 2: just just you know, there's no part stay away, no

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Speaker 2: Party without a Hat or something like that, and I

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Speaker 2: was going, what is she talking about?

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Speaker 5: What are we doing? What are we doing here? I'll

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Speaker 5: tell you what.

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Speaker 4: What was the old saying, if it's not on, it's

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Speaker 4: not on?

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Speaker 2: That was the advertisment that would have been nicer to

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Speaker 2: use the cat of Stratton. I'll tell you what my

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Speaker 2: go to wisdom nowadays, AI really.

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Speaker 5: Just have a crack at AI. It comes.

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Speaker 2: You'd be surprised. And social media, this will sound stupid,

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Speaker 2: but young people do. They do post a lot, and

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Speaker 2: they post a lot around this stuff, and so you

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Speaker 2: can learn their thinking and the way to connect with them.

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Speaker 4: I think it's more out there that I think they're

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Speaker 4: more educated than previous generations on that on that subject.

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Speaker 3: In the No Party without a Hat discussion, don't arch

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Speaker 3: you now expected to talk about consent.

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Speaker 1: And everything as well.

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Speaker 4: That's that's a whole other big you know.

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Speaker 5: It's a whole new segment that one.

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Speaker 2: Yet I can remember when I first got drunk and

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Speaker 2: my dad was horrified, and I came home and he

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Speaker 2: sat me down and he wanted to and is everything okay?

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Speaker 5: Is have you been? Have you got some problems? What's happening, and.

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Speaker 2: Because my mum had gone get down there and find

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Speaker 2: out what's going on, and of course there was nothing.

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Speaker 2: It was just dad, there was you left some scotch around.

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Speaker 2: I thought, I'll have a go this, see what it's like.

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Speaker 2: And that's kind of what it is. And experimenting and

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Speaker 2: you know, not knowing. It's not really that you're it's

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Speaker 2: human nature at that age. Yeah, I think it's exciting.

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Speaker 2: And it wasn't exciting being sick, but it was, you know,

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Speaker 2: I could, we could brag about it. So the daughters

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Speaker 2: are the big ones too, because my daughter, actually I

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Speaker 2: hope she doesn't mind making me telling us, but she

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Speaker 2: had a bit of an incident early on and she

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Speaker 2: learned a lot from it in terms of drinking.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, almost I got called. I had to

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Speaker 5: go there.

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Speaker 2: And bushes somewhere and retrieve her and she really learned

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Speaker 2: a lot from that. So sometimes having an early drama

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Speaker 4: I am taking notes here for what I'm faced with in.

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Speaker 5: Twelve months from now. You've got to have those You've

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Speaker 5: got to have those conversations, don't you. That's it.

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Speaker 2: That is the thing that and you know, the birds

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Speaker 2: and the bees. That's a tough one as well. Have

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Speaker 2: you done that?

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Speaker 5: We left it a bit late. I'll be telling you.

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Speaker 4: Can you just run that by me one more time?

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Speaker 1: Because you know you've got a girl and a boy.

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Speaker 1: Do want to you know which gives you a few

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Speaker 1: more years?

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Speaker 5: You don know all about that? What about this? Yeah,

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Speaker 5: these tough questions.

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Speaker 1: Because they really want to talk to you too.

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Speaker 4: That's right to.

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Speaker 1: Talk about sex.

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Speaker 4: Basically uncomfortable by everybody in the road.

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Speaker 1: You gotta be done though,